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thank you goody good evening everyone
and I hope everyone as well I know this
is a very difficult this is a very
difficult and challenging time for
everyone there is both the fear of the
coronavirus and there is the severe
dislocation imposed by isolation and I
spoke last week about some messages of
hope and faith that on one hand we do
have to be very meticulous in obeying
the directives of the Ministry of Health
or whatever health authority you are
dealing with on the other hand we also
have to be hopeful than optimistic and
courageous and understanding that
Akhilesh Borka will ultimately take us
out of this great sorrow
indeed we're entering the month of Nisan
and this is there's never an auspicious
time to have a plague so to speak but if
God forbid there is such a plague that
we are being afflicted with the month of
Nisan is the best time to have it
because this is the month of redemption
and this is when God takes us out of our
mats of and all of us pray that he rots
on we should experience once again you'd
see an exodus from all of these plagues
but in truth the old saying which is a
secular saying that every cloud has a
silver lining is even true in the wake
of this corona epidemic first of all it
makes us understand the utility of
technology it's true that we're not able
to get together personally that we are
in to some degree socially isolated a
minyan holistically cannot be created
through virtual zoom or or Skype or
whatever but nevertheless technology
does give us the chance to spread Torah
I can tell you that in many places in
the United States they do have virtual
minyan in the narrow
that they do not recite the kedusha or
the Kaddish or anything that requires a
minyan but at the same time they can
recite the prayers that you could recite
as an individual and they can do so in
the context of a community and I think
that has a very therapeutic effect you
know people knock the internet all the
time and indeed there's a lot to
criticize in the internet and in my
neighborhood there are constant wall
posters talking about you're not allowed
to have it and you know again one could
discuss that that's maybe a topic for
another time but in times of crisis I
think we do understand why hakodesh
Barco allowed such a technology to enter
the world because it can really be a
force for good it can keep us together
even if we're not able to be physically
together so I hope that everybody will
keep up their connections whether it's
by the low technology of the telephone
or the more advanced the
videoconferencing zoom and and the light
that we keep up both our friendships and
our Torah learning our spiritual
developments the physic and courage that
we can give to each other and God
willing that will be a tremendous factor
that will bring us through this very
difficult and challenging time there's
another point I want to underscore in
terms of the silver linings within the
cloud you know all of us know that the
Torah has a law of needa that when a
woman has her period there is a
compulsory separation from marital
intimacy the Torah provides it for seven
days for various holic reasons it
presently is at a minimum of 12 days a
month and although we don't know the
reasons for the Torah because that'll
give us a possible understanding that
the compulsory separation means that
when husband and wife finally get
reunited there's a certain excitement a
certain sense of renewal
the old saying absence makes the heart
grow fonder and therefore a compulsory
separation is a way of keeping a
relationship alive and vibrant and
exciting a relationship Dargis relish
that way when the great runner made alia
towards the end of his life he was asked
was there anything he missed about
living in huts loritts and he responded
I missed the yearning I had to come to
Erica's around and this is an
interesting paradox you know when you're
not here when you're not in usual I'm
you're not even average as well you
think about oh I'm so excited about the
possibility of coming here once you're
here you take even you wish a lion for
granted so consequently one of the gifts
of galoot in general is that can
actually increase and accentuate our
yearning for redemption our yearning for
Eric Israel are pining for the bata
Mukesh and that in turn becomes a merit
that brings the basin McNish so let's
look at it in terms of what's happening
with corona many many schultz have
closed down most of the orthodox
synagogue in the united states are not
functioning in Eretz Israel the number
of Shults have closed down other places
do continue to have many on him I'm not
going to give any and he talked about
this but one of the sad aspects of not
having a Beit Knesset we're really
really being deprived of minion of
Philibert Seaboard of connecting to God
in a very very special way but what that
does is that makes us appreciate what it
means to have a show to have a minion to
have it's Seabourn and when this crisis
is over and it will be over be as wrath
of Shem and we go back to our shoulders
we go back to our minyan IAM and next
Pesach we'll go back to our crowded
Pesach Sidora
filled with children and get
grandchildren in which people can coffin
sneeze on each other with impunity right
that'll be one of the great great great
breakfasts that somebody can sneeze on
you without you getting a heart attack
at that point we'll appreciate the gift
of family and the gifts of community and
the gift of beit knesset and the gifts
of its Fila bitsy boy and that'll become
much much more precious in our eyes
precisely because we've been deprived of
it so in a sense all of these
depravations are really preparing us for
something better than something good and
you here at Sun may be God's will that
have come very very soon I want to talk
a little bit about Pesach
we do have holiday of Pesach coming
you'd see at Messiah and I for those of
you that follow this year and a few
weeks ago part just for IRA I spoke
about the four cups of wine I'm going to
speak about the four cups of wine
tonight it is not a repeat here it is a
totally different here so you can
actually look at Vera for one
interpretation of the four cups of wine
and tonight I'm going to give you a
totally different interpretation so
these are two separate cheo reom do not
worry and that is all of us know that
one of the mitts votes of the Seder
night is that we are obligated to drink
four cups of wine this is a rabbinic
Commandments unlike the eating of matzah
and the recitation of the Haggadah which
is biblical the drinking of the four
cups of wine is a rabbinic Mitzvah and
interestingly enough the Babylonian
Talmud does not give a reason for it
that's very very fascinating it
presupposes that there is such a mitzvah
and it gives you many many hollow hugs
regarding the four cups of wine but
there is actually no statement in the
Babylonian Talmud for the reason of the
Turkana of the four cups of wine the
closest we can come to is a reason that
it is reflective of four different
stages in the Seder itself there is the
kiddush stage and that's one cup there's
the Haggadah stage which is the second
cup
there is the benching which is the third
cup and there is the howl which is the
fourth cup meaning you're kind of
working backwards since you have these
four parts of the seder each one should
be honored with a cup of wine but the
well-known
that even every child in fader generally
knows is actually from the Talmud you
shall me it is not in the bodily and the
Talmud rashon me says that the reason
for the four cups of wine is to
correspond with four terms of redemption
that a Shem said to Moshe Rubino when he
told them to go and form the Jewish
people I'm taking them out of Egypt
votes ac I will take them out with eat
salty I will save them Big Oil tea I
will redeem them the Lacaze at some
lilium I will take them unto me for a
nation and even though there is a fifth
phrase right afterwards --have 80th time
lor its I will bring them to the lands
we understand indeed that is why there
is one opinion in the Gemara
that says you're supposed to have five
cups this is the opinion of Rebbe tar
file and some of the gun I'm actually
postulant like rabbit are fun and even
the morale of Prague says that it's not
a fee if they have a fifth Cup but it's
a proper minute but basically the
overwhelming majority of call Israel
do not have a fifth Cup because we
regard the Haiti as a messianic prophecy
that will not be fulfilled until the
final redemption and therefore we have
Elijah's cup which we're holding for the
coming of Messiah which is on the table
but we actually do not do not drink so
this is the well-known idea though that
the four cups of wine or grape juice if
necessary are connected they correspond
to the are above the show notes of gula
the four terms of redemption question is
why do you need four terms of redemption
redemption was one event took us out of
myth ryeom what is the top width of four
terms of redemption so a few weeks ago I
went over one understanding which
correlated it to the four Exiles tonight
that we're going to have a different
approach which is based on the Mesha
hokhmah of Mayor simcha coming
and he points out that although you'd
see us mitzrayim may have been a unitary
event there were four distinct dangers
that the Jewish people faced and because
there were four distinct dangers they
needed as it were to be redeemed from
each distinct Sakana
and each lesson of gola corresponds to a
particular danger that the Jewish nation
faced danger number one was simply the
danger to our physical survival a slave
nation just as in the Holocaust we were
beaten we were oppressed we were
sometimes starved our children were
thrown into the water our children were
sometimes thrown into mortar and
incorporated into buildings there was a
real fear that there could have been a
total genocide of the Jewish people over
the course of time and that is a cunning
number one be danger
to our physical existence so kind of
number two danger number two is a danger
to our spiritual existence because I'll
actually teach us that the Jewish people
in metrium and we should have been there
for four hundred years and we only
stayed there for two hundred and ten
years because we had reached the 49th
level of impurity and we were slipping
fast and according to cabbalistic
teaching whatever the 50th level means
once you hit the 50th level you have
reached a point of no return and you're
no longer redeemable the I resolve says
when the Torah says they had to have
matzah because they didn't have time to
let their dough rise the I Rizal says
that doesn't just mean power was kicking
us out it means God said you have to
leave now because if you stay even the
few minutes that it takes for dough to
become comments by rising you would have
hit level 50 we would have fit level 50
in a number of minutes we don't even
understand that that's how difficult
spiritually we had to send it and indeed
that's the one-fifth that survived
remember that four fifths of the Jewish
people were killed in the plague of
darkness and that's understood to mean
they had hit the
Dean level so if danger number one is to
our physical existence danger number two
is spiritually we would have been
totally assimilated to Egyptian culture
Egyptian mores slavery takes a toll in
terms of someone's spiritual existence
and not only their physical one danger
number three ramier simply says which is
why we're going to have four leshawna's
of cola is that a slave has no sense of
history those of you from the United
States may remember a number of years
ago actually goes back to the 1970s
quite a long time ago
the phenomenon of roots Alex Haley wrote
a book that was based on his African
roots again some of it had been for the
boy in there to be falsified but
basically he talked about the story that
the African slaves who were brought to
the United States many of them had royal
roots they go back to very very eminent
families of their countries and one of
the great tragedies of slavery is that a
slave has no sense of where he comes
from he has no sense of his history he
has no sense of his roots he has no
sense that he comes from people of
accomplishments and greatness even if in
fact they did it's as if you were just
born out of nothing and that to a foot
afflicted the Jewish people the Jewish
people are slaves they come from the
great righteous of Ramallah Kanako the
shifting huh but in the course of being
beaten and subjugated and humiliated at
some point you just forget where you
come from and as the old saying goes if
you don't know where you come from you
can't have a sense of where you need to
go because you simply don't know who you
are you were robbed of your essential
identity and the fourth danger of
slavery is lack of hope that the future
can never be better
person is so crushed by the vicissitudes
of life by the affliction by the torture
by the humiliations that they no longer
have a vision of an alternative that can
be different that can be better losing
hope is a very very fundamental
self-fulfilling prophecy even medically
this is a little relevance of the
coronavirus as well it's well documented
it's like a reverse placebo effect if a
person believes their situation is
hopeless and they're not going to
recover the body starts shutting down in
irreversible steps that is the mind over
matter that is the negative side of the
psychosomatic condition in which the
mind controls the body and when a person
loses hope that's kind of the end of
things so but kids are the measure karma
is positing that the reason why we have
for the show note of gula is because
there were four dangers that Jewish
people faced a danger to their physical
life a danger to their spiritual essence
a lack of a sense of history and a lack
of hope that the future can ever be
different can ever be better and I shall
redeem this in spite of these four
things but what's interesting is in
order to be Zota in order to merits
hakodesh Brokers Redemption there has to
be some behavior on our parts that
elicits that redemption now we don't
have to meet God halfway because I'll
use an expression a beautiful expression
that God says open up for me like the
eye of a needle and I will open up for
you like the portals of the beit
hamikdash which are very wide gate
so we don't have to do that much but we
have to do something in Kabbalah this
goes by the Aramaic term ISA Russa della
Tata
there must be an awakening from below to
open up the channels of benevolence ed
goodness that comes from above the
entire route that Allah Tata even if
it's very small brings it's our roots
our gelila the awakening from above so
what was the attire that Allah Tata of
B'nai Israel that elicited God's
redemption what behaviors on our parts
countermanded those four dangers that
enabled God to therefore redeem us in
whole from those four dangers so here
the measure customer makes a beautiful
connection there are various lists
because after all the Jewish people were
in the 49th level of impurity if they
were in the 49th level of impurity then
why would they why did they merit to be
redeemed at all and there are various
lists that talk about residual merits
the Jewish people had dementia Kozma
uses the list that appears in the
Matilde now this might be slightly
different than some of the listings that
many people have heard of but we're
going to use this one this is what he
uses the Matilde tells us there were
four merits the Jewish people had which
enabled them to be redeemed from
mitzrayim number one they did not
intermarry
they remained faithful to their wives
wives remained faithful to their
husbands
there was preservation of the family
units and that was a great merit that
enabled us to be redeemed merit number
two they did not speak Lashon Hara
against each other now here I need to
clarify what the mistletoe means the
Michele that does not mean they were
from and they were keeping the laws of
the harvest I am NOT speaking loshon
Hara
rather this refers to more of a what you
might call a group solidarity meaning to
say we know in times of crisis when
people's lives are at risk there is
sometimes a tendency to turn against
your fellow in order to secure temporary
advantages from the ruling authority
tragically this occasionally occurred
even during the Holocaust itself
where one Jew might inform on another
Jew in order to get some food
or freedom usually it was a loser and
you see it usually did not pan out
anyway but there was such an attempt
when cuz I'll say the Jewish people did
not speak loshon Hara
it means they kept the United Front they
did not turn against each other in order
to secure some momentary advantage or
privilege in fact even the people that
we know is kind of the bad guys Dassin
Anna veeram they were the troublemakers
in the desert but you know they were
taskmasters in Egypt and if a Jew did
not meet his quota and the Egyptians
looked at the numbers and they wanted to
know who didn't do their job today
does son in a veeram took a beating
rather than reveal something about the
Jewish slave that is why by the way they
made the cut one wonders if four fifths
of the Jewish people died so only the
1/5 that's the most right relatively
speaking the most righteous left
how does dozens of ariram leave the
answer is they were quite righteous with
respect to not turning against another
Jew now I have a theory I have no proof
of this that this was actually the
source of their animosity to Moshe
Rabbeinu I think from a human
perspective we can understand it because
here are these two guys who are in the
trenches they're being beaten
because they're standing up for their
fellow Jews and here comes this guy
Moshe of aina who number one grew up in
the royal house of pyro never
experienced slavery and number two then
leaves Egypt and spends many years in
Midian and now he comes back and he is
the leader and he is the Big Shot and he
is the king they could feel from a you
know obviously this is totally incorrect
thinking but from a human human
perspective they could say why should he
be our boss we're the guys who were
beaten again totally erroneous improper
sinful and Dustin and a veeram of course
died with correct in the desert but from
a human perspective one has to
appreciate that even the negative
figures in the door amid boy were quite
righteous in certain respects so it's a
good number one merit number one to
review was faithfulness in the marital
bond merit number two was the group
solidarity love not speaking loshon Hara
merits number three they didn't change
their names they kept their Jewish names
and married number four they didn't
change their language they continued to
speak the Hebrew language lashauwn
ha'qodesh the holy tongue so here's what
the metric Rahman was going to do quite
ingeniously
he's going to correlate these four
behaviors to the four dangers that we
faced and each of these behaviors
counter man's the danger and that is
what is called the Asura satola Tata the
awakening from below that elicits God's
Redemption and we'll start with the
lesson Hara first if danger number one
was to our physical survival the
greatest antidotes
physical danger is unity caring about
each other not speaking loshon Hara
which is really symptomatic of actors
unity and Iraqis rail I believe it was
Benjamin Franklin who said I'm not sure
if it was that the Declaration of
Independence or the Constitution we must
all hang together or we shall surely
hang separately and that's an important
message I think for Chloe Israel it is
understood that when there is updates
when there is unity when there's a Vadis
rail God is going to protect us from
external enemies but when we are divided
against ourselves we become weak we
become vulnerable we become open to all
the enemies that try to destroy us so
therefore the not speaking watch in Hara
which as I explained was not a matter of
from tight it was a matter of solidarity
and afters and about the Israel that is
what ultimately protected us physically
from being destroyed because when we
turn against each other we are
vulnerable this is why I've mentioned
before that every year there are surveys
in Israel in which people are asked to
list the greatest problems that the
Jewish people in the Jewish state face
unfortunately we have quite a big list
whether it's Iranian nuclear weapons
Islamic fundamentalism bioterrorism this
year of course we have a new thing to
add to the list diseases which again god
forbid might even be based on biological
warfare who knows what's going on in
China
god forbid it shouldn't be that but you
know who knows so there's a whole list
of problems and that includes lack of
water although workers have that problem
is a little better this year we've had a
lot of rain even the cost of housing and
the cost of cottage cheese these are
problems and that butter shortage was I
still don't understand what that's based
on
but year after year the number one
problem that a majority of respondents
have identified and this is true whether
they are religious or secular her ad
Helium a conservative reform Sabra born
in Israel or a Lim who have come to
Israel his lack of unity and oxidants
among the Jewish people people
understands intuitively that when
there's unity there is strength and when
there's Maha loketh there is weakness
and vulnerability so the great
protection against our physical
destruction is the not speaking loshon
Hara which is again symbolic of a unity
and a togetherness a united front
now we then come to the second danger
which is that of spiritual assimilation
so here we're mayor simpler tells us the
great bulwark that protects you
spiritually is the holiness of the home
the marital bonds you know people make a
mistake this is something else to think
about during the coronavirus people
think that the most important
institution in Judaism was the beta
mikdash when we had it and today it
would be the beit knesset which is
called in the book of your Cesco abate
McDonough at a miniature beit hamikdash
but in reality the most important
institution in judaism is the home the
Byatt
particularly the relationship of husband
and wife and mother and father to
children that is where the Shekinah
resides as I'll say is ficha when a
husband and a wife lived with Shalom the
Shekinah is there that is the divine
presence in many ways the Ramban writes
that the various miracles in the temple
such as the eternal light of the menorah
that never went out
and the blessing of the showbread that
was on the table for more than a week
and was warm and fresh when it was eaten
a week later and the cloud of glory that
represented a physical manifestation of
the Shekinah those are the miracles of
the temple the miracles of the Mishkan
they actually corresponds with the
miracles of the tent of Sara II me know
which there was a blessing in her dough
that corresponds to the Letham upon him
her Shabbos candle a stood the whole
week
that's the near torment and there was a
cloud of glory the ROM bond says that
the miracles of the temple are just an
imitation of the temple that we build in
a Jewish home and perhaps this is a time
in which we can focus on building the
mikdash of the home and the measure
Hoffman says it was the relationship of
husband and wife which was based on
faithfulness commitment trust
dependability even if it was not in a
religious context so to speak that gave
them some spiritual connection to the
Shekinah that prevented them from
hitting the 50th level they still hit
the 49th level they were pretty low but
what kept them from hitting the 50th
level was the faithfulness and
connection of husband and wife right so
if they're not speaking loshon Hara was
the antidote to physical threat the
faithfulness of husband and wife was the
antidote to spiritual assimilation to
the 50th level
now the third danger was a slave lacks a
sense of history he doesn't know where
he comes from he has no sense that he
comes from something significant in
beautiful and important
so here the metric Alchemist says not
changing the name gives you a sense of
history because typically we name people
after relatives who are no longer well
get organized and named after people who
are no longer alive
Spartan may name someone even after
people who are alive but a name is
generally a connection to the past so if
somebody's let's say grandfather's was
Moshe and they're called motion then
they know they're connected to that
earlier motion going all the way back to
Moshe Rabbeinu
keeping a name reminds you that you
didn't come out of nothing you're
connected to a past you're connected to
people of stature people of goodness
fact even the Yiddish diminutives
that Ashkenazim use are so telling you
know we sometimes call little children
mobile mom Allah Ta'ala
said Allah now people sometimes look at
them as just interchangeable terms of
endearment but not really
bubala means little grandmother Tzeitel
a little grandfather mama lo little
mommy little mother tateleh meaning if
you name a child out of for a
grandfather grandmother the deceased
mother deceased father every time you
use that diminutive you're telling the
child you come from somebody who
preceded you you are standing on the
shoulders of giants of goodness and
holiness so once again
therefore the not speaking loshon Hara
is our behavior that protected us from
physical threats the faithfulness of
husband and wife prevented our spiritual
assimilation not changing our names is a
linkage to the past which gives us a
sense of
history and then we finally come to the
last danger a person loses a sense of
hope they lose a vision that the life
can be different life can be better we
countered that hopelessness by
continuing to speak the Hebrew language
because think about it there was a time
in history in which Latin was the most
widely spoken language in the world at
the height of the Roman Empire which had
conquered virtually all of the known
world Latin was the official language
today Latin is virtually extinct
it used to be required in law school and
the like and medical school no longer
even the Catholic Church that was the
last holdouts abolished the requirement
of Latin for masses now there are some
karate Catholics who don't accept the
Pope and they continue to do the mass in
Latin but they are the extreme fringe
Latin is more or less an extinct
language Assyrian Hittite these were big
cultures there are academic shines that
are still compiling Assyrian
dictionaries but there's no real push
for the revival of the Assyrian language
or Latin why is that because those
cultures are dead they're not coming
back if they're not coming back then the
only reason to study a language is for
admir academic interest that's not going
to attract a big following if indeed it
was the case that the Jewish people had
given up hope that they would come back
to Eric Israel if indeed the Jewish
people thoughts slavery is our lot in
life and this is where we will always be
then what would be the point of teaching
my child Hebrew when I teach my child
Hebrew what am I telling my
in Egypt we're not going to be here
forever
there will come a time I don't know when
I don't know if it'll be in my lifetime
I don't even know if it'll be in your
lifetime but there will come a time that
God is gonna redeem us this is before
Moshe Rabbeinu came right this is before
this is all those years before there was
a redeemer that God is gonna redeem us
he's going to take care of us he is
going to fulfill the promises that he
made to Avram music and Yaakov so we
need to have our language
because we're not gonna be here forever
one has to understand to teach my child
Hebrew when I don't live in Eretz Israel
is a great great affirmation of hope and
that is why in many ways I have to give
credit I think all of us have to give
credit to Eliezer ben-yehuda
who although he was not necessarily the
most observant person and many rabbis
had problems with him it was close to
Dethklok
but algebra Judas was really almost
single-handedly revived Russia on our
coda to revive the Hebrew language for
everyday speech it was always a literary
it was always the literary language of
rabbinic literature to be sure but it
was not a spoken language even among
many many great rabbis and he brought it
back and that's important because
speaking Lashon ha'qodesh
and I'm not going to get into the very
subtle debate of the relationship of
modern Everett and Russian our qodesh
one can write books about this there
have been books written on this but at a
very minimum we can say Russian Turkish
and the rich are very very close
siblings or at least first cousins
they're close enough that they're really
you know if one understands one one can
understand the other so so let's let's
see the beautiful intricate maja that
the
shikaka sets up for LeSean notes of
redemption her because of four dangers
the four dangers are danger to physical
survival spiritual assimilation lack of
history lack of hope but the reason we
merited the redemption from those four
dangers was because there's four
behaviors in our parts that complemented
those dangers they're not speaking
loshon Hara which is accurate in our
body 3l protects us from the physical
threat the faithfulness of the marital
bonds keeps us spiritually holy the
names that connect us to our forefathers
and foremothers is our connection to
history and our lovingly preserving loss
Shona kodesh is our declaration of hope
that we're not going to be here forever
for the shownotes of redemption for
dangers for behaviors so now I'll give
you a fourth component what a fourth way
that these four ideas intersect that is
let's examine where we drink the cups
during the Seder and let me point out
it's very important that you drink them
in the proper places I mean you can't
just start the Seder drink four cups of
wine is let's get the wine over with you
have to drink them exactly where it says
and I don't need that not only drink not
only drink them where it says it but
pour the wine you'll notice that you we
actually pour the wine let's say way
before we drink it you can't just pour
the wine before you drink it because the
market for example has to be recited
over wine even though it may be an hour
or so till you drink it so please be
sure all of you that you follow the
instructions of the Haggadah both in
terms of when you drink and when you
fill your cup because you're reciting
things over a cup of wine just like for
kiddush right
you wouldn't recite kiddush and then
fill your cup of wine
before you drink it you fill your cup of
wine before kiddush so the same thing is
true for the four Magid before benching
and before the recitation of of hala now
the first cup is the cup of kiddush
kiddush is a term that means holiness
sanctification that corresponds to the
holiness also of husband and wife in the
marital units so the first cup could be
seen if that marriage is called key to
him sanctification
so the first cup is a celebration not
only of God's Redemption but of our
behavior and faithfulness of husband and
wife that enabled kedusha which
therefore saved us from spiritual
assimilation the second cup is on market
market of course is the story of the
Exodus
what is the market about our history our
past that corresponds to not changing
our names
it's a celebration of that merit because
the Magadh reminds us we don't come out
of nowhere we have a history we have a
vote with whom a sham made cabinets
we have ancestors to Hashem did miracles
and when we have a sense of that history
that gives us optimism that our sham is
with us
so the second cup is the connection to
history the third cup is Birkat Hamazon
now this the association is a little
more subtle but Birkat Hamazon is of
course an expression of gratitude to God
for giving us food and giving us
sustenance now pure be about tells us as
a Oh Kaka I'm sorry Isaiah Shir who is a
truly wealthy person a Sameach Cassell
Co when you're happy with your lot
wealth is not defined by how much
you own but actually by how little you
need one might say instead of how much
you have it's how little can make you
happy and the greatest brother in life
is to be some a octopus oka
now if beer Gotama zone teaches me
gratitude and when there is gratitude
I am Sameach Patel cow I no longer live
a life of jealousy rivalry rivalry or
competition so consequently I'm able to
have actors and unity with my fellow man
because I no longer look at them as a
threat I no longer look at life as a
zero-sum game where it's your game is my
loss I can live life in with a sense of
Shalom friendship cooperation
collaboration and that in turn
corresponds to the united front which
protected us physically and ours of
course was we didn't speak loshon Hara
finally we come to hallo now if you
study this there got and indeed that
it's proper to study that gutter before
Pesach
you will notice that one of the
anomalies in the Haggadah is that the
Hallel of Seder night is actually splits
into two unequal halves the first two
chapters of Hallel are actually recited
before the second cup and they are the
conclusion of magadh the narrative of
each cioth metrium the rest of how well
is recited after the meal after the up
become n o after benching on the fourth
time so we actually split how well what
is the significance of the split of
hallo so the riche item explained that
the first three chapters of Hallel are
talking about the exodus indeed the
second chapter says but say see Israel
me mitzrayim when they left with Ryan
they are
past oriented and because they are past
oriented they are connected to the
market that deals with the past events
obviously estimates ryeom but the how
well on cup number four is no longer
about UC Atmos ryeom it is the Hallel
anticipating and envisioning the future
Redemption and here I just want to make
a little commercial about that
you know sometimes many people simply
turn out after the afikomen kind of anot
we've done the afikomen we've we've done
the market we've had four cups more we
haven't had the fourth cup yet we've had
three cups of wine and in the how
they'll you know you're not even allowed
to talk not allowed to offer
interpretations once you're saying hallo
you can't be mop stick so there's not a
lot to do now one thing that I highly
recommend and I'm sure many many many
people do it is this is a part of the
Seder that you can sing hello can be put
to very very beautiful songs and this
might be a time for singing but if you
don't know them to join em and you're
not you're not that conversant with
Hebrew so how L can be a little less
interesting for some people so I know
people maybe they're not so religious
necessarily who kind of leave after the
afikomen which is unfortunate because
they're missing the fourth cup and
they're missing challah the one has to
understand that there's something very
elevated very special very wholly about
the hollow on the fourth cup because
until now we were focusing on the past
but now we leave the past we leave the
details of the exodus of Egypt in our
mind in our heart are focused on an
ultimate redemption the redemption that
we haven't yet experienced but we begin
to envision in our minds eye and that
brings us joy and that is why by the way
the howl of the fourth cup is preceded
by the pouring of the cup of Elijah and
by the opening of the door welcoming
aliawan avi now countless parents have
told their children the owner he comes
to every Seder and he takes a sip of
illios cup and if you watch the cup
carefully you will see the wine go down
and the parent might bump the table or
whatever it is I'm not sure how many
parents still do that but when I was
when I was young that was a common
little trick now just to set the record
straight there is indeed a metric that
says Eliyahu Hanavi comes to every
Pesach Seder and this is actually a
punishment because at some point when he
felt that the Jewish people were so
unfaithful to God that God ought to
replace them and only ya'know he said
they are no your covenants Hashem said
oh yeah
well I'm going to show you they keep my
covenant you're gonna have to go to
every bris Eliana up he comes to every
bris and you have to go to every Pesach
Seder because even Jews who aren't so
religious try to keep a Pesach Seder so
there is indeed how lucky' Madrasi
sources literally Johanna becomes to
every Seder but I don't believe there's
any source that he drinks from the cup
okay but be it as it many elyo another
who is a Leo and avi he's the one that's
going to announce my here so we're kind
of saying okay we finished the Seder of
the past we're now focused
and the Seder of the future but what is
that but an affirmation of hope that
things will be better life is not gonna
stay this way forever and ever so look
at the beautiful intricate structure
that we have here for the show note of
redemption because there were four
dangers that we faced and the four
dangers that we faced were complemented
by four behaviors in our part and they
are positioned throughout the Seder
although not exactly in the same order
the Coase of kiddush is a celebration of
ki Duchenne the marital bond the coast
of maggot is our connection to history
that correspondence we're not changing
our names the coast of Bharata Mazzone
facilitate facilitates solidarity and
octants because it gives me the sameas
Patel Co the happiness in what God has
given me which takes away jealousy and
rivalry and competitiveness and finally
the how well after the Seder is the
affirmation of hope that there will be a
better time and that correspond to the
Jews speaking Russian our Kadesh which
was their reformation of hope that
things are going to be better now
it's interesting we sometimes look at
the Jews who left Egypt and we say oh
they were so bad the 40-minute levels of
impurity well even though they were in
the fourth level of impurity they had
these fours of who yolks let's ask
ourselves how much of the Jewish world
has these fours to Cleo - even today so
good number one was being faithful in
our marriage and not intermarrying the
sureno to our great pain and suffering
least in the United States which are
more familiar with those numbers at
least one out of two marriages with a
Jewish partner are two annunzio and in
some smaller areas it is as high as
seven out of ten what a tragedy it is
people don't like to compare it to the
Holocaust but in a very very real way of
course it's unintentional and not
castigating people but in a very real
way the number of Jews that are lost
through the scourge of intermarriage is
really a Holocaust millions and millions
of Jews so that's of course we don't
have the seconds of course not speaking
much Inara which is unity and solidarity
among the Jewish people all of us know
that the Second Temple was destroyed
because of hatred and polarization among
Jews and it cannot be rebuilt
until we overcome that hatred and
polarization and here all of us know how
much divisive nosaka locusts how much
synonym exists not only between
religious and secular but among all the
different gradations of religious in
which we don't talk to each other we
don't interact we don't learn from each
other we don't respect each other
anyone to the right of me is a fanatic
and anyone to the left of me is a
heretic and not be chorus it's only
where I am whoever the is that is the MS
and sometimes that could be so narrow
that it might just be one person
called me me the whole world is crazy so
we don't have that circus the third
connecting to our history so many Jews
have no sense of where they come from
when I used to teach law school one of
my colleagues who was a religious law
professor told me that after class one
day a boy went over to him and said hey
I know you're a rabbi also did you ever
hear of this guy elijah of Vilna people
tell me he was like a big-shot rabbi
this is the Vilma cup so the person said
the professor said it was a rabbi said
the gonna Vilna the greatest of the
greatest of the greatest president yeah
he's like my great-great-great
grandfather I heard he was like a
big-shot rabbi in Europe didn't even
know the Vilna Gaon our roots we just
don't have a sense of where we come from
and hope that the future will be
different
well maybe the Jewish people are not in
despondency maybe that's not the issue
but there's certainly a lot of
complacency here we have a State of
Israel that has been in existence for
more than 70 years our forefathers our
foremothers yearned and pined for the
chance to perhaps see a rich Israel once
in their lifetime
for the chance to see some dirt that
somebody brought back to Poland and here
the person might be just 12 hours away
granted and uncomfortable 10 or 12 hour
ll flight but you know that's
the biggest deprivation of the world and
we give lip service to mushiya's but do
we really want much she has to go they
thought the joke it's the kind of a sad
joke but it may have a kernel of truth
about a guy who was planning his
vacation really just you and the day
before his vacation was she came and the
guy had to cancel his plans so he was
upset so his wife said how upset but she
especially you know he kept us waiting
2000 years he couldn't come two weeks
later I could have gotten my vacation
meaning we have to ask ourselves again I
include myself I don't I don't mean to
lecture to anybody but we have to ask
ourselves do we really want much yes to
come are we kind of happy the way things
are no life could be convenient life
could be simple and I don't want all of
these changes so in a sense do we have
hope for the future or do we kind of
assume that with Glatt Kosher
restaurants and Pesach programs and
voyages whatever it would be we have
everything we need so the point I want
to make is that we sometimes look down
at that generation that left mature I am
because they were in the Florida level
of tilma and yet they had four Saku
yachts that we don't always have in our
own lives I think they were faithful in
their marriages to Jews there was group
solidarity avati through Al there was a
strong connection to history and there
was hope for the future again to go back
to when I said at the very beginning of
my remarks some of this once again might
be the silver lining in the dark cloud
of the difficult situation that we face
because maybe this type of adversity
makes us number one cherish our
relationships to others and number two
makes us less complacent and less
satisfied with the life that we have
because we can see how difficult it is
and perhaps this can spur us on to yearn
for mushiya and gula so even the virus
can be a show vehicle fashion to bring
us closer to each other and closer to
the almighty so I want to wish you all a
service Sameach
even if Pesach might be a little more
lonely than it usually is but you should
know that is the Jewish people we are
still united in soul and in spirits even
if we're not going to be physically
connected and most importantly you're
not alone Hashem will be with you the
Seder night just as that first VCs
mitzrayim an evil al Malaki sham said it
was i and no way no angel an evil o son
of an evil Oh surely if no emissary so
to every say tonight were weary
experience yet see at Smith's ryeom
right each person must regard themselves
as if they were taken out of betraying
God is going to be with us that's very
very nice and therefore we have to know
we are not alone we are never alone have
a good young to thank
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