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Quick Tips To Help Keep Your Kids In Torah Judaism (4 Minutes)

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Rabbi Yaron Reuven avatar
Rabbi Yaron Reuven

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this is one of the things that people don't understand with little kids if you want kids to stick to Judaism to stick to Torah without letting go without sa without you know just raama sticking to it you have only two things to hold on to one reward them give them reward kid War keeper the whole week give him a candy give him a little little story give him a high five where is TI give him a little story give him a little high five give him candy give him something give reward him for something he learned his Mish he learned his he did his homework give him some reward that's one thing you have to stand onal says this is not my rules kazal says You must reward them this is in the days of kazal it's not just days of now days of now you should probably give them a plane but obviously you have to give rewards with uh with taste with tact you can't give the h a plane every week give him a candy give him something small he also appreciate something small much more than he will if you buy a video game every week and ruin them so that's number one you want to educate your kid you want them to to want to do the Mitzvah you have to entice them with that the second thing is which is going to be surprised to some people is fear scare him to death God doesn't like when people take off their keeper God doesn't like people who don't do their homework God and you have to let them know the fear of God you tell them one time to a kid to listen forever they listen forever I'm telling you I know this for myself when I was a little kid even though we didn't keep any you know much when we I was 10 years old we kept a few things we went to a uh religious uh school but as soon as we landed in America we became green didn't keep anything except holiday and you know basic in my opinion we didn't keep much but whatever some people may consider it miss you know just like uh part of the stuff in my opinion based on what I know today we kept nothing but it doesn't make a difference the point is is that we came in we keep some holidays kosher whenever it's convenient but what did I make sure to do my whole life no matter what doesn't matter if I'm dating a non-jew doesn't matter if I'm doing whatever doesn't matter if I'm eating doesn't matter anything what am I doing my whole life there's two things I did my whole life one every time I have a piece of paper always put on top right top right corner of the of the paper anytime I write anything on a piece of paper always the the BET and the hay and second thing is before I go to sleep why because my mom told me this is what God wants when I was a little kid said listen oh my teacher told me about and my mom told me about it's good to say before you go to sleep God wants it God is almighty God is great God is everything nobody told me God uh punishes people don't keep Shabbat people told me God wants you to say sh before you go to sleep God wants you to put his name on a piece of paper Okay so that's what I did you tell little kids this is what God Said you put the fear of God in them they'll do it and that's the only thing you have to hold on to until they have enough Torah knowledge that they learn in school and at home that it's become part of them and they want to do it but before you get to a before you get to love of hem and desire to do his will you have to have y you have to have fear there's no without you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you by Torah anytime.com