Practical Spirituality - The Nature of Women

Shalom and welcome to practical spirituality here in Jerusalem the old city of Jerusalem overlooking the Temple Mount right behind me we are at uspizza the amazing Hall here and I'm yov Glazer and today we are going into a discussion that is about the nature of women now you probably think that this is about typ casting women like talking about their nature and stuff but that's not exactly what we're talking about what we're talking about is women and nature are bound together in a way that is much deeper Pro more profound um more real than than males are connected to Nature in fact um maybe perhaps you would say that males are busy trying to tame nature for the most part um there they're kind of at a war with nature when I'm out mountain biking or surfing it's kind of me against the ocean or me against the the the mountain um in the and the wildlife both in the ocean and the mountains and the um it's about you know going out into the thorns and thistles and making your living and and facing the the the physical natural world um whereas women are are living the female the feminine is is the is is nature itself it's the symbiotic relationship with the natural world we'll notice for example that all all natural things occur in sevens sev's like the big nature um number let's talk about seven for a little while and and Seven's also in the Hebrew alphabet is the letter Zion and U so Al bet giml he V Zion and the the Zion's also known to be the feminine and everything around nature is connected to the feminine and in fact U God being called the masculine is only because God causes creation into existence it's the causal whereas the natur natural worlds receiving that and that's the feminine is the receiver and and you'll notice that every every single thing is either going to be the causal or the receiver the causer and the receiver which in Hebrew is called mashia and maab you can practice those words mashpia which means the causal and the maab is the feminine and these exist in in all of the world and in fact in the male and female actual physical gender of a human being they possess both the male and the female so for example when my wife brings me something like let's say she's bringing me dinner so she's causing now she's in the causal and we always relate to women nurturing as the female but they're actually causing so like for example a woman nursing the baby the woman's in the masculine and the baby's in the receiving and when my wife brings me food she's in the masculine the feminine when I thank her she's in the masculine I'm in the feminine because now I I'm asking her to please receive my thanks and I'm going to cause gratitude in her Direction and so now she's going back to the feminine which is probably a good reason to say thank you to one's one's spouse if they do something for you to switch it switch the role immediately move it to so that I can be the feminine uh sorry the masculine and give her thanks while she receives the thank you properly and and maybe our self-esteem and a lot of people don't take uh thank you very well they they they're self-effacing and don't know how to deal with gratitude but but maybe that's an further development of the feminine side because if the feminine is the nature so the nature itself doesn't have an ego and can but but but the female or someone in that more feminine nature could have a a bigger propensity towards depression because they're like nature they're like dirt you know they're like they're they're they're they they don't have a the only reason to have any in my opinion the only reason to have any self-confidence whatsoever is because you're a soul you know other than that you're just a selfish you know bag of Bones full of every kind of animalistic desire um it's your soul that drives your higher interest your higher um you know Transcendent goals and the goodness inside you is is all the Instinct of the soul but I think maybe perhaps there's a correlation with the female and the and the depression and I wonder if there's even a correlation between the the um a male who has very strong feminine side meaning a male who's really like a a woman in a man's body um if that's not already an indicator of depression and possibly suicidal ideation for someone if they if they had a sex change we would always everyone would point to the fact that they had a sex change as the the what led to their suicide but perhaps it could be that the the feminine already had that propensity towards the the nature which has no sense of confidence whatsoever it just is a neutral completely humble humble um fact it's it's not it's not of spiritual nature which as I said before is the only reason why anyone should have any self-esteem or any self-confidence whatsoever because otherwise it's just ego and ego is fake and you know it's not the it's not the authentic person the ego um so so so then where would you get your self-confidence the answer isn't ego the answer is the soul which vivifies your body anyway so both men and women have have this relationship to male and female in them when you're receiving you're in the female when you're giving you're in the male and and and obviously in intimacy it's hard to tell which who's receiving who's giving exactly because your your actual giving is causing your actual your actual giving is the receiving of the pleasure so it's like you're giving or receiving and so and so it's it's a a union of male and female that's happening that is that you're both male and female at the exact same time which is super strange considering that that one one is clearly male one is clearly female when you get to the anatomical uh part of it um but if you look around I'm looking at this mic stand here but if you look around you just can't you know I don't I don't want to sexualize the whole world for you but you can't look at anything without seeing male and female without seeing the causal and the receiver for example the cable is male and and this is uh that it's going into his that it's clicking into his is female and the um the mic also has screws here the same thing's happening the mic's also being held in this thing which is once again there it is you know it's just like every screw in this chair is male and female the there's just nothing you can look at like no matter what you look at you will see the masculine and The Feminine and uh you know this this coffee cup I don't know how they make coffee cups but if it were ceramic you would be pouring the ceramic into the the mold uh sorry I wouldn't be surround let's say it was glass you be pouring the molten glass into the mold which would be the masculine going into the feminine which is now the mold and then when it comes out now it's a glass and it becomes the feminine and now you pour water into it that's the masculine now going into into the cup which is now the feminine and it's just like it's literally everywh where I mean there's nowhere you can look the the sun is clearly the masculine the the ozone layer is the feminine that's that's that's shielding us from it the Earth that receives the Rays of the sun is the feminine and the speaker system that you're listening to right now if you're hearing me speak it's the masculine and your eard drums the feminine which is sending nerves up to the cerebral cortex which is the masculine causing the neurons to be stimulated which are receiving that vibration that the math it's mathematics it's receiving all the digital vibration which is the feminine as it receives it and then it's posting it to you the re the conscious being whose soul is somehow USB cable clicked into your conscious awareness of the words I'm saying which is receiving it it's like the fact that I'm making speech here is definitely causitive and that's also the masculine is the causitive of the speech itself and the and God causing creation also via speech is you know shows us The Magic of speech and the spoken word is like you know one of the great mysteries of reality I mean no one ever ever ever was able to come up to with how it is we're able to do it and notice that no thing in creation has speech you know it it's only only when you have a soul inside a body do you get speech no soul in the body no speech so meaning when the when the God's spirit is imbued into a human being there's speech otherwise there's not and um now obviously the the I'll tell you a little more about speeches the lungs are the desire of what you want to say so I clearly desire to impart some knowledge to you which anyway I'm just channeling I have no idea what I'm saying at any given time ever really um but the the desire is the lungs the um the vocal cords are the emotion and I'm a little you know dead pan today but I'm also a little jetlagged but anyway the emotion is the vocal cords and then the the intellect handle the five exits of the mouth which is the the tongue the pallet the teeth the lips and the guttural the guttural which is the throat which uh create the actual sounds that's from the intellect so you're so somehow your brain cuts the sound of your vocal cords into words which you cannot possibly do because the whole thing's math and it's like massive equations that are hitting your Iram right now and they're coming straight out of me and I don't know how they're coming out of me um it's my soul that's causing all this to happen and it's your soul that causes your speech now nature occurs and sevens let's go to the numbers now um seven is is nature and the masculine the V the six and the Fe Fe female the feminine is the seven and you'll you'll notice that Seven's basically where things are happening so so for example in space you have a cube is like the representation of space so it has six size and it has a seven seventh which is the center weak days human beings can only exist on Earth in a 7-Day cycle six days and the Sabbath is the center it's the center these six days are just aspects of the center um the lunar cycle moves in sevens the solar is working in sevens the uh musical scale one two 3 four five six seven now I know everyone wants me to go to the one but it's a one one one it's it's not an eight it's a one it's called an octave but an octave is one to one 1 2 3 4 5 6 71 and the musical scale just comes out seven and the uh the color scales also you know the color spectrum the rainbow the actual natural color spectrum is seven colors as well and the woman is connected to this because her reproductive Cycle Works in sevens she's connected to the seven world and it's just seven happening all over the place interestingly that men who are a bit in conflict with nature kind of here to conquer it you know be the king and the dominant the the Dominator the competitor men who have all that going on um we strap ourselves down with a piece of nature with leather which is the animal in instinct is leather and and we we take that leather and we Tire arm we strap a leather strap around our arm and guess how many guess how many Loops we put on our arm on our forearm representing our strength seven and we put seven loops on our arm again to bring us back to Nature and we'll be getting to the sukot holiday which is all about the the rains which is nature it's the the water that sustains life on Earth and we'll be just praying for rain the whole time and and we'll be um each day will'll be it's a 7-Day holiday we'll be going around the the beima which is where the center of the synagogue is where we read from the scroll from the Torah and we'll be going around it once each day and on the seventh day we'll be going around it seven times and then on Sim Tor the day we dance with the Torah we'll be going around we'll have seven rounds of dancing around with the Torah and when do we do that we do that on the Eighth Day meaning after the seven days of the holiday we have the eighth day which is called shamat sarus which is like the holiest day of the whole year it's like it's because it's beyond the seven it's the eth it's eight represents Infinity like the number eight is an infinity sign so the eight shmin say this holiest day where we're going to do seven dances with the Torah around but what's the Torah the Torah is is is pure prophecy it's not from this world it's from above the sun it's the only meaningful thing as King Solomon says that everything under the sun is the meaning man makes and the inference you make the de is over the sun meaning God's Will and wisdom as it is as it U flows through prophecy into this world best experienced in the Torah is you know that's that's the only meaningful thing really that's meaning when I say the only meaningful thing I mean the only thing that has empirical meaning everything else is our subjective meanings for example just the beauty of the spot I'm sitting in his subjective things that we figured you know that you would enjoy as a background to my to my talking this is subjective meaning although this is an actual Arc here for the Torah and um and that would be objective and and this is a depiction of the of the betam mikdash the the temple and in the on the Temple Mount and that would be empirical because the depictions of that um the description the measurements the all the U everything about it is is from the Torah is part of the prophecy so it's really from above above the nature it's uh part of the prophetic uh wisdom which means it's empirically meaningful um anyway these are just things to think about I I'll segue for a second on that um that it it's I think it's important to note that if meaningful things are things that are above nature meaning that are things that are from God basically and that's what's what's imbued with true meaning like actual empirical meaning so that means that everything else is subjective and there's nothing wrong with it meaning uh my taste in music my relationship to my sports and my sporting equipment and my favorite color is blue and that's all just subjective that's that's just you know my stuff if I want to be connected to Eternity that would be my focus on things that are part of that which is beyond nature so if the fact that your Consciousness lives on when what it lives into would you'd definitely want to be dedicating as much time as you know you can handle on spiritual things things that are of infinite import because those are the only things with empirical meaning those are the only things that would be Everlasting you know my favorite color blue will not be Everlasting my mountain bike rides not Everlasting they last while I ride um however um everything everything else I'm doing that has to do with Torah that has to do with prayer that has to do with Mitzvah have to do with the kindness or uh the imparting of Torah uh the raising of a family the the uh the feeding of guests all of that is eternal and so you you kind of want to build your portfolio you know meaning enjoy your subject of meeting you're driving a nice sports car enjoy it you know be careful but uh definitely experience its g-forces okay don't be a nin in your sports car like drive it for real or at least find someone who knows how to drive and sit in the bassom your seat the um but that won't build your portfolio upstairs so you you want to it's something important to know that you have a you have an eternal portfolio and you have a a portfolio that's only for this world and you definitely want to build your eternity and the last thing that's important to know about this is that all your um drama in your life like you know someone didn't treat you the right way or or all the triggers you have triggers that make you feel like you're worthless or like un un unimportant or or ugly or stupid or U unwanted uh unlovable uh small weak lost unsafe all and and this includes all your fears your fear of rejection your fear of fa your fear of being controlled by or overwhelmed by others or situations um your fear of the unknown all of that is subjective it's all subjective and you made that stuff up because you see the guy next to you is not afraid of that stuff so if you're stopped by it that is not based in reality it's not at all reality and that's why when people come to the possib seminar they find themselves where fears that had been holding them back back to the point where it had become the fear itself had become um let's just say their personality was governed by those fears and they find themselves after going through the work and finally realizing that that everything under the sun doesn't have empirical meaning and getting that deep in their bones suddenly the fears are like gone because it's like why you making up why you making stuff up here you know like and it's not making you happier and it's it's not making you more courageous and it's not bringing you more love and connection so people are able to dump their heavy baggage of of of subjective subjective uh Persona garbage that they'd been carrying around some because of trauma some because of family Dynamics some because of community Dynamics some because of embarrassing moments uh you you name it you know we're all carrying it and you can drop it you can literally live your life without it and uh suggest going checking out my website at uh the possib you.org just to tune in to some of those teachings and to book yourself register yourself to seminar near you meanwhile let's get back to the numbers is that so the woman also has the sevens going on in her reproductive system and and partially why women find fulfillment in that you know I was just watching a a story of a guy who died and he um you know he was hovering above his body this was on living um living um L podcast Langer podcast it it um anyway this guy had been hit by a train and died and he was hovering around his body and he was able to see everyone who was coming to VIs visit visit his body before his soul clicked back in um he um what was I going to say about him that he oh is that when he finally ass Soul clicked back in he wasn't able to talk cuz there were tubes down his throat but he took a pen and the first question he asked was would he still be able to have kids which was was you know his legs were gone at this point he didn't know that he was left for dead basically in a in a hospital room but he um his first question was that but this was a guy who had like basically a meaningless life he was just party and in fact the reason he got run over by a train was because he was drunken high and and just had no life the last thing he was thinking about was kids but the very first question he asked was would he still be able to have kids the answer was yes by the way but but it's is very interesting that that the the that the nature not the nature but the but the the spiritual meaning when his he he found out he was a he had a soul and the second he found that he had a soul so his first thing was like can I create it's very interesting like can I actually create a family it's such an interesting thing and and and women who have this connection in nature with the sevens have a tremendous need to to be a mother uh Way Way Beyond a man's need to be a father like a man's perceived need to be a father is you know for sure men have a paternal instinct but nothing like the maternal Instinct that a woman has and and The Emptiness they may feel if they if those years passed them by and they were not able to have children and you know shim should give them strength all the women who weren't able to to create children um and uh and certainly if you're one of them and you're listening to this you know like you have all the gifts in the world to give this planet you should celebrate them and give them meanwhile so women represent this nature and the the masculine is the is the kind of the wants to tame nature in a way and this can be an unrectified part of being a man is like being kind of scared of the power of the nature of the female and wanting to subdue it somehow not necessary although it may be roles to play out that would be very um exciting for a female meaning when the man is playing masculine he's playing conqueror mode and he's sending out that vibration of power um it could very well be that that is a dynamic that would be very good for a marriage but it but it but that Dynamic of power can't be the kind of power that is that is causing the other to be unempowered because the the nature of the world is very powerful like for example when I'm surfing on waves the I'm not on empowering the wave the wave retains every ounce of its power in my relationship with my wife she wants me guiding the family she wants me saying where where I'm taking her to you know she's she's she wants she wants that masculine conqueror in her life however not at all with the diminishing not at all with diminishing her light and you know the my Conquering the trails on the the mountains is not at all to diminish the mountain itself it retains its power and and so I think that's an important DEC distinction when it comes to males and females and and how the the female does want the Conqueror you know and that's why you know there's books like No More Mr Nice Guy and um you know like helping train men to stop being in that position of pleasing women um because women can't stand it it's just U it weakens men and it and the women can't stand it they don't respect it they're not attracted to it it's U you know it's really a a problem and Men whose fathers were in some cubicle or in some business and that boys didn't see them all day and then they're raised by a bunch of female teachers from young age so they got their mother they're pleasing they got the female teachers they're pleasing you know that that that's going to create a Lost Boy you know that's going to create a very Lost Boy and it will not create the vibrations that a female would be interested in marrying and if he does manage to get married it will be a reversed polarity d damic where she's the causal and he's the receival and he's you know it's a disaster and when she turns 35 because between 35 and into the 50s is where the female you know where her firework really goes off as a female meaning her feminine side her femininity is extremely powerful from the late 30s on when that happens if he's hasn't developed his masculine sign so then you know forget not wanting to touch him he she doesn't want to look at him she doesn't want to smell him and and all the intimacy just disappears at that point and so it's either either the intimacy is going to quadruple if he's if he's got the proper vibrations or it's going to become next to nothing and this is why for example I I uh you know I take very few clients but once in a while I'll take a client uh um and just train train him to discover his power as a man and one of the ways we know it's working is because the his wife is getting very upset with him because of the switching of roles that he's doing he's bringing back the polarities to where they belong she's getting very upset with them but she wants them so it's like like I can't tell if I want to kill you or I or I want you and the answer is she wants to kill him and she wants them but that's how we know it's working because uh because now she's she's losing ground that she never would have wanted in the first place but she but the the nature of the female is to always pick up slack women will pick up the slack of their husbands of their families of their workplace they just pick up the slack it's uh I don't know where it comes from but that's the nature of females so if the man's slacking in any aspect the she will pick up that that responsibility and he will once again be weakened she'll be strengthened losing respect respect and attraction go together if she loses respect the attraction goes away and um anyway recipe for disaster bottom line is that a man is excited by Nature I'm excited by the ocean waves I'm excited by the mountains it's it's exciting for for men it's not scary it's where the adventure is man's relationship to Nature and especially where nature is a little dangerous is is where that's where the excitement begins that's where the the interest is piqued it's it's where you know it's it's where it's at you know like that's what men love so if a woman is getting feisty and she's you know meaning when a woman's at the height of her femininity because it goes in waves and when her feminin is high and she's getting feisty and maybe even accusatory and a little attacking all she's really trying to do is fitness test her male to see how he would react most males will just run away you know they'll run for their lives um if he already did the runway meaning he already went to the bathroom or he already went to the synagogue or whatever and he's like he has nowhere left to run you know so then he'll attack back and you know what kind of man fights a woman you know that's not a man and so once again he he blew it but quite the opposite that when a woman's at the height of her femininity and she's now Fitness testing her man the man should be excited by it meaning as she's you know going in on him to see how he'll react to see if he can just be there the man is supposed to be like super solid Square your shoulders head right in the center of your of your you know of your spine you know like really aligned and strong and his head squared off and and super turned on by by the fact that she is now in this in this state um now the state happens to be an unstable State and he's supposed to be the stability so running away is only going to cause further instability smacking her down meaning uh meaning fighting her making her wrong is just going to cause further instability so that's that's not going to be helpful but being a ID Citizen and watching the storm that's where you want to be so the way I look at it is um you know imagine the captain of a tanker who's been at it for 30 years and he's just he's weathered the biggest storms the biggest waves you know 70 80 foot waves in the middle of the Pacific Ocean so when his weatherman says to him that we have at 70° uh an a giant storm coming our way with 80 foot Seas so what does the guy do what does the captain do he says thank you for the information and he just grabs that big wheel and he just starts turning it to 70 degrees and just going in you know just going straight in turns it sideways he's going into the ship's going to capsize going away from it it's not going to be helpful the seas are moving faster than his tanker is going to go just go in move into it go go straight for it and the same thing as a surfer you know like some sometimes I was out there as a Young Man and the waves were just unbelievably huge and dangerous and and it was towards it you know I'll never forget this one day I was in Mexico and we were there quite a bit you know at least once a month and we're out there the waves are like they were big they were like maybe 10 ft height of a ceiling or something like one story building so it's like 10 ft maybe 12 ft go bigger and WS are big we're having a great great time and it turned out though while we're paddling back out uh me and my best friend we see the whole Horizon just disappears and Surfers always watching The Horizon because you want to know where the next waves coming so you're kind of we scan the horizontal layer of the Horizon of the ocean to know where the next waves is going to be the the best spot to catch it all of a sudden the entire Horizon disappeared which means there's waves twice as big coming meaning we're going from 12 or 10 to now there's some 20f Footers coming in like meaning rogue waves that you know and we're way too far out already to swim in but my friend his fear took him over and he turned his board around to start paddling in and which is dangerous cuz you could get you could easily get taken down by such a you know really put yourself in danger uh you what you need to do is be paddling as hard as you can to get to deeper water so that you can hopefully get up and over those waves before they break or at least cut through them as they're breaking and then you'll get up and over the next one and so we just paddled as I told my friend turn around get your board pointing out to see and start going towards the danger not away from it go towards it and by the way this is I'm speaking to all the men who have been blowing it when their wife is presenting with this like unbelievable storm that's that's that means that she wants a male she's looking for you right now she's not she doesn't want you running away she doesn't want you fighting her she's looking for who can be solid in the middle of this attack so anyway so we start paddling out and now we finally see the waves like now it's in front of us and we're just like holy moly and we're scratching as hard as we can and and the and the first wave pitches giant tube and we managed to cut through it and the next one there's just a bunch of them so the next one we also cut through right before the lip of the wave and then the next one we got up and over and the next one we got up and over and then we were like now in deeper water and and then I said to myself did I come here to survive or did I come here to thrive meaning did I come here to just stay alive or did I come here to serve the answer I came here to serve now I happen to not be on the right equipment for a 20ft wave you need a longer board more momentum when you paddle to be able to get into the thing but you know I I'm not going to sleep tonight not going to sleep tonight with the feeling that I didn't turn around to ride one of these waves and so now once we're deep enough water to to be safe I just said I'm going so I just flipped my board around for the next wave and I just started scratching now towards the shore as this waves picking up and picking up and picking up and I'm on Too Short a board to get enough speed to get in which means my board's just rising up and rising up up near the lip of the wave and the last second when I finally got in the wave threw my board down you know let it drop down got on my feet and just and got the longest ride I think I had gotten that year because we were so far out and I got off on the beach of this 20-footer and I literally like almost got off on the sand on the shore and I was just like yeah you know amazing and so as a husband you're the surer and as a woman you're the nature and and the man has to learn how to ride the waves how to how to turn towards the storm and to and to be a solid citizen for his woman when she's when when the storm's you know howling and you know captains of ships live in those storms Surfers dream of those storms so you're married to the storm you're married to Nature and that's beautiful and be the man for your woman and uh yeah you got this anyway so 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