Peace between you & your wife is very VERY important. (5 minutes)

and we learn here in this week's par when in chapter 18 verse 12 after the malim the Angels come to aam and tell him this time next year you're going to have a son it says and sah laughed at herself saying after I have withered shall I again have a delicate skin and my husband is old s is saying how am I going to have a son she's laughing to herself how am I going to have a son I'm old now and my husband's old so hasem said to Abraham why is it that sah laughed saying shall I in truth bear a child though I have aged is anything beyond theem so here you see Hashem actually changed the truth Hashem changed What Sarah Said Sarah didn't say I'm old sah said my husband's old so what happened hasem forgot what happened so so hm is telling abam AB your wife says that she's old why because hem knows as the Creator knows his creation that if he tells the husband if he tells abah Listen by the way your wife said that you're old ab's going to take it to heart he's not going to like it well my wife thinks I'm old maybe she doesn't like me anymore maybe she going to look for somebody else a guy's always going to be jealous could be 150 years old still going to be jealous anyone that loves his wife has to be jealous obviously if you're righteous you have a certain you know you contain this jealousy but that's also the reason why a righteous husband will never let his wife walk around like a prostitute half naked and all that stuff never why why did you want to why do you want to share your diamond with the rest of the world for what what benefit do you get out of it that everybody has in their mind pictures of your wife naked this is what you want in your life I know forget the parasa people thinking about your wife naked is something wrong with you if you actually like that forget the P forget all the school forget all that stuff there's another guy in the world that thinks of your wife that is some there's something wrong with you if you're okay with that is M something wrong with you so abam here is getting news from Hashem that his wife thinks that she's old but she didn't say that she said he's old but hasem is telling him that he changed the truth in essence we're only allowed to say it because that's what happened it's it's written in the Torah Hashem lied he changed the truth for what for the purpose of schom bite because if you would have told Abraham that his wife thinks he's old Abraham could be upset at his wife and it could create schom B issues that that's how important schom is hasem himself wrote few verses in the Tora it's not a theory it's not like some P it's not some like commentary this is what's written here chapter uh 18 verse 12 and 13 literal Tor you don't need rash you don't need me you don't need anything you read it yourself this what it says so if hasem decided that schlom b is so important that he is okay with signing off his name with something different from the truth you think that it's okay for anybody to go to some grave or some anywhere and put his slum bite on the line even for a second even for half a second you think this sadik in uman where his body is buried you think he wants you to put your schom bite on the line you think the rebi from Lich think want want you to put your bottom the line by calling him mashiah by calling him God by calling him whatever he's not it's complete nonsense people have to start learning Torah from the sages from and stop making up this craziness that they've making up because it's not doing anybody any good so with that being said we see that this week's par already teaches us a very very important life lesson number one if you want to have the blessing of hem in your life you must have schlom because hasem himself obviously put his name on the line for it and also we talked about last week how in the uh the act of s Hashem allows allowed us to erase his name for the sake of schom so now we're going to