Who Will Be Happy When MaShiach Arrives? (Aur Torah New York)

[Music] always amazing to be here at all Tora thank you for always hosting us it's m an honor to even know him let alone being his besset you know the page 109b says whoever doesn't have a rabbi and decides to make Al based on his own opinion he thinks he's smart so he uh decides to make Al make rules decide that he's going to do whatever he wants based on his own understanding he's going to open a book say oh rambam says this I'm going to do this rambam says this I'm going to do this and he decides to do things you would think this is a good idea but thear says God hates him that person makes Al by himself doesn't have a Rabbi says God hates him why because he has so much Gava that he can make a mistake and be asav his whole life and he won't even know it why because he has too much Gava to go ask the rabbi am I right or am I wrong so every person that has Rab in his life someone knows the entire Tor by heart and doesn't use it you have a problem you have a problem you know how they say Houston we have a problem you have a problem because you have NASA in Torah right next to you and you're not even using iTab so we have the Merit to be here and to learn together you can hear me see and the is already starting let's see likes to interfere with my lectures he has a good time connecting if the doesn't interfere with the lectures that means we didn't do a good job so the uh page 58a says why are you standing away from us at the time of tar at the time of terrible stings at the time of all types of horrible things like the Arabs killing us like they did the three innocent people in the middle of K just this past weekend and as they do every chance they get so the Z says why where's AEM where's AEM when this happens and the commentary explains and also the the Z explains is that this is actually talking about the end of times this is talking about the end of times meaning that at the end of times hasem said that he's going to hide he's going to hide in plain sight but he's going to hide to let the enemy to let the terrorist to let the one the terrorist that has a bomb on him and a terrorist that's wearing a tie same thing whether he's running the United Nations or he's running Kamas same thing he's going to let them do whatever they want he's going to let them go fight forite like you see right now in what's happening all of a sudden everyone wants Arab they don't have enough land and he says Hashem is going to let them do whatever they want why is he going to let them do whatever they want so you give them extra punishment now most of us have been excited to see the mhia you have kabad always uh celebrating mashia mashia mashia other people saying you know making songs about it people always excited about mashia but the question is what if mashia actually showed up right now would we be okay so in page 15a says not everyone is g to be happy when the mashia comes not everyone based on the writing Delight to the and happiness only to the upright of heart meaning if you have an upright heart if you did Chua if you are keeping you have no problem you're going to be you're going to be in with happiness if you haven't done it yet you're not going to be very happy when a mashiah comes and the reason why is because you're out of time you're out of time so when we actually look at what it says in the Torah about mashia it doesn't say all types of wonderful things all the time say some things that are kind of scary so we'll read a little bit about it then we'll go into some other things so first in the book of Isaiah the prophet Isaiah says so he says the Masia is going to smell your it's going to smell your and he's not going to judge you based on the words that are coming out of your mouth meaning you're not going to be able to sweet talk to mashia he comes gonna see you he's going to see all of your sins on the spot like a movie he's going to smell all of the sin SM you or not and based on that he's going to decide he's going to be the judge and jury and the following verse says in Isaiah 11:5 on the spot looks at them oh go I'll protect you the other one oh you stole from people rash rash dies on the spot so this is not exactly the same like the song the song mashia mashia mashia doesn't say that part the song makes it sound like everybody is going to be excited but the Torah says something different what else does it say it says to the prophet Amos hasem says to is chapter 9 verse 8 behold the eyes of the Lord Hashem are upon the sinful Kingdom meaning he's talking about and I will destroy it from upon the face of the Earth but will not totally destroy the house of Jacob meaning he's going to punish am Isel at the end of times but not all of them for who is he going to punish I decree that I will shake out the house of Israel among all the nations like grain is shaken in a seeve and not a pebble falls to the ground they will perish By The Sword all the Sinners of my people see he's not talking about punishing theim the Arabs or the missionary Christians he's not talking about he's talking about is here here he's saying I'm going to punish all the punish all the Sinners I'm going to punish them with the sword not because why why is he punishing them he says because they say not because of us will evil approach any sooner he says I'm going to punish them not only because of their sins I'm going to punish them because of all of their excuses of why they couldn't do chuva no the terrorist attack is not because of us it's not because we don't keep mitv it's not because I don't keep Shabbat it's not because I have a non-jewish girlfriend or boyfriend it's not because of me it's because of other things it's just because other people are bad they blame everybody else except themselves he says they're going to get they're going to be the first ones to get punishment the ones that are full of excuses this again doesn't sound like the song the song is getting further and further from the truth further it says to the Prophet Jeremiah Hashem is very upset and he says my people have committed two evils they've forsaken me meaning they've made sins against me the source of Living Waters and dig for themselves sisters that are broken that cannot hold water meaning he says they left me I'm the source of everything good in the world and what they replaced me with something broken something that can't do anything for them where they go they went after money they went after girls they went after nonsense they went after idol worship they left me the source of anything and they left me for for garbage they left the Creator for the creation so for that he says you get two punishments one for leaving me making a sin two for the Spa of replacing me going working on Shabah because you don't think I have any money going with a non-jewish woman because you don't think there's enough Jewish women for you going with a non-jewish man because you don't think you're gonna find somebody cheating in business because you don't think you could find an honest customer and so on and so forth all the excuses we make to go against Hashem so here again is talking about the end of times so now now we see in this week's par we're starting and mosu starts this book that's much harsher rebuke than what I'm telling you if you read seph and actually understand the words it's very scary and I'm not even talking about the commentary I'm talking about the very basic of what it says in seph in this week's inap 1 verse 17 it says he says you shall not show any favoritism in judgment not small judgment not big judgment everything is going to be the same everyone has to tremble everyone has to be afraid because the Judgment in reality is in front of God so here Hashem is commanding his people of how to judge a bed de B of this world and kazal explains to us that whatever happens here same thing up there if we judge here it's the same judgment is going to go up there he says there's no favoritism there's not just because you're a nice guy and you make everyone laugh everything's okay there's no favoritism in in hashem's book you do good you get good you do bad you get bad this is one of the things that's very hard for people to understand because people like myself most of my life I actually thought I I had to get out of jail free card I gave a few dollars inaka and I figured you know what it's enough I'm a sadik some Rabbi told me that if I give Sak a sadik so I'm a sadik I give I gave I did this I did this I said okay no it's the only verse I knew so that means I could live forever I give someaka and everything's okay this is a mistake because in reality doesn't actually work that way was asked what's the difference between and because they say says if there's a evil decree on the world that something bad is supposed to come to the world three things can save us we understand we pray to hem I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry that's very easy to understand but what's the difference between and so says Thea it's like a river on top of a bridge you have a bridge that's blocking your ability to go from one city to the other that staka is going to give you a bridge but eventually the bridge is going to get old and you can't use it anymore it's going to break eventually it runs out eventually it's useless eventually just a bunch of wood or metal and you can't use it anymore chuva that's not a bridge chuva just dries up the entire River there's no more River becomes ground that's what's chuva when we actually give in sh when it when says says it's just buying us more time to do CH to get to the real purpose it's not a get out of jail free card you can give a million dollars every minute it's not going to help you if you're violating shabat it's not going to help you if you're wasting seed it's not going to help you if you're cheating in your business it's not going to help you the only way to do the right thing and be okay when mashia arrives and be celebrating singing the song mashia mashia mashia is if you do chva the rest of it is not going to help and this is one of the most important things that a Jew needs to understand now the is always going to convince you otherwise yet is going to convince you to do some other things so hasm gave us the Torah and he says yet is smarter than you yet is bigger than you yet is stronger than you there's only one way you can beat him and I gave you something called the Torah Tor is the instruction set exactly how to beat the yet the problem is because the yet is so smart he's going to convince you that The Cure is not good it's boring it's not for you it's not relevant maybe for some people maybe not for me to convince you of something else so I asked myself one time what makes the so smart what does he know the whole sh by heart is he uh no what does he know what makes him so smart and I had was that he's so smart that he convinced all of us he doesn't even exist that's why that's what makes him smart it's not that he knows the whole Shas it's not that he knows the whole Torah it's not that he knows anything it's that he convinced you he's not even there so like you're knocking on the door hello and he says I'm not home he's answering the door but he says I'm not home and you say oh okay when should I come back he convinced us he's not even there so we think that we're going to do things against hem and it's because we want to do it so the rambam gives a very good example when it talks about G you know there's a lot of problems unfortunately in the world with it comes to some husbands and they don't want to let their wife go even though they want to leave her they don't want her to marry another guy and in uh in Tora you have to have a get so the ra he says in so many words I'm going paraphrase it he says if a person doesn't want to be with his wife anymore he has to give her a get and he has to say I'm giving her a get I want to give her a get but if he doesn't want to give her a get but he still doesn't want to live with her but he doesn't want to give her a get so we beat him up until he says yes yes I want to give her a get so the question is wait isn't this isn't this considered anus isn't this considered like you're forcing him to give her a get you said that part of the Mitzvah is that he says I want to give her a get but here you're beating him up and then he says I want to give him what kind of want is that he doesn't really want he just want you to stop beating him up so the rambam says no no no he wants to give a get it's just the yet convinc him he doesn't so you beating him up you're really beating his yet up and eventually when the yet leaves he says I want to give you a get you're helping him out so it's not a noose this is how you do it this is why it's actually acceptable in Judaism to do such a thing even though it's not acceptable in modern civilization this is the way for someone doesn't want to let a woman move on with her life this is how we deal with them but there's a reason for it so now all of this comes up to a point where we have to ask ourselves what's going to happen if the mashia comes now the rambam also says in um chapter 3 third Al he says that a uh again I'm going to paraphrase it in so many words that a person should should act with subconscious feelings and intent in his heart that he should if he wants to have a son let's say if a person wants to have a son this is what he's talking about he should have kavana in his mind when he's intimate with his wife to have a son perhaps this son is going to be a is going to be one of this is the background of this why why is he doing this the rambam says because whoever walks in such a path all of his days whoever is thinking like this constantly has a on his mind all the time even in business even when he's intimate with his wife which are the two very personal things for every man his business sometimes is more important than his wife his wife is sometimes he forgets about her but in reality he's supposed to think about the wife first but rambam says whichever one you think is more important think about both of them your business your money or your wife if you're thinking about God when you with both of them you're considered a kosher person considered a kosher person and this is a person that has the ability to fulfill the the desire ofm and he goes into detail in and he says that this is actually how you fulfill theah of when he says when this mitah right here when you're actually thinking about God during your business during your intimacy during those personal intimate times during those times where no one's going to tell you what to do no one's going to tell you whether you should steal from the customer or not no one knows no one's going to tell you you should overcharge or not no one's going to tell you if he's going to come back for the change you didn't give him no one's going to tell you whether you should pay back the loan even though you really have the money but you could take advantage of a bankruptcy system that lets you get away with it no one can do anything it's up to you your business up to you no one knows people declare bankruptcy in America every other day even though they have millions in the bank why they put it in a partnership name and they think they sikim they have the Hat they have the stamer they have everything they have a few million dollars in a bank but they're declaring bankruptcy why because they don't want to pay the painter $50,000 because they don't want to pay the vendors $2 million but you have the money so just for anyone to know there's no such thing as bankruptcy in Torah if you have the money bankruptcy or no bankruptcy you have to pay the money you have the money you have to pay the money there's no bankruptcy in sh if you don't pay the money and you have it you go up to sh you could be sadik learn T every day keep Shabbat keep kosher teach T even go up to sh to go up to Gan like oh no no I'm sorry sir you have blood on your hands what blood on my hands you're a thief you stole money what's money I didn't steal anyone you owed the guy $25 you didn't want to pay it back even though you had the money you declared bankruptcy for $25 you have to go back for $25 you have to go back this is a problem people declare bankruptcy like no no it's America it's America it's no America and Sh it's not America so again there's certain things you're allowed to do certain things you're not allowed to do make sure you have the r that you ask him am I allowed to do this this is why hasem in the beginning of this year we said thear says a guy that makes his own rules God hates him why he has a rabbi Rabbi tell him can you declare Brank upy or no no you have the money you can't declare bankrupcy but I don't want to pay him too bad you shouldn't have borrowed the money you shouldn't have bought the product you don't to pay don't buy so rambam says if you're thinking about Hashem during your business you're a kosher person you think about Hashem when you're intimate with your wife you're a kosher person why because if you're not there's no way you can be a koser person and this is how you fulfill all of us say twice a day at least morning at night we always think how do I do this these are loving hm with all of our heart all of our soul all of our money how rambam says this is the way this is the way now what's the significance of being a kosher person so you understand what thear thinks about a kosher person we're not talking about do we're not talking about a big Rabbi we're not we're talking about just a simple kosher Jew what does the Torah think about a simple kosher Jew someone keeps mitv does what hasem wants which ends up being his own benefit what does the Torah think about him the page 25 a has a he says something very scary why does B why does a person's Sons or daughters die when they're still little kids why what do the little kids do M skin him why they die and thear says because the parents are being punished for not crying after they heard that a kosher person died a kosher person in a community died they didn't cry like oh M yeah what can you doal like no big deal it's another Jew no big deal it's okay you know like it's a like a cat died same thing says for that it's a big big punishment in sham you don't value a kosher Jew it's like someone giving you a million car Diamond the Flawless he say it's not for me it's not for me something wrong with you so now there's a uh question on this doesn't it say that Hashem doesn't punish children for the sins of their parents why is the kid gonna die Shalom because the parents didn't say uh didn't cry a little bit what the what the kid do so Rashi says the verse we're using is but here he's explaining Rashi explains no this is not the same it says is this is only relevant the the kids dying is uh the kids are not going to be punished for the parents sins only when they become a is only when they become an adult once the child is no longer a child once he's a is once he he's an adult then he has his own sins and his own de and with but as long as he's a child in your house he gets punished for your sins why because he's considered part of you he's considered like your arm like your leg so anyone that's scared for their kids which is any normal parent has to do chuva just for this just for this doesn't matter you like chuva you like T you like you like your kids you have to do why because the punishment goes to them this is this is this is that's why he said this is a scary this is a very scary anyone has little kids B you have this this is one reason alone to do Chua you have to be a kosher person I know oh I almost forgot the uh sh will also be with these two children Miriam but sh who's M now in a very critical situation she drowned M and parents are having obviously a huge huge and also little baby will two little children having will help them so now the uh page 32b lists a bunch of transgressions a bunch of sins of why somebody could Shalom lose their kids going elaborating on this whole situation so here it's explaining that here what does it have to do with the with the kosher person that we talked about before the explains that when a kosher person passed away mourning him is a big K mourning him is a big mitvah it's a big honor that can bail somebody out of all the sins they already made you made the sins and in sh they said listen you made enough sins we have to we have to punish your kids because of you you are stupid so we have to punish your kids so going to the funeral and giving honor to a kosher person he says that was your opportunity to save the kid but you said ah it's no big deal said oh you had a chance you didn't use it it's not our fault the blood's on your hands we gave you a chance we gave you a chance to do chuva something simple all you had to do is cry a little bit for a few hours all you have to do is arrange a shield for this kosher person why why is such a big deal about this kosher person anyone thear continues and it says anyone that Mourns weeps over a kosher person they're forgiven for all of their sins because of the respect that they pay to that person so the question is who is this kosher person this kosher person is someone that's not suspected of any sins and didn't fail to fulfill the Mitzvah any Mitzvah that he could do if he if he knew about a Mitzvah he did it so this leads us to the next point which is if the mashiah showed up right now can we say with confidence that we are this kosher person because that's what the Tor is talking about when when it says go who what is he talking about the go the mashia is coming to who to save the one that used to be a PO the one that used to be a thief the one that used to be a the one that used to be going against an enemy of hem one that used to be he comes to save him why because he became a kosher person doesn't sayal go to save everyone to save all of all of am he didn't say that says to bring the ones to save the ones that used to be Pim used to be Sinners before they were kosher now they're kosher I came to save them so the reality of it is there's not that many people that could confidently look in the mirror and says you know what I'm 100% sure I'm a kosher person including myself probably more than anybody else why simply because the more you know the more you realize how much you have to work to become this kosher person it's not just about money it's not just about intimacy it's not just about Lan fing it's not just about keeping Shabbat there's a lot more goes into it the rambam continues in and he says all of the prophets all of the he says all the prophets in history all the prophets we have written in the 24 books in the Torah all of them commanded us to do chuva all of them back 3,000 years ago 2,000 years ago 1500 every single Prophet the number one job was to come to am is remind them they're Sinners remind them they have a spiritual sickness where they're letting the yet overcome them the came and became the balab and the prophet whether it was Jeremiah Zacharia Ezekiel whoever it was came and said listen by the way yet took over the took over is wasn't always excited to hear it so when you hear about the details of what they did to some of these prophets it's not so pretty so for example with Zacharia they didn't really like to hear what he said so they cut him up into pieces so when the second in command to came to he saw that there is blood in a certain area of Y and he asked the Jews what is this blood it's boiling like hot water but it's blood what is this Blood what is witchcraft what is this what is this they said to them no it's nothing it's just when we do Corban have a sheep we do a quban it's like this all the time he goes oh yeah I want to see I want to see you I've never I've I've slaughtered sheep before their blood didn't boil like this so I want to see maybe you have a special sheep I want to see what are they going to do so they slaughter a sheep nothing regular blood go no Slaughter another sheep maybe the first one didn't work they slaughter another sheep nothing happens he says if you don't tell me what this blood is I'm going to kill everyone they said really this used to be our our prophet he came to us and he told us we're sinning he came to us and he told us we have to do chuva he came to us and he told us we have to be kosher people we have to keep Shabbat we have to stop going with go we have to stop stealing we have to stop sinning we have to stop going to nightclubs we have to stop acting like go we have to stop acting like Mustafa and Chris we have to stop acting like Jews Like am we didn't like it so we killed him so said okay I'm GNA make his revenge he started killing everyone he took all of the r killed them first all of the started killing everyone got to a point where there was only kids left and the blood is still boiling he screams to shamay he says Prophet Prophet I almost killed everyone and your blood still boils if you don't stop boiling I'm going to kill everyone the blood stopped the prophet came to warn them they didn't want to listen Shalom almost 200 years ago he said that thank goodness we have as many doctors as we have sicknesses if someone has a sickness whether they have asthma or they have polio they have all these sicknesses almost 200 years ago whatever sicknesses physical sicknesses we had says Whoever has a sickness we have just as many sicknesses as we have doctors except one sickness spiritual sickness spiritual sicknesses we have many many more new sicknesses many more new spiritual sicknesses every day but we have no doctors one day we have homosexuality is a sickness another day it's going with go is a sickness another day it's turning the dollar into a god sickness another day is is being something else all these sicknesses we have every day he says we have no doctors why because there's only one medicine and no one wants to use it it's called have you have a chance to be a koser person no sickness will continue getting worse this is 200 years ago if would see it today you probably think that there's no cure because today we've gone to such an extent that many people walk around in the street with clothes that our grandparents used to call underwear but they wear it as clothes but you ask your grandp you ask your parents your grandparents ABA IMA what you know what what what did you wear was it like this girl over here that came from high school goes no yeah we wore the same thing it was just under our clothes it was called underwear in our days where's the rest of our clothes son no that's the all our clothes she goes oh what they don't have any money to buy the rest of the clothes grandparents don't understand why kids don't wear clothes doesn't make any sense but this is the sickness we have because the convinced us that this is okay he convinced us that you're beautiful if you show your body the more you show the more you're beautiful Hashem says the opposite hasem says sahu was the most beautiful woman that ever lived but even our husband abah ainu barely knew how beautiful she really was she was so beautiful that we look more like monkeys then we do according to Kaz you look at a monkey he says yeah the most the best looking guy the best looking woman on Earth you combine them together both of them together with all the makeup with all the uh manicure and pedicure and everything you want to put even if you airbrush it after all that they look more like the monkey then they do like s menu but even AB a barely knew how beautiful she was why because she covered herself so when you see a young girl or an old woman which Unfortunately today it's both walking around with underwear and he say oh wow she looks good what are you saying is looking good underwear used to sell for $10 a few years ago now they sell for 150 there less material they sell for more money should be less money at least at least at least makes sense there less material there's less work but this is the yet convinced us that this is okay and we keep playing along okay fine fine we'll do Chua next week cha next week cha next week eventually run out of time so the mishna we learned recently spoke about this also R AKA says everything that's given to a person from is based is on collateral meaning everything you have with it's your money your house your wife your kids your whatever you have it's collateral really Hashem lent it to you it's not really yours Hashem says to the prophet mine is the money mine is the gold nothing's yours you have nothing your bank account it's my bank account your stock account it's my stock account your house it's my house your body it's my body that's why you're not allowed to kill yourself so when you have people like this poor singer I think he was Jewish he has a Jewish name he had a multiple best-selling albums two wives six kids seems like he had more money than he can count and a prospering career when he decided to hang himself last week it wasn't a good decision because the next world that he goes to is much worse than the one he was in this is a reality as as much as this hurts to hear is a reality we need to know the reality you need to know what you're working with here before you get a customer someone calls and they say I want to buy something now before you invite them to your office you're G to ask you're going to try to find out what kind of customer is this is this guy a wholesaler is this guy a retailer is this guy trying to buy retail he's trying to buy wholesale is this guy trying to sneak up on me and give me fake money or is this guy like a real legit person you're gonna try to do some investigation why because you're a smart person you run your life like a business good news is Hashem also runs the world like a business this is what this mishna is about says hem runs the world like a business everything you have is a loan and you have to pay it back the next thing he says there's going to be a net around everyone that has this loan what's this net that's the yet the net is the Trap the yet is going to go to you is to knock on your door he says Hi how are you can I put One Nail on on the wall One Nail he said no no I'm sorry I don't want your nail on my wall listen I'll pay you $1,000 he tells a rich guy to pay you $1,000 to put One Nail on your wall $1,000 rich guy likes money so what you say okay fine what I care this guy put a nail on the wall pick whatever spot you want so he puts the nail on the wall next day 12:00 a.m. the guy comes back yes sir what you want another nail I have many many walls he goes no no no I just want to put my hat on the nail my nail I bought it for $1,000 I want to put my hat on the nail he goes well you couldn't come at 7 o00 like a normal time goes no I just I used my hat all day I finished with it now I put the Hat on the nail it's my nail okay the guy think okay I got $1,000 for nothing yesterday fine no no put the put the Hat on the nail the next day 2: a.m. yes you're waking me up what could I do for you I want to put my jacket on the nail you have a nail my nail I I paid a th000 I have a contract say I have a contract it says I paid $1,000 for the nail I want to put my jacket on the nail you couldn't come at 7 o'clock when I finished my jacket now I need to put the jacket on nail it's hot okay no put the jacket on the nail next day 3:00 a.m. it gets worse and worse every day what do you want today what what's 3:00 in the morning what do you want I have to wake up in a few hours to go pray Nets goes no I need my hat I need my hat it's on the nail I need you want the jacket too no just a hat I'll come back for the nail for the for the jacket later every day to to to every day he wants the Hat he puts the Hat he put puts the jacket puts the hat puts the every after two weeks the guy says listen no more that's it enough here's the ,000 no more nail he goes no no no no refunds we have a contract you don't want you don't want to honor this contract I take you to bed just take me to bed they go to bedine judge says you have a contract it's his nail you signed it you got paid there's no refund you just have to sell it back to you you have to honor the contract so the rich guy is not so happy about himself anymore he's not so happy about this thousand his $10 million house is being ruined why because is this guy bothering him every day 1 2 3 4:00 in the morning and he has to comply a month two months three months four months five months into it the guy says you know what take the whole $10 million house I'm leaving what is this like this is the Satan this the this the says all three is the same thing Satan comes to you and he says listen you're such a sadik you go pray 6 o' in the morning you keep Shabbat you go do this you go do that you're sadik but for me I'm a homeless guy I don't have like you I'm not sadik like you I just need one sin make one sin one sin not a big sin just do something dishonest at work today you know the guy that you know he give you money you didn't give him change don't give him the change it's okay it's $20 what's the big deal it's $20 don't give him the change small sin see you say $20 is the big deal the guy probably is Rich I have to give him $20 he's Rich makes you make a little sin next day he says listen it's only one sin you have n look how many mitv you pray Nets every morning you sadik you keep Shabbat you keep this you keep that no come on go look at that girl she's so pretty yeah but I'm married so what your wife is not going to know go look at the girl look how she pretty she is say even a prayer of how hasem created beautiful people he makes it like the sin is a Mitzvah now it's only one small nail and then it's another nail and next thing you know he took over the house and you live your whole life thinking you sadik in reality the is running the house but he started with a small nail that's the Trap that's the Trap the is telling you every day you're running the house you're sadik you're everything you give you told everybody donated $115,000 great you don't have to pay though you told everybody you're going to donate donate on next don't pay now you don't need to pay now they they're okay somebody else gonna pay a lot of people do this they donate on onip but they don't pay till of next year this is not a good thing why because you're taking away the Mitzvah from somebody else if you don't have to pay now don't buy make somebody else that has money to pay now you can't delay things unless there's a system that's in place where you have a payment system you can't intentionally wait till next year cuz the besset needs to survive now not next year needs to survive now you can't say no no I'm going to pay next year money is due now it's dishonest business same thing with a lot of mitv that we do we say no no you know what I don't have to do Mitzvah now I'll do it next week I'll do it next year I'll do it next month I'll do Chua next year let me just go to the casino now let me just go to the brothel now let me go cheat now let me go steal now why little sin it's a little this before you know it the Trap took over that's what RAB AKA said in the beginning of the mishna he says that's the Trap but you know the shop is open and the merchant is going to continue extending credit he says life is it's like a business Hashem is going to give you you're a shop and the merchant part of kazal is is saying the merchant is really the Satan the merchant is going to continue giving you credit he's going to give you every opportunity to make a sin he's going to help you you want to steal he's going to give you he going to give you an idea how to steal you want to cheat on your wife he's going to send every every girl in the world to come to you all of a sudden you're the best looking guy in the world the guy has three heads all of a sudden every girl wants him why because he's married the single guy is looking for no one wants to look at him but the guy that's married all of a sudden the secretary fell in love with him why Satan is helping him says someone that wants to make sins they give him a hand what do you mean they give him a hand you want to look at girls we're going to bring the girls to your house we're going to bring them to your office we're going to bring them to the street we're going to bring you want to look at girls no problem we're going to bring them to you you don't have to look far we're going to bring it to your screen all of a sudden every popup instead of being advertising for cars it's adver in for women why cuz you want to look so we're going to help you cuz it's all a trap he's going to continue giving you credit but R AKA reminds us you should know that the Ledger is open and the Hand continues to write and whoever wishes to borrow let him come and borrow he said you should know that everything that you're doing the hand of shamai is writing it down where does he get the information from aside from all being all knowing the reason why the is called three names because he has three jobs first he's the yet first he convinces you that he only wants to buy one nail he convinces you to make a sin look at the girl where e modest clothing so what everybody dresses a modest so you dress not modest what's the big deal of wearing a tank top it's hot all of a sudden everyone's hot our ancestors with no air conditioner they weren't hot today everybody with AC units that are 20,000 everybody's hot they were in a desert with three PE suits not hot us we have AC units we're all hot so we have to wear tank tops and underwear so we're all hot see say it's only one nail everybody's naked so you'll be naked too that's the yet after we fell he goes up to Shan he goes up to he go look look look look look what your son is doing look what your daughter is doing look you gave her a whole Wardrobe full of nice clothes what she wearing she's wearing underwear look what she's wearing she forgot her clothes in the house Hashem look you see you see hasem you see what she's doing you see what she's doing he goes and he tells on you he told you to do it but he goes and tells on you you see she W she's married she has no she has no sawm you saw what she did like hashm doesn't know he comes and he tells on you warms them up imagine you have a fight with your partner with somebody and somebody comes you see what he did you see what he did you see what he did how annoying is that now you went from being mad to you want to kill the guy after that he askes the Mal of it Hashem says you know what you're right you're right he did this he did this he did this he ran out of time go do the next job same one and the says that before a person leaves this world he sees him he sees the I know someone that saw him and lived raaa he had a near-death experience and he died and he came back to life and he gives lectures telling about his experience with it's very fascinating story and I had I talked to him we became friendly and I talked to him privately a few times and uh he told me goes listen honestly what I tell in my lectures is not even 1% of what really happened it's not even 1% I said yeah but it's a three-hour lecture the story is three hours he goes yeah that 3 hours is not even 1% of what actually happened I said no tell me more he goes there's not enough time in the world to tell it it's too scary I said no so tell me something tell me something he goes you know what they say about I say yeah I read in the books what it says and say scary things all full of scary stuff he goes yeah it's much scarier whatever they say it's much scarier much much scarier I said how you know I saw him saw him it's much scarier than the movies this is the same one that told you this morning this afternoon and this evening he's not even inside same one same one that's convincing you that he's not even there it's the scariest thing in the world and every time you do something in sh he goes upstairs he say look what he did look what she did look what he did look what she did the continues to write and eventually hasem has to send the collectors the collectors have to make their rounds every day and collect the payment from the person this is the scariest part of the mishna he says hm has to send collectors has to send a person all types of tiim sometimes it's small tiim sometimes big tiim point is there's tiim there's different issues you have to deal with you have to pay now what's the what's the scary part the scary part is that RAB AKA says whether he realizes that Hashem is running the world or not it doesn't make a difference he still gives him T whether he realizes that hasem is running the world or not he still has to pay the bill whether he enjoyed the food or not doesn't make a difference he still has to pay full price there's no refunds when you think about this this is actually very scary because a person can live their entire life saying they're an atheist saying they don't believe anything or acting like an atheist saying like you know what I'm a the I'm religious in my heart I like AEM I like to go to beet but I also like to go to the beach on Shabbat I also like to drive on Shabbat I also like to go around with different women I don't want to get married so it's is the this is a person says I'm a nice guy I givea I'm a nice guy by his own definition he says whether he realizes the truth or not doesn't make a difference at the time mashiah comes or after 120 or whenever it is when the day comes when Judgment Day comes for that person whether he realize or I still has to pay full Bill full price there's no such thing as discount now in this generation people say yeah what if he doesn't know what if he's a there's this term called which in in reality what it means a lost baby in the old days the Christian Christians missionaries and people that hated they used to steal our kids and and tell them that they were Jews tell them that they were Christian not Jews sometimes they would do it with a smile sometimes they would do it by force regardless they took our kids so someone can grow up and you know thinking that he's not Jewish so he's going to violate the Torah so Tor says somebody like that who doesn't know he's Jewish from the he's not not obligated the so a lot of people like to say that today the generation as a whole everyone is a everyone doesn't know anything everyone's like this lost baby this is the biggest lie in Judaism today there's a lot of lies this is the biggest one the reason why is because if you look at the it gives you the exact definition of what is gives you exact definition how don't what's what's what's if someone doesn't know he's Jewish no problem someone knows he's Jewish he knows Judaism exists him and being have nothing to do with each other he knows Shabbat exist you feel like keeping it he has to pay the full price there no no no but he didn't he grew up reform he grew up not religious he went to secular school he didn't like it the rabbi beat him up doesn't make a difference you knew you're Jewish you knew you're different you have to keep the mitv there's no there's no get out of jail free card so many times we hear this from people that call themselves Rabbi say no no everyone's okay everyone's okay and everyone's okay the reason why these fake people say every everyone's okay is because it's very good for business religion is also a business unfortunately so a lot of people like to make money from it so they tell everybody you're okay you're okay you're okay because when you tell people you're okay you're okay you're okay they open their pockets like oh that's the guy that keeps telling me I'm okay I'm G to give him more money the other guy keeps telling me I have to do chuva he keeps telling me I'm sick he keeps telling me I something wrong I don't want to give him any money he's telling me I have to change I'm going to give money to the guy that tells me I'm okay I'm perfect I'm a sad you just murdered five people yeah but he said I'm aik I'm G to give him $1,000 yeah but you you have a plan to murder another 10 he goes yeah I'm GNA give him 10,000 because that's the payment he's going to tell me I'm a sadik for everything I do good or bad so the in Shabbat page 54 says that person that so-called goes to a bigger G both of them go they have sweets next to each other but there's no such thing as that he's okay because the rabbi lied to him because one of the most important mitv if not the most important mitvah and Judaism because we're not really allowed to weigh MIT but the one that hasem says leave me but not this Mitzvah go be an atheist but don't leave this Mitzvah what Mitzvah is that learning tah says go leave me say I don't exist shom but don't stop learning my Torah you think no don't learn T but believe in Hemm says no don't believe in me just continue learning tah why because if you believe in me without T eventually You're Gonna Stop Believing eventually you're going to turn me into a human being like the Christians did eventually you're going to turn me into something that's not me but if you learn my Torah you're always going to come back to me you're going to come back home if you believe in God God of Israel the way you measure it is very simple if your God that's in your mind in your heart has limitations it's not God it's an idol same thing like Jesus same thing like Buddha same thing like all the the the the different statues you buy in Chinatown for $25 same thing if your God has no money and you have to work on Shabbat because of it it's a false god it's not a real God if your God can't fix something it's not real God something else because the god of Israel can do anything anything there's no limitations whatever you think is a limitation that's not God's it's your limitation so that's how you know whether you believe in the right God or not if you think you have to work overtime because you need to help God give you money you don't believe in God you believe in something else you're worse than the 0s at least the say he doesn't believe in anything you believe in an idol this is this is the we have to pay sh say did you believe in me goes yeah of course I belied in you goes why' you work on Shabbat no I didn't work my office was closed yeah but you talk business in a besset you talked about the real estate you want to buy you talked about the stock you just sold that's business most business today is talking it's not doing most business is talking it's not it's not doing stuff especially in America if anybody has missed the last couple of decades America became the number one producer of nothing nothing we produce nothing in America we produce convenience by paying other people to do the hard labor there's barely any factories there's barely any manufacturing all of that is done somewhere else China Indonesia India different different places there are some factories in America but if you compare it to what it used to be versus now it's like a different country what do we produce sales people America produces people that can talk movie stars singers salese we sell all kinds of stuff that other people actually built so in reality the fact that America is the number one largest economy in the world purely by words means that our job is words means that when you talk inet you are working you're part of the American system and you're working on Shabbat better not go to besset better stay home don't talk to anybody talk to the wall if you have to talk about business don't go anywhere stay inside the bathroom why because talking on Shabbat is Shabbat worst punishment in the Tor worst punishment you considered 100% Idol worshiper talk on Shabbat on business and people say no no I just bought the building it's no big deal it's nice building what are you going to do for it on Tuesday Tuesday we're going to change this we're going to change that that's business it's business only thing you're allowed to talk that's related to money on Shabbat is MV we're going to build Yesa we're going to invest more money into a we're going to do something like that you're allowed to set up that's a Mitzvah but your business is not a Mitzvah there's nothing by your business you're making talking about it on Shabbat it's 100% like you drove drove a car talking on Shabbat business same thing this is this is something small that many of us are failing I see it in every B every B I go you go on Shabbat there's at least one or two people talking business at least one or two people talking business she yeah why' you come to beess just stay home or go to the office at least least cuz now you're disturbing everybody else everyone else is is forced to think about business because you're talking about business so what happens some people come to besset just to talk business no why you going to be you don't me keep Shabbat yeah but uh Joseph comes to the besset I have to do a deal with him this actually happened a few years ago this guy that was a reformed Jew completely keeping absolutely nothing decided to go to beess why because there was a billionaire that went to this specific besset and he ended up finding a way to sit right next to him LA and behold he ended up doing a deal with him the guy ended up buying a huge brokerage firm they call lber Thalman the deal was done in the Beet this is not Kosher business so these are things that are very simple very simple to stop you come to be pray you have nothing to talk about Open start reading open some do something that's has to do with Shabbat because whether he realizes it or not whether he realized sadik whether he realizes it or not he still has to pay the bill AKA says it doesn't matter if he knows or he doesn't know doesn't make a difference why doesn't it matter he says because you have one of the MIT is to learn t one of the MIT is to learn T which means that if you made a sin because you don't know if you don't know because you just didn't get to it you're learning Torah but you didn't learn everything yet you just did chuva last year you just did chuva five years ago you don't know to like someone's learning his whole life you didn't get to it but you're trying that's okay that's pleas but if you learn if you're not learning Tor and you made a sin in sh they turn the one that's accidental to on purpose now it becomes a purposeful sin now yeah but I I didn't mean to beab he goes yeah but he goes no but I didn't know it's your fault he didn't know why he didn't learn why didn't you learn because you wanted to watch the game why didn't you learn because you want to play sports why didn't you learn because you want to sleep eight hours a day all the different reasons you you didn't want to learn you made excuses you have to pay the bill whether he knows or he doesn't know that's the scary part meaning just like mosu told us in this par there's no favoritism there's no get out of jail free card there's no nothing this a very different than the song you remember the song from the beginning of the mashia Mas it's very different than the song we'll finalize with these two these Collective have proof to rely on meaning they have something that they could depend on what they have to depend on they have to depend on this deal that you signed you signed the deal I'm sorry page 16 B it says that every time a seed leaves a male and goes into the female there's a Mal named Laya that takes the seed and goes to Hashem Hashem what should be with this seed is it going to be a tall person a short person a smart person a stupid person a rich person a poor person what's going to be with the seed and hasem says all of these things are going to be except one thing he says he has only one thing to choose everything else I'm going to choose I'm going to choose if he's tall I'm going to choose if he's short I'm going to choose if he's Rich which means it doesn't matter how much you're working I'm going choose if he's poor which means it doesn't matter what profession you have you could be a millionaire garbage pale person you could be a poor stock broker doesn't make a difference there's poor people and rich people in every profession all of it is decided in sham somebody ask something so laa is told all of these and all of this information and then it goes into production ction this becomes a person now during this time you have a meeting you have a meeting with this Angel and this Angel is also the one we talked about a few times today the angel is the yet and he comes to meet you he says listen I like I love them actually says in the he lovesik loves because because I work for hem my whole job is to help people become how by trying to help them become better by giving them tests how do you become a better Soldier by overcoming big obstacles if they removed all the obstacles in the field they told them listen no no it's too hard for them to climb the wall it's too hard for them to jump it's too hard for them let them sleep what happens the war starts everybody dies why because everybody is lazy everybody's sleeping no one is trained no one is strong so in order to become strong we all understand we need training yet comes to give us training so when you go and you beat the system you pass all the training you do everything you need to do you become sadik says that sadik Satan says I like him that's why he gave he gave so he comes to the seed and he says listen you're going to go into the world in a little while you're going to become a baby and the baby's going to become a man or a woman remember one thing I like but that's it I don't like them I have to punish them I have the job of punishing them so remember if you're sadik I like you you're not sadik you have a problem with me why because you went against my God so this laa gets this information and now you have an opportunity to come to the world and become a sadik you live a whole life you live 70 80 90 120 years whatever you end up living you go up to Sham or the mashia comes a little early and you're still not really sure what you want to do they give you a meeting with malit first malit hit you on the head says what's your name now if you did aul that you're supposed to do in which is vers in a auk in the Tor with the which starts with the first letter of your name and ends with the last letter of your name you'll remember your name if you don't have this PUK you don't say during amid you're not going to know she's going to keep hitting you and then he says to you no you weren't a sadik you have a problem he said why do I have a problem because it says in the uh anyone that doesn't keep their word anyone doesn't keep their word hem has to punish them what didn't you keep you you made a word you made a deal before you came to the world when laa was holding you and asked hm what he's going to be you made a deal I'm GNA keep MIT I'm gonna do chv I'm gonna be better I'm GNA do this I'm going to do that you come to sh they say would' you do nothing you went to the strip club you went to the casino you cheated you lied you cheated on your wife you did this you you were rash what' you do no I give okay give you 70 years what else did you do I learned Tor once once a year okay once a year gave you a building what else did you do I was nice to my kids so is a lion you don't get it's not Mitzvah to be nice to your kids I sent him to school so do the it's not you don't get extra for sending him to school you send him to Yesa then you get something but you come to Sham you say you made a deal you made a promise and you didn't deliver on the promise you have a problem now so Nowa is telling us in this mishna that the they have something to rely on because you made a promise and everything is prepared for the final festive banquet meaning your whole life has to reach a culmination point your whole life has to reach a point where it's the climax now we are in a generation of mashia and generation of mashia has the privilege of being a person that could actually see the mashiah and live we said in the beginning of this year not everyone's going to be happy when the mashiah comes so if we start doing serious chva we take these things seriously this is not my opinion this is toah that's why I brought the books anyone doesn't believe it can read the books you see these things you see what they said you take it seriously you start doing Chua you start learning MIT you start doing what you have to do you start taking things to Heart mashia shows up you have nothing to worry about whether you live in America or you live in on top of the you have nothing to worry about but if you didn't do chuv a lot of people think oh no the biggest Mitzvah is to live in Israel no it's not if you're going to be a sadik in America and a rash in Israel live in America if you're going to be a sadik in Israel be in Israel but if you're living on top of the but you're throwing rocks like the Arabs you're not that's not going to help you in life so just living in Israel by default doesn't change anything what changes something is chuva you start doing chuva you startop playing games you start taking hem seriously you have a lot of good things to have now one thing that helps chuv that can tell you help me personally is getting special getting special assistance from hem to beat this is strong and our desires for all types of things is very very strong it's very hard to beat them everyone knows it's hard to beat them but there's a few things that you can do aside from obviously learning Tor that could help the P help you beat the kazal says who has special treatment to never ever go to this awful horrible place called Gom it says someone that helped his his students do chuva someone that helped people do chuva we do everything we can to make sure that he doesn't go to Gom why because it's not good for the students to see the teacher the students in ganed but the teacher is in G students are going to be upset so the beautiful part about doing Zim is that you don't have to be a speaker you could do it for free in the book of Jeremiah he says something special he says so Hashem said to the prophet if you do chuva I'll bring you back and you'll stand right next to me meaning once you take me seriously start keeping you start keeping Shabbat like Al not like you feel like it not like you don't do anything but you sleep all day and maybe watch a little TV no you keep Shabbat like you're supposed to you keep like you're supposed to you keep modesty like you're supposed to whether it's or the skirt or the shirt or all this stuff 100% there's no 50% there's no 50% religious it's either you're religious or you're not it's either you have or you don't have all of these 5050 people they have a serious problem why because they doing everything for nothing mashia is going to show up and say oh yeah I kept Shabbat great you kept Shabbat you're a thief you got reward for Shabbat you're getting punished for being a thief yeah yeah no but I wasn't a thief yeah but you violated Shabbat yeah you ate non kosher you did someone doesn't have you have a serious problem you're doing everything for nothing you're still gonna get you're still gonna have to pay a big bill there's no 50% religious see the 100% of nothing and I don't mean you have to become M but you have to try you have to be the best version of you if you're Yakov you have to be the best version of Yakov R was asked one of the in past Generations his students asked him you went to galut you took a lot of on yourself for the entire nation not everybody can do that what's your dream what's your dream in life and RAB zusa says to them my dream in life is to be zusa Nota just a Bea tell please teach us what does that mean b he says when I go up to sh they're not going to ask me why weren't you mosu they're not gonna ask me why weren't you Raba they're not going to ask me why weren't you RAB so and so they're gonna ask me why weren't you zusa we gave zusa the skills to be we gave zusa the skills to be we gave zusa to be opportunity to be a big why didn't you do that at least I give you money why you give $10 well you think I give you the million doll you give $10 t a 15y old paper boy gives $10 T you're giv the same thing as a 15y old paper boy it's bu somebody gets $100,000 a month they give somebody oh I give him $50 they feel like a sadik what's give $100,000 a month you give $50 the paper boy give $50 he makes 200 why cuz his heart doesn't have like you so he's pure so it's easy for him to give you have to go back to being that so in shamay say listen I gave you money you didn't give money I gave you a brain you Ed the brain for everything else except Tor I gave you arms and legs instead of running to beet you ran to places you're not allowed to go to I gave you a mouth instead of saying you cursed all the day everything I gave you you did the opposite and you surprised that Hashem is is punishing you you surpris he's upset he surprised call you using his tools his money against him SOA says at least I want to be zusa at least whatever he gave me I want to use that that should be our mentality whatever AEM gave you use it to the fullest potential and the best part about it is that whatever he gave you is just enough to be a sadik everyone here big or small young or old male or female could be sadik why because if you weren't if you didn't have the ability to be sadik you wouldn't come to the world or if you would come to the world you come to the world like someone that's considered a considered that he's in he's he's completely P or dismissed from all MIT because he's either Autistic or something like that but if you're a normal human being you have the opportunity to be your own version of M which means that anything less is not acceptable how do you do it you start with you start with saying okay hem I know you gave me everything I got to start using it so how do you get this how do you get this connection how do you start doing how do you get this extra boost the prophet says you do CH You're Gonna Stand before hem he's goingon to say oh that's my sadik that's my little mosu but his real name isik his real name Ison his real name name is whatever name I'm going to accept you but you want extra boost help somebody else come back to me there's another son I have he's lost he's in bayge he's in Hong Kong he's in the Bronx he's in Manhattan he's in the village he's in San Francisco help him yeah but I don't know him you don't need to know him you're already online send them an email put it on Facebook you're already on anyway instead of looking at some cops saving ducks in the middle of the road take a link of T copy paste put it on your page the guy from Hong Kong is going to watch it do chuv it's free it's not money it's free meaning that there's a bigger if we don't do it if it was money and everyone that could do K anyone that could do had to be rich then you're P because not everybody's Rich you don't have money you can't do what are you going to do but that's the thing the on our generation is that you could do it for free and even if you have money obviously even more so but the point is that if you don't do it it's a why because says why don't you care about my son you know he's your brother right you know it's your sister right why don't you care about them what kind of brother on you what kind of sister are you how come you didn't care why you so selfish it's a this is what the is all about t is coming up in less than a week and we all supposed to cry now we're all crying we think we're all crying because of this bet mikdash that was destroyed the house of Hashem on Earth in reality we're not crying about the bet mikdash that was destroyed 2,000 years ago it's not what we're crying we're crying that if hasem put the BET mikdash here today he would destroy it again that's what we're crying about because the reason why he destroyed the BET mikdash 2,000 years ago because he said my nation hates each other they hate each other for no reason it's called it's hating for no reason why do you hate him I hate him why for no reason what about her I hate her why no reason you know her no but I hate her why she's a skazi she's she's yemenite she's Safari she's this she's that that's one reason what's the other reason he says even when they're friends even when they're others even when they're parents and Sons and children they still hate each other go no my mom loves me what are you talking about no she hates you she hates you my father loves me no he hates you what do you mean he hates you he hates you why he hates you says the number one type of that we're not even close to fixing and this is even in his time number one that we are not even close to fixing is when one Jew sees another Jew making a sin and he doesn't say anything one Jew sees his brother his son his father his sister whoever it is driving on Shabbat he goes no no he doesn't say anything he'll figure it out on his own he goes that guy that's he hates him no it's his brother he hates him it's his mother he hates her it's his father he hates them why because he knows they're drinking poison he doesn't say anything there's no one that's more vicious than that he knows the guy's drinking poison he goes no I'll figure it out what figure out he's going to die by the time he figures it out you see him driving on Shabbat you don't see nothing you see the guy doing dishonest business you don't say nothing you see the guy throwing away his life you don't say nothing you're worse than that's that's what we're crying about we're crying that today we don't have any doctors because no one wants to be a doctor no one wants to tell anybody anything why it's his business I don't want to interfere in his life I don't want to interfere I don't want to tell them what to do I don't want this and I don't want to that no one wants to do anything so what happens we get more problems what happens the Arabs comes and they attack us and they murder us and Hashem has to send the messengers Hashem has to send the messengers why it's time to pay the bill so there's two ways to bring mashia good way or bad way we ran out of time to do it all good but we can make it less bad we can make it less bad how do we make it less bad by not making it the same situation that it was in we left Egypt we're all crying everyone left Egypt crying you think you were slaves for 200 years you shouldn't cry you should be happy says they were all crying crying why you crying just left Egypt you're a slave now you're a king why you crying kazal says they were crying because all their brothers and sisters they were all killed only 20% of am is left Egypt only 20 meaning that 80% hasem killed them when did he kill them Darkness plague Darkness plague he killed 80% of am is why they didn't want to do chuva they didn't want to do chuva I don't need them he says the 20% want to do Chua I'll take them the 80% don't want to do Chua we kill them we have to kill them during the darkness plague why so the Egyptians don't think that I like them instead so I do it during when it's dark I bury them when it's dark so at least the Egyptians don't think there's a become but either way I have to punish them why they don't want to do CH but there's a scary mid in he says it's not 80% it's 99% they used to be in Egypt they used to be 300 million Jews 300 million only 3 million left meaning the Holocaust of 70 plus years ago where six million of our brothers and sisters were murdered in Cold Blood was not even close to what happened in Egypt right now if the mashia came we'd be in a similar situation we can make the situation better I can't do it by myself R mrai can't do it by himself no rabbi the world can do by himself not even the everyone has to do it everyone has to take a CD give it to their brother everyone has to take a link give it to their brother everyone has to do something because if you don't do it you are the reason why the BET mikdash was destroyed today not 2,000 years ago today so next week next week when tab comes you don't have to cry about what happened 2,000 years ago we cry about today that there's still people that don't know and it's because we don't want to tell them you see somebody see somebody going with someone he's not allowed to go with see somebody doing something wrong you have to tell them something have to if they listen good they don't listen you try again just like a customer in your business customer wants to buy great he doesn't want to buy what you say I'll lower the price I'll make it this I'll do you negotiate so negotiate what are you negotiating for you negotiating to save your brother you're negotiating to save your son you're negotiating to make a kosher person because we saw how important a kosher person is in hm's eyes any questions if it arum even if it gets to a point according to even if it gets to a point where he wants to beat you up that's when you stop if it's a there's two types of there's two types of a violations if it's meaning it's a it's a reinal let's say like and you know that he's not going to listen you tell him listen do the DAV no you know that he's say oh what do you want he's going to go crazy don't say nothing don't say nothing why because it's a rabal mitvah and you know he's not going to listen don't say nothing but if you see him driving on Shabbat even if you know he's going to curse you out for tell him to keep Shabbat you have to say it anyway you have to do something you could say it you could have somebody else say it you can give him a CD you could bring him to you have to do something something not it's not one siiz fits all some people can talk hasm gave me a gift I can talk not everybody can talk some people have money use money some people have uh you know a lot a big network of people they know a lot of people some people know thousands of people so what do you do that person that's their skill you know a lot of people arrange bring a rabbi that tells people the truth and he'll do the talking for you but at least do something doing nothing is not an option have to do something what whatever tool Hashem gave you use it because that's what he's going to judge you on he's is going to judge you based on the tools you have he's not going to judge you of what you did with money if you didn't have any money somebody's broke he can't tell how come you didn't donate a million dollars can't judge you on that you didn't have a million dollars if you didn't have if somebody didn't have any friends how come you didn't tell your friends because I didn't have any friends so he's not going to judge you based on something you don't have judge you based on what you do have I gave you a skill why didn't you use it why weren't you zusa and that's the thing that all of us need to know what skill did he give you how did you use it both to do Chua yourself and to help other people do Chua next if there's if there's SCH bite then there it helps parasa if there's no schom bite then it destroys parasa but the thing is though there's other things that also help or or hurt P that the man can do now schom is something very significant that can help people get Miracles now if somebody wants Miracles there's a mishna that says uh if a man and a woman have if a man and a woman have they they were rewarded and they have the of comes and stands with them so kazal says that when the of hem came down to mount saai the angel said hem you can't go down because there's people that are they have deformities they're missing arms they're missing eyes they're missing legs the can't go anywhere that has imperfection so what did Hashem do he healed everyone so the guy who's missing an eye all of a sudden has an eye the guy's missing a leg has a leg now the one that's missing a arm has an arm so now when a couple has this they get Miracles and I give you a real life story I just heard today from a student I uh have this couple of students and uh the they have they're pregnant for the first time and uh they're very serious they're very committed and B we help them with a lot of different things and they uh we talk about schom we talk abouta we talk about a lot of different things and they're very very involved with so they came to me a few days ago and they said uh listen you know now she's pregnant she's the main one that's providing the living in the house she makes more than he does he focuses more on and she focused on the but now she's pregnant eventually going to have the baby Something's Gonna Change so what should we do I said don't have to worry about you're doing you're doing K you have you have nothing to worry about's got to take care of it okay fine that's great that sounds great in theory but what do we do practically what do we do practically we have to do something just stand there do nothing so okay you're working in this company tell the boss that you want to hire somebody to work under you and you're going to train this person to do things that you're doing that you don't necessarily need to do you do the big deals she does the other things but you're going to train this person to be like a version of You So eventually when you get to a point where you give the kid you can start working at home but you train this person to be you in the office your secretary but she's going to do all the stuff that you need to be in the office for and you could do the big things at home So eventually when you have the baby you can work out of the house great idea you have six months to do it seven months to do it sounds good three hours ago three four hours ago she sends me a text she you're never going to believe it I came to the office today and I was planning to tell my boss your plan to hire somebody I'm going to train I'm going to teach and eventually but before I came to him he came to me he said listen I think you should get yourself an a and you should train her for everything that you're doing so everything I said the boss did it for her why because they invest in they invest in SCH they do all the right things that's what happens you want Miracles you have to be involved in these things you need you need hem to actually bless you it says said someone that Hashem is happy with him even his enemies come and say I'm sorry to him even if someone is wants to know if hm is happy with him you won't have any enemies why because even his enemies are going to come say I'm sorry they're come say so that's the thing so when it comes to obviously schom is very important it's not necessarily mazal of the wife where she's lucky or unlucky it's whether the couple whether the husband and wife have if there's peace between them if there's peace between them that's a place that hasm wants to attend there's no peace between them there's no so that affects P there's other things that affect P but that's that one main thing another couple of questions before I have to go have another maybe 10 minutes or so we didn't finished the whole Tor it's just a small portion foren [Music] [Applause] [Music] he [Music]