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The problems you find in personal reflection
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[Music]
so there's there so every month has its
energy and not only that but there's
there's groups of months so for example
we're it right now in the last group of
an energy this energy we're now
culminating this month's energy with an
energy called reflection it started with
a national reflection in Thomas move to
through climax is at tisha Bob and then
slides in to personal reflection now
it's in a minute energy these are energy
so that means that you could have been
very reflective of our nation and gotten
positive results as real as you could
have gotten positive results reflecting
on our nation's situation during the
month of Thomas throughout now that
wouldn't be appropriate now the Energy's
personal reflections and no one sec
normally personal reflection is a
disaster it's a disaster like go go try
to reflect upon your life while you're
in a low mood how you gonna do if you're
in a low mood and you decide wow I think
I should really investigate how I'm
doing in a low mood how are you gonna do
horrible horrible you'll probably be on
pills within a month there are times to
not reflect on your own self
there are times like that it's most of
it most of this is why Jews make up this
weird strange you know percentage of
depressed people compared to the nations
of the world we have this like I once on
number that was like 42% per capita
obviously because we make up none of the
world population but per capita it's
something like 42 percent of clinically
depressed people I'm not saying 42
percent of Jews are clinically depressed
saying we have 42 percent more clinical
depression and the reason that is is
because Jews are extremely analytical
people that's we're number I know people
think we're smart we're not
smart we're analytical I know a lot of
analytical people to do really stupid
things because they're not very very
smart it's just very analytical and they
make all the wrong choices you know in
their analysis but we're very analytical
and if you're not analyzing Tara because
you're not raised observant or you've
dropped out of the tour world so guess
who you're analyzing the analyzing
yourself which is fine in a high mood
but you're not always in a high mood so
when you're in that low mood you're
gonna get locked in you're gonna you're
gonna stay down you know why you stay
down because if you try to analyze your
life in a low move you wind up in
something called the analysis paralysis
a low mood is not depression but low
mode over time is then the majority of
people who suffer the presence of vast
majority have no chemical issues and
it's and it's it's a crime that doctors
prescribed so much medicine to people
who are simply over analyzing at the
wrong times and all they have to do is
learn to coast take their foot off the
gas pedal look of analysis and coast and
go easy and stop analyzing every thought
you don't have to click on every thought
have you ever seen news scrolling by on
a newt on a news channel on the internet
you don't have to click on every story
you know you can let it cruise by so if
you're in a low mood yeah it's gonna be
a horrible day you're gonna have one bad
thought after the other but don't click
on those thoughts you're gonna have an
on analysis day and nad everyone say nad
together nad nad say non analysis day
when you're low mode you haven't done an
elder sister and I rarely have to have
that but I just came off of two days
longest I've had and write two decades I
said to Dana noses Wow not he's I'd to
distract myself with it everything I
possibly could to keep my thoughts from
thinking now I was still thinking but I
did not click they're not clear just
quickly the bounds like I just I could
look at something and give you like a
and dissertation on everything that was
wrong with it and and why and why the
whole world's going to hell and meaning
individually each one of us is like you
know we're all gonna disintegrate into
nothing you know and you know we're all
gonna die of starvation and poverty you
know like I would have explained it with
great deeds though today I have no idea
what I would have been talking about
because I'm not in that mood now but I
did not click on one of those thoughts
every time I had the thought I moved on
to the next horrible thought but I
didn't click on that thought either and
just get moving so there's a barrage of
terrible thinking but at least it was
not drilling into one thought at a time
yeah it can't non analysis they Ned and
next time that happens just going in now
yes no way to change your mood I mean
when you're the thick of it not really
but once you're on the other side of the
real heavy dense part yeah you can do
all kinds of cool stuff little extra
caffeine of alcohol some loud fun music
dancing helps sports should definitely
sweat
what petition might be a very good
actually but to if you really know what
you're doing because you got to blow
your thoughts out totally like get rid
of thoughts meditation with me really
the best if you're good at it you can
really get your brain to shut down
that'd be fabulous help other people
that's always good help other people and
meaning you're already a lost cause
might as well help somebody like take on
someone else for a change and you're
good at that much yes
this guy's like he'll that he learned
this I watched you learn it by the way I
watched you learn it I watched you at a
major shift in your life Nixon is just
you were just on what what can I do for
others and then I could tell you I can
watch I could chart it
how your life