Parashat Va'Eira -- MaShiach Secret Message From Exodus Women

[Music] this next point is going to shake up some people but it's necessary nonetheless inside the when we pay attention to a little bit more of the details of what's happening in the we actually see that the say that the reason why hasem saved from was not because of the special men but rather because of the special women the special of is he saved am is from Egypt because of theot he will save am is with the Messiah at the end of times because of the sadikot of that generation same thing that happened will happen again but it's not easy to be sadika so in this par in between the words in between the stories we see the Divine hand at work there are a few women that are mentioned inside this Paras and each one will give us a little bit of an understanding of the ways of Hashem in chapter 6 verse 15 in this section it talks about how the lineage of the heads of am is the tribe of ruen and his sons the tribe of Shimon and his sons the tribe of Levi and his sons to show you where Moshe and Aon came from where Moshe and Aon came from at the end of the section in verse 30 it reminds us that or verse 26 again it says that this is Aon and Moshe which this is said to them take the children of Israel out of the land of Egypt according to their allegiance and then later on says this was M meaning it repeats multiple times this is the same M there wasn't two M and there's one MOS andon this whole lineage that we just went through is where Moshe andon came from now in between that whole story of how we go from the tribe of ruen and how his descendants and Shimon and his descendants and Le and his descendants all the way to M we see the first woman in this par who is this first woman can is that the name no she was a can mean she was a Canaanite it's the first woman that's mentioned who is this woman it says when it talks about the sons of Shimon the sons of Shimon Shimon was y all of these sons and then it was this name is one son that's the son of the Canaanite woman son of the Canaanite woman who is this Canaanite woman another woman also mentions later on but another woman that I saw noticed it's very interesting very interesting another woman she fast forward few verses in this lineage it says in verse Alon took Elisha the daughter of aminadav the sister of has wife and she bore him and before that it also mention the mother of and the wife of so we have another couple of women here have had the Merit of not only marrying the but also having three children all of them prophets M and after that it talks about Elish Elisha married Aon who Elisha was the daughter of amav the sister of and then lastly in verse 25 one of the sons of Aon elazar took for one of the daughters of puel as a wife who's puel Jethro it's another one of his names I believe he had seven names he took one of the daughters of puel as a wife and she bore him who pinhas so here we have four different women four different women that are mentioned first one is the second one is y third one is Elisha and the last one is the daughter of pel these the women that are highlighted in the Torah if it's highlighted in the Torah that means it's Carri there's many women lived millions and millions of women lived millions and millions of women were part of am they're not mentioned these men women mentioned that means it's something special what's so special about them to be mentioned T that's Eternal Hashem is trying to teach you teach us his ways what can we learn from these women in the times of the Exodus of and how could we apply today how is it relevant to today first and foremost who is the the overwhelming majority of the sages say the is another name for din the daughter of yov why was she called the why was she called the because if you rewind all the way back to Genesis chapter 34 chapter 34 you will see the horrible event that happened with daa that Dina got raped did not get raped by and she was embarrassed from that moment on and she refused to continue living our life she got in depression so figured out a solution you can't be constantly looking at your own depre you know your what happened and be reminded of what happened and get over it's very difficult so okay first of all the child that came out of it send it to a different family send her to a different family it's going to raise her and I'll make sure that I'll pray and I'll give a medallion to know who she is and so on know that she's one of our descendants send her they ended up kazal says they ended up giving that daughter up to who to poal to poal that daughter's name was osat not later on you fast forward a little over 20 years she marries yadik when your became a became the visoy of Egypt all the women finally saw his Beauty they all wanted to marry him and they all in some cases threw their underwear at him he was so beautiful they all wanted to just look at him they wanted to just look at him y was sadik who looked on the floor only until one woman threw a medallion that hit the floor and he saw this Hebrew writings Engravings on The Medallion and no one in Egypt knew Hebrew only he did he looked at it he said this was not granddaughter of yov oh I want to marry her so prophecy aem's Divine hand runs the world the daughter of of of daa ends up being the only one that's could actually marry in Egypt and that's what happens but now Dina still can't continue with her life because she remembers what happened and so on and so forth so kazal say that until Shimon married her she couldn't get over the embarrassment of what happened to know that at least if he marries me that I'm still acceptable I'm still acceptable so Shimon married her now why did this whole thing happen to Dina why isn't mention her name why is the Canaanite because she's this is a form of rebuke this is a form of divine rebuke Dina came from the seed of yov came from a KES KES and had all the opportunities of the world to be one of the most righteous women that ever lived but in chapter 34 of seph Genesis it says now the daughter of Leah whom he had born to yov went out to look over the daughters of the land she went out she went out to go see what the other people do the sages explain this contradicts the code of modesty why do you want to know what the go are doing why do you want to know what the other daughters in the world are doing why don't you stay with your own family why don't you stay with your own kind why do you care what the G are doing why do you care that the G wear wigs why do you care what the G wear mini skirts why why do you care if the go do this this and that why you want to be like them okay she got punished how punished severely one of those go raped and this is something she had to live with but not just then eternally so much so that the tah itself calls it the Canaanite woman why CU a Canaanite raped her this also shows the authenticity of the Torah itself that it's not hiding anything that's embarrassing like some of the other books in the world that's saw from different religions if anything it highlights it that's a hard punishment it's a very hard punishment why you're not supposed to be like the go to understand the significance of being a chosen Jew a chosen Ben is is one of the most important missions you have in your life if you misunderstand it you could literally lose your life din had an opportunity of a lifetime and for a moment she peaked she didn't go she didn't marry she didn't do anything she picked he said that's already too much that's already too much you care what they look like what they do where they shop what they eat what they don't eat why it's not enough what you have it's not enough to know you're the you're the daughter of yov it's not enough to know that you're the daughter of God himself it's not enough God says you are my daughter God himself God said you're my daughter you're my you you are my daughter you're my princess no one is above you the whole world was created for you my daughter is that enough you want more the whole world all the galaxies all the planets all the stars all the everything was created just for you my special daughter it's not enough you still want to know what the other go are doing why why it's very rude it's very rude Behavior as we talked about in the beginning of the sh all Hashem wants to do is give you good he made an event $500 zillion dollars just for you he built a whole world for you with planets and stars and Suns and little cute little bugs or sometimes they're ugly but for you they're cute maybe and and and flowers and they smell good and there's different colors and there's light and there's shade and there's air and there's water and there's fish and there's different types of fish and there's animals and some of them are Strang looking but there're still cute and there's children and even though you sometimes want to kill them but they're so cute you don't want to because they're yours and and you know and all these wonderful things he created all of it for you my pre his daughter he created it for you and what are you saying no I'm busy I want to see what uh what the non-jews are doing I want to act like them it's rude to say the least so she stayed with but her stature changed she stayed with she still mentioned in the T viol to be mentioned in tah but nonetheless we see here clearly K teaches if it wasn't WR we would allowed wouldn't be allowed to say it we see the stature changed the fact that you're looking elsewhere means you don't know what you have at home the fact that you're still looking at at other women means you don't appreciate your wife it's not your wife's fault it's your fault the fact that you're looking at your neighbor's car house and money means you don't appreciate how hard your husband's working the fact that you're looking at the neighbor's kids means you don't value your precious kids why are you looking somewhere else why why why don't you appreciate what God gave you the sages teaches who is Rich someone who's happy with a share hasem created the entire planet for you and you're still not happy it's very rude so the special excuse me the special woman lost stature within next woman was the ant of am she wanted to do something she went to am allow not allowed allowed not allowed one day am says listen par is killing all the all of all of us all the children all the firstborns listen we got to we got to leave we got to separate divorce is a get you ever see a complaint no well say Okay says no it's no okay divorce divorce then his little genius daughter the prophet Mir at 60 years old comes hey ABA ABA you're worse than par what what do you mean worse than you're worse than par why am I worse than Paro maybe it was my daughter told me worse than par I don't know if I would act the same way what did he say what he say why do he say the person never sinned in his life one of four people have never sinned in his life what does he say to his little Prophet daughter he says why why am I worse than po instead of go to your room you rude little kid he says why why am I was in Paro he says ABA is only killing the boys by you divorcing IMA everyone's going to follow you which means it's not going to be boys or girls you're killing both is which means that hem may not fulfill his will you which means will fulfill your will he says my little six-year-old daughter you're right give you $1,000 marry hook me up with your mom again with your mom she goes back to her husband she hey you me out hey you have to pay me extra no okay now I'm back do wants me back no problem you did it forv you want to do again for no problem what happened with that that removal of any ego what did she get she got the humblest man of all time to be her son she got the most important person in the bet mikdash the to be a son also she got the top Prophet woman in history to be her daughter Miram that's what she got for what removing ego and she's mentioning Torah by name next you have daughter of am who who's this how many women named today every day is does anybody know who's does anybody know who is there's a few people name but who is this mention T married what's so special about El what's so special the fact that she's married okay you don't have to be a genius it says it's married to married to okay what that makes it special okay was special you could say our one side was good she got lucky she got lucky she married she she call a good one no was the the daughter of Amad very special family why special family because aminadav was also the father of nakon who's who's was the one that said oh we're in the sea of reads on one side we have just Ocean on the other side we have desert and the Egyptians coming down to kill us nowhere to go some people want to commit suicide some people want to go and fight the people want to go back to be slaves says no no no if God brought us here that means it's for the best everything that the merciful one does he does it for the best like said page 63 or 66 at the end this what he said everything's for the best he says must be for the best if he brought us to the ocean it means for the best I'm going in what do you mean in it's it's deep that's aem's problem it's deep he brought us here that means he wants us here Egyptians are coming we obviously can't stay here that's against logic okay but the ocean's also against Logic No it's against human's logic I'm going in and he continued going into the ocean with 150 million per up to the point where he started swallowing water and it got to his nose and at that moment Hashem opened split the sea for him why you had you had the ocean split so obviously she came from a special family but how special is this family how Okay is good so she got lucky with a husband she got lucky with a brother who's is the tribe of Y where the mashia comes from Masia comes from why it's a family of it's not just oh he got big deal that's why I mentioned by name next you see each one of these is a character trait to have or not to have and then we finish off with elazar the son of Aon who married one of the daughters of the convert pel what's so special what what's so special elazar learned a lot from his father even more so from his brothers dying even more so from and even more so from his father-in-law that was that was is even though he was an idol worshiper for a big part of his life when he discovered the truth he left everything on a table and he went after it and that's how he raised his son and that's how she raised their son who did they get p who's Pinas P saved all of when we all sinned with the Foreigner woman Pinas went there and said I'm putting my life on a line for what for hem don't go against Hashem you want to go against hem I'll kill you and he went and he killed the leader of the Shimon tribe Z and killed both of them why for the honor of hem not for his own honor not because he's crazy not because he's not even a fighter he wasn't even a warrior but he got special strength where he killed both of then he lift him up in the air why honor of hem jealousy of hem what was the reward is's coin what was the other reward he's going to meet the Masia that comes from he's going to introduce him he's going to introduce him 3 Days Later 3 days before 3,000 4,000 years later you see you see the names are not for nothing this is inside the story you read a thousand times already you missed it I missed it also so we see when it says the say that hasem saved is because of the special women we see a few things these women really were special from the least of them to the greatest of them not to judge any one of them we see these women were really special we see these women were unbelievable what they did for what they did for the honor of hasem if we look at these Generations we see some similar actions so how come some of these things are not highlighted they're not highlighted because unfortunately us men we're messing up a little bit right now there is as I've told you many times and we'll repeat it again there is a big huge lie it's infected bigger than any disease that we've ever had and that's the disease of falsehood being taught by leaders to tell people that they're doing a mitvah when in reality they're doing an now when it comes to wigs this is not a problem for a small community this is a problem for pretty much the entire religious Jewish World a very small fraction of women comparison actually cover their head like they're supposed to according to the majority of Pim throughout all of history with a hat or a scarf many women wear wigs now there's been a debate about the issue of wigs for almost 400 years which originally started as we said in the past by a misunderstanding by the because all the went against it of the page 64b the Mish there that talks about hair on the head and and which the be went against and so did many many other of the fast forward to not repeat some of the things we've mentioned in previous sh nonetheless there are over 127 P throughout history that have said that wearing a wig is 100% assu why ass it's ass it's not allowed it's forbidden because it's not modest it's not modest because the mitvah of covering a woman's hair is an obligation it's not like a it's not a stringency it's an obligation it's an obligation it's an obligation in it's obligation the five books of Moses or so it starts but that specific is called it's an obligation in several places it's everywhere everyone knows that a Jewish woman must cover her hair and for Generation among generation righteous Jewish women all the all the way back from the days of the Kash over 3,300 years ago 4,000 years ago covered the hair with a 5,000 years years ago withu covered they with but now few hundred years ago things certain things changed so the M begins with this specific mishna which says the following a woman may go out on Shabbat with her hair braided with strands of hair whether the strands are her own hair or whether the strands are hair of her companion or whether the strands are of a animal with a frontlit or with head Bangles they are sewn to the hat with an ornament with an ornamental W Woolen cap or with a wig into the courtyard so this HMA and it continues this gar talks about whether someone is allowed to put something on their head and walk outside when there's no cuz in essence it's carrying something so is it considered carrying or is it considered something like a piece of clothing which you're allowed to wear so here it says there's a few different types of things there is strands of hair her hair a friend's hair an animal hair or there's a uh a hat by itself or there's a hat uh with bangles on it or there is a um wig a wig itself so here that she take said oh see there you go says that you're allowed to wear a wig on Shabbat so it means you're allowed to wear a wig on Shabbat it means you're allowed to wear wig the rest of the week but why did everybody go against what he said says because you didn't read Rashi you missed Rashi what Rashi say Rashi said first of all who are these women that putting strands of hair why are you just putting a strand of hair why they put the whole wig if you're already putting a put a whole thing why you putting strands of hair first and foremost you should know who's putting this hair first off some people get sick they get Bal spots so it's embarrassing to have a BAL spot so put hair on it second thing if you're going to uh cover your hair anyway with a with a scarf or a hat why do you need to put the strains of hair because if you've ever seen if you ever seen a cancer patient someone that's bald and they cover their hair with a bandan you know that they're bald so many of the women even if they cover their hair with a bandana and they really don't have hair under it they still put a wig why because it still gives them more of a comfortable feeling a comfortable look to have that puffy hair look under the K even if it's Jew or non-jew so it say that even obviously all the women are covering their hair if they're married so even if they're covering their hair they're covering that bolt SP with hair not because you're going to see that hair but rather because they don't want you to see that there's some type of hole there looks deformed so what's the problem of just simply wearing the wig what is what is uh Rashi say he says the the wig is allowed the wig is allowed because the only reason anything would not be allowed for example it's not allowed to wear certain ornaments on their head or certain things on their head because of the fear that they'll take it off on Shabbat to show it to their friend look how nice this Crown is look how nice my crown is and then forget to put it on their head and they're carrying it and they're violating Shabbat they're violating Shabbat because they're carrying something now so there certain things you're not allowed to wear specifically because a woman likes to show off our stuff if it's really nice she wants to show her friend oh look my husband just got this for me look my son just got this for me and so on and so forth and now you're going to forget to put it back to where it belongs and you're going to carry it and you're not have to carry if there's no so he says Rashi says there's no problem with wearing the wig why why is there no problem with wearing a wig because there's no fear of a woman removing that wig why is there no fear of that woman moving the wig because the wig is sewn into the hat that she's wearing on top of the wig the wig is sewn into the Hat she's wearing and of course she's not going to take off the hat because then you she's going to be violating the Torah she must cover her hair so even if she wants to show somebody hey look at my nice wig it's from France it's from uh uh Nigeria it's from I know Brazil wherever it is she not going to do it why cuz the wig is saw to the Hat CU she has to have something cover her hair so she can't just take off the wig she has to take off the hat if she take off the hat she going to show off her head she going to show off our real hair not allowed so here all of the all of the ones that say it's ass it's not allowed to cover your hair with a simple wig they're not using their own opinion this is this is what the says why is it not allowed to Simply wear a wig by itself why is it not allowed thear specifically says in the same place 64b because it will be considered an enhancement if a older woman is wearing the hair hair of a younger woman meaning you're wearing hair that improves your looks which is going to grab the attention of other people which is an immodest act by definition an older woman is not going to you know no older woman is is getting a wig of white hair if she's already going to wear a wig she's going to wear a wig of a younger woman's hair that is by definition not allowed that's what the says so when the missed it all of the other said you're 100% wrong and that's why the overwhelming majority of P throughout all of history have said it's forbidden 100% to wear a wig over 117 poim said it already before recent history another 10 recently were added but the recent 10 that were added were added for even another reason the recent 10 that were added were added for a more significant reason why would they added because after an in an intensive amount of studying that we've done with people in India people in different markets a lot of research that we did and as you all know I was on Wall Street for almost 20 years that was my profession that was what I did that was my expertise we pretty much have a not like a opinion it's a certainty it's a market certainty it's not my opinion it's a market certainty you go to any expert within the industry real expert that's not bias and you ask him where does the hair of real hair wigs originate from for the majority of the market statistically according to researchers Beyond myself over 90% of the hair in the world that goes for wigs comes from India no other place it does come from Cambodia and from China and and from Russia and from different places but it's small amounts in comparison to the large amounts why is it small amounts why can't they just bring half of it from Russia why can't they bring half of it from China why can't they bring half of it from Brazil each one of those countries has its own explanation first and foremost Cambodia it's very nice thank you very much for providing some of the hair you just don't have a very big population though to provide A10 billion business with hair it's a$1 billion Market it's not like a $2 million business it's a 10 billion industry you cannot Cambodia cannot provide even 5% of the markets hair finish gum Brazil a lot of people say Brazil comes from Brazil I asked some Brazilians oh you have people that donate hair and or or sell their hair in Brazil they start laughing in my face I said well okay you don't have to laugh at me why why you why you think it's not not funny I'm not really doing research like Brazilians and people from you know this part of world would be more likely to commit suicide from starvation than shave their head such is the appreciation of of personal Beauty in that country in that part of the world it's never happening it's never happening Brazil gone there are a few suppliers in Brazil but after further research we saw they were just smarter than everybody else and already in the early uh 80s and 1990s they made contracts with the temples in India a few of them made some big contracts with the temples in India which we'll get to in a moment okay Russia Russia has this thing that they do where they go to the the women prisons and they force the women even if it requires physical beatings to shave the their head and then they sell the hair this how many how many people in jail can you possibly have it cannot Supply $1 billion business I'm sorry so then you say okay you have only left Europe you go to Europe France England Italy you ask them you guys shave your head you see any bald people in the street they're going to laugh at you the same way they laugh at you in Brazil it's it's not happening you don't see the Queen of England shaving their head to donate our hair anywhere you don't see even the homeless people do such thing it's just not part of their thing and you don't see them selling it either you don't see them selling it either the reason why you don't see many people selling it because you can get it for free if someone sold it if someone want to sell their hair they sld it for a lot of money no one in their right mind would sell long hair that took him 15 20 years to grow no one in their right you might well sell for 50 bucks you're going to sell for several thousand why would I buy as a wig maker as a supplier why would I buy your hair for two three four five six S8 $9,000 if I can get it for free meaning for pennies on the dollar just go to India so now you have yourself two main markets left you have China and you have India China gets hair from dead people China has a population of a billion and a half people approximately and when people die part of the people actually they shave their head and they sell the hair this is forbidden according to the Torah you're not allowed to use the anything of the dead so that I don't have to debate it's a known fact it's not allowed but Chinese you can tell it's Chinese here nonetheless either way even if it is even if it's not it's forbidden it's forbidden but even more so even more so there's not as many people dying in China as there is people donating hair in India why India because India for hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of years has had it as part of their many religions to donate the hair to one of their false gods to one of their Idols you have over a billion people live in India currently average statistically according to Market Research not me market research professionals experts different major hedge funds major uh research houses major business outlets and so on said average person has donated a hair at least two and a half times meaning two and a half billion that's the market there's no other country including China that can supply the market like this why because even if you got the hair from some European or some Israeli or some Cambodian or some Chinese or some it still will be drastically more expensive why cuz someone's selling it here the people are giving it for free and they're actually paying the temple to take the hair no other the market can compete with free it's the best price now why are they doing it for free because it is 100% idol worship just like a million big difference we brought to inash they bring their hair to their false Idols of rats and statues and all types of foolishness same thing in their eyes obviously stupidity but nonetheless their purpose is the same according to the according to the according to the entire T once something was used used for idol worship it can never be undone that's why as soon as Yeshua went into went to isem said burn all the trees why burn the trees what they do somebody worshiped them yeah but the tree itself is innocent didn't do anything doesn't make a difference it was used for idol worship once it can never be used again it must be destroyed the only Mitzvah left for its existence is to destroy it it cannot be used you can't make it into paper you can't make it into tables you can't make it use it for beauty you can't use its fruit it must be destroyed meaning if you have a wig and you have a zillion hairs in the wig and one hair in it one hair came from idolatry Just One Hair not the whole thing one hair but you don't know which hair the whole wig has to be destroyed why you can't take the chance can't take the chance that that one hair is on your head cuz that's idol worship now all all T all Scholars all real Jews everyone agrees you're not allowed to benefit from idol worship everyone but there was some heretic that pretends to be a rabbi that came up says no no we're going to kosher the wigs we're going to uh oversee it we're going to this we're going to this we're going to that I already made enough videos about that that the whole coastering of wigs is complete nonsense there's no such thing it cannot exist there's no way to kosher it especially the way that he doesn't do what he what he says that he does and even he himself when rash Shalom came out and said it's not allowed it's forbidden to use wigs from India or from anywhere from idol worship he himself says no I don't I don't agree with rash I don't think that uh the idol worshipping is a problem even if you get it from India you can still use it so if you don't think that they need to be koshered how are you koshering it how many kosher institutions are there for wigs one only him I made I made already enough comments about the whole koshering thing what am I telling what's the here summarizing everything to a point how is this connected to to to to to the to the wife of of elaz how is this connected the main defendant unfortunately the main defendant of all of the wigs in the world right now the main defendant of fighting for wigs right now the main unfortunately the main defendant of it is kabad stands for three levels of of wisdom Unfortunately today after the rabbi died it stands for three other things it stands for you have to believe that the Reb is mashiah stands for that everybody's a captured baby you're okay wherever you are and stands for wigs you go toab and you tell them listen it's forbidden over 120 P said that it's not allowed they said no no no RAB allowed it you tell them it's forbidden there idol worship all Poke said it's not allowed including the the Rees of course the re would never say ID worship was allowed it's against the T was a kados was is kados not allow idol worship no no it's not idol worship what I told you it's idol worship the idol worship himself made a video said it's idol worship I have people in India in India saying it's idol worship we do idol worship yeah sure what's the problem they have nothing they don't think there's anything wrong with it they're not embarrassed of their idol worship they're proud of it you know how many videos I have of of people saying it's idol worship while they're shaving their head they're proud of it just like you're proud of putting feeling on your head just like your your your wife is proud of putting a scarf on the head just like you're proud of seeing get proud of eating kosher food just get proud of sending your kiss to Yesa they're proud of their idol worship so they made many videos there no problem they're actually looking at you like what's wrong with you why don't you why don't you also pray to the rats and the bats and the the snakes and the the statues with the uh with the Elephant Head why why don't you pray to them too they don't know what's wrong with you they don't realize it's wrong with them so you tell the no it's Idol wor no no the Reb allowed the Reb allowed there's no way the r would be allowed would would would make a mistake what God and for the last couple of days I've had this for months or for the last two days I've been debating R FR and I have been debating these several several kabad rabbis where they're literally it started as we just posted something about uh some person had a dream that the shalom came to him in a dream or came to her in a dream and said I never said that wigs are the wigs of today are allowed I never said that I'm mashia tell people to stop tell people stop doing it stop saying that this is my name I posted this in this different groups immediately these uh first Rabbi publicly insults me says you have to be an idiot to believe such a thing and you're a fool and you're a this and you're that a lot of compliments thank you very much I need thank you very much for helping me out fine so then we started talking about I said well wigs are not allowed and like no but they re be allowed and we have other proofs and we start going back and forth so initially they provide five sources of P we the sources it's all M don't know how to read these people we provide them 25 sources showing them that the five sources are wrong they provide two or three more sources we provide 50 more 50 more so far we're we're outnumbering a little bit 50 more not allowed what do they do they start cursing us out start insulting us we continue for the there proofs then we say even the rebbi Lich Reb himself did not agree with what you're saying why what the guy say the rabbi the kabad rabbi what does he say he said yeah yeah I just came back from such and such town in Israel and I was making sure to look at all of the women to make sure they're wearing wigs wait excuse me what did you just say I what did you just say yeah make sure to look this is in writing I can show it you it's in Hebrew though but I can show it you I make sure to look at all of the rabbis and all the women to make sure they're wearing wigs why are you looking at women you why you looking at other women you don't you don't obligated to watch your eyes and then they start creating laws and they start creating things in the name of the re the that was a is KES they start creating things what they say theab refus to marry any couple if the woman did not agree to wear a wig are you stupid are you are is something wrong with you where did you come up with such nonsense we sto providing them proofs that the Reb himself himself wrote letters for M for the scarves and this goes back and forth back and forth not so much them it's more cursing us it's more proofs nonetheless we're trying to get to theit we're trying for we're figuring it's frustration we're not taking anything personally whatever it is what it is you get a little heated sometimes fine you want to get heated fine no problem so after two days of arguing I've been dealing with this weak thing for a couple years already Ro FR for even more he wrote it in his books and so on I have of a lifetime I think to myself all this debate who was the closest person to the rebi who is the closest person to any is KES who of course Rabbi isn't close is close but aside from that inside who his wife what did his wife do his wife definitely did call him mashiah I can tell you that but what did his wife do I said let's find out I went on on some research I found you some confirmations I found you some confirmation you can't say it's my opinion why the source is the source of everything I have right now is kabad it's not me it's I I didn't I don't I didn't go back 30 years in time to take these pictures kabad has several movies about the rabbitson she was a is she was m in our generation when she lived she died in the late 80s the Ritson was Muska was M Unfortunately they didn't have any kids but when there was a lawsuit and they were looking at the estate they were looking into the the state of kabad and so on and so forth they asked about the rebi and they asked about her her Father which was the uh the uhab rebi before the rabbi schneerson and they asked oh what does he have what does he have he goes no no the rebi belongs to the everything he has is for the everything there's no person our house our car our money our bank everything is for the one little boy came to the rabbitson he says Ritson where are your kids little kid doesn't know M what having kids is M doesn't know innocent innocent Mama's pure Soul what the rabbitson instead of crying like all of us want to cry right now for such a thing what did she say she all the are his kids all theim are kids so I want to know what is in our generation did if you're saying so many things about a husband sh I want to see what she did she go with her husband she go again to what she do if she's a I want to be like her you don't need to listen to my words anymore you could just see pictures is the first picture this is a very famous picture of the rebbit rabbits and snon you see that there is a little bit of hair and a hat there's a little bit of hair and a hat now this is obviously for anyone any woman would tell you this is obviously her real hair we showed this to theab rabis they said no no it's a wig It's A Wig I said okay let's check another one let's check another picture you have another picture what about this one it's another hat this a wig too from 80 years ago it's a wig oh no it's a wig It's A Wig hasem hasem have mercy on you tells meem have mercy on you for calling for thinking this is not a wig hasm have mercy on you I said okay fine no problem no problem this is a wig this is her by the way I said okay no problem let's see next next next picture here she is over here same picture as the other one just the original picture this a wig oh no it's a wig has have mercy on you it say It's A Wig I said okay no problem fine no problem we have wigs we have a lot of wigs we have a lot of different types of wigs then you have the movie the movie uh called the um Life and Times of the Ritson life and time of the Ritson a brief biography of reiton K musers it shows several pictures of her some of that I showed you some that other this is one of them this is one of them and you see that there this is her you see that there's hair here in the back and there's a hat is a hat okay and okay let's say this is also I made it up I don't know somehow or whatever it is fine no problem now oh so so you know the AL is that you are allowed to show according to Al you are allowed to show up to three finger fulls of hair up to three finger fulls of hair you're allowed to show front or back or so onad claims today's kabad not today's people claim no no we hold by the Z who says you're not to show even a single hair not even that's why the wig is better according to them and to actually wear is's a sin according to these rabbis that I had a debate with it's a sin if that's a sin what's AV Mitzvah anyway so they said that's why so I said okay so what about the rabbitson she's showing some hair no that's a wig that's a wig okay fine it's a wig so let's just go fast forward and we go to 1985 just a couple years before she died and we see what the Ritson is wearing next to a a man that's not a husband this is actually a picture that was taken when they were questioning her to some type of a financial issues some type of lawsuit and you see you can't see in the back digitally but OB she's actually wearing a she's wearing a some type of a cover on a hair and the front is showing about three finger FS or even a little bit more of three finger FS is showing next to a strange man obviously a cameraman so obviously she's this is not a picture that somebody got behind the scenes and she didn't know cuz if she knows that there's people out there she sadik she has to cover her hair now if case this was not convincing let go there's another version of the picture now she looks and you can see clearly that she has some covering our hair and a little bit is not covered in the front next to the same strange man whoever this sadik is 1985 gives you the date and everything and if that wasn't enough I told them all this what about this like no no it's a wig I'm like what a wig an old woman is going to get white hair wig he said no no it's not it's not if it's not it's only because she's home so she doesn't have to cover her hair I'm like what do you mean she doesn't have to to cover him there's strange people next to her not a husband did you just create a new law he said don't make fun of me this what he's responsible don't make fun of me so then we have another picture of the rabbitson of her in a car this is a somebody took she was in a car and actually you can't see it here but she's actually wearing the same exact K was as before and the front is showing but she's in a car so you can't use that excuse of she was home and she didn't know and she doesn't have to meaning every single argument you have is going to to the garbage she wore and last but not least is another one where she covered her hair here she doesn't have much showing at all uh she covered our entire hair has a black and white picture so now you have isak that dedicated her life to kabad Dedicated her life to her husband dedicate her life to a what did she do she put a on now if that wasn't enough I figured I already have let's go all the way what did his mother do guy's not going to go against his mother you know his mother was what's the story about his mother his father was a huge huge one day there the Communist wanted to kill them wanted to kill them nonstop but the father his father I remember this story from years ago his father used to write on the corners of the Pages cuz they didn't have money for didn't have money for uh for paper very you know how expensive paper was back then like today you buy 500 pieces of paper for $2 back then you have 500 piece of paper you're already rich so people used to write on the corners you know between you know you have the book you have the book and then you have a little bit of white space on it little white space that's where they write theim on the corners over here so she took all of these Kim all of the books instead of clothes instead of food instead of money she took all of his and she took it out of the country to save the books she put a life on her line no money no clothes no nothing she just took his books why the world must see his this is how much she loved to this is it's not regular women it's no different than the in that generation no different than and there no different what did she do rebbit Anderson kherson look at this nice hat look at this another hat some hair showing on the side but you have the Hat more hair showing than the rabbitson other one but nonetheless there's a hair covering which we'll explain in a moment another one these are all the pictures that are available there no more pictures you want to go find one send to me but I don't I didn't find I did a lot of research covering more this is a meeting first meeting she had with the REI himself she hasn't seen him almost 20 years meeting with all the rabbis and the rebi rebi here as you can see is very young this is the rabbitson his mother the hat looks like a strl she covers everything huge and again another meeting over here another black and white picture this is the rebbit in here this is the rebi again a huge hat and if you want to read you should read the story The Life and Times of the Ritson Muska it's actually on kad's website it's actually on rby.org or something like that very very good article also has many of the same pictures that I just showed you uh and others uh not others and uh what's it called just in the article now what's the point the point is a few things number one even if you want to say which is a lie even if you want to say they wore both of them both of these wore a wig let's say they did they didn't but let's say they did what kind what kind of wig did they did they wear what did they wear they weree exactly what the says exactly what Rashi says they wore the wig under the Hat okay I wore the wig white wig okay fine never really existed why no no problem and we the wig under the Hat though not Wig by itself not a wig by itself covered my hair obligate no problem but just like Rashi says just like the says just like the Mish says no three feet long wig reach the floor not even a short wig nothing why it's not allowed P not allowed it's p not allowed so even if it was a wig you see SE covered by a hat in reality it wasn't a wig you want to believe it's a wig fine okay if you're holding by the you want to hold by him to wear wig no problem at least hold by what he actually did don't hold by something you created out of your thin mind of what you say he did hold by what his wife did hold by what his mother did no problem but don't go out and pretend like you're covering your hair like the says he says these women they they're they're they're pretending like they could fool God they're pretending like they can fool God by fulfilling the obligation of covering hair with hair they're pretending to fulfill the obligation you think you can fool it's nonsense it's nonsense you have to understand to be is not easy it's not easy it's not easy to bring to a point where will save us out of the T of the world out of the impurity of the world of Egypt it's not easy you fast forward 3,300 years we're in the same situation for any woman to do serious chuva and stop with the nonsense it's not easy but at least don't lie about it don't pretend like you're finished with your Chua don't pretend we have all a lot to do we all have a lot to do but knowing the truth is half the battle knowing the truth is half the battle that's what we can do chuva you want to hold by rebi no problem do what he did you want to hold by R do what he did whatever you whatever you want to hold do what they do don't start creating new rules in someone's name that died and you can't ask him now the best part is they said no RAF kaneski said it's allowed I said no way he didn't say it's allowed I have a video of him saying it's not allowed a video right now he just made a few months ago a couple years ago video of him saying it's not allowed they showed him a 15-year-old wig meaning it's a wig that's been beat up he says this looks like real hair it's not allowed what would they insist so much and does this allowed why they insist that it's allowed because the guys don't know how to watch their eyes that's the truth the guys don't know how to watch their eyes they want to be like go they want their wives to look like go they want to make the same mistakes Dena made in the palha Dina made a mistake she wanted to see she didn't want to be like the go she want to see the guys today they want to see what the go look like oh look they have long hair I want long hair that's the truth that's the hard truth that's what they're going to try to hang me on that's what they're going to try to fight me with it's no problem me I'm for God whoever wants to fight good luck well maybe they all interest whatever of course his interest is money but in reality it's eyes in reality it's eyes yeah of course there's money yes of course at the end of the day to do Chua for such a thing don't take it for granted it's very difficult why is it very difficult for all of them to do chuva just like said sometimes the embarrassment is so big I rather the person die than me go visit them in hospital sometimes it's so hard for them to do CH they rather die themselves even than than put a on but that's the difference between aik and that's the difference between a and you want to bring the mashia for real you will say Masia mashia you say want to bring mashia okay bring the mashia do CH do Chu it's not easy it's not easy but you can do it if you couldn't do it Hashem would have never given you would we've never given you this test and that's what we'll finish with the p Shalom says nearly all of a woman's reward and Punishment in this world and the world to come all the reward all of the punishment comes and is dependent on her modesty it's the P it's not me you have a problem go to him he's in right now with the rest you have a problem go to him that's the truth at least we know where we stand it's nothing against there's nothing against anyone it's only against lies it's only against lies there's many that I say stories on in whether it's zil or the over many others and himself but enough's enough stop desecrating hashem's name stop desecrating even your own Rab's name saying things in his name come on no enough enough let we all need to do CH that's what the r says which teaches they have a way a structured study for for for for rambam where they finish the rambam each year I believe it's it's there's a said they hold by it so okay hold by everything he says hold by everything he says don't just pick and choose we're not Christians this will shock enough people into cha not into war with me it's not me it has nothing to do with me if one thing that I said Is A Lie prove it if one thing that I said Is A Lie prove it if one thing that I said has a bias that I have some personal interest interest prove it if you can prove it I'll admit it openly I'll make a bigger lecture about it I'll make a bigger lecture I have no problem it's not no no benefit if I if I said something wrong if I said a mistake I'll brn it if I have a some vested interest in it I'll admit it but the onus is on the hus is on everyone face reality okay this is where you stand now what you want hasem to answer your prayer now what it's time do it's time do listen we learned from and we're going to learn next week hem put the plagues on in order to show us the measure for measure punishment against the wicked Shalom for us to be judged as the wicked Shalom we want to be the righteous they're in between the lines we want to be like y want to be like want to be even like din we want to be is one of them Al we don't want to be like Po we have to we have to stop sinning just like it said the end of even though afterm rebuked him so many times seven times he beat him on a head so far and continue to sin Shalom we continue to sin Shalom we continue to sin and think that what we're doing is a mitzvah [Music]