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okay good evening everyone tonight
this year is sponsored by carol
goncher they're her son binyamin israel
then hanita is undergoing surgery right
now to remove the brain tumor and we're
praying for him for shalema in
israel
and may all the words of torah that we
say tonight
be a success for his good health
today i'm going to kind of continue with
what i talked about last week which is
really a departure from the parshat
tashavua
last week we spoke about the idea of
shabbos
as a hospital for the soul that you know
we suffer various sicknesses of the soul
whether it's hedonism whether it's
depression
whether it's anger or resentments and
shabbat is a mechanism that allows us to
connect to akadeshwar
and achieve a certain amount of inner
healing
ref cook said the same about eric israel
somebody once asked drift cook
how come there was so much much locus in
eric israel cook answered
how come there are so many sick people
in hospitals the concept is
at least in theory not always in
practice the hospital is where sick
people go to get better again and
hopefully that will be the case and eric
israel is where also
sick people come to get better in a
spiritual way
and by the same token we developed the
theme last week
that shabbos in time is what eric israel
is in
place we have a time placed continuum
and shabbos ii
is a place of refuat or a place or a
time
of refuata nefesh of an inner healing of
the soul
i want to continue on that a little bit
because i think shabbos sometimes
gets a little short shrift in our
treatment uh because you know we go over
the parsha
most partially oats don't talk about
shabbos so i think it's worthwhile
to develop the theme a little bit more
and i want to share with you a very
amazing madrid
which assumes an amazing chronology that
you would not gather you know we know of
course
adam harishon was created on friday
and just a few hours after his creation
before shabbos he had already eaten
he and khabar had eaten from the fruit
of the tree of
knowledge and they were expelled from
ghanaian again one has to keep in mind
that although the torah does describe
shabbos before the sin of other marishan
according to our sages other marijuana
experienced the first shabbos
outside of the garden of eden he was
already expelled from the garden of eden
late friday afternoon but you know
friday is always a busy time
and that particular friday was an
extraordinarily busy time
according to the madrish this is just a
it'll blow your mind in terms of what
happened on that friday
not only were adam and eve expelled but
they
had children cayenne and hevel were born
on that friday
so obviously there was no nine-month
pregnancy they were born right after
right the gemara even has a lotion adam
and java
lay down as two people and they got up
as four people meeting cain and heaven
and not only were cain and have all born
on that friday
but they were fully mature on that
friday
and not only were they fully mature but
cayenne killed havel
shabbos even began so imagine this
adam and java are created they are
expelled from the garden of eden
they give birth to cayenne the hevel kai
and the heb will grow up
i don't know how much time cayenne had
to be a farmer and heaven had to be a
shepherd but somehow
on that friday they already were doing
their thing
cayenne kills seven so then the medrash
goes on and says
that other marishan bumped into cayenne
knowing that cairn had killed
his brother other marishan's own son
another mauricion asks cayenne what's
going on between you and god i know you
did something pretty bad and god wanted
to punish you
what happened and kayan's language was
a sisi chuva i did
shiva venispasharti
and i made a deal i made a plea bargain
with god
i got a reduced sentence
and adam marison then said i didn't know
there's such a thing called shiva
because i also have a sin that i
committed eating from the eights that
does
i didn't know that there's such an
aspect of forgiveness
and the sun is about to go down and adam
said ms marsha liyo
a song of shabbos and what's the first
line
of that song this is them sadiq base tov
le hodos leshem it is good now the
standard translation is it is good to
give thanks to god
but the medrash is interpreting lahoda
not to mean give thanks
but to confess your sins like vedoi
it is good to confess your sins to god
because god forgives those who are
penitent
so this is quite a remarkable measure
first of all it's remarkable in terms of
the chronological sequence
of everything being squeezed into that
friday
second of all it's very interesting that
it's cayenne
that taught adam harishan the kawak of
shiva in other words if we ask ourselves
who is the first person in human history
to do shiva for sin it actually would
not be adam it would be his son
cain and adam learned from cayenne
the third thing that's interesting is
that
adam experiences chuva
with the coming of shabbos because at
one end you might say what does chuva
and shabbos have to do with each other
he says ms marshall yamashavas
a song of shabbos tov
it is good to confess your sins to god
what does that have to do with shabbos
now a fourth aspect is let's focus on
the very unusual language
that cayenne employs cayenne employs a
term
asisi chuva i did shiva
venus pascharti and i made a deal with
god
that's kind of an unexpected language
that's kind of what you have
in a criminal court when you know if you
plead guilty
you'll get a reduced sentence we call
that a plea bargain
and in fact by the way most criminal
cases certainly in the united states and
my guess is
in israel as well never go to trial
rather the guy pleads guilty because
that way he gets a reduced sentence he
would rather plead guilty
and get a year instead of going to trial
and maybe getting 20 years
so even though he might be innocent but
you know people don't want to take a
chance
but lagabe hashem one would have
expected a language
i did shiva and i was forgiven
right i did chuba and i was reconciled
it's an unusual language i did shiva
and i made a deal with god i made a
compromise the word peshara
is compromise what is the meaning of all
of that
so the deceiver shalom the slenimer
rebbe
offers a beautiful explanation of what
is going on
cayenne kills his brother eva
mclookus did cayenne intend to murder
hevel or there was cayenne just beating
hevel and hebel died again we don't
really know because after all
cayenne was not necessarily even
familiar with how people die you know
he hadn't ever seen it before but
whether it was considered to be mazed
intentional or shogek unintentional
is not really important for our purposes
but cayenne calls out to god and cayenne
says
avonie minnesota my sin
is greater than i can bear
and again pay attention to the metaphor
he is describing sin as a weight as an
albatross
as something that's weighing you down
you can't move forward
you're stuck he's telling god
this is more than i can bear i can't
bear the distance i can't bear the
separation
i can't bear the estrangement
he says i will be a nov and not the ours
i will be a wanderer in the earth
and everyone that finds me will kill me
so then the siba shalom says he's not
just saying
my life is at risk people are going to
kill me he's saying
when i'm cut off from god
i will go here and there looking for
something
to assuage my pain drinking drug
sex workaholism because when you're cut
off from god
when you're cut off from meaning when
you're in hashem is starving
you look for something to take away the
pain
but nothing ever takes away the pain
and you're looking and you're looking at
connotes the idea
of incessant wandering around
for how you'll call mozilla
and every one that finds me will kill me
again the necessary says he's not
referring to people killing him
but he means every experience of
diversion or distraction
is going to kill me a little bit more
right there's an expression
in english death by a thousand cuts
every day i'm going to die a little bit
more
so now we have to look at what cayenne
is doing here cain is not simply asking
for secret service protection
cayenne is talking about the emptiness
the utter devastation of a person that
is cut off with god
the fact that one is weighted down the
fact that one is incessantly
looking for distractions
and indeed that is the modern that is
the phenomenon that is the predicament
of modern man that wants to kill
the pain of meaningless meaninglessness
and therefore he begs god give me
something
give me a chance give me an ability to
redeem myself
so what does the torah say god
gave cayenne a sign
so he will not be smitten by those who
would destroy him
this is the source of the english
expression the mark of
cain and there are different
interpretations again the simple
interpretation was that god literally
put a mark on his forehead
as if to say hands off don't hurt him
rashi brings a very nice madrid
that he gave cayenne a watchdog or guard
dog a pit bull
so if anybody tried to attack him he
would be protected
but both of those explanations are
learning that the torah is talking about
his concern for his physical welfare
but says the nasiva shalla
that there's a deeper possible meaning
i'll pick a bella
cayenne is saying what is my life
if i'm cut off from you so god said to
cayenne
i'll give you an opportunity to
reconnect to me
and that is shabbos which is called the
sign shabbos is called a sign between
god and the jewish people
and by extension to cayenne even though
this is prima tantora
in other words shabbos
was given to cayenne
to cayenne as a way of hashem
accepting his truva phenomenal
god gave cayenne a sign
so that cain would not be destroyed by
life
yeah it is a very difficult question
because cayenne technically of course
of course he's prior to noah but he's
not a jew so cayenne would fall under
the
category of a ben noah
and eben noah is not supposed to keep
shabbos completely
but i think there are two possible
answers to this
answer number one is really the approach
of raviol schwartz
may be well who takes the position that
although a non-jew
should not keep all of the laws of
shabbos the 39 malachos he should
violate something but a non-jews should
also connect to the spiritual idea of
shabbat shabbas is not a foreign idea to
the non-jew
in fact he even suggests that non-jews
make special meals and they light
candles and they recite
prayers that are equivalent to kids so
that might be one implication
the other implication might be that the
prohibition
and this is a machokas of non-jews and
shabbos kicks in
only after the jewish people are given
shabbos meaning to say
prior to the existence of the jewish
people a non-jew could partake in
shabbos like anyone else
you don't have that discrimination yet
so that might be two
two approaches but rav schwarz's
approach which is uh
very very relevant to contemporary
noahites non-jews
is a very very interesting one because
the traditional yeshivasu way of
understanding non-jews and shabbos is
that non-jews should not be connected to
shabbos at all
shabbos is not for them shabbos is only
for the jews
his kiddish and i think it is a fidish
is that shabbos does belong to the
non-jew as well
but the details have to be distinct
distinct from how a jewish person
keeps shabbat and that's why he has a
whole oh yeah
that's why he has a whole seder of how
non-jews keep shabbos okay but this is
very phenomenal so now that ishalam says
if we understand that shabbos was given
to cayenne
as hashem accepting his truva and giving
him a chance to reconnect
we can now understand what he means when
he tells adam harishan
i did shiva and i made a deal i made a
compromise with god
what is a compromise you get some of
what you want
and you do not get everything that you
want
so cayenne is telling god if i'm cut off
from you
my life is meaningless every experience
is just a
mindless frustrating digression or
distraction
to take away the pain that's in my heart
and it's unbearable god's answer is
for six days of the week maybe that's
going to be your situation
but i'll give you a day where you can
become connected to me once again
that's my that's the compromise shabbos
was the compromise
during the week sometimes like hashem a
religious jew
has numerous opportunities to connect to
hashem
during the week as well in fact tuesday
night we have
here connecting to hashem we dive in
every day we say bragos
but still overall sometimes a person
might be disconnected
but shabbos is that great chance and now
we understand the connection
between shabbos and repentance because
shabbos was given
to cayenne because of his repentance
and that's why other marishan says miss
marsha
lee omashabas how wonderful is shabbos
tov la hodos leshem it is good
to confess your sins to god because with
chuva
god gives you a second chance and
shabbos is that great chance it's a
wonderful thing
i often say you know i teach uh in the
ishiba i teach in the ursa maya to shiva
so guys who are in yeshiva some degree
they experience shabbos like the whole
week i mean basically their job the
whole week is to sit
and learn torah so they don't always
recognize
how different shabbos is from the
restaurant i mean even the yeshiva
shabbos is of course different
but the difference may not be so
pronounced but for those who are in the
working world
and those who are in environments that
are not totally holy
and they could get dragged down and they
could get adversely affected
shabbos is literally a lifeboat it's an
oasis
it is the sign that god gave to cayenne
to say that as far as you are from the
almighty
shabbos you come back and i'll take you
back and i'll welcome you back
and that's a tremendous tremendous
tremendous gift and although obviously
on shabbos one is supposed to rest and
eat well
but if one uses shabbos only for sleep
or only for eating and drinking it's not
so much that it's a sin
but it's a squandered opportunity
because there's so much potential
that shabbos can have to bring us closer
to our code that was the gift that cain
gave us
the root of the word shabbat decides
ceasing also to return
well it's connected uh shabbat has the
shin vase in it and the shin bays is
shove
to return and indeed in supreme kazidis
they say that shabbos could be an
abbreviation
shabbat bo and shabbat you return
but it's interesting so shabbos is a man
of chuba but it's a different type of
cuba
so for example on shabbos you're not
supposed to confess your sins
you're not supposed to accept on your
kipper you're not supposed to dwell on
the negative
it's not a shuba that's based
on renouncing the negativities
it's a chuba that's based on the love
that i have
for god and the love that god has for me
it is a chuba
that really accentuates the positives of
the relationship
rather than focusing on sin so on
shabbos we don't focus on sin
and repent because of our sins but we
focus on relationship
we focus on being connected with hashem
and even the eating and the drinking the
concept is we're hashem's guests on
shabbos
so to speak we're eating at his table
eating his meal
and and the like so that's why even the
eating of shabbos
has a certain elevated holiness
so now i want to point out something
about the shabbos liturgy
that's a very very interesting point uh
all of us know that the standard amida
standard we call shimon esre although it
doesn't have 18 blessings
you have three standard blessings right
the blessing of the patriarchs and the
blessing of resurrection of the dead
and the blessing of god's holiness those
are the standard three
and then you have the last three in
which you ask hashem to accept our
service we give gratitude to hashem
and we ask hashem for the blessing of
peace right so you have
three the first three and the last three
but then on shabbos and yamcha
you have a middle bracha that talks
about the holiness of the day
and it ends on shabbos makadesha shabbas
that god
sanctifies shabbos and on yamcha if it
says
israel he sanctifies israel
and the holy days on rosh hashanah
mikhail israel the day of remembrance on
yom kippur
mikhail israel so
whether it's shabbos yamcha regular
yamcha of shala srigarlan pesachwa sukas
or whether it's rosh hashanah yom kippur
we have a middle broker
and that middle barakah is given the
name
kadusha yom it expresses the holiness
of the day now the one thing you need to
know about kedushatayam
is that normally that middle bracha is
identical
for mayrav for chakras and from inch
it's different for musa but my rib
chakras mintra
the kedusha's hayon bracha is identical
and that's true
uh rosh that's true on yamcha golem
that's true on rosh hashanah
that's true on yom kippur the only day
of the jewish calendar in which the
kedusa saiyan bracha
takes a different form is shabbos
now the latter half the second half of
the kidusa-sayam bracha
is indeed the same for my riff chakras
that's the paragraph that begins and
locano villa cayo voceno
haseno right our god and the god of our
forefathers
accepts our rest that is the same and
that ends because
but the beginning paragraph is distinct
for mahrif for chakras
for mincha and you know maybe we don't
notice this all the time but this is an
extremely unusual liturgical
structure friday night
it begins with ataki dashta that you
sanctified us and it talks about god
creating the world
shabbos morning chakras yes moshe
moshe rejoices and brings down the
tablets
and you are one god and we are one
and who is like your nation israel a
unique nation in the world
so the question becomes what is the
significance
of a different petit a different opening
for kedusa-sayom which differs between
myriad
chakras and minha in a way that is
really unparalleled for any other sacred
day in the jewish calendar even yom
kippur
yum kippur is a long governing with the
vedoi but the ketucha taiyon bracha is
identical from
chakras uh indeed even ila
again mustafa is always a little
different so i want to offer to you the
two interpretations
interpretation number one is based
on rav david
as he's called was a spanish
rishon who wrote extensively on the
sinner
on the liturgy and is often quoted in
the shogunate the
he's one of the great great commentators
on the liturgy
and he says the following idea this is
very very interesting idea very
beautiful idea
he says shabbat is kind of a double
marriage in some
ways you know on one hand we talk about
shabbos is the bride
and we are the groom we are the hassan
and shabbos is the bride
this is based on a medrash that says
that shabbos was complaining
that every day of the week has a partner
sunday has monday tuesday is wednesday
thursday is friday
shabbos is number seven it has no
partner
hashem says kinesis israel will be your
partner
and that's why shabbos is called the
bride right the famous song
come my beloved to greet the bride
pine let us accept
let us greet the faith
shabbos is the kaala and we are the
hassan
and the original meaning of kabbalah
shabbos that's that was started in the
1500s
by the arizona and his students they
would literally
leave the show and go out into the
fields you can see in spot where they
went out
and when and then in truth the old men
of khasna was that the hassan would
leave the
to go to the kala and bring the kaala to
the
that's exactly right we go out to greet
the shabbos
today we it's attenuated somewhat we
just turn towards the door but that's at
least
the beginning of going out
but in a sense our sexual identity is a
little confused
because if vis-a-vis the shabbos
we are the hassan and shabbos is the
kaala
there's another marriage taking place
in which god is the son and we become
the kaala
there's a certain marriage that takes
place
between god and the jewish people
this is the message of shiroshima many
people have a beautiful custom
that they read the song of songs friday
afternoon
right before shabbos and what is the
song of songs it's a love story
but it's a metaphor for the love that
god has for the jewish people in which
god is described as the male
and the jewish people are described as
the female
now in marriage there are actually
three stages of marriage
stage number one is called
eru sin now again that's important to
not to be confused here
in modern hebrew abrasion just means
engagement
but we're not using modern hebrew here
in the language of the torah
and in the language of hazau arisin is
actually marriage that means that a man
gave a woman a ring or some money
and betrapped her married her and she
was a nation she was a married woman if
she committed adultery she could be
killed
but they didn't consummate the marriage
for a whole year in those days she would
remain
in her father's home and only a year
later would they consummate the marriage
and the like so stage one
is called erusen that's the giving of a
ring it doesn't have to be a ring but it
says giving of the ring
and at that point she's married but
there's not
yet a union stage two
is a greater degree of intimacy and
that's called
ni-sui now today we do it at the same
time
but there used to be a year apart
nisuain
is when the khatan brings the kala
into his home and that is a much greater
level of joy and stage three
is when the marriage is actually
consummated
and that is the height of intimacy and
union
so you have arisen which is also called
kidushin
which is the initial marriage
relationship
then you have nissuen which is
bringing the kala into his home
and then you have consummation
which is called khibor heber is union
for you they become like one flesh
so that would run wants to say in a very
daring metaphor
that as shabbos progresses we go
through all of these different stages
of marriage with god when we begin
shabbos
god is sanctifying us like giving a ring
to the kaala
that's why the friday night blessing
says ataki dashta
you have sanctified that's a lush
incuducian we start off as an arusa
shabbos morning we achieve the second
level
of god bringing us into his home
whatever that means spiritually
and we know that the icker simbra the
primary sembra of marriage
is not at the air sin but it's when the
hassan brings the khal into the home
and that's why the chakra stabbing
begins yes
moshe moshe rejoices that's a remus
to the simbra of nissuan
but as shabbas progresses
and as we are about to leave shabbos
sula
we achieve the greatest intimacy of all
it is as if there's consummation now i
confess
i don't fully understand what this means
other than
the general idea that there are
increasing layers of intimacy and
connection
and since intimacy is described
as hayula basar we become one
the theme of minha is you are one
and we are one we are one with each
other
so the abu dhabi sees that filot of
shabbos
as expressing increasing
and ascending and deepening
levels of intimacy and connection
starting with kidushin and moving to
simchas nisuwen kinisal the beetho
and culminating with consummation
togetherness unity
that of course is why sudha shalitius
has on some levels a bit of a nostalgic
almost sad tone a lot of the nigunim the
light of the song that we sing in
sudocillicious
are a bit sad and yearning
because you've reached such a level of
closeness with god
but shabbos is almost over and then it's
going to be hard to hold on to it
and that's why abdullah begins with an
interesting passage
yeshua see it's not part of abdullah but
it's customary that we recite it
tale yeshua see god is the god of my
salvation
eftach i have trust in him
followers i will not be afraid
what's the reference i will not be
afraid like why is that so appropriate
because by the time shabbos is over
we've achieved something very special
very close
but we're going to lose it and when
you're about to lose something precious
you're afraid
that maybe you won't get it again and
all of the goodness that you achieved in
all of the levels that one experienced
are going to be gone so god's message to
the jewish shabbos is leaving is
be strong have faith
have faith in god have faith in yourself
that you can hold on to this you can
hold on till next shabbos comes
and sunday monday tuesday is living off
the radiance of this shabbos
and by the time it's wednesday thursday
friday it's living off the radiance of
the new shabbos
and therefore don't be afraid you can
hold on
cayenne also was condemned to six days
where he would feel distant from god
but it was the memory of shabbos and the
gift of shabbos that was given to him
that gave him the strength to hold on
and even
feel connected to god during that week
so this
is the abu dharam's take on the three
philosophers that it's three ascending
and deepening levels
of intimacy and connection
the second answer i want to share is
from the tour
and the tour says that the three
filos of shabbos represents
the three pivotal shabbats
in jewish history or in one case in the
jewish future
there are three great shabboses that the
world
experienced or will experience the first
shabbos is shabbos gracious that god
made the world in six days
and god rested on chavez that's the
shabbos of creation
the second great shabbos was the shabbos
that god gave us the torah
you know god gave us the torah on
shavuot the ten commandments but that
happened to be on shabbos
so shabbos braces shabbos matantora
and the third great chavez hasn't
happened yet
and that is called the yom shekulow
shabbas
that's not just a day anymore but that's
the day of the eternal shabbos
and that refers to the coming of the
mashiach
and the redemption of the jewish rural
people
and indeed the whole world and may it
come
here so the tour says that's why friday
night we talk about bajulu that god made
the world in six days and arrested on
shabbos
that's why shabbos morning we talk about
moshe coming down from harsinai with the
two tablets of stone
matan torah and that's why shabbis minha
we talk about god is one because what is
mashiach described as
by omaha on that day
god will be recognized as one usher
and his name will be one
you are one your name is one
says the torah that's mama
so he looks at the thematic progression
a little differently that we're moving
from
creation to revelation
to redemption right creation
shabbos voracious revelation
the shabbos of matan torah and
redemption the yom shakula shabbas
of mashiach it's interesting those of
you that are
conversant with the jew modern jewish
philosophy may recall
the work of franz rosenschweick
and his most famous book written in
german but translated in english
is called star of redemption in which he
claims
that the three fundamental principles of
judaism
is that god created the world
that god revealed his will
at mount sinai and that there will
eventually be a redemption
the truth is he didn't invent that that
goes back to our yosef alberta jose
valbo
disagreed with the rambam who says there
are thirteen principles of faith
albus said there's only three principles
of faith that god created the world that
god revealed his will at mount sinai
montantora and that there's an ultimate
reward and punishment which is
essentially the role of redemption
and rosenstein wrote his whole book
based on it now whether
he saw the tour or knew of the tour that
i don't know
but the tour says that's exactly the
progression
of the prayers of tafilat shabbas
so i just want to add something
superimposed
on top of the tour and that is when the
tour says
friday night is about creation
and shabbos morning is about revelation
and shabbis minha is about redemption
this is not just referring to historical
events or even future events
but it's referring to a metamorphosis
and a progression that we ourselves
can experience every single shabbos
meaning every single shabbos
we go through a creation stage or we
might again i don't want to say we do
because it depends on whether we're
connected to this but if you're thinking
about it you can go to a creation stage
a revelation stage and a redemption
stage in other words
these are internal processes
that each and every one of us can access
let me explain what i mean
the initial stage of creation is the
idea that on shabbos
a person can feel as if they were
recreated like all the burdens of the
weak
can vanish you're like a newborn baby
you're like a child
that's why it's a very common phenomenon
that people are often extraordinarily
tired friday night
because during the week there's kind of
an adrenaline
that keeps you moving and moving and
moving and moving
in shabbos the adrenaline drains away
and you feel like a newborn baby free
of all those responsibilities what a
magnificent
feeling it is to know that the world
does not own you that you're free from
whatever those pressures are
unless it is literally a matter of life
and death
many of you know the novelist who just
died very recently
uh herman walk aloha shalom
who was a very very popular novelist in
fact he died it was over 100 years old i
think his last novel
his last novel i think he wrote when he
was maybe 100 or 99 real really up there
and herman welk was an observant jew he
was a religious jew
and many many years ago he actually
wrote a book about judaism
called this is my god very very good
book and i think
just a few years ago he updated it in
some way
and i remember and this is my god he
tells the following story that's very
very instructive
he actually came from a religious home
he was raised orthodox but of course he
was raised when there were no yeshivas
so he never had an advanced jewish
education but he was raised to be a
shamer shabbos and in the course of his
professional advancement he kind of left
it a little bit
but then he came back and he writes
that one of his novels was being made
into a broadway show i think it was the
king mutiny
and they were working 18-hour days and
finally
the show was it was going to open up on
broadway saturday night at 8 o'clock
so around 2 30 in the afternoon
he told his collaborator i'll see you i
gotta go now
now people are working around the clock
so the collaborator figured he was going
to the bathroom
or going to get a cup of coffee so when
walk said
at 2 30 i'll see you later he figured
he was taking a 15-minute break so he
told him okay but be back
within a half an hour so herman woke
said you don't understand i'm not going
for 15 minutes
i'm not going for half an hour i am
going for 28 hours i will be back
one half an hour before opening tomorrow
night
all right it's opening 8 30 i'll be able
to be here at eight o'clock
so herman welk said that his
collaborator
looked at him open-mouthed he couldn't
even process the information
your play is going to be on broadway
in 30 hours and you're
simply saying i'm going to leave for 28
or 21 without 28 hours
that's unbelievable and herman walk said
that he realized then for the first time
what shabbos really means that shabbos
actually says you can just
quote nancy reagan on drugs but but
there's a good phrase
just say no
the world doesn't own you if it's not a
matter of
life and death if somebody is not going
to die
you just don't have to do it
that's an amazing thing we create in our
lives so many commitments so many
obligations
and shabbos says at some point in your
life you can say
that's it that that's actually the
meaning
six days shall you work in the seventh
day you shall rest
so cause i'll interpret six days shall
you work meaning
when shabbos enters it should be in your
mind
as if all of your work is finished
now very few people enter shabbos with
all of their work finished
but psychologically i'm not connected to
them
so that's stage one that is the shabbos
of creation
you are recreated into a new being
without any of the obligations
that we're distracting you and dragging
you down
and that's a wonderful gift
it is a wonderful gift but it's not
enough
because if all that shabbos is giving
you
is freedom if all that shabbos has given
you is liberation
if all that shabbos is giving you is the
ability to throw away your
responsibilities
the question is what do you do with that
freedom
how do you direct yourself just like
with pesach
pesach is the holiday of freedom
is the holiday of commitment and we link
pesach on shibuya we link
pesach by the counting of the omer
because what is the lesson freedom
without responsibility is simply the
freedom of the wild
animal human dignity and certainly
jewish dignity
requires that we use our freedom
for something higher than simply not
having responsibility
and hence therefore the same way that a
pesach has to be linked to a chevus by
the counting of the elmer
we have to move from the shabbos of
creation which is
the one that frees me from my burdens
to the shabbos of matan torah to take
that freedom
and use it to serve god to learn his
torah
to do his mitzvos to live a life of
holiness and dedication
beyond yourself so you see the
progression
i'm liberated from all of those things
that pull me down
but i then have to use my freedom
in a positive constructive holy
and noble way that's the relationship of
shabbos gracious
and shabbas matan torah in fact
this dichotomy might explain another
liturgical subtlety that perhaps
you've noticed and that is
friday night shabbos is referred to in
the feminine
we say the
israel may the jewish people rest in her
shabbos is called a her but
shabbos morning where you're saying the
same raqqa this is received
you know except our arrest you say
we should rest in him shabbos is
masculine
and people ask the question how come
friday night
shabbos is referred to by the feminine
ba her
and shabbos day uh it is referred to by
the masculine bow
him but based on this understanding we
can
we can kind of see a partial explanation
that is friday night we're looking at
shabbos
as the mother that has given birth to us
we've been recreated
so shabbos is the mother that gave birth
to us
but shabbos day where we're talking
about the discipline
and the direction so again obviously in
any individual family it may differ
but in the traditional halachic
structure it is the father that
teaches the sun torah and therefore if
shabbos morning is about
torah and submission to torah then
shabbos becomes the father
that is teaching right so friday night
shabbos is the mother that gives birth
to us
shabbos morning shabbos is the father
that instruction teaches us
yeah just to bring it down a little bit
to reality everything you're saying
makes so much sense but if they say
friday night
it's like the dream is the coolest mind
that's all about this creation
yes
that's right that's the main that's the
main thing yeah the largest part of the
service
is kriya satora that's the major major
part of the dubbing yeah
that's right and this now we understand
why
kriya satore is connected to the shabbos
morning service
rather than the friday night service
now there is however one missing piece
in the equation
and that is you know we talk about the
idea that we're in gullis
gullis exile and godless is understood
in many many different ways
uh there is a godless for the years that
we didn't have our land
even now there's a godless because we
don't have a base of mikdash
we don't have a mashiach but all of this
is a goddess that's external to us but
the morale writes
that the deepest type of golos is a
godless that exists within our
own souls in which we are estranged from
god
but even more fundamentally there's kind
of an estrangement within ourselves
you know there's a quotation that is
attributed to two different very
different
sources some say it's from a visual
salanther
and some say it's from nahum of breslau
so if you have hasidim and misnogden
claiming the same idea then it must be a
pretty valid idea because everybody
wants to take credit for it
and the idea is there is no
distance in the world as
great as the distance between the head
and the heart there are many many truths
that we know intellectually
but we're not able to get our emotional
personalities in sync with those ideas
we know for example that we should be
more loving we should be more kind
we shouldn't lose our tempers we
shouldn't be selfish we shouldn't be
egotistical
most of us know those ideas in our head
and we know that they're good and we
know that they're right
but somehow we're not able to get our
emotions
in sync and that is a form of gullus
estrangement separation
dichotomy in which the emotions are
functioning on one level
and the cognitive cognition is focusing
on a different level
so when we talk about mashiach we talk
about goula
goula is all about unity
but the unity occurs on so many
different levels
there is the unity between god and the
jewish people
there is the unity that exists between
jews
to overcome the sinatra
the irrational groundless hatred and
then
there is a unity within the fragmented
aspects of ourselves that have to come
together and therefore when the torah
says
that sudah shall i not well that but
really is about the shabbos of
redemption
in terms of what that means in terms of
us means that we can achieve a
holistic integration
of emotion and minds
you god are one shimbak
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we can achieve oneness as well
but even more importantly oneness within
ourselves
and therefore the gift of minha
sudashit the waning away of shabbos
is that we try to get our feelings and
our emotions
in synchronization with our cognition
so that we live lives of integrity
authenticity truth
that what we what we do and what we say
is a reflection
of the totality of our personality and
not only one fragment of it
and that takes time you need a whole
shabbos so to speak
to progress to that level so the point
i'm making is
that the trilogy the three steps that
the tour articulates
which is the step of creation
revelation redemption are eternal
processes
my first exposure to shabbos is one of
relief
i am free the second is one of
commitments
and the third is one of integration
bringing it all bringing it all together
and we now understand that internal
redemption is really a precondition for
external redemption
if enough of us achieve that state of
holistic integration
then hashem brings his presence into the
world
and that's why khazal very much say
that the observing of shabbos is a key
to redemption now there are two versions
of it the
the famous passage in the babylonian
talmud says
that if the jewish people would keep two
shabboses
they would be redeemed there is of
course the famous
mordechai ben david song just one
shabbos
and we'll all be free and people ask him
how can you say just one
shabbos and we'll all be free
if the babylonian talmud says you've got
to have two shabboses so he points out
pointed out that although the babylonian
intolerance says the jewish people have
to keep two shabboses
the jerusalem palmer says they only have
to keep one shabbos
and since he wrote the song in eric
israel he followed the talmud
you show me but for our purposes it
really doesn't make a difference if it's
one shabbos if it's two shabboses
some say it has to be two shabboses
because you keep the first shabbos that
changes your weak you then have a week
based on that shabbos which then
elevates the next shabbos
okay whether it's one or two the one
thing you see for sure
is that shabbos is a precursor
and a condition for redemption
because it allows me to achieve my inner
redemption
and when i achieve my inner redemption
if enough of us achieve that inner
redemption
then the basa mikdash comes down meena
shamayim
and it brings us all of those
brahos that we need so again
all i can say is ghazal tell us
i have a precious gift in my treasure
house
the shabbos shema and it is shabbos
may we be to see the treasure of shabbos
to grow from it to learn from it to
cherish it
to love it and ali they talk
we should be zoha to a shiak the
building of the basa mikhtash
the ending of the plagues and the
mageifos and the distractions
that consume so much of our lives
so we can dedicate ourselves to what
really matters
and that is the love of hashem and the
service of hashem
so have a shuttle
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