The Jewish secrets of Nofap( Semen retention).

[Music] a woman by the name of Lil otherwise we don't say her name but it would be spelled Li Li th and and it's funny there's actually a Jewish I don't know if it exists anymore but at one point there was a Jewish feminist magazine named after her I mean imagine a word if you know anything about Judaism you know not to say her name but if you know nothing about Judaism you make a magazine with her name on it you know and what was the point of her or the the whole point of the tradition about her is she her whole job was to dominate Adam which is like kind of funny that a feminist magazine would put a name of a female who's out to dominate man you know it's a pretty interesting to name your magazine that right that's pretty strange like can you be any more obvious that we're here that you're there to dominate ultimately the men so now I don't know if that magazine still in circulation I highly doubt it but I did see a couple couple of volumes of it over my years anyway so she was a I don't know where she shows up regarding Eve but she ultimately wanted to dominate men otherwise known as that are so sages said are Kabbalists a to be on top she wanted to dominate Adam and Adam ultimately throws her off or throws her out and she becomes a demon and then and then ever since then the way she sustains herself as a demon is off of the seed of man but it's but deposit in the right place it either becomes a human being or its gets neutralized if it's built in any other way it creates every little seed of all the seeds becomes a a demonic force seed spilled into the world creates dena demonic beings meaning in other words it always creates life or does it create demonic life and and this and and as we said before it's actually lil is the benefactor she's the one who gets sorry not the benefactor the beneficiary said oh he said she's the beneficiary always of that and she she sustained off of it and which may explain why so many men especially young men are so weak about this one because they're not really alone here it's not like it's just their test it's not like a test of whether you're gonna eat the hot dog at the ballgame here you know this isn't the test of whether you're gonna watch you know a violent film or something that you just know a Jewish reigns review the real estate of a Jewish brain doesn't belong with violence you know that's just not part of the the real estate of a Jewish mind so you'd never obviously never watch a film with violence or swearing you know like that's just I mean I understand loving the arts you know Jews are into the arts but we we draw the line of our mental real estate that's lived by the three things you don't ever have in a movie if you want to protect the Jewish mines real estate is is you know anything sexually explicit swearing and violence like those are things that just will you know good luck good luck Nava Ning after watching that movie you know and then don't come to rabbi and say are you having trouble connecting so you just burned off your antennas you know like what do you what do you expect from me yeah like anyway but it explains the test that that that these young men have is and even not young men have is because they're not alone in this there's there's there's another being involved and there's usually when a man has or a woman or a man has he ate Sahara to do something like they don't want a bench so they're just gonna like make MS anus everything you know I I just ate my first Misano stroll in Israel you know it was at an American Bake Shop and the north west side of town you guys no Americans no longer wash except for Shabbos but they figured out how to make everything into Mozilla's so you never wash anymore by the way if you're wondering why no one wants to wash anymore it's and you may even in Israel it felt like watch what's your issue is it that you don't want to watch you have an aversion of washing no what are you yeah so inhale the words just whisper if you don't use your vocal cords you can just so the reason I believe and the reason why it's so like everybody has this huge gate Sahara is because it's because our souls are pained by missing benching every time we bench our it hurts our souls that we miss benching every time see you think benching is like okay it's another brazo you know another brother but it's not just another brother and you know how you know it's not just cuz you so badly don't want to do it like you have no from the other brothers but benching forget about it it's like you'd rather not wash and the American Society has turned every bread you can buy loaves of sandwiches sandwich bread but some designers tortillas flour tortillas mazayas it's like a miracle it's like a dream come true like someone took that this bread yeah how long you been in is ago anyway the so what's happening is our souls are pained by us not paying attention to benching it hurts our Nishimura's yet just said these classes I'm so used to speaking in our vernacular because everyone in this class generally was raised somewhat observant you know raise your hand if you were raised somewhat observant raise your hand from somewhat to very observant raising hand yeah so it's it's basically everybody so the exception of this dude over here so that's just the way it goes this is our outreach program anywhere else do from people get to learn co-ed you know we're like running a major racket over here you know we figured out we figured out how to get room people learn co-ed yes by doing outreach classes but really it's in this is really in range obviously now so check this out I was in a Kabul out class which is running for years and years and years and year it's been going for 40 years already in and I was part of that labora for many many years and and one of the things we were gonna do was the Rebbe was gonna take us through the whole see door literally from mode a on ela Faneca till the end of mousse off of Shabbos that's what we were going to do together including Russian fighters and what happened was chakras took us two years chakras took us two years so when we finally got to beer cus Amazon that's after chakras you know when we got to beer cut Amazon the blessing after the meal so us guys in the Hobart were like in the group we were like flu guess what two more years he'd had each line had like 10 times more Kabbalah than all of chakras and it was only after we finished those two years I finally realized why no one wants to wash because the soul can't take it the way we bench the soul can't handle it just can't handle it and so we just rather not eat and in America they already flipped the food too like because what was happening I think the bakeries are going out of business no one wants bread no one's bagels no ones no one wants bread anymore and so they're like they had to come up with an answer quick if they were gonna keep sending their kids to private school and so there so they came up with Mo's anus but I actually had my first Muslim just roll here in Israel as I said this morning it was delicious and I was really happy it was misogynist by the way because I was driving and I ate the whole thing driving stick shift in traffic I was covered in breadcrumbs but I guess they fell off that the meeting I was going to now let's let's get back to to our subject so so when it comes to when it comes to men they're dealing with something that's not just them involved here you understand what I mean it's not just you there's something there's there's someone else involved here and for you to for you to cut her off for you to cut li'l off totally it's going to take more it takes more for that and and perhaps perhaps it's already a major strength that it gives a man to know that because if you don't know that if you're treating it like you treat not eating tray for or not doing them a look on Shabbos they're not texting on Chavez if you're treating it like that you're gonna lose bad you lost but but what if you found out that this isn't just you involved here what if you found out that there's someone else involved I mean what another great proof that someone else is involved is that how many of arras can you do while you're sleeping one that's the one which is amazing that you're not alone here something else is involved and and so you know there's another being here that's planned playing around and so it's like get married quick you know you gotta get married quick now you might say well I'm not really gonna get ready quick put on your running shoes do what you got to do that's on the edge of the table that tried them is there's an omits okay if you're okay with it just be ready to catch it so the get that means get ready quick don't give me some stupid excuses like I'm not ready well you're not getting ready you understand get ready and by the way you want a trick on what's best way to get ready to get married I give you a great trick this goes for the ladies Sam where you weren't ready for the week before but you took it you did okay or good on it yeah what what helped you the deadline living before Noah people were living hundreds and hundreds of hundreds of years so death wasn't even a deadline death wasn't even a deadline and so because if you're dying eight hundred years from now you're like you're in no rush you know like you might as well just play bridge today or watch a watch a film or something you know it's like the secular world where you have like 18 to 25 to do nothing in the observant community we've also matched that now you have between 18 depending on your community but you have between 18 and like 23 to do nothing even if you get married during that time no one expects anything out of you what's it just this subject deadline fur that's right yeah so this nice lady said that it's not up to you when you get married yeah we're in agreement on that I'm just saying that that if you're not ready to get married you need a deadline and when you're gonna date to marry it doesn't mean you're getting married just means you've got a deadline a date tamarick and by the way there's something very important about that what's very important about that if you're ready to date to marry that means you've got a lot more of your life under control right what does it mean that you what's your first thing Reuben what does it mean that you're ready to date to marry means today a lot of your life's under control you have what you're offering you're able to articulate it I understand you're like you know what you're you know what you're putting out in the deal and the reason you're not ready to get married and most likely is because you don't know what exactly you're offering if you're not ready and so by having that deadline you start to figure it out because there it's not hard to figure out what life's about and it's not even hard to figure out what your life's about cuz you have two lives you have your macro life like what life's about then you have what your life's about which is different than perhaps them the bigger picture so that's not so hard to figure out it's just very hard to figure out if you don't have to figure it out it's really challenging if you have no pressure to figure it out it's really hard to figure out in the community where I raise my kids which is the Hasidic community there's no luxury zone when you figure you must figure it out you know you gotta figure stuff out big-time because there's a deadline and you've watched your older sibling hit that deadline and now they're married and now you are going to be coming up the line and you're gonna have to figure out your stuff too once in a while there's an anomaly kid who's just not ready for whatever reason okay so then she or he is not gonna get engaged so quickly and it's gonna cause a bit of a backlog show no but but it's it's really a great service to you and your life see you would probably think it's irresponsible for you to get ready to get married right now but think we'll how we just flipped it what's your responsible is what you're doing right now no no if you're not ready get ready I don't care if it takes you a year to get ready two years three years but when you're not when you're in that no rush it's not gonna be two three years your legs you live in a society when sex is over I'm coming you live in a society that says never get ready it could perpetuate your childhood as long as you possibly can just have fun just enjoy yourself that's the society limit and no one better than Zev could explain that to this guy wanna do it's the right thing it's the right thing you going down to Tel Aviv to chill on the beach for a little while and then we're gonna smoke hookah and drink some beers on me rental car there yeah would you be sitting here right now that would be the child so child gets a little point there what chalk one up for the kid yeah and so and so there's the child in you and there's the adult in you and you got a you got a we're always negotiating between the two whereas a Zeb grew up in LA where it's just where I grew up and your other la people here really ashlynn was somewhat familiar you went like that but what perfuse yeah that's probably not bad enough just to bite you like this guy and me but I have negotiate with the child in me at all times those negotiations never end I was in I was in I was speaking about this once in an office to a you know a boardroom [Music] class and speaking about the office in Manhattan and and after the class I said to one of the guys that I said so do you think to see you I would like to meet me he's like kidding it's like I've never even been up there like what do you think he'd meet me and he's like maybe if you make an appointment you know maybe in a few weeks is I'm like I don't have a few weeks I'm only in at New York for another day and I'm not gonna be in Manhattan so I said he will meet me you will meet me because you don't become CEO without winning the battle between the child and the adult and so we somehow got up there because it's not so easy even the elevator to go the to that floor but we've got the elevator go to that floor and I went to his secretary and I said please tell I got his name from the guy who works there please come wrist I don't remember and anyway mister so-and-so that Rabbi Glazer is here to see him and she was like okay he'll be with you in about 15 minutes because you don't become CEO if the rabbi wants to speak to you the child in him believe me didn't want to speak to me but the adult said rabbi is here to see me there's obviously reading now he thought I was fundraising I was in fundraising and I didn't have much to say to him either he's yea taught a class in your board room just wanted to meet the CEO of the company and he's like nice to meet you come by anytime that was it yeah I said I don't even know what building that was this was like 12 years ago 15 years ago anyway so then I flew out to LA to see my parents and and I was talking to a guy who a fundraiser in LA who really wanted to fundraise from a particular CEO and I said okay I'll go in with you just make a meeting I'll go with you it says make a meeting you can't just make a meeting with someone in LA like what do you mean like just ask for me it's like no you need you need an angle you need an angle why it's good for him you understand it's not about just the right thing it's about what's good for me so kid they have you ready to get married you take a cold shower yeah it's one of those weird things it's one of these crazy like dead con and not that kind of me it's uh what's the word it's ironies it's one of these weird irony's look you got to get ready to get married but if you think you are yeah you need a cold shower maybe even to be slapped Shalom if you enjoyed watching this well watch some more send it click it forward it join it subscribe to it you know keep coming on in joining me in this amazing movement 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