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sofa two shams greatest Baraka which is
the Bravo of Shalom last week we
discussed the Mitzvah that of Rama veena
was given at the advanced age of 99 the
Mitzvah bris Mila and there were a
number of things that were said to
Avraham at the time number one he was
given the commandments of Brits Mila and
we talked about that last week number
two he was told that his name will be
changed we also talked about that as
well that his name will be out for ahom
and Sarai's name will be surah number
three he was also told that Sarah his
wife will give birth to a child a year
from that point and that child should be
called
God actually gave the name yet stuck he
shall laugh because once again we'll be
in such an amazing thing that I've
remand Sarah had a child as in advanced
age so it turns out that Abram was
already told at the time he was
commanded about his circumcision that he
would have a child from from Sarah
besides you smile was already born and
the Torah says by ye palapa of he fell
on his face why it's Huck and he laughed
now we go to this week's partial which
is only three days later according to
Casals reconstruction of the chronology
Avram had a bris we know that medically
because I'll say the third day after a
circumcision is when you're at your
weakest remember that's when Yaakov I'm
sorry that's when Shimon and lavey
killed out the city of Japan the third
day of their circumcision so Avram is
naturally very weak and he's no
youngster he's 99 after all and Hashem
didn't want Avraham to be involved in
hasta gnosis or would be too difficult
so I share made it an abnormally hot day
so that nobody would be traveling and
yet Abraham is still sitting up there
waiting way
being waiting for orchid and nobody's
traveling so God sends him three angels
in the guise of travelers who Carmen
Avram gives them the great hospitality
that Avram was famous for and these
people who are angels revealed to him
again that Sara your wife shall have a
child and then we are told in the Torah
that Sara was listening behind the
doorway of her tent and she laughed and
she said to herself is it possible that
after I have lost my youth and my
husband is too old shall I have a child
and the angels immediately say to
Avraham llamas at Sarkoja Sarah
why is Sarah laughing saying that she is
too old to have a child having more
points out although by implication she
said she's not able to have a child
anymore but the phrase too old
she actually said about her husband not
about her right she said fedone ISA came
why do the Angels paraphrase her remarks
to say Anissa Kunti and the Gemara here
learns out a very important Alaka it's
moot Alesha notes it is permitted to lie
to misstate something in order to avoid
conflict between husband and wife
right this is darkish Shalom okay now
the famous question that is asked and
one of the most famous questions at
least in this parsha
is that Sarah lamps and Sura is
condemned for mockery for not believing
does she think that is anything beyond
God why is she laughing and if actually
then denies it I wasn't laughing because
she was afraid but yet in last week's
parsha when Avram is given the same news
Avram laughs as well so why is Sarah
condemned for her laughter criticized
for her laughter when our room is not
criticized for her look for his laughter
same words with Avram it says by Yitzhak
and he left with Suraj says but T struck
it's the same word rarebit just means
and she left
so what's the knife kameena what is the
difference between the laughter of sarah
and the laughter of abraham so it's
interesting that the targa monk 'less
which is the Aramaic translation of the
Torah because during the Second Temple
period strangely enough even the Jews
who lived in Eric Israel
generally did not speak Hebrew their
language was Aramaic in fact that was
the language of yashka and the Apostles
right they all spoke Aramaic those who
lived in the lands of Israel we find in
the Gemara that there were times that
even great rabbis did not know the
meaning of Hebrew words and Tanakh and
they would ask the maidservants a review
dahana see because in his house they
only spoke of pure Hebrew so even the
maidservants new Russian ha'qodesh so
the targa monk list is normally a very
very literal translation but
interestingly enough when it comes to
these particular firearms laughter and
service laughter the targum gives a
different Aramaic translation for the
same word in the case of Avraham
Viet shock he laughed is translated
voddy he rejoiced in the case of Sarah
Vitesse and she laughed is
translated they got kiss and she scoffed
now obviously the reason why the targum
uses two different translations is
precisely because of this question it's
the same Hebrew word laughing but the
question is Abram is not criticized and
sorry it's criticized answer
Avram was laughing out of joy Sabra was
laughing at laughing out of skepticism
now the obvious question is that if
indeed our arms laughter and service
laughter were two different emotional
states why would the Torah use the same
word to describe identical phenomenon in
other words the Taira itself should of
you
that used a different not shown if
indeed the two states are different but
Rashi actually goes along with the
targum and Rashi basically says I've REM
is the laughter of joy I thought you
might even connect this because I've run
fell on his face that's the notion of
bowing doubt it doesn't mean it's what's
so funny that he keels over that's not
the meaning of falling on his face but
rather it's an expression of gratitude
to the Almighty that his laughter is
this unexpected phenomenal gift that
Hashem is giving him that Abram as a
psychic feels he's not worthy of so it's
a laughter accompanied with a profound
gratitude as opposed to Sarah there is
the what you might call the bitterness
the bitterness of skepticism and alike
yeah that's really another question why
why would she not to be in that material
but the truth is the Rabanne makes an
interesting point and he says well okay
let's assume that Sura doesn't believe
what's going on but you know why should
she be condemned because keep in mind
that I've RAM here's the news directly
from God Sarah sees three guys dusty
Wayfarers who are Arabs
again with Arabs I mean like better ones
they're not you smile they're priya
smile veterans and they say oh your old
life is going to have a kid
why should she believe them says these
people are idiots so in some ways even
if you assume that she's scoffing that's
not a lack of Emunah in a shed that just
may just have to accept what she thinks
she's hearing from three better ones
so the ROM bond says a fascinating
little point the ROM bond says you never
know whom Hashem chooses to be the
conduit of a brother somebody gives you
a brother you think they're crazy you
think they're not worthy you think who
are ready to tell me what my future is
take it seriously and answer our main
because Hashem just as a gem can do
anything
Hashem can act through anybody and it
might very well be that the most
unlikely people might be the conduits of
braja and you have to be willing and
ready to accept it this is why first
I'll say howdy he bare hast had yet
color being AHA the brother of the most
simple person that you think is the most
simple person take it seriously of
course what do they say they say
starting with the rugged traveler gone
the Rebbe tarragon was a phenomenal
phenomenal genius in divinsky he died in
the 1930s and the co rabbi of Dvinsk was
another God Allah door where are Sameach
and the Arts America used to say on the
rugged trevor people think the rugged
Shover
has a phenomenal memory he doesn't
really have a good memory at all just he
finishes just like every week so any
anything in the Bob Lee and the you
shall be he saw within the week so
what's what's the big deal of course for
us we forget within a day but but ok but
within a week from here says that was
not a big memory achievement but the
record Trevor was very caustic for
various reasons so people would come to
the rugged Trevor they were asking for a
block so people and even I don't give
breakfast I'm not a Rebbe I don't give
breakfast so people would say back even
as I'll say that the Brucker of a simple
thing should be valued cow of a comer
how much more so that of a great gunnel
so the rubbish ever said why don't you
give yourself a Brucker without a cover
Comair instead of asking me to give me
with a gobble so simple a simple thing
you have already you can you can give a
brother fear to yourself under those
under those circumstances now they tell
a famous story it may be apocryphal I
don't know if it's true about the idea
of never turning down Abraha accepting
Broncos from everybody that there was a
woman in a black a girl in Bnei Brak
that was already getting a little older
she didn't have a I think she
was like 28 or something that's already
very very advanced
age so the father went to the stapler
that's where I'm Kentucky's father and
was very concerned my my daughter is
becoming an old maid she'll never marry
I'm worried about it so the stapler said
when your daughter was born did you make
a kiddush and show in honor of her birth
so he said well no I meant I guess we
don't make key dishes for daughters to
get its aeneas so the stapler says
that's your problem because when you
have a kid ish everybody goes over to
you and says may you be so fair to take
your daughter to the Clipper and you
might even get tired of a hundred people
coming over here after a while
everyone's giving you the same bracha
over and over and over again but you
never know who God chose to be the
conduit of Rekha and you deprived
yourself and your daughter of what's
called the scene or the pipe of Baraka
to the sty player so he then said ask
the cyclist what do I go stapler says
make a kiddush in honor of her birth now
but she's almost 30 okay
still you're happy that she was born so
he made a kiddush in honor of her birth
looked a little funny 30 years or 28
years late and everybody went ahead and
gave her a bracha or him approximated be
Sokka you take your daughter to the
chuppah and the story goes two weeks
later she got engaged and happily
married and alike that there was the
scene or of a broth so we did we take
brother seriously and the Ron bond
actually says this was the China so to
speak against Sura
that she didn't acknowledge the
possibility that perhaps Hashem is
sending people that she doesn't know her
angels she actually does not know their
angels at that point to perhaps give her
the Braja which offer more ready nose so
this is all based on the targum uncle
as' so again Rashi and the Ramban are
both going with the targum uncle is that
Abraham's laughter is one of joy and
gratitude and sorrows laughter is one of
reasonable skepticism but not because
she lacks a moon in God but but simply
because she didn't think these were
messengers
of God in that in that way and as I said
before the the primary question or the
primary kasha
on this interpretation is why would the
tire use the same verb to express two
different emotional states by Yitzhak
and verticity truck is the same it's the
same word so now let me give you an
option from of Mayor simply the or
cement he was the co rather in the city
of Dvinsk with it with the rug each
other the measure he sabers on Columbus
is called the metric Hofmann and the
metric hakama is comes out the same way
as well that Avram and Sarah were both
skeptical Abraham was skeptical and sari
was skeptical but Avram skepticism was
justified and Sarah's skepticism was not
why would there be a difference so this
is based on a passage in the
introduction of the Rambam to the
Mishnah you know the Rambam as you know
his first work was a parish a machinist
which is actually was written in arabic
and translated into Hebrew and in the
parish of Mathias which is printed in
Moustakas Braavos the random routes an
introduction a very very long
introduction which is a very masterful
masterful work on the nature of the oral
law Torah op and alike but as is the
round bombs want occasionally there's
some fascinating digressions away from
the main theme and in the middle of the
hakama
the Rambam discusses the role of a Navi
we know that a Navi is a messenger from
God and the Torah commands us to listen
to another at least when he doesn't
violate the Torah but before a person
can be accepted as a Navi he has to pass
a credentialing test he has to get a
Navi license some guy shows up and
simply says God gave me a message I
don't have to listen to him so when
there was a son Hedren they would
credential nubium so how do you
credential a nothing so the Rambam says
they're at
it was a process and that is the Navi
has to make a bunch of predictions and
the predictions have to come true not at
80 percent accuracy or 90 percent
accuracy they have to come true at 100
percent accuracy so it might be
something like they could pick the
questions it might be something like
well I was gonna say is it gonna rain
tomorrow but in order to strobe that's
usually not such a good question please
for a lot of the year but you know who's
gonna win the World Series or whatever
whatever it's going to be and the
predictions have to be 100% m/s if
there's even a small deviation he is not
certified as a nothing and there's no
key of to listen to him so the random
then lays down an interesting rule that
in order for a Navi to be invalidated
because something did not come true it
must be something that would be either
neutral or good for the Jewish people so
if the Navi tells you they'll be a
broker
they'll be rain they'll be a low B meets
Ahonen no comma and it doesn't happen
he's a false nothing but if they know
these prediction is that something bad
will happen and it doesn't happen now
that doesn't prove he's a nothing but it
doesn't discredit him as a nothing
because even if he's a no VMs and God
told him something bad will happen
Hashem in his Rock'em him can cancel a
new Valera which means therefore since a
Navi can only be discredited by the good
thing that fails to happen but they Navi
cannot be discredited by a bad thing
that fails to happen a Navi can be
tested only by the good and not by the
bed because if if I test them by good
predictions and they don't take place
he's a Navi shocker
now the Rambam brings a riot to his
validation test from a story in the New
Year Mayo
we're prior to the destruction of the
first base of Mukesh
there were many false prophets and in
sending the false prophets were
promising that the Jewish people that
they would have victory over Babylonia
they could fight the Babylonians and God
loves them that it almost sounds like
they were the ones who had a vast Israel
right all the false prophets were saying
God loves you you have the temple this
is the mahkum of Athena Hashem will
never allow Eretz Israel to fall into
foreign hands near me Yahoo was
perceived as a traitor yo-yo was saying
surrender to Babylon
don't wage war because if you wage war
because of your sins you're going to
lose everything if you surrender to
Babylonia perhaps they'll let you keep
the temple or whatever it would be so in
the book of year mio there's an
encounter with a false prophet Kanani
abanazar
who is galvanizing the people telling
them fight against Babylon and God loves
you and you will win so your mio tells
her ganya Venice or the following I
really really hope what you say comes to
pass but I want you to know that if what
you say doesn't happen
meaning the Jewish people lose that will
prove you're a false prophet
if what I say meaning we're gonna lose
doesn't happen that does not prove
anything against me it just shows
sessions recommend and the Rambam
derives from that story the idea that
prophecies that are negative can always
be rescinded prophecies that are
positive can never be rescinded and that
is how an obvious testing now after
laying down the Clow the Rambam asks a
question on himself we're going to read
in a few weeks that after Yakko was away
in Lovins house for twenty years and he
returns to Eretz Israel he hears that
ace of his brother is coming after him
and the pus success Yakko was very very
frightened and the Gemara in Braavos
asks the question why is Yaakov afraid
of his encounter with a sub hashem
promised him 20 years earlier i will be
with you and i will protect you
what is yogev afraid of the gomorian
Bracco's answers scheme' yeom a faint
yes Jakob says I have a divine promise
but Yaakov says every divine promise is
conditional on my being worthy and in
Yaakov humility he was afraid that
perhaps he sinned and is no longer
worthy of divine protection and that is
why he is afraid and he prayed to God so
the Rambam masks on himself but if it's
true that once there's a prophecy for
goodness it's not going to be rescinded
even if you're not worthy then how could
ya Cove be afraid show me a girl my
height and of oil the tava at least if
it's if it's not expressly conditional I
mean obviously when the Torah says if
you keep mitzvot you'll get a certain
blessing that's conditional but the
Rambam is saying when the prophecy is
unconditional in its terms it will not
be a null because of sin because if it
could be then you can't discredit the
number even of we could always say oh
you didn't get the barakah because you
committed sins
so there are my master kasha how do you
reconcile the idea that in a royal the
Tova is not rescind about with the idea
of Shem no you grow my faith they seem
to be two opposite propositions so the
Rambam gives a very interesting answer
the Rambam answers there's a difference
between a promise that God makes to you
and a prophecy that you are commanded to
tell others when God makes a promise to
you and you're not necessarily the
vehicle to communicate it as a prophecy
to others
so the proudly the promise might be
conditional
even if it's not stated as such meaning
to say yeah I'll give you all of these
brothers if you're worthy
that's why Yaakov was afraid shamea grew
my height but a not these in a different
ballgame a nothing Hashem is not just
promising something to another Hashem is
giving the Navi the mission of
communicating the Novoa to other people
typically to omnia Sorrell sometimes to
the Omo solemn and since there has to be
some way that a Navi could be
discredited otherwise how would you know
who is a true Navi who's a false Navi so
there has to be a certain part of his
nuvvula that it's irrevocable no matter
what anti-feminist Asad shows the good
navour to be irrevocable so in other
words the Rambam differentiates between
what is called half taka where we apply
the concept of scheme' Marseille
and neva where we apply the idea that in
a vowel the toe is more clots
it is 100% definite and it's never going
to be rescind about all of this is the
Rambam and again this is in the hakama
the introduction to the parish remission
eyes so now the metric Hoffman says we
can understand the difference between
Abraham's laughter and service laughter
when a Shem speaks to Avron at that
level that has not yet been communicated
as a nerve or to anyone else it is in
the gather of a mere promise as a
promise
Avram can have a rueful laughter meaning
to say how why I should be soaked there
and not commit sins that will take it
away from me but the measure customer
assumes now this is also a lacuna this
is an omission in the text that after
Hashem told Avram Sura your wife will
have a child
he told Sura that which means according
today the
shikaku sarah was aware of this even
before the angels came because I've
roamed old her now one sovereign
communication leaves the realm of
promise and enters the realm of prophecy
as prophecy it's irrevocable
and that is why Sura didn't have the
right to laugh because Hashem already
made a novella that you would have a
child again it's a little difficult
because then you're back to the question
well if Sarah actually heard it from
Ogron
then why is she telling it when the
ankles come so I'm going to give you now
a third explanation of the rsam and the
or axiom is a very very beautiful
explanation of kyon Benatar he was from
Morocco but he made alia came to Eretz
Israel in the 1700s we actually call him
often the or Hakim Hakadosh the holy ark
I am and he is buried and her ization
it's a big big yard site the year the
earth setter he asserted and so you are
separate the he Lula is what I think the
fifteenth of Thomas it's right before
the fast of Thomas and you might know
that it actually attracts tens of
thousands of people go to the iris a sim
for the he Lula of the ORAC I am a
cottage
so the Orihime Akash actually says
Sara's laughter is exactly the same as
on forums laughter exactly the same
Avram laughs with the joy and gratitude
of the unexpected gift that God is going
to give him and Sarah is laughing with
joy and gratitude over this gift it's
exactly the same it is not that she is
skeptical and he is accepting he accepts
with joy she accepts with joy that is
why the Torah uses the same word it is
the same
laughter so the question now becomes
more acute he's laughing in gratitude
and joy and she's laughing in gratitude
and joy so what what is there to
criticize does she not believe of course
you believe she's laughing because she
believes so here's what the RFA McCullar
says the order hi MacArthur says the
issue is not why she's laughing the
issue is when she's laughing here's the
thing
Hashem tells of REM your wife sir is
going to have a child in a year he
laughs as soon as he hears the promise
of God Sarah does not laugh the
assumption here is although this is not
in the text actually but the RF hime
also assumes like the bedrock Allah that
Algrim communicated to Sarah what God
had said it is not recorded that Sarah
left then but sorrow laughs a few days
later a few days later when those angels
come now according to Rashi groshi'
brings a Madras that what happened to
Sarah was she actually returns to her
youthfulness she actually began
menstruating again the bread became
chummy with the blood of Needham and
when she said after I've been worn out
shall I return to my freshness of flesh
she was not there was not a question
mark that was an exclamation point how
has it been so she's actually laughing
because she sees the physical changes in
her body so here's what the rsam says
the difference between Avraham and Sarah
was for Avraham the belief in God's
promise was so real there
didn't have to be manifest in anything
physical Sara certainly believed in
God's promise as soon as I've I'm told
her she believed but it didn't have the
same reality until it was knit gosh em
in her physical body so when the angels
say does she not believe that God can do
anything if the earth I am says it's a
much more subtle point of course she
believes but the Emunah was not as real
to her as what she experienced in her
body and therefore that means there's a
bit of a disconnect between the Emunah
and the physical reality and if the
physical reality means is a stronger
sense of God's providence than the
promise itself on that level there's a
very subtle a very subtle he's earning
the munna so when the angels say llamas
at soccer kisara
why is Sarah laughing the rsam says why
is Sarah laughing now when Avraham
laughed before was not the promise
enough to elicit the laughter it's a
very very beautiful shot because it does
acknowledge that Sarah
Ameno believes that Hashem was going to
fulfill the promise but she didn't
laughs he didn't become realtor till
there were physical chip miraculous
changes in her in her body so the ark
item says to the person of Emunah the
belief in Hashem is promise is just as
real if not more so than what you see
with your actual actual eyes now there's
a gomorian Bava Batra browser
says love Yochanan was once teaching
that Leo said love Oh based on
interpreting a Ganesha OH
Leo said love o the walls of you shall
ayam will be made of jewels there are
many many amo say diamonds rubies
sapphires emeralds all the way up
so the Kumari recounts a certain town
meeting this and said to himself Bubba
mices this can't really be true and then
once he was on a sea voyage and the ship
got lost at sea for a while and he sees
floating on top of the ocean big slabs
of jewels which would be the size of
these walls so he was so excited because
he has empirical proof that his remedy
was correct so when he gets back he goes
to of Johanna and says with so much
excitement rabbee rabbee rabbee it's
true everything you said is true I saw
it myself and reveal cumin it wasn't too
happy if y'all can insane you mean until
you saw it you didn't believe and muna
like they said with the cut sukharev me
somebody wants to all the cuts go Abby
that there was another 52 Rebbe who
claims that he saw the use Pisa right
the seven guests that come on circus he
saw the huge piece and every night and
the cuts go Rebbe says I don't see the
huge Pisan but my Yamuna is even
stronger my omona is there there and I
see with m'hona
and that's even stronger than seeing
with your eyes so this is really the
idea of the moment and that's actually
one of the interpretations of a famous
mine Marquez I'll call them Isabella
Lucia lion if a person mourns over
Jerusalem Zota varroa Basim cosa he
merits and sees
the joy of your life now there's a
grammatical problem or the normal way we
translate this is actually not not an
accurate translation we normally
translate it if you mourn over Jerusalem
you will merit and you will experience
the redemption and that's how we
normally interpret it but grammatically
that's difficult because if the meaning
of Hazael is if I mourn now I will be
zoca to experience Redemption later it
should have said call him a Szabo a
yerushalayim years care vieira visum
cotta Zahav aroma means you experience
it right now how could that be
right now I'm mourning right now I'm sad
right now I'm deprived how is it that
I'm experiencing Redemption right now
because the answer is when you're
miserable and then you think about the
fact that I sham promised that the
temple is going to be rebuilt and the
Jewish people will come back to average
Israel that emunah is as real to you as
a physical base of mikdash in front of
your eyes you experience actually actual
comfort of a rebuilt besan mixture in
your Emunah that Akhilesh Morocco will
fulfill right that's one explanation
another explanation which is not
connected exactly to what we're talking
about but I'll mention it is from the
for some safer if you remember by
Matthias Joseph when you
so so it mentions and the brothers gave
Yakov a story that a wild animal has
attacked Yosef had killed Yosef and this
is his coat etc they had dipped the coat
in the blood of a goats so it says that
even though Yaakov thought his son was a
dead he could not be comforted no one
could comfort him so Rashi brings again
from Kazan an interesting teaching that
why could Yaakov not be comforted
because a person can only be comforted
for someone that is dead you cannot be
comforted for someone that's alive when
God forbid someone dies so as
heartbreaking is that is as shattering
it that it put into the world as a
general rule that there's a certain
healing that can come to a person with
the passage of time not a hundred
percent obviously not 100 percent but
the acuteness of the pain goes down a
little bit because otherwise how is a
person able to live in the world how are
you able to survive how are you able to
go on so the Old English saying time
heals all wounds is in fact the the
normal tether that I shall put into the
world because otherwise we would just be
paralyzed we could just not move at all
and we have to go on but that's only
true for someone that dies but someone
that's alive now here is in curiosity
even if is if this is a metaphysical
idea this is a even if you think he's
dead Yaakov thought y'all said was dead
but somehow his neshama was not
comforted because in reality Yosef was
alive now the obvious question is so why
didn't y'all go figure out it was alive
because he wasn't being comforted okay
and the answer is he thought he loved
Yosef so much he thought he just wasn't
getting comforted but in fact you can't
be Mocambo ton Coleman
I'm a high and that's why you'll find
when we have all of these unfortunately
in average Israel we have the we still
have some but we had missing in action
and missing in action soldiers high limb
and the one of the great Agony's of the
parents was they were the uncertainty of
not knowing dead or alive there's no
closure obviously losing a child is is
awful but knowing knowing is better than
not knowing that not knowing is a
tremendous constant anxiety that never
goes away right this is what Rashi
teaches us so now this is what there are
some safer says if you're still crying
over the base of McNish which is which
has been gone almost 2,000 years why
haven't you gotten over it it's gone
isn't there a concept that time is
supposed to heal answer you're only
macabre on Hanah and that which is dead
you're not macabre on the coma on that
which is alive so if you're not macabre
macabre you're still miserable that's a
proof that's the return of the temple
it's still alive and therefore from the
very fact that I still cry in the ninth
of us that's a proof I get comfort in
that very crying and of course there's a
famous story
people say it's apocryphal you always
know these are like these are kind of
Jewish folk tales that sometimes not
true but they tell a famous story you've
heard of it of Napoleon walking by a
Jewish synagogue on the ninth of F in
France or of Paris where we're huh he
was in Egypt okay it could be a Napoleon
was in a lot of different places but he
walks by and he sees people sitting on
the ground and crying and mourning and
he says what is this about and they said
oh well we lost temple 1,500 1,600 years
ago and we mourn and we cry over it
and Napoleon said that any nation that
is still mourning over its ancestral
home after more than a thousand years
for sure for sure they are going to be
reunited with it now in a negative way
let me tell you a sad negative story and
Jonathan rosenbloom brings this up in
one of his columns and many years of
already this was an interview in the
Israeli press with a with a very well
known terrorists who had languished in
prison for many many years like you know
20 years but he finally got released in
one of these crazy
prisoner exchange programs that that
Israel engages that although they say
they never do it but they always do it
and the person was interviewed by
al-jazeera or one of those places and he
was saying in your years in prison were
there times that you gave up the
struggle because you saw how powerful
Israel is and you saw that they always
have the upper hand they have the
stronger army was there a time that you
lost your courage again the al-jazeera
angle is he's a big freedom fighter so
listen listen to what he said he said
yes there were times that I was
discouraged and there were times that I
was going to give up and say can't fight
Israel they're too powerful but what
gave me the courage to persevere it was
the Jewish holiday Pesach Passover and I
saw my guard eating bread and I said to
the guard hey I even I know this is the
Jewish holiday not allowed to eat bread
for seven days and the guard said to me
that story if it even happens happened
thousands of years ago I don't care what
happened thousands of years ago and the
Arab terrorists ruffmanowitz one said I
knew then I mean I hate to even say the
words that we're gonna win he said
because if they don't care what happened
2,000 years ago
and we do care we're gonna be victorious
again III literally cringe and hate to
say those words but mm LF said Maori
vitae Khomeini which is interpreted to
mean give me wisdom even from my enemies
and there is something in what that
person said that's a mu sir for us if we
care about our past we care about Eretz
Israel we care about the base of make -
we care about bringing the shekinah back
then our College Board who gives us the
strength to be victorious when we don't
care then house for Shalom the goal of
us could be prolonged in very very bad
in difficult ways and the Shem sends
once again just as the Rambam said you
never know who is the conduit to give
you a bracha you never know who is the
conduit to give you teaching it might be
a very unworthy even evil person but out
of their mouth may come a thought that
we're supposed to contemplate and we are
supposed to think think about right that
is the idea of caring right not getting
over it so to speak in other words
that's the point call them estaba la
lucha lion when you mourn and don't get
over it that's the proof it's still
alive to you okay but be others it may
this is d going back to Sarah this is
the aura fiims teaching about the idea
of emunah the reality of faith and it
reminds me of something I heard many
many years ago from one of my Rebbe am
it near your a yeshiva in Baltimore
this was absorbacron glass is the corner
of a great great God know pataga
you know the grammarian gettin about
divorce just the middle of the laws of
divorce has certain rules that
differentiate Babylonia for a marriage
Israel certain how long house
in Eretz Israel a certain dinner flies
in Bevelle which is modern Iraq the
certain laws don't apply and the Gemara
then says where is Bevelle so it says oh
I can prove to you that Bevelle is north
of the Land of Israel and the proof of
that is because in your meal which
prophesized the Babylonian invasion
averages well it says meets a phone from
the north to pusuk IRA evil shall come
right so that's how I know Bogle is
north now that's kind of a strange
Gomorrah I mean if I were to ask you how
do you know Canada is north of the
United States I mean you wouldn't need a
puss hook for that there is no queue
there's no pussing for that she would
say well it's obvious just look at a map
and they had maps even in the ancient
world that's on some level of accuracy
so how do you know how do you know
barbell is north of Eretz Israel oh we
have a plus ik that tells me what do you
need a person gets a map I mean everyone
knows bubble is north its northeast of
eret Israel that's why in the Gemara
Erik Estrada's always called my rubber
to the west because the Babylonian
Talmud is written from the perspective
of Jews in Babylonia so my mush yet
wherever chrome grass says that this is
the difference in our mentality and the
mentality of the rabbi's of the Gomorrah
in our mentality we think why do I need
the Torah to teach me something I have a
map we think a map is better than the
Torah because I'll have an opposite who
needs a map if the Torah tells me this
is what it is then that's more real to
me than any particular map that's a
better proof well it's not doing huh I
need a parsec I mean the map is so much
better obvious answer is no the tour is
better the tour is a better proof than
even a a map that's the reality of a
person that is a
bah-bah-ba-wa muna and this is something
that you know we have to realize the
importance of a muna in life now as I
mentioned already in a number of serum
and Munna and Judaism is not passive it
is not quiet it doesn't mean you simply
set back sit back and say God will take
care of me God will give me money God
will give me health God will give me
pernessa know a person has to work a
person has to seek medical treatments
when that is appropriate generally
speaking a person has to try to be
mystic a metal um if you see poverty we
have a duty to try to alleviate it if we
see swamps we have a duty to drain them
we have a duty to fight malaria try to
cure cancer and muna is not the passive
idea Hashem will do everything it's my
obligation to be a Shems partner in
bringing goodness and holiness and
justice and kindness into the world but
I always have to know that without
Hashem nothing is going to be
accomplished nothing is going to be
accomplished and that's if I could
digress just for a few moments this is
kind of the issue of how you have to
look at the religious secular discussion
about the army and the like as you know
one of the divisive issues in Israeli
society right now in fact this is part
of why Lieberman has kind of hijacked
the whole electoral process it's amazing
how one guy could simply almost destroy
destroy a country is because Lieberman
is so afraid of a them joining a
coalition where they would get a drag
get back their draft exemption or or
whatever whatever it would be now I'm
not here to address the merits of this
RBC's is hotly hotly debated but one
important insight to understand them is
that both sides are extremely important
components
of what we need in this world we need
people who learn Torah we need people
who devote themselves to a voter session
because without Torah learning
God does not give us the breath that we
need to be successful and without Hashem
as powerful and well-trained as our army
is they will not be derogate ever be
able to survive the onslaught of all of
the enemies that want to destroy us but
at the same time we also need an army
God's promised that through the Torah
and the midst of us he will give Brucker
time Israel still creates a
responsibility and on Israel to take the
effort that is needed to have an army so
as a result the army needs the people
who learn Torah and the people who learn
Torah as well as really all Jews need
and must appreciate the army as well the
idea of demonizing either side either
saying oh the army is a hotbed of
immorality and evil or the people who
learn all the time or parasites and in
the light that's not going to get you
anywhere because the army is part of
God's plan and those who learn Torah are
part of God's plan and the key idea or
the keep us up that you have to keep in
mind is a per second Mitchell a very
very beautiful classic chameleon upon
him upon him Cain lay father only Adam
as water reflects the face that you show
it so to the heart of one human being
reflects that which you show it and the
Vilna Gaon explains when I look into a
reflecting pool of water the face that I
see in the water
very much depends on the face that I
show the water because it reflects back
my face I smile at the water I get back
a smiling face I frown at the water I
get back an angry face whenever I show
the water is what the water
shows me so to such lamella the heart of
a human being
reflects back what that human being is
shown I show you respect
I show you affection I show you
compassion you will feel that way
towards me I show you derision and
denigration you will feel that way
towards me so part of what happens may
well actually it's happening in the
United States too but but no but it
happens in Israel all the time is each
side no matter what the issue is always
looks at the other side is either an
idiot or a Russia well I look at
so-and-so as an idiot or a Russia they
will look at me as an idiot or Russia
right so you have to kind of start with
a different orientation I remember a few
years ago when the issue of and again I
think I'm not addressing the issue of
whether you she was student should be in
the army yeah that's that's no that's a
difficult dish I'm just trying to give a
general perspective on each side
appreciating the positive contribution
that the other side is making and that
ultimately we need both around how many
years ago was about when they when the
firt when the issue of abolishing the
draft exemption or modifying it first
arose so there was a huge huge huge
demonstration near the bus station for
people who were opposed to getting rid
of the exemption people who wanted the
yeshiva student exemption to to exist
and it was the crowd estimates were
officially 800,000 now probably again
these things are always inflated but
they you know a half a million to
800,000 that's that's a big margin of
error but very very very very big and
Bertha sham there was no violence
professionally we know they dive in they
said to hail him as demonstrations go
which was much better than setting
garbage but dumpsters on fire or
blocking buses this was a relatively
orderly demonstration that
I mean obviously if block traffic but it
was not a deliberate attempt they were
able to route around it and the like so
as demonstrations goes it was a pretty
good one but I thought to myself in the
recesses of my heart what would have
happened if at the end of a two-hour
demonstration where we talked about
Torah learning and I without Torah
learning there's no Jewish people etc
and all of that is good and all that is
true what would have been if at the end
of the two hours they would have said a
prayer for the hilum they would have
said a prayer for the town they would
have stated their position and they
would have articulated their position
and then they would have expressed
gratitude for the people that are
physically giving their lives risking
their lives from Israel and what if what
would have been if such a prayer would
have been recited by eight hundred
thousand Jews who are actually against
the draft what would have been you know
I have no idea but I have a little teeny
bit of suspicion
mushiya would have come in the idea in
which I reach out to that which I
perceive erroneously as the other and I
know that that's me to that's my brother
that's my people that's my nation we
need each other I am so grateful for
what you do and then combined upon Allah
upon him you will understand what it is
that I do whatever whichever side is
doing the talking here that would be
such a wonderous state there would be
such a wonderous thing and that and the
reason I'm bringing it up really it has
nothing to do with our topic actually
but I'm bringing it up because our topic
tonight was the nature of Emunah and how
real Emunah has
BTU that's why sorry manor was
criticized because she had a difference
in her perception between Emunah and God
and the physical realization but Emunah
is not passive it doesn't mean I do my
mistress and God will do everything I
still have to have his tablet and the
IDF the tile is one of the very very
important vehicles of each tablet is a
beautiful story but if zalman
arma which lobizon arbok was her ad by
any definition of the work right he was
truly
old you show me a girdle I'm sorry Luka
a Rosh Yeshiva so the story goes that he
was with the Talmud and the Talmud
mentioned he was going to spots to pray
by the chief rates a deacon by the
graves of the righteous they areso
reverse of Cairo
socialism and said casually this is such
an amazing statement he says well you
know smart is a big trip and you know
it's hard to go up there and it takes a
long time sir Zalman said when I
feel the urge to davon by the grave of
its Adak I go to the military cemetery
on Mount Herzl because if some zombies
yeshiva wasn't by forgotten there right
near there
he says and I go and I dive in by a
person who died in trying to help the
Jewish people and I know that whether
that person is religious or not so
religious I know that person is a sadiq
in God's of God's eyes because he gave
His life from Israel so if you're
looking for curates a deacon to job in
brethren you can go to the military
cemetery in Mount Herzl so said not me
so said Revlimid Salman who was a true
true God Allah door in all all senses of
Fort right so these are some things that
we can think about and I think that in
many many ways if we had these
perspectives this would defuse a lot of
the tension
a lot of the animosity that exists
between religious and secular Jews so
because with Hashem a maybe so her to
try to be vehicles of Shalom and I in
our own lives
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