Rabbi Yoel Roth - A Warm and Loving Home

good morning now we're gonna you're gonna have a shield a little bit for 10-15 minutes in english but please understand that this is not my first not the second language so i will make mistakes but [Music] i hope you're gonna get some physique and some some isis give me the city there is there is six meters six meters that you it's called you know from this here from this you're going to see in the siddur by the end from davening there's six things there's a mitzvah to remember a whole day every time the day at night even even a person don't don't have enough coyote to learn or to do mitzvahs he could he could be making a mitzvah from thinking from this six it's a mitzvah it's a mitzvah to think the first thing is hashem told us remember he was a mitzrayim and i took you out from its rhyme he's a mitzvah and a person think from this he's makable he get he get i don't know he got paid i say the second thing is you have to remember the mohammed sinai the third the third myth is you have to remember that we have a fight with a moo like a mulak wants to to kill us and hashem save us it's a mitzvah then it's a mitzvah to remember the the the idol the sin from the idol then shabbos that was also you have to remember we have this week in departure the the whole story from miriam they talk against moisha rabbani you have to remember that miriam talks against moisha i say it good and she got she got an ornish i say kratz rash nah i say crets rash huh pimples there is a word regrets boost lapis lapros but you know you know what what miriam gets ironic so we became this is the he can't be a he can't be a yid he can't be a jew it's not a toilet and also a moo like he wants to to but what it's so important to remember every day all time that was a story in midway that miriam talks against moishe what is so important so the musa says it's because miriam miriam was from the few ladies that they are zoe had to be an avia there's uh the murder system there are a few few ladies no throwing huh a few few women music same thing a few ladies a few women that they associate to be in a vm and what we see even at sadiq could make a mistake in talks against the table against moisture this we have remember because we are we are we are we are so lucky that we came back to the rabbi if not the rabbi we are lost yeah lost every everybody knows exactly from the outside it's nothing how much cost ahead and how much cost uh uh suit and how much how how how how hard just to make nice bias because from outside you could look everybody knows exactly we are so far from from being good the only hope it's we have we have a tadik we haven't watched that give us continue to learn continue to die continue to believe in hashem one day you're gonna you're gonna go out from your your problems so the answer he knows he has a problem he wants one thing from us we are we should leave the river so he brings us so we have a mitzvah every day the people says well you know this gear says we're not we're not learning this this brass level books this rishiba says and miriam and evie also also talks against moshe rabbini if you have a myth this is the myth every day to to to remember because i see a lot of book remaining yeshiva a lot of friends they start to be good they slowly they they they do better and better they come to the rabbit all of a sudden they left breast lift because someone tell them someone told them that uh no it's not for us brasslev oh zuchera you could you could you could you could became uh a big tadic you asked me to to talk about about general yes the important thing for kids what's the important thing for kids they should grow up healthy they should grow grow up true jews in english what's the what's the important thing what's the important thing for kids most important thing but the most important thing for kids most important thing parents to give the kids they should they should wax they should grow healthy the the house should be peaceful there's nothing nothing more important from that you could make make them programs you could make them learning i i have teachers on their side in the side times it's nothing they can't have to see father your mother love each other i i talk a little bit slowly because i have to think the words in english if i talk slowly it's easier for me this is the most important thing kids they grow up in a house father and mother and mother don't fight they're not fighting kids they see father and mother love each other usually they're going to grow up healthy and we can't have shalom without that sadiq it's it's not possible it's not possible we have a few [Music] a contradiction in one place the mother says if a person follows his wife everything what the wife says he do you're gonna who you two if your wife her mind is clunky epic i say it small-minded if she didn't have brain even if she's not thinking the right way listen to her what she says the mother said i don't understand one time you say don't don't listen to your wife other places say a fool refuel what do you say you have to listen to your wife so then what it says someone asked maharaja in charlottesville and i have to follow my wife when i have to to someone says no then you have to listen to your wife a little more she wants she wants uh she wants furniture why i need to finish it your your undershirts has to has to has to be in a in a rattle from gold it's it's a shemata hyzer you stupid people buy dresses pieces furniture expensive expenses from from italy from spain from from the moon from this fresh food from us for what what they're gonna put in this drone gold you're under the shirts with the with the holes with the holes so let's say she [Music] her brain needed needs this is mirada she wants furniture she wants nice chairs okay we're gonna buy it she wants the table should be not in the middle from the from the roots like chief no your wife is not so smart when it comes to gold havana lena she wants to you should not go out all day from the house stay here i want to spend time with you yeah but i have to go down minh i have to go down no no no you have to buy a big screen for the kids to watch to watch [Music] cartoons oh please not in the house let's let's our house be a a mission for hashem let's for the let our house be a a good place for our this you can't have only with that sadiq so the toilet says you have every day to remember that even don't have a sugar in the camera say mushroom so now when someone told you ah brussels is not it's not so push it so remember the medium also say mushroom is not so push it you have to know you have to see and what what do you think hashem hashem talks only to him why he why you do like this why look like this medium also have a medium also made a mistake with moisture behind me so then there's someone gonna come talk about about against let's say you'll be careful to the rabbit and then it brings you i'm start talking to hashem i'm starting learning i'm starting do the mixes i don't want to talk from this shabuzzu i was so holy but so um i'm keeping shabbas i'm eating these sudah shabbas and i'm and i'm doing the mitzvahs ah these are these are this i got from from from the rebel and i have this message also people talk to me against against and against the it's not so this one i but i see this this this uh that the noosa says you have to remember that immediate they are so big hashem talks they also made a mistake with boshirabani this is a this is a sugar that nobody nobody is happy this is this is something nobody has a sugar emotional body like you don't have a sugar hashem you can't understand you can't understand god why he has money why you don't have money why are you suffering why are you sick why i don't know so but you you ask me that you you want them you can't stay on kids 24 and push them and choke them and you have to make a place they should be happy so if you're going to make a nice playground i was one time by my shopsy when he lives in blooming grove he has a house with the playground and i got my kids so my kids was very excited to play in this expensive record but but i realized they all shot with all the kids they didn't touch this playground they they they only want to run away and take swag like i said woods so people are going to be the the good father and the good mother i'm going to build a pool with a wonderful your kids need one thing you and your wife should smile smile each other they should smile to each other they should be back fame they should be comfortable in the house the the parents has one way they think kids are comfortable and kids they have other way what are they comfortable so i'm gonna we're gonna make a nice room see we're gonna make we're gonna paint and we're gonna the kids don't need it i'm telling you no i'm telling you kids doesn't need nothing i i we have we have a we have a game for the kids come in a bottle buzzer i have to show you some some i thought i tell you we have a game we take we take empty empty empty bottles yes we take empty bottles with a big and we make a a hole in the cover like to put in a cover this is not good they did the like a wiring board what i mean by wiring vitamin bottle so i make a hole in the in the like i look like a fish like a like let's look a two one one thin thin four cover covers from the the gown spring spawn spring spring water bottles and then a little bit thicker like like a milk a cover from a milk bottle and we save covers we put it in and we use those we spill it out and the kids so i bring it someone a rich family they have toys with remote control helicopters with airplanes with bikes and all the kids i told my wife look look they didn't need nothing they did up their battles with the covers with the doors kids you can't make kids happy with with give them and give them this you're gonna make them comfortable and happy you and your wife sit and talk nice to each other smile to each other love each other then the kids gonna grow up healthy they didn't they didn't even they're gonna found a bad friend and their friend's gonna gonna want to come away come away they're gonna have a fight and they're gonna they're gonna they're gonna rather stand in by you this is i say unbelievable this is not possible only with attalik this is the mid shot it's already 10 minutes