Why Should You Send Your Husband to Shiur Torah? (6 Minutes)

[Music] d means that you have to start thinking about the other person but more than anything else you have to start thinking about God why everything he wants from you is good for you even if your spouse doesn't think so so to go to at 9 at night she wants you to stay home because she likes you he said I have to go learn Tora and she doesn't really want you to go you have to do whatever you can to convince her to let you go study why it's more good for her than even for you going this is one of the things that ladies do not understand when they send their husbands to go learn Torah if it's real Torah not if it's just a bunch of guys eating Donuts I see some people going to T all they come for is the donuts or the Chinese food I see it all the time I see in I see it in different places they call they have enough food to kill a uh to kill uh enough people with heart attacks and all they're doing rashash yeah yeah yeah when are you going to study you just come to eat just eat at home then all they have is food and the guy has falling on his cheek and the sushi is going over here and here and this guy likes this sushi she better than the other one where's the Torah where where's the Torah where's the Tor eat enjoy the food I even bring food here sometimes for you guys but the point is is if the food is the reason you're going it's not Tor if the food is the reason you're going it's not t that's why I don't spoil you and bring you every week so sometimes it's not it's like a feast with some you know m stories but when a a woman a wife young old indifferent sends her husband to go learn Torah she has to understand it's better than sending him to go to work it's better than sending him to go to the supermarket it's better than sending him to anywhere else why you're sending him to get training to be a real husband you're train you're sending him to get to be become a sadik now why is this good for you aside from benefiting in this world that your husband is going to become sadik and obviously a nice a person usually and more more generous and so on and so why why is it so good because every single he gets you get every single time he gets a mitvah for a second of T that he listens you get in your account also the says why do women get G for what what they do T they learn a little bit here and there other than nobody learn you know nobody learns like the women that learn my Tora they learn I wish the guys learn as much as them look at them you guys have no notes the women have notes they're writing everything you guys that's what happens but I have over here all the women have notes they're writing down the guys are like they camping over here listen I have to you're not at that level the women at that level you're not that level so this this is what we this is what we're up to this is what this is what we got to but that's why it says that nashim are going to bring the mashia now I understand it you just gave me a gave me a the women going to bring mashia we have woman gonna bring Mas now you have to understand you have to understand all kidding a sign you have to understand thear says why does a woman get ganed if she doesn't learn to like the guy why like a husband she doesn't she's not obligated who gets a biggest someone's obligated not obligated no you said obligate you said not obligated okay 5050 obligated good for you guys good job both you both meant it both meant both side were right the real answer is the one that's obligated the one that's obligated gets a much bigger why they're both having just as much difficulty but even more so even more so than that the one that's obligated gets the because he listen to God and that is the reason why we do everything all the mitv if someone says to you give me the entire Tor in one sentence what can you say hasem said so beginning middle end that's it Hashem said so why do you do it hem said so why is it good Hashem said so that's it that's the entire the one that's obligated the one that's obligated gets a biggest why because he said he's doing what hasem said now obviously someone that's not obligated also gets but it's not as great so the ask why does a woman go to ganeden if she's not obligated to learn Tor you have to understand the ones that are sending their husbands to understand this why because the says she gets GED for sending our husband to go learn Tor not to go to work not to go to Wall Street not to go sell cars not to go build buildings she doesn't get Gaden for buildings she doesn't get Gaden for diamonds she doesn't get gunen for anything what does she get Gaden for sending up sh T why if he if he goes and learns to he's become a human being if he becomes a human being they're both going to be their kids are going to be generation after generation is going to be Vis the [Music]