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rabbi where after
some you guys will ask some questions
and will give us the answers. Tonight's
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we'll get right into it. Uh the uh the
topic at hand is certainly something
that's going to peique many people's
interest which is uh aside from it being
parhat we're going to talk about wealthy
rabbis. Uh people love to talk about
money. People love to talk about other
people's money and uh worst of it all
people like to talk about rich rabbis.
So uh the uh it's an interesting uh
topic uh if you actually understand the
topic. Now this week's
parasa discusses the
qualifications required of the kohhen
gadul. While you see that there are all
types of things that the coenadul has to
wear, has to do the Torah also
goes deeper into it and says that the
coenad doll has to have specific
qualities.
Some of them make sense while others
unless you study it do not. Says that
the cohen has to have the highest level
of wisdom. He has to be the
top. He also has to be really strong.
Has to have extraordinary strength. Now
the two of them could easily be
explained. But what many get confused
with is when they hear that the kenadul
also has to be wealthy. Not only wealthy
as in rich, but he actually has to be
the richest of all the
kanim, one of the richest people in the
world. Meaning he goes from being a
regular with uh barely enough money to
pay for the diapers and the meals for
his family to on day one he becomes one
of the richest men in the world. Uh
certainly a big change, a big uh sign on
bonus. Now, it's even more
confusing when you hear that the
obligation on making him rich is not one
that Hashem takes upon himself, but
rather it's an obligation of the other
kohanim to make him rich by taking money
out of their pockets, out of their stock
portfolios, out of their uh retirement
accounts, out of their real estate
portfolio, out of theirs to make him the
richest. Now this of course touches on
the topic of rabbis and scholars today
and in past history which uh were very
wealthy and the secret behind all of
this is profound and perhaps is going to
unravel some insights that can help each
person understand the role of money in
the world. This of course is going to be
followed by your questions. But when we
delve into the
parad is full of uh extraordinary
insights, we see that the kanim are
unique. They're unique people. Am in
general is unique, but the kanim had a
special role to serve in the beta
mikdash.
And a person would ask, well, if he's a
cohen already, then that should be uh
already more than enough. How come the
same
Torah says that uh this cohen if he has
a m if he has a some type of defect
whether he's missing an eye an arm if he
has a wart uh if he has a uh cleft lip
if he has any type of
deformity then he's not allowed to serve
in the beta mikdash he can eat from the
coban specific cobanut not but he
cannot serve in a
bet. But is it his fault that he was
born with one arm longer than the other?
Is it his fault that he has a uni
brow? He was born that way. How come
Hashem kicked him out of the beta
mdash? Further, you could
ask the cobot, the
sacrifices. Perhaps for some people it's
easy to understand. But Hashem says that
when you bring the
sacrifice, make sure that the
sacrifice does not have a m does not
have a
blemish. Whether it's the goat or the
cattle, the
sheeps, any of which there is a blemish,
you shall not offer for it is not
favorable for you.
Shem does not
want
any bull with a blemish,
any sheep or goat with a
blemish. What kind of blemishes? The
same ones that we talked about the
Quinn. Can't have a missing ear, missing
eye, a
wart, a split
eyelid, a moist skin eruption. Meaning
this goat that you're going to bring has
to be tiptop shape, beautiful goat.
But you think about
it, you can say, "Well, listen, you
know, it's, you know, you have
to bring a goat." Fine. So, bring a good
one. Yeah. But at the end of the day,
what does Hashem eat it? Does Hashem
really need our goats? Does Hashem
really need our
bulls? A fire consumes it. What does he
care if it has a ward or not? Whether
it's a war to it's it's a cleft flip. He
burns the whole thing anyway. What's
What does he care? Why is he kicking out
all these poor goats that didn't choose
to have a wart? Didn't choose to have a
cleft lip, a a split lip, a uh a uh dry
skin, or some type of other blemish.
They didn't choose it. Why is Hashem
kicking them out? Maybe they want to be
sacrifices, too.
And last but not
least, Torah
says
that
the in verse number 10, chapter
21, who is exalted above his brethren,
Now if you just
say we all understand that he
is
exalted. Why does the
Torah have the what seems to be like an
extra superfluous word? A word that
seems
unnecessary that he has to be exalted
above his brothers.
If you just say
co that's
exalted, it's enough. We know
obviously he's
uh top of the line. He's the best of the
best.
These are some of the
questions that were asked that will be
answered and
the interesting information you get from
the
Torah is truly life-changing once you
understand it.
the
in page
18A. This is
the and we open to page 18A.
The sages teach us as
follows in regards to this verse that
says the Cohen
Gadul who is exalted above his brethren.
It teaches us that the kenado must be
exalted above his brethren in strength,
in beauty, wisdom and
wealth to such an
extent
that if he does not possess
wealth then his brethren the
kuanim should make him exalted by giving
him their own money.
Meaning this is a Torah commandment.
This is not a suggestion. Please give
him some taka. No, no, no.
Obligation. Once he was chosen to become
Quen
Gad, he has to become the wealthiest
coin of all the
Kanim. And the Khanim therefore have to
pull their
resources, sell some stocks, sell some
bonds, sell some real
estate, get rid of some of the uh
savings
accounts, pull the money
together after they find out who's the
wealthiest coin right now. Oh, we have
uh Steve Cohen. How much he worth? He's
worth 15 billion. All right, guys. We
got to get at least 15.1 billion right
now. He's got to be richer than Steve
Cohen. What do you mean 15? I'm gonna
have to sell my entire
portfolio. Well, you and a bunch of
other people have to sell stuff because
you have to make the the coin gadole the
new coin gadole the richest
coin.
Now, he's wise. He's
strong, wealthy. But why on my dime? Why
do I have to make him
wealthy? Ask the clan, right? That's
that's the natural
question. day before he was chosen to be
kuen
regular regular simple Torah scholar
sadik extraordinary wisdom righteousness
that's why he was chosen at least during
the first beta mdash second betmdash
there was a bunch of corruption there
where people would buy the
kuna that's why each year the coin would
die because he wasn't the right one that
hashem did not choose
But the question
begs
why? Before we answer
why tells a story of
Pinas
is with Sadik
was
also what's he used to work in the
fields to clear out the rocks and the
boulders. Worked very very hard hard
work.
Wasn't like today where you have
tractors and all types of machines that
move the stuff. No, he had to do it by
hand. He had to do it all
the machinery of that
day. And one day he was chosen to be the
So the betas sent the dignitaries,
the honorable people to go and
tell he's the new
When they got there, they saw him
working in a ditch trying to get a
boulder out of
there and it said, "You have been chosen
to be
the pinish says to
them, "No, no, I I can't do it. Who's
going to work the field? Who's going to
feed my family?"
They went and
got enough gold coins to fill up the
whole ditch that he was in, making him
extraordinarily wealthy, a billionaire
in one
second. You don't have to worry about
money anymore or the field. Here you
have more than enough
money. And he became
going in regards
to him being above his brethren. He also
had to be
tallest. And the teach that as soon as
the special
oil
was, they would put this special oil on
him. That's where the word mashia comes
from. He would actually get
taller. He would become more handsome.
and he would suddenly become
extraordinarily
strong and his wisdom grew
tremendously. All of this miracle in
front of everyone. You see this guy,
he's 5'
n, regular average built, sometimes has
a hard
time getting out of bed. They put the
oil on him. All of a
sudden, 6
foot6 above everyone. Muscles sticking
out of his shirt already. He's so big
and bulky and strong. And all of a
sudden, he's
beautiful. Yesterday, you were barely
able to look at him. Today, you can't
get enough. Wow, he's so handsome.
You ask him a question right now. It's
like asking AI
Rabbi get you answers with
sources. This was what
happened. So the question is all right.
So since there's already open miracles
here with this new Quinn, you became
physically bigger, stronger, more
beautiful. What's the difficulty for
Hashem to simply just deposit $100
million in his bank
account? All of a sudden, his little
shack that he calls a house becomes a,
you know, a castle. What's the
problem? No way. Hashem says, "No, no.
The mitzvah obligation of making this
cohen rich is on you.
you the have to do
it.
Why? Why did the have to make them
rich? That's
because wanted
the to perfect their midot, their
character
traits. Since human
nature of people, not just the Ghanian,
needless to say people today, the human
nature of
people when it comes to giving is not to
want to give anything
extra. They're willing sometimes to
donate and give. There's a campaign to
feed a poor family. It's a campaign to
do some kiru. They'll give. Oh, what do
you I'll give I'll give a hundred. I'll
give a thousand. I'll give just enough
whatever you need so you survive and you
can still make shim and you don't starve
to death and these continue learning and
they can afford to buy the diapers. But
if you tell them, listen, what about if
we decided that you have to give not
only money for the Torah scholars and
the but you actually have to give
enough to make them rich? Like what
rich? What are you picky now? What are
you spoiled? What's wrong with you? What
kind of uh kind of rabbi is this? He
wants to be
rich. No, no, no. Nobody wants to be
rich. Question is, what if you were told
that you have to do that? Average person
will say, "Listen, say thank you for
what you got. I sent you $150 a month. I
sent you $500 a month. That's it. Say
thank you. It's enough." Yeah, but you
could afford $10,000 a month. I can
afford whatever, but I work for it. Why
do I have to give it to you? You don't
have to. question
is why have
to why have to give so
much and how does that interpret to
us people
today you see when
people give out of their own heart it's
very different than if they're asked
usually people don't like to be asked I
had somebody contacted me the other day
and told me
listen I uh wanted to give money to this
uh local new local
synagogue that I
had and uh I told him I have this money
that I already committed to
donating and I'm going to give it to you
guys. Oh, great. Thank
you. On Shabbat, the rabbi sends me a
message and says, "Listen, when are you
going to send us the money? Because we
really need it.
And the guy says, "Why? I got really
upset. Why is he asking for it?" But
you already told him. Yeah. If I already
told him, "Why is he asking for it? I'm
really turned
off." When you offered it out of your
own good
heart, you had no problem with it. When
he asked for it, you had a problem with
it.
Why? It also connects to that nature
that people have, which is they do not
like
to feel like they're giving more than
what's
necessary. If it's absolutely necessary,
if it's coming from my own decision,
then yeah, but if
it's you're convincing me, you're
pushing me, or perhaps
even I find out you live in a big house
and you already have enough food to eat.
Why should I get you a steak dinner?
Why? Why should I get you a new car?
Why people don't like
that? Of
course, in the world of
idolatry, they not only do this to their
people, but they
literally have these priests and pastors
have literally hundreds of millions of
dollars. And they
openly
command their congregants to buy them a
new plane for five, 10, 20 million, even
if they have already two or three
planes. like we mentioned in our
film. Oh, I got good
news. But if a rabbi went out there and
told people, "Listen, I need you guys to
come up with some money so I can get a
new plane so I could travel to different
places." People are like,
"Huh? What are you talking about? You're
lucky if we uh buy you the ticket.
You're lucky if we buy you the travel."
Rabbi, how much do you cost if you're
going to come to our community? Where's
your community? Oh, it's only a 5 hour
flight. Only 8 hour flight. Al, so that
means I'm going to waste an entire day
traveling each
way with everything that I need to
bring. And you're asking me how much it
costs.
Depends who's going to be there. Are you
going to have 500 people there, thousand
people there? 2,000 people there? No.
No. We're going to have 50 people. Oh,
so you want me to waste two days of
travel for me to go talk to 50 people?
So, that means that you're not even
willing to invest money to market the
event. Well, no. We'll we'll put up uh
we'll send some text messages because
it's
free. Thank you. Let them watch on
YouTube. Let them watch on a BH app.
Why?
Simple. If a person is not willing to
invest, it's very hard to succeed in any
aspect of
life. But people don't like to do that.
Why? They feel like it's extra. They
feel like why are you asking for extra?
Why not just be happy with just come
over here, spend an hour, two hours,
three hours talking, answer 50 million
questions. We'll pay for your flight and
we'll give you 500 bucks. What am I
going to do with $500 in America? You
can't even pay for uh a week worth of
rent. Rabbi, aren't you working for the
people? No, I'm working for Hashim. I
help the people. I work for
Hashem. But people don't understand
that. They think you want extra. But if
it's a heretic, they're willing to pay
him
$50,000 just to look at them. Why?
Because the helps them make bad
decisions. But the question is again and
again, why didn't Hashem do it and make
the coin rich? Because he wanted the to
work on their midot. How so?
First, like I said, the not the nature
of a person is to not want to make
somebody else rich. Needless to say, a
Torah
scholar, a rabbi, they don't want they
think that if you're a Torah scholar and
you're not poor, there's something
wrong. Maybe you stole the money.
The sages actually
teach
that there is actually
times
where we are obligated to give money
even when it doesn't make sense.
One of the examples from the Torah is
in chapter 15 verse 8 where it
says you have to open your
hand and give this
poor what he needs and what he's
lacking. Well, isn't what he needs and
what he's lacking the same thing?
No. Because you see sometimes this poor
person used to be
rich and because he used to be rich he's
used to a certain type of
lifestyle and you your staka cannot be
just give him a dollar and a coffee and
say and feel like you did a mitzvah. No,
you have to give staka properly to make
him feel like he used to feel when he
was rich. So if he's used to eating
meat, you have to give him
meat. If he's used to having a horse,
you have to give him a horse. In fact,
if he is used to having a servant run in
front of his
horse in order to move the people out of
the way to let people know he's arrived,
you have to do that, too.
In fact, the says a story about Hela
Zaken and it spec specifies when he was
zaken when he was already
old and he
had a guest that used to be rich but
became very poor and leazaken made sure
to do what exactly what Torah said. He
gave him meat like because he was used
to eating meat used to eating steak
every day. He gave him steak every day.
used to having a horse. Gave him a
horse. Used to having a servant run in
front of him. As he's riding the horse,
he rented a servant. And one day when he
couldn't find a
servant to run in
front of this poor man that used to be
rich, the people saw that Helaken
himself was running in front of the
horse for this man. Three
miles. Three miles of running.
This
is page
67b. Now you see
the part of the
Chev and as the Rambam writes
in chapter 13 12 that all of Levi do not
work outside of the bet mikdash there
they are Hashem's preservation of the
holy they're servants of Hashem which
means
that they didn't have regular
jobs they had to work in a beta and the
24 would suffice to provide for
everyone.
Some became very wealthy through
different and different things that uh
were available at the bet mikdash the
gifts and so on and therefore some of
them became very wealthy but once the
there was a new coin
gdole quickly they would find out who is
the richest among us oh it's Steve Cohen
how much does he have he has 15 billion
all right so we have to gather among all
of
us more than 15 billion why coin gad has
to be
Now, naturally, a person if he was a
coen and he knew that it was time to get
a new coen cuz
the coen that they had
died, every normal person would hope
it's them. Oh, let's pray for it. Hashem
will pick us. Honey, read some taleim.
Kids, read some taim. How about we're
sleeping? Wake up. I gotta become
coadal. Come on. You know, it's a
lifecher. Right now, we could barely
even fix the hole in the roof. If we
become coad, we'll have a castle.
Everybody gets out of the bed, starts
reading tale, starts praying to hashem,
coad, make aba co. Next door there's
another coin. They're doing the same
exact thing. Next door is another coin.
They're doing the same. Everybody's
praying. Everybody wants to be chosen by
Hashem to be the
coal. And the next day when they find
out that the coal that was chosen was
not them naturally everybody say I don't
understand why I don't understand why he
chose him. I mean listen I know that
Pinas is a Sadik. I know it's Tommy but
uh I don't think that I'm any
less. I know he's a good guy, but
listen, I asked him some questions and
uh I knew the answer and he
didn't. I know that this but everybody
become
jealous cuz they wanted to be the Quanka
doll. Not only
because of the money aspect of it, but
also the significance, the extraordinary
promotion. You're top of the top.
Nobody's better than you.
You're the one that goes and speaks to
Hashem in the Keshim once a year on
Yamipu. You have a special relationship
with a bul on day one. You become
taller, more handsome, more strong. You
mean you're 40 years old now you feel
like you're
20 because you became quad. So naturally
everybody would be a little
jealous. Says
says in the Torah, my dear children,
this is exactly
why I'm responsible for making him
taller. I'm responsible for making him
more handsome. I'm responsible for
making him more wise. But you you have
to be the one that makes him rich
because I want you to perfect your
character traits and make sure that not
only you eliminate that jealousy out of
your
heart by learning
Mousar, but rather you elevate
yourselves to the point where you accept
the chosen Coen Gad with a good
eye and make him rich. Not only you're
not jealous, but you have to accept him
with a good eye. Oh, wow. He just bought
a new house. How much? $2 and a half
million. Wow.
Kazak. Oh, wow. He just got married.
Muk, good job. Wow, great. I'm happy for
him. Oh, they just had another kid. Wow.
I thought his uh thought he was done
with that. He already uh he's 50 years
old. No, no, he just had another kid and
this is already two years in a
row. Ever hear that? Most people when
they give blessing sometimes, they don't
really mean it. Why? Because they're
jealous. They hear that their uh the
rabbi just
got a lot of money. Well, what did he
do? Why does he have a lot of money?
They hear that their neighbor
has a big
uh a big uh reward. He just won the
lotto. They don't usually say book.
Usually it's a little pinch. Why not me?
How come he has the new car? How come he
found a How come she found? How come
they
have expects the to be much better than
everybody else? Because why? Because
they have to work in the beta mikdash.
They have to work in the beta mikdash.
They are front line.
And therefore they are subject to
different rules than everybody
else. They're subject to different rules
than everybody else. They're in the
front
line. Now to explain
why the koban the sacrifice cannot have
a defect is easy. How are you going to
bring the King of
Kings something with a defect when you
know too well that if you are had to
bring a present to the president of the
United States, you're not going to give
him anything with a defect? Look, the
king of Saudi Arabia with all the honor
and all the cavode that he has for
himself and everybody scared to death of
him in his own country, what did he do?
He bowed his head and gave Donald Trump
$400 million uh gift. Whether he accepts
it, rejects it, and so on doesn't make a
difference. National security problem
could be a problem. But nonetheless, the
guy gave a present. I mean, you're a
king. Why do you have to give a present
to another king? Look, I'm a king, but
he's uh listen, he's uh top of the food
chain right now. The strongest country
in the world.
And not only $400 million president, but
on top of that, investments of tens of
billions. On top of that, other
things, if you had to go meet the
president because you wanted
something, you're not going to come
there with a uh listen, I got you a
coffee cup. I got you a coffee cup. It
keeps your coffee warm. Okay, enjoy.
You're not going to come with it. You
rather come with nothing. But if you
already have the means to give a gift,
you're going to give him something
that's the best of the best. And if you
see that it has even a small scratch on
it, you're going to replace it. Why?
Because you have you have a brain. So if
you know that if you were going to give
a gift to your boss, to your
father-in-law, to the a king, you would
give the best of the best. Why would you
think that you can give anything less
than that to Hashem? It's not because
Hashem needs the sacrifice to be perfect
as if he's eating it. He's not eating
it. It all gets burned. Hashem doesn't
eat, but rather it's a show of respect
that you have for the king that you give
him your best. Now, that's relatively
easy to explain and
understand. Now, we take a step further.
Why is the
kohhen only allowed to serve in the beta
mikdash if he himself does not have a
defect? He's not responsible for his
defects according to him. He was born
that way. He was born with a uni brow.
He's born with one arm longer than the
other. He was born with a missing toe.
He was born with one eye working and the
other one not. You know, he was like one
of these people that have two different
color eyes. It's not his fault. At least
that's what people
say. Fault, no fault. Not allowed to
work in the beta mdash. Why? What does
Hashem care? He's really good with the
koba. He knows how to do everything. He
studied all the
laws. He's not gonna mess up. No. No.
It's not about that. You don't
understand.
You see, every time people ask questions
about whether it's birth defects,
schizophrenia, children that die young,
the answer is always the same, which is
that there's no such thing as a baby in
souls. No one is a baby. Whether you
were born yesterday or you were born 50
years
ago, neither one is a baby. Why? Because
the souls already started at the time of
Adamishon
5,785 years ago. And each time that soul
completed that their time in the world
but did not complete their
tikun, did not fix themselves, did not
achieve their
mission in the
world, they would have to be
reincarnated. Sometimes they would have
to go to gay, sometimes kafa. But
needless to say, they would sometimes
have to be reincarnated and come back to
life. We have several videos about
reincarnations. You could actually see
one of the videos where we have many
famous people, including Donald Trump
that look like other famous people from
previous generations. And usually, not
only do they look exactly alike, but
they have a similar roles roles and
functions in the world. Whether it's
Mark Zuckerberg from uh from Facebook or
it's uh Putin from Russia or Donald
Trump and many others are shown in that
cool video. Highly recommend it.
Needless to
say, when a person does not complete
their tikun, they have to come back. But
sometimes part of their tikun is to come
back to this world with a
defect as if it's a mark on their
physical body.
to remind them of their previous life.
So if they come back to this world
blind, perhaps it's because they made
certain sins with their eyes in the
previous life by looking at things that
are not modest. Perhaps if they come
back to this life missing an arm, it's
because they
stole in their previous life. Perhaps if
they come to this world as a parapolgic,
they can't walk. It's because they were
going to places they're forbidden from
going to in their previous
life. And the point is that the Cohen
that has a
moom is not just a coen that was born
unfortunately with a defect. No, it's a
ken that came to this world to complete
his mission by
suffering that he cannot do everything
that other kuanim can do even though he
wants to even though he feels like he
can. says, "No, no, no. You came
here to
simply serve me in different ways
because that suffering you have by not
by not serving in the beta mikdash with
the and and everything else, that's part
of your tikun because of the mistake you
made in your previous life." As the
says, there was one cohen that was uh
one of these germaphobes. He was uh
didn't like things to get on his hands,
so he put gloves on his
hands. When saw that, they said, "What?
What is What are you
doing? We have the privilege to serve
Hashem and get blood on our hands as we
do the sacrifices. What are you doing
with gloves?" "No, no, I don't want to
get my hands dirty." It wasn't too long
after that where Hashem decreed that the
king at the
time got upset at this coin and chopped
off both of his
hands. You're serving Hashem with gloves
on your hand.
So the one that comes with the is not
because of some materialistic
reason that Hashem only wants
good-looking people or only good-looking
cobanote. No, no, no. You see,
everything that's there is there for a
reason, for a divine reason. He has that
wart or unibrow or cleft lip or whatever
it is that he has that moom. He has it
because of a divine
decision to stamp him with that during
this life and endure that
test. And if he overcomes
it, certainly he'll be rewarded.
So when it comes to the sacrifice, we
see it has to be special. When it comes
to the kanim, we see it has to be
special. But we're back again for why
does he have to be rich though? I mean,
he's in the beta mikdash all day. Why
does he need to be
rich? Says in Proverbs 18 verse 23,
But the rich one responds with brazen
words. The Cohen is a leader. Tells
people the truth. What you need to do,
where you need to
go, who needs to do
chuva. If he was a poor
man, people wouldn't listen to
him. Before anyone knew who Elon Musk
was, nobody listened to him. Who is this
kid? What does he want? After founding
PayPal and then the uh the uh uh other
company Tesla and Boring Company, all
the other stuff, becoming the richest
man in the world, there's nobody in the
world who doesn't want to hear what he
has to say regardless of what he says,
regardless of whether it makes sense.
Everybody wants to hear him. Did he
really become that much smarter since
then? No. He was already smart back
then. But the difference was back then
he was broke. Nobody wants to hear
advice from a poor person. And in fact,
that's what also says in Proverbs
chapter 9 verse 16. The wisdom of the
poor is disregarded and
unheard. So in order to make the kohhen
effective in part of his job, Hashem
wants to make him rich. Has to make him
rich. But there is also another
reason, another secret behind
why he has to be
rich and in fact why Hashem makes
certain Torah scholars very rich.
Rabaka became one of the wealthiest
people of the
land and the says that he acquired
wealth from six different places. In a
beginning he was cleaning horses and he
was practically a servant.
But after he became he became not only
the rabbi of 24,000 students, huge
yeshiva budget of hundreds of millions
of
dollars. But he himself became so
wealthy that he bought his wife the
sadika that let him go, pushed him to go
study for 24 years. He bought her the
crown of Jerusalem full of diamonds and
gold. It's called the crown of
Jerusalem.
He promised her when they were sitting
when they were uh uh sleeping in a
barn before he became
a she would wake up every day with the
straw with the hay in her hair and he
would have to pick it off and she would
cry because she would oh how poor are we
that we're sleeping in the same place as
horses.
Kabaka said to one day I promise you I'm
going to buy you the crown of
Jerusalem. Crown of Jerusalem was worth
tens of millions if not more. And he
bought her
this and he got wealth from six
different
places. Some of it was from her
father-in-law after he discovered who
Albaka was and how great he was. Some of
it was some from uh certain sea. All
types of wealth, different extraordinary
wealth that he got.
Zazalya had so much money. He literally
had cities and boats,
ships, extraordinary
wealth that wrote the Mishna. Our entire
oral is on his
shoulders. He was extraordinarily
wealthy. So wealthy that he had a lot of
horses.
And the guy that was in charge of all
the
horses became a
multi-millionaire simply by being by
taking the waste of the horses and
selling it fertilizer. There was so many
horses that had that the waste that come
from it made his the guy that's working
in his and his horses became made him a
multi-millionaire.
That's how
rich
was
shalom. Said in a
sh anyone that serves Hashem, learns his
Torah through poverty is destined
to one day learned the Torah with
wealth. And he says, "Oh, how we how
much Torah we learned when we were
poor." It was so poor. Literally him and
his entire family were living in a one
room house. One room, not not even
apartment, one room house. No kitchen,
no bedroom, just one room. And they had
to share the bathroom with other
neighbors. When somebody would come over
to learn with them, the wife and the
kids
would hide under the
table and be covered by the uh table uh
cover while he and the other Torah
scholar would sit at the table, learn
for
hours. But eventually, Hashem made
extraordinarily wealthy. There was
nothing that people didn't want to give
him. There was one rich man that used to
give him a new BMW every
year. Another one would uh they would
want to give him planes and helicopters
and all types of things. He didn't care
for any of this stuff unless it was
going to help. So yes, he would use the
helicopter to go to lectures because you
would have seven, eight lectures in one
day, different parts of the country.
There was no other way to do it.
And there are many major Torah scholars
that also were rewarded literally with
the with the gift of the of the Gado.
They became extraordinarily
wealthy.
Why? So people could listen to them and
hear them is one reason. But there's one
other
reason. Shi
inot in chapter 8 number
four says a story
ofan and
lakishan came to the bet midash he was
the kuresh kuresim and his kava and
talmid and also brother-in-law was and
they would study every day and was a
genius with all of
questions you would ask. So much so that
after
died lost his mind looking in the
street, where are you? Where are you? He
couldn't live without him and he
eventually died
himself as a result of this. But during
their great years, there was one time
the says that came in to the bet midrash
and did what he typically does every
day. started asking
questions, different complications. He
had very very clever questions. Not just
uh listen, how do I know uh when Shabbat
starts? You know, he had very very
clever questions. You learned, you see,
extraordinary questions and
complications.
So asked a question and didn't just
didn't respond to
him. Okay, maybe he's has something else
on his mind. And he waited a little
while longer and he asked another
question. Kanan didn't
answer. This is a little scary. Why?
Maybe he's mad at me. Having mad at you
is life
danger. Says there was an Torah scholar
named one of the sages.
He
came to the bet midash
ofan never saw him
before and there was an
exchange
where Capella was uh in essence won the
debate. So
when Kanan lifted his eyes to see who is
this who is this scholar that so wise
that
has defeated me in this uh debate and he
looks
at at its face and he sees that looks
like he's smiling as if he's laughing
at Kanan looked at him open his eyes
looked at him he died on the
spot which later on the says when he
found out that he wasn't laughing at
him. It's just that he had a
uh a uh injury on his face or where his
uh his face looked like he was smiling
all the time. He had a
moon. So then resurrected and brought
him back to
life. But the point is
that is concerned if if mad at me that's
not like oh yeah he's mad at me maybe
he's not going to talk to me today. No,
this is a life risk.
So he asked him are you
okay
says answer him what can I do that the
whole body depends on the heart and the
heart depends on the
pocket
huh what do you mean the whole body all
of the parts of the body the arms the
legs Everything depends on the heart
because if the blood doesn't flow to the
heart, everything
fails.
Okay? And what could I do that the heart
depends on the pocket? Now, everyone
knows thatan who himself had money in
the past sold all of his assets, his
fields, his places that he had because
he didn't want anything bothering him
while he was learning
Torah. In the
mid chapter 8 section number three talks
about how he loved the Torah so much
that he decided that money matters are
bothering him while he's learning Torah.
So he sold everything so he just has
money to live. But now he's saying
something that seems like it's
contradicting it. The whole body depends
on the heart but the heart depends on
the pocket. So he says what are you what
are you talking about? He
says, "On the way here this morning, a
bunch of bandits attacked me and robbed
me of all the money that I had and what
can I do that it's human nature of how
created a person that now it's bothering
me to the point that I can't focus on
your questions on learning
to rest who used to be the head of all
of the mafia, the whole all of the uh
all of The bandits before he did Chuvine
became one of Is says can you at least
tell me which direction they went they
came from he told
them took a break I'll be right back
after lunch
went found the
bandits and
got their attention pretty quickly
telling them bring me every single scent
that you took from right
everything as if you didn't touch it. He
took got all the money. Some say he even
killed the bandits. Others say he just
let them go. Either way, he brought all
the money back to Kanan. And Kanan was
settled and they were able to learn
Torah again. So on one hand, he loved
the entire Torah so much that he sold
everything just as money doesn't bother
him. on the other hand getting robbed
for the money bothered him seems like
it's
contradicting himself answers it says
you have to
understand that we
learn also in the mid and many other
places that instilled into the
world a certain
rule where three
sounds three different types of sounds
bring pleasure to a man. Midash says
this. What are these
sounds? The sound of Torah, the sound of
rain, and the sound of
money. Why is this the sound of Torah?
Somebody walks in to bet midash. He
hears everybody learning
Torah. It's like
amazing. Amazing. The story they say
about you know he would come into the
betrash hear the Tomim learn and he
wouldn't be able to go anyway just was
in awe of it couldn't
leave sound of Torah a wife hearing her
husband learning Torah kids hearing
their father learn to a father hearing
their the kids learn Torah one of the
greatest pleasures I have in my life is
when I hear my kids learn Torah or they
say at the
Sound of Torah. Give a man
pleasure. Two, sound of
rain. Sound of rain. Especially if
somebody's a farmer, somebody is in a uh
has businesses that depend on
it. Sound of rain bring pleasure. But
even people that have no financial, at
least they don't think they have any
financial dependence on rain because
everybody really depends on rain. the
life source of this
world. Even hearing rain brings pleasure
to a
person. So those two
are easy to understand. But what about
sound of money? This is a rule that
Hashem instilled into the world. Sound
of
money brings pleasure to a
person. What is it? Rolling of coins.
Usually if somebody drops a coin or if
they do it on purpose, kids play with a
bunch of coins and they pour it, it
doesn't really bring anybody any
pleasure. So what does it mean sound of
money? To understand
it, we go to the sephil of Minhag
Mari the Mari says there
in
83 a story about Rabenutam the grandson
of Rashi.
was the say that although the is that we
have to Jewish men have to put on the
rash first with a blessing and the
raenutam after without a
blessing
the have higher level of
sanctity that's why if you study it's
good to study with
If you study with
your
says obviously known all over the world
extraordinary scholar Kadosh there's
even stories of him speaking to Moshe
Rabenu I mean all types of extraordinary
things anytime
time he wanted to go into the most
complex and difficult parts of the
Torah. Going to things where you
literally had to break your head in
order to figure out study and study and
review and another review another things
that were extraordinarily difficult.
He would prepare himself by first
getting a big pile of gold
coins and put it on his
desk. Huge pile of gold coins. He was
wealthy.
He would put it on his
desk, look at
them, and this would open up his heart
and his mind, and then he would start
learning Torah with a new mindset that
would allow him to study the most
complex aspects of the
Torah. Why is this the case? Because,
like we
said, instilled into the world three
sounds that give pleasure to a man. the
sound of Torah, the sound of rain, the
sound of money.
So while we explain the sound of Tawa
and sound of rain, when it comes to the
sound of money, it doesn't literally
mean the sound of money, but rather
there's a certain nature instilled into
a
person that they have a sense of
pleasure from knowing they have money,
from winning, from
succeeding because
the is materialistic.
The always wants people to sin with
their body, to sin with money, to sin
with
materialism. The is
constantly sending tests to people with
physicality. And
therefore, instill
this into the Torah so that it could be
used in order to elevate the Torah
instead of looking at the money like
unfortunately most people would look at
the money and then go start spending it.
Go start gambling it. Go start playing
with it. No, just look at it. Know you
have it. Know you have the blessing of
Hashem. It opens up your mind. And then
start learning dua.
look at the fact that your stock
portfolio just went up 100%. Then go
study
Torah. But if a person just lost a bunch
of money, it could hurt him. Not just
hurt him financially, it could hurt him
even in his ability to focus.
So
this is one of the reasons
behind why a kadosh who commanded the
kanim to make
the kenadul extraordinarily wealthy
because the kenad is now more strong,
tall,
wise. But for him now to continue
elevating himself on a regular
basis, that extraordinarily
extraordinary new wealth will give
him the wherewithal to do it. Not only
because he's no longer scared of telling
people the truth because he's not
worried about people not donating money
to him, but on top of that, because of
that nature that's instilled into the
world that gives a person a certain
sense of
pleasure that he could use for the sake
of
Torah. This is the reason why if a
person truly understood
what we're saying here believed
it. They would do whatever they can to
empower the Torah scholars of the
world. Not just to give them the, you
know, the remains that usually you give
to a dog, not just to give them whatever
spare change you don't care if you lose,
but literally enrich them just like a
enrich
and many
other people that do it. In essence,
they
become partners with to bring his
blessing to the world. Why? Because now
that Torah scholar is going to be able
to do more, teach more, learn more, do
more, be more, and that extra goes to
the world. That extra benefit goes to
the world. But people that don't want to
change their
midot, don't want to do any of this,
don't think this is true, don't think
this is right. Simple. It's not because
they don't believe it. It's because they
don't want to believe it. Because
they're still stuck with that natural
state of baseness where people simply
don't want to give anything more than
absolute necessity. Why should I make
him rich? Let him be rich on his own.
Let somebody else make him rich. Why
should I help him more than the absolute
minimum? I'm already giving whatever I
feel like
giving. Sure, you could do whatever you
want. But we see
here didn't just make the cog rich. He
also because the cogul had that
position, he also
had the type of uh term where the
blessings will be fulfilled. So when
people
theim knew that it was time to do the
everyone fought over it. Why? They knew
whoever does the becomes rich that
year. And therefore they had to make a
uh everybody had take turns. Okay. This
year Davidid's going to be rich. He's
going to do the next year it's going to
be is going to do the he's going to be
rich next year. That wouldn't happen if
the Coen Gad
wasn't the Coen Gad like he was supposed
to be. In so many words, the more people
empower Torah scholars, the more people
empower the world of
Torah, not only are they empowering the
scholars in wealth, but they're
empowering them in wisdom and in Torah.
And that
extra prophet is then disseminated to
the world. That extra Torah that he
learns, that extra ability, that extra
health, that extra wisdom, that extra
power that he now
has, he now shares with the
world. And this is the reason why made
sure that those that have the big impact
on people, he gave them extra blessings.
Why?
Because those blessings benefit
everyone. In fact, they benefit everyone
even more than they benefit the kuhen or
the rabbi, the Torah scholar in the end.
Because at the end of the day, the cohen
doesn't want to become rich because he
wants to buy a new
Tesla. He wants it because he wants to
become closer to Hashem in order to
bring everyone else closer to
Hashem. And based on we will succeed in
doing so.
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is a answer to the questions
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back to the lecture. So, with that being
said, you guys can start asking some
questions, and will Hashem will give us
the
answers. Let's see.
Is wasting seed
Uh no wasting seed is not one of the 36
sins that mut mentions in the first duff
duff bit uh two there's the 36 sins that
are ket wasting seed is not uh one of
them but uh ket is just a certain class
of sins it's not necessarily the uh
worst or the only ones that are the
worst because uh as the uh
and many other places talk about uh the
consequence of sins. The consequence of
the sin of wasting seed is in the same
category as consequence of Shabbat or
idol worshipper where they go to gum and
don't come
out. So it's like a uh a certain class
of sins. It's not necessarily the only
ones that are
bad. Does wasting seed hinder on clim
climbing Yakov's ladder? Yes, wasting
seed makes a person disconnected from
Hashem. But even more
so, the
Mishna says that
uh each time a person makes a sin, he
creates
a prosecuting angel. Each time he makes
a mitzvah, he makes a uh angel that
protects him, a defending angel. This is
typical with all sins with the exception
of wasting seed. that kazal say that
wasting seed does not make one
prosecuting angel but rather millions of
them. So when a person wastes seed, when
a person commits
immorality, they literally create
millions of angels that are there to
destroy them and entice them to do even
more sins and make them have much uh
more difficulty in learning Torah, in
praying, in keeping mitzvot,
uh in being loyal to their wife, and all
types of other things. So, it's a uh
it's literally like drinking poison uh
putting poison in a person's nama. It's
the worst thing in the world
uh in regards to uh LGBT as far as uh
the uh Torah commandments is that it's
forbidden. And uh according to uh the
Torah, the punishment for a person that
uh goes against Torah in that aspect is
has no end. Anyone that wants to know
more details can watch my film about gay
uh and they can see what happens to
someone that wastes seed and magnify
that even worse for someone that does
more than wasting seed like the LGB and
all the other filth that's out there. So
it's not a matter of whether a bed uh
gives a penalty or not. It's a matter of
uh a
kadosh giving a penalty because the
penalty that uh the bed could give the
worst one is simply one that ends in
moments. But the penalty and punishment
that Hashem gives it doesn't end in
moments. It doesn't end in years.
There's end there's punishment that
literally does not
end. And the uh the the fact that it's
forbidden both for men and for women is
the forbidden for men is clear and for
the uh for women also is clear. There
you look at the Rambam. Rambam says that
the uh when the Torah says don't act
like the people of Kanan in Egypt, it's
referring to
that both for men and for women. It's
not just men.
In fact, the
uh um of Moshe Feinstein Shalom brings
the Benishai
uh and says that uh when a woman is
immoral even uh on her own, she creates
uh the same asim just like a
man. So the
damage is
uh exponentially higher than people
realize.
There's no such thing as that that's
their opinion. This is this is this is
our sages. If a person does not believe
in even one word uh of the Torah, not
just the written Torah, but even the
oral Torah, the the Talmud, doesn't even
uh believe in one
uh that's there it's considered an
apicos which
is in itself without any other sin
removes a person
from so person should be very careful
thinking that uh they could just say oh
no it's just this rabbi's opinion it's
just that sage's opinion I have a
different opinion don't be uh don't be a
fool these are these are our sages uh uh
when they say something it's not an
opinion. Usually people that think that
it's people that never really learned
Torah to understand the difference
between the sages uh and regular people.
And the Shabbat says even the sages of
the time of the said about the previous
generation where they compare themselves
to their previous generation. Obviously
we cannot even compare to of today
needless to say of the but the sages of
the was saying the rabbis that they
had if they are angels then we are men.
If they are uh men then we are
donkeys. And the Benishai says, "If the
sages consider themselves donkeys in
comparison to their rabbis, we're not
even donkeys in comparison to those
sages."
So when a person thinks that they know
more
than whether it's a gdole that lived a
thousand years ago or even a gdole that
lives
today, then you can know for sure that
that person is a little
bit
more like a donkey
than they should be.
Okay.
Why do you say to people who say that
they don't accept from the khared
world their are from other Jewish sects
like religious Zionists who decide who
the real
is are not
decided by people is are decided by a
kadosh a kadosh chooses who's going to
be a because there are many many wise
people there are many many clever people
there are many people that learn
But
a is not something that somebody
decides, okay, he's he's a and that's it
from now on. No, it's simply
a literally chooses people where you
know that what they say that
is their blessings come true. Their
Torah is always emit. Uh it's it's not
something oh he's more popular, he's
less popular. No, it's simply everyone
knows. Even the enemies of the Torah
know who is are. Even people that are
picosi, people that are heretics, people
that are against lefty liberals,
politicians and so on. When they come
and they want to speak to the world of
Torah, they don't come to the religious
Zionists. They come to Rafki. They come
to Rauy. They come to the the Torah
scholars that the Torah world knows is
not people that pretend to be because
they have a uh good cameraman and a few
shekels in their pocket. So Israel, it's
a it's not a dispute of uh of who they
are. Some are more connected to one good
over another. There's no problem with
that. But uh as far as a uh uh who is a
gdoll, that's never really a dispute.
Everyone when someone is chosen by
Hashem to be a Gdul, everyone knows it.
Everyone that's familiar knows within a
second of of of uh of understanding who
this uh Sadik is knows this is not a
regular person. And in fact there are
countless stories uh of uh people that
uh tell about themselves of when they
met even if they came uh without even
belief in God in some cases without in
belief in uh in basics of Judaism
without belief in anything literally
they would come to and literally submit
like little kids. There was actually uh
uh literally entire volumes of books,
you know, talking about this type of
stuff of how people uh they may want to
criticize and dispute and say a lot of
nasty things from a distance, but from
the second they are in the presence of
one of these or they're aware of what
these have have said, have written and
they understand the magnitude of this
person. Immediately the opinions change
immediately. It's not it's not a uh
question of that. So as far as who
decides it's not it's not it's not it's
not an election like people it's not an
election simply it's
understood. How does one overcome
financial arguments with his wife if
having financial difficulties when the
wife is not as religious and belief in
Hashem as much as the
husband? Well, I mean one thing has
nothing to do with the
other. If somebody's having financial
difficulties
uh then certainly they the first thing
they need to do is to check the
spiritual status of the house. uh if the
uh spiritual status of the house is uh
mediocre where they keep Shabbat they uh
eat kosher but the wife is not modest
but the husband doesn't learn to that
they should know that the reason why
this is happening is because of them
meaning the husband is at fault of why
his wife is not modest and the wife is
at fault for why the husband doesn't
learn to why is that the case Why isn't
each person responsible for themsel?
Simple. If she really wanted him to
learn Torah, she knows exactly how to
convince him to do it. Each and every
day, she knows how to convince him how
to do it. Just like she convinced him to
buy a new house that they can't afford.
They she convinced him to move to a
community that she he doesn't want to go
to. She convinced him to go to certain
vacations he doesn't want to. She knows
exactly how to convince him when she
wants to. She should use those same
talents to convince him to learn Tawra
each and every single day. Whether it's
cooking, cleaning, uh te that, everybody
understands be a woman. On the other
hand, if the wife does not want to walk
around uh modest, it's because of the
husband. It's his fault. Sure, she makes
the choice of what to wear, but she's
only making the choice of what to wear
because since the husband doesn't tell
her that she's beautiful every second of
the day and he is very very stingy when
it comes to compliments and he is eyes
are looking elsewhere, then she feels
like she needs to get attention from
other men. She wants other people to
compliment her since he doesn't
compliment her. Since he doesn't care
about her, since he compares her to
other women because he's looking at
them, so she figures, okay, so I have to
compete since I don't have his full
attention and his full heart, I got to
fight for it. So she walks around that
way. So he is the reason she's not
modest. She's the reason why he's not
learning Tawa. And the same aspect goes
for everything else. So if a person
wants to fix the problems in the house,
the first thing they need to fix is
themsel. First thing they need to fix is
themsel. And themsel doesn't just mean
keep Shabbat, eat kosher, and watch by
Rabbi. No. The Torah tells us that a
person has to constantly look for more
things that he needs to improve. She
needs to improve. If that means being
nicer, if that means being more calm, if
that means being more generous, if that
means being more patient, if that means
uh being uh a lot of other things that
you're not, yes, go for it. And you'll
see the more you follow the footsteps of
the sages and how they explain to us how
we need to behave, how we need to be as
husbands, how we need to be as wives,
how we need to be as servants of Hashem,
the more you'll see that there's peace
in your house. the more you'll see that
arguments are
like it's almost like a uh swear word
like it doesn't exist in this house.
What are you talking about arguments?
Every couple argues to some extent from
time to time but there's there's an
argument and there's a fight. Argument
is you just disagree. She thinks that
you should live in this community. You
think you need to live in that
community. That's an argument. A fight
is you start calling each other names,
being spiteful, saying things that are
hurtful, yelling, screaming w with with
with the purpose of insulting, that's a
fight. So when a person argues, that's
normal. Happens from time to time. But
fighting, hurting each other, trying to
hurt each other, that type of stuff
means there's a lackings in Torah.
Lackings of Torah in that house. And the
reason why there's a lacking of Torah in
that house is simply because people
think that they are doing
enough by keeping some of the mitzvot
that they're aware of and like and
therefore they they don't need to do
anymore. They figure listen I'm learning
Torah. I am giving some and uh she's not
modest so it's her fault. No kabibi.
It's not her fault. It's your fault. Why
is it my fault? I'm learning Torah.
You're right. I'm giving. Good for you.
So why is it my fault that my wife is
not modest? She's wearing a shait. She's
wearing a wig that's longer than the
exile. You know why? Cuz it's your
fault. If she knew that she's the most
beautiful woman in the world in your
eyes, she'd wear whatever you wanted to
wear. If she knew that if you're going
to buy her a whole new wardrobe, no
questions asked, and buy her anything
she needs to be modest, no questions
asked. Even if you have to go borrow the
money, she'd be happy to get a new
wardrobe. You know why she doesn't?
Because she doesn't believe you'll bite
her. Because when she asked you for $50
for groceries, you're like, "Oh, come
on. Again, you're taking money from me."
As if she she's the only one that eats
in the
house. So that's the thing. When
people are stingy with their wives,
whether it's stingy with compliments or
stingy with money, the itself says the
itself
says the reason why the
s the happens is because a husband was
cheap. The husband didn't want to give
money to the to the Torah scholar. So
now he has to go to the Torah scholar.
He has to go to the Quran and find out
if his wife is cheating on
him.
So it's a
midgah. So a person that has problems in
their house has to do a spiritual check.
Focus on yourself better yourself. It'll
improve the rest of the house. It'll
improve the rest of the house. But don't
think that just watching or reading
books is enough. It's
also fixing character traits. How do you
know what you need to fix? Simple. What
everyone complains about all the time or
most often? If the most often thing that
people complain about you is the fact
that you're angry, then that's what you
have to fix. If the most often thing
that people complain about you is that
you're full of anxiety or you're stingy
or you're arrogant, guess what? That's
what you have to fix. It's the easiest
thing in the world. Fix that as soon as
possible. And the more you fix it, the
better you'll
become. How can someone overcome anger?
The more they
have, the more they understand that they
don't have the reason or the right to
ever be angry. I highly recommend
watching the series we did called
It's a relatively short series. I
believe it's about 30 lectures or so. It
talks about anger extensively and uh
certainly it could help you. It's on the
playlist on YouTube or on our app. Watch
the whole thing. Study it even more than
once and you'll see that it helps
you. I used to shoplift a lot from uh of
beer from Walmart and Kroger. How can I
fix that? I don't think me doing good
deeds erases that. I've gotten a lot of
punishment, although well, if you stole
money from uh a person, you have to give
the money back. If you stole money from
a person that you can't find or died
already, then you have to take that
money and donate it to a public cause uh
in their uh for their merit. You don't
have to necessarily tell anybody you're
doing it. Look, you're donating for Kiru
on for their merit. Uh and uh that will
be returning the money. Uh but if you uh
stole money from let's say an entity
like a Walmart, a Kroger's or some
company or government and you know that
even if you wanted to return the money
to them, the moment you come back and
tell them, "Listen, here's $5,000 for
all the money I stole from you guys over
the years, most likely they'll arrest
you. And most likely the people that
you're giving the money to are not going
to give it to the companies, keep it for
themselves." So what do you do? The same
concept. You take the money that you
stole, you estimate the amount of money
that you stole, and you give it to a
public cause. to support TRA to support
something of a public cause and uh uh
for their merit and that's that would be
it. Rabbi, is it okay to cremate our
pets when they
die? Is that a serious question? Why
would somebody cremate their pets?
just bury the thing or burn the thing
and bury it and that's it. I mean, are
you talking about like putting them in a
little canister, like a little cup thing
and put it in your
house? If you just mean just to how to
get rid of the body, no, it doesn't
matter how you do it. Give it to
somebody to do it and uh by all means,
whether you burn it or you bury it, it's
regardless doesn't make a difference.
But if you're talking about like
actually, you know, taking the ashes and
and like putting it like the goim do,
they put it in like some type of little
Coca-Cola bottle and they put it on
their uh their armwire or something or
one of their
closets. That's that's, you know, people
like that need to get their heads
examined. I hope you're not one of
those.
Aba, you talk about stingy husbands,
which I agree with you are bad, but
likewise, I don't hear you mention wives
who are reckless with their husband's
income. Okay. Well, obviously, there's
not much that needs to be said. a woman
that is excessive to the point where she
causes her husband to not have rest at
night because he knows that they don't
have the money to pay the bills because
his wife wasted all the money. Uh then
that woman is considered as if she's a
murderer. Why? She's literally taking
what he's spending his blood getting and
wasting
it. So to do that is certainly not a
good thing. Many times there are
husbands that have a impossible time
learning Torah because of their wives uh
spending habits uh where he knows that
he can't learn as much as he wants
because he has to work in order to pay
for the bills because she likes to spend
5 10 20 $30,000 a month on uh you know
on vacations and on bags and on shoes
and all types of things that she already
has and doesn't need. Uh so women like
that are they're they're considered not
a good woman. So but again usually this
is because there's a lacking. A woman
that is
excessive when it comes to uh when it
comes to money uh is not very different
than a woman that's excessive when it
comes to immodesty. Uh it's that she
doesn't feel like she's getting enough
attention and love from her husband. So,
she's trying to make it up with
something else. She feels a sense of
accomplishment when she presses the buy
button. She feels a sense of ownership
when she gets a new dress or a new box
of some kind. Why? Because she doesn't
have a husband to talk to, to sit with
her, to to study with her from time to
time. I'm not saying you should sit with
your wife all day and chitchat like one
of her girlfriends. The the Mishna says
multiple times. It's a soul for a man to
sit with his wife constantly and uh and
become like one of her girlfriends. It's
a big waste of time and it's not good
for you'll go to gain for that. Both of
them will go to gain for that. But
certainly a man needs to spend some time
with his wife. Certainly there is
quality time that needs to be done. But
it's a person needs to know how to
control. But if a woman is not getting
uh the compliments and the attention uh
and the sense of uh feelings that she
needs even if he spends all day with her
which most people spend a lot of time
with their wives. Most people spend
hours with their wives every day. So the
lack of spending time with them is not
usually a problem with most people. The
problem with most people is that the
time that they spend together is either
bad time or a waste of
time. Bad time because he's criticizing
her, he's mocking her, he's yelling at
her, and who wants to spend time with a
person like that? or it's a waste of
time because he's either sitting there
not saying anything because he's
watching TV, he's watching YouTube, he
doesn't really talk to her, he doesn't
listen to her, he doesn't care what she
has to say, he doesn't want to share
anything with her, he can't wait until
she goes to sleep, he can't wait until
he goes to work the next day. So, she
feels like she's uh she has a roommate.
So, a woman that's uh in that situation
that I don't blame her for becoming uh
best friends with uh Amazon. I don't
blame her for becoming uh the number one
customer for a uh the local supermarket.
I don't blame her for wanting to uh you
know talk to her uh friends on the phone
constantly because she doesn't get the
attention anywhere else. So obviously
she has to fix herself too. Uh but the
point is is that it's a two-way street.
It's a two-way street. If a man is doing
his
job, the wife is going to do her job. If
he treats her like a queen, she will
make him her king. If she makes him her
king, he won't necessarily always make
her a queen, but certainly he'll treat
her well. Depends on the guy. If it's if
their life is led by
Torah, then they're going to do well. If
their light life is led by their own
personal
opinions, unfortunately, they'll just
simply join the statistics of divorcey
or miserable people.
Hey, Rabbi, do you study in that room?
Yes, I study in this
room. He knew what he was getting before
he married her. Not necessarily. Nobody
really knows what he's getting before he
gets married to somebody. Even people
that made the mistake of
uh living together before they got
married, everyone would tell you that
the moment they got married, everything
changed. So it's not necessarily true.
I just want to thank you for all the
time that you spent toiling in Torah and
bringing us so many wonderful. I just
saw Torah codes about Yeshua being a
amazing. Let's
see. Rabbi, do I have to donate my
investments? Uh, if you're talking about
giving mael, like giving 10%
uh mael, then uh orsh if somebody gives
but uh when a person wants to get
blessings on uh on their money, then the
gi says as the Torah says,
that if somebody gives 10% of their
income uh to its publicizing Torah to
its Torah scholars to its kiru things
like that then uh if they give 10%
they're assured that they're not going
to lose their money they won't become
poor uh and if they give they're assured
uh that they will be uh become wealthy
and so much so that uh this is the only
thing that Hashem says to us clearly
that we're allowed to test them with
this test them with the
mas. So now uh as far as what you have
to give ma on, you have to give ma on
any money that you're getting. So if
you're getting a salary from your job or
if you're a contractor, you're getting a
payment, you uh give 10% uh of of what
you got. Uh now, as far as expenses to
deduct, only deduct the cost of doing
business. meaning that if it's your
income, let's say you make uh $2,000 a
month, uh then uh and it didn't cost you
any money to make the $2,000. All you
had to do is show up to work and you got
the $2,000, then you have to give 10%
off the 2,000. Now, if uh they deducted
taxes out of it, and after taxes, you
only had a,000 left, then you give 200
out of the thousand, whatever you got in
your hand. But if, let's say, you sold
something. Let's say you sold a car uh
for for uh for
$2,000. Now, obviously that $2,000 is
not all profit because the car cost you
something. So, let's say the car cost
you $1,500, which means you only have
$500 out of the $2,000. That's really
profit. So, now the 10% has to come out
of the $500 profit. The same concept
goes with stocks or bonds or real
estate. If you sell a piece of real
estate or you sell a piece of a stock
for a profit, you have to give mael
uh you have to give 10% of uh the money
that you've profited. But you only have
to give uh that 10% uh that male after
you've sold it, not while you hold it.
So let's say for example, you have a
stock that you bought for a dollar and
the stock miraculously went to $100. So,
you have a lot of profit and you bought,
I don't know, a bunch of shares and you
have, I don't know, $100 million in
profits. Now, you don't have to give mas
until you sell it because so long as you
own it, it could always fluctuate in
price and it could potentially go back
down to one. So, you don't have to sell
it so long as you own it. But the moment
you sell it, you have to give mul if you
want to follow the Tua, you want to get
the
blessing. What about
your oh so whether the money that you
have is in a regular uh account I guess
you stock trader uh whether it's in a in
a regular account or it's in a
retirement account you need to give male
on it it doesn't make a difference where
the money is now I understand that the
uh you know if somebody let's say for
example bought a piece of property uh
for for, you know, for $100,000 and they
sold it for
$500,000. That's a $400,000 profit. They
have to give MV off of that. The same
concept goes with you invest in stocks,
you invest $100,000, you sold it for uh
$500,000, you have to give MV off of
that uh off of that uh money. The
problem is that uh I guess the point of
your question is what if that money that
you have profits is in some form of
retirement account which means that you
know if you take the money out of the
retirement account then you are
uh then you are
um going to be subject to taxes because
you took money out of some 401k or some
uh uh some uh uh IRA account. Uh so you
could do one of two things. Uh one, you
could uh take it out of a different
account that's not an IRA account.
Meaning you have the uh profits. Let's
say you have uh uh $100,000 in profits
that uh you got in the uh in your
retirement account and you sold
everything. So you locked in the
$100,000 profit. Uh so you now if you
give him a sale, you give 10%. That's
$10,000 you give Mel. So that $10,000
you can take it out of a regular account
that you have. I'm sure you have some
type of money in regular accounts
uh that
um that are uh that you have $10,000 in
uh you give the asset from that account.
That's one way to do it. Uh another way
to do it is uh is to actually take it
out of the retirement account. Take it
out of the retirement account. then yes,
you don't have to take all the money out
of the retirement account, but you take
the money out of the retirement account
and uh pay the penalty. Now, you don't
necessarily need to do that. There's
other options. Uh so, I mean, you could
also do something where, let's say, for
example, you have $100,000 in profit and
you want to give $10,000 in ma, but you
currently don't have $10,000 in your uh
checking account because you're waiting
for some this and you're waiting for
some that. You just don't have it. So
you could have a
IOU note to yourself that as soon as you
get the money you'll give it. So let's
say you don't have it now but you expect
to get it in let's say two months from
now. So as soon as you get the money in
two months from now you give the at that
point. Try not to extend it too much.
Usually the best thing to do is to uh is
to give it uh the same year. Uh not let
pass without giving uh that masel. Uh
but needless to say, the sooner you give
the maser, the better for you because
that m that you give, the moment you
give it, you're in essence fueling the
next blessing. Meaning that $100,000
that you have has to be invested again.
You want it to work out also the same
way the first $100,000. So you obviously
you want the blessing as soon as
possible. So, I understand that, you
know, there's some people that ask me
about, you know, they want to donate,
but they have their money in, uh, you
know, off offshore or they have their
money in Bitcoin or they have their
money in all types of things. Uh, you
know, there's different ways to uh
there's different ways to donate. Uh but
a person can certainly certainly uh
donate um you know you can even you know
with with uh with our organization we
have a way now to now to accept uh stock
to accept
um bitcoin to accept cryptocurrency. So
you can donate even the asset itself
which sometimes is a uh major benefit
for people uh financially and tax- wise.
Uh but point being is is that for all
intents and purposes of your question as
far as whether you have to give money
out of profits you're making in your
retirement account the answer is yes
once you've locked in the profits means
meaning once you bought something you
sold it that means at that you know you
have to give uh money from the you have
to give m from that profit now in your
case since you're I guess a trader of
some
kind no you just like to trade you're
not a trader okay So in your case that
since uh you trade
uh then if you're more than let's say
the average long-term investor where
you're not you know you don't buy and
hold for a few years you usually you
know buy and sell
regularly for you to give m out of every
single trade will become very cumbersome
difficult and sometimes even detrimental
to the strategy of investing that you
have because usually capital is trading
is int is is capital intensive meaning
the more capital you have the more uh um
uh ability you have to to do what you
do. So if you're an active trader, uh
then what you can do instead of what I
just said, which is to give my sale once
you've sold
um you can actually give my sale, let's
say every so often, whether it's a uh uh
every few months or even once a year. Um
I recommend to do it, you know, every
few months and not once a year just
simply because it's becomes more
difficult to give mas once the amount
becomes bigger. uh the SLR works harder.
But the point is is that if you give the
MAL uh let's say once a year or every
few months, then that means you can
tally all the trades because I'm sure
you have some, you know, winning trades,
but you also have some losing trades. So
you can calculate the
total of those trades since you're an
active trader uh at at that time during
the year. uh and then you know the ones
that you've uh already locked in gains
or losses on and then give m off of that
dollar amount.
Um and yes even that is same thing in
regards to uh it doesn't matter whether
it's a uh IRA or 401k or uh a regular
account or partnership doesn't make a
difference you give
mas no you don't have to necessarily
give masel specifically from that
account just like I said you know you
could collect the profit in the
retirement account but pay the uh the
maser from a regular account doesn't
make aense difference the way you pay
the masa which is the point is
spiritually speaking it's as as long as
you pay the masa you give the masa you
it's that's it's a different type of
investment you have the investment of
stocks and real estate and whatever
people invest in today and then you have
investment in you know your spirituality
which is publicizing tawah and
supporting tawa that's a different type
of
uh but where you give it from doesn't
make a difference so you can keep all
your money in that account and give it
from a different account you could take
everything in that account give another
one doesn't Get the
first. Is this pre-recorded? No, it's
not pre-recorded.
Is Trump turning on Israel and teaming
up
with fulfilling a prophecy?
uh the sages clarify that the
um the hands of the kings
are in the control of
Hashem. So it's not a matter of Trump
turning on Israel or befriending Israel.
If Israel does chuva, if Israel does
what Hashem said, then all of the
countries in the world, including
America, will be petrified of doing
anything bad to Israel. But if AmI is
continues with the marches and protests
against God, with the atheism and the
assimilation and all of the other lefty
liberal types of uh uh you know uh
things that they do, then certainly
Hashem is going to give wakeup calls and
use the kings of the world, whether it
be Trump or it be the uh Iran or it be
uh whoever He'll use the kings of the
world in order to hit his children and
uh in order to wake them up. That's what
David says uh that uh uh he loves Hashem
both his uh staff and the uh the um when
Hashem is is is hitting him with the
stick and is also is leading him with
the staff. Why why is David Melik saying
to Hashem that he loves him regardless
of whether he's hitting him with the
staff, hitting him with the stick or
leading him with the staff? Because know
that regardless of what Hashem does,
it's for our benefit. If he's hitting
us, that's because we went too far with
making sins, with going against the
Torah, with doing things that are
abomination. So, he's hitting us in
order to get us to change direction.
hitting us with a uh tariffs, hitting us
with terrorism, hitting us with uh
missiles, hitting us with all types of
threats and so on. If he is uh uh if we
do good, he's also going to direct us
direct us to make partnerships with the
right people, direct us to make the
right inventions, direct us to support
the right Torah, direct us to connect to
the right rabbis, direct us to the right
places. So, Hashem in essence is the
shepherd of Isel and is in essence
telling us if I'm hitting you or if I'm
uh with my stick or I'm directing you
with my staff. Both of them are for your
benefit. As far as what these uh kings
will do, whether it be Trump or anybody
else, they're simply pawns in Hashem's
uh Hashem's big world. Hashem is going
to use them however he wants based on
how uh is behaves.
So, is everyone in the
world going to hell? No, not
necessarily. There's going to be
righteous people that don't. And there's
going to be wicked people that
do. Righteous based on the Torah's
definition of righteous and wicked based
on the Torah's definition of
wicked. Regarding last night's teachings
of Rabbi Wasam, does the amount of time
to return to
Hashem and do chuva less than what
previous generations had? Well,
naturally, there's less time between now
and when Mashiach is going to arrive
than there was a thousand years ago. A
thousand years ago, there was at least a
thousand years plus whatever time is
going to be before Mashiach comes. Uh
but as far as the amount of time that a
person has uh to do
chuva, certainly it's easier to do chuva
than it was back then because there's
many more tools uh that help a person do
chuva. It's much easier to be a Jew
today than it was uh 500 years ago.
Because today, if you want to be a Jew,
you could find a Jewish community
relatively easy. You could find kosher
food even easier. uh you could uh watch
uh Torah lectures uh you know literally
uh as much as you want. There's no end
to them uh of good Torah lectures. You
have uh lectures that we've done,
lectures that Rabbi uh Ephraim has done,
lectures that Rabbi Lev has done, uh Rav
Sharvit, all of our guys from the Cole,
you have countless literally uh
somewhere in the neighborhood of 15,000
lectures just from our organization. Uh
needless to say, there's other good
rabbis out there. You could listen to
their lectures, learn alah from Rabbi
David Ysef in English and Hebrew. You
could learn a uh a uh different uh
different parts of the Torah from
different good rabbis. So there's no end
to the lectures. There's no end to good
books that are out there uh from uh from
uh you know solid uh publishers like Art
Scroll, Feldheim uh and uh you know in
multiple languages. So, it's relatively
easy to get access to Torah. Uh, unlike
the past where you had to literally
travel to a different city just to find
a book that you would be able to borrow
for a few months by staying at the guy's
house if he allowed you to stay at his
house for those few months. So, Torah is
much more accessible. Uh, kosher food is
much more accessible. Uh, to the
community is much more accessible. And
let's not forget the fact that 500 years
ago you had the uh the
Isabella the queen of uh of Spain where
mo you know many countless Jews millions
of Jews were there.
uh she had a decree of this, you know,
where pretty much any Jew that did not
leave Spain uh with nothing, just with
their pretty much their shirts on their
back uh you know, any Jew that stayed uh
was simply subject to the death penalty
if they even thought that he was
practicing or she was practicing
Judaism. Uh so, and this is not just in
Spain. This happened throughout all of
Europe. This happened uh literally in
every part of the world. So back you
know in the previous generations you
know being Jewish was a life risk was a
life risk. Today it's a certainly not a
life risk like people think it is. For
the vast majority of Jews it's a uh it's
it's very easy it's a very easy thing to
do. It's simply by choice. Uh so to do
chuva is much easier today in that that
respect of it. Uh but at the same token
there's also uh more tools that the has
the has more tools where there's uh the
the media the modern media the the filth
that's on the internet uh and available
on phones and all the garbage and yet
that's everywhere the immodesty and
immorality in practically every
street and billboard and so on. So
there's a lot more but this you know
measure for measure this this this
versus this uh if a person wants to do
it and they really want to do it they'll
do it they can do it and Hashem will
help them
as
says somebody that wants to become
purified Hashem helps them but someone
that uh wants to become impure and do
the wrong thing Hashem opens the door
for them and say do whatever you
With everything being digital these
days, will there ever be a time a minan
would be allowed through live video of
shs for people to join? Obviously not in
Shabbat. No, minan has to be in
person. The talks about how what kind of
person is allowed to be counted in
minan. If there's a person that's
sleeping, he's uh in the in the same
place, he's allowed to be counted in
minan. If he's next door, uh he cannot
be counted in minion unless there's a
window. Unless there's a window that
connects the two rooms. So there's
different uh rules for a minan. But uh
when somebody's on uh watching from uh
from from a phone, they're not in the
same place. So therefore, they cannot be
considered uh part of the minion.
How does Jewish religion address the
impact of childhood traumas and what
guidance could offer for healing and
resilience? Well, it depends. It depends
on the childhood trauma. Uh certainly a
person uh needs to uh seek some
professional help in in certain types of
trauma. Uh but at the same token, the
the more a person uh learns Torah and
gets closer to Hashem, builds
their the easier it's going to be for
them to deal with uh the uh major
difficulties and traumatizing
experiences in their life. Um and uh
they'll be able to overcome it. There's
no uh question uh of whether it's
possible or not. Certainly, it's
possible uh but it requires work.
requires change, requires a uh
understanding. It's very difficult to
become Jewish. I've been on a religious
research journey for the past year. Uh
well, that's because you still don't
understand what it means to be Jewish.
Uh so, as you learn more and more,
you'll understand why the journey you're
having is difficulty. It's not supposed
to be easy. It's not Christianity or
Islam where pretty much they all they do
is just throw a bunch of dirty water on
you and uh you know and you're one of
them. To become a Jew means that you
want to become one of Hashem's chosen
people which in so many words also means
that Hashem has to choose you to allow
you to become Jewish. So it's not just a
matter of whether you have money to pay
or not or it's a matter of whether you
live in the right place or not or
whether you know the information or not.
Literally, Hashem has to open up the
doors for you to allow you to succeed in
this journey. So in order to do that,
it's takes effort, takes sacrifice,
takes time. Uh and uh there's a lot of
information in my lectures about it. I
have a whole conversion guide that you
could download for free on my website
bzashem.org. Uh and it's on the uh uh in
the book section, ebooks. you could
download it for free and it's a uh uh it
certainly uh could help you but again
it's not necessarily
um that uh you're experiencing something
unique by having a difficulty
converting. It's it's supposed to be
difficult not because people want to
make it difficult for you but because
this is in essence the path. Anything
that's worthwhile in life in general has
to be difficult because if it wasn't
difficult, it wouldn't be worthwhile to
find. Gold is difficult. Therefore, it's
very expensive. It's considered a
precious metal. Other metals like for
example copper are not expensive. Why?
Because it's easy to find copper. The
first layer in the ground after you dig,
you're going to find copper.
But gold, you're only going to find
little bits here and there. Hence the
reason why there's, you know, copper is
$4 a pound and uh and and gold is $3,000
plus an
ounce. There's 16 ounces in a pound. So,
you could understand how much more
expensive gold is than copper. Even
though copper is much more useful for
the world, copper you need for wiring.
Copper you need for you know for for
pipes you need copper for everyday life.
Without copper the world would not
survive a
week but it has abundance. Hashem made
sure that whatever we need a lot of we
have abundance of. We need a lot of
water. Therefore 70% of the world is
water. Uh we need a uh and we have rain
and we have rain that from comes from
the clouds and also there's rain that
comes from outer space like unlike what
people think because a lot of rain
coming from outer space even more rain
coming from out of space than there is
coming from uh from the uh uh uh whole
process of uh you know the
photosynthesis and the uh uh vapors and
so on. The uh as far as uh abundance of
water we have we have a lot of water
underground. there's even more water
underground than there is above the uh
you know that comes they're just finding
that out right now through uh uh the uh
the different type of technology has
developed in the last decade or so uh
shell gas and so on the the the
uh it's an abundance there's an
abundance of uh of
uh of of cows chickens but there's not
an abundance of lions and uh and zebras
why we need a lot of line of a lot of
cows and chickens and goats because
that's what most people in the world,
both Jews and Gentiles alike,
eat. They're easiest to kill. They're
easiest to raise. They're easiest to uh
to uh to take care of. Um they're
they're uh they're not a threat. And uh
they're they can be used for multiple
things. Whereas if people ate lions
every day, guess what? The world would
not survive a week. The world would not
survive a
week. So the fact that there's an
abundance of things is by divine design
to make sure that we have whatever we
need in abundance. Uh whatever we don't
need, Hashem has in the world, but it's
not an abundance. But therefore, the
things that are more rare are also more
valuable. So if you wanted to buy a cow,
it'll cost you 20 uh 20,000, let's say.
But if you wanted to buy a lion, you
know, you could probably add a zero to
that. Why? Because it's a lot more rare.
It's a lot more difficult to catch a
lion. It's a lot more difficult to uh to
keep him alive, too, once you catch him.
Why? Because again, it's it's it's it's
more difficult. It's more expensive
because it's more rare.
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Uh when it comes to
religion, if you look at the Christian
world, it's very easy to convert to
Christianity. Therefore, you know, you
you see that Christianity there's no
problem of of converting to them. It's
one, two, three. Anybody can convert in
two seconds and uh nothing changes in
their life really because they don't
have to do anything. They don't have to
do anything. Very easy. And there is
billions of them.
Islam not different. Same thing. they uh
very easy to convert to Islam and a
little bit more changes with Islam than
uh the lifestyle of a person with Islam
than it does with Christianity because
they pray five times a day and and
uh have different things. But uh the
point is is that it's still relatively
easy to convert to
Islam. With Judaism, it's very very
difficult. But we also have number one,
we're the chosen people. We're the
people of the book. And there's very few
of us. There's maybe 15 to 20 million
Jews that we know of in the world. In
comparison to uh Islam and uh and
Christianity between the two of them,
there's somewhere around five billion uh
five five and a half billion of them. Uh
so there's a whole lot more. Uh we're
not even a rounding error. So to become
part of those select
few that were chosen by Hashem not just
am the 15 20 million but even to be part
of those few that are actually loyal to
Hashem still out of that 20 million
literally you're talking about just a
handful of million Jews in the entire
world are the ones that still follow the
Torah. So, you want to become one of
those out of over eight billion
people. What did you think? It's like
saying you want to go to uh to to Mars
and then to Pluto in order to find a uh
a 500 lb perfect deflawless
diamond that's blue and then come back
to Earth all within a week. And it
shouldn't be difficult and you shouldn't
get uh car sick or spaceship
sick. It's a ridiculous thing to expect
if you want to if you truly understood
what it means to be Jewish, whether
statistically,
spiritually, historically, or all of the
above, then literally you would welcome
the
difficulty because you'd
understand you're getting closer.
you're getting closer. Unfortunately,
many times people that want to convert
have a little bit of a chip on their
shoulder. I don't know if you do or not.
I know I deal with a lot of converts,
but I've helped a lot of them convert
and I continue to guide hundreds of them
uh on a regular basis. Uh thousands, I
don't there's a lot more than that. But
the point is is that uh some of them I
already know from the beginning they
will succeed and some of them I know
already from the beginning they're going
to fail. Why? They have a chip on their
shoulder. Some people have a chip on
their shoulder where they, some of them
feel like they're entitled. So, they're
upset at the system. They're upset at
the rabbis. They're upset at the
community. They're upset at a lot of
things. They're upset uh, you know, at
the circumstance. They're upset they
don't have money to do it. They're upset
at all types of things. And if you go
into it with that type of attitude, for
sure, you're in a path of
disaster. Um, and that's why a person
needs to really understand what it means
to be a Jew.
um as part of their learning to convert
and not just be a robot that uh follows
instructions. Understand what it means
the privilege that it is to be a
Jew. And if you succeed, there's nobody
better than
you. But if you don't, then it's not
uh it's not a surprise.
Oh, you respect all religions is just
belief. Oh, so obviously you're never
going to convert. Obviously not even a
familiar or aware of what Judaism is. To
you it's just philosophy. So it's uh
you're you're very uh ignorant about
uh
um about Judaism and probably a lot of
other things from the stuff that you're
writing here.
So to ed educate themsel, read a little
bit, spend a little less time on the
internet reading
nonsense and
uh perhaps you'll wisen up.
For someone trying to learn, for someone
trying to schedule a time to learn
Torah, who works 9
to6, what time do you suggest is best
for
learning? Uh, it depends what they do
with their time after and
before. Depends what they do their time
after and before. depends what kind of
job they have, how labor intensive it
is, if they have breaks, how much uh uh
what their life is like after work. You
know, if they're a single guy uh with no
wife, no kids, then in so many words,
the moment they get home, eat, drink,
you know, take care of hygiene and study
until you go to sleep.
Um, and if they could learn even a
little bit for before they go to work
for at least a half hour or so, you
know, that that's good, too. But if
they're a uh husband with uh, you know,
four or five kids or more and uh, they
have financial issues or health issues
in the family or all types of other
things then of course that type of
schedule is not suitable for them. So it
depends depends on the circumstance.
Also depends on what kind of job they
have. Uh if they have a labor intensive
uh job that uh is different than if
somebody is a uh let's say uh you know a
lawyer or a uh investment advisor or uh
somebody that uh you know pushes paper.
It's different.
Do Zer is get faster
conversion? Zer is usually means
Jewish. Uh so not sure what you
mean. U but u usually the
uh if somebody is
um let's say a child of intermarriage
uh then they have to do a full
conversion like everybody else because
you have to make sure that the person
uh knows what it means to be Jewish. So
they're no different than you know a guy
coming from uh you know from China and
wanting to convert. Uh but if they are a
uh uh let's say a possible Jew, meaning
that uh uh they
uh there's a possibility that there's
the the grandmother of the of the mother
or the mother of the mother is Jewish,
but they just didn't follow already for
a couple, you know, for a couple
generations. So there's a possibility
that the ch children may be Jewish or
not. uh and they're already living a
Jewish life, then that's called a gil
saf then that that could be sped up. Um
not overnight, but certainly could be
sped up. But quite frankly from my
experience of over a decade of dealing
with you know conversions and badines
and and converts and so
on the success and speed of conversion
is determined on what kind of blessing a
person has brought upon themselves
through their actions. The more serious
a person is about Hashem, his Torah,
their conversion, and their life as a
Jew, the more Hashem is going to smooth
the path of conversion for that person.
The more difficult a person is, the more
arrogant the person is, the more uh you
know a
um stubborn the person is, then uh the
more difficult their path is going to
be.
So if someone is threearters Jewish and
their maternal grandmother is not
Jewish, they're not Jewish. Even though
most of their blood is Jewish. Correct?
If their mother is not Jewish, they're
not Jewish. There's no such thing as
threequarters Jewish. It's either you're
Jewish or you're not Jewish. either 100%
Jew or not a
Jew. No, they're not considered part of
AMI is even if their father and
grandfather are Jewish. If their mother
is Jewish, they are 100% a Jew. If their
mother is not Jewish, even if their
father uh became a big rabbi, they're
still not Jewish. They would have to
convert.
Do you believe that you have to be
Jewish to go to heaven? No. Uh in order
for somebody to go to heaven, they have
to follow what the Torah says that's
relevant to them. And the Rambam writes
uh that uh we have proof from the Torah
that uh the Gentiles also have the
ability to go to Allah, to go to heaven,
a different heaven than the Jews, but
nonetheless a heaven uh that's full of
blessing and so on. a lot better than
this world could ever
be. Uh based on what the uh tom says in
about how is one of the people that lost
their and he was a gentile. So obviously
if he lost their then that means that
there's a possibility of getting it for
Gentiles. So certainly there's a heaven
for righteous Gentiles just like there
is a heaven for righteous Jews. On the
other hand, there's also a punishment
for wicked Gentiles and wicked Jews. And
so it's as far as the destination, the
destination depends on the acts both for
Jews and
Gentiles. How can you compare God to
anything material? I do not compare God
to anything material. So I'm not really
sure why you're asking me the question.
I have a cousin that's on the road to
conversion. He put me on rabbi and
gifted me
the good
cousin. All
right. There's an obligation to
learn. Why
not? Uh well there's no obligation to
learn
dybaskans that every man has to learn
the weekly Torah portion uh twice and
commentary on it once. That's in order
to have the basic understanding of the
Torah. Certainly every Jew has to learn
although male and female have to learn
alah but especially the man uh and uh
man at some point also has to learn uh
mousar and has to
learn but they can't start with day one
usually because they still don't
understand their right from their
left but as far as to uh to learn the
na'vi that is certainly something that
uh a person can and should learn but
only after they've learned the things
that are higher priority. So in many
yeshivas today I've heard this actually
from
uh David Ysef in many yeshiva today um
they don't teach nave not because it's
not important he says that his father
says that he learned the entire tanak by
heart in 10 minutes not 10 minutes you
own study but every time every day they
would have a in yeshiva they had a break
of 10 minutes between uh a certain
session that they had where the the
rabbi gave them a break for 10 minutes
and many of the people instead of uh you
know uh um studying those 10 minutes
they would go take care of their
personal needs uh do whatever they
needed 10 minutes talk uh whatever it is
he says I knew that my personal needs
didn't need 10 minutes maybe two minutes
go to the bathroom whatever it is so
that means I had eight minutes left so
every day I spent those 10
minutes learning navi learning the uh
tanakh
and that 10 minutes every single
day. Now, if you do the math, and he did
it in the lecture that I watched, he
said, even if you do it five times a
week, five times a
week, you
have 50 minutes per
week, another 50 minutes, another week,
another 50 minutes, another week. You're
talking about after you finish
uh a year, hundreds of
hours of Torah that the person learned
certainly it's going to help them.
Certainly it's going to help them. Now
why don't they teach navi in the yeshiva
today? Not because it's not important
says David. It's because we expect you
to learn it on your own. Because to
learn Allah and
learn, you need the help of Torah
scholars to tell you right or left to
tell you how to understand what what to
do. But to learn the Nav'vi, all you got
to do is read the commentary by Rashi
over there and you'll understand. You'll
understand what you need to understand.
Certainly, there's even deeper
understandings and so on. But the basic
understanding you can learn on your own
just like you can learn the hum on your
own with commentary of the sages. So
that you don't need the rabbis help
with. So you could do it on your own.
You could do it on your own. there's no
problem and you should do it on your
own. Spend 10 minutes a day, 50 minutes
a day, 100 minutes a day, whatever you
want to spend depending on your
schedule. But there is a higher priority
uh of other subjects like
uh because that's tells you how to live
life. But the point being is a person
can study as much as they
want as much as they want. Uh it's it's
a the the uh sages teach in the in the
uh Hashem says, "Open your mouth and
I'll fill it." Meaning as much as you
want to study Torah, Hashem will help
you with it. But if a person uh says,
"No, you know what? I'm only going to
study this one subject for a full year
and then next year another subject and
you're making your own uh type of
things. You have to follow what a rabbi
tells you to do, instructions, how how
uh what to study, when to study it, and
uh stick to the plan, and you'll
succeed. I have
uh many students that specifically ask
me
uh whether they're allowed to or whether
they should uh study certain books. And
they even uh every time they complete a
m they tell me they complete the m they
ask me which is the next m to learn I
tell them which one to learn next and
they follow that regimen
uh they uh they complete one m after
another some complete the hashem and
they're not too proud to ask me uh what
what should I study next or should I
study this book or not or you know
different things but the point is is to
have some type of guidance uh in your
Torah study as well as in your life.
Don't just ask rabbis questions about
Torah study. Uh you should, you know,
you should have a rabbi that you could
ask him also questions about business,
about life, about, you know, about
everything. And the more you uh uh the
more you uh connect to the Torah, to the
Torah scholars, to uh to the uh world of
Kadusha, the more you're going to
succeed.
I will take one one question.
Uh what is the priority for women? Doing
or learning Torah? Both. She has to do
both. She has to learn Torah in order to
know what to do. Especially when it
comes to the mitzvot that are relevant
to her modesty, kashut, the holidays,
uh, mousar, you know, character
development, she has to learn that every
day, uh, to, you know, but she also has
to do, she has to implement it. She has
to take time to do good things. And
again, it also depends on her life. If
she's married, she has kids, she's
healthy, she'sam
sick. Sometimes the biggest that a woman
could do is with her own children. Just
raise our kids and don't waste her time
with uh friends and uh family and all
types of people that want a lot of her
time uh which ends up hurting her
children because she doesn't have time
to spend or attention with her kids.
Sometimes the biggest that a p that a
woman could do is with her own kids.
Sometimes the that a woman can do is
with other people's kids. Why? Either
she doesn't have kids or the kids have
already grown up uh you know or the kids
are away at school or whatever it is. So
she has time go she could help our
neighbor, she could help our rabbi, she
could help our uh uh family, she could
do it. But point is that she should be
productive. Be productive. Not be a
couch potato. Be productive. Do
something at all times. And uh was that
you'll have a sense of
accomplishment does learning from Rabbi
Nishim's books for extra mus can this
impact
us to have merit for him to help us with
Hashem's help?
Certainly if a person learns learns
Ravni Mien's books it's uh very very
good in my opinion it's the best books
uh about the topics about Mousar books
written in English language uh in in in
this generation it's it's it's something
that uh it's amazing stuff
um and uh certainly if a person learns
it and applies it to their life it's
going to help them is it is it enough to
get the rabbi to help you uh with life
depends what you do with the learning.
If a person takes uh you know takes the
learning and the things that he says to
action where you help publicize his
Torah. So uh like somebody asked me uh I
don't know maybe a week ago a few days
ago when I'm going to have uh Rabbi
Nissan's books in the Kiru store again.
I told them when I get a sponsor for it.
People want free stuff all the time,
which again, we're happy to give free
stuff, but it costs money. Uh, you know,
we gave hundreds and hundreds of his
books for free a few months ago, hoping
that uh some people are going to, you
know, wisen up and take uh take money
and and then actually uh become the next
sponsor. You know, I had one guy tell
me, "Oh, yeah. I want to sponsor the
books." Said, "Fine, okay." He's like,
"Okay, I'll you know, I can send you
$100." I'm like, " $100? Go buy the book
in a store. $100? Not going to help you
sponsor the books? Sponsor the books?
you're talking about tens of thousands
of dollars. We're not buying three
books. So, a person has to understand
that sometimes it's tough. I mean, of
course, if a person doesn't have it,
they could, you know, uh contribute
towards it by simply, you know, giving
money in the k store. But these things
cost money. Each time we make a
purchase, it's 10, 20, 30, 40, $50,000.
The purchases that we make in different
books are a lot of money. It's you look
at the financials. We have over $100,000
$150,000 in bills every month, whether
it's the col or it's the books or it's
the helping the poor, you know, talking
about a couple of million dollars a year
in expenses, you know. So certainly we
appreciate every uh, you know, request
for books, but we'd also appreciate
people helping us. If a person has the
wherewithal to do it, by all means. If
they don't, they don't. Help with
whatever you can. Some people are
fantastic students and donors and they
only donate 50 bucks a month. Some
people uh donate 5,000 every often or
you know so it depends. One has more
than the other. We appreciate both of
them. The the key is for people to
understand that uh in order for us to
get more from
Hashem than the norm that means we need
to do more than the norm. So for
example, in regards to your question,
reading a Kam's book is standard. It's
not considered
more. More would be not just reading it,
not just living by it, but publicizing
it, promoting it, doing more of it, you
know, to get more people to do it. So
that that requires time, money,
attention, and so on. Same thing with,
you know, people that help uh us with
other things. The people that have been
blessed the most uh that I know of in
the last uh several years especially but
in the last 10 years have been the
people that help us the most. the more
serious they are about promoting Kiru
and and supporting Bezem and the more
generous they are relative to them, uh
the more you see literally huge
blessings that these people have and uh
you know the people that uh uh do less
get less.
So each person has to determine on their
own. But again, it doesn't necessarily
mean dollar amount like it has to be
10,000, 50,000, 500,000. It's all the
maximum of what each person can do.
Maximum of what each person can do. And
that uh that takes time. That takes time
to build up. Takes time to build up.
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