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without
the truth is clear.
Everybody goes on.
is waiting. His mercy is the gates will
close
the sins. Throw the lies away.
Only for us.
The truth is clear.
We're back here on our Sunday night
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the Torah foundation based on tonight's
shu is going to be for the
and all of the foratana
and all of AmI is and all the righteous
nohides that continue to learn with us,
continue to support the organization
continue to become bigger and bigger in
the world of hashem with each and every
single sh as they apply to their lives.
We have so much to learn, so much to do
and will succeed will succeed in doing
so. Uh I'm not sure if there's going to
be a shim next week. I have another uh
surgery.
Uh but we'll try to accomplish as much
as we can this week. Uh so with that
being said, what moves you? What does it
mean what moves you? In the past week,
but it was in a different uh lecture,
the uh stump the rabbi,
we talked about the uh unfortunate
situation that we have in the world
today, which is cash advance, a corrupt,
predatory lending industry that is
unfortunately very popular today. But
don't think for a moment this is the
only industry that there is corruption
and there is uh terrible things. I
mention it over and over again. Number
one, because I'm the only one that's
talking about it, and number two, uh
because it is such a big problem within
the uh so-called Froom community. I when
I went into the office of the uh
merchant cash advance boys uh over there
and uh unfortunately uh the vast
majority of them look like they were
wearing a keepa and tit. And uh this is
not the first time or uh you know that I
found out that it's mostly uh religious
people. I've been saying this all along.
So we talked about how the business is
destroying people's lives, how it is a
corrupt business and uh quite frankly
merciless. There's simply no mercy.
Now
this stems from people confusing
ambition with lust. They think that
their lust is ambition.
And we have to find out where does this
stem from. The
takes us into a deeper inspection of our
hearts and how the heart not only can
affect our behavior
but how the heart's behavior can affect
how Hashem behaves with us.
With guidance of the holy sages,
we will learn a lot because this is not
just about the cash advance. This is
about each and every single one of us
that sometimes forgets that a little
mercy goes far. So the told us in the
last segment about how
simply from reason you could understand
how there's an obligation to investigate
your heart and see how you're serving
Hashem, why you even doing the mitzvot.
you know, many people uh are following
the laws of Torah, whether it's Shabbat
or it's the the holidays or it's giving
taka. One of the things that uh the the
guys that I met at the uh cash advance
business keep repeating to me over the
years, every single one of them almost
is that how much they give in daka as if
this is this makes everything kosher
because you give charity therefore you
could destroy people's lives. But that's
unfortunately not the case. There's no
permission to do a mitzvah by way of
sin. That's what says.
But now the is going to take it further.
And he says as follows. It's clear to me
that the duties of the limbs would not
be complete without the accompanying
will of the heart and soul to do them.
Without the heart's strong desire to
carry them out.
If one could imagine that our hearts
were not bound to embrace the desire and
desire the service of God, our limbs
could not be bound to perform the
commandments which are which were
obligated to perform. For no act is
complete if the soul does not desire it.
Since clearly the creator has obligated
our limbs to perform the commandments,
it would not then have been fitting for
him to ignore our souls and our hearts
which are our most noble parts and not
obligate them to serve him according to
their ability. For without heart and
soul, the service of God is incomplete.
We have therefore been assigned both
outward and inward duties so that our
service be whole and complete and both
our outer life and our inner life be
included in our devotion to the creator
may be exalted.
What is the
saying to us? First he told us that
we have to understand that in order to
serve Hashem we have to do it both
inwardly and outwardly. Outwardly is
towards the limbs which is you know
mitzvot that we do with our body prayer
fasting giving learning Torah the lavit
muza. But inwardly
is the heart.
Last week we discussed the outward
mitzvot. Why do you do the mitzvot?
Why do you put on a kipa? Why do you put
on tillin? Why do you do any of the
outward mitzvot?
And of course a person has to have a
spiritual connection to all of the
mitzvot.
But furthermore,
the is telling us that when the sages
told us that
that when a person sees that he has
problems
meaning to see whether you're doing what
Hashem said or not
to see what's the reason, what's the
motivation behind why you're doing it.
Are you doing it just because your
parents told you to do it or are you
doing because you're trying to connect
to a
So now that we're digging deeper into
the
that we're looking deeper into the
mitzvot the cause the the the reason the
rationale behind doing them other than
trying to fit into the community other
than trying to get into the yeshiva
other than trying to look like a bal
chuva or a from person or rabbi or
whatever you are.
We have to dig deeper and he says that
it's clear
that the duties of the limbs that we
talked about the suka the fasting the
charity and everything else would not be
complete
without an attachment of heart and soul
to them.
Why?
Because without the heart's strong
desire to carry them out, a person
simply would not be able to achieve. In
so many words,
if your heart does not desire it, you
will not succeed in it. A person can
say, listen, I want to study today 5
hours, 10 hours, 12 hours, 15 hours,
but right before he sits down to study,
all of a sudden somebody turns on the
game. All of a sudden, somebody says,
"Let's go out to eat." All of a sudden,
something is distracting him.
And if his heart is not in desiring to
learn the Tawra,
he's going to watch the game. He's going
to have a drink with his friends. He's
going to play one of his games or
whatever it is that is steering him
away. Yeah, but what about the fact that
you said you wanted to study all week?
You've said you wanted to study for 12
hours.
Yeah, I wanted to
but the heart wasn't there.
The heart wasn't there.
In seph
in chapter one verse number 24
we see the difference between theim
our forefathers
and us
and how they had complete control over
their heart.
David Melik is chased by Shaul
with an enormous army of 3,000 soldiers.
Soldiers that are literally looking
forward to destroying their king's enemy
Davidid. Even though Davidid was a
sadik, but if their king Shaul says he's
a he's an enemy, then they're looking
forward to killing him.
Davidid
knows that the Torah promises
that
if he is innocent
told him, I'll put I'll bring your enemy
into your hands.
And one of the times
that Sha chases after Davidid,
David does not try to fight back.
He hides
in one of the places.
The prophet tells us that Shaul's camp
of soldiers
parks and rests and Shaul goes to
relieve himself. And since Shaul was a
righteous person
that was making a mistake, it didn't
negate his righteousness. He was very
very modest. So he went deep into a cave
to go relieve himself.
Inside that cave was where Davidid was
hiding with his soldiers. Meaning that
Davidid had the opportunity of a
lifetime to rid himself
of his enemy. And according to the
Torah, he was allowed to
was he's trying to kill you. You're
allowed to kill him first.
But Davidid's heart
wanted to kill.
But David's heart didn't want to kill.
There's confusion here. Wait, Shaul is
righteous.
So, how could it be? So, what did the
Vid do?
He says, "Let's see. Let's see how my
heart feels after I just cut off his
tit.
If it goes smoothly
and I feel I
can kill him, I'll kill him. David was a
warrior. Knew all types of martial arts,
was an extraordinary warrior. He didn't
need any help from any soldiers.
Davidid goes
and cuts the tit of Sha,
but his heart tells him
this is not it. You're allowed to kill
him.
You don't need to.
as as
said to
God will fight your wars but you shall
remain silent.
David then uses this corner of tit that
he ripped out that he cut off
to show Shaul as Shaul walks away from
the cave.
Look, I could have killed you.
If I was really your enemy, I would have
killed you.
Shaul cries and realizes his mistake.
The midash says about
that we learned about in last week's
parot
that is a rash.
In section number 67,
it tells us the difference between the
Rash and Sadik
says that
said in his heart, he spoke to his heart
that he wanted to kill Yakov.
It also says that Yuan
spoke in his heart to do evil.
In migil it says that Haman spoke in his
heart meaning that the heart
controlled the actions.
On the other hand that sadikim
like David
spoke
to his heart.
Meaning that instead of the heart
speaking to him, David told his heart
what to feel
spoke to our heart.
Daniel the prophet or the in other
places says he's not a prophet spoke to
angels. Regardless of which one it is,
Daniel
spoke to his heart. Meaning he told his
heart what to feel,
what to do.
And the is telling us here
that if the heart does not desire,
the limbs will not do.
And if one could imagine that our hearts
were not bound to embrace the desire and
service of God, our limbs could not then
be bound to perform the commandments
which were obligated to perform. For no
act is complete if the soul does not
desire it.
So when a person says
listen I want to do good.
I want to do good
but yet they do bad.
There's a problem
means that
you want to do good
is just words.
And the midrash
says in the name of
there are six things meaning six organs
of the body that serve the person.
Three of them are under the person's
control and three of them are not under
his control.
The eye, the ear and the nose are not
under a person's control. For a person
sees what he does not wish to see. He
hears what he does not wish to hear. And
he smells what he doesn't wish to smell.
Everybody understands.
You're walking in the street. You're
trying to protect your eyes, but some
woman that forgot to wear her clothes
before she left the house is in your
line of sight. Of course, you can
control yourself and look away, look
down,
but that first look is not in your
control.
or somebody works in an office
and since he did cha
he wants to not only protect his mouth
and not say vulgar lang use viral
language but he also doesn't want to
hear it. So he doesn't listen to all the
songs and rap and all the garbage that
he used to listen in the past, but he
goes to work.
In work, there's all types of people.
There's Jewish people, not Jewish
people,
religious people, non-religious people.
In the business world, they use foul
language.
Especially here in America,
every second word
is another vulgar language.
So he doesn't want to hear it. And one
of my students asked me, "What should I
do?" I said, "Nothing. This is business.
You want to go into business, that's
business. There's no way that you can
stop the world from using vulgar
language. You have to build yourself an
immune system, a spiritual immune system
of how to deal with it. Certainly, you
cannot use it yourself. Certainly you
cannot select something, choose
something, listen to something that you
know for sure is going to have it. But
to stop the world around you from doing
it, it's not possible. You just have to
build yourself an immune system.
Because this, the mid says, is not one
of those body parts that you can
control. You'll hear things you don't
want to hear.
And needless to say, smell. You go into
a store of perfume. Of course, you're
going to smell all types of perfume. But
even if you walk in the street, even if
you go to your office and you don't want
to smell the perfume that some immodest
woman is wearing,
if she passes next to you, you're going
to smell it whether you want to or not.
So, the mid says that these are three
things
that are beyond your control.
What you can control is how you react to
it.
But what is what is within your control,
says the midrash, the mouth, the hand,
and the foot are under a person's
control.
If a person wishes his mouth
can toil in Torah,
but if he wishes so, it can engage in
malicious speech.
He could either use his mouth to teach
or to make fun of rabbis.
He could use his mouth to say blessings
for people or make fun of people.
He could either give people compliments
or say
that's within his control.
If the person wishes his mouth could
even disgrace and blaspheme God, says
the midash.
Yes, that same mouth that's supposed to
learn Torah, teach Torah, give blessings
can be used to go against his creator.
This is a side note. The has
an interesting story about
asked,
"How come you didn't give us two mouths
so one of them can eat and the other one
can learn Tawra?" Because you're
supposed to say the words that you're
reading and move your mouth. Not just
when you're praying, but also when
you're studying Torah.
says to look how much
comes out of people's mouths when
there's only one mouth. If I would have
given them two mouths,
the only thing that one of those mouths
would be doing will be if not both of
them.
Meaning that
just because you have the tool doesn't
mean you're going to use it the right
way.
Similarly, the hand the hand is under a
person's control. For if he wishes, his
hand can perform the commandments.
He gives the
he could help somebody.
He could do good things with the hand.
But if he wishes, he could use his hand
to steal.
He could even use his hand to murder.
And likewise the foot
where under a person's foot if he wishes
his foot can take him to theaters and
circuses and all types of immodest and
immoral places or places of late salut
of scuffers.
But if he wishes his foot can take him
to the synagogue and to the bet midrash
the study halls.
But at a time when a person merits, the
holy one, blessed is he, makes those
limbs that are normally in one's control
into limbs that are out of one's
control.
All of this I read for the purpose of
the last one. What does it mean? What
does it mean that if a person merits
then Hashem will use those limbs in such
a way that he takes away control?
Who wants Hashem to take away control of
his hands, of his
mouth, of his feet?
Explain
if a person merits
means
not your limbs and your mouth and your
legs but your enemies
but your enemies.
Because when the wicked seek to do harm
to a person and use their limbs against
that person that's loyal to Hashem,
Hashem removes their control over their
limbs, leaving them unable to harm the
righteous person.
And the Midrash gives a couple of
examples from the Torah.
when it came to the hand
stretched out his hand upon the altar
saying seize him and his hand that he
had stretched out towards the prophet
became paralyzed. This is in Kings 1
13:4
he wanted to kill the prophet that
rebuked him and Hashem showed him the
prophet is right and you are the one
that's wrong.
When it came to the mouth,
it said he really got upset with
initially with Yakov stealing the
blessing.
But instead of
saying something against Yakov, what
came out of his mouth? Indeed, he shall
be blessed.
Even was treated in a way to protect
Yakov, his son.
When it comes to the foot says, "My
child, do not walk in the way with them.
Withhold your feet from their pathway
for their feet run to harm."
See here, Abu Tai, we see how can take
control over those limbs that are in
essence usually under a person's
control.
And for those that are questioning,
wait, how could the Midas say that
thatu
was in essence treated as if he's
momentarily an enemy of his own son.
Simple
thought that Isab was a Sadik.
He thought that Isab was really a
righteous person. And only until Hashem
unveiled his eyes and showed him who's
the righteous one and forced him in
essence to bless Yakov did not know.
Now,
just so you know,
as a side note,
certainly there's going to be people
that
either misunderstand or
manipulate the Torah in ways that they
say, "Wait, so okay, so maybe Hashem is
the one that caused me to sin, or maybe
Hashem is the one that did this or did
that, and therefore I don't deserve
punishment like the heretics say."
And the Midrash Rabba says in section
67,
Part four
in the name of
anyone who says that the holy one
blessed is he is disregarding of sin
his inards shall be disregarded meaning
he will forfeit his life you will die
why because he's teaching people to sin
says the
rather
expresses his mercy in a way that he
delays the punishment
but ultimately he collects his due
for every single thing that a person
does against Hashem he will be punished
and even
if the midash didn't say this I wouldn't
be allowed to say it even
got PUNISHED
FOR MAKING A cry
where it says that Yakov caused Asav to
cry a single cry. It was a big cry.
When Asav heard his father's words, he
cried out an exceedingly great and
bitter cry.
And the Midrash proves the POINT OF HOW
EXACTING au is with reward and
punishment. He says, "Yeah, I PUNISHED
MY SON YAKOV." HOW DO YOU PUNISH YOUR
SON? Yakov says, do you guys remember
there's Pim in Pim?
There's migrat
is a story where amarly got annihilated
by
part of the reason of why the generation
deserved the midatin
was because of what HAPPENED WITH JACOB.
HE MADE A SAV CRY. EVEN though he did
what his mom, the prophet that Sadik
told him to do, still
that suffering
still warranted
that decree. And the Midash says in
Shushan, the capital of the Persian
Empire, it says and Modai learned all
that he had all that had been done and
he cried a loud and bitter cry. This is
in Megatel chapter 4 verse number one.
Meaning that just like you made a sav
cry, I'll make your children cry
many years later.
So from here we see
how exacting a is.
So what does that have to do with taking
over the limbs of a person?
When
the
told us
that
if the heart
is not there, the limbs won't follow.
That also means
that if somebody's limbs are doing
something,
that means the heart desires it. It
doesn't matter what you say.
So if you're doing dishonest business,
if you are bad to people, you're bad to
your family, you're bad to your wife,
you're bad to your husband, whatever
you're doing,
that means there is some type of
deformity within your heart.
Now why would somebody
care so much about that?
Aside from not wanting to be evil,
because there's a loss.
There's a great loss for being wicked.
Years ago,
there was a extraordinary
one of the
who
went through the Holocaust.
in a way that
story is unbelievable.
Let's just say that if it wasn't one of
saying the story, it'd be hard to
believe
because the says that
if a person cheats, if a person lies, if
a person does anything bad to anybody
else,
they'll pay for it.
But furthermore, if a person is
righteous
will protect them. In fact says init
page number 23 that when a person
deserves a harsh punishment due to his
sins, he made some type of sin and
therefore Hashem needs to punish him.
But because Hashem has so much mercy on
a person, he sends him a poor person
to knock on his door to give him a
chance to earn mercy.
When
was in the Holocaust,
one of the most vicious things the Nazis
immig
holes in the ground as their own grave
and then they would kill them.
And one of those times
they had a group of people. Among them
was
the young Bahworth
digging a hole.
Each time they finished after they all
finished digging the holes,
the Nazis imam shot one after the other.
And before they got to
prayed to
prayed to the trade of mercy
and said,
"Remember
what I DID FOR THAT BLIND boy in the
yeshiva
and let me use that merit in this world
so I can live.
And suddenly
when the Nazi evil
coldblooded murderer
gets to
as he's pointing the gun at him, he
looks at him
and doesn't shoot.
says, "You pretend
to fall in the hole
and I'll shoot into the air and then you
run away."
And that's exactly what happened. Mash
as a took over this German murderer's
entire body for the sake of the Sadik.
But what did he do for the blind boy?
explains
that when he was in yeshiva,
there was a blind bahul.
When this boy came to the yeshiva that
first night, it was late at night.
It's 2:00 in the morning. There was no
more beds.
And the kid couldn't see where to go.
All the other boys are sleeping in their
bed and he sees this poor boy walking
around not knowing where to go.
Can't see.
Says,
"I brought him to my bed and he slept on
my mattress. He slept on my bed and I
slept on the floor.
And every day
whenever he needed something
he would call me to take him to the
bathroom, to take him to the bet midash
to learn
every day.
How much time did
spend on helping this poor man, this
poor boy? I don't know. Every day, five
times a day, 10 times a day. But at the
end of it all, who did more for who?
Not even in the wildest nightmares did
think that he's going to be in the
Holocaust, that he's going to be digging
his own grave. And certainly
he didn't realize that this mitzvah,
this mercy for another Jew
is going to save his life.
He ended up escaping
going to Antworp,
becoming the chief rabbi over there,
becoming one of He only died about 20
years ago, 25 years ago
from what? from
using the mercy that he had
on another person
to benefit him.
He was having mercy on the boy
because it's a Jewish heart. HOW COULD I
NOT HAVE A MERCY on somebody else?
He didn't realize that there was a
decree in Shamine
at that moment already BEFORE HE CAME TO
THE world
that he was going to be in a holocaust.
And therefore the Zados says
because he was righteous because he was
doing good I gave him an opportunity to
get out of it. How? I sent him a poor
man to knock on his door
to see if he takes advantage of the
opportunity and saves himself.
Many times
people listen to the shim
and they hear
the general rebuke that goes on
but they don't know how to apply it to
themselves.
They don't know how to apply to
themselves. They think that if we're
talking about being merciless
in the cash advance business or other
corrupt businesses, therefore this
applies to those bad people.
But the truth of the matter is this
applies everywhere.
If a person has no mercy in his own
house,
then his children are going to learn
that.
Then his wife will suffer, the husband
will suffer, everyone that's involved
will suffer.
So much so that the says that a person
has to exercise extreme caution
not to verbally distress his wife
because a woman was created in such a
way that she is sensitive
and therefore she cries quickly and
heaven speedily responds to her. Meaning
he could have a car accident, he could
have a loss of money, he could have
major problems.
Why? NOT BECAUSE HE'S A BAD DRIVER, NOT
BECAUSE HE'S A BAD BUSINESSMAN, but
because he made his wife cry for no
reason.
The page 62b
says
shocking story about one of the great
sadikim of the generation,
Raumi.
Raumi
was so devoted to the Torah
that he only came home once a year
on Yum Kipu.
And his wife
who agreed to this who was willing to
have her dear husband study Torah all
year and to see him only on Yum Kipu.
But one day
he was so glued to the Torah
that he forgot
that it's time to go home. It's that one
day of the year.
And when his wife saw that he did not
come home,
she cried.
And at that moment that the tear came
out of her eyes, a kadosh took
a cinder block from the ceiling and
dropped it on him and he died. Some say
that the ground itself opened up and he
died. Either way, he died a horrible
death.
And the says this is BECAUSE OF THIS.
YEAH, BUT HE WAS RIGHTEOUS. HE WAS
STUDYING TORAH. YES. BUT he he made his
wife cry unnecessarily.
Another
story of a sadik told by one of the
in Israel, the chief rabbi of Mala who
brings us up another story from the
story of one of the fathers of Msiah
Boaz.
Everybody knows the story of Bos and
Ruth.
From there it becomes David Devidame.
But Ruth was the second wife of Bos.
She was the second wife of Vos. And his
first wife he had 60 children, 30 boys,
30 girls.
But Manor
didn't have any kids.
And therefore, boss thought that
if I invite him to the weddings, he's
going to feel bad cuz he doesn't have
any kids. He's going to have to give me
gifts and I don't have to give many
gifts. He has no kids. So, he thought
for his benefit,
I'm not going to invite him to any of
the weddings. 60 weddings.
He was trying to do something right
but man took IT TO HEART. WHY DOESN'T
BOS invite me
and
is exact with
to such an extent that Boaz suffered
seeing all 60 of his children die during
his lifetime for what? for not inviting
man
to the weddings.
This is
page 91A
meaning
sometimes a person can misplace their
mercy. Sometimes a person can forget it.
Sometimes a person can make a mistake.
And if Hashem is exact is exacting with
the needless to say, what about us?
A person can think, well, okay, fine.
Weddings, I don't have any kids or I'll
invite everybody,
my wife, I'll try to be nicer.
How does this apply to every day?
says that one of the and also says it
one of the great things that a person
can do is go to sh be the first one of
the minyan one of the worst things one
can do is be the last is be uh um the
first one to leave
don't run away but what about the last
few people if you're the last one in sh
it's a great merit
what about in a situation where there's
only two
And both of them came to shul together.
If two people came to shul together
and one finished praying before the
other
page 58
says that if the if one of them leaves
and doesn't wait for his friend
rejects all of his prayers.
You had no compassion for your comrade.
you didn't wait for him.
So, I'm not going to have compassion for
you.
Meaning, this is not just about the This
is not just about the people that are
mentioned in the Torah and the Tanakh.
This is every single day.
Every single day, it affects us. A
person that forgets to have mercy
is going to have a very very difficult
life. Why?
Not only is that special protection
that got
not going to happen to them.
But a heart, a Jewish heart without
mercy
is going to make mistakes that can bring
judgment on them.
Now
says in Shuva
in the third gate section number 36
that a person has to remove
all cruelty out of his heart.
All cruelty has to be removed from your
heart.
So when says that the body doesn't work
unless the heart is behind it
and your body is working doing bad
things that means that the heart is
following it. That means you have not
removed the cruelty from your heart. If
you are cheating in your business, if
you're cheating on your spouse, if
you're simply a disastrous type of human
being to certain people, but not all the
time, that means there's still cruelty
within your heart. IF YOUR WIFE cries
every week because of you. If your
children are constantly crying because
you are simply a mean father, mean
mother, not because you're rebuking them
because you're trying to do and help
them and and educate them, but rather
because you're simply mean,
then guess what? There's cruelty in your
heart. If your customers are one-time
customers
because you're a cruel person and you
hurt all of your customers,
that means there's cruelty in your
heart.
If you want to save, yes, but I'm good
husband. I'm a good wife. I'm a good
father. I'M A GOOD MOTHER. IT'S JUST
THAT IN business
I'm making so much money. I CAN'T MAKE
THAT MUCH MONEY ANYWHERE ELSE. YES, but
you're cruel to people. Your customers
are suffering. You're ruining their
lives.
S. But I'll I'LL FIX IT BY GIVING TAKA.
NO. NO. You're not understanding. Having
a cruel heart
brings an enormous
price with it. And the same raen says in
the second gate in section number 18,
know that the soul of the wicked, the
soul whose desire is only for the
cravings of the body during its
lifetime,
a desire divorced from the divine
service and thus a soul separated from
its roots.
When it dies, it descends to the earth
to the place of its desire. You desired
materialism. Hashem brings you back to
materialism,
taking on the quality of dust,
shimishmo,
which descends and does not rise.
Nonetheless, it is brought to heaven to
be tried and judged,
and that it may view how it is exchanged
heaven for sha.
the way a stone ascends when thrown from
a slingshot. It's talking about kafaka
meaning if you are in a
business or simply living a style a a a
lifestyle that
is simply materialistic to the point
where all you do is influenced by your
addiction to material.
Expect kafaka.
Why? Apparently
in Shimad said this is the puzzle piece
that fits this board.
After the souls are sent to heaven, it
will naturally fall back to earth. Just
like the stone plummets back to earth
when its thrust is spent as the verse in
Alif 25:29 says, "May the Lord's soul be
bound to the bond of life with Hashem
your God and may he fling the soul of
your enemies as one flings a stone from
a slingshot." Our sages said concerning
this ina
both the souls of the righteous and the
souls of the wicked ascend above and are
judged there. The souls of the righteous
that sadikim are judged as worthy and
are secreted beneath the throne of glory
while the souls of the wicked descend
once again scattered to the earth just
as the verse says may fling the soul of
your enemies.
And that's why said in Mishap 11:7, when
an evil person dies, hope is lost. For
there is no hope that the soul of the
wicked will emerge from darkness to
light. As it says concerning the wicked
man's soul in Taim 49:20, go to the
generation of his ancestors, they will
see no light for eternity. This also
addresses the heretical
statements of people that say that
everyone gets the same punishment no
matter what the crime is 12 months. It's
not the truth. It's not true.
Now,
how does a person
start working
on removing cruelty from their heart?
Cruelty that they see leads them to
making people cry. Cruelty that leads
them to being corrupt in their business.
Cruelty that leads them to going against
their creator and being ungrateful. He
gave you seven days a week and command
you to observe Shabbat and you simply
ignore. You disregard.
He tells you to eat as long as it's
kosher. You dk eat non-cosher. He tells
you you have one spouse, be loyal to
that spouse. You cheat anyway. He tells
you protect your eyes from immorality,
from immodesty. You da look anyway
says as follows
in name of
anyone who contemplates the following
four points will no longer sin.
One, from where does he come from?
Two, to where is he going? Three, what
he's destined to be. And four, who his
judges,
where he comes from, a place of
darkness, his mother's womb. Where he's
going, to a place of darkness and gloom,
to the grave. Eventually, everybody
dies.
What is he destined to be? Dust, worm,
and maggots.
And who is the judge?
The one who reigns over kings. The holy
one. Blessed is he.
Soishim bazal
adds to this
by saying as follows.
A person can think that they're a big
shot. because they made a lot of money,
because people listen to them, because
they're popular, because they have
likes, and therefore they'll say,
"Listen, if it wasn't Hashem's will
what I'm doing, then I wouldn't be
successful."
Wrong. That's just arrogance telling you
that. That's just the satan telling you
that.
And that arrogance
will make you pay even further.
And says, I'll give you an analogy.
about your body.
What is it like? What is it comparable
to?
Imagine there's a king
and the king builds a huge palace
and he puts many servants in the palace.
Of course, he wants to show off this
palace to all of the other kings, to all
of the other people.
Such a majestic, beautiful place. But
right before everybody shows up,
a sewage pipe
blows up right AT THE GATE OF THE
PALACE,
pouring out all of the filth of the
entire city, right at the entrance.
And of course, everybody there that
comes and sees this says, "Well, it's
beautiful, but
smells. It's disgusting. It would be so
much better if the sewage pipe
wouldn't pass through it."
Says,
"A person is just like this.
The reason a kadosh made him this way is
that if even now that the foul spring of
waste pours through
from his inerts, he still acts
arrogantly towards other people.
Then if he would have been made to
produce an aromic uh meaning if he's
still arrogant despite the fact that he
has in essence a sewage pipe in his
body. Everything that he eats comes out
filthy.
Then imagine if Hashem would have
created that everything that comes out
of the body would have smelled good.
In so many words created us in this way
in order to remind us
not to be arrogant, not to be cruel,
not to think that we are above the law,
not to think that the world needs to
comply with our will no matter what our
will is.
And the
is trying to guide us into different
chambers of our heart
to let us know
that yes obligated our limbs to perform
the commandments.
And because he obligated our limbs from
there we learned that he also obligated
our hearts. Because if we do the service
of
without thinking about it
then even the service of is not a
service of
meaning you cannot go up to shm and say
well I didn't know there's no such thing
that you didn't know
gave you a mind he gave you a mind you
use that mind to study law study
architecture study mathematics study
science study all types of things. Why
didn't you study while you were in this
world?
No, but uh I I went to sh.
Did Hashem say that you
finish all of the obligations there by
just going to pray? Are you praying
because God needs you to pray or you
praying because you need something from
God?
If you think God needs you, then why
pray at all?
But if you're praying to God because you
know you need him, then how come you
didn't think about what did he command
you?
You keep asking for stuff. Obviously,
if he's in charge of everything you
need, you need to comply with what he
commanded you.
WHY DIDN'T YOU THINK ABOUT THAT?
When he said in the ten commandments,
don't steal,
why did you think you're allowed to
steal? When he said in the ten
commandments, don't commit adultery, why
did you commit adultery?
So, a person cannot say
that, no, everything's okay. If if if
God didn't want me to do this, then then
he would have stopped it. No, he gives
you free choice. You could do whatever
you want. You're just going to have to
pay the bill.
you're gonna have to pay the bill.
And this is all
common sense. That's not so common.
If you're already religious,
you study, you study hum, you put a
keepa on, you act modest,
and yet you allow yourself to be in a
business or in a lifestyle that is
constantly hurting other people.
That means that you have turned your
heart into a heart of stone.
So stories like of Christworth where
Hashem literally manipulated somebody's
body just for the sake of saving the
Sadik, don't expect that on yourself. If
there's a sickness, DON'T EVEN BOTHER
PRAYING FOR A CURE.
If the judgment starts to come, don't
think that say, "No, no, you know what?
We'll make a miracle for this guy. We'll
make a miracle for her." No, no, you
ruined it.
You were merciless on other people. Why
would you expect Hashem to be merciful
on you?
Without a heart and soul, the service of
Hashem is incomplete.
And that's why the says to us,
everyone understands that we have to
serve Hashem outwardly.
by giving, by doing the mitzvot, sukkot
and everything else. And from that
we should arrive at a very clear
conclusion
that our inards also require
to be part of that service. We can't
just claim ignorance.
We can't just say no, somebody said it's
okay.
Just like before you fulfilled any of
the mitzvot,
you found out about them. Can I just buy
any or it has to be a specific type of
can I buy any type of or does it have to
fit a specific type of can I BUILD MY
SUKA ANYWHERE OR IT HAS TO FIT certain
laws?
Every one of the laws that commanded us
requires study, requires thought
process, requires following a set of
rules.
So if all of that is required for the
outward service of Hashem, then needless
to say, we have to investigate our
hearts
and see where our heart lies,
literally where it's lying to us.
A person can't just go through this
world thinking that they're a you know
perfect
you know in every way and only the
obvious things
only the obvious things are things they
need to fix.
You have to look, you have to think
what kind of fruits are my actions
producing
in business, in marriage, in parenting,
in in in everything. What kind of fruits
are coming out of me? Are they all
filthy like the sewage pipe THAT BLEW UP
IN FRONT OF THE PALACE?
Or are there some good things?
My business is helping people. My
marriage makes my spouse happy. My
parenting is working because my kids are
all righteous.
Look at the fruits
and you'll find out what kind of tree
what kind of tree came from. And
needless to say, look at the quality of
the fruits and you'll know what kind of
roots that tree had.
This
is all common sense.
That's uncommon.
Because from our holy Torah
that very very few people realize
if it's not for the Torah we would be
worse than animals.
This is what we can learn today. I think
it's more than enough for each and every
single person to investigate their life.
every part of it. Your marriage, your
work, your parenting, being a If you're
a child and you have parents, are you
making your parents constantly happy or
you're making them sad all the time? If
you're making your MOM AND DAD CRY all
the time, THEN YOU'RE NOT A GOOD KID.
YOU HAVE to fix it.
You have to fix it. Why? Because if you
don't fix it, the damage you cause
others, you're going to bring on
yourself. And the damage when it comes
to you, it's much worse.
It's good to be good not because
of just helping other people by the good
that you do
but rather also because when you do good
in accordance to Hashem you get good
from Hashem
and no one can hurt you even if they
want to
because fight your wars for you
fight your wars for
May be his will that each and every
single person that watches this shares
this with countless people.
So at least every single person has 10,
20, 30 people that could potentially do
chuva.
Not just for the obvious mitzvot,
but even for the things that are often
ignored
and simply thought that they're not
relevant.
This is what distinguishes us
from everyone else.
A Jew has signs.
One of them is a merciful heart.
If you're finding yourself without a
merciful heart,
then
you left your Judaism at the door. We
can't be like the idol worshippers that
call themselves the religion of mercy
while they murder people for 2,000 years
just for not being the same religion
they are.
Amil has to be really truly the the
nation of of mercy.
If we
simply ignore
everything
but our own lust, but our own will,
we're hurting each other and we're
hurting ourselves.
I'll give you another couple of stories
that really
put thing in perspective.
It was a
bah
that uh came to Rab Frame wanted to
learn. He was really really bright.
Robert Fry tested him on the whole shas
we had a whole program with him and he
told him listen I want you to really
help my brother. What happened with your
brother? He says my brother is a goon.
He's a genius, but something happened to
him in the yeshiva
that he left everything. He's still
religious, but he could have been he
could still be something very special.
And this is the story.
Not only the story, but also showing you
how a sadik is a sadik.
This young boy
was doing really well in shisha. He's a
good learner,
good midot, righteous person.
But of course,
some people are not so righteous.
Some people are jealous.
And one of the other kids in the school
was very jealous of him. So he decided
to spread a false rumor about him.
Well, this rumor got to the rabbis, was
a horrible rumor
and the rabbis made a mistake without
investigating things and they told him,
"You have to leave the yeshiva."
And this
practically broke the boy. He was such a
good learner. He was doing so well. Why
do they believe this? Well, they made a
mistake.
Years passed. You know this this young
man continued learning a little bit but
not in the same way. Learned how to be a
shet learned how to be a sufair but
stopped learning like he used to.
years passed
and one day
the his brother is sitting in the uh bus
stop and he hears the guy that's next to
him waiting for the bus on the phone.
He's talking to somebody
and he's really really upset.
He's telling, "Listen, I've been married
for a few years. Nothing. the doctor is
saying my wife can't have kids, I can't
have kids. They don't really know, but
they're saying it's it's just not
happening.
And I thought about it and I think it's
because I spread a false rumor about one
of the kids in in yeshiva years ago.
And because I did that to him, Hashem is
punishing me.
And he says the boy's name. As soon as
he says the boy's name, the brother
hears this.
And rightly so. He says to the guy, "You
know that kid that you spread a false
rumor on? That's my brother." No,
really? Yeah, that's my brother. He
goes, "Please, please. I'm trying to
reach him. I'm trying to find him. I
don't know where he is. Can you please
call him right now? I want to say I'm
sorry."
He calls his brother and his brother's
Sadik.
He forgives him.
A year later, he has a kid.
Now, he didn't have to forgive him all
the damage that he caused him, but I can
assure you his mercy on someone that
tried to destroy his life
will end up bringing endless fruits of
joy to him. Certainly the guy benefited
now he has a kid he got forgiveness
but that merciful heart
you can't just develop it overnight
you have to work on it every day to see
how your actions are affecting everybody
how your actions are affecting
everybody.
A person that has no mercy
will also be ungrateful.
A person that has no mercy will have a
terrible marriage. A person that has no
mercy
will have terrible relationships with
their children. A person that has no
mercy
will end up losing their
because if you don't have mercy, you're
the opposite of the attributes of
Hashem.
Mercy sounds good.
And many people think they have it.
If you want to check whether you have it
or not,
check the fruits that you produce
from your business, from your marriage,
from your parenting, from all the things
that you're involved in.
Do they look good? Do they look healthy?
Or is it just benefiting you?
If it's only a one-sided benefit,
you'll see that there's some lack of
mercy somewhere,
fix it
before it's too late.
Thank you very much for learning with
me. Hashem bless each and every single
one of you to apply this to your lives
to become more compassionate to become
more merciful and to become better
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