Rabbi Yossi Mizrachi - Tikkun Habrit - Wasting Seed, Self pleasuring, English Important Lecture

[Music] good evening everyone welcome to another hazaki event and the topic we chose tonight is it's called schmear a tablet which means the obligation of the Jewish man and woman of course to live in modest standouts and I would encourage you to ask all your questions because I know I get a lot of questions and they always repeat one of each other maybe if I answer it online I will give me some time to bleed every Monday like tomorrow I'm speaking right here few blocks away from here routine every Monday 8 o clock in different topics every week different topic on say 99 or 766 Avenue just remember 66 Avenue corner of 99th Street in a big shul the shoulders the side entrance you go in every Monday at 8 o clock everyone wants to know where I speak instead of sending me texts and emails all you have to do is to go on divine information calm on the top you have events it's updated 99% of the lectures I put in unless if it's a private event but all the public lectures are there you don't need to call you just go in you check it shows you the date the address the topic everything you need to know if there's going to be Chinese food it's also safe it's not going to double the amount of people who comes this is where we live in the food brings the people more than what the Torah does alright anyway before I start any questions up to now everything is clear what I said about the announcement okay so let's move on hey reviewing studying everything I'm going to say is based on the book of Rabi upon rata which published a very important book when it comes to modesty it's called show me a Moony what's great about that book that besides speaking about the high level the high standards of modesty in the eyes of God it's also speaking about the afterlife heaven hell some of the things that happen to the wicked people if they brave they can go and read this book and see where they added if they're not going to change but this book is not recommended for an average learn a lavage begin ell its own it's more for people in highest high level of learning they should go to this kind of books I made one selector a video about the seven different places inhale seven different places and I never published it it's not on a website it's not an internet anywhere the reason is for every ten people who would listen to it free will be extremely encouraged and seven will be extremely discouraged so will take them away from the love of data why they will be so upset from how strake is the judgment so it doesn't pay cause not everyone can handle the truth some people cannot handle the truth you have to give them ten twenty percent of it not more you give them too much they they see how strict it is they run away they don't want to know unfortunately people live in a fake generation everything around us is fake society is very very rotten the music we hear it's worse than garbage but we are not aware of it the way people dress the way people talk all their lies you hear for mourning tonight no faith in God nobody really believes in God even people works with Yama kind bill they have doubts about certain things in it OA people who can keep Shabbat three four years after four years they send me an email if it if they can keep only a part of the Shabbat after three four years they keep foolish alright it's very hard for him he's a single guy parents don't keep so he's saying I'm sure God would understand if I keep some of the Shabbat better than nothing you understand why we live in and person knows that this is the eternal covenant and after three four years that he was able to keep so you know since his family don't keep I understand it's not an easy test so it's considering to go back to square one and then so this is where we live in but since this is where we we are it makes the situation much much harder that's why not everyone is capable of eating it someone was connected to tava here's a rabbi he's close to his rabbi is rabbi giving the right information that you need to know and is a requester of the truth because it's also natural some people born like that some Tyler cat my own children I see this different souls one all day all day speaks to me about the parsha all day five years old every fact ii have a who's the father of these who's the father of that who was born fails which partially fails what partial come after these five hundred questions per day if I'm in home you know and the other one even if you talk to him about it his right is already counting the second when it's going to be over so you see from young age it's already it's the pen what's all came from previous life if it's a filthy soul or if it's a pure soul some soul have small collections to make some souls have a lot to correct they have their the job is that means this is your particular mission in life particular mission if it's hard for you Shabbat that's your main test if modesty is hard for you that's your main test if kosher food is hard for you that's your main test you know believe it or not some people everything can be easy for them feeling it's hard for them two minutes a day to put within search lights perhaps the easiest mitzvah it's hard for them some people to pray just to spend ten minutes in front of a shame and pray it's very hard for them they can never focus they're always thinking what's outside what's going to be in a business this so everyone has his main test in life I want to start this lecture with the words of the Rambam the Rambam in chapter 21 in the laws of Swabia forbidden relationships forbidden relations there are bounces like this of course whatever the Rambam say not one word come from his opinion Judaism it's not express your emotions and your opinions well it's like you go to college when you have a novel somebody who I don't know Shakespeare is whatever he wrote a novel and now if they teach you in college or in school or in high school and you learn the story of whatever it is okay so now it nobody really cares if you go deeply into the mind of the author and know what he meant while he was writing it doesn't matter as long it's you it brings the greatness out of you and you are in place and you express it in your own ways and your own words and everybody says on story what the author meant it's fine you cannot learn the Tanakh like this so knock it's not Macbeth or anything else of Shakespeare or all the other things no the Tanakh you must know what was the attention of the rider if you don't know what God meant everyone will interpret it in his own way based on his emotions in his opinion you can now have 5 million different kinds of Judaism's which one you'll belong to as it is right now there's so many codes in Judaism that going of the way they think they are extremely righteous but they are dreaming they are not in the right direction they think we have we are extra we are the commander of Judaism we are like these we are like that we fight on the street with stones we burn places they think this is the way of the Torah nobody is going to mess with us if they're not going to accept it with a nice way we will force them to do that's not the way of the Torah that's not what God is interested in but anyway so the Rambam this what he writes he writes Kolob a lie of Amina I ought every person who had a forbidden relation or even hugged a kiss with desire or body to body anyone of the forbidden not talking about his own wife his own wife is a mitzvah it's no problem so everywhere everything that is forbidden on a person in the time of the Act he's violating many many scenes from the Toa not one or two many many different scenes one thing is low tech level alot Ava don't come kneel that you have a forbidden relationship then it's destroying the holiness of the person then is lota to or eleven Bahraini famous shocking Sony Muharram don't follow your eyes in your heart that makes you make scenes scenes of prostitution zone in comes from the war zone azure nights a prostitute in EBU so the toe I use the an exact word I share attempt zone Imahara hem now I didn't say that you are violating no it said that this is prostitutions this is what it is the Torah is very precise a person is not allowed to wink to a woman to talk to him on a street to give her compliments on the street to give any hint to tell her jokes to be friends with her to be health psychologist you can you can open your heart to me I'm a good friend we went together to school 10 years rabbi know she's only my friend what's the problem she is in a crisis she left her boyfriend vini you know she's very depressed I'm afraid she's going to do something to herself so all of a sudden bio hegemony became the psychologist tell me open you all you can count you can count on me I'm very confidential the next thing she see everything is on internet trusting this kind of people or blackmail begin oh I know your secrets if you're not going to do this and this and that people are very naive today you gotta be very very careful because you have to understand even if a person is really a good friend of yours male or female and really at this given moment you can trust him 100% always have to remember that in one if now things can be the opposite yeah very this 12 so that is your best friend can become your biggest enemy in here why to give him material that can be used against you a clever person never tell anyone his private secrets never even sometimes to his own or to your own wife or to your own husband not everything you you can count on them to accept certain things they pretend they understand you they pretend that they you know they no problem they can live with that and two years later it breaks the marriage why because it's constantly kills them from inside and then somebody else talks about it and somebody else and then they watch something and they put everything together and I said that's it I can look I can go on like this you gotta be very careful by telling your secrets to whom sometimes even people come to the hoenn rabbi and open their heart to them and rabbis are human being yeah they in higher level than the average people it's true but certain things that you may tell you up I would make your rabbi lose your value in his eyes why because it would be very hard for him very hard for him to teach you or to be close to you knowing you doing certain things you gotta be careful so whenever you have to ask a private question never admit is you never don't tell him I'm talking about me I cheated on my husband two years ago don't ever do that you tell them I tell him I have a friend and yes yes that's the right way to talk I have a friend that she did this and this and dad now she is driving me crazy she wants to know what to do she can stay with her husband she have to get divorced she has to tell her husband this there's a lot of questions in life don't ever confess that it's you we are not Christianity you go you put 50 bar dollars in a box and the fathers stand in the other side and pretend he doesn't know you I understand that's not what it is also men gotta be careful what you say you know oh if confession was the public thing it wouldn't be whispering Levine oppa I would scream everyone together like we do a shame and shame el hombre haneun everyone scream right after right before that it's whispering then sitting down what you need to scream you scream what you need to whistle I say they I give a lecture about governing and I say what's the most important part of the Davin II everyone scream something and the end the conclusion is that village ma nicely whispering when we stand in front of a shame we spinning so I say why it's so important the most important Fela is whispering nobody hears you why imagine a person now in show me at Fela right he's going like this it begins to scream a shame you know I'm tired I'm tired of my pants ah my wife doesn't help me nobody understand everyone in the shul this can scream my shame I'm broke send me money this guy says Allah doesn't want to marry me how many years I'm going away they all shoot everyone scream like this anyone can focus on his play has to be really private and it has to remain private you don't make your show Maps allow your confession in the middle you wanna add words so mad Fela and everybody have to really applaud your problems you know so there are there are bounces like this any kind of friendship even even even if you really this girl is not your style she's not your uten you don't think there's a chance you ever be attracted to her to make a scene with him completely she's not your style here you say the chance that I ever liked this girl is zero or she thinks the same way or there's a big difference in the age can be a daughter or anything like these people think she's 10 years older than me she's 20 years older than me what I don't have desires could be my mother this one believe me the world is full of forbidden relationships that you never ever believe it's possible never believe it's possible things that the Torah warns about thank you things that the Torah warned about when you read it first time so why the tow I had to wait so many warnings what the Torah is talking about psychos but today you see how people are doing exactly what the Torah warned about god knows what he's talking about you know that there will be crazy people who rape children will be crazy people who rape old people in hospitals he knew all these things that's why everything isn't a Torah why to tell you even though it's not logical that somebody will make these scenes but when you make the scenes I'll punish him severely so the Rambam continue the Rambam say even to joke around here what they say only knows these dad's jokes and to look at her beauty to look at her face and say wow what a beautiful girl enjoying the beauty I know I cannot marry it will be a married woman but just to enjoy from your beauty so what am i doing I'm not talking to her I'm a religious guy just thinking to myself what a beautiful woman Hashem created you think is a mitzvah in the beginning say maybe I'm doing something wrong two or three weeks later he say wow every day I'm making meets lucky douche ahem why what me too I do I'm in play I'm impressed by the beauty of the creation of a shame next time you want to be impressed being pressed from the trees from the animals in nature from that you allowed to be impressed don't be impressed something that the Torah say what your eyes don't look then someone like that that they're debating the Jewish baiting gave him a warning you are talking to the girls on the street you gotta be careful and he did not accept the warning somebody like that what do you think they do to him they take him to the bedding and whip him with a whip that everybody will see that this person is not a modest person imagine if we try to do it today to someone what would happen Iran crazy religion what's going on but that's what I shan't say that a person like this has to get a warning sometimes the only way a person understand and when when you feel physical pain when you know if I'm gonna do it it's going to hurt me me he doesn't do it and then the people get saved you understand how many of us make scenes imagine if there was a system that every time you're about to touch food that is not kosher and to eat it you get electrocuted and you fall on the floor with horrible pain every time you try to take streams delicious whoa like right away or whatever you eat something that's not kosher then you never make a scene so all the physical pain one two three that's it you'll never do it because nobody wants to feel pain so now it's a positive thing so it's a negative things depend will you ask some people say better I make scenes and you don't force me to do meat what some people say is I want to subscribe to this program to save my soul I take once or twice the pain I get the point so far I've been trying 10 years and I'm not getting the point maybe that's gonna make me a better person right wrong so it's helping same thing by kids you ask you little key don't don't touch without permission don't touch don't touch don't touch she doesn't have two minutes later is by the chocolate again what happened when the father hit him like this not such a painful thing but embarrassing he eats him a little bit on the head no no no what happened he gets the point talking to him not always it helps I'm not encouraging anyone to become violent don't get the wrong impression but I'm just saying that in certain places the tourists say that the person has to get a warning warning before he gets a bigger punishment from God is to give him one or two spikes for everyone to know that this person is a sinner believe me to avoid the embarrassment that people knew that they took you to court and they had to smack you because you talk to a married woman in the office on the street or you sit on the street and watch the girls go to school right or you do other things that people do today many of the seniors today wouldn't do it you have to know one thing there is a very simple rule in every society and every courtroom that we go what is it the bigger the punishment is it indicates that the scene that was taking place is greater if the if a person get 20 years in prison and one person got only three years in prison then we know why the way the person who got 20 years probably did something much more severe we cannot compare three years to 20s if a person got one smack in court or 50 smack there's a big difference probably this one did something much greater same thing over here from all the sins of the Torah 613 commandments 365 restrictions which restrictions are subjects to the biggest punishments of the Torah forbidden relation all kinds of prostitution all kinds of not modest acts they are in the highest category of sins bigger than eating not kosher sometimes bigger than murder even the punishment of the murderer not always reached sex crimes so what do you see from here that in the eyes of the creator of the world lack of modesty it's not a joke like some people think it's a very very serious point that brings many tragedies to each one of us personally and to all of us as a nation I make sense he saw fail she makes scene she suffering she makes since I suffer that's how it goes we all want unit in the army of fifty soldier one or two are high on coke now they cannot fight we all gonna die what are you going to say leave me alone it's my own life no you fool you may stop in your responsibility in life all of us go down with you that's why it is an obligation in the Torah that every Jew is a guarantor for the other everyone has to do whatever they can to help the others to come up somebody called me yesterday he's saying I wanna I want to clarify with you if I did a good thing or bad thing what is it I went I saw a religious guy a Quadra Amica you know you know he has it's a religious guy walking with the girl on the girl was dressed worse than a prostitute he just couldn't see it you say so he say think it's what I say to the guy something should I not say should I say so I called him on the side it was afraid to tell him clearly what the problem is so he hinted to him he said to them maybe you should think because you are going in a wrong direction the guy so what's what you talking about I'm going in the right direction what am I doing wrong so he's calling me maybe he went too far so I told him not only you didn't go too far you didn't go far enough next time you have to call him on the side and tell him listen I'm not your father I'm not your body I'm not your teacher it's not my job to give you Moosa but I just want to keep what the Torah says you are walking with the yarmulke with a girl that is naked on a straight this is a very big feeling of shame did you ever think what damage you making that's it and leave he wants to get the muscle fine it doesn't want let him scream while you're running away that's all if everyone will do it once a day the world would be a better place because remember many people here on the way here I got the email from a religious woman thank you for waking me up I'm religious from birth but I after I started to listen to a lecture I came back to life everything I was doing is like a robot obviously when you do things like a robot you are not doing it right the heart is not there just being a robot no but that's not religion so let's move on so then I'm bounces like this someone who looks at the finger of a woman not only hugging kissing joking around and listening to our private problems on phone at two o'clock at night looking at a finger to enjoy from the beauty of her fingers maybe a petty comb eneko all these nonsense not like today the women they they glue all kinds of long nails like which each one of them has a dream she want to be a witch good thing she doesn't go with the ball on the street so she puts all these nails and she puts styles on it like these all kinds of strange things but what can I do that this is the fashion of the going not of God according to God you are ugly by putting this these nails where does it say Tina Toa who knows where does it chain at wife you have long nail it's ugly the Torah say if a Jew went to the wall religious Jew went to a wall and it's so Christine over there somewhere in a Europe there's a wall and it's so Christine over there and you if fell fell in love with heaven they cannot think now about the wall wow what a beautiful Christine is thinking so the Torah say oh you want to take your back you want to make a scene with their I know a Shem say I know you're not gonna listen to me now you far away from town you somewhere in a non-jewish country you're gonna make the scene with it so since you're going to make the scene way there let me help you it's called rehab in our days let me try to get you out of your addiction so what is it okay you want to touch here no problem but there are few conditions ones make your shaver head so this is the answer to all these Jews that think that the woman has to shave their head that's wrong it's against the Torah but that's the culture I cannot tell them what to do they do it for hundreds of wheels according to the soil a married woman must have here and has to be pretty to her husband but no other men should ever see her hair that's what the Torah says the toy didn't say a woman has to be looking like Kojak it doesn't say it she the woman has to be pretty to her husband and Knobloch bald woman is pretty for husband the Torah didn't say that Hashem gave the woman beautiful hell for a husband she has to shave it and put someone else here use your head and where is the proof in the Torah that woman not allowed to be bald Bhavana Torah where is it that if a woman is husband suspected his wife cheating on him yes to take her to the Queen in a time of betta Mick dodge 2,000 years ago and he takes her to the Queen and the coin take the cover of her hair and they open up the hair the Taurus el Palacio Lucia it's a veil signet OA the Kohen opened up her hair if she's bald if the truth was she has to be bald because of modesty there's a mistake in the Torah what a shame didn't know that women has to be bald why say to open up the hair because women have to avail and I'm not disrespecting anyone we have to know what the roots of their custom where it comes from I heard a woman in that which makes a lot of sense that there isn't some of the European ladies not all of them but some of them shave their head is because in the old days in Europe they used to make Bock homes and come to wipe the women and the only way to get safe from the rape was to take off your wig and then these Cossacks you know from they come to wait and they see all the women all of a sudden they're bored so they run away they get scared you know they make a face like these when they bolt so they get safe from rape if that's the if that's the source of the custom then we understand where it comes from it could be other sources some of the things that looks very strange has a very serious suit you have to go back and see what it comes from but literally from the tava that's not what the Torah say to have so anyway so so the Torah says like this if a person looks on the finger of a girl enjoying trying to enjoy from a beauty of your hands it's not allowed if a man goes to the wall and he found Christine over there in Christine he told ok you want you want I want to convert you and I want to bring you with me but you have to first shave your head you have to be bald and you have to make yourself long hair long long nails Bastide see pornea the Torah say you have to make long nails and then we're we're prisoners outfit prisoners like they take the pre so they all like today in jail they well special outfit you know and after she Lu and she sit home for 30 days to cry for the death of her father whatever after all that if you still want to make a scene with a fine you marry err you convertor fine but you should know that when you have children there will be wild beasts so many warnings and some people still did it some people still did it and what happened to them I don't want to mention name because of the reputation of these people some of them that didn't they had wild beasts children and they suffer from that children for the rest of their life how much a man can suffer for ten minutes that he wants to enjoy with a woman and then he suffer 40 years for it how stupid people can be if the people would use their head say wait a minute this one our pleasure will cost me for the years of aggravation and then in the afterlife and then who knows what an impact is going to be on my descendants this stupid desire that's why the tourists they watch your eyes you watch your eyes all the other partners who follow do not come so if he looks even at the egos in the office and the reception its work on our computer and he looks at the lens assuming she's a very modest woman so nothing else to look only to look at the lens even that is a very big scene and people sing a command you crazy looking in the woman's fingers is a scene yes it is if you look to enjoy from hell Beauty whatever it is and they tourists say the Rambam say that according to the tour I doesn't matter where you look in a woman's body any parts of your body that you look to enjoy from even ankles even the toes whatever she walk barefoot and you look at that it's like looking in the world's place nobody there's no difference why it's no Majesty that's it you cross that red line you cross the red line then the Torah says not only you're not allowed to look at the actual Mormon you're not allowed to look at their pictures today because sometimes I go to people's houses to give lecture very coming around here you come in 15 pictures all big the hat on and the calendar wedding the wife is half naked with a wedding gown and every man every crazy person has to come to the office to see his wife before she was religious on the wall you become religious remove the pictures you're not embarrassed that people come and see how your wife dress in the time of the wedding a Shamir ahem and not if not your wife some uncle or your aunt that they have naked on a wall or in a family album why people has to come and see your aunt in your your who knows what your sister whatever when they forgot to dress why there's another problem what is the other problem sometime today doesn't is not in America it's not coming but in Israel and some other primitive countries is still an issue what is it it used to be that everywhere in the world women hang their clothing outside to dry it's not like today dryers in this so people put their clothing so she puts her clothing on the wire and the neighbor all days like this Wow beautiful outfit sick person it's a sin from the Torah to look at this why because he has all kinds of imaginations in his head it's imagining bad things you know the secular people in Israel they're very ignorant when it comes to religion unfortunately so since they some of them some of them are nosy so they came up with a theory that the male and the female religious husband and wife are not allowed to have close relationship which means if they want to be together they one have relation they have to have a separation so what they do they put a sheet between their bodies and there's a hole in the middle of the and that's how they bring children to the wall what made them come to this mistake they sorts it's your hanging sit sit hanging ah the ignorant genius slide they came up with that theory even when I was a kid I hear that nonsense why they start a big city you know the Hasidim have very big shield it goes all the way to the floor so they said doesn't it doesn't look like city that's probably that sheet that we're talking about then dick Motta continued ligase Oh same enough mera autre someone who closed his eyes not to see betting's Amara beefy Ababa possession no mystical banishing be a special shame on dota lack visa he does not look at the women when they do laundry when women used to do laundry in a time of dig mala either in a lake or by the river or if there is a well somewhere spring water who comes out but most of them used to have their own laundry room not like today don't get excited no dryer no washer no bounty none of these powders great delicious smell know how these to do laundry they used to take a shovel and dig a hole in the ground after there's a hole it looks like a grave they take whatever cement or anything like that they put on the side of the wall and the bottom and it becomes a whole you know now they fill it up with water and they put very very primitive soft you don't want to smell it very bad and that's how they do the laundry so they come out ask a question we know that in a Jewish neighborhoods was always in a shape of a head shape of a lucky you but square right four walls and one open so if you have let's say ten houses so you have one two three four four houses and then four and four twelve houses four four and four and then it opens to the major odd is major road with all the hole says and the donkeys and the camels all riding on a major highway but the neighborhood the neighborhood has a field in between what are they doing over there there's all sales there is donkeys there's a cows sheep all the things that people own so if a person why the BMW of that time used to be a donkey then we'll say this was the horse and then the minivan was a camel that's what it was everyone is putting his animals over there one of the things they used to do in this field is to do the laundry now everything you want to do this is not a private territory this belongs to the entire neighborhood so if you want to do something there you gotta get permission from the neighbors so the guavas say if a woman wants to do laundry over there she wants to dig a hole and make herself a laundry room in the pot in a neighborhood a yard over there does she need permission permission from the neighbors or she can go ahead and not care what they think she can make yourself a hole and do the laundry the answer is she doesn't need permission what do you mean if you use someone else property you have few partners and you do it without the permission your teeth your nothing by the teeth so why the Torah gave permission to the woman to make the hole the answer is shocking as it may sound the answer is what's the alternative what's the other option would you consider that a Jewish female will go to the public lake to do laundry somebody ever held such a crime that the Jewish woman will go by the lake and bow down like this and do the laundry when all the goes on the horses and they may look at her when she she's in a public area this is just to show you the average level of majesty 2,000 years ago now you understand how low we came a complete cover not like today covered completely she's covered like you know a hundred percent when she bent down you don't see anything you don't see Adie you don't see anything you just see that someone is covered with a blanket but she's doing the laundry and she bent down and somebody may come from the side from behind all kinds of thing and may look at her for one second there's already no modesty for the daughters of God for the only nation would you consider that she's going to go to the lake everybody understand that no women will go to the lake to do it that's why the women don't have to have permission everybody must agree otherwise nobody will do laundry this is to show you who are mothers are now you understand why there's so much problems today so the Gemara say one man fell in love with his neighbour both of them are single she has a neighbour in the street she walks in the street he comes to his doctor and say I want to get married to this girl but she doesn't want me now I tell you doctor if she doesn't take me to be a husband I kill myself I die I'm already cannot functioning I cannot focus on my life that's it I'm sick already Haleh IVA that's what I am the doctor say wow it's Pequot nephesh really life risk let me speak to the rabbi's to see what the law says in cases like this I come to the rabbi's said I buy a Moshe fell in love with Miriam what can we do about it she doesn't want him maybe you can talk to him maybe he will go with her one time they make whatever they have to do and that's it just to save his life she's gonna do a very big mitzvah she saved a life of a personal the doctor is thinking now the Torah seppuku are nephesh no life risk life risk dr. Shabbat maybe it's also proven this the rabbi say a mood veloute by law let him died and she won't agree to do anything with him what's the question next day the doctor was being creative so he comes to the rabbi's okay rabbi not full sin how about if she walked in front of him she walks like this our you Masha he looks at her for two minutes and that's it no it will relax him she smiled a little bit and when I talk English she walks with the bathing suit she's 100% mothers women were modest what's the question the rabbi's say let him die and she won't walk in front of him fully modest why what's on his mind he looks at her beautiful gown now his mind is someone else she should not allowed to walk near him so the doctor was trying to be more creative it's okay Bob I let him talk on the phone 2000 years ago now you're thinking what phones my dad phones 2,000 years ago the answer is according to te Lim Dae Lim said that there was phones where does it sent a limb that there are telephones who knows inhaling that's insulation ah that's good I have something better save the whole hour HC @ Sokka van Oh Victor table meal ahem all over the world the lines spread and in the other side of the world you hear their voice this is a prophecy of a telephone caller ID attack a van avec cette ville the other side of the world meal ahem does line all the way from one side of the wall to the other and you hear the voice of a person in the other side of the world that's what he says today we have it so anyway how are they going to talk on the phone Moshe and Miriam in a time of the Gemara the answer is there the doctor said to the rabbi he will stand on one side of the wall and she will stand on the other side of the world no physical contact no eye vision this is how it's gonna be how are you today Moshe a great Miriam thank you for giving me five minutes of your time per day what are you planning today today what are they talking about kinda beautiful weather it was great on Shabbat I don't feel good today going to my doctor nonsense just to relax is mentally mentally to take the pressure from his head to give him a little attention the poor guy so maybe now the rabbi will agree the rabbi answer Allah ha the law let him die and she won't talk to him on the phone definitely not on a Facebook with pigtails send me some pictures this is my sister wedding my cousin Tuffy guy came from Israel with a friend look maybe one of them is good for you for she Duke yeah I have also a few friends let me send you pictures and then two months later somebody is getting murdered somewhere in a hospital in abortion this is what it brings to the world everything can be used for good can be used for bad depend what you do with that all is technology that a shame gave in this generation internet Facebook all this you know network marketing network whatever companies that we have today can be doing the greatest thing on health and can destroy the world the plan what you want to use it for you can use it to make massive amount of Jews religious massive radio I'll give you an example of a radio last week I told the story last Monday but I couldn't tell the full story because I didn't have permission from the person to use his name I don't like to take to tell stories unless if I say their name on on the air because when I say the name everyone can go and check if the story is 100% as I said if I don't say the name it's enough for me that some people think are making up stories or exaggerating that's already not watered for me to tell the story so what happened last week actually the story started Manta go listen good what happened a month ago I get a telephone call on a Tuesday afternoon from a person named inhale beaten from Brooklyn never saw him in my life never spoke to him before he calls me up about a month ago a month maybe by now maybe 40 days from now something like that he said to me I just heard you on the radio every Tuesday between 9:00 and 11:00 a man need a boat radio but all over Brooklyn so that week it was Shabbat I'm speaking about Shabbat probably you know my lecture about Shabbat if you didn't hear it at least three times make sure you do it you must hear it and know it by heart if you argue with other people that hallowed Shabbat you know what to answer so they listen to the lecture about Shabbat and it calls me up they say me and my wife are sitting in a car and I'm shaking now I don't know what to do he says so many kids all of them religious baggage shame one of them is completely not religious it's 20 21 years old he became completely not religious even when to crime without saying exactly what he was doing I am shaming ahem I'm even evie he said to me lives in my basement his natural Shabbat is doing laundry in a house on Shabbat knowing we all over show Mel Shabbat I cannot do anything with him what should I do am I allowed to keep him in my home or not maybe I'm helping him to make his scenes by keeping him at my own facility he used my stuff to be Maharaja but maybe I'm a part of the scene I don't know what to do I know my heart will tell me it's my son I have to help him but maybe I'm destroying him more and myself with him it's in a larger question what should I do should I tell him find your place yourself a place oh I should continue to close my eyes like I don't see what he does my art is burning so I started to talk to him I say instead of thinking what to do with him why don't we make him religious he said no it was in his shiver when he was a kid it was very good until a certain age something went wrong and he went all the way to the other side he doesn't eat anything from religion if I tell him a rabbi wants to talk to you there's no chance I say okay let's send him CDs now he won't even listen don't waste your time so I'm thinking I say I tell you what I have an idea I have this debate with the priest don't tell him it's religion it's very entertaining tell him that I buy against the priest it's a show let him watch it we'll watch ten minutes he's going to like it and he's going to listen to the whole thing they say you know what let's do it so we send him the DVD debate then a week later he calls me up you see you know what it worked I watched it first I really liked it I came to mercy you have to listen to it okay so you agree to listen he put it in the computer he watched the debate even bought his friends to watch it with him you have to see so now he's excited he really liked the show there so now since you already like you don't you have other videos I self course and then you throw in science see three watched oh and science will bring him back to life so he send it right away I emailed my shipping guy send him another video no sending toha and science we send him to learn science for our film watch the ten times he said now I went to Canada I send him a tow and science three days later I went to seminar weekend in Canada moti Shabbat Saturday night I checked my messages I see mr. McHale baton left me a message if you can call me back you send me the Torah in science DVD if you can call me back to night is better than tomorrow tonight but I'm very busy I have two lectures that night so I couldn't call him back Monday night I came back to New York I drove a ten hours from canto to Queens ten hours right I had two lectures I didn't have time for him I didn't have time so either way I came here I took to lecture next day I forgot about him Tuesday the next day Tuesday 6 p.m. my son comes to me ABBA someone is an adored Sokka so a man with a long field Haredi from I sang what does he know a little kid he understand it's Dhaka he tells me it's Dhaka we come to the door so he said to him no nuts Dhaka grab my hand hugging me kissing me feels in his eyes say calm connects to the let's go to the library room we're going to the library we see there I make I'll be done remember we spoke on the phone I said sure I forget you're not gonna believe what happened so I my son kept the whole Shabbat the whole Shabbat he kept with us everything now he told me to yesterday please take me to I closed all right that's a bookstore gift store in Brooklyn and so what you have to do a nice lady don't ask question let's go to I closed I take him to i flames he might succeed white a healing reborn so I said to him listen tomorrow I'm giving a lecture in Brooklyn I was last Wednesday tomorrow I'm gonna be in Brooklyn in Mill Basin why don't you bring him to the shield to the lecture he said no you know he has to go to the Bronx they have to check him over there these day he has to go to sleep very early but you know and I mention it to him the next day I'm on my way to book Lena so let me give him a call I call him I say it's a I'm for sure coming but him I don't know you know I let put him on the line he puts his son on the line you know I spoke to him I do like the CD is great I love it up so you're gonna come tonight he said I really want but I have to go to sleep early I have to be early tomorrow in the bonds this it's okay no pressure as long as you watch the CDs I'm happy in it I was having a bunch of all the mp3 all the C is equipped already so I said no as long as you say no planning two hours later he showed up the fell theme is younger son and him sitting first one in the lecture I arrived they they're seen nice and some kid 21 years old already look like it's a dick who would believe a week ago this one who was where he was so he come to me after the lecture he say I'm very inspired what do you think I should do now every day to keep it going give me tell me what to do I say only learn two hours to ride a that's it everything else will follow your learnt or I will keep build up your holiness this is the soul of a Jew can be the diamond can be deep in a mud you take it out you clean the mud one two three right the weight shines again we go we have to understand we destroy garnish a moat if we die without with the mat we die with the mat very bad but as long as we alive we can clean it very much then we continue the Rambam says you the rambam says like this MF Sharla damn liminal adds more if a person can prevent from himself not to meet listen to the world of the Rambam I'm sure you respect the Rambam know even the secular Jews in Israel expect the Rambam how do I know the only rabbi in the last 2,000 years that the secular Jews know it's random you know why cuz in every city in Israel you have random street hospitals called Rambam many places schools Rambam school there's why why the secular admire the Rambam even the go here in washington they made a statue of him why they don't make a statue of Rabbi Akiva was much bigger than the Rambam why they don't put o any one of the ten I mean why they don't do it because they only rabbis but Rambam was a philosopher an astronaut and mathematician a great doctor o as an educated person the Torah part they don't care they only care about the nonsense so still they admire him very much everybody understand is one of the greatest doctors they believe listen to the way he described girls no offense girls that breast not modestly this is his words I'm gonna read it to you Naboo and then translate MF Sheryl Adam Lim no ads mo if a person can prevent himself shallow leave Goa Emily show yo Rashad her hats afford not to meet with the wicked and the girls with hutzpah hutzpah arrogant al hot baggy Louie Bazaar that works in it that some of the skin is open not covered may we have Lee left better her hair he must change his way Robin it's my only way from my house to the bus well you want me not to go through the field it's ten times more to work I have to work it's a shortcut but there are women are not modest meh we have Lila had better half hair he must go from a different way la Mina's not sure least aquel it's a decay go to close his eyes and to turn to the side when he walks shallow here necrosha life nama calm why out of the Rambam knows it the Gemara says like this if a person has two ways to his destination one short with women del and one long without any women which way he has to go through for the long way if a person took the shortcut and closed his eyes and did not look at the girls that are not modest somebody like this is wicked all righteous ah someone like this he won ten minutes on a street full of ladies and closed his eyes or looked at the floor he did not see one of them if we had a candy camera follow him let's see we had a video guy and he doesn't know it's been followed he walks in the street and everybody sees like Yosef italic in Egypt he walks like this and they feel him and the girls calling him on the street something he doesn't pick up his head and they show it on television it's Cholula shame o kedusha shame collusion shame no dekma hast a Rasha wicked why tell you why if you already take the risk that you enter this minefield yeah may this time with no casualty you went through but the fact that you enter that place when the girls are there and you know n apropos that i oh there's no guarantee when it come to forbidden relationships there's no guarantee you cannot rely on yourself a minute before you die eight years you live your holy man all you saw is books and torah the last day of your life don't be sure about yourself if a woman come and seduced you the next thing can make a scene and lose everything no guarantee when it comes to this no guarantee so the Gemara say Russia if you want in a shortcut why maybe something could have happened you're not worried by us it looks very strange we see what's going on deals well I cannot leave the house now based on what's happening in a street store they speaking about generation that women didn't dress like today how many women 2,000 years ago dressed like the women today not even one in the whole world if you don't believe me go to the library ask them to show you books with pictures from a hundred years ago honey free generation you your grandmother's mother and back in time if you able to show me one black-and-white picture of a not modest woman I'll give you a price any book Jews non-jews doesn't matter or from a hundred from the nineteen hundred back on time one lady in any picture that was not much just like the ladies today you know what I'll go even far further even the religious girls today don't dress modestly like this secular women or they go in of a hundred years ago the secular Jews in Hungary 1933 one time if I've patience I'll connect my laptop and show you a five-minute film the women of the show merits I Iran Hungary dancing with the guys hora one guy one girl one guy one girl in circles they go in circles and you should see how they dress dresses like this wide like this cover up to here everything up to here 100% not one inch upper body you can see think about it ah we could women dance together with a man nacho Mel Chavez nothing whatsoever but Majesties majesty it's the dignity of the woman who knows what's the reason women has to be dressed all the time modesty everybody say not to make the men make scenes what happened if she landed on an island and there's no men over there only monkeys and baboons one girl once told me why why you say that I should not be too pretty when I leave the house I do it to feel great with myself you know I do my hair I put makeup I dress I look at myself in a me or it makes me feel good I say to her yeah because you do it for the men to look at you on a street she said no not necessarily I want to feel good with myself so I thought there let me tell you if you're gonna be landing in an island and there's no men over there only baboons and elephants and some giraffes and now you have your place with all your makeup staff and your he'll blow where everything you have with you you come out in the island you look around one zebra crocodile five bubbles on the trees no people nothing no man no female nothing how many minutes every day you sit by your me go and fix your place your the way you look not even one minute why there's nobody to impress will you impress the baboon the chimpanzee did you ever think why all the chimpanzee look look alike why all of them are twins 10,000 chimpanzees all of them the same face 10,000 people all of them different unless if they're born in China then they all look to say they all look the same all straight black hair same eye same skin everything to say but other than that every person if something unique about his face the answer is dick Motta answer a shame Chapel to fame and I'm Shaheen and the Ottoman I'm shaving the same way the images of the people of different the opinions is different the voice is different why because every person is a unique soul so let's solely as a test in life and his image is depend on his correction which means when you born when you created as a baby God already decided for you in the first 40 days of the pregnancy if you be handsome or not if you be pretty or not if you be very tall or very short overage it's all decided how it's decided they have dice over there in sham I'm and I shan't say let flow shesh Besh very good this guy would be very nice nice looking up to one okay ugly to one what's going on it's not working like this how does the work tell you how it works it works on how you died you died modest you don't need to be pretty anymore why your test is over you already modest you know pretty you died very pretty in your life man gave you lots of compliments attention you will devoted wife mother is faithful to us when you did everything according to the Torah Alexa I may know but you need to collect other things you have to be reincarnated why you're going to need to be pretty again it's only going to bring your problems more attraction more desires more tests more problems and you don't need it I want to help you out so I make you below average doesn't attract so much attention all the pretty girls what's happened to them all of them have modesty problem almost all of them so the beauty its can sale spiritual cancer in their life they think wow I'm so lucky a shame you made it so pretty you fool it's destroying your eternity this beauty what are you so happy from it it would be better off you don't attract attention I feel very pretty okay be like your grandmother saga she was much prettier than you you look like a monkey compared to it how do I know the Torah say everyone compared to salad looks like a monkey why the beauty was breathtaking for beautiful women ever leave Sara is one of them compare the women today to hair it's a joke but Sara was 100% modest nobody knew a beauty even one husband didn't know what kind of a treasure he has in his end why modesty was a very important thing you never found any compliment to a woman in a Torah besides modesty isn't it strange did you ever hear God compliment a woman for keeping Shabbos I never saw anything like that for being Ballack rested a little bit here until for being kind and helping but most of the time always modesty snob ah oh hell this mud is thick mother full of modesty compliments or complaints but it's all-around modesty let me read to you some of the things that Robbie are on gotta say about the horrible scene of a man that makes this thing before let me first explain to you when a wicked person died not evil wicked wicked means could be a good heart but made a lot of sins in his life there are this is this there is the scene that's called wasting seed which means the person that wasted his seed without his wife in a kosher way every drop of seed is a horrible sin even if it was not intentional but not intentional is the third section in hell person goes in he cleans his soul gets clean like a dry clean for the soul and one day he comes out of there and go to heaven and cash on his rewards that were same awesome but if it's intentional you should everyone should know if it's intentional waste of seed he goes to the seventh section which is the lowest and the soil and it appeals in Russia comma in the chapter of Avira or feel or Veera it's a pill over there that there are three scenes that once a person make them it goes to the seventh section if he dies without Chava without repentance if we died without Chava it goes to the seventh section and never ever come out of there for eternity I know it's hard to believe but that's what it says word by word and I'm not the one to modify the Torah I'm not reform yet this is what the soil and their hokhmah says first one maralell shabbat on purpose not keeping Shabbat knowing it's the eternal covenant with God and he goes to walk in his barbershop cutting hair okay it's not funny it's very sad for this person making two or three hundred dollars a day in loses eternity very bad investment male or female Shabbat is eternal covenant for everyone even convert converted too late my friend to go back to Vinny and Tony now that's it you'll you in now no no but it's too hard for me Rob I didn't know it's going to be so out you have a Jewish soul already can I go back you have to keep Shabbat you don't keep Shabbat you'll get punished just like a Jew from bills no way back that's why we have to tell the convent a hundred times before make sure we understand what you're doing don't put yourself in a jeopardy can stay righteous Gentile you can you have no problem no wasting seat by they go in even though it says that it's an ugly thing for them to do and they will get punishment but they don't have anything like a Jew there's nothing there's not the holiness of the seed of a Jewish mentor non-jewish man is nothing to compare in a sense but they for them with nothing he meets Christine in a ball it goes in with there they do they live like husband and wife tonight they met five hours ago two hours ago it's not a sin for them Judah does it with another Jew horrible horrible scene No to describe how big is the scene or all the other ways and keeping Shabbat and even in modesty they go out the Gentiles all stuff to be modest but nothing like the Jewish females an act of an and modest Jewish girl compared to a not modest Jewish girl is nothing to compare God expect from his children a lot more from the rest of the world the reason we made this topic tonight because we are entering days that call days of shavon shavon EBU means someone who does tricky betting's like the kid who is al h / radish of of kid making problems why it's called javabean because we are now going into the chapters in the Torah starting from chmod again so Smart Viera Bobby Allah it Amish bottom so the sixth part that gives the breviary of the world Chauvin according to Kabbalah Kabalah only you don't find it in Shahana who or in regular learning it's mainly Kabbalistic thing according to the Kabbalah those those weeks also the days of Elul and they are sarah TM h ova al days that the male and female can make repentance easily more easy easier from the rest of the year that's why many juice fasting on Monday and Thursday now in the next six weeks and they do chuva and they give stock grind they learn about the holiness of the seed and the relationship many things to show a sham now I came to Kovac help me out now let's read some of the things that Rob Yvonne art rata so Mary Mooney what in his book it says like this college a loot all the eggs I the whole eggs are hot and hold the problems that what every person has in person in private and in general as a nation is all coming because of that scene majesty and wasting seed it's destroying the foundation and the life of every person deck mother said the Rambam heights that first of all it makes the key tweak the oats of the teeth it makes the person smell from his underarm he makes bad smell to his gum in his breath it makes his hair loose he lose hair even from his brows and from his eyelashes that's how wicked make the roots of the air it brings all kinds of sicknesses he destroyed the pernessa the Parana sod a living person is looking for job he goes crazy months he cannot find because of that scene even if he has a job even if he makes a lot of money is three no blessing in this money there's no blessing in anything he does in his life why because of the horrible scene of gamma bleach and all things and all day that's the right word holding or knowing annulling annulling the holiness of the Covenant of the Brit Milah there are three covenants that the Jewish nation made with God Bri VA Shin Shabbat Shin betaf Shin Bet of Shabbat Shin for the world Shabbat or even even ahem shaman Israeli to Shabbat what does the PASOK say la SOTA 2-shot lead over tambry Tolan beanie when Israel ought it means a sign an agreement oh la ola it's a sign for eternity that you are my children that's one covenant what's the second covenant Brit Milah circumcision what's the next covenant Faline those are the three Commandments in the Torah that the world ought was used for them Shabbat you found the world owed Brit Milah buy a yacht with a solid frame you find the world owed Valene vilely Italia daija 3 Mitzvahed this is the three covenants that we met with a shame for a person to be Jew a kosher Jew every day to belong to this VIP club who called Judaism he has to have two witnesses that testify on him that is a jew that is a culture Jew so if he keeps Shabbat every week he has one weakness he keeps one covenant if he puts trilling every day this is the second covenant what's the third covenant Brit Milah not that he was circumcised when he was eight days old no that's his father meets vanadis that when he grew up he watches Brit Milah not to make scenes with the girls and any other kinds of see this is a very important subject so now on Shabbat you don't put fill in so you have the Shabbat and the circumcision two weekdays you don't keep Shabbat so you have three lenient circumcision so from the three covenant which one is the most important one the circumcision debride why it's seven days a week 365 all the time Shabbat is every seven days this covenant within six days one day no subs Brit Milah all the time now the girls here are thinking well in that case we can never be kosher Jews we only keep Shabbat wrong yes you don't put fill in one day when you get married you become one unit with your husband your husband food filling it counting Shama me put fill in your children will put filling it can't you told them you raised them you put fill in if you're not married your soul is not completed it can only be completed when the men and the woman unite up to now you have completed you cannot complete it I said in my lecture a few days ago about the role of a woman in Judaism you must watch this lecture once for all you understand the level of a Jewish woman in Judaism that the man is a male and the woman is a female the man is compared to six days of the creation Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday that's the men the men in Judaism is Shabbat Shabbat Amalekites female Shabbat in EBU every world has mellow female yom-yom fa mel shabbat Yaffa naughty affair far means female woman is Shabbat men is weekdays that's why the woman doesn't have to keep the laws that applies to time that are subject to time why the woman is above time she is 100 percent spiritual spiritual and connects to a shame with no limitation right away a man cannot connect to a shame from now to another away No he needs a lot of learning lots of hard work until he feels connection woman doesn't need all that 1 2 3 a judgment adjustment in a life - three chapters of daily one good story by the rabbi she begins to cry she became rock Elemeno one hour shortcut that's the way it is why because she connects to a Shem from the heart and the man connects to her mainly from the head also from the heart mainly from the head is much harder the heart walk right away many times I tell people certain things that the Torah say in 20 years they don't understand what I say they don't digest it desai understand what you say 100% I understand the logic but my heart my heart doesn't let me the heart has a very very big influence on our life usually for the bed usually it tells you to do the whole thing all the time so they we continue it says like these it's needless to say not only bring so much problems and sicknesses to the life of a person here it's needless to say what he's subject to in the afterlife for all the scenes and all these drop wasted and if he's not putting all his efforts to collect the scene the Sitra Achra the power of the devil of the satan is getting their food from his Mitzvahed because they are not complete he on kimeta at all mitzvah Tov the person a person that make vote but also violate this whole of the closure of the holiness of the circumcision the Sitra Achra satan they received the power from his Mitzvahed why because of this sin this is what we say net filler lemon law near Alaric we say in the morning lemon law near Alaric Valona Lila by Allah some people say Lone Eagle Erik that's mistake you have to say give me life we are a man lawn near ah like the Iraqi speak or the Persian why because means the God to touch we are not talking about touching you we're talking about how I felt Maga comes from Lashon Mattia Gaia Gaia AF please don't make us lose our energy Larry for nothing make sure that our energy go to the right place if you say my gallery is like you saying please make me don't make me touch for nothing touch what is lose them them them sentence lose the meaning of it what does it mean logic what does it mean logic or T or carry the seed gamma Brit Rick if you flip the order of the words of the letters okay a person has to cry a lot the more we cry for the scene the more he correct the scenes why I drop for drop pills what's the correction for that in the old days people used to fast for months months whole horrible Corrections today no one is in this level like 500 years ago so that's the only way to correct it today really the only way please do not be fooled by all kinds of people who offer you to do all kinds of the Kunene by giving money and buying silver coins and all kinds of things like this there's no how-to spoke us in a Toa you have to collect your own scene nobody will do the collection for you so what you have to do besides crying and begging ashame to forgive you first of all either way to stop with this don't stop what's the point trying to collect a whole while the water is dripping it's impossible you have to first collect the stop the scene now you collect their damage you made how learning hard level Toa don't run to the easy lectures to hear that you don't have to think oh that's easy to understand learn Toa in high level it corrects the scene why because the sperm of the man come from the brain the brain creates it and if you see that a person look at things that is not supposed to he creates a lot more it's all 100% spiritual who goes from the spine it's 100 percent in a brain so the damage is in the brain that's where the soul is and the toy is in the brain in the same place like root canal right attacking the would you do everything around the Earth it's not going to kill the teeth the tooth it has to go to the root of the problem the root of the problem is in a brain the correction for wasting seed is guava hard Mishnah your efforts things that makes your brain sweat to feel Wow my head is smoking already from such high level of learning more and more and more until we purify the soul of a person then when a person finally cry with a broken heart not because he lost $100 ticket today he cries because it really upsets him that he got to such a low level to make such scenes don't ever let the evil inclination fool you right after because most people that finally cry about the scene the Satan takes advantage on a situation and comes to you and say how great you are reddit's addict look no one in the shul cry like you in the play you're the biggest radical even bigger than the rabbi look there are by young people we didn't cry one one drop of tears you cry non-stop you the biggest Siddiqui next time you tell everyone they want more god I have to come to you he has these thoughts in his mind not only didn't do a mitzvah there the scene of the pride is even worse than everything don't let him fool you if you finally cry with a broken heart which means you reach a high level don't ever let the Satan fool you making you think you're righteous don't forget who you are you are crying for reason you're not crying because the Messiah didn't come if you cry because the Messiah didn't come then you're really really big so big if you cry because you murdered another big Sadiq if you cry because you're Mahalalel Shabbat you nothing nothing you're not it's a dick you know you must cry and if you're not if you're not crying for that that means you're not normal not because it's a dick if you don't cry something is wrong with you a person just murder there are a thousand people by mistake by healing the wrong number he can go back to eat sandwich fig takes his sandwich and eat that means this person is a monster it's not normal how can he eat when you know you just killed a thousand people person hit somebody with a car he jumped into the world it's his fault but he died can you eat a month after if you human be know if your monster yeah the Nazis putting babies in the oven 10 10 a minute and they were eating the sandwich and hugging the dogs while they were doing it and they never forgot to say danke Schoen maybe by mistake they won't be polite putting babies inside their gas there it didn't bother them these monsters you understand because you have to know one thing to correct it in this life is much easier than to correct it in the afterlife because over here God is mixing a lot of mercy once the soul comes out of the body no more mercy over there there is no mercy in the court of heaven only in this physical world there is mercy over there remember there is no mercy the commonness a cola O'Mara Kadosh Mohammed Rania VAT who may have if you dare over there to think that God will forgive your sin just because we have beautiful eyes I will only make your situation worse in Jerusalem in many places in a world that a vodka disha that they are charge of the burials they don't allow the men to follow the father's body into the cemetery he only allowed to the gate of the cemetery then the rabbi's over there say who are the sons of this deceased man here one two three four five all of you stay out don't go into the cemetery why we wonder stand by his father grave and say Kaddish and cry over there no to cover the body why you don't let him in why because we love him we don't want to cause him damage that's why we don't let him in why this is pay attention what's happening here every man who ate seeds every seed has millions of sperms millions one of the each one of them is a potential neshama each one of them is a soul soul X or Y soul be soul el sol a whatever ever every one of them is a soul that waiting to come to this world one of them in the end will come to the world based on God's decision depending who the parents depend what's the AG if it's kosher act not kosher ah you know and then God decide which so we'll come to this wound of this woman would which baby how it's going to look how is life going to be everything is decided based on the moments and everything that around the scenario so now when a person wasted seed all of this goes to the garbage it creates black demons blackness Ahmad that all of them are potential souls that supposed to come to the world and because of his father seen they didn't come to the world but they are here they are never went to the garbage like some people think they all remains and waiting for the day of his funeral does all say when they soon as they put the body inside they come to the soul of that person like millions of them and grab each one of them a piece of him with no mercy you didn't give us a chance to come to the world because of your sins if they see is on children going next to the body inside the cemetery which is an impure place they can damage them as well that's why they don't let them in don't go in you came to the world they see you they go crazy it's the spiritual thing we don't understand what it is and we will never understand we know a little bit that's enough no need more than that then I'm hard to say why we don't know all the secrets of God why why we know a little bit 2% here 5% there 10% there why we don't all the secrets that we will know when we die when we die we'll know everything right now we do we understand very little about things that happen to our life why we miss the bus we miss the plane we I miss the she do I got the she do my friend has kids I don't have all kinds of things like this we don't understand we never understand so then I'm he'll say every person hasn't as a test that got designed for him if he needs whatever he needs to know in his life God made sure he will know everything he doesn't know it's better for him not to know it would on his test it would wound his mission in life this is on the individual points of view but what about the general there are certain things in the Torah we don't understand about the creation how exactly it was we will never understand there are certain things about the afterlife we don't understand there are certain things what happened in this before the world was created what would happen after the earth will be destroyed all these the world of the souls the certain things that we will never understand the Chimera Iraqi gasps speaks about it certain things don't ask because anyway you cannot understand why this is where the RAM can say what God wanted you to know for your for your tests for your own benefits he gave you permission to reach to that knowledge if it's above your reach above your understanding don't worry it's only curiosity don't be curious it's better not to know this is what happened when King Solomon had a person in his generation that begged him to teach him the language of the animals told him no no it's not good for you no need to know it if God wanted people to know the language of the animals it will make us understand their languages so I got for you yeah yeah yeah yeah every day in the end it's okay let me teach you when they do when they're when the roosters go like these to to to taught it means this this this means he told him of the things few days he came to learn now he knows he got the idea one day he goes we see the chickens are talking today a thief will break into our master's home and break into the safe and steal the money what a great idea I know the language I put bowels these waited with his gun over there it is ready sewed the teeth came is well how this guy knew that I'm coming nothing next day it says today the stern of our master will walk in the street and fall and break his leg comes to his son Moishe today you have a day off from yeshiva are you crazy you never let me take a day off even when I high fever no today you and I sitting home and eating cream cakes you're not going anywhere now I got safe he didn't go out of the house didn't break his legs King Solomon is telling me it's not good my life is great since I know the language every day they warned me for my problems four days later the boy died know how he died before he died he walked in the street and he held that they would the chickens are talking today the Angel of Death will come and take the soul of all of the boy for Iran's what am I gonna do now what can you do you put balls they won't help so it comes to King son and say you fool you see if you wouldn't know the language of the animals what would happen they'd break into a house they'd steal the money from the safe you'll feel the hard ball you say God what did what seemed did I make that you did this to me okay let me do what we do daddy I'm sorry no problem I'll give more taka I won't steal any more for my employer employees I promise I'll start I'll be good then you wouldn't have to break his leg and it wouldn't have to die now what happened you prevented that so give you a big hint you prevented that normally into my friend understand what's happening just when you think you wanted no more think again maybe will be against yourself time is running out give me two three more minutes to conclude you a person have to know one of the ways of the Satan is after the person made that horrible scene he takes his spirit all the way down and he fall into depression when we call murashova black bitterness why why is it because the way of the Satan is like this first we make you make the scene and then he become it's a dick all of a sudden he give you a Mossad Russia in your head why the scene L shame on you he was the one who made you make the scene and right after that he goes into your head and say what a sinner dare the shame on you you work with your build and yarmulke imagine if I publish you to the old world they know what a sinner you are and it makes you so depressed and you now don't want to get up for darvany you lay in bed what happened et get up no mom leave me alone I'm depressed I'm sick talk to me for a week now doesn't play doesn't over doesn't care why because this is what he wants to get the depressions who followed the scene even though it's the most horrible scene the depression who comes after that is a bigger scene Pharisee make you lose a hundred and any bury you with a thousand why because a person must be always happy it had maniacally Magdalene one of the biggest principles and a very important individual a way to correct the scene is to be in Sim kind happiness never to be said because that's bring more impurity to your life as soon as you make the scene right the way begins your chuhwa don't fall into depression right away and now you may thinking okay okay I make a scene mokuba make a scene make you are tired of is how many thousands of time up down up down what's better just to go down down down down down at least up down up down you're floating above the water eventually whether this is do this is the advice of the Satan what are you making chew any way in two days you do it again the single guy it's a shames fault it's not your fault don't worry I sure would understand you well you already 27 for 6-7 years you were looking for a girl every one of them turn you down you do everything you want to get married you call the chakra neem you're giving all your life for it Sharon doesn't give you oh let him deal with the problem let's have the Saturn throw it in your head it's not your fault it's a dick how many guys like you in Israel are watching the breed don't let him fool you no discounts when you come but I'm 40 20 years few times in the past I said story my heart tells me that it's the right place not to say it again one time I get a phone call from a person not from New York State so don't suspect each other felsen from a different state and he said to me I heard your lecture about schlong bite peace in a family and I feel horrible I say why say maybe I'm not maybe I did horrible things to my wife and so what did you do say maybe I did not do the right thing I say why what's the problem with your wife it's a lesson now when I heard you how a husband has to behave to his wife I know some of these things I'm not doing I said could be more specific give me an idea what you're saying so I said listen I got married twenty-something years ago I don't remember 20 to 24 something like that and I have three children but only one of them came from natural relation with me me and my wife why because after the marriage I was with her once and after that time she never ever let me touch her one more time in intimate way that was the first and last time what time she became pregnant and after that in order for us to have more children we had to do it for a lab why by the way the stove it looks very shocking to me I said well what's the what's happened he told her something she had the trauma maybe she was raped one day he has to be a psychological problem so I will never know the answer but this is what happened so for 20-something years I live with her she never let me touch so I say to you I'd say to him but who told you that you have to stay with there it's against Allah ha you had to get divorced a long time ago well what kind of man can live with a woman your same bed when the same house 22 years she doesn't let him touch her and who knows how many scenes you doing out there so then he told me perhaps the most shocking thing I had in my entire life believe me I was shaking when I heard that he told me oh no no no God forbid not this I don't make any scenes out there I'm very careful with that I know how horrible is this I will never make that scene so I asked him I told as I told him what are you saying that you live with your wife for 20-something News in the same house she doesn't let you touch it and you never ever made any waste of seed ever since then until now is this what you say stay yes I never did it even once but Hashem I'm very careful with that I'm very afraid of a shame I'm never gonna do such a thing so I told him you calling me to tell me that you may be not good to you if I'd be like you I beg you to give me Baha you are Yaakov Aveeno of this generation I say to him only the tallest speak about Yaakov Avenal 86 years old first drop of seed was his son woven never made the scene once this is in a toga nut stories over the phone by rabbi with Raffi this is in the Torah it is you can argue but I swear to you this is what happened this what this man say to him I'm shocked and I may be them maybe the whole nation is survived thanks to this man you know what it means even Yosef exotique was with a pretty woman for a lot for not long time one year maybe the most then he went to jail for 12 years then he became the king of Egypt but he was with half of humans and the Torah is praising him so much she changing clothes putting perfume and man is 22 years with his own wife permeated and supportive I'll go yeah she yeah she's trying to make a scene with me but I'm afraid of a sham no run away avoiding her no fine and a sham say your stuff is at Sadiq at shampooed Stefan inside a what other person in the trial a sham calling yourself at Sadiq or somebody that Sadiq no one only on safe why because he had that test of takuna bleach and guess what this man who called me this is it we have people like this in the world if he can that means everybody else can so of course not to fall into depression you should know that every time a person make a destroyed buildings he takes away the spiritual life from his life he's affecting the entire creation and horrible things is destroying and spoiling and and and defecting the name of God the spiritual light that comes from the name of God is making the power of the theta alpha of the Satan much longer in the world and all these things starts with one thing why that he looks at the ladies when he's not supposed to is not allowed to if he would watch his eyes it will never happen it's all start with the eyes watch your eyes now bad Internet's I know bad movies there is no caution movies today don't let anyone fool you there is no caution movie even History Channel cartoons they have not modest figures not much talking not modest ideas even Discovery Channel de serie relation between male and female it's also bringing bad thoughts it's not kosher a joke and not going to secular television cannot go not to talk about internet and any other clips that they put today it's just not kosher you have to decide you want to be with a shame or you want to be half enough half enough maybe you have half a then half the other place if you're lucky there is no you cannot leave one leg in a real world and one leg one leg in stone one leg in Vitamix - one leg in Sodom and Gomorrha cannot be you understand and the ladies should know one thing many of the scenes that men do is 100% their fault but many of the scene they do you are just as guilty which means one woman can be much more guilty than a man because one man made a scene because of her he gets his punishment she gets the same punishment well what happened if five hundred guys looked at her today on the street walking with their high-heeled shoes walking like this suffering five hours to attract attention like this how to believe how women would suffer so much to attract attention it's crazy crazy how much and if the skirt is very tight now double suffering not only she cannot walk she bend like this you know now she wants to get up what happens and help me out I can walk why the five hours until she was scared why that may be another Jose amigo would look at her and say woo que pasa Amiga how stupid we could be it's crazy no math stupid and we are stupid not because we are naturally stupid no we have the enough enough intelligent ashame giver who just don't use it we think that this compliment that she gives dick mother said there was one tall woman she puts rings bells in her shoes why and she walking street with two midgets girls you know very short girls and she's very tall it's very interesting it seems to me that the taller the girl is the taller the heels is should have been the around if you very very told you don't want to use like this what do you want to be a giraffe there's no limit how tall they want to be like the Empire State Building walking too steep where did the short girls I understand why they feels fine they want to look a little bit taller but they are the tall ones she's six five already she has like this another 10 inches what's out to me it's all in the head but society the rotten Society sell the magazine she looks in drive her crazy to attract ourselves to a shame we gotta get clean from all these dirt around us it's affecting us it's destroying us and then we'll pay the price of all I will finish with one minute story one time I went to Queens Boulevard and the owner of the restaurant he comes to me say I have something fresh bread for you welcome Torreya sharmeen at Anu which means easy target a guy curly hair Yemenite guy has a bag on his back just came from the east somewhere I don't know where he was India Costa Rica I don't know where he came from so he has this table meal on his back jeans curly hair like this he's in the restaurant here meat yeah oh hey nice to meet you secular guy so taken to the Shiva doesn't have where to be he needs a place to sleep he need some good meals to eat he doesn't mind to learn - I know so the guy you know he doesn't care not Ohana Toa is thinking where will I sleep tonight and right the way the sheriff arrives car will take you the world will take you to jail you have a place to sleep so I say you want to come with me to Muncie say what's Muncie so it's better now way away from here note beautiful place trees nice was you know you have lake over there you have a soccer field I don't start right away tada yes she vodka matter I see how he looks so I'm thinking what this guy like I said good restaurant everyone speak Hebrew there Wow he has a place like this here say yeah so you know your soul and Toa a little bit they teach you interesting things in the Shiva be thinking so you know what why not let me try okay if your stuff you saying that's all I have this big so let's go mondo a tail and a Palisades Park why say he looks at me so you probably everyone there is black black black hard these like 'no black like me i shaii i say black more than you can imagine now it's too late life idea with me well you get a dog ghetto for the Palisades it's a well maybe i should have thought more so don't worry you'll be the one week you don't like it I'll bring you back to the restaurant of your friend so ok fair deal I bought him to the Shiva finished a month later a month maybe a month and a half later I come to the Shiv I bring another guy once something at night one o'clock at night I hear in the Shiva noise in the home of the Shiva the dome is upstairs I hear from the hallway who's in each if I wanna cry one supposed to be sleeping now you're crying I see this guy that I bought a month and a half ago sitting on the floor with the sefer Torah duty Khun Kat Saud crying for beta me - forget about it build like these mamas holy person he became another few weeks later I walk in the street it comes the fun of me I walks like this my mushroom ten steps in front of him he ignores me I walk my mushroom now almost face to face with him I say oh man who is this it takes his glasses he put his glasses on oh it's Rocky sorry I know you don't see anything without your glasses say nothing nothing I said so why don't you walk with your glasses so I watch my eyes don't want to see by mistake a woman everything I'm walking on my holiness so I told him but you're in muncie at that time at least twelve thirteen years ago you didn't find anybody not modest on the street and that time today you cannot swear on it anymore so I say I said say what so you walk like this you don't see anything like a blind person say I better like this like this by mistake I don't see anyone maybe two three months he wasn't issued by that time so I said to him one day what about you do you don't want to get married he said no not here here I Wonderland the day I decide to go to Israel then I would like to get married I promise you one day comes to me and say next week I'm going to Israel that said I already found my Shiva and know what in Israel the day he landed in Israel the day landed in Israel a week later he was engaged and who to someone very good that I know very well here is sister got engaged right away and you have to understand the chance that somebody like this will find a girl is 1/2 billion what girl will want such a holy man she know me and him is not in the same league watch his eyes built like these like the Yemenite from 500 years ago became like a toner this guy was serious about that early humans what people doesn't do not do in 30 years he did in 3-4 months this guy such holy Nair I got I was scared to stand around him much like this and I'm not exaggerating Shmi rotten I'm if you do what he did watch your eyes everything else will come and absorb into your soul and remain the writer when you see completely change in your life complete but if you continue one day Toa one day looking one hour to are two hours looking three hours to are three hours looking it's like putting the teapot on the fire 20 minutes taking it off two minutes taking it off three minutes taking it off the water didn't boil one time in 20 years that's what it is any questions before we finished if yes from blink walking to Queens how you your drive on the highway cell second is not affecting you fell second if for you drive and Christine jump into the world while she's jogging fell second you saw hell then you don't look at that anymore you turn your face or close your eyes understand after the first second it's a sin and it's affecting you before that it's not affecting you I just want to remind everyone this coming Shabbat we have a lot weekend seminar in for able speakers for beginners only for secular people non show me Lucia but if you have any relative friends that speak Hebrew it's 60 70 % subsidized by one hundred and something dollars you get two nights in a nice hotel in Jersey with glad kosher food best lecture another great speakers recapping the vid coming from Israel and myself going to be great one weekend of poof's one after the other any one secular you know speak Cebu please let me know in my Facebook pages if you already have if you don't have Facebook please don't get into it much more bad come from it and good but if you already own it at least come to the right place in my ebo in my ebook page bio Hashem we have 53,000 and change people we generate more than 2 million views every month by Hashem the English is much much slower but watch them in one way I'm happy that means the American zeal that comes to the lecture became already more religious what's the point of having it this is a tool to make people religious so it's a two and a half thousand people which generate more than 150 160 thousand views which is there are much more serious people percentage-wise anyone you know is already on the Facebook and it's going to bed pages is not religious please recommend in my page we put every hour or two something there clips you two clips articles you know and many people started to become religious from these pages and also I recommend all kinds of lectures that we put on a website all the lectures that I'm making right now the next day they're already on my website which means this lecture tomorrow afternoon will already be in divine information calm and about a week or so it will go to also to toee anytime this is perhaps the only two lectures that get all the left there two websites that got or get all my lectures there's other website will have a lecture here a lecture there but if you want to watch all the lectures these are the two yes okay well I have a whole lecture about dating kosher dating it's a whole different story Belson go with a girl on a date is allowed to look at the beauty and checked her very carefully to know if he likes it or not what's the point coming to the day what's going on oh and I watch my eyes like they told me you understand me so I you came to their date no problem next time I father will ship you in a ship me in a UPS box you get me open it the next day of the wedding or well you need me a person must love is future wife after three dates if he doesn't have attraction to her at all he has to break the she do don't let any Chicano any rabbi or Rebbetzin messed up your life first date second date maximum fair date by the third date after sitting two hours two hours and two hours it's plenty of time to start developing emotions if not even a little bit starts in the heart no attraction no love sometimes you go with a girl on a date two hours you already say well when can we get married already and even she feels wow it's a man of my dream so you know by the way it's perfect she do sometimes it takes two three dates but if after three dates it doesn't it doesn't happen it means it doesn't mean it will never happen there's still a chance that it will happen after 15 17 years but but who wants to take the risk Oh Eddie now is a more than 50% chance that it will never happen you want to live with a woman or with the men that deals and out when you don't have feelings for them the beauty of the marriage is not only to have kids and share the bills the beauty of it is to know you come home and you have a wife that you missed all day and when five hours in that way there it drives you crazy or the other way around and if it's not happening something is not right there and sometimes it's not right because of your behaving but many times is not right because in the beginning it wasn't meant to be if you ask me if a person can marry his wrong soulmate the answer is yes people marry the wrong she do and the soil say in the sky player said in one of his dress shirt that you can be married to a woman all your life and you don't belong to each other and you have kids and it's all against ashens we'll all right it doesn't interfere with your people warned you they told you it's not the right one for you you wanted to do it because of the money because of different reason now you're paying the price you mixed up your chance in life so it can happen yes it can happen so to check their wife that she's for you and the first date is allowed but after that you don't need to you already know she's pretty what you need what happened from to yesterday to today she became ugly for you now you have to check and make sure when the first day you go to a place there's lights why because sometimes it go it's dark you don't see the color of the eyes you don't really see the face we don't see that much you see everything you dark and then later all of a sudden you meet a two o'clock in the afternoon that's the girl that's not what I thought I didn't think and stand so yeah I'm telling you I'm not joking in this generation people are very shallow what's the right word shallow shallow emptiness full of Sh full of emptiness and they they pay a lot of attention to the look it's not what it used to be people in all generation they know marriage is much more into Luke and relation no today it's not the case that's why it's not just not going to walk what's the point is so much divorced to have more and more divorce don't get married until you feeling that you love with you love the girl that you're going to marry or that you love the guy not just because it's a great Siddiq and you know so much kumara it's important but you you want you want someone who knows maha you can go be the maid in the house of Rabbi Ovadia safe no neither has been for that no problem one woman married up by Kaduri she was fair deals old it was a hundred and five what did she marry him to have a husband he hardly walk five people carry him so he couldn't be a husband why she married him to serve that's a dick if that's what you want to get marry for then you don't care who you marry you just find it's a dick no problem in a phone book one of the babo to put Ed's sad dick is coming to town you can go offering to met him and serve him now marriage has to be real kosher with lots of passion and anxiety in life one for each other life have to be full of feelings and all kinds of things that marriage should be it's not a bad word the opposite the Torah speaks highly about relationship between husband and his wife and always to renew it and to make things better and better any more questions okay so like I say thank you very much to to and even to hazard for another beautiful event when I'm glad that many people came today but please on the next event we should have on February 5th not only that all of you should come make sure each one of you bring at least two more people so like this maybe we'll move downstairs thank you very much good night