#5 Book with all the Answers for all people at all times - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

so we're here continuing today the hack domus have a look at the introduction to Target it's on page gimmel folio B the second side and we are four lines from the bottom where the word starts let me just briefly briefly give you uh a recap in this letter which is an introduction to the first part of the tadio he he he's justifying why a safer that he wrote called the target is an adequate substitute for yehidis for the private private meetings and engagements that has even came to seek his counsel primarily in spiritual matters and he says seemingly a safe for a book cannot substitute private conversation today their studies how with all the beautiful Virtues Of Us sitting here virtually it doesn't compare to if we were face to face it you know in their studies and there's a lot there are pluses and there are a lot of minuses you know people are more roofed from each other yesterday I heard how New York City uh the income is suffering the the the the flowers and the barbershops are going out of business and the pubs and the it is no longer a strong happy hour after work why 50 of workers don't come in anymore it's not online so the city is suffering financially so there's disadvantages the doubt that every here in this Tanya says when you came to see me you you you shared your issues in a book and and he said and I would love to see you he didn't say this I'm paraphrasing him however I just can't see anyone everyone anymore it's it's overwhelming more and more Yeadon seek my counsel take away time I just don't have the time so and I discussed this at length in the last year so therefore I write a cipher called the Tanya and in it you'll have the same advice he says wait a minute how could that be if someone is walking in darkness even if the light the light that the advice is gavaldic is tremendous in the book of Rome nevertheless those are his words I'm confused I'm flattered I'm mixed up I'm famished I got worries bills kids producer health I'm all over the place clients so you could give me a gem of a book and in it there's tremendous advice how to dive and better learn better and and and and connect better to Hashem but I don't see it because I'm working with blinders that's the first complaint that the altareba seeks to address in this introduction number two he says even if somehow that's not an issue which it is at least at this point in the introduction How could a book be in a book that's written surely a book that's written by human intelligence and you know good writing and good ideas and even a terror book which doesn't go into very specific details as far as I'm concerned we're concerned our particular issues for for us it's not tailored made how can it be an adequate substitute that's his question and we're just at the end of this of of of the the question the second question that's what we're going to learn today and continue to his answer let's go Hindi we find regarding the laws of what's prohibited and permissible food and culturals by the way it doesn't mean only that it means you know anything that's prohibited is permissible that's been revealed to us and our children but we find disagreements between the sages known as from one extreme to The Other Extreme actually Manish in a very tangible way a Sharma says you're allowed to basila says you're not allowed to and so Devin was telling me about the learning your mother you learned a piece of Gomorrah is there a page you can borrow where you don't find argumentation no there isn't I mean maybe he got a short page somewhere in shots where there's only I got the story one second one second there's one page Asia mccoman I remember learning that this year okay okay thank you for that thank you for the correction let's go on it's a thousand ever since that [ __ ] niggling means during Field park and I'll be referring to this word I want you guys have to get used to it this niggler has said this [ __ ] means the revealed part of Torah and Allah so that's called mister muscle is not really Mister it's ethics but Mr refers to Kabbalah and hasidus niggler is a is a short one word to refer to everything else so in in in in these sections of Toyota have neglows the word niggler means apparent revealed that have been revealed to us in other words we can understand it we can argue with we can debate it we find extreme opposite opinions throughout the Talbot they will be able difference both opinions are the words of the Living God says it doesn't say hello say a-level Halo the words of beshabai and the words of basilu devre elokai high are the words of the Living God what God the term used is different elokim plural God forbid it sounds like there are many gods not high high is for the singular is for the plural and that's the doctor never says Russian Robin why he says you know why it looks away from the connection because we're referring to the the source of life where the service Israel to all Jewish Souls that are generally divided into three groups the amen smile next page page darling the empsa the right the left and the middle which are morphically to our wording understanding and life has said kindness and judgment Etc and the ferris would be you know in between Etc foreign and favor kindness to be lenient in their rulings and in their approach Etc holy Canada as is known in the from the the the Kabula he says listen why does it say that it's the tiger is coming from different Kim Kai now look it should say like is one God the answer is of course there's one Hashem I've robbed there's only one God but God had makes within himself different approaches so it's all within God but within God itself there are different ways of expressing God and that's why it says Elohim not high not elukai you that we should know this is a very important point that we should know that it all begins in that little kid in other words Hillel when you ask someone there's been they'll tell you yeah was more strictly was more lenient okay that's why someone might even tell you though why because beshama's Soul comes from gavora and they still also comes from hazard but that's an individual right right and for that matter you could argue why are some people more strict and stringent some people more lenient you look at their nature some people are born this way some people are born that way what we're learning over here is something very different it's not just that but actually it begins in God it's no longer a human trait a psychological trait or even a spiritual trait it's a Godly trait it's a big hiddish to say that I call this barkle himself has not just room once that's it to Ferris he wants it God with a capillation he wants the apostolone so God wants it that's God and if if if if if you strip God from gavora you don't have God now you have God but you don't have a part of it you don't have him because Hashem has everything in it that this is such an important thought especially when it comes you know to people arguing the positions and this and that Akiva right but keep his company he says no Hashem just loves Crescent and they see some of the students of Arabic acting with they say out you don't belong here there's no room to lead this is out of here the other ones say wait a minute Hashem likes only leniuses and doesn't want string to see get out of it you don't belong here they died they died like what it says like noble coverage happens they didn't respect each other there was a plague and like buddy Mary stopped dying so that's one of the reasons for the simcha what do we see that explains this that Rabbi Akiva as a rabbi had room for both and what we're adding here in this piece of Tanya is that it begins in God it begins in Hashem and that's why it says hi it's as though this plurality in God even though God is what what does not deliver saying this for he's saying this because here we're talking about hey find your place in Torah that identifies your particular issue and through my book which is quoting a collecting from Torah you'll find your answers so he says look there are differences within Hashem to Ferris and it's not clear which which is for me how do I know which is for me in other words like this if I begin of rum you know I have a tendency to be very strict so I'm going to look into the Torah into those parts that are very strict really maybe you're you're part of tiger is actually the part which is lenient but it happens to that's where it's found how do you know where it's found that's what he's saying here that there's different there's plenty different place within Hashem for different approaches and therefore a book doesn't give you that information but at Sadiq who knows your soul does give you that information and therefore his question is how could a book replace that's that's the reason for this let me just finish this paragraph third line needless to say foreign things that are concealed not negloss revealed but how these thoroughs the word this star hidden hidden things that only God the Hashem okay knew only God knows man cannot figure this out what is this refer to trilo it's an Aramaic for era or fear Arabic for love forever that resonates with a within a person's mind and heart the wholehearted delay every person has their own amount of Ava and year of love and fear the full mother based on what they come to in their heart of the standing in the heart which causes it says literally they become known in the gates Bilo the husband the the more the desire explains Kyle correct she becomes known right the bat becomes the the desire says how is the bow the bow goes by look how is the woman going on become known to her husband referring to God Basha Aaron from the word delay delayed their measure their gate their approach in other words the relationship between the woman and the man Asus Kyle the spiritual context is an individual one so know that this when it comes to law love it comes to law you say take out the sugar give a look look what the law is well guess what we have differences between Beijing this time and that tana and later and everyone has an opinion why because opinions are within hashems without within Hashem Hashem allows and wants opinions so therefore you can't tell me to look into the Torah book which is obvious it says this is this is you find differences needless to say when it comes to issues of the heart feelings how can you tell me that a book can give answers to everyone's feelings when everyone's feelings are different so in other words you're going to quote you're going to quote ethics right say this Musser Kabbalah very nice but everyone then takes it and and and and and and you know internalizes it and based on their internalization of the issue and who they are they come up with a feeling of love and awe and everyone's different so that's why his question is that's why he says coach gave a couple claimer and needless to say when it comes to Allah you would think it's dry Cut and Clear and nevertheless there's differences surely when it comes to uh emotional issues and spiritual issues there are vast differences between people and therefore a book is not adequate in giving me a solution for my particular problem but when I if I talk to the rabbit and I go into this and it's one-on-one and especially as I said in the previous class or two that is the connection between the soul of the Rebel and the soul of the individual so then you know you tell me exactly what you sense in My Soul Rebel and you say this is what you need okay and I don't and and if the husband believes that the rabbit knows those things which otherwise she wouldn't come to him usually so therefore he now can act upon it so this strengthens the second question that the altareba has how can I justify telling them don't come to me anymore to have a face-to-face encounter a meeting a discussion and it's being substituted with a book called The Tanya that's the end of the two questions now let's go to the answers do we have time what time is it now about seven minutes after three yeah third time ah says the out to them but he answers the he answers the second question first this is an answer now to the second question foreign you know fellas he says I'm writing the safer for people who I know you'll die after the word that your Daya um who I recognize hey we know each other we know each other a long time we've been having lots of conversations it's each individual one of the of the Chabad fraternity called anage say no that's within our country I.E Russia you know Ukraine etc those countries belarusia and all that White Russian law and those that are nearby probably a reference to Ukraine whatever the words of closeness and warmth and love were found between ourselves we had very warm conversations when we when we met personally regularly funny and it's revealed before because all the hidden Secrets kind of of their heart their hidden issues those things that are deeply think in their mind that they thought about and they wouldn't share with anyone but they shared with me it matters about Vegas Hashem at least believe that it dependent on Hashem in other words you guys came to discuss with me the issues that are on your heart and this thought and that thought how you can't tell them it's the issues that every serious Avid Hashem should bother you know and you discussed it with me so therefore you're telling me that my book can't help you I know you guys so what's that they they ain't anything I don't know so there's nothing new Under the Sun I mean that's I know all of you so why can't my book be a replacement for that if I didn't know you I can hear it but I know you I lay him teeth let me finish the thought and then I want to say something else upon them my words shall drip will the Shady and my my language eight safer through the pen Of The Scribe who could trace the mainland these pamphlets had the crime of Shameless which we call collection of sayings we'll cut them gatherly be sweat him from the mouth of the swarim praying to the rambam the Shalom and be safe him in the mouth of the Scribe foreign which we are we know we we know in other words we all know who these remedies that we learned from doctor I was saying kind of who I'm sharing these thoughts from the tasks some of them include Scholars that have alluded to in the igles in the Holy letters that we received from our teachers drama here is referring to remnants who was one of the Refuge of the Alta Reba before he left in 1777 I believe to Eric's Israel he was like the student who took over for the market and who passed away right 1773 and when he left the Earth's row the the um he he appointed the outer rabbit to take care of that particular region called White Russia for her so he they they they wrote to each other so the altanaba says I'm also including letters and guidance that I got from my rebbe May Come Close very soon Victor some shall Mighty VPN some of this advice I heard from their actual mouths are colors their holy mouths and play mother when they were with us still in white Russia the Kula made sure this and all of them are responses to the many questions I shall show you a number eight sir that are I've been asked for advice of our countries everyone constantly asks based on where they are in their life luscious eights obnoxious to seek advice for their soul sometimes the memory um loss of memory is common so even once if if someone heard from the advice they go home and his wife says what did the rabbit say he says uh I don't remember uh maybe this maybe that right you come out of a sheer you come up your wife see you wow wow wow it's great cheer what did he say uh I can't repeat it right man say I resemble that remark yes so drama saying the exact same thing that's why I'm writing it down says the algorithm once you have it in writing you don't need memory open the pager look okay I've noted I've written down all the responses I'll call her shyless and all the questions for an everlasting the ice sign and memory for everyone should be a memory between their eyes stop pushing yourself to come to see me and try to use protection to get in he says the word keep ahead because in this Tanya you must say about in these pamphlets you must see my which became the Tanya you must see my gold actually you'll find peace for you so the eights in the rain and the right advice the whole governor of course you loved everything that's difficult for you by the Sherman Sam there's nothing year Libra and your heart will be secure but two of Hashem securing God gave me but they know forever so basically Dr Pepper says my dear friends he says I understand your issue I know you are it's better you're having a writing you don't forget and it's everything here so of course everyone will ask out the question hey the doubt that ever know me they didn't know hello didn't know your innocent enough and everybody else was exotic and he saw that whoever picks up this safer the Tanya and learns him he knew him and that's a tradition no one can prove that to you no one if they tell you tell you they can they're a liar but it's a amnesty tradition and the truth is if you want to just for a moment extrapolate I've seen this and I would think some of you saw it those people that have learned to Tanya seriously throughout during their lifetime and live with it and think about it they feel mummish that they left out to them because and I'm not talking about cursory learning I'm talking about learning it over and over each year and that dialogue about it and then implementing it and it becomes Who You Are like you know you watch Lego boss in the morning you put on your Kipper living with the spiritual advice and guidance that the outer ever gives a yeet in this Tanya and you live with it and it has nothing to do with being a habbatic it could be a lit [ __ ] an asphartic and it could be anyone we're talking about this is a safer avoidance Hashem thought today but wanted this safer to be what's called for the entire Jewish people is Hashem advice Hashem doesn't have senses on it and avoids Hashem doesn't have a beard on it and I think the sheb doesn't have a strible on it a voice Hashem is serving God and I tell you from from this urine that was starting to give and many others I get emails and and messages and comments from people all over many of them will never learn to grow up in literacy yeshivas foreign you will see as you'll feel as though you're talking to an individual called The Slayer Salma the balatanya but again that only you could say I could I could talk about and encourage it and you know but only the person who after learning Tanya again I emphasize seriously not reading Couch Potato Tanya let's you know while you're half asleep you know I'm not talking about that I'm talking about an engaging experience with a mahabir with an author at Sadiq it is safer and the same thing by the way Hillel is with the safer with the Slender Man and with the commander and all the Sadiq and like I told you when I went that poor him and this young man probably twice his age is sitting there poor him with the swarm of the civil and it has the candles and he has a chair and he was living with the company to the trailer rapper and it's not my business to say he's a faker he's not a faker that's between him and Hashem I'm not his judge but is it possible yeah it's possible so when a person learns the Tanya says the altered but you're Dyer Makita I know them I know in other words and and if you think about it as we'll learn later you'll see David like after I dressed as every issue like I mean he addresses the issues of of of um nocturnal you know omissions uh you know which is common for the Youth all youth religious are not religious he addresses Lush and Huron he addresses anger he addresses conceit what doesn't he address here can you tell me what's missing everything's here if you re if you really want to be open everything is natanya every Melody and he speaks about when I doubt them and thoughts come into my mind and he asks what kind of thoughts are they this isn't talking about 20 chapter 26-34 what thoughts are they are they coming at this time at that time he makes mama she split hairs any any and he analyzes when the thoughts are coming what type of thoughts are coming and that's why the safer atanya has become especially today especially today with organizations like you know uh summer there to throw and and by your note and on and on and on and what I would love to see I would love to see every roof and every school offer a package here to their country all that grabbing millinowitz all of us did he said to me you have to teach Tanya my shoe so I said to remember but lindowitz you're you're much greater than my and you learned Tanya but if you'll come for four years he says no no you're a bad picture you know the Messiah you know the tradition therefore every one of us has to the teacher should be someone who knows the the Messiah I said fine and then after we finish six weeks this was in the shoe and their his shoe I finished he said no where is the syllabus the core syllabus for the next six to ten weeks I said why do we need I have already my five ten guys they come at 9 15. Tuesday Wednesday night whatever it was with learning where we became a lot of your friends hello from from from from uh it's called this attended a lot some and and it's great with learning he says no no no no no no I want a course syllabus and he paid himself to put an ad a full page ad in the Ramadan uh you know newspaper or whatever they give out every shot every week yeah that's that's really what be a Vivaldi if you had in more places yes you will I just wanted to say that that this week they announced that Yehuda the son of Robert shapira at a Scottish is going to start a time this year that's it I think Moshe was involved in organizing I don't know oh that's great that's great what time is it now yes yes yes yes