1984 Kos Shel Brocha

a Gooden summer a great summer to everyone it is hard tough she'll pay hadashah who is and I want to share with you something that happened to me and my wife personally 36 years ago and we were newlyweds we married in 1984 and we were married several months February and the Reverend I sure as he did every year and that was believe in June that year May or June anyway we lived a block away from 770 so after the Iranian I said my wife I'll come home and to be with a few hours since you know she's by herself and I'll go back for Croatia bravo Bravo takes three hours or so I'll go back if a bringin was a bonfire and get it started about 8:30 I believe was so it finished 1:00 1:30 or so and I thought I'd go back like 3:30 or so and you know still have time to get those who prefer the special have dollar wine from the rebus cup which is a big brother a big blessing and when I came back it was all over that I've had finished giving golf casual Bravo and I was very upset because we were scheduled to leave early July to Marin County California where they're ever placed us as his schlafen his emissaries in California it's north of San Francisco across the Golden Gate Bridge that section is called Marin County so I went immediately to wrap a groaner in the office at night probably about three 3:30 3:30 at night and I told them that we're going gosh listen normally there ever would give a bottle of what gear to those that are communal workers that are him and a bunny and other activities that were on behalf of either Skype and this you would share with the people there you'd make a bringin and you would share words of title Cassidy's and I didn't have it and so it wasn't it wasn't just for me personally you know it wasn't for me personally was with people there and that ever wanted this look him his emissaries to do this and is it abundant to do this so Robert Dornan said said let me see what I can do and I'll let you know tomorrow tomorrow is today today meeting is so hot in the afternoon I get a call for a beggar owner tells me that he went into the dead and he told that ever what happened and that I took from his case and he poured some into a little flesh of a little bottle of Mashka vodka and he gave it to me and he said give it to him that should be Rafa and for his laces and I don't know the exact words I don't know but that was the idea and I remind myself of this story 36 years later not just because this is the anniversary of when it happened but for us to to take a lesson what's the lesson the lesson of every piece of history and every story is that there is someone who is looking after you thinking about you and of course the able God Almighty is our Father and he cares for us he thinks about us and everything's exact and divine providence etc but when you identify with a rebel with that sadiq the huset can rest assured that the sadiq is thinking about him and that sadek understands that sometimes we make mistakes we make miscalculations and we think we'll be in time to get the equation Brooklyn and for good reasons to spend time with your new married wife and you don't wanted to be by yourself etc and meanwhile you make a mistake and you miscalculate you come late so we must know there is never it's never too late yes they talk if I follow it's never too late this is the general lesson that's what I am doing for Pesach Shanee and the Rebbe wants every closet of his man woman child to know this that's one lesson that we could walk away with another important lesson is that it comes in continuation to shoes shoes man Martin tyrosine oh it's very important for us to make real time decisions practical real time decisions to set times during the week where we learn not only learn attend the she or have a have Rousseau a study partner if you can't get to a shear get a study partner and have the rights already in this letter as too many people that it's viable to do that because many times you say what do I need a part and I learn myself will you end up sitting down at the table or the couch you fall asleep you get into a conversation the phone rings and you get busy and there goes your learning so this is a time to resolve to make a seder and learning and keep shooting this in a simple way it doesn't have to be you know for a long time 15 minutes a half an hour depending on your time but it should be a clears benefit the previous level and if my Morin is this courses talks about a career service man a set time then he talks about a kriyas beneficia it's a sole commitment than the shamah commits and this is very important so the idea of bringing a message to others requires you yourself to be inspired if you're not inspired and you don't have what to share it will reflect itself in the one that you're talking to so Maya Shem held that for this event that happened 36 years ago and it's alive now as it was then there is no digression and diminishment of of this message we should live with it we should implement it and as the leper the Frieda cadet would say but simple Bohemia's and if you wanted to be by simcha if you sorry few wanted to be the previous you wanted to be internalized begin with simple because simple has played its call up Durham simcha shatters all convention and boundaries and limitations and that itself opens up the inner heart the premise I am Hashem help they should be done in a healthy way and we should ultimately see Machir take a new cut if mom is very speedily through the building of the base I'm ignorant hater be your main Emmaus