Rearing Kids According To Torah

You dear father, you dear mother. Sometimes you have to hate your kid because your your kid just did something horrible. Horrible. [music] He just did something that's inexcusable and you're going to give him a nice chapka. You're going to give him a nice slap. No, [music] you may feel bad about doing it because you see your kid crying. [music] You feel bad, right? Come feel nothing to feel bad. If you did it from love because you care about this kid, your hit, even if it was hard, even if he got hurt a little bit, again, not intentionally trying to, you know, kill the kid, [music] your hit is much better, much better [music] than the hit that that child will get from the destructive angels that Hashem will assign to his soul if he continues on this path and dies this way as a sinner because once a person dies au has to assign different employees that he has to every nama if that person is wicked because his parents did not rebuke him know that those hits that he's going to get from those angels of destruction are going to be much much worse than you could ever imagine. [music] So in fact, what you're doing for him is an act of love.