SHOVAVIM: First Steps of Tikkun HaBrit TeShuva (BH FILMS)

how to fix all of this first and foremost the person needs to watch his eyes this is a given this is something we all know about we're going to go into details in a moment but he has to watch his eyes to the extent that he's not even allowed to see animals doing what they do he also has to watch his mouth if you curse you will weigh seed but if you want to do serious CH this is a must don't speak to the woman the mishna says who is this woman is own wife don't speak to her too much meaning speak just enough to do what you need to do to maintain the relationship to pay attention to her but don't become her second girlfriend talk when it's necessary talk when it has a meaning needless to say don't talk to strangers if it's a strange woman unless she's your manager your customer your boss you have absolutely no reason to talk to her a guy shouldn't even be get to a point of even touching women or their clothing all of these men that are in the clothing business if it's women's clothing they should probably find a different profession further don't waste your time being sad sadness leads to wasting seed sadness leads to promiscuity sadness leads to a lot of problems all of these things that make people sad get over it you don't you're letting the park in your house and the is's not looking for you to make small sins he's looking for you to start with small sins and then he takes over the entire account listening to Unholy music Unholy things any type of secular music non kosher music non Torah music is going to lead a person to wasting seed people that like to listen to rap full of curses people like to listen to hip-hop full of curses people like to listen to these types of songs that talk about arrogance money promiscuity all types of garbage it's not just bad for your time it's bad for your it's bad for your you listen to it you're going to think it you're going to think it you're going to do it that's why the he says are worse than a thinking about the is even worse than the a itself also when you go to sleep make sure you don't have clothing or shoes around your bed also spiderwebs above the bed but also another says that it also leads to schite problems even if you don't have Arachnophobia doesn't make a difference you have spider webs clean it also people that don't wash their hands in the morning don't do they're not careful with they should know that when you go to sleep it's 160th of death and when you wake up in the morning there's a special Mal that's still on there that Mal is the daughter of the Satan you're not even allowed to touch your ears you're not allowed to touch your nose you're not allowed to touch your genitals you're not allowed to touch your mouth thear says it's better off you cut off his hand then him touching himself any part of his body before he washes his hand with next is sleeping too much sleeping too much leads to wasting seed especially sleeping deep also it's treating mitv lightly he says if you start treating mitv lightly you're going to waste seed why because your mind is not clean and at night it's not going to be strong enough that when the Satan's wife shows up you're not going to be able to beat her or anybody that disrespects the sages you start saying nah Rashi ah I don't think I don't think Rashi was right on this one ram nah I'm not really sure you treat the sages lightly no good or somebody likes to play with his hair you ever see these guys play with their hair they they put the gel in their hair and they do their hair 500 times a day in case Hollywood shows up no good it's going to lead to wasting seed you're too comfortable with your body but worse than anything else everything I read to you until now there's one thing that's worse than everything Gava someone that's arrogant a person that's arrogant is guaranteed to waste seed not only accidental but also on purpose because the root of wasting seed is Gava such an says the people that are the people that are arrogant end up wasting seed if they don't have that under control they're going to become very promiscuous if they don't have that under control they're going to become homosexuals too once a person does not control his arrogance and starts thinking that everything belongs to them their body belongs to them somebody else's body belongs to them and doesn't control himself has excuses for everything she has excuses for everything eventually their natural state is not going to be so natural 7 years of lectures 7 months of film editing countless hours of study by two rabbis [Music] information we received over 3,000 years ago all for this [Music] moment to had greed the movie there's a small member the it shouldn't take over your whole life if you satiate it you're never going to have [Music] enough the soer clan when it gets a hold of something it does not let go time for us to rectify what we have done normal number should be somewhere around 20 million or higher you'll never going to have 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