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Rabbi YY Jacobson Farbrenging with Children #8: Stories, Riddles, Meditation, Q & A
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Rabbi YY Jacobson live with children, Sunday, 9 Iyar, 5780, May 3, 2020, PM EST Dedicated by Susan Vorhand, in memory of Elan Ariel To watch more classes & to read Rabbi YY's articles visit: https://www.theyeshiva.net Follow Rabbi YY Jacobson: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RabbiYYJacobson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheYeshiva Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yyjacobson Twitter: https://twitter.com/YYJacobson Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yyjacobson/ Telegram: https://t.me/RabbiYY
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Good afternoon everybody.
Welcome dear children joining us here
live on our weekly program here on the
yeshiva.net.
I am so thrilled and privileged to be
here with all of you. Thank you for
joining us once again. This is our
eighth program since the Corona virus
began. This is our eighth program with
children all over the world in English.
Today we also had our third Yiddish
program and we also had our Hebrew
program. We also have our teenage
programs for your older siblings which
is Thursday night at 9:30 p.m. right
here on the yeshiva.net.
So thank you. Thank you all for being
here and I hope you're having the
beginning of a new week. May it be a
good week, a a healthy week for you and
your families and your loved ones. May
Hashem
give a complete and speedy recovery to
all those who need it and inspiration
and strength to all those who need it.
Stay healthy and uh I love you all and
let's make it an awesome and productive
and meaningful and inspiring week. You
can text in your questions or write in
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to this video and you can write in your
question and God willing in a few
minutes we will be going to the mic to
get your questions in writing. As always
let me begin
with a beautiful story and I'm actually
going to begin with two stories.
Each story has a special message. The
first story I want to share with you
is a story that involves one of the
great sadikim in Russian known as the
His name was Mendelin.
He lived in the city of Loavic in
Bellerus. He passed away
the 13th of Nissen right before Pes in
the year which would be 1866.
Those days that time when there was a
fire in a village or a city it was often
very very devastating.
Most of the homes were built from wood
and they would be easily consumed by
flames. You didn't have the fire
department like you have today. You
didn't have the equipment to extinguish
flames that you have today. Even today,
it's often devastating, but then it was
often very devastating. And uh there was
a big fire
in the city in the town where the Sedic
lived and a lot of the homes were burnt
down.
And when they started to rebuild the
homes,
they made what's called a special for
the seven for the groundbreaking of the
new homes that they were building for
the
and people came together to celebrate
the occasion. and the Tamakad who was
the third Reb of Kabad
he was the grandson of the Balanne
of Leyadi his daughter's son he sat
there there was a chair and a table and
he was sitting there
and the were gathered around him and he
turned to them and he said I want to
give you an option
would you like to hear or would you like
to hear a story now the
was one of the he was one of the
greatest minds of the generation. He was
also known as a great a great authority.
We have a lot of his answers in a set
known as
and uh he would teach a lot of both in
terms of and
so the there were asked this question.
Would you like to hear like a mimer a
discourse or would you like to hear a
story?
So they told theb that you know we often
have this to hear from you. We never
hear a story from you. We would like to
hear a story.
So the began to tell them a story. He
said there was a man named Raby
and this what is was an innocent Jew. He
used to rent many of the cretas, many of
the inns by a puritz, by an overlord.
You had these prits, these governors who
ruled over many
fields and pieces of land and they would
often rent them out to Jews or other
people and they would lease them and get
money for it. So this Rabbi Yakov worked
for this pirates and he was in charge on
dealing with all of his properties and
renting them out to people who wanted
leases including many Jews who would
rent Kretchmas. Kretchmas were like
little ins where people would come like
little motel. People would come and have
a meal and have a drink and stay over
for a couple of days or a couple of
nights or one night and that's how they
made their living and they would pay
every year every month the rent to this
who brought them to the pors to this
overlord. There was one Jew who rented
such a such an inn from
was known as they called him Ishtam
which means an innocent man. At the end
of the year, it was time to pay up the
annual rent. But this Jew did not have
the money to pay for the rent. So told
this Jew, he sent him a message. He
says, "Listen, this is not my money.
This is the Pix's money. And there's no
games with him. If I don't show up with
the money, you know, he wants an
account. Why is he not getting the
money?" And he wants the person
expelled. So, I don't know how much
longer I can delay this process, but if
you don't come up somehow with the
money, I will not be able to keep you in
the motel. I'll have to give it to
somebody else.
This poor Jew was desperate. What did he
do? He was aid of one of the great
sadikim of the generation, a Jew known
as the Bistro of Ran. He's known as the
the holy reb of
he was a of his and was also aid of
so this Jew who was renting the in came
to and he said would you be able to
persuade your other
to give me another year and at the end
of the next year I'll pay up for two
years. So the holy sent a message to and
he asked him to please make an exception
and give this Jew another year and he
said he would do that.
The next year went by the problem was
the situation was no better and he
didn't have enough money to pay not for
the second year not for the first year.
So Ryakov says what am I supposed to do?
The pirates is getting impatient. I'm
not going to be able to do this any
longer. you have to find a new place. So
the man in the desperation went back to
his and he says please
persuade him to give me a third year and
I'll pay up for all three years
of sent a special message to
have special compassion on this person
until he'll be able to pay back for
three years. I don't know what Ryakov
had to do. Did he have to lay out the
money from his own pocket and pay the
purits the overlords? you shouldn't
expel him or something else. But his Reb
asked and this is what he did. The third
year passed and it's been three years
and the renter of the inn could not pay
up any money for his lease.
The story repeated itself again. The man
came running to the and of heart went
out for this Jew pleaded with his
disciple with his
to give him a fourth year
got the message and he said to himself I
can't it's impossible this I can't do
this anymore he simply couldn't do it
and he asked this Jew to leave the khma
to leave this in he was behind all these
years
and uh
he had to send them out after the three
years. Okay.
Time passes and passes away. He dies.
This is the story that is telling his by
the groundbreaking.
He comes up to the heavenly courts and
they examine his life and they find that
he was a wonderful wonderful man. Sur he
stayed away from negative and immoral
behavior.
He did all the positive things that a
Jew is supposed to do. He lived like a
a good Jew
proper proper perspective and proper
lifestyle.
But
this one one powerful blemish on his
soul that he disobeyed
the
profound and heartfelt request of his
reb the holy and what did he do? He
expelled this Jew from an inn.
And they felt that for this his nishama
has to go through a serious process of
cleansing in what we call gem in order
to fix this blemish. As they're
discussing this situation,
a man suddenly walks up and he opens his
mouth and he says, "Rabo,
all those of you who are in court here
in heaven are souls who left this world,
who left earth many, many, many years.
You don't know or you forgot what money
looks like in this world on earth.
You don't know what money is. You don't
know what material life is. You don't
know what struggle is like on earth. You
don't know what it means that people
suffer economically terribly. People
don't have food to eat. People can't pay
their bills. You simply don't know what
it means.
This man says according to my opinion,
listen.
for two years he listened to the after
the first year after the second year he
gave him a whole third year
at the end of three years the man didn't
pay he didn't listen to the but you have
to understand where he's coming from if
he was laying out the money from his own
pocket or he had to fight with this
pirates and it was a very very difficult
situation I believe that you have to
appreciate the perspective of this man
and understand where he's coming from it
was beyond his capacity.
That's what this man said in the court.
So finishes the story. He's quiet.
He turns around to the
he says,
"And now let me tell you my opinion.
My opinion is that this Yak is also
innocent and he should go out of the
court. Zakai the verdict should be he's
innocent. That's my opinion as well. And
now I want to ask you what is your
opinion?
Understood the calling of the moment.
They understood and they all screamed
together, "Zachai,
Zachai, Zakai
is innocent, innocent,
innocent."
The were smart. They understood
that the was telling them what is
happening at the moment.
There was a court case. One man said
he's innocent.
Said he's innocent. And now he needed
the verdict of everybody there on earth.
And that's when they said innocent. So
you had the verdict that he's innocent.
And of course
what the story brings out in such a
powerful way is
that you can never judge a situation or
a person or an event if you don't
understand the difficulties the
struggles and the hardships that you're
going through or that person is going
through at that time. That's why the
Mishna says,
"Don't judge anybody until you don't
reach their space." And this is famously
says, "And you're never going to reach
their space." I am never wearing your
shoes. And as long as I'm not wearing
your shoes and I'm not walking in your
shoes, how can I judge you? All I can
speak is about my experience. But if I
did not go through what you went
through, if I don't know your
experience, if I don't know your heart,
your soul, your nishama, I could never
ever judge you. I want to try to
understand and I want to try to
empathize. But before you don't know
another person's struggle, be very slow
to judge. There's a beautiful beautiful
vert and insight from the holy
once said he writes it in a say for
kadushi
in gra very often when there's an
unresolved question the garra says
what does means let it stand which means
we don't have no answer but the says
stands for
that aloi
elawa is going to answer all the
questions. Meaning this is one of the
questions we're going to have to wait
for who's going to come before Msiah to
answer the I don't understand the Gmorra
says in that when Msiah comes Rabenu and
Aaron are also going to be with us. He
says if you have a question in you can
ask one of you can asku who should you
ask or what would you say? Of course,
you should ask Mosher Raen. Elio was a
great man. Ilio was an angel. Ilio was a
prophet. But Mosherenu, he is the
ultimate teacher. Why is Mosha not going
to answer the questions? Why?
And the
answers and this is what he says. He
says that Elanovi
has been around because Elanovi comes to
the seder spiritually. Elani appears at
every Jewish bris spiritually comes
around. He goes from house to house by
every single brisenu
is in Ghana already for thousands of
years. So
says, you know who has to answer
questions? Only somebody who's here,
who's been here in this world and knows
the struggles of the generation, knows
the issues of the generation,
understands the mindset of the
generation,
understands what people are going
through, understands their blessings and
their challenges, their gifts and their
opportunities and their difficulties. He
is the one who can answer questions. And
that's why it's so important to
understand before you judge another
person that until I really don't
understand what another person is going
through. I may have a different opinion,
but I should never sit in the seat of
judgment. And the same is true with
yourself. Sometimes you're going through
a difficulty and nobody understands it.
And you have to respect that. That
sometimes people mish don't know what
you're going through. But you have to
know that it's so important to know that
Hashem knows what you're going through.
And he gives you all the energy and the
resources that you need in order to be
able to be successful and to be able to
be happy and to be able to live the best
life in your circumstances. And the fact
that we have limitations because we're
people who live here on earth, that's
always part of the equation. You have to
always understand and appreciate. Just
like this, he was not perfect. He made a
mistake. But as the says, understand why
he made the mistake. Understand what he
was going through. Doesn't mean he was
perfect. We have to cut him slack. We
have to appreciate that. The same is
true with you yourself. It's important
to hold yourself accountable, but also
to appreciate the fact that when you
have real struggles and when you have
real difficulties, Hashem gives you all
the strength that you need, but you have
to recognize the fact that these are the
difficulties I'm dealing with. And
therefore you always have to do the best
you can do and not compare yourself to
other people because every person is on
a different journey. And life is never
about comparing yourself to other
children. You could learn from other
people and be inspired by other people.
But never try to copy anybody. You want
to be the best that you're supposed to
be. Like once said when I come to heaven
after I pass away they're not going to
ask me why I was not like
because I'm going to have a great answer
because I'm not I'm not ofu. They're
going to ask ask me why were you not
like Zusha? He said that I'm going to
have to give a good answer. Why was I
not Zusha? Meaning why was I not living
up to my my potential? And my potential
is different than everybody else's. I
have gifts that others don't have. And I
have challenges that others don't have.
You have gifts and special resources
that others don't have. And you have
challenges that others don't have. And
every person must judge themselves
according to who they are. You have the
strength to do whatever you have to do.
But you also have to recognize that when
you have real limitations and
challenges, that is part of your
mission. And don't feel guilty and
horrible about yourself because there's
certain things that you're limited by.
And you have to take into consideration
these challenges and these realities of
your life. My dearest children, let us
go right now to the questions. Now, I
know I have still have a debt from last
week's riddles and I'm going to be very
honest with you because I had so many so
many programs last week. I didn't get a
chance to deal with it and therefore I'm
going to delay it one more week. So, God
willing, next Sunday I'm going to get
back to the old riddles of last week,
the one about the water and the one
about to kuess.
And we're going to reward those who got
the right answer and we're going to give
new ones. So, I'm going to ask for your
patience until next week 4:00 p.m. for
once again our next English program
which is going to be next Sunday. Let us
go right now to the questions. A lot of
questions are coming in. You can text
your questions to 8457774747
or go to the yeshiva.net go to this
video the children's program today and
ask your question. You could write in
your question over there and hashem I
will try to take as many questions as I
can. Okay. My name is Mohi. A lot of
mois today and I live in Williamsburg
and I am 9 years old. Great. Welcome Moi
from Williamsburg. If Hashem loves us so
much then why did he give us this virus
and why does he make people die?
Yes, Moshi. That's a very good question.
Hashem loves us so much. Why is this
happening?
So,
Hashem loves us very very much. Hashem
loves us infinitely.
But one thing we have to remember about
Hashem and that is
a lot of what Hashem does,
it's very very difficult for us to
understand because our brains are
limited and as smart and brilliant as we
are, we are created. Hashem is the
creator. Now imagine you would take your
four-year-old brother or sister or
cousin and put them at a shar in
Williamsburg of a very big rashiva
rashiva who's teaching a difficult
typhus.
You're not going to expect your
three-year-old brother or sister to
understand it, right? Even you may not
understand it. Why? Because for this you
have to learn much more and know the
language and your brain has to be
developed. And a three-year-old can't
understand maybe a 60-year-old who's
brilliant. And you know what? One day
your brother may be as smart as that
rasha and maybe even smarter. But still,
as a three-year-old, you can't expect
him to understand that Shia. Now, the
difference between the three-year-old
and the rasha is a limited one. As I
told you, he may grow up to be like him
or better. The difference between a
child, a person, and Hashem, even the
greatest person, is infinite. It's
it's like the table which I create
trying to understand me. It's
impossible. So, Hashem created our
brains and therefore our brains can't
grasp Hashem.
A lot of things in this world we can
grasp and we can appreciate. You look
today outside at the wonderful weather
we have in New York. You look at the
spring blossoming. You study the miracle
of your own body. You have 37 or you
have around 50 trillion cells, trillion
cells. Each one functioning perfectly in
order to be able to create a healthy
body at every single moment. Every
aspect of the world is perfectly
designed to be able to allow us to live
and to be able to live and celebrate
life. So there's so much in life that
we're thankful for and we're grateful
for. But there's also challenges in life
that we don't always understand. Why a
person gets infected with corona virus
or any virus or any illness. Why some
people pass away at certain point at
certain time in life. Some people are
younger. Some people are older. Some
people are very old. We don't have an
answer to so many questions of life.
This is part of the mystery of life. All
of life is a gift. We're born. We don't
know why we're born. And we don't know
why we die. When people die, we ask why?
Why? Why? When they're born, we take it
for granted. But it's the same question.
Why are they born? It's all a unique
unique miracle. Every soul has its
mission and its journey in this world.
Hashem guides and directs every soul and
holds everybody's hand to be able to
fulfill our mission. And when an
completes its mission, it goes back to
its source. It's one with Hashem where
it lived thousands of years before we
were born and it continues to live after
we pass away.
My name
Okay. Wow. This is an interesting
question. All the way from London. From
London. We just did a Yiddish program.
We had a few thousand children from
London. Why did Hashem make such a thing
as nightmares and fears that don't serve
a purpose? For example, we're fear of
dark, fear of darkness, and fear of bad
dreams. This is David, 8 years old from
the United Kingdom. Okay, first of all,
welcome David. Thank you. Thank you for
coming to the program and thank you for
this great question. What's the purpose
of nightmares and all these fears? It's
a great great question. I'm going to
answer you on two levels. One on a more
simple level. The Gmorra says, "Why did
Hashem create thunders?" Thunder, you
know, thunderstorms as a result of
lightning. There's also thunder. So, we
have the scientific explanations when
and why thunders happen. But why did
Hashem design it that way? And the
Gmorra says
thunders were created in order to uh
remove crookedness from people's hearts.
Which means these types of fears make us
humble. They remind us that we're human.
They remind us that we're vulnerable.
They remind us that we're simple. They
create perspective. Sometimes people can
have a lot of ga. We get very arrogant
and pompous and haughty. That's you're
an English boy so you probably know what
that word means. And these fears, you
know, remind us that we're human. We're
mortal. We're frail and they keep us
humble and a person needs to be humble.
But let's go one step deeper. And this
is a from the BMT. It's a very very deep
teaching from the BMP David. And I hope
you'll understand it. You'll probably
understand it. I'm going to try to
understand it. And the BMP says that
every time we experience love or fear in
the world, it's really Hashem reaching
out to us. Whenever I love something in
the world, even a piece of chocolate or
another person or a piece of music, you
know what the bash says? Really, the
essence of everything is Hashem. So,
Hashem is trying to tell me, I love you
and I want a relationship with you. But,
Hashem is invisible and he can't talk to
me always directly because I don't
understand it. So, Hashem manifests his
love in something else. But the purpose
is don't fall in love with the
chocolate. fall in love with the essence
what is behind a chocolate with hashem
with hashem because hashem is the source
of that person and that chocolate. The
same is true also with fear. Hashem
wants to have a very deep relationship
with me and that relationship includes
love and it also includes yera. Year is
awe and reverence and respect and all
the fears that I have in my life. The
bump says is hashem communicating to me.
He is hidden behind it. But it's very
hard for me to experience awe from
Hashem. But I can experience. I was once
on a cruise. I remember the Atlantic
Ocean and I went out in the middle of
the night on the porch and I saw the
vastness of the ocean and it was just it
was it was awesome. You know, you go
sometimes and you see certain sites and
it's just you experience so much awe, so
much so much reverence. I sometimes go
out in the morning to my back porch as
this the birds are singing and the deer
are moving around and there's something
so so moving about it, so inspiring
about it. And what is it really? It's
really Hashem. Hashem is in the presence
of all of these phenomena. So even when
it comes to darkness and a nightmare,
what the BMP is saying is if you look
deeper and deeper, it's Hashem trying to
give you a message, trying to
communicate something to you. And the
more you'll understand that, the less
you'll fear the outer layer and rather
you'll develop a very deep relationship
with Hashem who is behind it. I see we
have somebody live. Yudi. Hi Yudi.
Oh, Yudi from Lakewood. Yudi from
Lakewood.
Yudi.
I know. I know Yudi from Lakewood
because we had a private Zoom session
last week. How are you, Yudi?
Yudi grew up in Pittsburgh and now Yudi
is in Lakewood. What's on your mind?
How How should we bring Mashiach?
How should I bring Mashiach?
That's a beautiful question. Yudi Yudi
wants to know how we should bring Msiah.
Okay, great question.
Mashiach.
Okay, great question. Great question. So
what we can do to bring Msiah is
daven for the coming of Messiah. Hope
for the coming of Messiah.
Yeah.
Every time we do more good and we bring
in more light and love into the world.
We prepare ourselves and the world for
Msiah. The Rambam writes in Hiluva that
a person should look at himself and the
world as balanced and he says one
mitzvah can tip the scale
is quoting.
A person should look as the whole
universe as balanced. And one mitzvah
that I do can tip the scale and change
the world. And we see it from the corona
virus. What do we see from the corona?
One sneeze in China can ultimately close
down the world. That's negatively. And
positively, it's the same thing. When
you learn more, when you do another
mitzvah, when you daven more and with
more, when you give, when you engage in,
and when you do goodness and kindness
and you fill the world even with one
mitzvah, every one of those adds to the
positivity in the world and hastens the
coming of Msiah.
What?
Amen.
Amen. We love you, Yudi. Take care of
yourself. Take care of yourself. Thank
you. Thank you. Thank you so much.
You have a great afternoon. Y
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, Yudi.
Thumbs up. Thumbs up.
Thumbs up. Thumbs up. You're the best.
You're the best. Excellent. Okay,
let's go to the next. How do
Okay. Seven and a halfyear-old boy wants
to know how can we reconcile
our free will if Hashem knows the entire
future
anyway if Hashem knows everything we're
going to do. How can we say that there's
free will? Excellent question. And you
know last week in our children's
program, one of the children or I think
a few of them asked this question. and I
addressed it. So if you go to the
yeshiva.net, you can go to the previous
children's program number seven,
children's program number seven. It was
last last week, last Sunday, and we
addressed this question and you can
perhaps show it to your child.
Why did Hashem Okay. What's where did
Hashem come from? How was Hashem
created?
Okay, beautiful questiona.
We say that the world comes from a
creator. But where does the creator come
from? The world is so beautiful and it's
designed and it's so complex and it's so
intricate and you have so much
information and it has to have a
designer, a mind that created it. But
where did that come from? If the creator
is such a powerful being, he also has to
be created. Can you help me respond to
this paradox? It's an excellent,
excellent question. And the answer to
your question is
the one who created the world, the being
that is responsible for creating the
world, the consciousness or the mind or
the presence of that which created the
world is beyond the three things that
define creation. What defines our
existence is three things. matter, time
and space.
Matter are things, whatever they are,
tangible or intangible. What I could see
with my eyes, like this table or this
mic or this hand or this computer or
this camera or what I can see with my
eyes, but that's matter. Then there is
space. That's the space everything is
in. And then there is time. Right? Right
now it's 4:38 p.m. New York time. A
moment ago was 4:37 p.m. All these three
these three things come and work
together. Today we know in science
matter comes together with space and
matter comes together with time. And
they were all they all came into being
the same time. When matter came into
being, it came with space and it came
with time. One can't be without the
other because if you have matter without
space, we're going to put it. If you
have matter without time, when you going
to put it? So matter, time and space
always work together. And all three were
created. And it's the first of
in the beginning. Hashem created heaven
and earth. In the beginning, this is the
beginning.
Hashem created the very beginning and
the concept of beginning. In the
beginning when there was the beginning
of beginning when he created time he
also created shamayim heaven which means
all space and eritz earth which means
matter. The first verse hashem brings
together the three components of matter
space and time which always work
together as Albert Einstein taught the
world. And so the creator of this is
beyond matter, beyond time, and beyond
space. And therefore, the creator did
not need a creator because when you're
dealing with matter, time or space, it
needs a creator in order to be created.
But the creator, which transcends
matter, time, and space, is not
something that had to be created.
Because the creator is the essence of
reality. The creator is not made up of
physical matter and time and space which
has to be created. The creator is that
which transcends creation. He is not
part of creation. It's like if I create
this table, I'm outside of this table.
The one who created this computer and
the brilliance of this computer is
outside of the outside of the computer.
So, Hashem is beyond. He transcends.
He's outside of creation even though
he's also in creation. And therefore the
laws of creation that this thing needs a
designer to bring it together that does
not apply to Hashem because Hashem is
the source of all of it and he's not
matter and he's not time and he is not
space. I hope this gives at least a
little perspective.
I am so fed up from the Corona virus. I
was supposed to go to the USA and I get
so frustrated and upset. What are the
tips to help me deal with this
frustration from the Corona virus? And I
think
the greatest answer to this is the
greatest answer to this is is
how you wake up in the morning. When you
wake up in the morning, it's very very
important
to dive in with kavana. And during those
times, try to meditate. Try to be
mindful.
Try to breathe and inhale and exhale and
connect to your nishama, to your core,
to your soul, to your God. Remember that
every moment is a mission and every day
is an opportunity. We don't decide all
of the details of our life. Hashem who
loves you guides you with tremendous
providence in every single moment of
your life. Can you surrender your faith
to his? Imagine Hashem embracing you
every moment with unconditional love.
Don't try to create expectations
that don't happen and then you get
frustrated when you don't see those
expectations coming to fruition. You
have to realize that now is a unique
time in history. It's a different
mission and a different opportunity.
Don't try to make believe nothing
happened. We have to make peace with
what we're experiencing. Realize that
this is our calling now. This is our
mission and maximize the potentials that
we have right now in our lifestyle. And
a way to do that is to connect every day
to your nama. It's important to eat
healthy. It's important to exercise.
It's important to do things that are
productive. It's important to have fun
and enjoy your life to the best of your
ability.
Kavi from Williamsburg 12 years old.
Everyone around me, my family, my
friends at this time of crisis are doing
kabalo. They're accepting upon
themselves different things to do during
this Corona virus. Okay.
What is my part? What am I supposed to
do? What am I supposed to do in order to
help bring Msiah? How can I connect to
Hashem?
This is not okay. I'm not learning. I
see my father.
Okay. I see my father and my my brothers
their that my father davins and learns.
I see that my father does that and he
enjoys learning and it's wonderful. What
is my part to do? What am I supposed to
do?
And the answer is I said this is a great
question but as you probably know and if
you don't know it's important to know
when Hashem gave the Tyra to the Jewish
people it says in Paris Hashem says to
speak to the house of Yak
and speak to the sons of Israel. So the
kazal say what does it mean speak to the
house of and then b who is that? So he
says, "Hashem told Mosha, first give the
Tory to the women base is the house of
Jacob. They are the foundation of the
house and then
and then you'll give it over to the boys
to the men." By the way, that's why when
the Bakov when the girls school started
to be created
100 years ago, Tesh by Sneer in Krakow,
this was uh 1917.
The first girl school which was a unique
unique phenomenon. So the name that
Sneer gave the girl school is Bak. Why?
Because it says
first speak to Bak and the Medish Rabb
says that Hashem said that if I know if
I want Yiddeshai to remain eternal the
first ones who have to hear it is the
women them you could rely on that's what
the med says if you want it to go over
for all the generations you have to give
it first to the girls and the women then
you'll go to the men and the boys that's
what the med says
and that's Why girls and boys, women and
men are absolute equals in the
experience of Matra and in the privilege
and the responsibility to internalize
Tyra to live with Tyra and to fill the
world with Tyra. Yes, there are the
mitzvah that the boys have. There are
the mitzvah that the girls have. There
are the unique things for men. There are
unique things for women. But never for a
moment should you think that somehow is
more connected to the men than to the
women. If anything, it's the other way
around because Hashem said, "First, make
sure the is given to the women."
It's true. Women learn differently than
men. They often learn different subjects
than men. I have this of teaching a lot
of men's classes. I also have this of
over the years teaching different
women's classes. It's a very, very
different experience. But there's no
question that when women learn, they
internalize it very, very deeply. Not
only intellectually, but very
emotionally. Women have a gift of amuna
and spirituality that is very often
deeper than men. The Gomorrah says,
"And therefore I say to you that just
like your father and your brothers which
are doing awesome work, you too, this is
a tremendous historic opportunity for
you to dav and for you to learn and for
you to engage in increasing in all types
of mitzvah, whether it's a whether it's
whether it's working on your mid,
whether it's building a deeper
relationship with your family and with
your friends and most importantly with
yourself, with your and with Hashem. I
would also suggest every day you should
call one or two lonely people and be the
mazak. It could be relatives, it could
be senior citizens, it could be older
people, it could be younger people, it
could be old friends, it could be
cousins, but that would be a tremendous
thing to strengthen people.
Age nine. Why did Hashem ask the other
nations if they want the if he already
knew that they're going to say no?
Hashem knows everything. He knew that
Asav and Yeshal are going to say no.
Excellent. Excellent question. And the
answer is because even though Hashem
knew that they're going to say no, but
he wanted to plant the seeds in their
mind. Because when you say no to
something, it means you already have a
connection to it. Right? If I never
heard of anything and I didn't say no,
there's no connection to it. But when I
hear about something and I say no, it
means that it already touches me. It's
already affecting me. And that's why I'm
saying no, no, no. I'm not ready for
this because I know that when this comes
into my life, it's going to be too hard
for me. And this is a preparation for
the future world when ultimately the
whole world is going to become one. The
Pik says that when Msiah comes everybody
is going to serve the same God and
everybody is going to follow the mitz
the laws of the so then Hashem offered
them the said no but that no is the
beginning of a yes because it
established a relationship even though
it's a negative relationship it's a no
but a no means already it's part of my
life and therefore it planted the seeds
that one day they'll be able to say Yes,
I'll also tell you a beautiful from
he says this in
he says as follows that it's impossible
that all the gentiles said no for sure
some said yes and he said it's
impossible that all the Jews said yes
for sure some Jews said no the bad said
that history actually
is loyal to those minorities he said all
Of those non-Jews who said yes, their
descendants find their way to the Jewish
people through converting. And those
Jews who said no, their descendants find
their way out of the Jewish people.
I'm 9 years old. I'm very anxious when
people talk about Msiah. I really want
him to come, but I'm also scared what
it's going to be like.
Is it a scary scary thing?
You really don't have to be scared. When
Msiah comes, what's going to happen is
the ultimate truth of everything is
going to be revealed. That means your
truth, my truth, and the truth of the
whole world. And what is the ultimate
truth of everything? The ultimate truth
of everything is that it's infinite.
That it's one with Hashem. So therefore,
you don't have to be scared. On the
contrary, when Msiah comes, you will be
the most yourself. You will be fully one
with yourself. And the same is true with
all people. The same is true with the
whole world.
Avi,
I am a fan of sports. I feel it's good
to have some exposure to the world and
it's something good socially. Some say
it's a problem. Please explain this.
By the way, these questions are coming
in right now as I speak. I didn't sit
and prepare these questions before.
Sometimes I get questions earlier, but
these questions I'm reading. They they
just came in now or they're coming in
now as we speak concerning sports.
Listen, this is a very individualized
question.
Different families have different
standards.
Different people and children are in
different situations. And there's no one
answer that fits all about sports and
being a fan of sports. This is something
you have to discuss with your mother and
your father and people that are close to
you. Uh a teacher who's close to you, a
rebby who's close to you, somebody you
trust. And I hope you have a good
relationship with your parents to speak
about this with them. Generally
speaking, there's two concepts in
sports. One is your own sports. Meaning
people playing sports and exercising and
running around is often a very very
healthy thing. Exercise is always
healthy. And the concept of sports of
people playing with friends socially is
really really healthy. Today there's a
lot of limitations because of the corona
virus. But even if your own backyard or
your own porch, you can do some things
to flex your muscles and run around and
get the oxygen flowing. It's important
for the brain. It's important for the
body. And that is a very good thing in
terms of a fan of of general sports.
Some people are very very against this
and we understand why. This is a world
which is which has a lot of celebrity
worshiping to it.
There was a lot of emptiness to it.
There's a lot of shallowess to it.
There's sometimes things that are
inappropriate.
Uh
sometimes you're dealing with people who
are not uh embodiment of great moral
qualities and virtues.
And very often it becomes consuming and
it takes you away from what really
matters in life. What really matters in
life is your own growth intellectually,
emotionally, socially, spiritually.
Is it something that's absolutely
forbidden? It's not a clear is
there is the concept of when we have
time, we should always utilize it for
productive things, for for mitzvah, for
good things. But there is also a concept
of leisure, of relaxing, of exercising,
of sports, of giving your body to be
able to have more.
So therefore, it's a very individualized
question where a person is in life and
what is really best for them at that
point and at that moment. As a very
general answer, it's good to wean
yourself off a very intense connection
to teams and sports and being a big fan.
Yes, these are conversations around
tables and it's not the end of the world
to know a score,
but sometimes people become so
preoccupied and it really takes over
their lives and this becomes the focus
of their life and I don't think it's
productive. It's productive. So again,
it's a very individual question. Depends
who you are, depends where you are. But
wherever you are in life, for this to
become the focus of life could become
problematic. And I would try to
encourage you to try to find your
passion in things that will really
challenge you
to grow and not just be a spectator of
other people challenging themselves to
greatness. So yes, it's fun to watch the
great athletes and celebrities perform.
I got that. But the focus in life is how
you become an athlete. Whether it's a
physical athlete or a spiritual athlete,
I don't know who you are. I just know
that your name is Avi. But you want the
focus to be how you achieve your
greatness. How you become an all-star
pro, how you become the best person that
you're capable of becoming. I don't want
your life to be consumed by other people
who rise to such great heights and
making so many millions of dollars a
year because they certainly know how to
touch that get to that end zone pretty
fast. I want you to be able to reach
your end zone as fast as you can. Again,
whether the physical end zone or the
emotional end zone
mayor is 12 years old.
If godliness and Hashem is infinite, how
can a piece of it be inside of me?
Excellent question. Wow, I love this.
Mayor, if Hashem is infinite, how can
infinity be inside of me? I'm a limited
person. Very, very good question. And
the answer is two things. First of all,
you can't tell infinity what to do.
Infinity is infinite, meaning it has no
limitations. It doesn't even have the
limitation that it has to be unlimited.
Did you understand that? S mayor real
infinity
doesn't have any limitations including
not the limitation that it's not going
to have limitations and therefore if it
wants it can go inside a limited
reality. Number one. But number two,
maybe you're not as infinite as you
think. Yes, there's a part of us that's
finite. Our bodies are finite. Our
energy is finite. I can't just go on
talking and talking and talking and
talking of those sounds sometimes like I
do. We need to sleep. We need to eat. We
need to replenish ourselves. But there
is a piece within ourselves that is
really infinite. We call it the divine
imprint in a person.
So when you say we're finite, we're not
necessarily finite. There's a part of us
that is really infinite. So you'll say
but my nishama goes into this little
piece. The answer is it's not that the
nishama is inside of us. Really we are
inside of our nishama.
It's not your nishama is inside of you
hiding in some little corner. You are
inside of your nishama. The nishama is
in you. The nishama is around you. The
nishama is above you. Part of the
nishama is expressed through ourself.
But that's not all of the nish.
Excellent. Excellent question. Wow.
Here is the riddle for the week. And the
riddle of the week actually came in from
one of the children. One of the children
brought this riddle up. And I'm going to
send it. I'm going to want to say it to
you this week. And then we'll take
another few questions. And the riddle of
the week is
why don't we say the first time we put
on
the first time we're putting on let's
say it comes sukus and you bench the
first day you make first night of you
make you know why it's not a mitzvah we
do every day this is a mitzah we do once
a year or sukus
why don't we make when we put on fill in
the first time and number two Why don't
we make when we count
the first time? It's the first mitzvah.
We don't do it all year. We do it only
49 days during the year. Why the first
time we say don't we say when we count?
Those are the two questions to
And here is a third one.
You know made on a lot of things that we
enjoy, right? Before we eat, we have to
make a
before we smell, we say.
Here's a question. Why don't we make a
before we listen to music? I know during
we don't listen to music, but a whole
year music is pleasurable just like
smell is pleasurable and food is
pleasurable.
Why when we listen to music, don't we
make a bra this? A child asked me as
well and one of my boys asked me why
when we go skiing don't we make a braha?
Skiing is fun. And somebody else asked
why when we go swimming don't we make a
braha? Before we go swimming when you're
still dressed in clothes make a braha.
You're going to have fun in the pool.
It's so enjoyable. If they wanted that
every h that a person has he should make
a brah or she should make a braha. Why
not on music? Why not on swimming? Why
not on skiing? These are the riddles of
today. So you remember we asked about
we asked about
and of on the different pleasures of
life. You could text in your answers to
our page on the website the yeshiva.net.
You can write in your answers. Go to the
yeshiva.net.
this program, ask your question and you
could write your answer to the riddle or
you could text it to 845774747.
We are now putting together the
addresses of the boys and the girls who
got the previous answers right and
sending them gifts. So if you get this
answer right, these answers right, which
I will announce next Sunday at 4 p.m.
you are gleaned. You're going to get a
gift to your house, a little gift from
the yeshiva.net. And we're also going to
do the previous week's riddle, last
Sunday's riddle. Let's go to another few
questions.
Dina Khan is 5 years old from
Williamsburg. She wants Rabbi Jacobson
to know that today is her Yiddish
birthday and she had a birthday party
last week on her English birthday. She
also wants you to know that she loves
the programs and she's a big fan since
she's been four years old. Wow, Dina.
Dina, thank you. Thank you. Thank you so
much. That means so much. Dina and Dina,
happy birthday.
Happy birthday to Dina.
Happy birthday to Dina. Happy birthday
to you,
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dear. And Hashem should give you the
most amazing, beautiful, happy, healthy,
successful year. You should continue to
grow from strength to strength and be a
source of inspiration and love and joy
to yourself, your beloved family, your
community, the Jewish people, and the
world. And thank you for being such a
dedicated
fan. When you have a 5-year-old fan,
that's a pretty good sign. Thank you.
Thank you.
Okay, Quebec. QB. Uh, how do we know
that our religion is the true religion?
How do we know? There's so many
religions out there. How do we know that
our religion is the true religion? What
an excellent, excellent question. So,
I'm going to address it. But before I
address it, I would like to ask you to
go to the yeshiva.net. We have the amuna
series on the yeshiva.net. You can go to
the yeshiva.net net and you'll see on
the right column there's something
called amuna series and go there and I
think it's class number seven and number
eight I'm sorry number six and number
seven which address your question and
then later I think number 16 you'll see
the titles that discuss how do we know
our religion is the true religion and
try to listen or watch those classes I
think they will be very helpful but
since you're raising a very good
question I'm going to address one point
and that is there is something unique
about yiddishkai
that you will never see in any other
religion. Every single other religion
begins with one person or a few people
who saw something special and they
shared it with their students and then
it became public.
No other religion in the world has a
story similar to Yiddishkite where three
four million people observed Mamemed
Har. I observed the experience of Matra.
Why not? Why does no other religion have
such a story? There is one more religion
among the Hindus. There was a religion
that said that a million people saw the
revelation of God. But there's only one
detail there that is different and that
is everybody died besides one person by
the Jewish people. This is the story.
The story is that every single Jew saw
Matan. Why does no other religion have
the story? Why? It's always one person
like Yashka or Muhammad or Joseph Smith
or the Buddha. always one person or a
few people. The reason is very very
simple. In order to tell a story about
millions of people telling them what
they saw, unless it's true, they'll
never believe you. And that's why no
other religion can tell such a story
besides Yiddishkite. This is one major
response. For more details, go to their
series on the yeshiva.net.
Okay. Beautiful.
How long will we have to be quarantined?
I don't know.
I don't know. But what I do say to you,
as long as it has to be, as long as it
is, utilize the time well because this
is a historic time with historic
opportunities. Kinder, this is a very,
very special time. You will still be
telling your grandchildren about this
time. Trust me. In fact, history is
going to be divided pre-corona virus,
post corona virus. You can mark these
words. We're always going to talk about
life and you're going to say ah before
corona, after corona, before covid 19,
after covid 19. This is like a break in
history. Hashem says go back home, press
restart on your life. So this is mamish.
A beautiful, beautiful time. There's a
lot of tragedy and a lot of pain and
it's not easy. But it also comes with a
silver lining and a tremendous
opportunity to become a much greater,
deeper, more powerful, stronger, and
better person. A time to bond with your
family like you never did and you never
will be able to when this is over. A
time to bond with your parents. A time
to bond with yourself. A time to bond
with Hashem. And a time to bond with
friends through the telephone like you
never did before. And it's going to be
difficult to come back to this because
I'll tell you about my life. I travel a
lot. Not for the last few months. Since
Purim, I haven't traveled. Since before
Purim, I haven't traveled. So, it's such
an opportunity everyone in their own
lifestyle to really go to a much deeper
place inside of yourself.
Yosi Gervich, I am from Argentina.
Wonderful. Welcome from Argentina. Wow.
I guess bonus Iris. Welcome Yosvich.
How
did the
know what was happening in Shamayim?
This is a question on my on my first
story with
great great question and the answer is
because they were wise and let me
explain to you they were sitting in
front of their
who was one of the greatest of the
generation. He asks them do you want to
hear do you want to hear a story that's
not a usual option that he gave them
was not a storyteller he sometimes told
stories in the middle of his but he
wasn't a storyteller right he would
usually say deep deep anyone who knows a
little bit about the he was one of the
greatest
not just of his generation but of many
generations his mastery of all parts of
and bringing them all together in a
perfect mosa Mosaic and tapestry was
simply unparalleled published in around
50 volumes of and
today forim and
all of his explanations on his
grandfather's
his etc. So you're dealing with a man
whose mind and soul was something unique
and they knew this each one according to
his level. And suddenly he's offering to
tell them a story. They already
understood there's something unique. And
then he tells a story and he's telling a
story about
the lived in the same time with they
were friends. They didn't see each other
but they were very close friends. The
stories about that too. They were he's
telling a story about something that
happened then. somebody who lived in
those times because the was a
contemporary of the and then he says
that somebody walked into
and said the man is innocent and they
understood the man died not longer
before because he was a so this didn't
happen 50 years ago and then says and I
say he's innocent too then he turns to
them and says and now I want to know
what you say now one second you're
telling me a story why you asking me my
opinion about the story the they were
sensitive They immediately snuffed. They
they sense that there's something very
unique at this moment that
was telling the story to help this nish.
You get it? So they may have not known
exactly what happened. I also don't know
exactly what happened.
In fact, the explanation to the story I
gave you, it's not in the original
story. The explanation of the story,
this story was told by the previous
labba in Moscow in Toé Piml 1922.
published in
Vipurim
Vipurim and also in Rashimar also in the
name of the previous labba who said it
in rustav in 19 he says 1922 or 1923 and
he heard it from somebody who heard it
from the rebba so the explanation of the
story I was just sharing with you based
on what I understood that they
understood but I think it's quite clear
that because they were sensitive they
got what was going on
How do we know that Hashem is the true
God?
The Gentiles have their own religion.
They have the Christians have Yashka.
The Muslims have Muhammad. They believe
that they are in charge. They say the
world came from the big bang. How do we
know Hashem is the true God?
These are very very good, very very good
questions. You have to know that the
Christians and the Muslims all believe
in Tyra. The Christians and the Muslims
all say that Tyra is true. They just say
in addition to there is also the
Christian religion and the Islamic
religion but they all believe that
whatever it says in the is true. So all
the billions of Christians and Muslims
their god they all agree to the
definitions and the stories and the and
the truth of all of them remember that
everyone agrees. Now the question is why
didn't the Jews follow Yoshka or
Muhammad or these others? And of course
the answer is because they were changing
the meaning if you believe the is true
the says
that
there's a mitzvah and that the mitzvah
are not going to be changed. You can't
nullify mitzvah. You can't add mitzvah.
You can't alter mitzvah. That's part of
the Tyra. So if you believe that the
Torah was given by Hashem and he said
that mitzvah are not going to change.
When later so-called prophets of other
religions tries to change Tyra, the Jews
knew that it's not true. That's why they
didn't accept these new religions. But
all of them accept Tyra as true. Again,
more about these topics, you can go to
the yeshiva.net, the yeshiva.net. We
have an amuna series and over there
you'll see a list of classes with titles
and we address all of these issues.
Eli,
what does Tishb stand for? Leo Tishbby.
I think he came from the city called
Tishbi.
Do it. I'm sometimes to my parents or my
Rebies. What can I do to prevent this?
What you could do to prevent this is
whenever you have the urge to be
remember that you don't want to be and
it's usually not going to help and it's
not the right thing and therefore be
quiet and just tell them that there's
something very painful inside of me and
I would like you to give me a time when
I can have a respectful conversation
with you about it. I think that would
help.
My yeshiva does not allow us to ask any
questions on Hashem on Judaism.
So they ask me, "Who do you listen to?
What do you read?" If I tell them that I
listen to you,
they might get upset of me. Will they
throw me out of school?
I don't know. You can email me the name
of your principal and I could
communicate with him directly if you
want. and ask him if it's fine and if he
has opposition to it. You can email me
rabbi yway yeshiva.net.
I doubt he would be upset. Your
principal will be upset if you listen to
these programs. These are programs where
we tell stories. We have nigun. We do
riddles. We do interesting stuff. We
take questions from people. Um uh
I don't know about your school. I don't
know about the people. So it's very hard
to answer the questions. But listen, you
know, sometimes there's different
approaches to yiddish kite. Sometimes
people say you know it's better not to
ask any questions and we have a massern
and we have a tradition which is
beautiful and true. The only thing is
sometimes people do have questions and
therefore I try to offer an opportunity
for them to answer their questions. But
for people who don't have any questions
ever there's no need to ask questions.
You know maybe they feel that their
children you know don't really have any
questions. Is there nobody in your
school you could speak to? Maybe you
should speak to your parents about this
and ask them what would be the best way
around it. But if you want, I am happy
to communicate with your principal
directly if you email me who he is or
who she is and I'll communicate with
them and I could let you know what they
say.
My school has a lot of learning now.
It's mandatory. I don't want to do it. I
didn't do it. I'm learning great things
myself. I'm using the time to learn
topics I want to know more about. Should
I feel bad about not doing school's
work? I can't do both. Listen,
maybe you can get a special dispensation
from your teacher or your principal that
you want to study other topics and tell
them what you're going to do. And that
way, maybe they'll give you permission
to use some of the time to explore these
topics. Listen, I'm sure your teachers
and principles will be very happy for
you to explore new topics. And sometimes
you can get permission, let's say you
could take off one of the sessions or
maybe a half a part of one of the
sessions and do the other topics. But I
would certainly try to keep up with
school.
Can we have a family like fire without
any guests or is it too dangerous? I
don't know where you live. I know this
is Yesh from Muny, but I don't know how
you make a fire. What's going to be? You
should speak to people who know about
the safety in your home and your
neighborhood.
and uh and consult with them about this.
It's known that the Balata the Alterba
disliked Napoleon.
But why? Napoleon wanted freedom. He
wanted to give freedom for the people
and today we all live in Napoleon's way.
Excellent question. The answer is that
the alterba the balhatana felt that
Napoleon was giving the first time
complete freedom to the Jewish people
and they will not know how to handle it
and they will assimilate the pressure of
losing their distinctiveness will cause
them to assimilate and look what
happened in Germany and France. So
there's no question that history has
proven him right that he felt that
freedom is a great gift but you have to
know how to deal with it. You have to
know how to treat it. You have to know
how to receive it because if you don't
know how to deal with freedom, it can
take you away further from yourself and
you become more enslaved even than you
were before. Because you become enslaved
not by things outside of you but by
things inside of you.
Beautiful, beautiful questions.
When somebody passes away, he completes
his mission. David says, "Then why do we
complete our mission? If we don't
complete our mission, we're going to
live forever."
Do the point is we don't know exactly
when we're completing our mission, how
we're completing our mission. So, every
soul is a gift and every soul has its
time and every soul has its mission. And
really, we trust Hashem that he knows
exactly what's the best thing for every
soul.
Why does
Hashem punish people who don't deserve
to be punished? Moi asks a question.
I don't know that Hashem doesn't punish
people who don't deserve to be punished.
But not everything in life could be
called a punishment. In other words,
when a person experiences pain, it
doesn't necessarily mean that they're
being punished.
It could mean a lot of other things. It
could mean that this is part of their
mission in this world. It could mean
things that I don't understand why they
have to go through it. It could be that
this is a preparation for something that
we don't understand. It could be that
this has something to do with their
nishas unique history or unique or
unique place in this world or the next
world that we don't understand. It's not
always black and white. Oh, you did
something bad. You're getting a
punishment. Sometimes it's so much more
complicated. Sometimes this nishama is
just experiencing and sensing sensing
the brokenness in the world. So there's
so many different things.
How many languages do you speak? Me I
speak Yiddish very well and I speak
Hebrew fairly well pretty well and I
speak English. I would love to speak
more but I don't. My grand my parents
are Russian. My father was Russian. My
mother lang is Russian but they used to
speak Russian when they didn't want we
should understand. So I never learned
Russian.
Stephen, what does it mean that an issue
for that is like when you say a child is
part of a parent? What does it mean a
child is part of a parent? It means that
the child physically is the product of
the of the seed and the egg of Tati and
mommy which develops into the embryo
and the child becomes separate but the
child comes from the parents. The child
carries their genes and the child
carries much more than their genes. As
Yiddisheskite explains, we see that the
relation between parents and children is
the deepest relationship. Parents will
often give everything away and sacrifice
everything for their children. This
means that a child is not just a
physical product of a of a parent but
the child really captures
the essence of of a parent even though
the child becomes a separate person. And
the same is true with an when you say an
is
it means that the is so to speak a
fragment of divinity. It's like so to
speak a piece of Hashem, a piece of
Hashem's light or infinity is invested
in every single person's life. So that
in that sense I am completely one with
Hashem. I am an expansion of Hashem. I
am an extension of Hashem. I am a
partner of Hashem. It says that when
says in paran
he says
I will give you rain.
I'm going to give grass. Moshe is not
giving rain. Hashem is giving rain. So
say
the spoke through the throat of Moshe.
Meaning Mosha was so one with Hashem in
a revealed way that Mosha's whole
presence was just a conduit for Hashem's
to flow through him. So Mosha could say
I am going to give rain because Mosha's
eye was just a conduit for Hashem's eye.
Now the fascinating thing is we each say
every day
I am going to give grass. I am going to
give rain. So the asks
real davining is not just repeating
words. Real Ding is experiencing the
words. How can every Jew say I'm giving
rain and he says because we say this
after we say
after the Jewish soul acknowledges and
meditates of the about the fact and
becomes aware that it's completely one
with Hashem. So every Jew could say I
will give because his eye is completely
subsumed and one with its source with it
with its creator so that there's no
separateness that part of us is that
part where there's no separateness.
Beautiful beautiful question.
You told us before that boys and girls
are equal in Yiddish. Then why do why do
we say in the why does the man say or a
boy say
thank you Hashem for not making me a
woman?
Excellent excellent question. The fact
that a man and men and women are equal.
This is not Rabbi Ywesh.
This is a basic fundamental truth of
Judaism. There's two pillars of Yiddish.
One is creation and one is revelation.
One is paras. One is one is that Hashem
created the world and one is that Hashem
gave to the world and to the Jewish
people. Those are the two cornerstones
the two of all of
andi
creation of the world and and in both of
them what is the role of man and woman
and the answer is equal. It says in
paras
Hashem created the first human being
male and female
and he called them the first Adam as the
Gmorrah says in a was a man and a woman
together like Siamese twins both created
in the image of Hashem and then he split
them into two. So in the beginning of
everything man and women are equal
identical
equal maybe not identical but equal
to the women come first
as the Gmorrah says
all the prohibitions in is identical a
man and a woman yes they have different
missions they have different mitzvah
there's things that a man does that a
woman is exempt there's mitzvah that are
specially connected to women or more
connected to women But differences don't
mean they're not equal. They're
completely completely equal. In fact,
the Gmorra tells us in
that said that a person has to love his
wife like he loves himself and respect
his wife more than he respects himself.
The
is two reasons. First of all, there's a
special gift that a man got so many so
many mitzvah. So, it's a special gift.
It says this in the
because she doesn't have so many this
special gift of mitzvah. It's like
thanking Hashem for all of these special
mitzvah that
a human being that this man got. That's
number one. And number two, on a much
deeper level, and I'm not going to
elaborate on this, but on a much deeper
level, a man says
women, most of them say, at least many
of them say
he made me like he wanted to make me.
And this has to do with the med saying
something very, very deep. The med says
that a woman has a strength that a man
doesn't have. Because Adam, if you take
him back to his source, what are you
going to find? You're going to find a
earth, which is very fragile.
If you take her back to the source, what
are you going to find? You're going to
find,
right? It says Hashem separated from
Adam. So the source of Kava is a person.
The source of Adam is so that's why in a
very very deep place, man is very
fragile. And he he can't say who he is.
He could just say who he is not
you did not make me a woman. He could
say who he is not not who he is. The
woman says
you made me according to your will. She
can experience and acknowledge that her
existence is a manifestation of divine
will.
If you want more explanation on this, I
could send you an article on this, an
essay, a few classes. You can email me
rabbi ywaytheish yeshiva.net. I just
want to get to as many questions as I
could. That's why I'm trying to go fast
and we're going to go another few
minutes with questions. We have another
five minutes for the program and we're
going to do more questions. Okay.
How can every person do all the mitzvah?
Some mitzvah are for some mitzvah are
only for the bik. Some mitzvah are only
for ladies. Some mitzvah are only for
men. 100% right. And that's why Jews
connect to each other. When we unite
with other Jews, then the mitzvah of the
Cayen are connected also to me and my
mitzvah are connected also to him and
her
today was my great great uncle Rabbi
Label Groner Schlam. Yes, he uh
he passed away. Eraf Pesf
Pes.
Yeah, he is missed. He is missed.
I'm 9 years old. How do we know all
these stories that happened in Bezon
Shila in the court of heaven? I don't
know any stories that happened in Beza.
That sak sadak was one of the great
sadikim of the generation and that sadic
a really really great sadic has
eyes that can see things that other
people sometimes don't see. Really every
nishama sees unbelievable things. Do you
know the moment a person passes away
person can see from one end of the world
to the other end of the world because
the nama's vision is not limited by
physicality but when the nama is in the
body it becomes limited but a sadic
whose body is so deeply connected to the
soul can see things that other people
don't see always. So really if all of
our eyes were completely cleansed, we
would be able to see just like a Na'vi
has antennas that allows them to hear
things that others don't hear. You know,
birds can hear sounds that we don't hear
because the frequencies of those sounds
are not picked up by our ears. Our ears
have its limits that our brain can
interpret certain sounds and the other
ones simply are not registered but not
because they don't exist. Simply we
don't have the kalin, we don't have the
vessels. The same is true with seeing
certain levels of reality. I can't see
the atoms in this table. I can't my eyes
can't could only see the table. I can't
see the atoms. If I would have a
microscope, I could see things. Take the
Corona virus. You can see viruses with
your eye. You know, for thousands of
years, they didn't even know viruses
exist. Today, in the late 1800s, they
developed the microscopes that allow
people to see microorganisms. So these
things exist, but you have to have the
right receptors, the right eyes, the
right antennas to detect them.
Why are there so many different versions
of Davening if the set the dvening in
the beginning? Excellent. Excellent
question
and the answer to this is the were
the estray the 18 blessings of Estra but
remember there was no printing press
then there was no publishing then and
even the writing was very very limited
they wouldn't write
much later
after the of the second decided to write
down the Mishna because most of was not
written. Only the Tanakh was written and
even that had to be copied with a hand.
So therefore the original things not
everything was maintained and over the
generations
they knew that but some different
versions developed based on how people
remembered it and then how people
sometimes thought if they had a question
what should be the right one. But the
fact is that the basis of the answer is
almost identical. Meaning we have 18
brah. We know the exact order. We know
the exact theme of every bra. The
beginning, the ending. There's a change
here in the word. A few words here, a
few words there. But the theme of the
bra is completely identical. But over
the generations, you had these few
changes. And then of course, there were
other parts of Davening that were added
later. And some parts were added in
different communities. And again,
without it immediately being documented
in one book that went everywhere because
of the limitations, there could be
copies. And whenever there's copies, you
make a mistake. Everything had to be
copied by hand. That's why in Gmorrah
sometimes there's different versions.
How can there be different versions?
Because it has to be copied. And when I
copy, you know, maybe I snooze off and I
miss a word. Maybe I write one line
before another line. That's why you'll
see in a sagra and other footnotes on
the side of the gar they'll put in an
extra word because of all these
situations.
Rabbi Jacobson, what are the children
supposed to take out of this situation?
We are taking a big hit staying home.
We're always told that behind everything
that happens there is a hidden message.
Excellent, excellent question. And I
spoke about this earlier in the program.
Please listen this program earlier the
beginning of the program and you will
hear and also this is the eighth
program. If you could have time if you
could find some time and listen to our
previous programs we try to discuss this
a lot. Last question Ellie Ellie Noam
thank you Elen Noam welcome. How does
Hashem see us without eyes
and how does he live without oxygen
without cells without blood? Excellent,
excellent question. And the answer to
this is eyes are needed when you have to
see something outside of yourself. Our
eyes can pick up through light
frequencies. Our retina
picks up the light frequency and then
our brain interprets it, right? But when
it comes to yourself, what is happening
in yourself? Like let's say you're
feeling anxious or you're feeling pain
in your neck. So my wife looks at me and
she sees me going like this. She says,
"Oh, do you have pain in your back?" But
I don't have to look in the mirror and
say, "I have pain in my back." You know
why? Cuz it's me. I experience me. I
feel me. Hashem doesn't need physical
eyes to see you. You are part of him. We
are all part of Hashem. So, Hashem
experiences every single one of us like
you experience yourself. Of course, how
does Hashem live? In the beginning of
the program, I addressed this. You're
not dealing with a physical being who is
living through the cells and pumping the
blood and the lungs and inhaling oxygen
and the whole central nervous system and
the brain. That's all a physical machine
which is an incredible machine that's
alive. But Hashem created that machine.
So he doesn't need those mechanisms to
live. For example, if I create a
computer or a phone and I plug it in and
that's how I recharge the battery,
you're not going to say, "But where's my
plug?" I created the plug for them. I
have a different way how I live. So the
creator doesn't need the same plug that
we have.
Kind, you're the best. Thank you for
your questions. There's still more
questions, but our time is up. It's
5:32. I love you so much. I wish you an
amazing, beautiful, extraordinary,
uplifted week. Utilize it well. This is
a great, great time in the sense that
you can grow like never before. It's a
time to reveal your deepest strengths.
This is a time of leadership. Display
leadership. Become the best self that
you can. This is a historic time. Davin
with more cavana and truthfulness. Learn
with more passion. Do mitzvah with more
excitement. Have a and be there for your
family with more gusto.
Respect taty mommy.
Don't fight with your siblings. Play
with them. Have fun with them. Enjoy
them. Talk to them. Enjoy spring and the
beautiful weather to the best of your
ability. Hashem should give a complete
and speedy recovery to all those who
need it. Strength and to all those who
need it. We are going to be back here
next Sunday, Lena 4:00 PM with our
children's program and the answers to
the riddles of this week and the riddles
of last week. Also, next Sunday 2 p.m.
we're going to have a Yiddish program.
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of relationships
and raising children during the Corona
virus. It's not for you. You have to be
in bed. It's for your parents. Tuesday
night, 8:30, how do we develop a
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Thursday night, 9:30 for teenagers
with all of their questions. And next
Sunday again for children. 2:00 in
Yiddish, 4:00 p.m. New York time in
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awesome, beautiful, inspiring,
extraordinary week. May Hashem heal us
and heal our planet and give us a new
dawn of redemption. Amen. Amen. Have a
beautiful week. Thank you.