Are you really strong in dealing w temptations? Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

we'll finish the chapter we are about 10 lines from the bottom after the crack the brackets after the brackets that's where we are out there that be here has formed a very important point and he says that when it says in the classic it passes itself hello could you mute yourself please set what it says impassion itself is near you in your mouth in your heart and uh and then your action the heart here doesn't just mean thought it means a heart that's been impact that's relevant to action it's like it's as though it says stop pause foreign type of control that you can control and therefore it's close to you and it's very close to you is not the feelings of real love and passion for God which we call that that's not the average person's ability what is our ability is that a certain type of feeling in the heart which we learned in paid it in the last chapter is called the intellectual love the cold love that's very possible for the average person and that impacts the heart and the example again is you know you know that this and this is the right thing to do then then do it even though you don't feel it but you understand that it's the right thing to do and therefore in a render it already triggers some type of a Feeling not a feeling that's really um vibrant and passionate and driven but it's more a cold feeling it's the right thing to do that will lead you to do the right thing and that's what abandon he does the right thing and the out that episode and this is also the idea of Maya Charlotte when he adds the words in chapter 17 Shepherd's Hollow small the Mind Over Matter over the matter of the left ventricle in the heart and that's not the way he he phrased it in chapter 12 where he mentioned for the first time that line Mind Over Matter over there it says here in chapter 17 he says the two words on the left ventricle of the within the heart we know where the blood and the passion for tide has come what does he have to tell us the location and we learned that in reading chapter nine it's not necessary to mention here and the answer is because he wants to tell you that this time this afraid of the beginning here which is driven by the cold love can actually have a control over the heart itself not only of of tools that lead to the heart instruments and ideas that lead to the heart but the heart itself you have no control over South in chapter 7 says that the talumus Libre of of chapter 16 is strong enough to actually make a dent in the heart so that then you act in the right way what if someone is out of control and we call that a Russia and what is the category that Russia now that ever says the words and that that too needs clarification if you're a Russian you're a Russian what do you mean you are a truthful Russia you're a Russian what's the addition of the word Bahamas in chapter 17. so the outer that explained that then he also added words in other words he doesn't say the stamina Russia they're great mighty [Music] sin like why does he why does he add that are Russia is a Russia so obviously without the rebels adding by saying the greater Mighty sin and adding the words Russia to Ms we're talking about someone who is like happy being a Russian the person you know there's a type of a rusher that we learned in chapter 11. who has regret from time to time but then to someone who has no regret is not interested in regretting just wants to indulge and be hedonistic and everything else so that is a type of a Russia that is very very very very very bad and this type of Russia creates two things he says a curtain a curtain and he also creates a curtain that separates God from him and uh an iron the difference between curtain a curse a curtain's light you push a curtain you can see through it a little bit and iron the iron an iron curtain an iron a separation that you can't see through and you can't move in other words the the half sick the interruption the separation is much greater the ultimate says here this type of Russia who has no regrets creates not only a mess of a muscle I'm sorry a muscle a curtain between himself and God but Makita shall Basel so that type of Russia doesn't have as we discussed yesterday Maisha right that Russia that Russia's mind is out of control there's one thing for the heart to be out of control and that's why the field of cognitive therapy says you're even if your heart's out of control if you can work on the cognitions it will change the behavior what if your cognitions are messed up then we're in real trouble there's two concepts we've learned about these ideas in the past the jading of the heart is and then there's tempted mama the jading of the Moa what's Tim to Malave did the ladies you learn you're diving and you're doing Mysteries and everything else and you feel like a stone you feel like lifeless you don't feel passion you don't write that's tip to my life that's one problem what's the solution for that problem there are various things brought in the Swarm but one thing is get your mayak to think more seriously about the situation and then you'll see your heart will start developing a Feeling what if you have symptoms you have the Jaden clogging the sluggishness of the cup of the brain then we're in big trouble because you can't say meditate reflect contemplate my cup as we're saying Yiddish is far stopped my head is clogged I can't thanks for stopped and by the way it's explained in this form where that comes from too that comes from an immersion of in your cup in particulars chapter 8 in Tanya secular studies up to the point where it's not used for godliness and Holiness and paranasa but just philosophies and things like that creates that's why the river was not a proponent of going to University in college especially during his days in the 20s 30s Etc in the University of Berlin and so born and things like that which he was there just to get a degree he wasn't there as a student whereas Robert salovich was there to receive a PhD which he got in 1931 30 or 31. the rep's position was even later in America and he wrote so many letters to people was besides the issue of bitter potato which is a serious issue we have to look at if it's Bittle Taylor and besides the issue of the mixing of the genders and nonsense issues there is the philosophical issue the philosophical issues are very very serious now today we laugh at them because you know today it's about BDS and and trans and all of those and and woke you know I I spoke to a few a month ago about doing something you know there on their campus regarding my book and they said we'd love to but no one even knows what is no one's interested in this stuff they're interested in trans and walk and um sorry it ain't gonna it's just there's no interest it's a different world we're living in this is what the telling me from the campus experience but some of you guys were still on campus but well you probably went when when when when when there was more of a serious issue to philosophy and and ideology and you know is there a god you know well that type of study is a very very risky and dangerous study because it creates a clogging of the head what does that mean the clock head your brain your Seiko is now wired differently because you start believing in those in those ideas so that's that's one of the main reasons for it's not the only reason the brain has now been contaminated with uh an anti-god idea an anti-tita idea so in that case it's very difficult and that's what the altered says here we're talking about Russia where the person has created this blockage intellectually and this is serious business so how so now the question is thank you out there how do I deal with that says the out to that but you have you could break it because at the end of the day what this symptom what this idea of of of the mayak not being in control because the most intellect is blocked is a cause for the Clipper to take over so the negative Force which thrives on anything that is um anti-antithetical to God so here he has a situation where great here I have a customer a customer who believes that uh Plato and and and Aristotle and Einstein that whatever else is is is more is more true than Tita so the Clipper says that's exactly what I want so that says so you know what the answer is you got to break the clipper how do you break the clipper so he he he says it here and then again later in chapter 26 and we'll talk about a little more then he says by shattering yourself and he bases it on a verse and to heal it the Posse says Elohim the way you Slaughter yourself for God the way you give up you just give away yourself Hashem is through a a contrite spirit which is created by Leif nishberg contriteheart so how do you come to that contrite heart and the answer is you have to knock yourself out and that's that's what he's going to teach us later in chapter 29 where he gives he gives it's like the Musser chapter of but there's a time when you have to knock yourself out that you don't knock yourself out you're not moving forward it's a fantasy it's a fantasy ultimately to think I can move forward and still be stuck in my stus it doesn't work it works temporarily but at a certain point it explodes and this and this is has happened today in our communities by people with beards and Timeless and everyone you have to work on the suram and if anyone tells you that the balcantov and the Hasidic movement is is not interested in surmeira there's foolish they don't know what they're talking about the answer is that first you first you grease the wheels so that the wheels feel greased interested in pursuing the path and then you start learning you fill yourself up with knowledge and as you do that you engage them in a in a method of surmeira but without surm is not Everlasting now of course in situations which you know all you know where people who are not there yet you're gonna bang them with suram they're never going to come back right so you you use the approach of I say Tafe but at the end of the day especially so so someone comes into the river and who's a family of Mitzvahs and the rabbit's position was staying achievement don't go to college and the parents want him to go to college they have disagreements with the rabbit in the room and they had conversation and believe me not everyone listened and some did but there was discussion about this so what I'm saying is in that scenario you could talk it up you could talk about it open No One's Gonna Take off the yamaka and stop putting on film because the laboratory and and the parents were arguing is should you go to college if you not go to college we're talking now in the realm we're all frummies we're all part of the system so let's argue it out and the same is true with with teenagers and the same thing you only mentioned the youth and there is a place for discussion and argumentation that my shop is stable we used to have that when my girls were growing up if I disagreed I told them I disagreed and I explained myself and they argued back and we had a great conversation and when we had visitors they loved it because they saw we weren't afraid to discuss and argue that doesn't mean that you know it has to be nasty and and and and and you know putting down it was it was very respectful but there is a time and a place to air it out that's what I'm saying so the outerepe here says to this fellow you want to come back and unite to Hashem and you've really put up a blockage between you and God you have to shatter your heart you have to break your heart you have to feel remorse for what you did real remorse and if it's just playful remorse or verbiage it's garnished it's not that it's nothing FS let's learn inside now how he puts it in okay the heat after the brackets and Paige huffkin this idea of juva that we're discussing that's necessary by the Russia is what we call the lower level of true verb lahalics hey tattoo I'm gonna explain a moment to elevate the lower hay of the youth Cave of K there's two Haze there's the upper the first taste called the upper hey hey love and the second the wolf K the second hay of the four letter name of Hashem the tetragrammaton equal 26 youth Cave of K the second hey is hey tattoo so the hate that has been grabbed by the Clipper so what we have to do do what the balchuva has to do in doing true verb is to to elevate the hey tattoo the hakima minifilosa to elevate it to pick it up from its falling from its freefallah every time we do a sin it falls to the negative side she whose side goes the screener that's yes there a concept of the Exile of this of the screener everyone screams they may have shot him when you pick up your smartphone wow you put the screen into gallus hey guy and when you are not nice to someone throwing a rock at them it's the same shrinter bigger loser stop throwing rocks it's not proper driving shoppers but there's other ways as the brisker of told Redman National and Parish who told me that the briskarov told him I don't agree with this approach and I'm not going to sign the proclamation because this is not the approach the brisker of Mr Rob was the individual at the time right the brisk of love for me God will be mad that was greater and he told me she went around Gathering signatures and he said I'm sorry what are you doing by by scaring people to drive this way and to drive you're only causing them to drive around and be my color Shabbos longer because they're driving longer around that's not a solution the point is that the Shinto begalusa says here every time a person commits an Aveda a transgression he's causing the hey tattoo the lower hey of the shame Hashem to fall and you have to pick it up I mean if he lost her from its falling when we were exiled to enter the nation the the non-jewish nation the screen is with us why why with us go with the Anthony we committed sins we were exiled to have them to Rome to right what's this verse China that's the word because the process of Exile is that that your Avera causes the screen not to go into exile so if if it knows it comes simultaneously you can't separate the two you want to think a person might want to think I committed a sin and God's still here hey my friend you caused part of God I.E and capitalistic terminology brought him Tanya they hate you took the letter A of God's name and you stuffed it into clipper how did I do that you're Aveda because an Aveda means to go over Lavar to go over from one side to the other you went over from the side of the hay belonging in the youth came and that same hey now is in the side of clipper this means when a person doesn't act which we call an act of Anthony an act of the Romans or the Greeks or whatever Nation meaning an act that's antithetical to God I.E a transgression made it um what he does is he draws down and lowers the spark of God that's normally used to sustain your nepheus boy and through the act of the Aveda you make it invest itself into nephew Clipper from the clip aside she believes within your hardship because the left ventricles and which dominates over you while before you do children while you're in Russia um and therefore it dominates over your small City your body and therefore your net Soul Spirit Soul I.E your soul is conquered in Exile excellent by the national by the clipper by the clipper foreign so at that moment you cause the shattering of the spirit of contamination of the negative the forces holy turn to the next page top of page 46. and you separate the chaff the clipper from the good wheat he come home and if he lost her and that's when it stands up it rises from its fall and not only does it rise the government who remembers the word doesn't say asked the question why is the Terry used the difference in language and he says there's a person the way a king stands a king stands upright strong erect firm look at the language here he come on many philosopher that's the source the root word of itself is Nick's have been 46 first line last line of the parent of this chapter commercial another fascinating thing when you cause the Clipper to leave you by doing chufa and by reuniting the hey tattoo with the shame Hashem the last day the youth came that hate was disattached from the UK for the first three letters through your sin and now you bring it back through truva which is that the the process of the contrite heart the regret and the remorse so what you do is not only do you reconnect it but you make it even stronger that would be I think the anal the the the the the similarity to to what he's saying before is so powerful that not not only is it as good as it was before it's much stronger that's why in a place of where balchuva stands at Southern government can't stand outside the government can stand on the regular Earth on the regular situation The balchuva Who did who who already tasted the other side and now gives away that other side is much stronger he's neat self he's need self he's need something he's gone through this and now he's he was able to say I don't want the stuff the Sadi government never tasted the stuff how do you know what is gonna how do you know how he's gonna be if he takes the shoes you don't the the mother says three right it was nine he was took at the the last day of his life he went into the holy of holies they cut you cut them so many times and the last time he became a heretic and epicotist well you can't trust yourself no one can trust themselves not you're not even that sad they could trust them anyone can say that they could trust himself right there and then they're in invalidated finished so the government server is because the hater was already banked up tasted and now through the realization that this is this is not good and I don't want this anymore and I wasted my time with all of these and all that that makes that that person and that hate that thought so much stronger that not only is it comma many philosopher company Philosophy means it's on the floor and it stands up but you can stand to me very Wiggly Wiggly wag right a little wind right here we have winds here now coming out of town of the Winds smoke air quality is 175. stay in your house close the windows America and that's just all you have these wins from the from the desert storms day in day out and no one makes a big deal here everyone's the crust it's on CNN and everyone is closing and sending whatsapps I you know you might get sick and listen we have a doctor here maybe for people with heart problems respiratory problems it's an issue you know I don't know enough but if that's what they say okay but but the the way they're building it up and like scaring people like people are hiding in their houses now and they say is there there are players in Canada yeah they're fires in Canada and and I gotta I someone sent me a text yeah okay okay okay the days and the week following uh heavy air pollution well well known facts right okay I'm and I don't agree but but but isn't that kind of usual I mean like right now there's some smoke okay uh I'm just just blowing it up I feel they're blowing it up they have to because if not they'll be sued and and you know right here in Brooklyn we have to we have to close the windows I mean I mean you have to close the windows you shouldn't walk outside I mean I've been walking outside I have my windows open and listen too much to worry about it's too much to worry about we're gonna stress ourselves out and and God forbid die earlier from stress just relax relax the doctor said you got a respiratory system stay put a quick why am I bringing this up because the Sadiq the Sadiq is wiggly it is it's like Potomac but that's why this expression Sadi compels take off your pelts go into the desert go up to Albuquerque go up to New Mexico go out to Utah go out to graceful where it's not Borough Park Brooklyn Flatbush I want to see what you made of then I want to see what you made of then and most will say no no no no no no no no no I'm not I'm gonna fail no and then take the Balto shuva who tasted all of that and was there and it's Stark that's it's over that's it's over now to go and and like the rambam says to take to go past the the the the McDonald's with the the trade hamburgers and the smell or the Chinese food and all of that and put yourself in there or to walk on a street where there's not sneezers and say now I'm gonna show that my TiVo has been broken I'm gonna walk I'm in Broadway in front of all the Schmutz and hmm I'm strong says we know how to do that about truth is not allowed to do it and I would say today a Topic's not going to do it either because it's not a real topic but anyway but once he goes through this this Messiah and and he succeeds is much stronger much stronger and is not you know it's not it's crust I mean and that's why by the way in a lot of the Hasidic communities and probably little Community but the real sparkle literature those kids those youngsters those people you know because they were so sheltered and not exposed to anything and that when they see a girl or or when they when they come across a movie oh this is good so they got autographed and they become all of a sudden I want some of that too whereas if you if you experience life in a way where you're from and you're committed and and you're not sheltered to the point where now I know I've told you the story in the Babbage with the guy coming for sure he says oh yeah Mabel and he runs the other way talking about a different time talking about 150 years ago in Russia and also then it was a whole different the guy was thinking see this he's like walking to the girl he has no idea what he's walking to I mean that's a different level of a person you know what I'm saying it's a different level the person really yeah anyway however I gotta go to zygazunt we'll see everyone tomorrow take care shallowable star chapter 18. take care