SHOVAVIM: For Mature People Only (BH FILMS)

[Music] this is for adults this is not for children why is it not for children and I don't mean adults by age only I mean a people that are adult-m minded and people that know how to be adults because if a person is still a selfish uh self-centered person that only cares about himself they're not going to ever care enough about intimacy to the extent of turning it into something holy even if they're married even if they're 50 years old if they're not going to treat their uh their morality as something more than just a animalistic act none of this is ever going to be relevant to them none of this is ever going to help them morality is a very very fundamental Topic in the Torah immorality is even more significant because you could take something that's permitted and turn it into something that's forbidden and needless to say if you don't have knowledge of the law or you don't even have knowledge of of the right ashfa you could literally start calculating things yourself and start doing things that are completely forbidden nobody can find his EV everyone is looking but nobody can find so he figures since wants to be ho since he doesn't want to get a divorce and just marry anybody he doesn't want to marry the shark and nobody else is available other than the shark so he thought he has a good idea maybe I could just get a prostitute why not wasn't that the way of the world in the past yes the way of theim in the past it's also the way of theim today that's why says someone that goes with a prostitute will lose all of his money meaning it's not only that you are with somebody that you're forbidden to be with if she's a Jew then she's so that's is if she's a non-jew then it's then it's another KCT and if that's not enough you're also wasting seat and lost your [Music] unless you do CH you'll end up losing all of it why because what T says so that logic of I need to relief myself don't use it why because the human logic is not Torah logic and that's why it's very very important to bring these and bring them with a little bit of to give you guys a few Goosebumps here and there because if you don't understand the significance of the stuff you're simply just not going to do it I had another young man who was very upset because he thought that saying the that said the was simply going to fix everything meaning he's going to sin for 20 30 40 50 years and then he says a few gone but then he heard me say that that just doesn't exist why because the tun is there to wake your heart up to desire to do cha to desire to do Chua that's what the point of T is it's not Chua itself if you were with a prostitute like the first guy wants to be or you cheated on your wife with her best friend or you committed something some type of lgbtq crime or you did some other heinous crime that is mentioned uh in then saying some is just simply not going to cut it it's just simply not enough just like if somebody said listen I'm going to murder rape steal but then I'm going to say 10 TV and that's going to solve all my problems because somebody told me that you know this just going to get everything uh fixed at the best case scenario this is for someone that's already holy already protects his Bat already protects ourself there's no there's no issues but something happened at night unintentionally while they were sleeping this is a ton for those Sparks of Kusha that left to try to rectify them that yes that's unintentional but if you were looking at all types of immodesty and immorality all day then as the says be careful of what you see in the morning because if not evil will come to you at night if you're looking at evil in the morning then of course you are the cause of the evil that comes to you at night and the evil that comes to you at night is wasting seed so it is your fault but if you protected your eyes all day and all night and all of last week and all of last month and all of last year and you're doing your for a long time and something ends up happening anyway then is relevant to you if you're not at that point then can still help you by helping you get your heart to desire to do cha now he thought oh I'm doomed then I don't have all the money in the world I don't have a million dollars to fix all of my sins so I'm doomed said no why because cha and the tun are two different things doing chuva is stop the sin don't repeat it make offense to make sure that you don't go to the places or hang out with the people or talk to the people or look at the things you did that cause you to sin say I'm sorry to pray tears cry do all of those steps of Chua so a person needs to understand you just like I mentioned in last week's you the most important part is what you can do now what can you do now chuva everyone can do chuva now why that's a decision as far as tun that depends on what you can handle how much you can afford what's your budget like what your your spiritual pocket look like you may have a very big bank account but your spiritual Pockets very small because you have a big yet for money either way Chua doesn't require money chuva is simply stopping the sin when a person starts thinking of it as just a money fix then you're first of all you're thinking maybe of Christianity and Catholicism because for them it's money fixes and Judaism is not a money fix the fix is chuva chuva is free chuva is your decision of how you're going to live your life as far as tun that again can be free or it can cost money depends which one you want to do but that you don't have to do you should do it if you can but you don't have to do it just depends where you want it to hurt you want it to hurt here for the mistakes of the past or you want it to hurt over there there it's going to hurt because it's going to hurt not because of your pocket you're going to hate your pocket and whatever you left in this world if you have anything left in this world and you didn't use it for that [Music] one of the things that I've been speaking against over the last several years that's M the Satan himself attacking with cash advance do you really believe that human beings are demon no I do not and don't you ever say I did they are part of creating the next Holocaust that's coming to America how to spot the criminal how to spot the crooks that are misleading communities what does the talwood hint about social media and its harms to [Music] relationships if you are one of these new Jewish podcasters this section is is for you not only did they said that wigs are not good but it caused harm to the whole nation [Music]