Where's Your Proof?

[Music] first and foremost like i said every jew has to have a set amount of time where they are learning every day no matter what no matter what your schedule is you have to have a set amount of time that you're learning every day men should have twice a day that they're learning at least morning at night if that means you have to wake up a little early or you have to go to work a little later bottom line is you have to make a little bit of time in the morning to get started half hour an hour two hours depending what your schedule is if you leave everything to the night you're already making yourself too vulnerable the satan is going to destroy you by the time you get home you're going to be exhausted you're not going to be able to study by the time you study it's tuesday 2037. you haven't studied in 30 years it's not going to work out so well you're making yourself too vulnerable you have to have a couple of times i know i fight the same battle double time so you have to have a couple of times ladies and gentlemen doesn't fight you as much for learning to love but you have to make sure that you're learning quality torah and not just some nice speaker that makes you laugh a lot of times the ladies like to listen to people that are nice speakers but they're not advancing in their id and their uh ideology they're not advancing in their abu dhabdashem they're listening to the nice speaker they giggle a little bit but nothing really changes she still emailed us she's still uh having all the immuno issues she has she still has anxiety through the roof nothing really changes you have to listen to strong speakers for men too you have to listen to strong speakers simply because those are the speakers they're going to move you if after the end of my shoe you're not moved to an inspired to do something significant in your life we failed if all you did is laugh and giggle we failed if i wanted to make you laughing i'll send you a comedy show you know it's nice to make you laugh and giggle here and there to break up a little bit of detention but in reality you're supposed to be improved version of yourself if the speaker that you're listening to is not making you into an improved version of yourself if you're not desiring to become more modest desiring to have desiring to have more ammuna desiring to do more for hashem to pray more to do more every day we failed we have to try harder next time so you have to make time to learn that tour now of course the more kids you have the more stuff you have the more difficult it is to learn torah but you have to make time especially if you're young and you don't have kids yet or you only have one or two don't misuse that time take advantage of that time try to learn as much as possible trust me when i tell you you're going to need it to hold you up for all those sleepless nights you're going to have when the kids start requiring more of your time so you have to make time to learn to two you have to start accepting the test that hashem sends you with love not only just say hashem we can have a machine do it just get a button we need to believe hashem meaning when the tests come don't default to complaining a lot of times problems happens first thing people do complain that's not a default reaction it's desirable by heaven the default should be okay i have to do something better in order to improve the situation that it's happening something good will come out of this hashem somehow this is the best like you have to start looking at things from a slightly different perspective and not default to complaining both men and women you have to look at things in such a way we have to look at it and say okay what good can i see in this now how could i give hashem you had a deal set up for monday morning signing a hundred thousand dollars was going to change your life on monday morning instead of getting a hundred thousand dollars you get a phone call yes our appointment's cancelled why he does not interested in doing a deal with you anymore all your plans to build a new house all your plans to move to a new community all your plans to buy all types of stuff in the garbage you now have to find capsule for hashem to say why this loss of a deal is good for you who wants to go first million different reasons of why one the client could be litigious meaning you were gonna make a thousand hundred thousand dollars but he's gonna sue you for half a million dollars two months later two the money is not kosher three you don't know how to handle money four someone was going to rob you and kill you for the money and the list can go on and on five if you would have done this deal is competition that was gonna give you a million dollar deal was not gonna sign with you and a million other ways of why this loss is good and every single trouble that you have throughout your day you have to start analyzing what good can i get out of this give hashem third when good things happen when the salvation comes stop just saying hashem write it down in a little notebook on your phone or wherever some place that you have easy access to at all times so the next time you have immuno problems you open that little book and you see all the miracles just like we see all the miracles on pesach went from slaves to the master we overcame idolatry over there we left went to the sea of reeds hashem split the ocean we got the man we got shabbat we got torah we got miracles we survived the desert for 40 years didn't have to change any glows had a river follow us for 40 years and so on and so forth that whole story that should be yours write down a few things that happened to you oh today bob hashem i didn't have any money to pay the rent but last minute customer came in and gave me two thousand dollars exactly what i need okay not number one next day ah bro hashem i made it to the appointment on time the guy signed the deal ah hashem we didn't have kids for five years i'm pregnant my wife is about to deliver hashem my child is the best in class he didn't know how to spell last year and so on and so forth good stuff happens write it down why so when the and the satan from the emunah department shows up he said hey stop right there i got proof hashem is real i got proof of him is real go somewhere else [Music] ah [Music] so [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] so [Music] so [Music] you