Chabad Customs for Tishrei #1- Slichos, RH, Erev YK, Kol Nidrei - Prepare yourself now!

so uh i realized that i forgot the safer so i'm going to today review the chabad hogim the chabad customs for the month of tishrei i think that's a good substitute for learning the mind will continue tomorrow i just didn't bring the save up mitch mohammed tomorrow so you know so we're in uh we're in the month of uh ello still and we're in the may sleepless when i was when i was a boy when i was a boy my father taught me there are sleeves you get up before it's dawn before it's light outside and you go to the mikvah and you say sleepless that ever i'm not sure from the early years but in the later years i think the minion was seven o'clock seven in the morning so it was already after after dawn i believe there's a uh there's a concept of saying it uh still when it's dark dawn time because it's it says there's a good chalced a thread of kindness that shines in the world but regardless um you know that ebba did it later again in the later years what he did from 1950 to 97 to 80 i don't know yes that's just a technical question um um how much does one need to say before or should say before a breakfast breakfast all the brothers all the the you know that broke us through through where if not you know and also i would i always suggest saying the first part of krishna if not all three that's what i do every day along with my brothers i say all three pashas so that in case i get caught up i did the midst of krishna when i was uh in yeshiva in my good old days i would put on film for the to to say krishna and that was uh it was a whole debate in the yeshiva but uh most polar bottom don't do that for whatever reason they don't have time or whatever but i'm pleased to say uh the three parties of krishna yeah but carbonis you could say afterwards it's up to you could say it before it it doesn't make a difference before or after doesn't make a difference okay so slikhas is pretty straightforward the enemy has shot and of course the sleepless is double the amount to say at least so it's usually an hour it takes so uh and again people get up early but uh i think today people don't rush to get up when it's still dark they they do it like seven o'clock again uh that's not the way i think it used to be just just for the record that you you know god when i was a boy it wasn't that way i don't know why how it changed why it changed maybe that ever wasn't getting up as early i i don't know you know um but um regardless now we do about tradition is to do with 10 people not just three so all other schools pretty much lit fish and sea dish they do it three so you know even if you're dabbing in a non kabacho or somehow you can get 400 400 until the baba joshua you would have 10 or if you can get 10 people to do you have 10 friends and you know take five minutes for you to read that part of the daring and uh if they're willing to listen you know but our tradition is 10 not not three again is is it not accepted if you do 10 it is accepted but this is the khabad minute so you want to follow that that's that's what you need to do okay um pretty much everything else is the same we go to the mikveh rosh hashanah even those that don't go throughout the year for whatever reason go out of rosh hashanah with for sure yeah who don't go generally uh through in the week you'll find them in the midfield of rajashana usually um out of your keeper as well you know okay there's a shoulder that kia schaefer as we i think i made a clip and i think uh i've run commented uh i made a clip with all the uh the the of of of kia schaefer vanderbilt the rebel would sing and use and i imitated that as much the best of my ability um you know if you can hear schaefer from someone who knows that musa that's the chabad nusa again and this this is not even a um even a tradition you know in other words that the the the ten versus three by uh taurus the dorian right to listen to someone who's who who says the he is who does the llama with the noosa has done that you can't say i don't you know that it's a it's a nice thing and if you could get you know listen to some of that way it's it i find it more inspirational but uh that's it someone wrote to me a note after they saw my clip that uh he says even in literature shoes they they they do that i i i don't know i'm not i haven't been to literature shoes and rosh hashanah i don't know but it's it's hard to imagine that the same tool they use so i still need to investigate that if anyone knows let me know you're not talking about me oh [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] that that no right and then like for example kurdish i i've heard that that seems to be a very common yeah okay okay okay i i you know you know the truth is i didn't investigate the history of it maybe it's i was told it was so that's what but if you you know uh after after kia's we [Music] now as far as the blowing of the truths in general is mirik it blows them long and many others they go they just do nine and then they stop but there are by the way we saw you know they say he did 36 or 42 it went quite a while so to tell you exactly how many you have to do i i i can't say that you know for sure it has to be 36 or 42 but definitely it's longer than nine that i can tell you for sure another thing the second day rosh hashanah the baltic chaos in this case when the rebel was the belong to schaefer he would have a new handkerchief he would put on a new handkerchief around him and because it's a shiloh with the sheffield right you make a shekharyano so the b center you put on i used to when i blew schaefer for the for a congregation i used to put on a new shirt that go into my office and i i bought a new shirt before jumptip and i put out a new shirt so if you happen to be about the chaos you should know that you should have some new garment again i don't believe it's in and then if you don't do it you're still yateser if you made a shakiyona without it but it's good too it's good to know that okay when you blow schaefer for other eden which i hope you'll do you know as shown as a time that after your meal you make a fast meal you don't sit for hours and yap and all that you make a fast meal during the day and then you don't go to sleep because first of all if you sit down on the couch you'll fall asleep guaranteed so don't do that it's a recommendation get up take a shafer go with a friend and go out to the street go out to neighbors who maybe are shut-ins and others i know that it's vegemisch and you know but i'm sure you could find and and blow for them schaefer it's a big mitzvah it's a big mitzvah you'd be surprised sometimes women didn't hear women didn't hear they're not always uh mapping you know uh sometimes or your girls you know when you see a young girl and you ask did you hear shane for today and then she you know might say no you now if it's a man if it's a man have them make the project it's better if they make the brothers and even if it's a woman it's better if they make the brokers that's what i do if if someone's able i have them make the progress okay so that's as far as um yeah as kier schaefer but um at night in chabad we just have uh the head of a fish and we have uh tsimus which is in yiddish madden to multiply but again there's no you want to have other the other sim on him and but let me tell you that the way i was taught is the head of the fish my wife has that we have some medicine and and that's it of course the apple the hirozin we do that's the way we we were trained in chabad yes i heard recently that the apple i i knew that it was i heard it again but apple has a special kabbalistic significance um in general with the whole idea of you know the apple we see it like by by ginsburg like the title of this large very big book is like something having to do with like the apple we have you know the lasso in like that [Music] um so i'm just curious you see in the chat you see in this that when it comes to this what's mentioned is the apple so i'm just curious if the with the apple and i'm not saying there aren't any but uh that's not what's brought down in the city it's brought down in the city is that uh [Music] the idea is the honey the idea is the honey no idea is to dip the apple and honey to have a toy for masooka sweet honey so you're saying but why apples attack it doesn't say but we know an apple is is this possible is that the to multiply it we see the the you and then on corner yes we do say in holy apple so there is capitalistic ideas what i'm saying that you don't you don't find in the altar ever sit there that he when he when he says take the apple think of taboo he doesn't say i i don't have a max in front of me but i'm sure that that's not what he says yeah so so i'm not i'm not i'm not excluding that my but i'm saying what the altar ever put into the siddha when he when he when he shares a mimic that no he's telling us this is what i want you to this is this is enough because you see but by this mirror is he does mention the tapuku that was brought in kapala you referred to before but it doesn't he doesn't have that uh by rajashana to me that there's a reason for it in other words right now you don't have to be on the couple or into cupola every jew is it should have us a a a sweet year and that's the focus of the apple the honey again but why can't you put an orange in honey why can't you put a pear in honey so daddy doesn't write and you know they're their reasons brought and i think it's even it's frozen but we shouldn't lose focus you know the focus is the the sweetness the honey that's the sweetness that's that's the focus okay so um i mentioned that we don't uh talk much the first night um you know from what you need you know you see the but uh just uh you know conversations it reminds me of a story that i heard from rabbi gordon maybe some of you heard it on his on his tapes so he says when his father and his brother came to la babbage they they learned how you're supposed to celebrate rosh hashanah the first night the energy goes away and the world is faint and then like we don't know if it's going to be resuscitated the next next day and you know it's a very serious time so when they came back from from lubavitch they came back to either dog shits whatever whatever city they were from i forget now and um they were there in shul uh and they hear one one by the bus alabama to shoot and they hear one by the bus saying to the other it's saying uh i how much the fish cost this year for for how much the fish cost we have a head of a fish and the other guy said it caught so much and so much root but he says oy vay the price of fish has gone up like we have now inflation and so so they said we should dive in that the price of fish had come down that our three lovely so so the the two gordon brothers they looked at each other they said what this is what you're gonna doubt for roshana the world is we don't know if the world's going to exist tomorrow we might not all wake up and you're worried about the price of fish so they said they said ah oh they said where are you coming from they said they're coming from shiva and he said means uh what's the word josh used to record and used uh uh like uh nothing like you know like you're nothing you know smart catches i guess a russian word for like your of these these these these uh the word in english like it's like you're you're you're you're you're nothing you you little punk you little punk you who are you guys you know yeah you know two youngsters two youngsters who are still in their diapers and look at coming from the bottom and telling us yeah he said what's important is whether the price of fish should be higher or lower so it puts things in perspective you know what what are we talking about at the table register tonight about the price of fish the head of the fish on the table how much it cost it's inflation come on you know so that's not try to minimize that type of conversation but again if you have a guest doesn't know better and speaks about those things you know in a nice way try to divert the attention to something more spiritual but of course you know don't make it into a fight and don't make it and you know what i'm saying that show them in peace is and if someone wants to talk about something and then you try and you say maybe we could discuss it after yamtiv and he says no i need to know now you know discuss it you know be a mesh okay so register the tradition is if you're strong enough not to eat before kia schaefer not to even drink not to eat okay but to drink usually people have a drink so and i say if you're strong enough i've told you there was one by the way that i fainted now but now i don't faint you know we don't have that uh pushing or shoving nevertheless if you feel weak and you feel you don't have to clap the dove and uh it's acceptable to take it to save something to drink and even if you need something to eat but uh if you have the koyak i know it's a long day you don't finish till two to three o'clock uh maybe even later some places um if you're able to you you shouldn't eat a drink uh before here schaefer and the idea of making kiddush a middle has been frowned upon not by but by rebellio henkin elite bishop isak that was passed on um and he was like so great and sucked and marcia feinstein sent people to him at times so he was a major prosecutor he makes his his like pet peeve was like in the literature world they have sometimes a break and he was against it about uncle i think was for it and he and he let him have it he says you know get and i'm telling you it's forbidden so um again everyone to their own community but uh just be aware that that in in exciting circles that's not done as far as i know actually i think so i don't know i know maybe they do maybe they do i don't know the babbage is not done yeah here's my shoe hold on hold on you got to take off your your your you mute yourself for you need god yeah okay what what what is the rationale behind not eating like not making kiddush before the it's the same it's the irrationality is that before you do a mitzvah you don't eat so whether it's lula vanessa you know i go early to the mikvah as soon as it becomes sunset i make the brach and the sukkah a little natural because i want to have a coffee and a piece of zionist so yeah i do it you know the idea is you have even the first thing you do is the mitzvah not eat so there's shay fur and there's a little um that's the idea the idea of not eating you know the idea that but what i'm saying is that says if you're weak you could eat something before but over here there's another emphasis that you're doing the mitzvah the mitzvah rule of the midst of schaefer you want to show your great love therefore you you want to do that first that's the rationale that clear yeah okay yeah so so in fun in oman they have a huge kiddish uh after chakras i just spoke about it rabbi henkin would be turning over in his grave he says it's forbidden now what should i tell you everyone to their own i'm not you know the the wrestler probably have their abundant you know they probably say that there's such an avoidance there's such a tiredness and people would faint i i don't know but uh i could just tell you that uh joe henkin was a basic and he he this was his he used to argue with the lich fox not with the see them maybe the lit fox whatever so i i i can't comment you have to ask the best of the puzzle you know okay um and basically the rest of regis and others of the circles we say taylor it's a time for to heal it you know the british care generally don't do that they spend their time uh say dylan now if someone has or that oh say dylan we say to hillary that's all again you know everything someone comes over to you says you're not allowed to learn you know just disregard them they're totally whacked out and wrong you know how to learn sugar you know whatever learn whatever you taylor's tata first dates the emphasis is uh three words that you're in mathilas so it's better to say to hillary you know but uh you know you're you're in queen of afrita's rambam and you should definitely do on those days as well okay next so the only other thing rejoicing is um we spoke about blowing straight from other people and at the end of january we have a fabregan though or they called niko one second where you um you uh say this is a my mercedes tradition some when the rebel was alive and happy he washed and he asked everyone to wash today some do some dough at the end of yamcov i said and they say my mercedes so um it's an important thing and i would urge everyone to go to a cafe show for that because you're not going to get that the mimer you're not going to get in a non-chabad show so if you want to follow the tradition the meaning you should hear my mercedes and i assume that's generally in a chabad and it's toward you know time the second day going into my yes yeah just about to touch this oh yeah what about that so about tash left it's best to do it on the first day of course but uh again if a person is not well or it's far away then you do it uh in the assets you make sure that some do it um kale knew on the side i think the sixth day is the i think the sixth day of the year that's that's been our question right but what day is that what day i think it's the sixth day whatever whatever that is but uh what i see is people go to the water here you know but it's bet it's better it's better to if you can you have the kayak and it's not too far of a walk you know though that they that ever before they built a uh pond in the back of 770 used to go from 770 to botanical gardens which was a 20 25 minute walk you know and everyone walked behind him so um he was mocked to go on under andres hashanah so it's definitely better to do it rachel if you can okay uh [Applause] [Music] the next thing is uh we go to the ascendancy matchup that says we do not say except term the dalian that's not because of assad issue but it's because of the term gedalia which is the first thing right so people always ask do they they say khabar is during the series the answer is no so we get away with saying slickest during that time that's the khabad minute and then we um we go to eravium kipper everyone knows is a special day we eat two meals halogenically two meals so it's like fasting an extra day and um you know it's a serious day and yet uh half a day is more bermuda's more you know the cob of bitterness and frustration and the other half of the day is morphe the first half actually is bermuda's the next the second half of and if you kipper is more basing he would think just the opposite no because yom kippur we look at as we learn of siddhis as the day of the greatest truth and opportunity so you look forward to to being able to to have an opportunity to have this great uh truva call did today you know we take out three toyotas you can come by tradition and take out three toyotas it says it's a big mitzvah to buy the first exclusive the first data the reason for that i've said in the past but it's worth knowing it's brought in shallow it's a forgiveness for omission of seed which almost all people have had in your life so it's brought down inshallah that buying the discourse of holding the first title or even if someone else holds it but you bought the discourse is a tickle for that that transgression so um you know you don't you don't say this out loud but that's wrought and shallow that's why it says that episode the first tita is especially especially special one more thing and go back to rosh hashanah for the night after we say you know that song and it says that ashab said that anyone will have great kavanagh during that it will be us throughout the year so um i think it's important to say that capitol with great kavanaugh yes hillary i just want to go back for a second and ask about the silicone so the right we say sleepers this week and you know on sunday um so we say the week before but not during uh during a serious image no except some medallion yeah okay okay yeah um okay so i spoke about the uh and at night the thrillers oh and we do say to hillary the whole villain after my live uh you know there's nowhere to go there's no meal so um the rubber would stay in shul and they would say the whole time an hour and a half it took them approximately it says you know if you you don't have the kayak whatever say something say something after dominic also we say nine kapitla you know we the the minute of the ball champion to say three of each day of health and then yom kippur we do 9 9 9 i think 20 30 27 or 36 i think 36 9 the last nine eq finishing the 150 kapitla so that you do before you go to sleep it's in the monster but that's an addition that's different than saying the whole book of dylan right after midif [Music] and they're not saying tell them here you know what's going to throw you on the show if you say kill him just let him or you go home and say to him but uh some to him should definitely be said another thing and i don't know if it's you can't say it's a minute but a single venom volcano that ever when he came in rosh hashanah before mighty he motioned this single vino volcano okay we'll continue maybe another day what with mormon hugging maybe we'll get to to speak about sukas uh we'll get to talk a little bit okay we will have a great day everyone see everyone tomorrow as i get some fights are you gonna go to that rhymer i'm gonna continue tomorrow i didn't have my say for today yes guys just let you know whoever wants to collaborate a collaborative estimate you've got to order right now because they're selling out quickly because almost all the striking here oats are better than and the old sir resident ones are are not going to be the greatest