SHOVAVIM: History and Process of TIKKUN HABRIT (BH FILMS)

[Music] [Applause] the time of sh is the time where we read the book of Exodus seph the word Chim is an acronym for all of the parot all of the Torah portions that are in the book of shot also based on the verse return we were children back to your God you know for each one of us to to do chuba have stated it time and time again throughout all of the generations that this time is a officious time to do to not only do CH in general keep shabat keep and putting onine every day praying on time and so on but the most critical most critical thing thing that a person should focus on during this time assuming they have the basics already that I just mentioned is to do T to do tunit is not an easy thing perhaps we should take the words of the rambam that he writes in his Mish that the most difficult addiction the most difficult addiction that a human being could have is his issue when it comes to wasting seed when he is addicted to immorality whether it's by himself or with somebody else this is the foundation this is what's called the when you look at the cabalistic picture the famous cabalistic picture of how the soul looks like when you have these circles and then it ends off with a triangle on the bottom the bottom is called the Y the foundation and the foundation is exactly where the bre is because the breit of a Jew the bre of a human being is the foundation of their connection to how you treat your sexuality how you treat your morality how you treat your that you're producing to the world is going to determine whether or not you understand that God runs the world or not whether or not you understand that the Torah is the only Divine document in the world whether you understand that there's a God that's watching you at all times but unfortunately today the the ignorance is so high that not everybody has watched our lectures and many times the first time they'll watch something they'll watch a short clip or they'll watch a uh a video that I mention and they say oh wait a minute why is he talking about this you know this is not uh such a regular topic for a rabbi I never heard my Rabbi say it and they contact me and say listen Rabbi why you being so negative why you talking about such a disgusting topic like tun and wasting seed it's an ugly subject don't you you want to just teach Torah instead they're so ignorant they don't realize this is the foundation of the Torah without having a kosher there is no Torah and that's why we see it all the way from the beginning of the Tor from who actually himself ended up uh leaving for 130 years almost ended up wasting seed it ended up coming out while he was asleep which produced many many demons that are damaging the world till this [Music] day and this issue continued to create bad into the world all the way to the 10 Generations later of Noah and the generation of Noah were full of wicked people to the extent that there was only one person one person in his family that was righteous enough to let the world continue existing but a decided to destroy the entire world and the Z says that the only reason the only reason why the the world lost its right to exist aside you know had many sins have happened back then and still happen today but yet the world exists why did the world get to such a point because they literally wasted seed so much that they it wasn't enough for them so what did they do they became immoral with people that wasn't enough for them immorality with people wasn't enough they started becoming homosexuals that's what the Z says they become started becoming homosexuals but even that wasn't enough for them because when you're immoral and you follow the addiction it gets worse and worse no different than crack and cocaine and the rest of the horrendous drugs in the world immorality with self immorality with another person immorality with the same sex and that wasn't enough what they do they legalized gay marriage they made it a holy event sounds familiar doesn't it sounds like I'm telling you the news it is the news unfortunately it's the news of today and it's the news of this specific time is an officious time to do T and briefly even though we have more than 60 maybe even 70 lectures about this topic again it's never [Music] enough in order to do cha for it in order to relieve yourself from going to gum forever person that weigh seed and and dies without doing CH goes to gam forever there is nothing that think anyone can do for them if they die that's a reality it's not it's not an assumption it's a reality just like Shabbat audah violate Shabbat without doing for it he violate Shabbat on purpose dies there's nothing you can do for it why you gain on forever that's just the reality there are certain things that says I hate these things you do them without fixing it even though I'm going to give you a bunch of chances to do it you don't fix it we're finished the relationship is cut off permanently first and foremost just like any other sin you want to do jua for the first thing is stop it stop making the sin stop wasting seed that's there is no chuba without stopping you can't say I'm sorry and you know that that you stole money and continue [Music] stealing you can't say I'm sorry for violating Shabbat and you keep violating Shabbat you can't say I'm sorry for wasting seed and you continue wasting seed a few times every week doesn't work that way you have to stop second thing is they have to put a fence around themselves meaning that they have to get themselves to the point where they're not putting themselves In Harm's Way if you know the certain amount of types of people that you spend time with they cause you to sin whether that's a boyfriend a girlfriend a uh friends that you hang out with certain places that you go to even a workplace whatever it is these places cause you to sin you have to abandon ship you can't go to those places again the the the only amount that's correct is zero anything above that it's too dangerous what you've already failed with her a few times you've already failed with him you've already failed with that you can't allow yourself to put yourself In Harm's Way so you have to put a fence now how do you know what fence to put that's where the education comes from you have to educate yourself that's step number two and it's part of putting a fence around yourself step number three you have to distance yourself from that sin long enough where you realize how bad it is you have to educate yourself about it and distance yourself meaning stop for an extended period of time to know that what you've done is wrong and feel bad for it feel bad for this that you've actually sinned a day later you have to feel bad about a week later you have to feel bad about it why that's part of your chba praying to and admitting to him that you've made this sin literally part of the says and also the and also the talks about it one of the of is to admit that you've made the S to you're going to say already knows that I said yes but when you admit it when you admit it you admit it in an open voice I'm so sorry that I sinned against you I'm so sorry I'm so sorry I went with Aya I'm so sorry that I went with Aid I'm so sorry I did all these things against you I'm sorry when you say those things out loud it starts to touch your Nish starts to touch your heart it actually brings you a little bit of embarrassment which is good for the sake of CH this is the third step you have to get to a point where is which is the fourth step testifies for you in the you have done cha and what happens if you fail 6 months down the road or six years down the road or anything else you start Chua again whatever you done CH you did CH for you have to start again not for the past the past you've already done but you have to do CH for what you've done recently point is is that you have to fix it now this is the basics of chab for all sin stop build yourself a fence get to a point of sorrow where you're apologizing 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