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that that that that that issue in you that says I'm allowed to do it why shouldn't I do it you hold yourself back so that's a way of controlling yourself that's one thing the rebus said and they never said that's Shia that's applicable today 1960s Brooklyn New York meaning in today's world number two the Rebbe said as the buckle and go from 1770 across the street the kitchen was on seven forty-nine across the street that's what he had the kitchen at the time they should continue conversing the Gomora that they just closed and discussed as they you know the whole covalent friends are going across the street to the to the lunchroom every said that two takes work right talk about anything you want outs it's you know so so here you see though that the rabbit didn't say threat they said no you should still demand the same type of things of the buffer and that you demanded forty years ago in Russia in in some account you know they're ever agreed with him that some of those behaviors and you know hold yourself back and not in Indo and not do them it's too much people are not there today that's why we said you know ketchup you know III think there's this there's other more important issues you know truth be said when we were you Shiva and I'm going back you know I'm not that old you know late seventies early eighties you know there was still a feeling of if I live the diet that I lived and I was a Booker I wouldn't look this way I mean there was no such a thing that I drank soda not that I drink soda today you know much but potato chips forget it there were certain foods that I'd never put into my mouth because they tasted good I had a gash schmuck and I and I worked and it was and I remember it and I was talking but they were right in front of me not because of those bokram better if a broker wanted to engage in that activity you know but you know I'm saying it most we're not looking for those type of things I'm saying so I I don't want to I don't want to and I'm sure today and I'm sure today in the Barbican system there I'm like that too but it's your very individual it's individuals one here one there you know I'm saying as as a cloud in red missus times you know in the 1930s and 40s this was that this was the buffer this was the mainstay of the Brooklyn you know in other words the question if the issue was within that domain a little more little less but everyone was into that domain anyway let's now go and learn inside a page ratio test any questions okay so we're a third line and China says we're omnomnom it could hope so though that Abbot old spoke about various aspects of constructive criticism until now it comes along and he says in the third line om nom how Iike who the primary condition for constructive criticism it is I should be a cycle it is that at the time when you're giving the muster Tierra half Norris leva Maria the one that's giving the muscle called the Mejia his or her heart should be have no subjugated modest the lavars or is the God who had diabetes Bhavana dirt addition to the fact that the great the great God love the generations blame for the sinner generation of Akasha of my Fiat as Allah say and therefore when he gives muster to his friend how do you got only man who he's greater than him is a girdle okay now by Union miss yes PR the Olympus someone who has the ability to give masseur obviously is in a position of authority had a gum whom it was broken I died what does it mean and he says Ivana the intent me means intent the engi not visa it says the word need fuss his grass grabbed visa he the gone boy yesh England's heir the darkest by Batak of the darkest when we say he's mid first Bob another it means that he has to come to a position but he sees that he himself has some of what the people are messing up he should be so humble that he he comes to a place within himself that somehow he sees that the that the issue at hand that he scolding them about he himself has in a medaka so in a very refined way and he has this is not easy when you see something right when you see someone doing a transgression which you say I I don't do that the rabbit says that attitude is not the healthy attitude to accomplish good criticism if you want to be successful in your constructive criticism you have to find it somehow within yourself as well let's see I've upon him even though it's in a very fine way had a yesh Boise he has it somehow Billy you say goggle and since he's a goggle he's a great one how do you day of a meeting is a he knows the severity of the matter calm commercia who but that goes to the back of the carcass even as it isn't a very refined way in a very refined and refined way in other words the greater you are Shia you realize that if I that what I'm looking at is a reflection so it's the famous weave of the Baal Shem Tov right that you're a mirror now what you see someone else is really saying I got it too how do i and I have to and and to bother me but I don't have it I don't have the issue that I see the sin the transgression the grub guy just wait a second and he says over Mahler had ideas ooh this knowledge you mushroom racing is there be arts me but that was about custom by finding it within himself in a very refined way great and when lots of sugar Goodell it causes the person the one was giving the Mooser to do great sugar me uncle the Libra the depth of his heart oboe hurry if Kenny cries be mine I share with the bitterness of his soul I was there for this alcohol the Messina become a god really and as we find as we find by word by many great good a limb of the generation shallow you butts are golden