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Three Problems with Being a Traditional Masorti Jew?

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Rabbi Yaron Reuven

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Tal oh you want Hebrew or English English English English because I heard today that uh the uh Rabbi from uh u u is perhaps the most powerful Jewish organization on planet Earth you know it's the K they do a lot of things a lot of good things if you're eating then you probably rely on them but they did something that uh everyone has to ask their question after you hear this they did something where they got 180,000 signatures of Jewish people leaders of some kind you know successful people and they send it to Biden to President Biden to influence him to uh become more friendly to the Jewish people now how many of you think that this is a good thing raise your hand good thing bad thing okay now if we look at what happened just about almost 80 years ago before the Holocaust we see Jewish leaders did exactly the same thing when the Germans the wanted to tell us that they don't like us what do they do they kicked us out they told us leave but the Jewish people didn't want to leave they didn't want to leave some left most people stayed why they have houses they have businesses they have cars they have this they have that they don't want to leave what they do they send letters to the president they send letters to the Press they sent letter us to all types of things and didn't it help us 6 million people died I don't think it helped so the question that you should have in your mind is what is more of something that will have more likely to succeed something that's more significant in the eyes of Hashem getting 180,000 Jewish people to sign a letter to say that we're not happy with the way things are going we're not happy that you've become virtually Muslim without becoming a she or to get one Jew to keep Shabbat one Jew to keep Shabbat versus 180,000 signatures now I don't have you don't have to answer me but if the answer that you gave in your mind even if it's not on purpose is 180,000 signatures according to the Torah you have a very serious problem according to you have a very serious problem why one Jew keeping Shabbat is worth more than this entire world put together the problem is that most people don't realize that not necessarily because they didn't go to Yesa even people that go to Yesa even the people that go to Yesa you know the people that got the 108,000 sign Church they want the Yesa they have yes so it's not necessarily a thing that you learn in Yesa there's a certain as there's a certain ideology that a person has to not only learn but they have to live by now there's many Jews today since October 7th have started to wake up and started realizing that uh perhaps life is not guaranteed not to anybody and uh they started listening to they started doing CH some people started keeping shabb so things are moving now when they start listening to sometimes they hear you know good things you're great you're wonderful Hashem loves you all that good stuff and sometimes they hear death penalty somebody that uh goes to a uh you know a party where girls and boys are dancing together according to the T death penalty uh somebody that worships money and goes and makes money on Shabbat instead of uh you know instead of going to SCH death penalty all types of death penalties a lot of threats a lot of threats in the Torah so he doesn't really like it I don't want to hear threats why can't the Torah be nice why can't hasem be nice to me just tell me I love you be like Santa Claus only comes one gives presents sounds a good deal so he likes presents so he doesn't like theab he doesn't like the all the things that say death penalty he doesn't like all the threats that we see in and pretty much every single par that we have in the T talks about these things the second par that a kid learns once he starts learning T he's five six years old first par the world is created second par the world is destroyed out in the most awful way possible so when a person hears some of these things it's like no no I look uh one of the of the generations giv me what do you guys have over here uh so when a person when a person uh hears the death penalty the punishments doesn't really like it so he wants to find a rabbi you know that we called in Hebrew mahmad what's RA mmad he only tells me things that I like he tells me he tells me he tells me loves you no matter what you do there's even a rabbi today it's one of the most popular Heretics on planet Earth but he's a rabbi uh and he says Hashem needs you not only hasem loves you hasem needs you meaning that after a mashia comes or after a person dies instead of you saying I'm sorry Hashem I screwed up a few things I did this I did this this no no no is going to say I'm sorry to you anybody here believe that according to him and over 500,000 people that listen to him that subscribe to his channels all of them believe that hasm needs him so we have a very serious very serious debate among one of the reasons we have this debate is because most people don't take t as seriously as they take the things that are part of their dayto life so when you tell them you need to learn T every single day say no why why do I have to be so stringent I'm already you know keeping the basics you know say is like you're cutting the with a every day every day you cut another mitvah so he says I go to sh I keep Shabbat I don't kill anybody last time I checked nobody caught me stealing uh you know and uh I'm doing okay so isn't that enough let's see if I asked you guys if you had a friend let's say everybody had a friend in school or somebody in school that was like the nerd you know wasn't like the popular guy wasn't the guy that everybody wanted to hang out with you know the guy that sometimes he had a little boogers coming out of his nose he wasn't really dressed with two different socks you know it wasn't it was like almost like the you know something Ty of flag for a Muslim country you're not even sure how did he pick these colors he was a little confused every picked on him you didn't think this guy's going to make it in life and you were the popular guy you were the guy you got the girls you got the car 17 years old you're driving with one hand even though two hands you really barely you could drive but you're driving you're hanging out you're the popular guy but this guy's a little nerdy he's barely going to make it out of high school 25 years 30 years have passed right you're driving you got a nice car $100,000 car $500,000 a million dollar house you feel good all of a sudden you run into a store you see this guy telling the people what to do who's this guy is a manager no what manager CEO what CEO CEO of who oh he CEO of the entire chain of stores you look this guy on the internet he's a billionaire the nerd with the little boogies and two different socks a multi-billionaire he doesn't drive cars they drive him he has planes to go from state to state just for fun to have lunch he goes to Paris just for the afternoon he has so much money he doesn't know what to do with it so he builds things is it going to hurt you a little bit is it going to bother you a little bit that this nerd has a little more than you you were the popular guy you were the smart one you got 100 on your math test you know how to add how to subtract today you just need to know how to use a calculator but this guy became a billionaire you were happy with your $100,000 car until you saw that he's driving a jet for $75 million you happy with your million dollar house until you realize that his basement cost more than yours you happy until you saw what he has so the truth is you were happy until you knew what was available so when it comes to money nobody's really happy why the says you give him 100 he wants 200 you give him 200 he wants 400 and nobody's ever going to die with even half of what he wants if he has a million he wants 2 million if he has 10 million he feels even more poor than the guy that has 1 million why cuz he wants 10 more million so in reality when it comes to money nobody is Happy he'll pretend he's happy you ask him how you doing he goes home he goes I can't believe it I can't believe they charge $500 for a fish but you have 500 you have $500 million you have $5 million you're complaining about $500 he's not happy why something is missing the problem is the missing is not money the missing part is not money he just doesn't realize it so when it comes to material a person looks at his life he's happy until he looks at his neighbor he's happy until he realizes what else is available people spend a Fortune of their time and their money reviewing what everybody else has how much was the contract that this athlete signed how much was the team sold for oh did you guys hear that this hedge fund manager bought a team for5 billion what do you care how much did he buy the team is he giving you free tickets is he giving you a dividend every year the team loses every year the team wins what do you care that he bought it for but people spend an enormous amount of time checking out the statistics the financial statistics of everybody you ask the guy listen what's the salary cap of the I don't know New York Lakers LA Lakers whatever their name is is what's the salary cap he'll tell you what's the top player in the league make he'll tell you he'll even tell you number two number three number four but this guy don't worry about it these guys only making the most money this year oh well how do you know no cuz next year this guy whatever his name is he's s he's renewing his deal for sure he's going to get $200 million you already know what the guy you're like a like a fortune teller you're going to tell people what he's going to make next year he asked the guy let me ask you a question how many in the do you know he said what how many in the you speak English yeah over there how many of the do you know what's a Duff he doesn't know what a Duff is okay forget Duff have you read any of the books no they look pretty though they're brand new why are they brand new why are they brand new because nobody uses it why are you a Jew because you have 500 $1 million because you have $5 million because you have $5 or because of because of rash because of the so she going say yeah no but I keep Shabbat I don't kill anybody I didn't get caught for stealing CU you can't say it don't steal because the says everybody steals why everybody steals I'm not a thief no but because you don't know the Torah you steal because you don't know T you steal why did you ever have an employee where this employee came to work for you and you had to get paid but you didn't feel like paying him but you paid him in the end but it was like a week later a week later you paid you paid the guy not a gav not like a highway robbery but you didn't feel like paying him today you paid him a week later a month later guess what for a week you're a thief every single second your life for that week you're a thief waiting in shab oh no no he was only a thief for a week it's okay it's okay he was only a thief for a week he's allowed to steal for a week you think there's any type of court in sh is going to say that the problem is when you don't know Tor you make a lot of violations that you don't know exist so now if I told you when you arrive at the bed of sham they're going to say it wasn't enough to just pray it wasn't enough to just keep Shabbat and not kill anybody a person say okay but uh what I have to become a rabbi who else should have become a rabbi the says there's a between and his Rabbi says that all of have a share of the world to come says yes but that's is yes if they're considered part of is they have share of the world to come but the says in five places and also you have the r says in Chapter 30 last he says a Jew that violates Shabbat on purpose drives to drives to synagogue on on Shabbat like we have in Florida I don't think you guys have that problem over here but in Florida we have people drive to SCH they drive to SCH on Shabbat I saw one time guy drive to sh 5 o' in the morning you want to pray Nets so you drove to sh on Shabbat at 5 o' in the morning and you see the guy coming out with the seat happy like and you don't nobody tolds him no one told him for 20 years he's driving to no one told him he's not drive on Shabbat so when I told the guy you're not let drive on shab he goes well I'm going to go to sh I said don't go to sh I'm Jewish I said yes Ten Commandments doesn't have number one believe in God number two don't you no no it doesn't say go to sh there's no number three number four number five go to sh but there is number four keep Shabbat don't drive on Shabbat no one ever told him so he drove on Shabbat and the rambam says a Jew that drives on Shabbat a Jew that does business on Shabbat is considered an idol worshipper you know like the the people that pray to Yos people that pray to some person look like look like a rockar had long hair with a mustache they uh pray to him they think he's God you think he's it's stupid right some people have Buddha statues in their front yard they have a statue in their front yard that's also an idol so you think it's stupid too right well guess what driving on Shabbat is also stupid why Idol worshiper Idol worshipper same thing so now if a person looks at this says oh so that's not so if he's an idol worshiper he's not considered part of it's a problem if he's an idol worshipper so now says so now we know if he's an idol worshipper if he's a missionary if he's all types of things he's not part of plus says if he doesn't learn tah he also has no share of the world to come so rabbi says you're right says you're right but why' you say it he said why' you say how get free not everybody learns T So comes to says I have a for them I have a a way out for them how obviously they have to keep but what if they don't learn what's learning you have to make some time to learn in the morning a little bit of time at night to learn to no one said you have to learn 18 hours a day you're not RAB but you could learn an hour in the morning you could learn an hour at night you do your business honestly you're an ethical person you don't steal you don't do the things that are forbidden you don't go to the beach with naked girls over there you don't go and drive on Shabbat you don't go to mix dancing parties you don't do the things that are outright forbidden you're fine but if a person says no but I just want to do halfway so how come the financial statement you don't like it that it's halfway the financial statement no one's happy with halfway no one's happy that they're not the billionaire so says the pon for the people the solution for the people that not learning T is at least to invest in t invest they take certain money they invest into into to help other people to learn on their behalf now if a person looks at some of this they realize that every single person has to make a small change some people bigger change some people smaller changes some people they don't want to change they want to stay the same now if you ever in a court case and you won the court case first thing that everybody always says is thank you very much but somebody asked how' you win what do you mean how I win is the it's the truth the truth is what one oh you like the emit you like the truth yeah of course what that's the truth it's what I want okay so everybody likes the truth the problem with the truth is only one problem there's only problem one problem with the truth it's amazing everybody loves it everybody wants it except when it's about them a person does not see a deficiency in himself meaning everybody likes the truth until it affects you where you say listen we talk about people oh yeah they're Idol worshippers you're right Amit oh they're thieves emit they're uh you know Killers amitab all not good and the guys who drives on Shabbat oh why' you have to say that wait oh you I didn't know you drive on Shabbat I didn't know you drive on Shabbat why you don't like the truth anymore until now you said you like you cheered us on you like the cheerleader for free but until he said you're not allowed to go to a mixed beach now all of a sudden you don't like the emit all of a sudden when you hear that it affects you you don't like theit but that's the Torah the Tor is the of the the signature of the Tora is isem meaning it doesn't change just because you don't like it it doesn't change because of the times it doesn't change because for whatever reason or another people think it doesn't fit the Torah is the Torah so now when a person looks at the Torah he has to start thinking about whether they're going to continue lying to thems or they're going to make certain changes to stop living a lie everyone is living a li to a certain extent the more you know of the truth the more you realize that there's certain parts of your life that are a li you're making you're you're making a fool out of yourself so the first thing is the famous statement that everybody knows all of are responsible for each other what does that mean says that if you do one Mitzvah it's a big deal any Mitzvah that you do like for example if somebody called you for in the middle of a and you answered the call to go save a life that's mitvah even though T is greater than the but still let's say you're doing a Mitzvah fine you did a mitvah that mitvah is not only good for you that mitvah is for all of is all of is benefits because now the scale of mitv got heavier than the sins so your mitvah becomes something that helps all of on the other hand if a person instead of coming to goes to watch basketball games he makes a sin it's called T so now that sin doesn't only affect fect him it affects all of is all of is gets affected by it so now a person has to start looking at things being 5050 or only 20% religious I'm only religious as long as they requires for me to just go to SCH and then leave me alone I'm only religious as long as you pretty much don't tell me what to do I'm only religious as long as they have kosher food if they have kosher food I'll eat it if it's not if they don't have kosher food then whatever goes if he's only if he's religious only to a certain condition that's a problem why because that sin doesn't only affect you personally it affects all of am is and since October 7th am is wants to be United Amai wants to be wants to hug each other why because you saw a bunch of Jews get killed get murdered get raped get uh taken as hostages everybody cried everybody wanted to do something about it one sin can cause all of that one mitvah can save all of that so now all of a sudden the value of the MIT and the value of the sins changes why because it's not only about you you learning to one more minute instead of pressing play to listen to some rap music or press play to listen to the news which is only if it's not then it's not the news it's old instead of doing that you press play on that play can make a difference of either there's going to be a terrorist attack or it's going to be a miracle that's the difference if you look at mitv like that all of a sudden you become more religious without doing anything just simply by considering what's the action what are you g to dovah or not Mitzvah second thing is a person has to look at the time that's going to everybody has to go upstairs everybody has to go to some people go up there early they go there young some people they live 120 Years everybody goes to different times now if we're doing a that obviously means that everybody here has know somebody that died now in sh there's no mercy that's what said when people meet AEM in sh they're not going to know him why there's no mercy in sh Mercy is only here in this world what's Mercy you make a sinm doesn't kill you right away that's Mercy that's Mercy in sh there's no mercy there's only judgment you did good get rewarded no good you have a problem details of the problem we have entire movies about it lectures about it all the details but the key is to know that at some point everybody has to go up to sh and the first question says first question they're going to ask you did you conduct your business with meaning when you were doing business you sold paint you built buildings you had a print shop you were uh you know a fixing Mufflers you are a plumber whatever you did Diamond dealer did you do it with AEM in mind meaning did you think every transaction the customer comes did you you think hasm is watching you do you think Hashem is watching you oh you thought no no hashm is in sh he's busy with the angels he's busy with like running worlds he's too busy for my little transaction for uh 9.99 he doesn't care that I charge this guy 1099 really because he wasn't paying attention if you did your business without AEM in mind you already failed at the first question so the first thing that a person has to think of at some point I have to answer for how I did business how do I do do am I a thief or not a thief in the eyes of hem second thing is is going to ask you what did you use your time for so well I I worked I made a lot of money fine you made a lot of money why did you make so much money so I could build a house okay but you lived in this house for let's say 120 years after 120 years somebody takes the house and most likely they're going to forget you even existed you built a house you built a mansion 87 rooms one for every million that you made in the last few months right you made a big house at some point somebody else takes your house it's not you anymore they're not going to put the your name on the house anymore already wrote a thousand years ago why does a give rich people that are that are wicked money one reason is because it's a form of punishment why punishment he gives them whatever reward they did for whatever good they do in this world in this world because they have no share of the world to come he gives money reward to his haters in this world but the second reason is is because has to keep giving sh keeps giving good to this world he has to keep giving money to this world but sometimes the person that he wants to give it to is not available yet he didn't do the things that he needs to do to get the money he's not ready for it so hasm has to store it somewhere so the says hasem takes the money and he gives it to some rash why he's going to be the bank the rash the wicked guy he's going to be the bank why he's going to hold the money he's going to use the money to build a building build a bridge build a city build a supermarket build all types of things that give him headaches they give him problems they give him no joy whatsoever you ask him how's your life oh my life is miserable why he has diabetes his kids are uh you know marrying men and men the uh the girls don't even know what way is this what way is that he has so many problems he's not even sure if his wife is loyal to him how much money does he have oh like like sand he has money like s but Hashem gives him a lot of money even more money why he says because I need a bank I need a bank to store the money why cuz one day a sadik is going to come he's going to need a store to buy some kid some things for his kids so now he has a store one day a sadik is gonna have to cross the bridge so I need somebody to build a bridge for the sadik here you go I give him the money one day sadik is G have to open a little office so he could do his business so I need somebody to build a building so the rash is the bank he's the bank for the sadik now a person says okay fine I wasn't the sadik but I wasn't the RAS I was in the middle I was in the middle I didn't spend all my time learning the the books are still brand new but I knew sh but were you happy about knowing about shab yeah I was very happy I knew the rabbi would say something about what Rashi said I knew okay were you happy about the fact that you made $10 million in your life says tell you the truth hasem not really how come you weren't happy about make 1010 million tell you the truth a I was actually kind of disappointed I only made $10 million because the nerd remember you guys remember the nerd from the beginning of the shield the nerd he made a billion dollars and I was smarter than him I got better grades than him he was ugly he was short he was tall he was black he was white he was all the wrong things and he made a billion dollars and I can't believe he made more money than me oh you're telling me that the $10 million that you made you aren't happy with why you wanted more even though you knew that at some point you're going to die even though you knew that at some point your life is going to end but you weren't happy with it but knowing just the par sh for an eternity for a life that's forever that you were happy with how come what's the explanation for that what's the answer for that who's going to be the best salesman in the world is going to have an answer for that one you are happy with 10 million Until you realize your friend from class had a 100 million had a billion then you weren't happy you wanted even more but to just know the weekly par you settled for that like no it's enough for me I'm okay I don't have to be a rabbi I'm okay with just knowing the weekly par I'm okay with that for that you were okay how come you aren't jealous that the rabbi knows every page in these by heart how come you aren't jealous of that how come you aren't jealous that there is a five-year-old that knows more T than you how come you aren't jealous of him 5 years old knows more tah than you why weren't you jealous of the 5 year old oh no he was a genius no he wasn't a genius regular kid five years old knows more than you already finished half the how come you aren't jealous of the 5-year-old you aren't jealous but the guy that made a billion dollars you were jealous for what for something for a temporary life temporary life you wanted everything permanent life I'll be okay with just a little bit of Shabbat that's the question is going to ask every single one of us we're not talking about the guy that's an idol worshipper we're not talking about the guy that kills people for a living we're talking about basic people that are keeping the basics of the saw it why were you happy with the basics when it came to the Tor but you weren't happy to the basics when it came to money you always wanted to build another company you always wanted a bigger Diamond you always wanted more ambition when it comes to money endless when it came to the Tora it's an a lost and found Department why is going to ask us that question the third and final point is if a person thinks somebody just passed away only a month ago if you would have asked them do they want to pass away they don't want to pass away nobody wants to pass away everybody wants to live my Rabbi God bless him his 2-year-old daughter less than a week ago didn't feel good they took her to the doctor doctor said you have to go to the emergency room there's something wrong they went to the emergency room the emergency room said there's something wrong we need to perform an emergency surgery or else in a matter of moment she can die they do a surgery they find out that the appendix has a hole in it and the hole was so horrible the whole appendix blew up how big is the appendix of a 2-year-old maybe the size of of my finger time tiny two-year-old girl little appendix rare situation she wasn't eating uh glass she wasn't eating people she was just a 2-year-old little tadika appendix blew up appendix is this big the hole in the appendix is even smaller microscopic but this tiny tiny little hole life risk in a matter of moments if they didn't get didn't have this miracle to take it to the doctor and another miracle the doctor would identify that this is not a cold this is not a virus this is a emergency room and another miracle that the emergency room would actually take them and take it seriously especially with all the hatred of religious people in Israel right now this they're very stringent about hating religious people they're very good at that hating Arabs not so much why we heal the Arabs especially the ones that do terrorist missions like October 7th but the religious ones we don't like so this little girl appendix this small a hole that's even smaller cannot even see with a naked eye life risk she's still in the hospital and is unless there's going to be an open Miracle she's going to be in the hospital for a long time a long time and most likely going to need a second surgery if there's not a miracle so now did anybody wake up in the morning and think about thank you for the appendix that works you have an append all of you have an appendix unless you removed it most people have an appendix did you when you woke up in the morning you say thank you for the appendix that works that didn't blow up that doesn't have a little hole like the two-year-old girl did anybody even think about their appendix does anybody even here know what the appendix does most people just heard the appendix for the first time in their life last time they heard it was in Biology class they forgot everything as quickly as they learned it there so you have something in your body that if there's a tiny little hole in it a person can die in a matter of seconds I remember my one of my first surgeries something similar happened and the doctors told me you have to have a surgery I said okay fine when do I schedule it for go right now why right now said well because if not you're probably going to die soon I said how soon probably in an hour or two so why you're full of good news full of good news next thing you know I'm in the hospital for a month and a half for something I didn't even know was bad something I didn't know existed you wake up in the morning you don't say that I have an appendic that works that my stomach works my eyes work you guys know you have two balloons for free their cameras they have a storage system and a clean system all by itself and it works for free did anybody wake up in the morning and say thank you that my eyes work and they clean themselves cuz even a camera if you pay $25,000 for a camera there's a camera called red it's a very high high uh high resolution camera it's 25,000 and up for a camera it's not a person you could buy people for 25,000 but you could also buy a camera for 25,000 now 25,000 for a camera but if you ask does the camera C clean itself no for that you have to get a cleaning person to clean it professionally but you have two cameras with endless recording cleans itself every time something gets dirty a little water comes out automatically where does the water come from the same exact system and then after the water comes there's an entire Machinery to wipe it off every few seconds it happens if you didn't have it for even 1 minute all of a sudden your eyes are dry you don't have it for an hour you start going blind you start losing your sight did anybody here in the morning wake up to thank you very much for having this camera system we call eyes most likely no why because we just take it for granted we live we live but in reality when you look at a 2-year-old girl and she's in the hospital with all types of tubes coming out of her body you start thinking wow thank you that I'm not this little girl thank you that I'm not in the hospital thank you that I don't have to have a surgery thank you that my body works thank you I don't have these tubes thank you that my eyes do work thank you that my ears work thank you that my stomach has just enough acid to digest the food but not too much that it burns holes in the stomach because technically if your stomach has a little bit more acids than it's supposed to it starts making holes in the stomach you put meat you take meat you take ice cream you take chicken whatever you eat all of it gets dissolved in your stomach technically you should ask the question how come the stomach doesn't dissolve itself you ate steak the steak is meat right goes in the stomach it's gone chicken gone ice cream gone candy gone everything is gone how come it doesn't eat itself it does it actually does eat itself but has a special mechanism in it that it regenerates faster then it eats itself but if you have a little bit of extra acid in your stomach that's when when the ulcers come that's when you start having holes in the stomach did you say thank you to that your stomach doesn't have too much acid did anybody even think about too much acid last time some people heard acid was maybe when they were doing parties and uh Raves what acid but the reality is we should say thank you to for everything so now we have three different reasons one we're not really happy with the amount of money we have we want to be more ambitious at the very least we should be a little more ambitious when it comes to being Jewish being Jewish because we got the Torah you're not Jewish because your mother is Jewish you're Jewish because your great great grandparents at Mount sa said yes not s isma said you want the Tora they said yes if they would have said no there wouldn't be anybody why the mountain would have dropped on them because when asked him do you want the T the mountain was on the air on top of them he says if you say yes then you could consider this mountain like a like a you know if you say no here is going to be your burial ground I'm going to drop the mountain on you so they said yes they right there was a right answer it worked but the reality is why did what when did we become Jewish right there and then it wasn't because our mothers were Jewish we became Jewish because we received the Torah receiving tah is not enough because a lot of people receive the toah but they become different religions receiving to means you learn the toah so if we're not happy with the amount of money that we have and the amount of success that we have and the amount of uh uh you know business we have at the very least we shouldn't be as happy with the amount of to we have we should ask for more we should do more number two the value of MIT and sins it's not only about you even if you don't want more nobody here celebrated October 7th nobody here was happy that the Arabs murdered us everybody was crying why because you want to help so even if you yourself don't want the one mitvah that you do today let's say for example when to go going to eat something somebody's going to eat do could change the entire scale for is and help all of is meaning it's not just about you even if you don't care about yourself you care about your kids you care about your grandkids you care about your wife that mitvah the next mitvah can save their life and number three if we really think about it not only does AEM not need us but we owe AEM endlessly for the thing that we don't even consider most people when they pray their favorite part is what everybody says it's my favorite part everybody knows that part by heart and people do the whole thing they open their hands they have a different no no no RAB you shouldn't do this way you should do this way you should do this way why should you catch everything as if there's something falling everybody knows what's the way what's the way but in reality why they know this part cuz they're thinking about money the whole time so you think for money it's good you think a for money it's good to thank a for money but you should Al thank him that you have a appendix you should also thinkk him you have eyes you all think them they have legs that they work she also think of all the other stuff meaning that when you start thinking about all the things that hasem gives you you realize that you're in debt big debt huge debt and at the very least we should start doing something about it maybe not pay the whole debt today because not really possible but at least you should make some payments learn an hour of with the rabbi learn an hour of listen to instead of the on the way to work here in New York if you want to go to work you have to drive an hour it doesn't matter if even if you're going to down the block you have an hour a day in the car minimum an hour a day minimum you can finish the sh every seven years so we ow we want to help and most importantly we're not going to have an answer of why we weren't happy with the amount of money so surely we shouldn't be happy with the amount of T each person takes this to heart because this is the and it helps all of us do thank you very much for having me [Music] amen [Music] man this hanging so a h there's a lot of really cool stuff on our websites uh new features uh and uh a lot more uh projects that are on the way that b will help get closer to to publicize name and know that he is the one and only God