Rabbi Yoel Roth - Raising Your Kids With Patience

the bruising ask how to discipline the kids with patience you know it's very hard hurting their peep there are people there saying he dish other Amala other regalo hear it from a be saying or everything or nothing or an angel other people are lazy you gonna find a lot of families that are very very strict in intense in screaming in yelling the kids or there are families that didn't say nothing for the kids you can do what you want everything the kids need everything the kid wants they give for the kids if he has something you do something bad that's nothing it's nothing and then the kids grow up not good both ways is not good you have to go in the middle this is why I'm people ask me why why why you are become breslav you come from a nice family with a share my father is a dime I my grandfather is a big roof why why why you go to breslav maybe there are people there are no family you know nothing no no they're very very very bad they come back breslav brings back people wha what what was what was missing you this I grow up also like this I wanna I wanna I wanna I want to be a good LV I don't know what to have to say I want to be outside think I want to be good but I think that if you want to be italic you can't be a person down the earth you have to got to be an angel no eating no sleeping in a bed I read stories from from Sadiki so they came didn't go on the for years years to decamp goes in a mikveh that they choose called mcfist tsadikim didn't eat regular food what plain people loves to eat they didn't feel the taste and in the food tsadikim was was they was separate from the from the woman for the wife people that tsadikim didn't talk to anyone so I think I want I want to eat I want to slept in a bed sleep in a bed I wanna I wanna I want to shower every day warm water I can't I can't do this this old stories not eating and not have a wife and not to have nothing and to be a man man okay shark fin de velde separate from the world then I think okay how we say tough luck there was study camp you are from the others from the other class the plain person it's bothered me whole time every day I was a kid what was a book I was a younger man after their wedding I want to be outside I read them do the stories I what I want to be good so I have to I have to separate from my wife I have I can't go shopping with my wife if I want to be outside think I can't I can't the vibranium spend time with with family why the kids only exotic is only a man that the the separate from the world it's bothering me it's bothering me till I find a shaman Aqil mirages lettuce for me like like like like crazy Masha I see a letter for a baccarat Shiva see please don't don't do what book Adam wants to do too fast you're not eating eat a lot go sleep in time sleep eight hours at least but when you get up but negligee then going to make for after Dominic eat a good breakfast not like boys I wanna I wanna I want to copy this static not eating and then the book can't fast so didn't so we don't clean you know do nothing it was a great got anger on other people this was for me amazing them was a letter for for a Verizon for Engel ad spend time with you I've talked with talk with you with your wife 50 kids go out with you I've go a little shopping with your wife everything what you learned to do appetizer I've got to not go to a tailor in them and this is not good because the Meredith item was and she s in this vision huh then I making a separate schmooze what what's wrong with movies what's wrong with this kind of stuff just make it hopped the same thing with Kenner people are lazy oh you're gonna be tough it'll be a tough father and I gonna wish luck hit must let my kids hit my kids and I'm gonna beat up my kids and I get a yellow for Shaymin embarrass my kids are gonna have a family you can do what you go go your way do what you want you have to them every day to a share or share help me I should know how to raise my kid it's how to talk my kids there is no hater it's no way that I'm this think you are admitted to to be my vice you kid no I'll say for Shaymin embarrass you kid sure what the kid do about you have to be Mahana you get you have to teach them if you have to go to sleep you have to go to sleep if you have to go to sleep I'm gonna bet you have to eat up the supper you have to eat up the the the breakfast not take what you want and let the kids do whatever at one but not not head of hidden feelings there is no way there is the keenest feel it feel it feel it feel asking a sham every day please I'm wrong now home after a day work I'm tired I'm sick I don't have patience please I should know how to talk to my kids how to how to Aragon Organic Navarro guide many times I'm going into the small kids I showed that malama the teachers you don't have to scream you don't have to do nothing go down with you voice in and tell them a story there was a child and the child needs a candy in the child walking candy the child start asking a shame shame I want a rat candy with small yellow dimples you take the kid down down you teach him a story and in the story you put into Villa and then the kid gets very happy in the key think wow I gonna find a candy and then all of a sudden someone comes to the kid and as the kid a martini the candy in the kickassia in you need the candy ok so first on get dressed put on the pajamas ok ok and then if in looking visit I didn't want to eat them when I was a kid I didn't wanna eat I'm sorry no way so I don't know I have a smart I have a smart mother he she she started to tell me a story one time was a stammer story in the kid like forgot the kid goes in la-la-land not here and so help me open the mouth open them out ok story story what you can teach the mid stylus don't say don't say ligand lies don't don't make fun from other kids have Ramona's have met in other kids this is the way how to teach kids but it's it's good to talk a sheet from this may come home you have to you have to do it not only talking of this so we have to ask a sham every day I sure I don't know I want to have patience for my kids I don't want to embarrass my kids I don't want to yell at them I don't want to beat him I don't wanna I don't wanna I don't wanna be a abusive father huh English I'm gonna help so it's five minutes every day you're gonna tell me our topic what to talk I'm gonna ask you you'll ask a question we gonna make