Who Does HaShem Love?

[Music] say here that when you act in such a way that you prepare yourself for all bad you prepare yourself for all circumstances you prepare yourself for all situations you prepare yourself to deal with all types of people you could become one of the loved by hem meaning you can be considered one of the people that hasem loves so thear says who does Hashem love who does AEM love so there's many different types of examples 113b there's a mistake in a book it says 1133a it's actually 113b it says says there are three whom the Holy One blessed is he loves one who doesn't get angry one who doesn't get drunk and one who does not insist on his due measure explanation if a person works on his own midot humbles himself in such a way that he knows that the world is run by a that everything is measure for measure that everything that happens is because hasem allowed it to happen if you have a tick biting you that's because hasm said it's okay if you have somebody stealing from you that's because hasem said it's okay if you have a fingernail that hurts that's because hasm said it's okay if somebody gets cancer that's because hasem said it's okay if the Holocaust happens that means that hasm said it's okay nothing is outside the power of hasem and you acknowledge all of this you will never ever get angry because even when your wife tries to make you angry on purpose you won't get angry even she tries intentionally to make you angry you know it's not your wife it's hem Hashem is trying to Hashem is testing you through your wife his wife is like his own body his wife is also like his own mirror hasem is gonna speak to you through your wife same concept with the husband if your if your husband doesn't respect you if your husband doesn't treat you well that's because hm Hashem is allowing him to do it Hashem is allowing all this to happen he's choosing to do it nonetheless but Hashem is allowing this to happen no one will ever get hurt even by a fingernail without Hashem signing off this is permitted to happen so when a person knows that all types of things can happen and all of those things come from the same Source whether they're good or they're bad they could literally get to a point of never in their life ever getting angry even if they got a flat tire on the way to an important appointment even if their wife yelled at them and embarrassed them in public even if their kids are causing a mess and breaking their stuff even if they got fired even if they don't have any money even if they have a little bit of pain even even even even even anything why because he knows that hasem runs the world once he knows hem runs the world there's no reason get angry and if he doesn't get angry hasem says I love you why you get the point you don't get angry no matter what somebody annoying shows up somebody annoying tries to interrupt somebody annoying tries to steal from you somebody's trying to do this somebody's trying to do that somebody actually did it and you're still okay you're still com and collected because you know it's me you know it's AB you know it's hem I love you why you and me we have a relationship cuz you know me and I know you but if you think it's him that did it but if you think that it's her that did it but if you think it's bad luck but if you think it's bad this and it's bad that what relationship do we have I know you but you don't know me I know you but you don't know me that's not a good relationship that's like a wife telling a husband after 30 years of marriage ah you don't know me what do you mean I don't know you I've been married to you for 30 years of course I don't know you how could anybody know a woman that's what I know I know I don't know you but I'm trying to get to know you but then if the husband says to the wife I don't know you don't know me she says you have no I know you better than you know why she knows everything about you because that's how easy it is to get to know a husband women you're never going to get to know them you're going to know things about them you should be interested you should be interested to get to know them but you should know that you're not able to know everything that's inside a the mind of a woman but nonetheless is different wants you to know that everything is from him everything is from him and if you know everything is for him you'll never get angry but also he says Hashem loves anyone who doesn't get drunk why does he love anyone that doesn't get drunk he says a person that doesn't get drunk understands what it means to serve hem under all conditions the same page 1133a answers the questions that some people ask me what does it say in the Tora that you're not allowed to do drugs whether it's marijuana or anything else one of the sources is here actually said Son don't ingest any unnecessary drugs why because if you're taking drugs for no real reason meaning there's no ailment it'll cause more damage than good and more severely you'll become addicted to them and once you become addicted to them you could fall under the description of one of the people that hasm hates even if you're just psychologically addicted to them it doesn't say physically addicted to them even if you're psychologically addicted to it you're psychologically addicted to marijuana you're psychologically addicted to whatever it is you could fall under the description of a person that hasm hates why because he loves people that don't do drugs he loves people that don't even get drunk why because if you are drunk if you are high you're not allowed to learn toah you're not allowed to pray in fact you're not even allowed to walk into a bedet you're not even allowed to walk into a mid you're not even allowed to say why because you don't have something called yesu your mind is not there completely and you're not treating AEM like he's AEM you're treating him like he's nobody if a king of Flesh and Blood was in front of you with a sword and the sword was aimed at your neck would you smoke a joint right before no what are you going to say I'm sorry I'm focused I'm ready you you take care of yourself no please don't do it all of you will be focused on what's going on why because you're scared of the sword how come you're scared of the sword when you're not scared of hem who created the sword who created the king who created everything else says if you understand that I'm next to you at all times you're never going to allow yourself to alter your state of mind by choice because if you're altering your State of Mind by choice that simply means you do not understand that I'm next to you you do not believe that I'm next to you that I'm in front of you in the betet outside of the betet in your house outside of your house in your business outside of your business I'm always there if you don't understand that we have a problem why that's that's heresy it's one of the 13 principles of faith is that hem is everywhere you don't believe that Hashem is everywhere or you think he's just in some places unfortunately that that's does not distinguish you much from some Idol worshipper in India doesn't distinguish you from the agori tribe anybody here know the agori tribe anybody here here of the agoris maybe somebody wants to volunteer like to be an agori you know what theories are guys let me give you a little education and give you a little when you say the every morning a Jew wakes up and says thank you God for not making you a why because if you were a it was potential for you to be an agori what do the agoris people do you go on the internet you can check this out for yourself there's a religion in India called agori and what do they do they decided that in order to make themselves strong they have to take on everything that's filthy everything that's disgusting everything that's despicable they have to consume it they have to do it because that will give them power so what do they do for example every night they go hunting for what they go look for bodies dead bodies in India in India they don't bury their bodies in India they put their bodies people a die they put them on a few pieces of wood and then light it on fire now sometimes people don't even have the money they're so poor in some places they don't have the money to do this or sometimes it doesn't go on fire it just goes into the ocean and just doesn't go on fire so these agoris they are like the Scavengers every night they go into the river into the ocean they look for dead bodies that are floating why they take their bodies drag them back to their camp and they eat them they eat the people nice little toe nice little brain the cups are skulls of people and if that's not enough they want to drink so they urinate into the skull and then they drink their own urine the filthiest most disgusting things that you can possibly imagine is their day-to-day life when you say that's what you have to think about also why if you were a it's very likely very possible you could have been one of them who's to say not or you could join one of the other tribes in India that their custom is to take babies take little babies newborn babies and put them in boiling water because they they their gods their fake Gods say that putting a baby in burning him in boiling water is going to make the baby stronger I wonder how come they don't put the adults in boiling water if it's going to make the baby stronger how come it's not going to make the the adult stronger if that's not enough another tribe takes the babies and throws them over the second story building hopefully they catch them on the bottom and all types of Despicable disgusting things one woman loved their her fake God called The Cow they worship the cow over there there's a religion that worships the cow she loved her fake God so much that she didn't like that it was hot it was hot outside in India it's very hot so instead instead of using an air conditioner she said my car is hot my car is hot so what did she do she took cow manure and she put it all over her car because she believes that this cow manure is going to make her car not smelly like you think it's going to make it colder the smell it's a smell of uh God no she thinks it's a smell of her God I even have a video on my phone where there's a cow putting her foot on each person as if she's giving a she's giving him a blessing to people when you say thank you God for not making me a you have to think about this also why because if you weren't could possibly you could have been in India we know what's the difference between a Jew and a and a uh and a and someone from India one little yud why a Jew in Hebrew is yudi y five letters an Indian personi instead of yii what's missing a tiny little UD a little Kama a little Kama that smallest letter in the alphabet is missing that's the only difference between the Indian and the Jew what is the ud represent it's one of the names of God that's the difference the difference between the Jew and the is God that's the difference when a Jew has God he has the youth when he does not have God when he's a when he violates every single sin Under the Sun guess what he's no different than all of these Idol worshippers how do we know look at this how interesting what to do what not to do what does a Jew how does he need to behave it says what does a Jew do in regards to cooking on yum what does he do in regards to cooking on yum you know y holiday sh P it's like Shabbat except that you're allowed to cook if you use previous existing fire but only if you have pre-existing fire and only if it's for someone that is a Jew if it's not a Jew you're not let to cook for him but then it says here it's forbidden to cook on yomtov on behalf of any Jew who publicly desecrate Shabbat in fact it's forbidden to even invite such a Jew to your house for yomtov meals since the host might might add more food to his pots on behalf of this guest that violate Shabbat this applies only to Jews who desecrate Shabbat with total abandonment smoking cigarettes in public driving cars or motorcycles and other flagrant and public displays on Shabbat desecration this is y 512 number two meaning that a Jew is not allowed to cook for a not allowed to cook for a but he's also not allowed to cook for why because someone have violate Shabbat according to is treated as if he's not Jewish it's considered as if he's an idol worshiper now very NE the next the next Al say so what is he like if he doesn't keep Shabbat what is he like so the next Al talks about it number four it says it's forbidden to cook food on yomtov for animals too for Animals you're not Al also not to cook food for them is also derived from uh the book of uh Exodus 12:1 16 and then it continues details of who what when and how why what what does the animal have to do with all this if a Jew keep Shabbat if a Jew learns to fulfills to the best of his ability is the best part of all of creation if not is's in the degree of an animal according to hasem now your own according to why who else not let to cook for the who else should not let to cook for the animal all three of them according to have to be treated the same not going out of your way to disrespect them to insult them or anything like that throw rocks at them but says if you're going to act like an animal you have to be treated like one you're going to do whatever you want whenever you want as if there's no God I have to treat you like that that's it you chose you chose to be a hodi you chose not to be a Yodi why because you removed God from your life so when a person decides to smoke drink and get drunk and alter their State of Mind by choice Hashem says you're not getting the point you're not getting the point of who created you you're not getting the point of who's in front of you I can't love you as much as I'm supposed to love you because we don't really have a real relationship we don't have a real relationship you're treating me the creator of all creations as if I'm not even there but if you're one of the righteous that you're not going to even get drunk Hashem says the opposite he says you are one of the people I love you why you get the point you get the point you realize that you have to have your mind intact at all times to connect to me and then last last but not least he says someone who doesn't insist on his due measure if a person upsets you it's very normal for us to return in kind somebody yells at you you want to yell at it back second somebody yells at you you want to yell at them back Hashem says if somebody embarrasses you in public if some somebody gives you a reason gives you a reason to respond to them in kind in a very negative way but you don't because you know that it came for me you're also one of the people that I love why because you realize that it came from me because you are merciful and because you had mercy on him and you didn't insult him back you didn't embarrassing him back you forgave him I'll forgive you last story then you can ask whatever questions you want any of you heard ofad Shalom so I heard a story a dear friend of mine sent me a story today about that David said he saw he witnessed the story himself said over 25 years ago somebody that called himself a rabbi went on a radio and started publicly insulting one of thead Kad was he lived no less than 110 years some people say over 120 years no one actually knows how old he was once you're at 100 no one counts anymore some say he was 100 for at least years no one knows how old he was but he was K and always focused on T focused on focused on somebody very special one day Sam rash comes on the radio on the so-called religious Network radio and starts publicly insulting Ki now at this time he's again he's over 100 years old the whole world agrees he's one of the and this rash starts insulting him saying this saying that all types of public insults son hears this on the radio minutes after it's finished son calls he says do you hear what happened the radio goes yeah I'm actually hearing it right now he goes can you believe this this guy what he did to my father what he says he says yeah he goes listen we have to talk to your father put a to put this guy he says no problem we just have to ask your father first the one that was insulted we have to tell him that's what we're going to do he goes no problem let's go to my father so they go toad they go to his bet midash and you see he's teaching about 15 20 people cabal all old men all serious people they all learning from and they're waiting patiently eventually he gets their attention what he what happened he says listen we're sorry to tell you this Rabbi so and so publicly insulted you he said this he said that he said this so K Smiles really what did he say what did he say about me no we don't want to we don't want to say it's not it's not nice for the to repeat this R's things no no no please tell me tell me tell me what did he say I want to know what he said so they start telling him what he says and they see kad's face light up like he's getting compliments and he's giggling he said this about me like he's giving him a compliment wow he said this about me oh he said this about me like as if he's giving it's curses and this and that wow he said this about me wow wow like he's whole face lights up with happiness and joy so after they finish telling him like they're in shock he like well we want to go to and put him on they're not even show what they're asking go no don't even tell please everything he did is perfectly great great fantastic don't tell leave it as is don't see a single word this is how they left and they looked from the outside to see maybe he'll change phase maybe this he went back to studying with the same joyful face happy gol lucky as if he got the greatest gift he ever got in 120 years why he knows if somebody disrespected him somebody cursed him somebody yelled somebody this it came from Hashem as a test and it's his opportunity to overcome to overcome a big obstacle you overcome it Hashem says I love you I love you you forgive him you're not even upset you're actually know exactly for me you are one of the people I love you're one of the people I love and for that who wouldn't smile questions [Music]