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o breeze closer with society there is a rule center a rule that is a covenant for the lips that words the drama eternal leverage that come from your heart and if no seminar left must penetrate the other person's heart it is impossible for words that come from a person's heart they shouldn't impact the other person and if they don't it's proof they're not coming from your heart but it's closer you know that means Briscoe's like a bris it's it's a fact it's in your flesh it makes us a Jew says says the devil please screw so that varma Yeats in eleven is no similar left words that come from the heart into the heart and and what I'm adding doesn't say it here and if it doesn't enter your heart if it doesn't enter the other person's heart it's not his fault it's your fault that means it's not coming from your heart I think everyone here can attest that that is true I would hope so I've seen it hundreds and hundreds of thousands of times in my life when I'm more honest with myself and I displayed that honesty better results when I'm less honest with myself and I stand I display that I have worst results so it really depends on the teacher it depends on the parent it depends on the my spear with you a vault I heard from a leader of David Goldstein who's label members already I met him on the street in Borough Park walking to show one morning about 10-15 years ago forget it says to me it says no Taylor you see how ich been cited on beta when a person will have a son was rebellious a dura mater it's not just rebellious it's it's a heavy trip and and entered entered quoi and to quantify someone as a Bensalem writer there's no easy task either but if the Torah says if you will have a son a child and then the taro says shape a nano show mail the curl of a v-mail how is he a bench later and later a renegade son he doesn't list and listen to his father's voice and nano show Malachi love he doesn't listen to his parents voice and the Tor enumerates all the details so this year there the other goal that was all said to me you know why he's a been cited him later because the parents didn't listen to him he's reversing the meaning in the text and the GCL ish been cited a murder a nano show mayor he doesn't listen not that an initial mayor goes on the son was the rebellious son it's the parents they didn't hear the sons cried the daughters cry you never paid they didn't pay attention enough to the cry of their son and their daughter and that's why they became a better singer later I still remember it like now on the street corner we told because it made such an impact on me such as such a short hope knit vert that's so true and that this is a struggle because you know we're in a position of being parents leaders and it's very very easy to blame the other to take the responsibility is a very difficult thing but that is what we're learning in this mindler you want better results with your children with your friends with your students you listen to their cry and remember that it's about you that's that's the vote so I think that's it goes along the line of what learning now you know you would think that anyone that hears this voice would say absolutely I understand that you're right you know recently a shoe someone has a Booker 80 90 whatever he's in the depression you know so I went with the father and oh and a daughter who's also having very difficulties you know she's out of the house now whatever so I went out with their father you know he's a fresh nickel friend the Scholl and I speak to him and he speaks to me anyway and I you know I implied that you know take it easy you know and and and and he said I won't he gave me a hard time I didn't argue with him but he was like trying to say that he's right and he's not gonna give up and he's not he's not gonna give in and he's gonna keep applying the methods that he used when he was learning in the Philadelphia Shiva so I said to him you and I you know we're pretty much the same age I went to the barbecue went Philly you went to literature sheep I went to LA but basically we you know we were in the issue world at that time so I understand what you're saying but I'm telling you that you have today pay more attention to what the kids are saying and and to to not say that I'm right here them hear them I work with that does that mean to say you should become a sellout kids absolutely not well my daughters some of my daughters would change my sorry Shabbos into week they close and they would go out wanna go out I didn't let them I didn't let them I was that me and I stand at the door stop them no and he was coming as they were coming down the steps and I was on the couch I said please go back upstairs and change you don't have to wear the exact shape Shabbos clothing but it's still much so his shop is the Shabbos Queen is here dress a little upgrade then then during the week once twice three times they did again I wasn't going to you know block the door I wasn't gonna do that I wasn't gonna scream about it