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consciousness that he took for the brother was amazing the stop parrots sign is Kindle ish a child is it so anyway why do I say this because the rebel speaks here about refining the Michael how do you refine sorry up food the first step is take time and think before you start eating and we're talking before about type isn't eating at ketchup and all that it begins before that if you'll take the time to slow down and make a Brucker word-for-word slowly I don't mean you after you know I've been a tables where people are making you hood I'm gonna make a broth I was once at a table to us another friend of mine actually a doctor became you know into therapy sand then homeopathy and all that fine person and he was making condition took like 10 10 minutes to make kiddush because he was doing he was learning you know you became a colony and he was making the you make you borrow and you stop and think about what you could you supposed to have during kiddush doesn't you know it takes a while right I'm not talking about that I'm talking about overdoing it you know I'm cover covered if that's what you want to do and that's who you are and then but beautiful I'm not belittling it but yeah which person is not there and that's the approach but just to say each word enunciate each word clearly it has a beginning it as a middle it has an end think just the type of the Brucker a gentleman came over to me this morning he said you know I have a hard time babbling Davin you know I'm here at the minion ID abend but I'm not a smart when I learned he said you know just happen he says where do you where do you get this like you you you you you enjoy eating up the words of governing I said just what I was talking you know by my father and the Shiva every word it has a meaning and I Saxton the answer was no so and he said he said to me in a reading in English which he does sometimes it's not the same so how did I say how did I learn the words when I was 15 16 years old I took scissor before the English Center came out and I my natural tongue was a dish you know and I took either said their translation my translated like my scissor and every morning when I dive and they even put on telling a lie word and a line another line and I memorized the meaning of the word so now I know the meaning of the words so if you know that meaning of the words you could think about what the words mean that it should have one meaning to you so when we read over here beard how Nitze yeah but Michael to refine that the spark in the food it's it's an activity that couldn't be done can be done we'll finish in a minute fame beholding you shall be told I'm gonna sign it so it's so - in every activity of bener of refining the spark Nick lippershey maíam it's called life it's alive it's Khayyam the head then what's the opposite of how I am Nicola Bechet nice it's called death but their ever saying don't get alarmed but bite by the word death if it's the concept yes you're dead what do mean you're dead I'm alive well that's called life if you know what you're doing in and out and just like what's going on over here so he says acharya said that because I'll say I'm sorry that's Akari the fact that he did incorporated himself with this with the issue at hand he was he was kind of going through a routine he's so carry on of E he's a leader he was appointed yes to give muster that's not what Hashem wants me that's called a dead moose er that's not a living masseur what's a living masseur that you see that he himself is bothered by it because he himself has it and it bothers him and and the issue bothersome not the who but the issue and that and that by the way if we get to reading learning reading their letter of the previous level which I wanted to do for you have time next week there's a major point in constructive criticism that we fail many times what happens is the who dictates our Mooser in other words we get we get all hung up under who that's doing it it could be a spouse and what we're learning is that's the wrong attitude the giving Mooser if a wrong is done it shouldn't you know people argue well I love them so much I care for them so much I'm giving Mooser we don't need your love now we need now your people need your military and if you're looking for your ability who cares who the person is it could be a total stranger but if you're really bothered about the issue in hand then you're genuine and if you're basing your criticism a concern because of the who it shows that it's still associated with your ego in other words you're bothered and you're taking the time because it's your spouse it's a friend right but if it's a stranger that's the vote he says the kasha gobbler didn't race even marked a little tick on a date and when the great leader of the generation is not involved in correcting the tickle for the generation hooray okay we have here everyone take one of these quickly just for a second these pages next page and we'll finish with this line type of ratios had a a mmmm Molotov Kido he doesn't fulfill his purpose by Vedas Habiru tamesha lay in his responsibility of refining the world below cain who grade him class was shown therefore it's as though god forbid he causes missile are absolutely deaf to himself very title of data more so he completely can he he causes excuse me sin to the generation kid sir synopsis your vaio we explained in this long chapter the my repeal of sugar for the market associated with the word healing another what is the healing modesty humility it's it is the healing who the fool of hated her to the for the sin of the generation we need another humility he has built and he explains the equal in unit Oaxaca the primary issue of scolding of Musa she invited her also by mother number one is that he should explain to the person that is scolding that what is prohibited and what is permissible the disqualification explained to them the reward and the punishments like a salesperson be a salesperson right say what it is make yourself clear the OIG's I said more so hula occur and did more so is the primary nothing necessary ingredient in giving Musa Shamu here that the Mooser Sayre your hobbies be asked my should search with himself the adaptiq a cold ok hello Tov shall i and he should be particular with all refined no good parts within himself damn but doctors the doctors even the very fine sense the employed cane how do you fight till date and if because if he doesn't do that his games considered a sinner to his entire generation and it's outrageous and anyone do sock in cell he won't accomplish it