Why Do I Keep Choosing The Wrong Partner? #dating #relationship #jewish

why do I keep choosing the wrong Partners the mystics teach us something very profound we often choose those partners that subconsciously We Believe can help us heal unresolved traumas so if I had a very very wounded relationship with my father or with my mother and may choose a woman will bring up those very wounds A desperate hope that now I'll be able to recreate a healthy relationship and heal those wounds hoping that now as everything gets reenacted there's going to be the opportunity for healing what often happens is his trauma triggers her trauma her trauma triggers his trauma and now they get stuck even deeper in the abyss this is where maturity and spiritual awareness comes in cuz when they could look at themselves rather than blame the others and identify the wounds now suddenly their partner can become a true Catalyst for amazing self-awareness and healing