What Is HaShem Willing To Do For Shlom Bayit? (6 Minutes)

this is also the uh main thing that I heard with the uh with the people that told me that yes the point that we made about schom how people go to the uh grave of uh RAB nakan from breev and putting their schom B on the line and apparently this is not a this is not a new insight that I created this is reality a lot of people I've heard this before and I heard it again after I said it that uh many of the wives are very very unhappy that their husband are going to this grave site and praying while leaving their family behind on the main time that they have to spend together so again you may think that going there is a Mitzvah you may think it's going there praying with 30 40,000 Jews is a Mitzvah um being next to a righteous uh sadik that died is a Mitzvah you may think that but any real Rabbi will tell you it's not why because if your wife is unhappy then you're making a huge sin and we learn here in this week's Paras when in chapter 18 verse 12 after the malim the angels come to abam and tell him this time next year you're going to have a son it says and sah laughed at herself saying after I have withered shall I again have a delicate skin and my husband is old s is saying how am I GNA have a son she's laughing to herself how am I gonna have a son I'm old now and my husband's old so hasem said to abam why is that Sarah laughed saying shall I in truth bear a child though I have aged is anything beyond theem so here you see Hashem actually changed the truth Hashem changed What Sarah Said Sarah didn't say I'm old Sarah said my husband's old so what happened hasem forgot what happened so hasem is telling AB abah your wife says that she's old why because hem knows as the Creator knows his creation that if he tells the husband if he tells abah Listen by the way your wife said that you're old aam's going to take it to heart he's not going to like it well my wife thinks I'm old maybe she doesn't like me anymore maybe she going to look for somebody else a guy is always going to be jealous he be 150 years old still going to be jealous anyone that loves his wife has to be jealous obviously if you're righteous you have a certain you know you contain this jealousy but that's also the reason why a righteous husband will never let his wife walk around like a prostitute half naked and all that stuff never why why did you want to why do you want to share your diamond with the rest of the world for what what benefit do you get out of it that everybody has in their mind pictures of your wife naked this is what you want in your life and it hars the P also forget Thea people thinking about your wife naked is something wrong with you if you actually like that forget the P forget all the school forget all that stuff there's another guy in the world that thinks of your wife that is some there's something wrong with you if you're okay with that something wrong with you so aaham here is getting news from hasem that his wife thinks that she's old but she didn't say that she said he's old but Hashem is telling him that he changed the truth in essence we're only allowed to say because that's what happened it's it's written in the Torah Hashem lied he changed the truth for what for the purpose of schom bite because if you would would have told Abraham that his wife thinks he's old Abraham could be upset at his wife and it could create schom B issues that's how important schlom is Hashem himself wrote few verses in the Tor it's not a theory it's not like some P it's not some like commentary this is what's written here chapter uh 18 verse 12 and 13 literal Tora you don't need rash you don't need me you don't need you read it yourself this what it says so if Hashem decided that schom bite is so important that he is okay with signing off his name with something different from the truth you think that it's okay for anybody to go to some grave or some anywhere and put his slum bite on the line even for a second even for half a second you think this sadik in uman where his body is buried you think he wants you to put your SL bite on the line you think the rebbi from Lich thinks want wants you to put your bom the line by calling him mashia by calling him God by calling him whatever he's not it's complete nonsense people have to start learning Torah from the sages from and stop making up this cra craziness that they''re making up because it's mamash not doing anybody any good so with that being said we see that this week's par already teaches us a very very important life lesson number one if you want to have the blessing of hem in your life you must have schlom because hem himself obviously put his name on the line for it and also we talked about last week how in the uh the act of s hasm allows allowed us to erase his name for the sake of schite you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you by Torah anytime.com