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thank you for coming and I want to give
a special welcome to uh Esther jadak we
just made Aliyah she was a very very
beloved teacher for many many years how
was it how many years 40 years in the
silver in Silver Spring the Hebrew
Academy and she was my my son moshe's
second grade teacher and uh
it's very very wonderful to have her be
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so you know often right after uh
we already started reading precious
gracious and I have to admit I always
get a little nervous for parshyas
gracious and Noah I often tell people
let's start the tour from because
voracious is so mystical it is so filled
with difficult questions and then you
have all the scientific issues of age of
the Earth and then with Noah you know
did Noah have polar bears on the on the
ark and you know I get these questions
like every year and you know you say
this and you say that so I'm kind of
holding my breath till we get to
leklicha which is the miyuka special
history of the Jewish people and of
course there are infinite depths of
meaning there as well maybe even more so
but at least we're not confronting
necessarily all of the scientific issues
uh that gracious and Noah raises so I
can finally take a little bit of a
breath as we begin the actual story of
Ami Israel the creation of the Jewish
people
uh because avram
it's a little ambiguous it's often said
avram is the first Jew
it's not clear what that means exactly
because after all avram was prior to
Madan Torah and avram was not the first
person who believed in God we had other
Marisha and we had Noah shame right
shame is malfeased the king of Shalom
who was a Kohan leke Leon so in which
way was avram the first Jew and there
are really two explanations in what way
is avraham
explanation number one is he is the
first person with whom Hashem made a
special breath to the exclusion of the
rest of humanity Hashem made a brist
with Noah but Noah is the founder of
everybody
the notion of separating out a certain
person
to be the art that his children would be
the offshoot of a unique Nation with the
unique Mission avram indeed is the first
Hashem made a major dick of bris with
avram and that passed down from avram
was not included in the breast and then
with Yitzhak the breasts passed down to
yaakov to to the exclusion of asaph so
that's one way in which avram avinu is
because he had a unique covenantal
relationship with akadishburg
the other aspect which is avram was a
man with a mission Noah believed in God
Adam believed in God the many of the
intermediate Generations believed in God
but avram was the one who preached it
avrah was the one who taught it avram
went from place to place to place to
place and avram's tent was opened Abram
avinu made the name of God beloved among
others this is why the Hassan sofa says
that avram is called by the navi ishayal
who is quoting God
avraham ohavi avraham who loves me
of all of the Personalities in Tanakh
even among the Jewish personalities
avram is singled out as the one who
loved Hashem avraham the one who loves
me
in fact I believe
one of the Arabic names for one of the
guys I don't remember which game up it's
called the Gate of the Beloved and it's
connected the Gate of Abram they have a
gate and honor of government it's called
the Gate of the Beloved based on that
verse in Yeshua the Kasam sofa says why
is avram the one who loves God
because here is the thing if avram was
concerned only for his own Spiritual
Development
he didn't have to hang around with these
low lives pray for sedome and and have
his tent open to every Pagan every
idolater he could have meditated he
could have gone to the forest he could
have concentrated on his relationship to
God
and that would have made him a higher
McGregor in some ways
but what did aphram do because avram
loved God he was willing to sacrifice
even the spiritual Madre guts that he
could have achieved to bring greater
glory to Hashem and the Sam silver says
that is the actual meaning of Mercy West
nefish now we use the word merci
westnevres when a person is willing to
risk his life but because that's not
mysterious that's Missy reskuff I'm
endangering my goof masira's nephesh is
I even give up some of my spiritual
attainments
for the greater glory of akadishburg
and that is avram oh happy this is an
important message for people who
sometimes wonder should they move to a
certain Community to be mccarrative
people but it's not as from and it's not
as yeshivas or whatever it is
well avram's Act of love was
specifically willing to sacrifice some
of the amenities some of the ease some
of the comfort of living in a
well-established Community to bring the
glory of God to other people by the way
the some sofa says there's a promise a
Divine promise
that one who moves to a community in
order to bring others to Hashem
as a promise that their children will
not be harmed by negative influences
there's a certain
gives
so last week we we spent the whole share
on kind of the contrast between avraham
and Noah Noah was a phenomenal Sadiq
Noah was the only person in the world
who was deserved to be saved now our
family was saved only in the marriage of
Noah imagine the whole world is evil
and he was the only one so Noah's
madrega is beyond our comprehension and
yet as I mentioned last week the Zohar
points out that Noah did not pray for
his generation Noah was not so concerned
for his generation and that is the
greatness of of ramaphino so a Jew by
definition what makes avram the first
Jew
because a Jew is concerns for others
and a Jewish concern for the glory of
Hashem
and they don't look at about Hashem as
simply a way to get brownie points
a way to get reward but rather one is
motivated by the glory of our kadishburg
so that's one one particular point now
I'm from who's called avram at this
point he said avraham yet avram is
actually introduced to us at the end of
precious
in fact if you add up the chronologies
by adding up the ears of all the
generations until avram avram was born
amazingly enough in the year 1948 not
not 1948 of the secular calendar Abram
is older than the state of Israel but
avram was born
1948 years from the creation of the
world
and by the way once you know that date
you can figure out a lot of dates you
can then figure out you'd see out some
Italian and you know because based uh
around how many years we could figure
that out so that's an important day to
remember in terms of computing biblical
chronology chronology you can figure out
the building of the first place I make
this because the Torah says that's 480
years and I'm saying not to tell you the
book of Bologna says it's 480 years
after we left with Triumph so once you
know avram's birthday which is actually
fairly easily easy to compute you can
figure out many many biblical days and
you're going to be okay until you get to
the second base of mcdosh where we have
the famous chronological problem which
I'm not going to address today I talk
about it on Sunday of the missing 166
years of the Jewish calendar but Anton
Makoma La Harris and that particular
question
and interestingly enough at the end of
precious Noah
we actually read that avram and Tarak
decided to go to eres can not on
and they let from a place called
and they stopped that kharan
and tariff dies
and then Hashem tells him
keep on going keep on going so what's
interesting is that even before Hashem
said
avraham was already journeying
towards the land of Eric Israel and even
his father who was my Gallagher
now
why were they going
so hazal see this as a remise
to a famous story that everybody knows
but is not in the hummus it mentions
that avraham and tarach left or costume
to go to Canaan
and they came to kharan that's where you
know loving the Suave that's where they
eventually were and terrex died
the chronology here is little murky
Rashi does points out terrex actually
did not die until many years after
Abraham left but the Torah covered that
up because it didn't want people to say
oh avram left his elderly father
but be this it may offer him with uh
avram and Tarak both left or accustomed
to go to ariskanat so ghazal's midrashic
interpretation is
that the word or
it's not just a place name but it refers
to a burning furnace
customers simply the Babylonian nation
and the concept was that Nimrod was the
Melech and Terra was an idol Merchant
and avram smashed the idols and Tarak
his own father like turned him in to
nimrod
and uh Nimrod gave him a choice you
either affirm a votazara or you get
thrown into a kipshan or a fiery furnace
and avram was thrown into a KitchenAid
he was willing to die
and miraculously he was saved
but Tara himself felt you know who knows
if the second time middle works or we
better go interestingly enough avram had
two brothers
har run don't confuse it with Harlan
Karen is a place harun is avram's
brother and nochar
an happens to be the father of Sorrow
so I've run married his niece he married
his brother's daughter
now Hara dies too
and the medrish gives us the backstory
that haran was sitting on the fence
he didn't know he says if avram gets
saved I'll believe in God
your problem dies I'll stick with the
idols
so avram gets saved Horan becomes a True
Believer he gets thrown into the fiery
furnace Harmon dies
now people ask Akasha but it's not
really a Tasha he says I mean is Horan a
bad person I mean why I mean Horan saw a
miracle
and he did show up by seeing a miracle
he did children and believed in Hashem
what is so bad about that
and the answer is very pleasant there is
nothing that is bad about that haran in
fact is considered to be a subject that
is one of the reasons why he has the
Success Through Sarah
to be also the founder of the Jewish
people
the only thing is he was not on the
madrega where he would be zoka to a
supernatural miracle
that's all in other words if somebody
gets thrown into the fire and they die
it's not that you know there were Russia
it's that they weren't on the magnitude
to get the miracle now to put it another
way you are zoha to the supernatural
Miracle only if you're willing to die
fresh him
that kabbalistically is the whole idea
the shalakadish brings it
that
when a person says I love Hashem with
all of my heart with all of my soul
they should have cavana that they're
willing to die al-qirish Hashem
and if they have Cabana that they're
willing to die okay
they get all of that connection to
akadesh
in a sense avraham was willing to die
okay
because he was willing to die okay
he didn't have to die
just like by the Arcada his willingness
it was the same thing with the Acadia
the willingness to be most significant
takes away the need to have it actually
done
harun was a righteous person Harvard was
a balchuva for sure
but Harlan was not willing to die it was
the other way Horan basically said if
Barbara dies I'm not going in
so because of that Harwin is excited no
question about it but Harmon was not
safe to the next okay so this is called
the miracle of War costume
so the question becomes
why does the Torah not tell me about
this great miracle
why does the Torah I mean it's a remise
in the name of a place called the orcasm
I am Hashem who took you out of War
custom now literally that just means
that's where I called you to come to
Canaan
because Al darshan I took you out of the
furnace but it's only Aramis
tells the story she's this part of a
long article that she had about the
notion of what is the role of midrashian
in teaching Hamish and she made the
point that although midrashram are very
important they're part of our Taurus
but it's important for a child to know
the difference between what the hummus
again maybe Mr could appreciate this
know the difference between what is in
the Hamish
and what is in the measures that's why
people sometimes have a little bit of a
criticism with a very fine set of books
The Measure sets which even adults use
and it's a very very good collection of
midrash him but some have said that the
downside of it
is that the child or the adult kind of
doesn't differentiate between what is
actually in the Hamish and water hazal
adding to the commission it's important
that you have that said and the example
that she gave was everybody knows the
story of Warcraft him
but people think it's in the hamesh and
it's not in the Hamish
so the story she tells was that she was
teaching this to Sam because she heard a
lot of her early teaching were to
soldiers you know religious
non-religious and there was a Gruff
General that said
he says you're telling me inside of the
Torah says
when I was a child
and he wasn't religious but he remembers
as a child of course it's in the Torah
so she gave her my Tanakh and said Tim
said look for it
no he hadn't looked at a Tanaka many
years but you know he knew Hebrew so
he's leaping through it leaving through
it leaving through it the beginning of
gracious he doesn't find the story
so he gives it back there and says
zakira
safer then so so she gave an example
that sun midrash him are so beloved and
so well known that we can virtually
swear
when in fact it's not in the commentary
by the way another interesting example
of Miguel sester
you know everybody knows the story of
Miguel the tester that Esther became
Queen because
killed vashti
if you actually look at the text of
Michaela tester it does not say that he
killed her and in fact the simple
implication is that she was simply
rotated back into the Harem she was
demoted from being queen says I share Lo
Tavo vashti lmlf now that's interpreted
to by gazelle to mean that she you know
she was killed she'll never come again
but the simple meaning was she was
demoted that she could no longer come to
the king like Jessica just like any
other woman in the Harem that she has to
be called
Etc elima and the Ebenezer I believe
actually interprets it that way that
there's no Raya from the circum that
actually was killed he was just demoted
and yet everybody knows that the Magilla
says vashti was killed so given this
predicate that the Torah does not give
us the story of War costume except for
Remus Remus mamish illusion hint why
does the Torah not give us that story
so here the morale
gives a beautiful idea not much a
beautiful idea says
call Ava she eats
any love that exists because of a
specific reason
I love you because
you know you give me things I love you
because you're smart I love you because
you're beautiful
but lava when the particular factor that
generates the love goes away
the love goes away too because the love
is
that's unconditional love
then no matter what happens
that love is going to stay
so here's what the morale says if we ask
ourselves
I read the Hamish
why did God choose avraham
why did God pick this guy out of the
masses of humanity and say go to my land
I will make you a great nation I will
bless you
and those who bless you will be blessed
and those who curse you will be cursed
and you will be a source of blessing for
the whole world by the way uh you know
we we had our elections today here and
next week we have the midterm elections
in the United States
it's been well since been pointed out to
me together
we're not in the VM so that
part of why America
has been so blessed for so many years
is precisely because it gave it was a
Haven
for the Jewish people
and the whole history of the United
States
is in some ways a fulfillment
of what Hashem said to avram
those who bless you
will be blessed
that indeed was the case
and that's why there's no accident as if
anti-Semitism rises in the United States
there are other things that are going on
now the dislocations and the turmoil and
the like because you no longer have
those who bless you will meet less it's
a beautiful power of God Andrew
Feinstein wrote many many years ago
that a Jew has to be microtov
to the United States
four because it was a mouth it gave
shelter I mean obviously in all of our
shioram you know we're always
criticizing some of the decadent aspects
of American culture
okay that's true I mean the world
generally is going through difficult
issues
but the idea of akara satov to give Jews
a place
give them opportunity give them
participation
but Moshe Feinstein says that's
something that calls upon us to have
a correspective
so going back to the college
Hashem takes this person
out of the masses of humanity however
many people the word says I want you
why
the answer is no reason is given
but there is a reason or costume avram
taught people about God but the Torah
doesn't give a reason and here's what
the morale says if the Torah would have
given us the backstory and it would have
talked about avram's righteousness
avram's goodness avram's willingness to
dial is what have taught us all about
our custom and then Hashem says to
Abraham
that would have made the relationship
fully of the governor I love you
because you're so righteous
now all of that is true but there's a
downside if God says I love you because
you're so righteous and good
what's going to happen when the Jewish
people are not so righteous and not so
good and what's going to happen when we
sin and what's going to happen when we
don't follow the way of Hashem
Ava so this is what morale says
it is true
that God had reasons
but the Tyra wanted to establish the
relationship
as an Ava to William
to guarantee
that this is a love that can never go
away
and that's why or costume is covered up
because the mice of War costume would
have implied a reason for the bakira the
choice of avram and the Torah wants to
make it
to luya a bit over now that doesn't mean
you know anything goes obviously there's
Corbin there's gold in other words God's
unconditional love doesn't mean we get
away with things
but once again that's an aspect of love
right the the unconditional love that a
parent has for a child doesn't mean you
let your child do whatever your child
wants
that actually is not the sign of a
loving parent maybe it's the sign of a
lazy character or a confused parent a
loving parent
gives Direction gives structure gives
boundaries
Hashem does disciplines and the
discipline is sometimes very very tough
but it's a discipline that comes from
Love
the love of Hashem from Israel
can never will never
be abrogated
and this goes all the way back that the
choice of avram has to be Ava Aina
wonderful wonderful idea now
let me share with you again the
beginning of the navi Hosea
not yahushua Jose is the first of the
trail sir
12 the English translation is Minor
Prophets of course they're not minor but
they're smaller they're shorter books
so at the beginning of the navi hoshaya
who was a navi before the Exile of the
12th of the ten tribes so it's more than
100 years before the destruction of the
first place on mcdesh and I've mentioned
this before I'll mention it again Hosea
is commanded at the beginning of the
book
to marry a prostitute a well-known
prostitute Gomer
uh now this is my focus we've shown him
did this actually happen or was this a
dream that Hashem gave him
but Peter said May whether it actually
happened or was a dream he was told to
marry or imagine a nobby of Hashem
is told to marry a prostitute and he
married to prostitutes
and he has children from the prostitute
and you know what she continues to be
unfaithful to him
even after they're married
but
he falls in love with her
he loves her
he can't send her away
what's going on
so the warm socket
gives us the background
when Hashem
to give mustard to the Jewish people
give them chastisement correct them
Jose actually argued with Hashem he said
you know what's the point of going
through this game all the time I give
them most of their other prophets give
them what do they do they continue to
say what's the point been there done
that
replace them
with a different Nation
unlike Moshe when Hashem said I want to
replace benay Israel and make a deal
with you Moshe says if you're going to
erase them from the book or raise me
Hosea said go to somebody else
to understand
what it means
to love unconditionally
and he has O'Shea take an Unfaithful
life
a wife who is not keeping any of the
commitments
that you make to your husband
and he then tells Jose I get rid of her
he says I can't
Hashem says to him now you know my
problem
the Jewish people are like an Unfaithful
wife that's a common metaphor in tanaki
Hashem is our husbands I mean there are
many metaphors but one is he's our
husband we are the Unfaithful woman
who commits adultery by Avada Zara and
sin
but Hashem is stuck with us he's not
going to divorce US
how Shaya needed to understand
unconditional love
and the morale says that is built into
the very beginning of the of
where it's
now
if we go towards the end of the
departure though avram came to Eric
Israel
where everyone was at least commanded to
come to Eric Israel Eric kananas was
called then at the age of 75.
now it's interesting
that Rashi proves chronologically
that Abraham had made an earlier trip
five years earlier the famous Covenant
among the parts when Hashem told him
about you see a Smith Triumph we can
prove occurred when avram was 70 years
old
so the truth is avram actually came to
where it Israel five years earlier
in fact it was the war of the Kings at
that earlier point and the Britain up
sorry
then he went back and then five years
later he comes again right so it's
interesting that avram actually had two
different trips in average Israel
but whether we count his coming to arith
Israel at 70
or 75
when he's 99 so he was there for 24
years or more
he was commanded to do a Brit Miller
a physical Covenant of the flesh
and then shortly after the Britney law
Ishmael was born when avraham was 86.
uh Yitzhak was born whenever and was a
hundred the British Milan was Ishmael
was 13.
right 86 to 99 and uh was not born yet
he brisk the next year at eight days
the mafortion asked a classical question
and they say
had a tradition
that avram avinu kept all of the
Mitzvahs of the Torah
even before those Mitzvahs were given
he was not obligated to do that he was
not hired to do that the Torah wasn't
given
but he intuited with ruach hakodesh
everything that the Torah says
and he kept it he kept the Torah odd
shalom
in fact they even point out when he
serves the angels in next week's Parsha
milk and meat says he first gives them
and then he gives up to me because I
like it but you're allowed to have
flight shakes after milk and the whole
thing is dry button I mean the rice or
the history of meat milk is only if you
cook them together
so right so you can have a glass of milk
and eat meat but he was moshmer the
first give them the milk and then the
flight shakes he kept even rub onions
this is a famous this is a mission of
ram avino kept the whole Torah at Shalom
so the question is if he kept the hotel
before it was given
then why didn't he circumcise himself
before God commanded meaning to say he
knew about Shabbos he knew about to fill
in he knew about kashras we don't know
how we knew about shikita he knew about
meat and milk he knew about Brittany
love
if he knew about Britney laugh he should
have done a brismila before God
committed right so why didn't he do that
actually
so there's a lot of different answers
that before she'll give
one answer is the answer of Rebel young
israqi he was a famous
16th century Turkish Ralph who wrote
probably the most complete commentary on
Raji and homage full of exploring all
sorts of issues and rebel young Israeli
writes that's gazal say that when you do
a Mitzvah that you're commanded to do
you're not commanded to them now most
mitzvos I can do it when I'm not
commanded and when I get commanded I can
do it again I can do it again
Rich me lie you can only do once so
iframa Vino would have would have done
Brittany love as an anonymous
someone who was not commanded he would
never be able to do it as a midservice
somebody who was commanded therefore he
had to wait in order that he should be
able to do bridgmail as a mitsu that
viosa that's another that's one aspect
another aspect is
that
Brit a covenant is not something you can
do unilaterally you see a covenant by
definition
is entering into a bilateral
relationship
now just like you can't really make a
contract with yourself
you make a contract with another person
you can't make a Brisk with yourself
you have to make a brief with another
person or in this case a bridge with a
gem so until Hashem says I'm ready to
have a covenant with you
your your circumcision would only be an
act of Mutilation it wouldn't represent
the forging of a covenant with Hashem
gritsvilla cannot be done on an optional
basis
because it then wouldn't be the Brit of
mutuality
than a covenant suggests that's the
second answer
but a third answer
that the maharasha says is very
interesting
the rabbinical statements
that avram avinu kept the whole Torah
before it was given
is only after he did britmina
Rich Mila elevated him
to a new understanding
whereby he was able to perceive the
Torah before it was given until britmila
he was not on that level so you can't
ask nakasha why didn't he circumcise he
kept the whole Torah before it was given
the answer is until he did Bridge me lie
he did not keep the altario report it
was given he didn't know
so the question I want to explore in our
remaining time is
what is it about brismila
that elevated of RAM avina
to a superior understanding of the
spiritual world
right why did Bruce Mila according to
the martial bring him to that higher
level
so under so to understand this let's
look at another question
we we know uh
that the names of both avram and Sarai
we changed
right Hashem told of rum your name is no
longer a from your name will be of raham
on because you will be a father the
spiritual father of a multitude of
Nations
again remember that we even use in
English today the abrahamic faith
Christianity and Islam are both
outgrowths of Abram's Faith may be
perverted in some ways but fundamentally
they are based on that
and sorry
let's change to Sarah
shinui Hashem
but the Shinay Hashem
is also in connection with britmila
meaning to say
it is only at the time of the
circumcision or right before the
circumcision
that the names are changed
right so what is it about Britney law
that engenders
the change of the name
so let's first talk about the Shinu
Hashem and then we'll go back and see
why the britsvilla elevated avram that
he could perceive the hotel
uh there's a famous Gamora that is often
I'm sure you've heard this or said it at
numerous Chevy bracos over the years
that take the name for a man and woman
ish Anisha
ish Anisha share two common letters
alipshin
the man has a good in the in the word
ish
and a woman has a hay
Den hay is actually one of the names of
God
so the famous sport is when they bring
God into their marriage
men are doing what men are supposed to
do and women are doing what women are
supposed to do everything's great
you take God out of the marriage
then selfishness and egotism
become a destructive fire without Hashem
without yodane in the marriage
man and woman become fire in which each
one destroys the other
famous famous chever breakfast vort that
only when Hashem is in your marriage
then each person is functioning as they
should function without Hashem
selfishness becomes age
right that's ignoring you Wellness but
my route wants to take it a little
little further
why does the man get the good
and the woman get the hay
and yet hey you know
a woman is is only half as good as a
man's surely not I mean you're just
telling you hey so here's what my Rel
says the gamara says in my knuckles
that God created the universe
through the spiritual power of the out
of space
that's safer you'd see with the book of
creation foreign
was created through the power of the
letter yud
Hasa
was created through the power of the
letter hey
it is the spiritual power that
engendered Allah
hey
is the spiritual power that engendered
and that's the meaning of the verse
foreign
God created worlds
why is your the letter of Allah
is the world of spirit
there is no eating there is no drinking
there is only kadusha there is only
godliness
so as a result the letter that
represents Omaha has the least material
unit is the smallest letter U it
represents the letter that is most
distant
from physicality
so you had represents the notion of
rookness
spirituality that's not connected to
materiality that's Allah
what do you say
so hey the morale says could be seen as
a composite of two letters
visualize a hey you have a dialect
and you have a yield I might have
thought of that but he says valid and
yields
doubt it
represents pure materialism
we talk about the four directions of the
world
or even matter has four dimensions we
have length width
thickness whatever and time
so if you had represents pure
spirituality
dominant represents pure materialism
but this world is comprised of both
spiritual and physical so what is hey
you bring the youth into the dark
so says my realm a powerful thing
men now this is a generalization I know
that people don't like generalizations
but this is a general idea
men have problems with materialism when
we get involved in the world
the male ego asserts itself
greed anger competitiveness
so just like uh and then first with
emphysema may have to go on pure oxygen
a man's connection to God has to be
forged by a certain disengagement from
the world
pure rookies so a man's catcher to God
got to be a good that's why men go to
show more they have a minion that's why
they are yeshivas that's why they are
called a lemon even if someone is in the
Working World they take time off to
separate from the outside world
because the world drags us down
so our tester to Hashem has to be
complete roughness
a woman is given a special gift
a woman's special gift
is to be able
to take the yacht of life
and bring it into the doubt
in other words to look at the details of
physical existence whether it's taking
care of children or would are running a
household
and instead of that being a distraction
from a voters Hashem
that gets sanctified
that gets elevated
that's actually a more difficult avoda
I mean a very simple example I mean many
I mean
let's take a day like Yom Kippur right
Yom Kippur I think we would describe as
the yield of the of all the days of the
year it's a day of pure rookness
Yom Kippur in many ways is an easier day
than other young and children
precisely because we don't have to worry
about physical things like the meal and
setting the table and everything else
it's a much bigger challenge
to bring the yud into the diet
than it is just to function with the
youth
and indeed the morale says
that the meaning of a woman being a
Zaire connecto helping the husband is
that a woman can teach a wife can teach
a husband
in the physical and material
and not only in the spiritual
that you bring the spiritual
into the physical
this is the color of a woman
now again
when we talk about man woman we're we're
really referring to male Tendencies
female Tendencies it gets very
complicated because in any given male
there may be female nutriots
and in any given female there may be
male details so
we don't mean to say all men are this
way and all women are this way but we
mean that the male nitya is to seek a
rochnius that is separated from
physicality
and the female Metea is to see the
possibility of bringing the youth the
nikudatayat into the town
so now you'll notice the following
you'll notice
that the shinui Hashem of avram and
Sarah
involved giving them a hey each of them
got a hay now
I mean Russians you point out that maybe
Hashem took the Yoda Sarai the law came
from the woman and divided it into hey
so Sarai got half of for Youth and avram
got the other half of the end but
whatever the origin of whether it came
from the yood or not
the bottom line was they were both given
a hey
and that actually means that avram and
Sarah and Sarah
man and woman
were given this otherwise female
capacity
to bring kadusha into the physical
and that is actually connected to
britmila
one of the very important lessons of
British Milan
is the capacity to elevate and sanctify
even the most material even the most
animalistic even the most involuntary
part
of the human anatomy
points out
there is no accident
that the British Mila is performed
on the sexual organ
and he says in some ways
of graduates on a baby but it is the
organ that eventually will be the sexual
organ
in some ways
the sexual organ
sexual function
is the least voluntary
and it's something we share with animals
all life
and we know that there are some
religions that actually say like the
Catholics that the the highest righteous
person will be celibate
so why do we do britz Milan the lower
part of ourselves so to speak
so the safer says to teach us an
important lesson
that every single function of Our Lives
can be elevated
sanctified
consecrated
dedicated to God
are eating our drinking our intercourse
these are functions we share with
animals
but animals do it out of instinct
animals do it out of simple taiva
we can do it
as a way of serving
so now you understand the connection
between the shinui Hashem
the change of name
and Bridge Mila
when Hashem is ready to enter a covenant
with avram and sorrow
and this Covenant through circumcision
will convey the idea
that even the physical even the
animalistic
can be dedicated to Hashem
Hashem gives them that power through the
letter A
which is bringing the youth into the
dollar
until britamila
avram himself maybe Sarah may have had
that capacity whatever himself didn't
have that capacity to elevate the
physical maybe avram needed to withdraw
from the physicality
just like Noah needed to withdraw from
wine I similarly think but the British
Milan represented a new evolutionary
stage
in his connection to kadusha
and that was also symbolized
by the shinoy Hashem
the year than day now it's interesting
that although the hay represents a
higher level
of bringing the yud into the toilet
numerically it's only half a yodist head
and a hay is only five
that actually means
the caducea of everyday life
will not have the intensity
and the excitement right when I separate
myself from the physical and I have
nothing but to think about other than
about as Hashem
I could be passionate I could be excited
but then I got to do carpool I got to
change diapers I gotta go shopping
I don't have that excitement anymore
and I think I'm functioning at a lower
level
it's a hey
in reality it's a higher level the yud
is still there it's concealed in the
dollar it's still you
but the reduction refers to the fact
that
in terms of what I sense I don't sense
the condition it's more of a who said
it's more hidden
but it's actually a higher level
it's actually a higher level
in the language of the balatanya the
famous beautiful language of the outer
rabbi
although he didn't invent this language
people commonly quoted the name of
Italian
but the famous saying that Chabad will
tell you a million times from the
balotanya that Hashem wants to have a
divine
Hashem wants to make his residence in
the lowest of the Worlds
to bring Hashem into every low place
that's the highest level
to bring out not to bring Hashem and
he's already there but to bring Hashem
bring out the presence of Hashem that's
there
in the lowest places
and that's what brismila represents
and that's what
shinui Hashem represents and that's why
the Shino Hashem is badafka connected to
the bris Mila so now with this we can go
back
and answer the question I started off
with that is
right the question that the fortune
asked was if avra mavino kept the whole
Torah
before it was given why didn't he do a
risk before he was commanded so the
martial's answer was until he did a
press he didn't know the hotel he only
moved her because now why is that so so
the question was why would britz Miller
bring him to that higher perception
because if you think about it
the mitzvos of Hashem
are vehicles
by which we sanctify the physical world
because if one only wanted to serve God
in a spiritual way like why do I need to
fill it I mean it's felony you kind of
uh you gotta Chef the cow and you got to
skin a cow and you got to process the
leather and then they take the wool of a
sheep and you make citiz and then you go
and you harvest lulux and asteroids and
all of these things
why can't I just meditate why can't I
just think why can't I just focus on
weakness why am I doing all this stuff I
gotta get like a quill pen and write the
safer Torah by hand
the answer is because mitzvos are how we
Elevate the physical world and turn
physicality into holiness
but when did avrah mavino get the
understanding that even the physical
can be holy
Chris Mila and therefore he didn't
understand why would God care if I shake
a palm a branch of a palm tree or a
natural why would that even be important
prismila gave him the insight
to be able to understand all of those
all of those in young and so as a result
therefore
britmila is the reason for shinui Hashem
and British me lies the reason for his
understanding of kalatorakula
Shalom the ability to perceive the Torah
even before it was it was given now the
truth is Brittany law obviously has many
many other
uh lessons as as well let me just
mention uh very quickly just a few a few
lessons
uh one lesson you know um
and again over the years I I mentioned
this uh there was
um a a journalist uh Ellen Willis who
unfortunately died but many many years
ago
she wrote uh an article in Rolling Stone
magazine about her brother I think still
may still teaches Nisha Torah yeah he
became a balcuba they grew up in a
secular family in Queens he became about
Silva he became haredi learning in
Yeshiva and Ellen Willis wanted to
investigate what type of crazy cult is
going on in Jerusalem
uh and I thought since Rolling Stone
suspected there might be a drug angle
there they kind of gave her unlimited
Pages a huge article to be able to write
whatever she wanted because they figured
she'd find something
I remember years ago when this article
came out I think it was in the 70s or
maybe very early 80s so uh I wanted to
get a copy of all rabbis wanted to get a
copy of this because it was a very major
article but it's a little embarrassing
to walk into a 7-Eleven and buy a
Rolling Stone magazine uh somebody might
see you a student might see you so I
remember I waited I was in Chicago then
I waited till two in the morning
Saturday nights
to uh buy a 7-Eleven I'm trying to buy a
rolling stone in the 7-Eleven
in Chicago and of course as you would
expect the guest we have for Shabbos the
boy we had for Shabbos was there buying
some beer and he sees you know me buying
a Rolling Stone magazine so he said oh
no I know what you rabbi's doing your
free time type of thing uh but the
article was an extraordinary article
really uh and it was very quite amazing
she recounts many conversations she had
particularly with her of North Weinberg
what's kind of amazing is there was a
certain tension introduced into the
article rev Novak has many of you might
know I know Rivera knows was an
extraordinarily not only passionate
person but a very persuasive person he
could really talk you into you know
anything and he was on and she was
mamished on the verge he kept on talking
to her and explaining things there and
the tension in the article was that
she was like on the verge of making this
commitment to be from itself
and at the last minute she pulled away
last minute I was going to say she was
ready to jump off the cliff maybe that's
not the right way of describing it but
she was right there ready to go and she
pulled away at the last minute and you
were not rooting for her to make this
decision to stay to go to Torah and the
like but in one of the conversations
with Ralph Noah this was in the article
so she recounted again he said this
other other places as well like what is
it that human beings want above
everything so he said uh so she she said
they want pleasure
which he agreed with that's exactly
right human beings are pleasure seeking
entities
he then asked him what's the opposite of
pleasure
says well they want to avoid pain
so he disagreed he said no all pleasure
in life
by definition involves a certain amount
of pain
no pain no gain
write the pleasure of something is
commensurate to the work and the effort
you put in
the opposite of pleasure is comfort
so she said she didn't understand she
said wait in pleasure Comfort they seem
to be the same thing why are you saying
they're opposites he said no he says
imagine they gave him Marshall imagine
somebody wanted to be uh an Olympic
gymnast
so like you have these high school kids
that get up at three o'clock in the
morning and they practice four hours a
day before school
and they work for years and years and
years and then they get to the Olympics
and they achieve something
that's called pleasure
Comfort is the guy who doesn't get out
of bed
so it's comfortable
but there's no pleasure because there's
no accomplishment
the pleasure
even of making money which is maybe a
low level pleasure but this could be a
pleasure but even then the pleasure is
often in the struggle and people who Who
start businesses and get very successful
they will often say later
the happiest part
of my life in business
was when I was building up that business
now it's just that money's coming to me
okay to say there but I don't have that
pleasure of building that's why
sometimes you have these guys who are
like get rid of the business and let's
start again I mean granted they're
starting with a you know a few million
dollars but still the concepts I want to
start it again
so if Noah said
Judaism
does not make a claim to be comfortable
being a Jew does involve sacrifices it
doesn't involve commitments even if I
can't eat where I want to eat I can't go
where I want to go
there are restrictions
so no one's going to tell you it's
comfortable
to be a Jew
but Judaism ultimately
will be a great great source of pleasure
because it'll give your life a meaning
and a purpose even in relationships the
more we work on our marriages
the more pleasurable it'll be
the more we work on developing a
relationship with our children
the more Knockouts we're going to get
from it precisely because in fact that's
the rights in a famous essay
why is it the case
that the love of a parent for a child
yeah maybe not always but tends to be
stronger
than the love of a child
for a parent
the old yet is saying right one parent
can feed 10 kids but 10 kids don't take
care can't take care of one parent
sometimes
so what answer they give they give one
answer is the reason is because the
relationship of parent to child
uh other Marisha didn't have a parent I
mean he had Hashem but he didn't have a
human parent
but other mauritian had children
so as a result the first love that
humankind had was the love of a parent
to a child
the love of a child for a parent came
came later so to speak I came in right
the love of a child for a parent is a
second generation love the love of a
parent for a child is a first generation
that's one reason but the other reason
of destler says
goes back to the idea again it really is
real no it's fine maybe you're of not
perhaps even derived it from if that's
the discussion I don't know is that
parents invest a lot in their children
you work you struggle you sacrifice
and as a result Your Love in them is
going to be much stronger than the child
that perceives stuff from the parent but
didn't necessarily sacrifice for the
parents
and therefore the more effort you put in
right so going back to Brittany law
maybe it's kind of a hard a hard love
type of introduction where we did we're
introducing the child at a very young
age to the idea
that being a Jew takes some sacrifice
takes a little bleeding takes a little
effort
that life is not always going to be easy
but the meaningfulness of life
is not a function of how easy it is
you know Blood Sweat and Tears as
Winston Churchill said and we're
teaching the child yeah that's part of
life too
but you can get joy in it you can get
happiness in it you can get fulfillment
in it that's one important idea and the
second idea to this I'll just add my
route points out
that there's a great great symbolism
in the fact that it's on the eighth day
seven
represents the cycle of nature Hashem
made the world in six days and then
there was a seventh day and then it
starts over again
so Waldo shot this is kadosh Shabbos is
still within the framework
of the natural world
eight
is something that is above nature
it represents something that's not
connected to Teva
hashem's relationship to the Jewish
people
is above nature
besides the fact as we discussed
even historically it doesn't make sense
there was a famous British historian
Arnold toynbee
who wrote a multi-volume brilliant
workout actually historians don't like
it now and it's fallen into disfavor but
it was a classic word called the study
in history
and what Professor toynbee did
was he analyzed I think it was 50
ancient civilizations
Babylonians Sumerians Egyptians through
the Greeks and Romans and he was able to
identify by cross-compairing all of this
data what are the factors that create
success in civilizations
and what are the factors that cause
degeneration he literally identified the
common denominators
of what makes civilization successful
and what makes them fail
problem was
when he came to the Jews
his formula worked for 49 out of the 50.
98 success rate
but it didn't work for the Jews based on
his calculations there ought not to be a
Jewish people we didn't have for most of
our history we didn't have a common
language
we didn't have a common land a lot of
those factors weren't there
now it is said that time B was an
anti-semite
which
is probably was probably true but you
know I think to myself forgive me you
know I don't blame the guy the guy
writes a 10 000 page book multi-volume
and like you know the Jews the existence
of the Jews refute his theory
you know I would be I would be nice you
know hey you guys and because of this
time B came to the conclusion
that the Jews are a fossilized people
meaning he said I can't explain them
it's like sometimes you can find a fly
trapped in Amber that's if you believe
in the age of the Earth being millions
of years it's millions of years old it's
like finding a dinosaur you know you're
finding something the Loch Ness monster
right who knows whatever that is might
be a I'm not saying it is I think people
think there might be some dinosaur in
Scotland that's still hanging around
in other words the Jews are a fossilized
people now this was interpreted as a big
insult this was interpreted as an
anti-semitic slur and in the 60s uh
yaakov Herzog
uh the the older brother of climber took
the president of Israel the uh in fact
the uncle of the of the present
president of Israel the son of rabies
but also a very brilliant person and
throughout some American and British
campuses there was they called the
herzade toybee debate
are the Jews a fossilized people or not
and I think you can even get some of the
old videos on YouTube I think they even
posted a few of those videos it goes
back to the 60s a long time ago
but what I want to say is
that
it might be that twine B is making a
point here because point B is basically
saying I have studied the laws of
History
and based on the laws of History
they're ought not to be a Jewish people
maybe the response to that is you are
right
the Jewish people
should not exist
based on historical processes that's
exactly what the morale is saying we
represent eight
We Exist La Mila
amen
so Toby is actually making an
interesting point our existence is
Supernatural
okay he called it a fossil because we
can call it a different gun but if his
point is we don't fit the historical
paradigm
ain't nothing
that's exactly right and in fact one of
the arguments
for God even is
how else
could the Jewish people exist every
nation
great Empires Rome
Greece Babylonia Egypt
tried to destroy us
and those Empires
are not even in existence anymore
there's a famous letter from Mark Twain
who is not not a Jew where Mark Twain
basically said this he said all things
perish
except the Jew you can get the letter on
the on the internet
he was a great great you know beautiful
writer and he expresses it very
beautiful that he says he stands amazed
at the survival of Israel and not just
survival it's not like we're surviving
in a cave in Afghanistan but in terms of
being a presence in the world and
contributing to the world right so
that's also so so besides the idea of
Brits Mila as the capacity to sanctify
the material
number one it reminds us of nox point
that pleasure is not always the same as
comfort and there's going to be a little
pain in life
but we persevere but it also reminds us
of eight
that our connection is above nature so
these are some thoughts think about
mishawale a good Shabbat so we can thank
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