Bitachon - You are never alone. A New Kabbalah class By Rabbi Yitzchok Minkowicz

welcome to our special class on the topic of be Tohono you're never alone so I'm going to give you an outline the class and then went to get into the class so the class we're going to start with a story from the Torah a Bible story and the way the Reber explains the story in depth in one of his Holy See haut then we're going to talk about what actually is be Tohono and what we can do to activate it and why at times do we find that Beto flying is not necessarily working for us and we're going to finish off the class with a very very powerful statement on Beto phone from the fourth car at bad rubber the rubber Mirage so let's start with our class our story in the in the Torah it's a story we all know dream a story we're Yaakov who was living in his parents home and we all know Yaakov was a home boy so the Torah tells us that Yakka was an East um Yoshi bear all them he was home he was home with his parents but unfortunately his brother ISA wanted to kill him so his parents sent him away to the house of blame and his uncle in the city of Harlan which is interesting is that Horan almost sounds like Corona not exactly but close to it so I'm sure there's a lot of a spiritual metaphors meeting Horan and Corona but we'll leave that for another time so Yaakov goes to horror so think about this for a moment yokka is living in his parents home he has everything he has his bed he has his room he has his parents he has physically whatever he needs he has spiritually ironies life is great you can't get better living in Yaakov's parents house a patriarch in the matriarch gets hooked on his wife but here he has to leave and sure enough we know I've been his parents gave him what he needed for the trip but we also know that ISA wanted to kill him and he sent Ali pha's brought to run after him and a leaf has caught up with him and said listen I have to kill you she's how can you kill me his instructions my dad she sell tell you what the rule is that someone's poor they're considered like they're dead so I'll give you all my money everything I'll be poor and I'm poor I'm spiritually dead and you can go back and say you killed me so sure enough it leave us like that he can get some nice loot and he took everything away from Yaakov yeah Khalid goes to her owner empty-handed empty-handed and as we all recall the emotional interaction when Yaakov meets Rafael so the Torah tells us that he met her and he cried and Rashi says there's two reasons why he cried one reason is because he saw that he would not be buried with her that's a reason to cry but then Rashi gives a second reason and the actor says look I came for a sinner and I have nothing nothing and he cried because he was empty-handed so here's the actor there's nothing fine so Yonkers away from his house away from his parents away from all the comforts in a different country and of the Land of Israel in Horan and he has nothing not only these you have nothing there ever says if you ever look in the Torah the Torah tells us besides the fact that he had nothing usually if you have nothing you have family his family wouldn't help him and as the Torah tells us clearly what happened with his family his uncle Laban what happened with Leoben Leoben cheated him tried to cheat him cheated him so Yaakov has nothing that is the image we have of Yaakov the a grave left tremendously says she meant let all the comforts and he's out in a different country called Horan and he has nothing nothing nothing so you would think someone like that that's it he'd put his head in the ground he would give up and life would be over but what is the torah' tell us no Yaakov doesn't do that the Torah tells us that ya crave walked strong with Hashem as the Midrash actually says that the based on the verse in in in proverbs oz tailor Lavetta their cattle then you will go your way safely and surely Lavetta who is that referring to Yaakov then Yaakov even though he had every reason to give up and he had every reason to put his head in the ground but nevertheless Ukraine stood strong and he went would be toppling he went with me to finish em he had trust in us and then ashamed will take care of him and give him everything he needs and actually the verse actually says um the my geese I got a Fraggle of the Yaakov picked up his feet mean to say is that and Rashi tells us that because Hashem promised him he walked he was dancing he was happy and life is great and the rebus says hey you see something very very powerful about the story yeah Chloe's had nothing and the proof is we know later on when he met his brother if somebody says keep Immokalee a party the only thing I had when I came there as well as one thing I had a staff commander being in another country the only gonna have a stick but nevertheless even though he had nothing what did ya crave saying he was extremely happy and the revver says because he was so happy so he became extremely successful and we all know an actor finally left love on he was a very very wealthy man so he was wealthy a materially there's possessions when modern America to call him huge assets he had huge wealth but besides the material wealth it says me toss Lena his whole family was complete he brought up a beautiful whole fat fat balance family and never explains it he says look I've Rama B know his grandfather Yitzhak his father that lived a narrative stir all the lives in Israel we all know how Abraham had two children yet talking his smile you took we know followed Abraham and Ishmael didn't Yitzhak we know had two children yankem and a sub Yaakov lived the life of his father and ASA was a rebel the only one yeah Khalid who was out of the Israel in a different country he was able to bring off a balance family what is the reason why he was health Riggins to balance family and there have explains very clearly because he had be tough finish em he went with trust in Hashem so therefore he was at peace he was happy he was a pleasure to be around and therefore he had all the blessings from a Shem and therefore he was extremely successful so that is a Bible story home Astoria tourist story where you see clearly that when someone is going through the worst possible experience think for a moment yeah Calise he had to leave his family he was all my money was taken away from him he had nothing his family in Carlin was not there for him his uncle trying to cheat him nevertheless yes he did work hard and he worked very very hard but he was extremely successful both financially and both emotionally and both with his whole beautiful family he had the biggest possible success but again the key reason is because he had something which we called B Tohono botella means he trusted 100% in a sense so now the question is what is this idea of be tough on that causes you to be able to stay strong and I said with a fem despite all different challenges that you're going through so I'm going to share with you a Pacific discourse the classic discourse of the Rebbe wherever explains what is be talk on them and their ever says as follows the tone is based on a verse in the Prophet Malachi and I'll quote the verse and the verse says as follows Hashem says to the Jewish people through the Prophet Malachi 1/2 the s-pen Omer Hashem Hashem says I loved it's coming from a prophet it's a prophecy Hashem says 1/2 the SM Omer Hashem Hashem the infinite named mishima saying what I love you think for a moment Hashem is saying to each and every one of us wherever we are at any stage in her life Hashem is saying I love you so when a person realizes that a son really loves you what happens then Hashem is infinite I shouldn't creating the world that maintains the world house that was the one that runs the world so this has shed that loves us could and will give us everything so if there's anything that you need and as we know it says in the message about yokoi's What did he say my when my grandfather said that he has a freshen up he set them with all the wealth what do I have I have one thing as really e ma Shem I don't have any possessions I have help for my sin so in other words when a person realizes that Shem loves you so were you gonna get everything you need as you miss them everything that we need we will get from a sin you need a smile you need a good day material things physical things a good mood whatever it may be how some will give it to you why cam loves you and if our son loves you he's gonna give you our baby that is the basis would be done but now we're going to go into a Kabbalistic journey so and we're gonna try and understand on a deep level what does it mean when we say because Hashem loves us and we have trust in that therefore everything's gonna get good great so we all know in this erode there's the the way it's broken up we'll start from the top see something which will Kessler the highest fear is cancer the crown now the crown Li is broken down to two parts Roxanne and I look so tan it means a deep sensation of real pleasure and then there's Robson what it means I want something it's not intellect it's not emotions not saying I want it it's very very deep within the soul of every single person's human being as one of the spirit of Kessler which means Rock saying and we know this stuff that this expression says ain't love double shame in the faaaa rocks if somebody really wants something they'll get it why because Russia is very powerful that's Casimir then you have the Habad that cause mabini das which is the intellectual world of the spirit and that's more ready connected to a to logic logic intellect a holy holy logic then you have the emotions starting with us and ending with malice now we know even though there's 10 zeros but each one is intertwined with all them that means in rough zone you have all the intellect and you have all the emotions in intellect yeah brought sanity of all the emotions and in the emotions you have all the intellect at all and also rotten as well so now so the Rebbe takes on a beautiful journey salacious Hashem loves us therefore we have beat Auckland in our shame that our son is going to give us everything so what does that mean we have been talking we have trust in the shell because the son loves us so think about what is love love is the attribute of Allah which comes from have set the means of sham is going to be curser to us but we all know in the world of the Sphero it is the right left and is the middle path sin is a rights viewer Casa means to give why because customs all about giving it's all about doing it's all about just giving but the other side of Casa de segura so just like acid wants to give ruler has reasons emotional reasons why not to give so think about it on a simple level let's say you like somebody so you like someone you're going to give to them what's flowing has said but it's flowing because you like them what happens roles in a person that you like you don't like them all of a sudden you they upset you and the whole relationship walls because you like them because they made you feel good the flow is going to stop so the rebus is what happens is if you have trust in the show because you believe your son loves you coming from a place of castithan one of the emotions you can think for a second you can feel oh maybe I don't deserve it right now maybe I did something wrong maybe I thought something wrong maybe I did smelly who does what I did that shamans not necessarily want to give me right now so you're gonna think for a minute he's not gonna give you so what happens do you trust Nichelle you trust nacelles that weekend because the only reason why you're trusting our son because you believe my son is gonna go to you when he's gonna give you but if you feel like have some some reason we're kicked in and there's a reason not to give what's gonna happen to be taught home you're not gonna have that strong be talking on a sham you're not gonna the stronger trust in the shell so then it's gonna go away but let's pick up be tough the emotional cat said the way it's rooted in my friend in intellect so in intellect has said that seeded intellect takes on the seat of cooled Rahman rock from him is compassion Rocklin is not in the emotions Rock room is actually an intellect and the Rebbe explains why very simple because we all know it's Essen ethics our fathers our tardiness Comerica arches a BLM claim I don't judge your friend until you come into his place what does that mean someone your friend he's nice to you know things are not nice to you so now you're gonna be upset so emotional say oh I'm not as friend anymore I will be upset right now intellect says relax why are you judging him maybe he's going through a tough time or is it Al Gore's timorous in ethics our fathers what does it say have a dawn this color are done if you want ready what knows if you're already judging you should judge them like half scores find a positive reason why they're doing what they're doing that they're going through what they're going through once you're done the caps goes so in Kabbalah it's called moisten the godless big intellect that means if it's just emotions okay right now I'm set so you're not gonna talk to the person you're gonna get along with the person but in my opinion you can handle the fact that you're upset at that but on them and at them but you can never last be nice to them that's called money from the godless and that's a rock Simon kicks in so in other words so if our be tough and we have trust in the show-me say you know the truth is this reason that should be there for me and this reasons he shouldn't be there for me but I have be tough right in what not in the emotions of a sin but in the intellect so guess what I sure will find Okhotsk or so some will judge me favorable Eve have some knows I'm going through a tough time I some knows that I'm frustrated and therefore it'll give me the benefit of the doubt so that will allow they be talking to still be strong on my part but their ever says in the mind but even in the intellect there could be you can say to yourself oh my gosh maybe he's not gonna find the cops clothes maybe ashen won't find their reason to justify my negative behavior or my negative thoughts guess what happens now so therefore he's not gonna be be there for me even in the world of intellect where it's already more it's the relationship is much stronger but there is room to to create a a friction of the relationship and destroy past the relationship because there's no scoffs cause although I can't find one justification why should do something for the person you right I'm gonna overlook this overlooked that but so far so then you have to climb up be tougher into a higher level what's the higher level the higher levels where you go into a rough side what does that mean so on the lowest level we say son loves us because we're good to him I shall miss guitars and if you're not good doesn't work on the next level up we said okay it's intellect I'll be down the coast will judge favorably challenge others are favorably in rod Serena shun loves us just because no logic no reason Hashem loves us too one reason one reason only just because now if that's the case and we are be talking that something's going to be good to us what what could break that on the level of ruts and nothing can break that and based on this theory explains the version that says beat Colossians which is trust nur Shem and they act what is a beyond so they're ever said these three definitions some say I trust in a shell okay Shannon loves me but guess what you didn't have a problem on that level and that's why if you just believe I shall be loves you because he's nice to you working kicking or if you go to the next of all shun loves me and he's willing to give me the benefit of the doubt five - we can't find better friend out but what happens when you have beats kubishime Ave and you go to a level or shun loves me you know why just because then it's just because so which just because I shall will always love me so back to the point so there ever says one because it says FPS from Hashem loves you and He loves us on the highest level just because so therefore R be tough finding Hashem is without any reason without any logic we have trust in Hashem because we know our son who loves us just because and because of some losses just because I shall always be defeated for us so in other words yeah quite like in the story in the Bible he laughed and he had nothing but he had Yaakov had trust in ash hamman - Evan loves him just because and therefore maybe there's no reason to give him and maybe he felt like you know when he used the balls credits but he lost some loves me just because and I think the lesson is a very very powerful and practical lesson if and when we were gonna be talking in a sentence we have to work on it that means I'll be talking less on me I have trust neshama she loves me and I shall be there for me but not because stuck giving emotional reasons because that could be thought that can be canceled out not to give intellectual reasons could that also could be canceled out but you know why she loves me just because it's a guess what of it just because the shop will love me and take care of me and give me everything I need and I want to finish off we all know in the world of a solute there's different levels of teachings of the rebellion there's something which is called a seeker with dirty were talking public and they share different our thoughts and then the something which is called a minor which a minor we know is a Pacific discourse which we all know that when do REME would say absolute this course in the Hebrew it's called Shekinah made the barest me turn Brennan literally Hashem is talking through his through him and it's like a path to literally divine prophecy so the teaching there are be teachers from a considered discourse obviously is a very very powerful stuff so one of the Hasidic discourses of the river Mirage the fourth Chabad rather so in the discourse there brush asked the question and answer themselves and he's telling this he says Hashem will not let atomic for a shovel never got a solid fall and he brings from the ZOA that though it is or says that any Jew that was circumcised is considered at Sonic that means that I'm a Coulomb tsadikim every Jew is a topic so since every Jew is a child ik and a shovel will not let a Jew fool so therefore Shem has to give everybody everything he's not naughty for materialism Scrooge everything has to give you so in the discourse the nut Mirage ass that's the case how come so many people are falling how come so many people are struggling and in the discourse the herb Menasha ants is very very simple and he said the reason why is not because Koster selling gone through his summers not giving us because Hashem will not let us fool Hashem gave and gives us every single thing we need if there's something we need it's there right there ready for you new sacrum I don't see it and they're everywhere I said and this is an ascetic discourse oh it's divine prophecy the Mirage said the reason why we don't see it not because it's not there it's there the problem is because we're lacking and be Tohono and when you're lacking and be tahan the example he gives it's like you have we all have workshop we live in the countries we have water in our house how do you get the water all chief do is it you open the faucet providing you paid your water bill but if you we all have water in a house and you all zip do is open the faucet so if I ask you is there water in your house to show this water I don't see it running open the faucet it'll run so in other words the water is there we have to open the faucet and there everyone said the same thing also everything we need is there right there everything we have the problem is that when we're lacking and be tahan when we're lacking in trust in the shamon we're keeping a faucet closed and by opening the faucet which means practically by having be Tohono we'll open up the faucet and we'll see all the blessings and and all the miracles and everything that we need from the smallest of the biggest things so another branch is saying in a very simple level a Jew and every single person Hashem gives you everything you need there's nothing that you need that's not there for you I don't see it you need a key what's the key be tougher if we have be tough line if we have trust Michele we're sure that our son loves us and not for a reason because we did this and we prayed and we studied and that's all external stuff we shine loves us because Hashem said 1/2 the Eskimo Hashem Hashem loves us just because and if we believe there are Sun loves us just because that is be tough line and if and when we have to be tough line we will merit for the greatest blessings and every one of us need in a real revealed way that's what a finish off saying we all know this time going through tough times everyone has their own challenges whether it's personally whether it's a family member no one's belittling it it's real challenges however we do have the key to create a flow of positive energy for ourselves for our family for our community and as the repertoire said just work on opening up your vltava and just like just like walking over to the forces and pulling the opening up the forces and the water is going to start running there's everything available for us we talk horn is key and when we activate be tough fighting will merit to see all the greatest blessings and let's hope and pray that we all merit to see this whole pandemic behind us and we're all able to be reunited again not have to have classes behind the video and behind the screen and but be able to be connected once together and more importantly we connected together what Michelle said cainy we'll all be in your shall I am Iroquois - and may it happen speedily our main