Healing Hearts 3

radiate loving respectful feelings towards people everywhere what are you telling them what's the message you just gave them your call they don't vote about their uh let's say cruel intentions you're above their intentions well you're thinking they have intended they don't they want love too they're afraid also so then why do people do that to us it's crazy why don't we go in love when they take any questions you think they're gonna crush it they're not gonna go we're saying we're not stingy with our vulnerability we don't really care you're saying i'm not stingy with my vulnerability i don't really care that's from uh from henry okay yeah you open the door for that person to come in excellent so let me explain why very very hard to open that door i'm saying if you just open your door and you start sharing loving feelings and get rid of your attitude and get rid of your image and get rid of the ego and stop being so darn protective of that heart that got crushed one day you can see this by the way in children you'll see how they play together beautifully and then after a while they start once they got crushed as teenagers they stop intermixing so much they choose very few friends who they let in very few people are safe to be in there so what do you do you say from now on i am going to be a loving human being do you know what that says you see what's your name blood once i say that i'm a loving human being what does vlad now realize it could be the same that well no it's that here's one safe place to hang out when you start putting love out there again as opposed to the drought what you did when you're a kid was you set you closed down the valve you closed off the valve when you open that valve as an adult you're telling all adults this is a safe place for love to occur to occur i am an address where love occurs and you become like a magnet because everyone you meet everyone you meet has been looking for a safe place for love to occur everyone's been looking for a safe place to love for love to occur and you can be that safe place for others where they don't feel you're going to make fun of them you know how do you think i might feel right now i don't feel safe right now i'm serious i don't feel safe sorry you got to give me some luck felix i don't want i'm just saying you understand like here i make an important point and he thinks it's funny but i've lost my safety now so like right in the point of i was just commenting on the point to my friend okay i'm just i'm just messing with you but i just thought but i want you to get that it's part of being the next rabbi who teaches you make sure he feels safe that this is a place where where connection and respect and love occurs see when you do this let's just go with this and then we'll end this is it what are you thinking i'm only going to share love if i see there's love safe for me to be loving if i see out there it's safe for that that's what you're saying but the problem is that's what they're saying so no one's doing it once you say that i don't really care what's going on out there i myself am creating that centrifugal spin-off of loving feeling and respect of human beings that's coming off of me well you just told every person in your surrounding that you're a safe place where their deepest need for love can be and you actually wind up living in a world like that and i promise you if you take my advice right now and just go on you guys going on a trip or something going out yeah wherever you're going if you take this and just go with it i promise you you're going to get amazing results and just go with it forever and then you will marry and you will have your heart there and you will rehabilitate your ability to love all together so that you will have a beautiful life shalom everyone