Rabbi YY Jacobson: Live! Part 2 | Yud Tes Kislev Farbrengen

and you become connected so there was one of the he gave a mus and he said that there was once a m a teacher who was hired by a that were Jews who had ins and they didn't have a infrastructure of a community they would hire a teacher for their children CU they didn't have their Isa they lived far away they had an in a kma in Poland or Ukraine so they had these mald they would hire to come between PES and and sukus and you know they would come for a few months and and then they would go home they would teach their children so he said there was aik there was a Jew who had an in and he didn't know how to read anything he was an illiterate person was a and he had a m that he hired to teach his children and he would also read his letters for him because he could read so once there's a letter there was a letter and this year the M starts reading the letter for the yesik and he's reading the letter in the middle of the letter the man who owned the theik faints what happened the letter was written the news that his father passed away so the teacher was reading it the m and this man fainted sobat asked not Al was one of the he said I don't understand who read the letter not the he should have fainted he's the one who had access to the information the other one just hearded clay sheni from him why did the teacher not faint so he said he's reading a letter he's close he has more information he could read every word the only one the only way the other person access it is through him so he said there's two ways people could learn and two ways people could learn one is like the teacher they're reading a letter and they know and they analyze it and they Master it it's it's not talking to me it's not my father it's not my father it's not my mother it's not my soul it's not me it's it's beautiful ideas he says then it remains that way it remains abstract the way a person learns is a way it's mine it's mine it's me this is describing who I am it's me it's really really me the whole is trying to tell you who you are not who somebody else is it's not about a sadic or about some great n who knew how to do Miracles it's about you it's about me and me here right now right here right now this you say and those who to learn have now the privilege to give it to others not only through learning but through experience I want from fredman actually I heard from my brother heard fromed there was a famous it's called This is an ad and a very deep story so I'm just if you don't have Adel kite in depth you're not going to understand it it's not a g story it's not you know Internet it's not it's not a it's not one of these mes it's it's a There Was You Heard is a city in Ukraine it's midway between and liadi 1807 there was a Al's granddaughter married his grandson the had a daughter had a son his name was and he actually passed away a year before the wedding I think so his the father wasn't at the wedding but was there for his anle so had Al came to the wedding and the came to the wedding with two Zas and many others came to the wedding I think also the CH I think also maybe came to the wedding and all the came from from because they knew the was going to be is going to be there was I believe the wedding was Friday they actually they got married on Friday and there were many said at the wedding and many are printed we learned it once is from then from that from that had an he loved they loved each other they knew each other from the M they were both students of the mag and they had a tremendous a to the point that in one of the one of the the end of the was there whatever is here something of that long when when he was arrested when was arrested after so he sent the P to and when the came to the the asked him what his mother's name was he said he forgot to ask because he was running so said Ben what's his mother's name he said he doesn't know open the it opened up the par m yob saw that there's grain in MIT actually says that there's a good in CU Y is there so the said that was his mother's name r because his mother's name was Rifka not because it was it wasn't you and [Laughter] me somebody once came by for dollarars a b with with with with round he asked why changed says don't rely on that you have to follow the not but the first so he said why did he change and it's an of SK because if you take out chabas early right according to shab much later that's what he asks looked at him he can't so uh oh so they had to the exactly what the had to hear so uh they had a very very deep relationship and B there was even there was uh uh there was some of the of the mag who had a different with Al was fire for the AL he writes it kisar what the mag said about Al Etc so uh at the end of the when it was finished the the got into his wagon to go home to leadi so he had a balaga balaga who was a Coachman and he was his balaga for many many years so he knew he was a very and he was a that's what he did he would live he was a chauffeur when he had to go in the wagon so looks at this and you know when your father says we know what do you say about my son what do you say about my daughter wants to hear a report so he turns to this B and he says what's your opinion about so this was a but he was around the for decades so he says he's Wonder of Wonders but a re like you is not what's the the was his was he was you saw the was something else they say he once came to a town for shabas and he wanted to stay in some body's home the's home so he asked if he could stay there so he said yeah but I heard that chabas you jump on tables and you start dancing I don't deal I don't like that it has to be with a so if you make a condition that you're not going to get ecstatic and go out of your you could stay here if not not so the says no problem he made it tonight okay Friday night they make and then it's time to serve the food so the waiter whoever was M over there comes to the B he says Ackle fish so the bad jumped on out of his chair say fish fish a fish I want a I want and he jumped on the table and he started to sing and started to dance fish and it was did it after shabas he went in he was and he I want to ask M says what are he asking forgiveness he said I breached the I breached a protocol I made a commitment and I'm sorry I apologize she says no you don't have to apologize what do you mean you made a condition with me I meant you shouldn't prepare to do it it just happens I didn't want it to be used to say you know the somebody gives a the research it was all prepared this is an abomination over I'm not telling you you shouldn't prepare you're allowed to prepare it's Pad but theud was it's a prepar is that's not that's not that's not plugged in that's not plugged in plugged in is you let the electricity flow so he says I didn't want you to prepare for it it happened spontaneously was what this B was saying is to take and it should go to the kishkas to go into theam into the Goof that the person becomes one to take in all the parts of the person and to be able to allow the person in as a manifestation as an embodiment with everything that comes with the physical world to be able to remain plugged into a every moment of the day that's a real that's what a real Reb is here to teach to teach every person how they could be that channel and that's why the AL had so much my and he wanted everything to be explained why a lot of his felt it was not the right thing you could see from the other of they're all so holy but it's always n it's like Sparks beautiful ver and it it hits the spot if you're ad if you have ad kite it hits the spot if not it doesn't hit anything so may not hit anything it's just more mus more mus about how you you're supposed to be holy and you're not holy and you're bringing more Clippers and you're bringing more so it's not hitting the spot but everything was with why is not but knew very well there may be a generation you're not going to have to look at how he do you're not have the you're not you're not gonna have the you're not gonna have the when you saw them you saw you saw people that their was revealed and was revealed it touched you it could have not touched you so your own came out made it a system made it a system he wanted that the should get it it should become yours should be able to live with it so 225 years later after you when sometimes you look around you don't see to put it mildly to put it mildly what's left so the cynicism that exists is only because because we don't realize and recognize the is the and the pus that was revealed with the B and the and the Al and that's very very big tragedy very big tragedy so now we need outside of already accomplished a lot of it I'm sure they should also know the of and today it's not in a situation people are afraid I'm not today all this is completely irrelevant if you don't believe me you can ask Hamas again somebody asked me here one of the shim in a 100 years which movement of Judaism is going to win which which movement is going to succeed is it going to be the L is it going to be the Yesa is it going to be the modern Orthodox is it is it going to be the laich going to be the is it going to be this [Music] that so I said you're missing the whole [Laughter] point you're missing the whole point the moment I'm still in that space it's color War so who's going to win color War the red team or The Blue Team the place of Victory is when a is going to win the is when goodness is going to win when elus is going to win that's that's who going to win that's who elus is going to win ano mvad is going to win love is going to win over hate truth is going to live over falsehood that's who's going to win the moment that's going to be col my team won color War so I'm back in my ego my team won not your team why do I need my team to win so I should be able to feel good about my ego that my team wants so then I'm The Biggest Loser the winner becomes the loser you know it's like in coup's therapy when the husband says I'm going to come out of therapy winning you're going to come out the Biggest Loser not they just came in this moment it wasn't prepared the husband says I'm going to come out I'm going to prove her wrong you're going to be admit that I'm right you maybe but you're going to be the worst looser what are you going to be left with you're going to be left with I'm right and you're wrong now we have shom bias you don't exist and I exist exist the same is true with CLA exactly the same thing I'm going to win you're going to lose you're going to win I'm going to lose so who's going to be the Biggest Loser the winner is going to be the Biggest Loser the first letter that Al wrote when he came back from pburg it's printed in says why means I became small why did you become small somebody gives does you so many favors you feel better why k says that's the difference between and it's a difference between and the more you give him the more arrogant he becomes and like the more you give him and he says why because whenever hasem isal himself to a person through so his Lo is the closer you are to what happens you become smaller and smaller and smaller and when you you disappear not you disappear because you're a you disappear because you're a channel for Infinity cuz the ego becomes small because you're part of the true greatness it's not you disappear because you're AATA it's because now you're a channel for the source of light you're much bigger than you so k and what does he say he says that now that we saw these so he says I'm warning everybody that they should not look at the MN them and make fun of them and mock them and put them down and whistle at them and tell them we won this is what his message after now you could understand this man suffered a lot because of certain people he didn't suffer a little bit he suffered a lot he was almost killed because of a m and here's where you see the emite of in such a moment he never got unplugged he never went into a place I'll show those low lives a lot of them were Tak low lives trust me not everybody somewh Hal but somewhere despicable people who succumb to the to do what they could do so you would think at some moment you you you let go you know yeah show them you know here you see what elus is here you see the adite the the purity of a person and then he wrote letter after letter remember they're are brothers they are brothers love them love them love them and ultimately y the EMS is going to come out and they're going to know the EMS everything is going to come out everything will be true don't but don't go into a place of hate the God there was even one of the masim the masim hated more than anybody else one of the Mas writes he says this letter from the AL here you see what the great person is such a letter you won't find in anyone's literature the the God and the reason he could be like this is because he was plugged in when you plugged in you could be like that cuz I'm not going to allow myself to go into a place of N and hate you know why because it's not just the other person is going to lose we're all GNA I'm going to lose I he did what he did he did Tak and does they have to do TR they have to do tra they have to do trva and the one who mastered ultimately he became a a poor man he was the r of a big Ser the of pinsk his name was a he threw out the b i mean he did a lot of things this guy he had a interesting resume at the end of his life he became a shik he became an alcoholic and he became a beggar and they say that he used to go you cuz do was he wanted a drink and he would say you have to thank me give me more because of me you have you hear because of me then he his was that his grandchild became a very big he was love he was to the AL would refuse used to go away from that place and the same thing I saw by the reb all the years the Reb suffered the suffered from terrible opposition and for what everything he did somebody had to oppose it was half of a you would think huh what whatever especially it came to the the is one of the most painful things why from The Six Day War that almost at every spoke about when I was growing up in the 70s and 80s there was almost no didn't spend a half an hour an hour sometimes an hour and a half to talk about the situation and the mistakes that are being made and I used to wonder there 5,000 they're not military people they're not government people they don't even know what he's talking about it's talk about and it was almost like the like it was it burst out so he spoke for hours about but then at some point he would start talking about and one of the main points he would make almost every shabas was that they're making a terrible terrible mistake they don't realize that they are surrounded by people that want every Drew dead if they had the ability they would do exactly what the Nazis did and when you have a snake you have to cut off the head of the snake if you don't cut off the head of the snake and you let it be it's going to come and bite you it would be like in 1945 the Americans and the British say you know we already bombed the German cities enough let's leave Hitler with this bunker we already taught him a lesson and what would happen today everybody would be speaking German and none of them would be Jewish those would be speaking German now theba was not hawkish theba was not a he was not a hawkish person you know what hawkish is huh they all know what hawkish means what some people their nature their hws they're they're aggressive we're going to fight we don't give in the was pun there was nobody who spoke so much about world peace and Mia and and that ultimately the whole world is going to be peaceful and that's what we're looking for and we're doing for his whole nature was full of peace and love but it came to this sug he said you have to understand that any compromise you're making that could possibly endanger one Jewish life is and it's going to haunt us horribly and I remember I was a kid and he would speak about it for a long time and he would analyze and explain and once that EBA said people asked me what 30 years he started 30 years Non-Stop and then he said there were three million Jews not six today six 6.6 then it was three he said and he encouraged the leaders privately and publicly constantly every prime minister every General whoever he could that their whole way of thinking needs to change and that they had opportunities time and time and time again to be able to achieve what hasem needs them to achieve but they didn't do it they didn't listen they mocked them n what they would do is you send in a few you you know it's like the devil would compare to a cancer there's a raging cancer cancer the cancer wants to kill you the doctor goes in starts the surgery says there's too much blood and he leaves the cancer inside he said don't worry I got rid of 40% of the cancer I got rid of 90% of the cancer you know what the end of the story is guy is dead you don't make peace with cancer that's trying to kill you you can't you leave a few cancer cells boom you have to cut out you have to cut off the the head of the snake atel did not do this for a few reasons first of all they did not read reality they did not understand the reality they thought that the other side are like Jews they want to raise their children in peace they just want territory they want Comfort they want to play golf on Sunday eat sushi on Friday eat charant on chabas and have a good life they did not realize you're dealing with a religious war that wants to see every Jew dead and for them that's the biggest how many Jews are surprised now by the atrocities all the why are you surprised what's the surprise the moment the fogal family was slaughtered in the whole family Friday night that's when Israel should have done what they're doing now not now now they did it to 1500 people with the kidnapped and the Captivity and all the wounded they did it to one family you see who she's children who she's children of somebody Shing children that's what they didn't it's a div this not territory issue but Jews didn't understand that they said n they're like us you give them Gaza you give them a they also want peace no tur are just paid agents by Iran that's it Iran pays the off they pay tuition from Iran that's it's fine it works for them don't take them so seriously they're Iran agents I don't think they're Jews I doubt they're really Jewish I doubt they're Jewish I'll be very surprised that they're Jewish I can't say for sure I can't open a and tell you that they're not Jewish but I'll be surprised something is is off over there and uh it's something is off it's like somebody marching with Hitler it's something is off it's not it's not something is very off and then there's also Jews that don't look like but they speak the same way and there's something very very off with them also either they're very sick or they're still traumatized from the Holocaust they think maybe we deserve it I don't know they're very sick there some Jews who are very very sick very sick people very sick you have to have compassion for them but not tolerate their views because they're they're lethal they're poison the second reason isra couldn't do it is because Jews are and they have the med says if you have to those who are cruel you're going to be cruel to those that you have to have the third reason is the worst the worst the worst tragedy and that is because of the lack of T Israel did not feel the moral strength and justification that ER is entirely is our home if you come to shoot my kids in my home there's no issue but they started to believe there's two Sid there's another home here you had a holocaust fine but you can't take away a home they started to believe that narrative they couldn't defeat sahal through the tanks but they defeated sahal through Mor morality the Jewish people stopped believing that it's their home and that's why T is so important the first rash inas they stopped teaching what's the first Rashi in Bas first rashi rashi wrote this in the 10 hunds and he was in France during the Crusades there were no 6 million Jews living in there were a few Jews in the question was the Muslims or the Christians are going to what does Rashi say that the whole sa is extra started is a book ofz the first Mitzvah in the few from you could put in in so why is the whole safe of it's extra you want to go you want to teach me history make a safe of History tell you his lessons it's so what does say from why was it written one day the nations of the world are going to come to the Jewish people and say you're a bunch of Thieves you're a bunch of thugs you are conquerors you are occupying you are colonizers you are in aeid state list them at them you're Thugs and Jews are going to say oh you're right we're Tak thugs so you know what we'll go back to the 67 B borders that invention was a Jewish invention none of the Arabs say that the whole Israel is an occupation we decided we'll give Gaza and you'll be happy no every point of the Jews didn't want to accept that CU that means you're dealing with a SW for an enemy and they wanted to believe that we could play golf we could be calm and the Reb said you're dealing with the head of a snake say the truth this is our home not a vestage of Terror will be tolerated it will be cut down mercilessly you don't put one life in danger so Rashi says the whole sa of was written to give Jews an answer to say God created the world he took one little tiny piece of land the size of New Jersey and he gave it to the Jewish people that's it it's a match on a football field but that match belongs to the Jewish people instead they said the UN gave it to us the UN also says that Zionism is racism the chairman of the UN says Israel is being disproportionate disproportion so the the same un then there's a balur declaration balur is dead many years and British changed they made a white paper this reason that reason that reason all reason but the core is not there there Muslims are religious people they Allah they were screaming Allah you have billions of Christians and Muslims who believe in the Bible the only ones who are afraid to quote the Bible are the Jewish people who gave the world the Bible That's why T is so important this whole division between those who learn and those who fight is is such a it it undermines the Jewish people T is is the AR needs morale especially a Jewish Army when a Jewish Army doesn't have morale they're killed the morale of the Jewish people is the my son men he was killed by the Germans I think July says the says brings it in Hashem was ready to forgo the time of theban idolatry adultery and murder spilling of blood but not come on if your son comes to you and says tati I want to quit you I don't want to look anymore but you know what I'm not going to kill anybody I'm not going to do I'm not going to do G you say you know what those I don't care that's what I care it's strange that undermines the world it's it's it's it's heinous it's evil that was says such a true he said gives an example there were two countries and they were enemies they were fighting each one has an army and weapons and one country fights against the other one and sometimes they win the war they defeat them whatever their mission was they accomplished he says but that's not the end of the story you know why cuz tomorrow the other country might attack back it happened that there were Wars one country was defeated they had to back off they had casualties whatever it is they had to give up territory but 10 years later 100 years later 50 years later it happens constantly the nation attacks Six Day War Israel won and then here again Israel made a mistake they right away said we're going to give everything back the Arabs didn't accept it and then they accepted a ceasefire that ebba said the moment the ceasefire is going to start start Egypt is going to prepare for the next War everybody laughed and then came the MIP War Lebanon Bean didn't want to finish in Lebanon because there were four mothers screaming and the said what the people you're living in Lebanon is going to create aus now the lean but would always say but since has incredible power to change reality and that's why the one sheep can live between 70 wolves despite that the crazy danger but a Jew has to do things Al P he can't just say there'll be miracles you have to do things out P so says so one country lost the war a few years later the other country attacks he says that's all if the country still retains its Army and its weapons but what happens if the country doesn't only lose the war the country gives their weapons to the enemy if the country gives their weapon to the enemy he says n says the next War they're not going to win because they're empty-handed they don't have weapons agav one of the worst mistakes of Israel was they resurrected the PLO call it the Palestinian Authority they gave them a police force and that's when the Oslo created suicide bombers from the police that were trained by the Israel themselves the way that EBA was screaming about these things I can't even tell you every shabas an hour I could still hear it and he was na his whole soul went out and a moment before he did a Mas and then a moment after was for an hour and then there was a p in ra andash but then he would start this says listen to means the Jewish people lost the war the took over is horrible says there's no the worst of the worst but he says but tomorrow the may take over but he says when this B they're not connected they're not learning anymore they don't have their weapons they don't understand who they are they can't even fight back when you don't believe is yours when you don't understand who the Jewish people are when you don't understand who the enemy is when you don't have an answer to list we're just a regular Nation trying to make peace and we want the world to like us so now you lost your weapon you lost your spirit you lost your energy that's the B TAA b mean I don't have a compass anymore there's no right and wrong anymore I may do terrible things but if this there's somebody challenging me there something motivating me H yeah and the last thing is because of this very very afraid of what the world is going to say the Jewish people taught the world morality but now we're looking to the world to tell us what's moral they're going to tell tell us what's moral what's not moral thousands of years ago most of the nations were still cannibals they were mention fores they stood in forest and they ate human flesh and the Jewish people then spoke about not to eat [Music] a when Jewish people start gleaning their morality from people who couldn't kill less if there's another Holocaust so what do you end up every move before I make the move I have to know if this one likes me and if this one agrees and if that one agrees and this is not coming from a h perspective we want to be aggressive and we like we don't love war we love peace we want Messiah we don't want war we want peace but it comes from a healthy perspective of understand for me this is very very painful but obvious the pain of the reality I grew up my whole youth was growing up almost every single chabas here in the LA speak about this incessantly with with a very clear message cuz he he just saw it he felt it he saw it he saw with his eyes today you see it was every ice and he was mocked by people not just by people in Israeli politics by other people too who just didn't have that Clarity that Vision they just didn't have it it's very painful to be able to see to be able to watch that there was a somebody in Israel a commander and he warned about what's going to happen so today he became a celebrity his name is uh Bick everybody wants to know because he warned it he made a warning once that for 30 years was warning this 30 years I I heard I didn't hear it for 30 years I wasn't so old I wasn't born in' 67 but all my years almost not every but almost every from to from from I can't say every but it was word for word for word for word like it was said today like it was said and yet I come back to this but with all of this always remained with such to everybody with such positivity with such enthusiasm with such am how do you do that at some point you have to become an angry person you start getting resentful to people that's the this is where you see the EM you see the pus you see you see you see what is you see what godliness is there's never a personal Vendetta it's my ego which is very normal ego is a human thing I'm upset at you you got me I'm going to get you back we all understand these things these are human emotions I'm going to show you when you have a that's so plugged in is is EMS so there's no color War there's no I'm right and you're wrong and now I feel better about myself it's not I feel better about myself it's I love you as much as I love me I care I care I care I care I want goodness I want innocence I want Purity I want Hashem that's what I want and therefore also with all the pain of disappointment there's never dispear no yush because the moment you're plugged into the source there's no yush somehow you know that with all the craziness and with all the mistakes that were made and the you know that and you know with the same certainty and that that's very powerful it's not just powerful it's the source of all the power the captain is not the captain didn't abandon the ship ever like the said every every even the leaf that turns over is it's getting its Vitality that moment so that's the that's why we was this is my brief explanation why we were singing so many times because really you could sing it we say it once in the morning but when we say it in the morning what's you don't force people to say thank you it's not a g thank you yeah if your wife cooks for shabus and she says if you want to cougle you have to say thank you thank you by definition is voluntary doesn't mean I'm forcing you with chains means how could you not how could you be so divorced from reality means is not I'm going to chain you to a bench until you scream thank you reality screams how could you [Music] not the you ever translate these words it's it's not in the popular part of daving it's carbonis so I know it's a Mitzvah to do it very fast but it's K sometimes to stop for three seconds and even if the kazin is going you know uh seven on a on a on the airplanes what are they called the fast airplanes huh what do you say the love that you led him the joy that you had with him the opportunity to be a channel this moment for all the truth and love and light in the world that channel that's what life is gratitude gratitude gratitude like it says in you remember what say yeah yeah yeah good okay yeah yeah yeah yeah [Applause] That's my boy it's not my credit but it's my boy it's my wife's credit it's my wife's credit it's not my credit yeah so what's my y for you say I'll just translate in English what mendal just said if I could not verba him you have a child he grows up and one day he finds out that the Z left $300 million every body hopes that yeah $300 million and you don't even have a few Brothers to give it to it's all Fe yours says that doesn't even come close close to compare that a Jew knows the the that was left us what's the a greatest what our gave it to us I didn't get it it's a fact they revealed is not a it's a fact but they were is a fact could be somewhere in a Swiss bank it's not going to help me somebody has to give me the key to the account they have to give me the number you know with k k was the chief Rabbi of antp he was from yesin he came from from C and he survived the war had a memor a and uh there was a who told him he has a lot of money in the Swiss bank and he doesn't think he's going to make it out so he gave him the information to his account and he said if one day you meet a relative of mine give him the information so he could retrieve the money it's a huge sum of money the Jew never made it out and made it out he went there strong then he ended up in antp as a chief Rabbi so years later I think around 25 years later a schnor comes into SCH in antp to collect money and cries with looks at him and the poor man seems Mish homeless his clothes are torn he's like in rags and he starts talking to him and he gives him an ad do and then he says what's your name so he tells him his name and he it triggers a memory the same last name of that Jew who was killed who gave him the information so he starts talking to this person where he's from from who his father is his father didn't survive so the red you know red lights go the light bulb goes off in his brain and he says where do you live he says I don't have a home I'm a beggar he says what are you going to eat for dinner he says I collect and I go over to buy a meal and every night he finds another place he was not just poor he was an unur he was a homeless homeless homeless man so he says how long are you going to stay in anth he he's planning to stay here for a few weeks so he doesn't want to say anything but he he needed time to to do research takes all the information he doesn't tell him why he's asking and then he starts doing his research this is before the days of Google so research was a little harder and after a few days he decides that this is he's a son he's a son of this of the Jew who was killed in the Holocaust who had a Swiss account so after he asked this Drew more questions he finally spills the beans and he says it be I just want to tell you something you're not a beggar and you're not a poor man you're a very rich Jew he says well you're you want to mock me you want to make fun of me he says no he says here's money go buy yourself a ticket and go to Basil from ANW take a train go to Switzerland here's the information you go to this and this Bank you give them this information and you're going to treat you r Treat of your father's money and it's a huge inheritance this homeless man in rags left kit to become a millionaire not overnight the same night so told over the story and he said what did I learn from the story he said there could be a person standing in front of me in his mind he's the poorest man in the world and it's true from his perspective he's the poorest man in the world what's the truth the truth is he's one of the richest Jews around he just doesn't know it says that's what I learned at that moment that's what Al is saying you can have a I don't know it some people look in the mirror and they say I'm a traumatized dejected wretched depressed loser my parents rejected me my community rejected me God rejected me yish kite rejected me every person I hope that I'll get love from rejected me and I reject myself too and they look at themselves and emotionally they feel impoverished the means enough in Russian at this moment you're the richest person in the world why plug in it's not a joke it's not it's not a it's not a drama speech that's why add the word many says first time I think it says in by the son of the shal other uses a similar or that use it you have it in the something closed many others and certainly adds one [Music] word you can go to the bank Mish means you can go to the bank the bank doesn't look at Souls the bank needs money the bank needs texture Mish it's Mish you can go to the bank with your it's real I may be blocked I may be so blocked that I can't even believe it and certainly I can't feel it that we know that's why we need healing we need healing we need healing this is a generation of healing but what are you going to find you're not going to find the yusha that's somewhere else it's your yusha that's when the moment the person realizes that there's an expression of gratitude I say me my life is miserable I don't have I have bills to pay and I have tus with this thing and I have saus with this thing what gratitude this doesn't take away that a person has challenges that we have to deal with but it allows you actually to deal with your challenges in a much better way from a place of gratitude cuz when you're in a place of gratitude you could look at your life and instead of seeing it as a curse you see it as an opportunity you see it as a and there's no ego so when there's no ego you don't take it personal we don't take it personal you can actually be there for your children you can actually be there for people in pain much better cuz you come from a place of gratitude if you feel the whole world owes you everything and it's all about my ego I can't even be there for anybody I can't help the people in pain gratitude means that you could show up with your deepest and best version of yourself that's the that's the that our parents gave us the huh this is the oh they used to Sayad it's not my what does that mean practically practically it means that right now in this world right here when you come home tonight when you wake up tomorrow morning you're plugged in you're plugged in you're a channel for Infinity for Love Light there's light coming through you just open yourself up go into that space do okay so we have to figure that out but don't let that disturb the fine imagine you get this us of $300 million from the Swiss account right and the same day the IRS sends you a bill right for $3,000 it doesn't destroy it you have $300 million in the bank okay the IRS if you're a Jew you'll hire a lawyer if you're a GU you'll pay you'll figure it out but you're not going to start sitting shiva because the it's fine you have a bill soarus is like they throw a bill in okay fine but why you going to let the $300 million go to waste you're sitting with your wife you're sitting with your children you're in a space of Love of connection now you have a let me get angry let me get frustrated the kid didn't do the homework they didn't finish the so you got a bill from the IRS M don't leave the space of Love Don't Leave the space ofus th since this is soem should help each and every one of us we should be able to internalize to live it to breathe it to radiate it every person in their own way the world was created for me this line aine took it seriously it's not just the world was created for you so you should think that you're not a nobody it's serious is you was chosen to radiate an o that comes through you don't underestimate it and one of the says comes from the word hel because of me the concealment was created there's a certain concealment that I have to work through there's a certain hel that I have to work through and only I'm the one who's going to break through that Helm and transform it into light we should be able to live it breathe it internalize it radiate it and fill the world with it to fill the world with it with the of the the way we learn with anus between all the parts of T which creates anus between all the parts of Jews which creates anus between the world and the Creator you should be able to always remain plugged into the source and then we'll always remain connected to each other and when we're connected with each other then a lot of miracles happen and hasem should help that theom should lead us straight into the real and ultimate the Redemption of every single Jew in every single way of course all of our captives and those who are kidnapped by the they should all experience and every one of the soldiers should return home and safe and the leaders of Israel should be able to have the clarity and the courage to know really what to do Al and every one of us should rise to the opportunity to be able to not only strengthen ourselves but to become the most powerful and greatest Jews ever and and with with with with and with fortitude and we should see yeshu and the and the ultimate not only now I want to thank our musician again and our vocalist Goldman from South Africa Goldman and two NS in both of them the says two is [Laughter] H as a therapist yeah yeah as a therapist is a therapist that is a therapist yeah psych a psychotherapist no psychologist I'll tell you conclude it's just it put gives perspective uh the once said was the the son of the the so he was a big expert in medicine in fact he knew Latin he studied medicine he knew Latin and he would write prescriptions he was a big expert in medicine besides being a so once said there was a doctor I'm not into doctor they barely know what's going on in terms of health the only doctor I like is you know why because he knows that he knows nothing he knows that he knows nothing not about melness doesn't know anything but he's considered a doctor so patients come to him and they want advice not to say what he really thinks that I know nothing so he's going to lose his whole parosa and nobody's going to come back but he doesn't want to lie and say I do know and I'm an expert and a professional cuz he knows he knows nothing so he can't say the truth because he doesn't want to lose his job and he can't lie he's not going to lie because he's not a liar so what do you do had a long bit what am I supposed to say he says come into the world now when he gives advice it's already going through the that the advice works the same is true about a good therapist and a psychologist and a psychotherapist first thing isar what I'm going to do a textbook you're a narcissistic personality disorder your burine personality your PO bipolar order you're clinically depressed your mother made you this very often the therapist is projecting what his mother did to him he's projecting on the other person oh so okay what am I supposed to tell this guy just let's be let go into a place of love and empathy and truth and B and humility and vacas and yes I'll be able to help him be and we'll be able to find Healing together it's not I'll heal you we'll find Healing together so now you want to know what you have to go 10 years to school have that's but that's what say I like so I once told over the story I had to Once introduce a doctor for a dinner it was a big doctor they were honoring him so they asked me to introduce him I knew him so I introduced him so I said the says all good doctors belong in so they got very upset they're here to honor a doctor and I'm saying so I said relax relax is only believes in to to is 17 he only believes in 17 he doesn't believe in cuz I do the healing so that's go so I said the doctor that we're healing today if you ever realized he rolls up his beard but I once saw him somewhere else and he had a very long beard and if you ever realize you come into his office and you tell him what your problem he starts caressing his beard the real reason is because he wants to so that's not that's who believes in the 18 18 okay everybody got excited and introduced him so he gets up and he said something I'll never forget he said Rabbi Jacobson I'll tell you the real a good doctor is in gam you know why because if he's a good doctor he's not detached he empathizes with his patience he doesn't go to geham in next world he goes to geham in this world cuz he feels what his patients are experiencing say that's so therapists like but but that's thees how do you go to G you go to geham in two ways you can go to the you become part of the problem or you go to G yeah like the story you know the the anecdote of the on gave a anecdote he said what's so he said wanted everybody to have long pis so in case he has to slap them out from Dark Places he'll be able to slop them out by the pis says there was once a breast after 120 he came to Heaven they said you were a breast the way you was supposed to be he says I tried so he goes to G it gets hot and like a good breast he starts screaming if you ever hear 3:00 in the morning his he starts screaming a screaming he runs in the is yeah takes the pays him out comes to heaven after 120 they say you are the way you're supposed to be the way I was supposed to be I tried you Lear you learn you learn not really you learn not really obious you had like wanted not really go to hell no he comes to together him it getss hot and he starts screaming he starts screaming a screaming he's not going to respond his whole life he responded so he runs into sea and he said get me out of here so the sees him he goes over to him he puts his hand in his bosom takes out a dollar gives him the dollar says here should have lots of success in your mission here yeah but it's it's a good it's funny but there's also a deep a deep message that the T was saying and the truth it's one of theas of theb it's really one of the of but articulated in a very very uh clear way throughout his life and that is a person never ends up somewhere you was sent somewhere that mus is a mus that was was coined it and made it into a a world view but it's essential it's essential what tells his brothers in you didn't end up somewhere by mistake because your mother your father your brother your sister your teacher your principal they may be and they may beus and maybe even more every person has to do TR every person has to do TR but you are not a victim of another petam you're not a victim of another Pam you were sent you say why was I sent there so the real answer is because when you face adversity in the eyes when you face it in the eyes when you're not scared of the Mal when you say my soul is bigger than you and stronger than you I'm not scared of the Mal and you face adversity in the eyes and you emerge triumphant you're going to be able to bring healing to the world that is unprecedented so you say why did I have to go through this I don't know it's a good Kasha put it into the list of questions that we spoke about before and deposit it to the creator of the world so it's another Kasha have a I don't know I also don't know why I live today why somebody else lived 100 years ago why what happens I don't know and I I don't know why this and this happened to me or happened to another person what I do know is how I react to it am I a victim or am I a if I'm a victim I'm miserable if I'm a I'm empowered it doesn't mean there's no pain is a painful place say means they sent and somebody somebody who's shy and they sent him to G if you have if you have strength then you could go on those who are embarrassed they have to stay in Gade they have to stay in Gade they have to stay in in nice places with air condition ask them you have you s the reason you were sentenced to is because you're an because you have that's why he was sent there who going to sent to G him a weak spineless person you not only that the reason you were affected so badly is because of your greatness if you wouldn't have been such a sensitive child if you wouldn't have been such a loving child you wouldn't have experienced betrayal the way you experienced it it's because you're such a powerful Nish that you had what you had don't you realize so now take that power and transform it transform your Darkness it's your power that caused it if you would have been a a tough uh cruel H selfish rough person you wouldn't have experienced this type of abuse you're sensitive you're sweet you're full of love that's why it happened to you you trusted you trust you're a man of trust you're a soul of redemption that's why it happened to you don't you realize it's the greatness so now realize that once you identify your strength this dirt doesn't belong to you it's the abusers dirt it has nothing to do with you you're completely above it it doesn't even past for you to talk about it you tell past is 40 years I'm suffering 50 years I'm suffering 60 years you're suffering a past is to talk about you're too good you're too pure you're too holy this is dirt this is filth you're not a dirty person you're a clean person the tragedy is you internalized it you thought you were the dirty person so now you need healing but once you going to be a little healing you'll see the truth nothing to do go there's a by some they spit why cuz sometimes you out of my system you have nothing with me you have nothing with me don't even get close to me I'm done that's what forgiveness means forgiveness doesn't mean you're a weak forgiveness means you're not going to control my life for even one more minute you're done we're done control you're not controlling my life the lack of forgiveness means you're still controlling my life you're still ruining me so how can I forgive you forgiveness means I'm done with you you control nothing you were sent to geham because you're infinitely strong that's the issue now for 40 years you didn't realize that for 40 years you thought you were guilty for 30 40 50 years you thought you are geham so now you know the truth now you know the truth that you were sent there in order to take out all the Sparks and to put it on fire and send the geham to geham out out of my system what's the men B he's not going to show off so much yeses in one night trust me says there sometimes sometimes from the heart comes up a thought grudges resentment hatred negativity people think means repression it doesn't mean repression it's a very deliberate conscious Choice I'm not afraid of you I'm not afraid of you I'm not going to accept you you're not going to run my life I'm not living not in jealousy and not in hatred and not resentment I'm not so small that you're not going to control me it's not repression it's conscious deliberation who am I and who am not it's not who I am I it's inside of me yeah a person has parts we don't have a mono brain we don't have mono brain we have a lot of parts K there's a lot of different parts so when a person realizes this so we say the best of therapists is the one who knows how to go in with the person with empathy but they don't go in as a victim they go in as a when you go in as a so so the therapist could make the patient also a but it's only if I go in myself if I stay on top I'm in g means you go get another job I saw a letter that ever once wrote to somebody a therapist he lived in in Israel in I think in SAS apparently he wrote a very scathing letter to the Reb about somebody very negative so the Reb wrote to him and this was really not the style of the Reb so obviously there was something very real that he felt he said judging on your letter what you wrote about a person you never met you know nothing about him you never even discussed it with him and yet you reach these conclusions the being a therapist is not a job for you not only that you should not be dealing with living people and you shouldn't even be dealing with living animals your lack of sensitivity is not fear even for the animals you should get a job in things that are lifeless for example he says you can either do farming or deal with rocks or become a librarian that's what he says it's a fascinating letter I never saw such a letter from the but it's not his letters are usually so encouraging and uplifting you have the but apparently was so fascinating he said you write that you're a therapist and it's really a dangerous job for you because understood such a person projects all his toxicity on the patient you have therapists who are really not worked out people so they may have aan in their shom bias so they start convincing their patients that their marriages are falling apart cuz their marriage is falling apart you also have therapists that don't have any real relationships and they like the patient so they want to be close to the patient so they make sure to isolate the patient from everyone else in the world so they become their God what [Music] happens and nobody knows it because it happens behind closed doors the patient is vulnerable and that's why these types of jobs you have to be so authentic you have to work on yourself so much you have to be such a real person because you're dealing with Souls that are vulnerable you have to have boundaries you have to you have to completely know when your bias is mixing in you have to have tremendous bitt and you have to know the most important thing that people are not textbooks you don't put a person into a textbook cuz I need to have a diagnosis I don't need a diagnosis the most important thing to know is I don't know I'm open I'm going to listen I want to tune in I want to be empathetic I want to connect to you the story of the yeah how do we get into why am I talking about oh a good doctor a good doctor so a good doctor yeah so every person in their own life has to know where I am was not a mistake I was sent and I was sent to have a there when I'm in a place of grand attitude I could fulfill my there cuz when I'm in a place of gratitude I know that I'm here it's not by mistake and right now Hashem chose me to be in this position to be able to be a source of light and inspiration the moment I go in to making other people's what they think about me what I think of them they're good they're not good they should be good you're disappointing me you should be like this you should be like that what happens is I'm disconnected from my own power so I can't even be there for them anymore should give us all the the courage and the confidence we shouldn't be embarrassed for eternity ask what's you shouldn't be embarrassed for eternity why should you be embarrassed for eternity for eternity means there going to be soon a time that is going to be revealed in the world and then you shouldn't be embarrassed will I be able to face of and be not be embarrassed the only way what's the is not that I stole money from you huh I shouldn't be able I shouldn't be embarrassed when I in simple English when I when You Face God you shouldn't have to be embarrassed that's a very deep prayer because it means when You Face real truth when you look in the mirror for real when you look in the mirror without all the Clippers I shouldn't be embarrassed I should be able 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