Constructive Criticism - 13 of 31

needs to give Rob a maraca call until you it really hits you you have to scope him so much until he gives you a self stop already stop telling me off stop scolding me and he gets so irritated that he loves you we pinches you that's when you don't have to say it anymore that's what the kimono says that's one opinion Ralph Oh Peter Shashi I've taken oh don't cry of Africa's Kavita Rashi says was there and how much the person have to scold his friend other car Archie observes there till the fellow gets so angry that you're scolding vehicle the vehicle yes mo here and he hits the scolder enough get away from me and he hits you that's when you know that's you've done your obligation according to rev you don't have to say another word after that what do we see from this in pain if so whom he misses her it came in cane cane emitters Oh ho-ho but yeah sorry but Musa Ralph it seems from the cameras here Safari that what that the midst of her father of giving scolding is really giving scolding but Moosa Ralph fire and brimstone that's what the Gemara sake now in this parenthesis there ever puts in the parentheses here but you think about it like listen to this this is how sensitive there but the previous theorem he's building up the case for giving mu sir and he's quoting the Cavell he throws in a parenthesis and he says varrock shillelagh Viper rabbit you know what I do that in public to embarrass in the public eye will be knowingly be not smart between yourselves in private your holy mother shared a darker you could tell the person your ways are bad or the Vice show and you can embarrass him but they're sure Emily Amos by telling him the truth calling him out on it sure myself my sub a your behavior is like an animal aqui Bahama will believe das without any logic without any sense believed I started without any human intelligence cloud of law I'm just saying it's like Aviv it's a double push it like you know but the rebel still writes it in the minor puts in a parenthesis never forget that even if you're in what he's saying is that when the gomorrah says that you scold them to the point they're going to rob where he hits you remember it's the sloan private if publicly now let us you know want to scope anyone the way to you embarrass him that's you know sometimes we don't realize but we say something and some public whatever it's the same that was very careful with this many times anyway to another discussion okay let's continue inside Lerman actions in the faith was acharya so his question now is why was a higher you punished that he they killed him because he wanted to bear give mustard to the Jewish people so he also good looking why is it considered that he didn't do properly so basically the river is asking kind of a question from one gazelle and another kazan you follow the story of Zakaria seems to contradict the Damara that that's and he's just using this as a way in he's using this as a way in to tackle the whole idea of criticism and now we're starting to go into the meat and potatoes of constructive criticism which dove it has been waiting for thing you know the idea is he may England I felt if he a semi-circle when we quote the verse Scotia is called your friend Hawk Ivana he the intent is the Cavanaugh she had a beer this is number one condition number one okay you've gotta start counting one she adopted I leave I shame him you should talk to the heart of the listeners eighth Mullen Lee bomb Lavin and allows speak with love how is it that you allowed your heart to desecrate one of the commandments of Melek mafia muffler's love king of all kings i should see visualizes who commanded you not to do it I start to do it or the head that Aqaba to say or you didn't do a mixer a sham wanted you to do a mitzvah this Mitzvah how could it be then do it you talk to them I'll leave a shaming you get to their heart that's the first condition that he says for criticism position emotional message overage at a hooker and during the time when you in other words he says you you you you say the the Mooser but you say it in a loving way you got it you say the MU sir but you say it in a loving way he says later showing them what do you think labor-saving means okay don't use the word love it means that he should get to the heart its environment you know I'm saying environment the person okay well let's see what he says further maybe I'll be clearly lovely and he says oh very that they hopefully Oklahoma clear cuts article of value oh now he says number to send their number to it the second condition is when you give them muscle you have to inform the the mejia the sculptor has to circle of I it has to explain let me see emoji after the person who is scolding as her ownership is there the punishment from what you're doing and he's gonna say now people don't know they don't know the results send if I asked you if you don't know about a food item sorry I'm looking at you're not saying sender if you don't know about a food item what brother to make on it what do you do choco what do you do what do you do if you don't know because of whatever that you don't know because even either yeah well whatever what do you do so the best thing to do is to wash and avoid the question right you know what that result says if you take this issue lightly you want to hear you're ready you're not gonna get scared or fall off your chair case we are diesel v8 from Charlotte go Google you want more of a quote I'll give you the exact section you want anyway you know it says that you're gonna be reincarnated into water you're gonna have a vehicle of my you why because water the bracha shock on the air but very you were live if you were lenient in making finding out what the helices should be what brother you should make or if how logically we don't know like with rice down to that mushy to know that right what blocker to make not mr. brooder we has a has a ruling or what brother make a rice go down to there but remains a question so either you wash or you make three brother so our Masako and ms anus and when you sit down for supper and your wife serves you right you're tired exhausted the last thing you want to do is wash and make