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I'm telling him that everything I said is exactly I didn't exaggerate a word the whole you clay dish whether a person becomes the holy person that's between our coders Buraku and Hashem we have to and and if you ask yourself should my should my prayers be that I should I should married to make him through according to what we're learning no that's all so much if got sure was but she wants to me prom you become from you have to expose him to the Torah and to the honesty of Taylor and the MS of Taylor we learnt you weren't here but we learned earlier that if you're coming from if your words come from the heart it's gonna go into his heart if it goes into this heart at a certain point that heart is gonna say I want to be more Jewish I want to be more Froome I want to be whatever you know I want to be I want to be more connected there's no question about it so going back to this letter here says that ever that the verse in the Torah village sister olive hate means don't be bothered by the fact that the person who you spent so much time with basically excuse the expression spits in your face and this is not easy it's not easy because the more you spend time with someone and the more you exert yourself you have this I want to see a result you know I want to see result says that Evan this letter regarding criticism if you have the feeling you want to see a result and that's ultimately what's driving you like you said you're making it personal you're not you shouldn't be giving the criticism let's continue claim Ashley Bishop definitely thought it was they should but it's one of my to be left because surely it wasn't words coming from your heart she Lulu came but fathers you know some left because if they were they would have gone into his heart Sharlee put his crucial is what am I getting left early we know shamanism lived at that it enters the heart I shall I miss Martin I shall dismiss is my oath another thread is saying one of the two conditions that we mentioned were not heated Lehane the hotel - all scolding in the internship bein late sorrowful hostile and men a personal really is concerned after we move cold over her like experiments like it's any a Yoda of stuff like it's a staff shag radom cave when the Kabul to hooker that will cause pain to the recipient when you give muster is there an iota in your consciousness that I want to if there is you keep your mouth shut you have no business giving that Tech oh goodness tension the Gaussian glass is the - after that becomes an example before you go to make an operation Lena Lena basin even on a limb McCarter them anesthesia it's easier and smoke coming to you you're right they might beside a cave to reduce the pain of the of the cut the pain of decocker so - with Mooser vulnerable hula habían efforts what's the purpose of most certain heal the soul no you're a comma shape shamil sorry you have to prevent yourself as much as possible from causing pain but happy stracciatella then just search V benefit and here he says the parentheses and look into the mind man brouhaha my shell for the year 1924 which we just finished learning for more details says that ever the ear if this is trawl to sail the English the rest if this is true by individuals how much more Souls is true for a group that we have to be careful from expecting a group of people because people a group of people their flaws are not the same so how could you put everyone from the same pot which this writer did he said everyone the people of Tanith are all cold and apathetic she put them all into one pot how could you do that number two and their minds are differently their personalities are different different different and then rebel says him here me after his overclock after many years that I was after many years look at the rebus SF that I'm speaking about himself the previous lemma it was around the block if there are many years of observing people his stock was big boots him training all kinds of all kinds of jewels there ever since I've observed for many years many groups of people in many different countries and different parties and different beliefs I've come to the recognition that the heart of a Jew is limitless and therefore order a possess the rider your words in the cold Medina in the cold Kannada in the counter Kannada the cold Canada caused me pain to read that you made such a general statement about everybody that ever says I took the time to elaborate on this because although I know you're busy to find Panozzo for your family and every having little pie no sir a Shem should give you lots of pie no sir and in a peaceful tranquil way and you're living in extrange landless in he's in Winnipeg so he's saying like you know you know I can understand imagine what kind of Judaism you have out there Winnipeg and nevertheless you're endeavoring to help the Jews of Russia that he started off that he was raising probably funds or either sent over to Russia therefore you are very respected by me for your efforts on what you're doing and I really appreciate reading your letters and therefore I took the time and therefore III aroused you I wrote to you about this issue and to me that's the letter to me it's also here it is you know the previous Rambo such a tonic such a godly man and he's writing a letter thanking the Persie for his efforts and at the very same time he's giving him some strong muster he is giving him muscle here because he felt as a writer and as a wise person he needs to know that you don't put everyone in the same pot and I think I did for me that's that's that's a lesson what's the lesson what's a one lesson I take for this letter that sometimes you know we rewrite or we talk and we just say the positive okay and yeah especially when you're talking for in the public it should be that way but but there are times when a message needs to be given and if the message is is authentic and the message is not you know if you say personal and the speaker or the writer has an agenda people want to hear what you have to say guide people you have a chance to guide people yeah right right exactly but what I'm saying when you're writing the letters I'm thanking him a complimenting him you don't he don't spent the bulk of the letter giving him over the head but this is what I rub is see when you're when you're trained in this way of life and thinking it's appreciative we're looking for