REAL LOVE Between King David and Yonatan

[Music] it's time for us to understand the difference between love and all the other that people think M 519 according to this sedel says any love that depends on a specific cause when that cause is gone the love is gone but if the love does not depend on the cause it will never cease it will never end what sort of Love depended on a specific cause that we have in the Torah the love of amnon for amnon was both of them were the sons of David they were half brother and sister and amnon lusted for his half sister telling her that he loves her but yet after he rapes her he immediately started hating her not loving her anymore he got what he wanted finally and now he hated her says that was a love that depended on a specific cause and what was a love in a Tora that did not depend on a specific cause the love of David and yonatan the love of David and yonatan two men shom let it not even enter your brain like this and all of the imbeciles that follow him to think for a second that you're even allowed to think about homosexuality having anything to do between the relationship of David and yonatan to say it is embarrassing to say it to think it I don't know if somebody could make it out of this world just thinking that it's such a there a level of truth to it it's m despicable that somebody thinks that the person that AEM decided to make the fourth pillow of the the fourth part of the to carry the the mashia comes from him people actually think oh maybe he was homosexual why because they don't know how to read Torah they don't know how to read tah and they learned from rabbis who also don't know how to read Torah they know how to read from their own opinions so we talked about this dwick some months ago maybe even a year ago when he came out with a Despicable Shure talking about how homosexuality is the greatest thing that's happened in recent Generations even though it's against hem against this Torah and against anything that's pure and he used one of the examples as the relationship between yonatan and David so to kill the elephant in the room and understand so in case people don't watch the entire three-h hour or 6 hour Shure let's just deal with this right now and understand exactly what the verse means so you understand and eliminate any of this filth out of your brain forever now his whole foundation for what he said was because the love between yonatan and David was extraordinary if you look at the book of Samuel the book of Samuel has several different interesting verses and conversations between yonatan and David of how from the minute that they met each other they became like soulmates even though technically they had all the reasons in the world to hate each other because yonatan was the son of Shaul and was the one that was supposed to become the next king but instead David became the next King so he was a natural enemy of Sha Sha tried to kill him sha tried to kill even though sha was a sadik he had he had some yet enter his mind and he got to the mistaken belief that David was actually trying to kill him trying to steal the kinghood so he said oh he's a he's trying to kill me so I have to kill him and he spent many many times trying to kill David and David in order to prove himself that he's not only doesn't want to kill him he actually loves him he actually cares about him he's a fellow Jew he's sha it's not he's not trying to do anything he actually was able to kill Shaul several times and did not kill him and proved to him listen I could have killed you here I have I cut a piece of your clothes While You Were Sleeping meaning instead of cutting a piece of your clothes I could have cut your throat instead and I didn't to show you I'm not your enemy but why was your enemy I would kill you and he did this several times now yonatan was technically supposed to become the King after sha died but instead of focusing on being the next king what did he focus on protecting David even though it's going his own against his own father even though it's going against himself it's going against himself imagine you have an opportunity to become CEO but you see somebody else it's better fit it's better fit now no one on earth no one on earth will say you know what he's better fit I'm gonna stay the bus boy I'm GNA stay the janitor I'm gonna stay the uh regular employee or even the vice president and let him go and be CEO no one why because we're all selfish we're all selfish we don't care who's better to be the CEO if we got the opportunity we're taking it even if we didn't get the opportunity we'll kill somebody just to take it it's one of the corporate policies in America today all the corporate world kill people on your way to the top so yonatan instead of focusing on himself he focused on saving David's life and many times you'll see in the book of Samuel how extraordinary this relationship was now after he died theid says the father in the book of Samuel 2 chapter 1 verse 26 David says after he sees that his brother yonatan Jewish brother yonatan died he says I'm distressed over you my brother yonatan you were so pleasant to me your love was more wondrous to me than the love of women so from here the imbeciles that don't know how to read the midash that don't know how to read commentary and decide to be their own midash decide oh look David loves jonatan more than women so heard from again who saw it himself in the Bish M wrote an extraordinary commentary on this explaining this in the best way that I know he says David is not saying to yonatan you your love was more wondrous to me than the love of a woman a single woman says love of women why women why where which tribe was yonatan from Benyamin sha was from the tribe of Benyamin who is Ben yamin's mother who is benin's Mother shalom loved her sister so much that even though yob wanted to marry her yov wanted to marry Rael yob wanted to marry Rael but her father wasn't exactly a sadik and he switched he switched and she said if I tell yov that it's really not me marrying him he's marrying my sister first and foremost my sister will be embarrassed yeah but let her be embarrassed I'm going to lose my husband she didn't have any guarantee he's going to marry her too and she said oh if if my sister also kesim but but it's my sister it's not me if she marries jakov if marries jakov okay she marries jakov that means ra who's she gonna marry as so instead of marrying the biggest sadik in the world the one that she sees from prophecy he's gonna start is he's gonna start Isel what am going to marry I'm going to marry originally was supposed to be the mid says that six of theim six of the tribes were supposed to come from yov and six from as as ruined it all 12 came from yov but ra didn't know this at this time she's saying oh wait a minute she's going to get embarrassed and I rather lose my I rather lose my I rather lose everything just so my dear sister does not get embarrassed why because I love her because I love her yeah but she doesn't even know that you're doing it for her doesn't make a difference later on she's not even going to be grateful about it doesn't matter you're not going to get any good for it doesn't make a difference why Love Is Free Love Is Free love doesn't want anything back love doesn't have a price or return policy love doesn't end love just exists and I love my sister and I'm willing to destroy my life in this world and the next for her and that's why the said to yonan the love that you had for me that you you you put yourself second to me I'm not even related to you you instead of being the next king and killing me a million opportunities that you had because hey you you're only you're listening to your father he's the currently it's not like he's he's sadik sha is a sadik listen to you instead of listen to your father what' you do you protected me you gave up your own right to be a king for me the love that you had for me the love we had between each other is extraordinary to me it's not natural I know you yonatan you got that mid from who from the women from who from ra because you came from her it's not a human thing that a regular person can have a regular person cannot have the love of Ra being related to so the love that I had that you had that's not natural it's not a normal thing you for sure got the signature you're from ra and that's astounding that's astounding and that's why when the time of the BET mikdash was destroyed Hashem was planning on destroying everyone says the mikdash was not the destroyed for any other reason other than says wait a minute some people kept Shabbat why everybody violated Shabbat some people kept Shabbat Hashem says yes but the ones that kept Shabbat didn't tell the Shabbat to do CH didn't tell them to do CH they considered also they didn't rebuke page8 says because they didn't rebuke that's why he destroyed the bet mikdash now he was planning on destroying everything comes to hm and says hm why are you doing this they're my sons you promised me good they're my descendants why you doing this he didn't listen to him comes noash my descendant he didn't listen to him didn't listen to himu comes to start crying to they woke me up they took me out of they told me you're destroying my my my kids whyem he didn't listen to him when did he stop destroying when ra came Rael came to Hashem and said Hashem what's the big deal what they they wor the titles they they they forsaken the love for you you told them to keep Shabbat and they acted like Idol worshippers that don't keep Shabbat they told you I love you but it was fake okay big deal what you don't have pay look what I did I gave up a husband I give my I gave my I didn't know what's going to happen hasem says to you I listen to you ra that have such a love I'll listen to you to you I will listen so real love has extraordinary power and the mishna here tells us that it's D was trying to teach us through the conversation with yonatan what it really means to love because if it's real love it has nothing to do with anything physical [Music]