How To Do TeShuva for SEXUAL IMMORALITY?

now the sages instituted this particular time as a auspicious time to do chuva because the Gates of Heaven are open wider if you will to help person do you up for this whereas the rest of the year you can do it but you're on your own so as I mentioned in previous sh the way to do you up for it briefly is number one you have to stop number two you have to get educated one of the ways to get educated for it in the English language is to Simply watch all of our lectures pertaining to this topic there's somewhere in a neighborhood of 70 70 something lectures pertaining to this topic that we've made some are long some are short but every single one of them is different from the other they could teach you a lot of different things watch every single one of them add them to your study schedule again male female married single old young doesn't really make a difference the lectures are pertaining to everyone everyone that simply functions it's pertaining to you so that's that's another thing third thing is make sure that you pray to to have mercy on you there's different parts of the prayer that you could have a personal prayer and amid pray for to have mercy on you and to give you the strength to overcome this to overcome this desires to only do it in a permitted way another thing is is the time to do tiim that's why many of the cabalists and different people that follow the cabalistic world uh they do uh fast during this time of the year uh some people fast a uh you know once a week some people fast twice a week some people fast more some people fast less some people don't fast at all uh people ask me all the time should I fast and the answer is always the same if you fast in will allow you to learn even more Torah or at the very least as much Torah as you learn normally then yes go ahead but if fasting is going to hurt your Torah even by 1% it's better not to fast why because learning Torah is much more valuable than fasting much more valuable than fasting people would come to and ask him what about fasting he said go learn T what about going to the graves go learn toah what about doing this what about doing that all of those things are good but learning to is number one so you have to learn to and one of the things you have to learn is about this specific issue we have two books that you can download in English you can download on our website for free there are uh some other books that uh are a little bit hard to get that you can get a uh on different websites but realistically speaking the most amount of information you're going to get about this topic in English is from our lectures simple it's not a uh really complimenting ourselves or patting ourselves on a back it's just a reality in English it's almost a unheard of subject uh especially uh how it was for the last five or six years seven years uh really any a lot of the material that came to uh place in English has only been in the last couple years for for uh people but generally speaking there's a lot of information in Hebrew but very very little bit in English uh furthermore in regards to uh this issue people that do fast good for them but since the sages knew there's going to come a time that we're going to live in a weak generation people that cannot fast and even if the ones that can fast every single time somebody was with Aid a woman that's a having a period or a woman that is not his wife therefore she didn't go to the mikve or if she was somebody else's wife uh so on and so forth all types of immorality crimes or he was uh doing a uh you know something by himself or she was all of these things require 80 plus fasts per crime so the reality is the average person today 20 25 years old simply has to fast to Eternity so since that's not going to really work out and you staying alive at the same time sages instituted something relatively simple you do the fast with money and I've mentioned this time and time again I mentioned it again simply because sometimes people watch the sh this one and they don't watch the other one so they keep asking me privately so since this is the time we talk about this issue anyway might as well mention it we fast with money how do we fast with money you take the average value of how much it cost you to eat per day let's say you know obviously not your normal food I mean if you're if you're a rich person your average day cost you $300 of food obviously you have to you know make everything uh aligned to that perspect to that uh relevant to that but if you're an average person you could probably eat for $5 a day $5 of you wasting seed is 84 fast fine * 84 is $420 for each and every single time a person wasted seed they have to donate $420 now specifically they should donate for this specific issue not only in mind but also in uh the cause itself it should be an institution whether it be our organization bem or anybody else that you know that's dealing with this issue should be uh someone that's specific to this issue uh someone that's teaching it someone that's learning it and so on and so forth why cu has to be relevant to you uh so and it can't be just like donating it to just uh some local kabad house or to a new chandelier for the synagogue that's not going to really work so the point is that any woman that was ever promiscuous any guy that was ever promiscuous again themselves or otherwise doesn't really make much of a difference they have to do this tun at some point or another if they want to arrive in heaven clean now you don't have to do the tun in essence in order to arrive in heaven because there is a that says that if a person does CH for everything and you stop the crime and you don't do this anymore technically you're going to go to heaven what about all of the sins that you've made all of the sins that a person made intentionally turn into accidental turn into accidental now surely there's still a punishment for those accidental sins so if you don't mind paying a little bit of uh you know a little bit of punishment for The Accidental sins that you don't have to you keep your money invest put put in a stock market maybe buy a few stocks have $500 million by the time you die that you can't really use and no problem you don't have to do it but if you want to be clear of any crime whatsoever when you arrive to shamim then I would recommend you do the best that you can again this is for you more than this for anybody else one of the main things that uh I I see sometimes people do is that they uh they try to do the fast which is admirable it's very admirable for a person to try to do the fast but then they fail doing the fast and they figure like might as well give up on everything this is a silly thing this is a silly thing again you can fast once you can fast twice whatever you want to fast but you have to also be realistic with where you stand to go fast 800 times or 8,000 times however many fasts it is it's not realistic for anybody in this generation it's just not there are some people that can fast several days in a row which is uh considered as if you fasted many many times more than just three times but but the point being is that's requires a lot of training uh and also monitoring you can't just do it just because you feel like it so the point being is is that sometimes people need to realize that gives you money to do good with it not to just simply buy more houses or to have a Roth IRA account and maybe perhaps a 401 K2 just in case you have to make sure you use your money wisely now we're coming out with this movie very soon you know pray for us that we succeed pray for us that we survive because this particular movie unlike any other thing we've ever done is mamash 100% you know fist fight with the Satan everything that could go wrong goes wrong it's very difficult I don't really want to tell you what's really going on because it's just some stuff that's just not necessary for anyone to know it's just really difficult and it's beyond the the scope of this conversation but I can tell you for sure it's not an easy battle this thing comes out this it's almost finished it's just that if it actually comes out it's going to be like the biggest the biggest sacrifice we've ever made in our life it's just that difficult so it's a very big spiritual battle anybody that's going to help support this particular film the distribution of it we're going to try to have it obviously marketed everywhere on the internet uh all things considered it seems like marketing is becoming more and more difficult since Google Facebook and uh Twitter have decided to become the the new president uh and the New Media the new regulatory body the new government the new world order the new everything I think that uh marketing is becoming a little bit more difficult we'll have to be a little bit more creative than typically but nonetheless we're going to do everything possible to Market it that way we're also going to print out DVDs to distribute the hard copy we're going to print out cards and so on and so forth there's going to be a lot of different ways to get this film out there because we literally want to get this film out there to tens of millions of of people right off the bat tens of millions of people right off the bat if we did 2 million with the film of my private life this should do at the very least 20 or even 200 million that's how good this film is but it's going to require a lot of help so this is the time where people need to look at their investment account and see which one is more valuable to them the investment in this world or the investment in the next world that's why I mention it that's why it's important because again decided that it's going to be ready around this time our goal is to have this film to answer everybody's question of when when when our goal is to have this film out before the end of before the end of shim so we have five more weeks we're hoping we'll have this film out within the next month okay now that means that we're going to have to have a lot of Miracle happen during that time but nonetheless we're going to need a lot of a lot of money a lot of time a lot of Miracles a lot of everything during that time uh and I don't want to release this film just hoping for the best you know we want to have a serious plan a serious marketing plan a budget and so on and so forth so if we could raise at least a few hundred th000 I think that we can get it done but again I think that once it's out raising money for it it's going to be relatively easy only problem is it's going to be a little too late for certain uh parts of the plan you know once people see how good it is they're going to want to invest their house into it uh it's just simply that good but it kind of kills part of the plan to do it after the fact so again this is a uh just a uh advice anyone that wants to listen you know when you have a dream and you see a pretty woman you've had that a have actually see an ugly woman in dreams it's always a pretty woman and by the way it's always the same woman for all of us all of us have a dream of the same exact woman and she's more dangerous than the Satan himself who is she you're not even allowed to say her name what are you going to call for people are addicted to it I live a normal life repent and you will find Salvation [Music]