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Guilt GPS system!

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guilt you know a lot of people are trying to get out of guilt like they want to get rid of guilt like how do I do with my guilt so I imagine that means there's probably some unhealthy guilt and but you should know that there's really healthy guilt and the mechanism called guilt that is within all human beings is essential as a course correction uh that's right word I'm not getting words right now to is a fancy word it had three syllables on it anyway it's for course correction you need guilt if you want to correct your course I mean if you didn't have guilt you'd be none of us would be here right now I don't know where we'd be right now if it wasn't for Guilt guilt's like guilt is like your your you know it's like a Tesla's driving operating system for when it's doing the self-driving you know like it's keeping it in the lane you know you got to have guilt but guilt can also be debilitating and as opposed to motivating and I think it's a switch you make in your mind where you start to understand guilt's essential for course correction but it's debilitating if it's not used properly so therefore once I correct my course I let it go correct your course Let It Go Just correct your course go and and use use your guilt and then Shake It Off Shake It Off TR well if you trusting on you're saying you'd have to trust yourself to know you corrected your course no one at least anyone I'm close with uh trust themselves I don't trust myself I don't do nothing without asking so so many people you know I just ask and ask and ask and ask I I don't trust myself for anything so I use guilt to correct my course and to trust myself that I've corrected my course if I had any doubt that I corrected my course I would immediately go to someone and explain where I'm at what I'm up to and they would say yeah you you're good or he' say you're not so yeah I think it's a big thing these days a lot of people are trusting themselves U it might have been in uh an effect of maybe americanism like it's like unamerican to like ask how you're doing meaning ask a friend ask a mentor ask ask someone how you're doing in your life like you just kind of live your life make your mistakes and like hope it doesn't come back to bite you too bad but very not Jewish very not Jewish like we Jews don't make a move you know Jews are smart right we don't make our own mistakes we learn from other people's for