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Systemic Problem In The Jewish Kiruv World (10 minutes)

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Rabbi Yaron Reuven

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So when it says here is first telling you make sure you're not one of these people that cut yourself out of the nation by making one of these big sins on a regular basis. Listen, somebody makes a sin one time. Somebody makes a shalom. Somebody shaves with a razor. Somebody goes with a non-Jew. Somebody uh you know eats not kosher. Somebody makes all of these big sins. Okay, you made a sin. You do chuva bashem. Hashem created chuva also. He knew he had to create chuva before he created the world. But if you're doing it on a regular basis, doesn't matter. Even if it's the smallest sin, you are on a regular basis going to McDonald's. Once a week, you go to McDonald's. Now, eating non-coosher, eating non-coosher is not it's not you don't get cut off from the nation for for eating non-cos. It's not good. you're it's going to be very very difficult virtually impossible for you to learn Torah and actually understand what's going on but it's not but if you're doing it on a regular basis you're violating the on a regular basis where it's become part of your life where you're accepting this this is okay this cuts you off from the nation so yes you are allowed to make sins you're in essence expected to make sins it says in the uh in the Torah there's no such thing as a righteous person who doesn't sin tells us. But don't ever think it's okay. Don't ever say, "Oh, you know, I made a sin. I uh went with a non-Jewish man only tonight." It's okay. It's only tonight and tomorrow it's the same thing and next week it's the same thing. If you say it's okay once, why isn't it okay again? This is the reason why the shita the strategy that unfortunately many rabbis use in today's world of telling people that it's okay to drive to shul in a beginning until you eventually do chuva. This is why it doesn't work, by the way. Because if you look at it from a secular mindset, if you look at it from someone who wasn't born in a religious family, now someone like that is going to think about it pure human logic. He's not going to look at it with Torah logic. He's going to look at it with pure human logic. So human logic says if it's okay for me to drive to shul today you're saying it's okay for me to drive to sh today on Shabbat saying it's okay just just make sure to come to shul even if you have to drive you're saying it's okay why isn't it okay tomorrow why isn't it okay a year from now why isn't it okay 5 years from now if the rabbi answers no no in the beginning I told you it's okay to drive on Shabbat because I knew that if you don't drive on Shabbat, you're not going to come. But now you already been coming for a year. It's time for you to to go up. So the secular mind says, why why do I need to go up? No, you've already learned. You've already learned some Torah. You you prayed with us. So then the secular mindset is going to say, "Yeah, but I'm not ready to go up." You may be ready for me to go up a level, but I'm not ready to go up a level. I'm ready to stay exactly where I am. I still feel like I'm I'm new. I'm new. I'm only a year old. So what's the rabbi going to say? Okay. So he drives for another year. So now after two years of driving to shul the rabbi as okay no you going to stop driving cuz why should I stop driving? It was okay for the first year. Yes it was okay for the first year. You said it was okay for the first year. And technically you agreed with me that it was okay for two years. Can't say no. You agreed that it was okay for two years. If it was okay for the first year it was okay for two years. So if it's okay for two years then it's going to be okay for another two years. I'll talk to you in two years from now. And so the story continues and the whole human logic beats the Torah here. Why? Because you're not using the Torah from day one. You're saying it's okay to sin. It's never okay to sin. It's never okay to drive to sh. You're going to drive to sh. It's your problem. I'm still not going to tell you it's okay. You want to drive to sh drive to shul. You want to eat pork, eat pork. You do whatever you want. It's your life. It's your destiny. But I can never give you a sign off and say by the way it's okay for you to drive to shabbat. Can't just come to sh. There's no such thing. There's no mitzvah in the ten commandments that's listed in the ten commandments. You must go to sh. There's no such thing. Ten commandments does not include going to sh. It does include keep shabbat though. So when someone from the secular mindset looks at the religion and he and he sees that a someone that's supposed to know giving the okay to sin then immediately that person looks at the Torah as a complete joke as something that's variable something that can change. It's no longer divine. It's no longer from God because if it was from God it's never going to be okay to sin. If it was from God, it can never change. It was from God, there's no exceptions unless that person gives the Ra, right? So if the if the guy gives the Ra some money and the rabbi sells sells Hashem out for money, then both of them will have a nice place and gum. But the key is to understand that you cannot make exceptions. Can't make exceptions. You have to tell people, listen, I would love for you to come to stay home. Okay. The only way that I come to shul is if I drive. What do you what's the proper answer? Somebody tells you, listen, the only way I come to sh is drive. Now, if you know that that person has a closer sh, you tell them, listen, go to a closer sh. Don't come to my sh go somewhere else. If not, tell them, listen, come stay at my house. Exactly. Come stay at my house. We'll walk to sh together. Option three, don't come pray at home. Yeah, but I don't know how to pray. Find a way to come. Don't drive. Yeah, but the only way I can do it is drive. Listen, I'm telling you, you should come to so I can teach you, but it's never going to be okay for you to drive. You have at some point or another, you have to have some type of amuna that Hashem runs the world. If the rabbi is saying, "No, no, listen. We're just trying to get him in and tell him it's okay for now, but later we're going to change him." How many of those things cases actually worked? How many of those people they told them it's okay to drive to on Shabbat, it's actually worked and they stopped driving on Shabbat? Very few. I'm sure some exist. I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt that they exist, but it's definitely not many. So here the Mishna starts with first off make sure you realize you cannot cut yourself out of the nation if you want to be part of this share of the world to come. That's number one. Number two that's teaching us here is a says there are three things that will get you to this that everybody's waiting for I'm sorry there's a um several things you need to do in order to get to which obviously you have to look at this first Mishna. But before we even get to that point of actually getting to this, we have to realize why is it being told to us in the beginning before the Mishna even starts. Tell us listen, you can have you could have is to give us hope. It's to give us hope. Give us encouragement. Hey listen, even you get can get a share of the world to come. Just don't screw up. Don't get yourself cut off. That's number one. That's rule number one. Rule number two. The says there are three things that you can get but not without not without sacrifice. Self-sacrifice. Number one, learning to you want to be a you want to know a lot of Torah, it requires self-sacrifice. If you want to learn Torah while you're eating cookies and chips and and a little cup of tea, it's great. Enjoy. You could learn Torah as much as you want with tea and cookies and with your legs up on the couch, you know, from 5:00 p.m. till 8:00 p.m. right before your show starts. You could learn to no problem. But you're not going to be at You'll know Torah. You'll know the basics. You'll know how to, you know, you'll know that Mushenu existed. You know, Mount S. You may even know a few. You'll know some. Yeah, you'll know. You'll know some things. No questions asked. But to be a never going to happen. Why? Because in order for you to become a you have to understand the value of Torah. In order for you to understand the value, once you understand the value of Torah, you're not going to be able to leave it. Meaning that you're going to eliminate the material world. The more you learn Torah, the more you eliminate the material world. The more you disconnect from the wafers and the chips and the Gatorades and the shows on TV and everything else, you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you by to anytime.com.