This Is Why You're Miserable Failing At Your One Job ( LIFE CHANGING 13 Minutes)

[Music] last but not least this first part we're still within the first two words of this Mion believe it or not it says yield to the superior Rashi interprets this as a very simple understanding of knowing where you stand before your maker he's the superior you are the creation he's the Creator you're the creation know and remember where you stand as long as you remember where you stand you have a chance to get to a good place as soon as you think that you run the show you have a problem someone who know know where he stands always yields to the will ofm even if it means that he does things he doesn't want to he wants to go to the baseball game but instead he goes to the sh he wants to go to the club but instead he goes to the synagogue he wants to go to the new non koser restaurant but instead he cooks a nice kosher meal for his family he wants to do a lot of things because is convincing him do this do this do this do this all day in his head all day he's telling him do this do this do this do this do this and all day has say no no no this no this no no no all day being righteous all day say no no this no no no no so you raise little kids right little baby daughter all day no no no no no no I don't like saying no but all day that's what you have to do until you get them to the right direction so we have to do all day no not this no no no no no stop this stop eventually it's us okay you keep saying no right you're depressing me already okay I'm gonna come back later and also the means the um uh Superior the head actually says stands for to do the will of your father in Heaven so here we learn that in essence just the beginning of this mishna yielding to the superior means you're yielding to the Creator it's the foundation of everything two words Foundation of everything once you understand that you're the creation he's the Creator he's in charge of everything he's in control of everything he's responsible for everything you are just a vessel if you truly understand the meaning of that life changes as long as you don't understand it you will suffer every minute you live on in this world a person who does not understand that Hashem is in charge will work overtime because he thinks that he needs to help AEM come up with money a person who doesn't understand that Hashem runs the show will be cheap will be very cheap because he thinks that he's limited with how much he has and that when hasem said that if you give M if you give a tithe give 10% % of your income he promises to make you rich you thought he was just kidding just to get you excited to give some he was only joking you thought P 17 says that anytime someone pays money for a mitvah whether it be Shabbat holidays T pays for it in full how he says I decided already how much money you're going to make this year you're going to make 50,000 100,000 200,000 200 million whatever I decide how much you're gonna make but that does not include the takaka money you're G to give the money you're going to spend on Shabbat the money you're going to spend on holidays whatever you spend on those I'm going to give you so that means that someone who understands this completely and lives it is never going to look at the price tag of the shopping cart when he goes to the supermarket to shop for the holidays he's never going to think should I buy this kala for $4 or this kala for $5 it's for Shabbat he's never going to think you know should I take send my kids to school for this place that's a $1,000 but much better school or the other school that's like 350 but it's okay it's not so bad he's not going to think about that why that's hashem's problem when you understand that you yield before the Creator you will never be in a position to even think that you're allowed to be cheap because immediately if you yield before the Creator you want to be loved by the Creator and if you want to be loved by the Creator you don't want to do something that's detested by him says I hate four types of people four types of people I hate them there's a few others that mentioned other places that he hates them but there's four types of specific people that he mentions that he hates them one of them is an old man that goes after young women says him I hate him he's disgusting to me you ever see those seveny old rich people want to go out with a woman that's not even old enough to be their granddaughter even their granddaughter she's already she's too young for those people he says I hate them hate them they're disgusting human beings another type of person that he hates is someone that's cheap why does he hate someone that's cheap we talked about last night he says because it's the epitome of the opposite of me I only give and receive nothing you only take and give nothing and even what you're going to give it's not yours so what are you cheap you're cheap with my stuff it's like the king tells you listen here's a safe you are the supervisor of the safe okay I'm going to pay you to be a supervisor of the safe my safe no problem how much is in a safe safe has unlimited amount of money okay great only one condition yes whenever my son comes give him give him a little bit give him a little money help him out how much do I give him whatever he needs to get whenever my son comes give him some money okay anything else nothing else you have no other responsibility you do this one job you have use one job I love you one job you you don't have any other responsibility one day six years have passed no one has come after six years Mr Prince comes Mr Prince is wearing a ripped suit hasn't bought a suit in a long time his shoes are ripped he's carrying his little G he's serious about his studying and he says listen I finally ran out of money for my father the king gave me six years ago I finally ran out of money and I have two choices I could go learn or I can go work now if I go work that means I can't learn at least not learn as much if I go and learn that means I need to get money from somewhere I need to live still have few kids I have a wife I have to live so my father told me that whenever I need something to come here and what he say them no you know what I'm actually a little stressed out right now I'm working on a deal come back after the FED makes the decision after the FED makes a decision on interest rates I want to see where the Market's going and then then you come back I'll let you know because I'm stressed out about the FED rates I'm stressed out about the economy I'm stressed out about the business I'm stressed about the state of the Kingdom I'm not sure if we're going to have enough money to pay next year's bills and you send them away or better yet you say you know what listen I know your father is important and everything but I'm in charge here I'm in charge so I'm going to give you just enough money to get for this week come back next week so you give the guy like a little boy you know we little kids they're generous they're 15 16 years old if they get motivated a little kid that gets motivated let's say he has a newspaper out he makes a little bit of money makes i100 $200 a week he's motivated he's motivated sees a homeless guy he sees a someone that's in need the little boy or little girl has no problem giving whatever in is in his pocket whether it be $20 or $200 he has no problem at all giving all of it no problem why he's pure he hasn't been tarnished like the rest of us he's still little he's 12 years old 133 years old he's still okay he has no problem giving the Hess guy whatever he has in his pocket no problem so the problem is when the adult gives like the little boy when the adult says you know what yeah I got $560 in my pocket let me give you the 75 cents yeah that's the coins I have you give the guy 75 cents hey good luck thanks for coming thanks for giving me the Mitzvah thanks for giving me the Mitzvah you give the guy 75 cent you feel good about yourself you give the guy $3 came to you for help you give him $3 you give him $20 you feel good about I did aah hone I'm aik what happened honey I did aah I give a for morning tonight I give $20 how much did you make today honey oh made $600 you made $600 today you gave the guy $20 you made $5,000 this month and you gave they gave the guy $20 $20 little boy gives $20 the little boy gives 20 he gives more than $20 you giveing $20 that's what happened little children give that mainly if it's some homeless guy that has no k no no connection to hem you just want to give him a meal he's a homeless guy fine you give him five bucks 10 bucks whatever someone that's learns to his whole life he's the reason hasem created the world he's the reason he didn't created for the homeless guy he didn't create it for the tiger he didn't create it for the lion he didn't create it for the politicians he definitely didn't create it for the homosexuals he didn't create it for them who did he create for created it for the sadik sadik learns to all day you give $20 what do you think is going to happen when Abba shows up at the safe and he says did my son come yeah yeah your son come oh did you give him the $5,000 I promised him no no no I give him the $20 I give him $20 what do you think the king is gonna say to you I gave you one job I told you I'm going to give you $150,000 a year I'm going to give you 50,000 a year I'm going to give you a million dollars a year I'm going to give you whatever I'm going to give you you have one job when my son comes give him what he needs are you surprised that Hashem says I hate you [Music]