CHIBUT HaKEVER: The Beatings of The Grave

[Music] [Laughter] [Music] oh [Music] G [Music] by silent [Music] now today is going to be a scary Sho so I'm just giving you a disos it's not for the faint of heart but all of you need to hear it at least one time in your life literally translates the beatings of the Grave what happens after you die you get beat up in the grave what kind of beatings that's what we're going to go over today the ramban writes here the Mish and he says always be aware from where you have come and where you are destined to go and you will realize that in life you are as frail as the maggot or the worm all the more so in a death thear says there's a Mal there's an Angel and the angel's name is lah and Lila comes up to a and says hem what will be with this seed what will be with it will he be rich or poor will it be he or she will be tall or short will he be someone that is going to be smart or stupid what will it be to see what's going to be with this one who's the zuk for this one already decides whether you're going to be rich or poor he decides whether you're going to be strong or weak he decides whether you're going to be able to see or not he decides whether you're going to have good hearing or bad hearing he's going decides everything for you the only thing he does not decide the only thing he does not tell this Mal named Lila is whether you're going to do what Hashem wants you to do or not right that's your free choice that's what you decide once you hear buta comes to and asks himem what will be with this after hasem decides and during the nine months that you're in your mommy's belly there's an Angel that's sitting next to you and teaching you the entire Torah that's why sometimes you'll hear some that you never heard before but you hear you feel like you've heard it before you never read it in a book but you feel like you've heard it before why cuz you heard it before you heard it before but you never heard it before but you heard it before why was in a belly you know the entire T in essence all I'm doing is reminding all of you of what what you already know this Angel sits with you K 9 months Genesis Exodus numbers and so on and so forth all of the books of the Tor all of the mid all of thear everything you [Music] learn he tells you all of the mitv too and before you leave on the day of birth he says you see me you're going to see me again if you fulfill everything we learned I'll welcome you with open arms but if you don't I won't others will welcome you and they're not so nice and then he hits you on the top of the lip so you forget everything you've learned that way you still have free choice if you remembered everything you learned you wouldn't have free choice it would defeat the purpose of coming to the world what happens the moment you die page 127a and also page 99 say that there are seven levels of Judgment at death first is the type of death how did you die the page 8 a says that there are 93 different types of deaths in this world the second is the journey that takes place before death from the time a person dies until they get buried what happens during that time third whether people are going to show up to your funeral someone's going to say kadish if the person that's going to say kadish is actually a kosher person or not because if it's not a kosher person it's better off he doesn't say kadish if it's not a person that keep Shabbat it's better off he doesn't say kadish why because you can't even say Amen to his kadish even if he's your son or he's your father or he's anybody he doesn't keep Shabbat his kades is worth nothing according to theora is considered an idol worshiper so what you want somebody that's an idol worshipper that worships a different gu to go pray for you after you who wants that that's a problem for you but if you have a righteous person say kadish on you you have a good Rob come to the funeral give everybody as says it's better to go visit someone at the time of death and mourning that to go to his party go to his wedding why party people make a people make sins no one does chuv parties really but at funerals a few people are going to do Chua it's better to go to that the third level of judgment is how you're deposited into the grave it's the gate being deposited into the grave is they in essence take the body after they wrap it they put it into the grave and that's in essence the gate that is leaving this world and entering the next World the fourth is what happens to the person once they're actually in the grave what kind of beating are they going to get what kind of suffering they going to have in the grave naturally we're going to say wait a minute what's suffering what are you talking about the guy's dead the says even though to everybody else the body is not moving the heart is not pumping the brain is not functioning the eyes don't see the ears don't hear when you inflict pain on it it feels it even more than it does in this world the fifth is what's going to happen with the maggots and the worms the maggots eat the inner body is the worms that eat the outer body this is not a pleasant experience the sixth and seventh whether they go to heaven or to Gom in Gom there are seven Chambers in heaven there's also seven Chambers and then there's the galut of the which is a seventh level of judgment says after everybody leaves all of the other dead they start yelling and screaming if you're orik they celebrate [Music] we have a next to us we have a next to us she covered our hair she covered our body she did everything good she gave she did she got together [Music] wow he's one of the primary sources that discusses what happens in the grave he says that immediately after after everybody leaves and the all the neighboring souls are doing their yelling and screaming and so on immediately Angels come and they lower the ground of that grave and they deepen it to the height of the person tractate makot is one of his sources then they stand them up they stand her up then each of these angels mentioned don't have any aspect of Mercy holds an end of the body well you get this corner you get that corner you get that corner that's how the Angels hold the body He's Alive Now the Soul's back in there and they start shaking him and they start beating him with sticks of fire to remove the kipa that separates him from a the more sins that a person makes the thicker that garment is what's this kipa Thea goes into it extensively here and throughout the book The kipa there's two types there's one part of the kipa that is something that everyone has this is from the original sin of we were all Partners to it it's a very thin layer of in essence you could use an analogy or some type of imaginary look that it's like a spiritual garment very thin spiritual garment that we all have but the other one that all depends on what kind of sins we made and that person cannot go to the bed of sh until that garment is broken that garment is similar to a shell it's not like a garment soft it's a garment it's like a shell and these angels shake them and hit them until it's broken the thicker it is the more difficult it is so imagine someone that's a sadik someone that's sadik it's like an eggshell all you got to do is tap it in the right place and it breaks someone someone that looks at girls that's not his wife someone that eats not Kosher someone that uh didn't do CH for being with somebody before they're married someone that walks around Imes someone that causes other people to sin that person's shell is like the safe the safe has a door usually the door is the thickest part that's the kipa now not all people are the same that says righteous people who who during their lives distance themselves from The Humbling themselves their suffering is obviously much lower their beating is is very limited could be even non-existent at all if they die on a early during a Friday and they actually get buried on a Friday before Shabbat but this is not the case that says for evil people it's just the opposite as a result of the physical pleasures of this world they attached and strengthened that kipa to their bodies and their souls even more this is the secret this is the sod of why a person is not spared from the beatings of the Grave if it's a wicked person that became lustrous on a regular basis wasted seed on a regular basis died without doing chur for these things she liked walking around with only half an outfit because she wants everybody to see the definitions of her body she walked around without because she wanted everybody to see the new hairo that Oscar from the uh down the street made for her she wants everybody at the Supermarket they say how hi Miss is so and so how are you why because she's uh half naked so they have to see something she walked around causing other people to sin or better yet he's a rabbi he calls himself a rabbi he tells people no homosexuality that's not a big deal there 63 Mi so what if you make One S like this rash and some of his followers that defend him homosexuality is a Prohibition in the T whenever gay men come to me and they say this is their contention I was born this way there's nothing I can do to change you know what my response to them is there are 63 Commandments in the Torah you have 611 left that'll keep you pretty damn busy but this all or All or Nothing some game that if you violate one law like being gay you're out of the community that is not Jewish and I will always protest against it people like that they have become addicted to the sin so the says that their kipa is like dough mixed with flour and Brad intricately has become tied together to the point where it's in essence almost a single piece there's almost no separation it's almost impossible to break it without some massive massive beatings because they forgot who's the master of the house and until that comes off we're not finished and this is why it's called the beatings of the Grave if I'm scaring you that's a good sign that means your soul is still [Music] alive now they asked how is the beating of the Great grave what what happens he said to them the person passes from this world the Mal the angel of death comes and sits on top of his grave beating him and says get up and tell me your name in one hand he's hitting him in another hand he's holding a book and that book is your Torah it's your book it's your life everything you did in your life in there it has all of this sins and all of the mitv that the person has during their life every single one every single time you look somewhere inappropriate every single time you put something in your mouth inappropriate every single time you wore something every single thing you didn't do Chua for everything it's in that book and he says what's your name what's your name what's your name why because he want you to admit yeah yeah this is my book this is my life sign off on it everything that's in that book it's my life so that way after he does it then the next part of the Judgment can begin on the first hit the first time he hits the person he does it with a chain and all of the person's limbs are dismembered the second time he hits them all of the bones of that person fall apart and then the the other ministering Angels come and they gather all the bones together and stand them up and then the Mal hits them the third time and they request him to pay the judgment on everything that he did Justice this is on the first day and the second day on the third day they judge him with more beatings they hit his two eyes he looked at things inappropriately she looked at things inappropriately they wanted to go on a surf the Internet they hit his ears because he learned L he accepted somebody said L and he said wow really he did that wow really this if somebody says something about somebody and that person is a righteous person a wicked person you're not allowed to listen to it it's called even if it's true but the person that you're talking about doesn't want that to be told about them what if I tell other people somebody's rich is that said yes maybe that person he's saying oh he's Rich maybe he doesn't want people to know he's Rich doesn't have every uh single staka Bock show up at his house at 9:00 at night 10:00 at night 11:00 at night with the little folder staka staka yeah just came from Zimbabwe I just came from Israel just came from here just came from here okay khabibi why' you how do you know where I live how do you know Steve andu over there they told me that you're rich oh it's you listen to that you're also part of the crime it's not just the person that says it's also the person that hears it and it's the person that accepts it if you spoke they hit his lips too somebody likes to curse they want to speak like a truck driver they hit his mouth what about his feet well depends did he go to or did he go to the bar if he went to the bar and he went to play basketball on Shabbat and he went to all the different nice places is that are not Tor he wanted to go to the beach to see all the naked people or he wanted to go to the fake T where they only have food but no Tor because they paid $20 over there he wanted to go over there so they could teach him that some Rabbi that died a few years ago he's the Messiah he wanted to go over there so they could teach him they can teach him nonsense he wanted to go over there where they said there's no gay he wanted to go over there to a place where they said that all of our is going G if everybody goes to G Eternal damnation can't mean you will burn in hell forever cuz hell can't go on forever it's evil evil doesn't go on forever so it can't be punishment forever besides the fact that it's pointless what punishment forever not getting anywhere there is eternal end Eternal Darkness not punishment when the soul stops being who he who it was loses all its memory and its characteristics and just becomes energy that's it Eternal it will forever be energy and not itself anymore where is Hitler's soul in hell no way if Hitler Came To Hell everybody else would leave hell means the cleansing adjustment that the soul goes through to salvage all the goodness that was there and is may be a little fkit you know with uh with the with the misbehaviors but when a soul has nothing to salvage he just stops being what it was and becomes generic energy then angels have to hit his legs too because he used them to run to sin and kazal says someone that uses his feet to hasten his sin then they hastily bring the angel of death upon him what about a person that says bad things about another person that's a righteous person this person is going to have a special treatment he's going to have another death upon death called what's is that the throat closes slowly and little by little he can't breathe but he's still alive and he can't breathe and he's still alive it's like the slowest level of torture that possibly exists in the world you want to say bad things about righteous people this is what happens chapter three of says in the name of the Judgment which hasem carries out on a person in the grave is even harsher than the Judgment of galom said in the book he says if people only knew what punishment exists in G they'd literally start crying hysterically and then says by the way the it's even worse than G I don't know what that means all I know is that's really bad why is it so much worse he says the Gom is limited because he gets judged for the vast majority of his sins from the age of 20 with the exception of wasting seed but then says the Judgment that's in the grave the beating of the Grave everyone has to go through even babies that are being nursed even a miscarriage everyone has to go through this [Music] the ramban writes here and he says if the appears and you don't know what to do always be aware from where you have come and where you are destined to go and you will realize that in life you are as frail as the maggot or the worm all the more so in a death but at some point a says time's up son come back to Aba if you made the right decisions you have not much to worry about other than there's going to be a little bit of pain in the beginning cuz there's for everybody but it's not the same level for everyone so how could a person be saved from at least he should love being rebuked he should love charity bring guests to his house pray with full kavana meaning told stop doing this do cha love doing kindness helping people get closer to Hashem as the ultimate kindness help people that are helpless get people to come to the shoe get people to watch who has patience for us to do CH despite our many sins he'll give us another chance another chance Another Chance in This World in the next world there's no more patience is merciful because despite that sometimes a word against God comes out once in a while by accident sometimes on purpose sometimes accidentally on purpose we say something against God Hashem says I'll be patient I'll be merciful most of these only apply to this world when a leaves this world there's no more mercy and just like he has the ultimate love for his people unfortunately when a person leaves this world it's pure judgment if you are at [Music] or you're praiseworthy your share is praiseworthy you're going to have so much good you're going to say die it's enough enough so much good unfortunately if a person didn't do anything contined being a shabat Contin driving to the B on Shabbat continuing going with Goot continuing touching women without uh you know without being married continuing touching his wife wife he keeps doing it she keeps doing it she keeps walking around like she's some uh runway model you want to keep doing it a says when the time Runs Out judgment only thing that arrives is Judgment if you did good you'll get paid for good you did bad unfortunately you get paid for bad [Music] is in chapter 12 of says the following one Angel hits him another Angel counts how many hits because there's a judgment in heaven of how many hits he's allowed to hit him the third Angel shoots out fire from his own body like a furnace and the fourth Angel brings the bitter and sour grasses from the mountains in case he stole from his friend or from other people you have eaten stolen property with your teeth and then another Angel shows up and brings the N of his parents his mother and his father and then after the parents are dumbfounded because they sent them to a school that's public school or to a college University in America that's full of garbage and they said no no son I want you to be a doctor I want you to be a lawyer so go to UCLA comprised of and I want you to get a good education so you get a degrease you can make a lot of money G get will worry about it later on and at that moment these malim give him the person that died the permission to hit his father and mother because they're the reason he's there why didn't you instruct your children to study T and fulfill me they are Partners to the crime and if he feels embarrassed no I don't want to hit my I love [Music] them then they hit him instead in front of his parents and make his parents suffer watching their son or daughter get hit before the hits begin the person is in shock saying my time hasn't end no my time came now I'm only 25 I'm only 35 I'm only 75 I have so many years ahead I just did a deal for a million dollars I haven't been matured yet I just bought a house I just finished the kitchen I just did all this stuff I got so much stuff to do and the angel say to him get up your time has arrived and then they open up his eyes and he sees the truth and the first thing that he sees is the Mal himself which is as long from one end of the world to the other end of the world meaning he's from the ground all the way to the heavens and his clothes are made of [Music] fire and he holds a knife in his hand and at the tip of the knife there is a drop of bile hanging from it the moment that a person sees this he gets so scared that he opens his mouth and the drop falls into their mouth and from that they die from that they become smelly and disgusting from that the person's face becomes discolored and at that moment they actually see a himself as it says for no man can see me and live in Exodus 33:3 during their lifetime they cannot see him but they do see him upon their death another source is Psalm 22:30 before him will bow all those who have descended to the dirt and his soul is not alive meaning that after a person dies they will see a what they see I have no idea I haven't seen it yet the person then immediately testifies that his end has come he realizes okay my end has come and Hashem seals the verdict if he's a righteous person then he gives over his soul to his owner without a fight if he's a r then he still remains stubborn and doesn't want to die no no no give me more time give me more time even then he has a yet he doesn't want to listen to his owner says just as the wicked are stubborn in this world and don't want to do CH so will the wicked remain stubborn when they die and stand for judgment as it says in psalm 112:10 the wicked will see and become angered in the book y in the second he says if people only knew what punishment exists in G they'd literally start crying hysterically begging to simply just not take them there don't even take me to G just don't take me to G I'll do everything I'll keep I'll keep to I'll become basali I'll start teaching I'll start giving everything I have all the money everything just don't take me to gain of if they only understood what it means why is it so much worse because he gets judged for the vast majority of his sins from the age of 20 with the exception of wasting seed so the sins that a person made before the age of 20 have lesser of a judgment it's not that there's no judgment it's lesser of a judgment with the exception of wasting seed why because that even if you did it at 9 years old somehow that say unfortunately same thing as a 20 years old or a 30 years old doesn't says come and see the difference between a man and a beast an animal endures a lot of suffering in this world the cow gets slaughtered and after they get slaughtered they get skinned but it doesn't have a judgment after that it's finished finished his mission came to the world for people to use it if it's a kosher animal somebody slaughtered in the kosher way if there was a soul of a Jew in there beforehand that Soul could get a tun meaning could benefit out of this Slaughter even though it's painful even though the skin being uh skinned is his painful s but that's it it's finished that salt is elevated to the next level there's no G and all the other things that I mentioned none of that it's finished goes to the next chapter whatever the next chapter is for it it doesn't have judgment but man endures a lot of suffering in this world who is who do you know that's not suffering everybody suffers in this world some people health issues some people you know emotional issues some people psychological issues some people Financial issues some all types everybody suffers everybody has some type of suffering waking up early in the morning is a level of suffering no one wants to wake up early in the morning going to work is suffering yeah I love my job yeah but if you didn't have to you didn't work you wouldn't work if you didn't have to work you wouldn't work if the all the money in the world was in your bank you wouldn't go to work why because no one wants to work you want to be on vacation reality is a lot of different types of sufferings some we bring on ourselves some are just part of life but if he's a holy righteous person at least he's exempt from judgment but if he's wicked if he didn't do Chua before he died then he's judged with the most severe judgments man endures a lot of suffering in this world but he also suffers after his death the moment that a person passes from this world it's not enough that he's frightened by the Mal the angel of death did you enthrone your owner every morning and evening meeting did you realize aadh is watching you at all time aosh says to the person my dear son my dear daughter look how I took great care of you when you were formed in your mother's womb you you were in a miscarriage when you came out the Arab of the world I set it up to sustain you and I saved you from suffering what did you do throughout the 50 60 70 80 90 100 years you lived did you engage in Torah did you do kind Deeds before me this is what happens when you meet AEM this is what he asks you if they did those things they have those things they're exempt from judgment but if not hands them over to the angels the damaging angels in page 94 he says that g has seven names which is mentioned several times in the Tor is 300 light years wide and long the says how big is ganeden it says 60 times the size of Earth how big is G some say it has no size others say it's Gom itself all of it is 2100 light years long the reason why they said it has no size because it continues to increase in size as more and more wicked people enter it whever does cha instead of being beaten they bring him directly to ganeden but if he dies without chuat they bring him to Gom instead the last verse of the book of Isaiah what the prophet Isaiah saw that not only did Isaiah see Gom but he knows exactly what happens there chapter 66: 24 says they will go out and see the corpses of The Men Who rebelled against hem for there the will not cease and their fire will not be extinguished and they will lie in disgrace before all mankind page 33b and also the Z talks about how this is the source of how for Wicked people that do not do CH there is an eternal Gom that exists what did Isaiah actually see himself and this is the narration Isaiah went into Gom saw it and he went into the second house one of the chambers in there and he saw two people hanging by their tongues and Isaiah said to Hashem oh revealer of Secrets reveal to me the secret behind this meaning why are these people being punished like this they're being hung by their tongues he said to them these people they slandered other people and that's their judgment so then Isaiah goes to the third house meaning another chamber and he saw men being hung by their penises and Isaiah says to Hashem oh revealer of Secrets Revealed to me the secret behind this why are these people having this specific judgment so Hashem says to him these people leave their wives alone and fornicate with other women so this is their judgment so Isaiah goes to the fourth house and he saw women being hung by their chest by their breast so Isaiah says to Hashem oh revealer of Secrets reveal to me the secret behind this why are these people getting this specific punishment says to him these women reveal their hair on their heads and they tear their clothing meaning they wear modest clothes and then they sit in Market places nursing their children so that they can get people's attention and sin with them and this is what their judgment is woman walks around IM modestly she wants attention fourth house apparently Isaiah goes into the fifth house and he saw a house full of smoke of all sorts of noblemen and treasurers were inside there with parau the wicked sitting on top of them guarding the entrance to G and Par saying to all of these people why didn't you learn for me when I was in Egypt par still sits there and guards the entrance primary thing that a person has to have is and that's why the says only created the world for you to fear him if the whole world was scared of a the world would simply be G if just was scared of the Masia would arrive immediately but the point is that's how valuable is learn some of these things over and over and over again on a regular basis once a month once every couple of weeks once a week if necessary and if you have a really big yet once a day until you're scared enough from Hashem that you're not going to make any voluntary sins you're going to make sins regardless but at least it's not going to be on purpose it's not going to be on purpose you're going to make unintentional sins cuz you don't know or you didn't realize or it's an accident but at least let it not be on on purpose don't leave your house IM don't waste seat on purpose because you're watching yourself don't do that why because that's on purpose but don't do any purposeful sins don't go to McDonald's or some a non- kosher restaurant because you're really hungry find a kosher place or don't eat at all don't do any purposeful sins and after a while this is going to help you fall in love with a but it's something that you need to learn enough until you understand your role in this world that you are here to serve a he's not here to serve you [Music] I know people don't like to talk about this but we always go to the we always go to the we always go to the what do they teach if you look at the end of page 16 B in the beginning of 17A mentions it twice the righteous can have a benefit and a reward for eternity while the wicked can have a punishment and suffering for eternity meaning just like a kadh who's love and reward can be Eternal and unlimited the wrath of God is also unlimited even after mashia comes their Gom will not be turned off you look at Al mentions that someone that goes against to such an extent has no share of the world to come no share of the world to come is just another way for to explain to us what does it mean G you look at the you look at his they mentioned it we reviewed in one of our over 1,400 sources from how they talk about G this is what is you could also look at look at what r says about where korak is till this day Gom is not cabalistic it's not something that only a few know it's basic level Judaism that unfortunately is almost unheard of in this generation they ask what about G AR is to start teaching about Gom at 6 years old if he knows that there is a place of punishment at 6 years old you're not going to have to remind them at 60 it's already ingrained in him being afraid is actually part of our servitude of a part of our that's why the page 31b says only created the world in order for you to fear Him why because if you fear Him you will serve him the ran is using a 3 m number one says the fear of God will intensify in your heart you work on your humility you work on your the Tor says that is the only thing that's going to save you but just in case the system fails the says first try to grab a book of something press play on one of the one of those scary sh press play that doesn't work why remind yourself there's a God that's watching sometimes it doesn't [Music] work after this intensifies in your heart but sometimes it doesn't work think for a second about the day that you're going to die there's going to be a day shows up and says you're the next customer all of us experience this our are no less than 5,779 years old we all have n there's no such thing as a baby all of our n were at Mount saai 3,300 years ago the body that you have today is simply like clothing today you wore a suit tomorrow you're going to wear something else that's what the body is so the baby is simply wearing that shell now but in his previous Carnation in his previous life he wore a different suit a different body similar face but not the same similar name but not the same why do he have to come back because he did not complete his mission she did not complete her Mission they made certain sins that they have to make up for and Hashem decided to give them another chance after they pay for part of the sins in Gom they were let out in order to come back to this world to fix the rest now when a person is found guilty in his judgment they give him over to the damaging Angels who bring him to different places the path is dark and slippery whoever does Chua instead of being beaten they bring him directly to ganeden but if he dies without Chua they bring him to G instead but before all of this is done they also get to meet abrah and and abah come to him and say my son what have you done in this world which you existed for all these years if he says I bought fields and Vineyards and I worked on them all my days and said to him you fool you didn't learn from David that the land and all of its constants are aem's as it says in t 24:2 they take him and bring in the next person who says I acquired gold and silver and then abah and is say to him you fool didn't you learn from the prophets Leah says to the prophet Min is the money Min is the gold but if they bring a they bring somebody that kept to they bring a there say what have you done in the world that they exist he said oh I follow the t i Tau in the T all the days of my life so say ah may peace come and rest upon your lying place and Hashem himself accepts this person smilingly this is one of the foundations of our Tor a moment you're going to have a test a big test this is the type of stuff that hopefully you'll be reminded of and not do it loving AEM is a wonderful thing to acquire but the reality is that loving Hashem by itself is not going to stop you from sinning it won't stop you from sinning being afraid will stop you from sinning and that's why it's actually something that you see in our C do those who pass through the valley of tears into Wellspring so the says what is this Valley of Tears what is it says that's one of the chambers in G this is actually part of our every Jew has to do it at least once a day you start with saying will praying because in case we sin we don't want you to destroy us right in the beginning of the prayer point is that created the world in such a way that we operate best based on fear you don't speed on the highway because you don't want to get a ticket you don't want to get into an accident you don't want to hurt somebody else and so on and so forth we don't take stuff that doesn't belong to us because we don't want to get caught we don't want to be embarrassed we don't want to hurt somebody else and so on and so forth we don't sit at home and do nothing instead of and go to work instead even though we don't like work the reality is we go to work even though we don't want to why because we don't want to be homeless we don't want to be we don't want to starve to death and so on and so forth we don't yell our spouse and insult them because again we know that if we do yell at them we do insult them it'll hurt the marriage it'll hurt the relationship it'll hurt a lot of things loving AEM is fantastic it's just not something that first of all everybody can acquire number two you can't acquire it without fearing Hashem first anyway and three that by itself is not going to stop you from sinning that love of Hashem is not by itself going to stop you from cheating on your wife there are many guys that cheat on their wife even though they love them there are many women that cheat on their husband even though they love them there was a recent horrible statistic that came out of and they said that women and men are just as likely to cheat on each other now in the past was a men's problem because of their physical desires apparently the women have become like men they're just as likely to cheat on each other wa but they all love each other they all said oh I love them at first sight I love her at first sight okay so why' you cheat on her oh you know but you love her though no yeah I love her why cuz love by itself does not stop us from doing stupid things primary thing that a person has to have is and that's why the says only of the world for you to fear Him you have to acquire so you don't sin because when you sin you disconnect from him when you disconnect from him he's forced to punish you he doesn't want to punish you but he's forced to do it why because there has to be a reward and a punishment system in this world if just was scared of the mashia would arrive immediately better yet if 10 Jews all had under One Roof they all here for hem himself the says mashia arrives on a spot whether we like it whether we agree with it is irrelevant we're not the ones running the world if the whole world was scared of a the world would simply be G but the point is that's how valuable is if you watch on a regular basis you'll build a you'll build a foundation of fearing hasm atast you're not going to make any purposeful SS this is going to help you fall in love with a actually enjoy your life what it really is learn the tah learn the Beautiful Things learn some of the scary things and see how they are also beautiful as well but really have a true connection to and not just be one of these fakers that walks around as if they're a perfect sadik as if they have everything good and no matter what they dohm is going to give them GED the beard Grows by itself doesn't make you religious the suit doesn't make you religious on Wall Street I also wear suits what makes you religious is how you act and what's inside you and what comes out of your mouth that's what makes you religious if you allow your eyes to look at T to look at good things that's already a great start if you allow good things to come out of your mouth like like compliments like good things honesty that's good if you go to places that are good full of Holiness full of Kus that's good if you look theart that makes you perfect that makes you perfect person to go to Ganan that's what Hashem wants but if you don't want to do that you want to eat McDonald's once in a while cuz you like the cheeseburger you like the chicken sandwich from Burger King you want to walk around with a shirt that just a little bit tight so they can see exactly how your body is shaped you want to walk around with a short skirt so everybody says wow you're looking good today you're going to do a lot of those things then guess what you're destroying yourself it's like somebody that jumps off of a bridge there's nothing you can do he already jumped so these sh it's not necessarily something that you need to learn all day every day but it's something that you need to learn enough until you understand your role in this world that you are here to serve a he's not here to serve you if you're tired because you don't think that you're supposed to be a servant of hem that means I haven't done a good enough job yet so now I'm going to tell you what's really going to happen why because you need to be a servant of hasm that's the job that's the point of this world that's why you exist you exist to serve hasem it's not as hard as you would think I promise you and trust me when I tell you even if you find it extremely difficult to be modest among all of the modest women around you extremely difficult not to eat to eat nonos because you have a big appetite for non- koser things you're addicted to uh I don't know shrimp or something the the bugs of the sea you're you're addicted to the Cockroaches of the ocean call them Lobster you're addicted to it trust me when I tell you it's going to be much harder in G home why cuz over there they force feed you you understand here you chose so even if it's hard for you not to waste heed hard for you not to not touch somebody that's not your wife hard for you not to let a man touch you when he's not your husband hard for you to give sta hard cuz you you know you love your money so much you want it all for yourself hard for you to fulfill the Torah hard for you to learn it's hard for you trust me when I tell you as hard as it is in the beginning it's not even 1% of 1% of 1% as hard as gome is for the first minute and Gom only gets more hard so this is what we need to learn in order to have at least the foundation to get an understanding that this is what our role is in this world and the best part about it is that once a person accepts that she's a servant of Hashem she's a representation of Hashem he's a representation of Hashem he's a servant of Hashem guess what all of a sudden the meets foot become fun why that's my job if my job is to fulfill the Torah and do MIT then that means that every time I did it you're going to get some gratification out of it why you did a job you did a good job you kept Shabbat you're happy at the end of Shabbat wow I kept the whole Shabbat by myself you ate look I ate and I said in the beginning and at the end you feel a sense of achievement believe it or not eating becomes significant why cuz it's not just you eating to to just fulfill your appetite it's even your eating BEC serving of hem it's not that you're just reading and okay you got smarter no now you're reading T you're actually learning about you're learning more things to do how to serve him even better your reading becomes significant it's not that you just walk down the street and it's just like everybody else you go to the store no during that walk to the street you watch your eyes everything that's IM you look away so even you walking to the store to the deli to the supermarket to the laundromat becomes a mission for why I didn't look I didn't look where I don't belong going outside going outside as a b said you are a walking k why everybody's looking at you instead of looking at all the all the IM modest women they're looking at the one modest one everybody else is naked this is the only one that looks at the queen you're walking K everyone wants to marry the princess you walk around as a modest woman you are sanctifying a k Who's name simply by existing a married woman walking around with a hat or a scarf on our head the opposite of everybody else it's even more significant than this generation but then if a person doesn't do anything that the Tora here says then just know the Z Kad says that for every single body part they Sinn one of the things that they will experience in in the grave is that there will be a spiritual snake coming out of every single hole and every single part part of their body that sin if they sin with their breath there's going to be a spiritual snake there constantly torturing them in that area if she walked around without all of our hair is going to turn into snakes like Medusa I'm not even giving you 1% of what it says and it's already scaring me and I'm telling it it's not worth it as hard as doing Chuan is trust me it's much much easier than the consequence of nothing not doing because all of us at some point leave this world it's after all of us do CH regardless of the age who cares about the age as long as you did cha it doesn't matter when you die it matters if you did cha before you died if you did cha then you go in a great fantastic place for eternity what difference does it make that you're leaving this world at 30 at 40 at 90 at 100 who cares you're going to an eternal place of good yeah the people behind you they're sad cuz you're not around anymore and so on but yeah but if they really know that you're sadik you're sadik you're going to G and they're happy when you die why he's going to Eternity he's going to Eternity of good who cares when you die as long as you do Chua first but if you died without doing Chu even if you died at 120 it actually makes the case worse why you made more sins made more sins made more judgment so instead of thinking when you look at people instead of saying happy birthday to people and thinking you hopefully lasts a long time hopefully she lasts a long time no hopefully they do Chua that should be your prayer for yourself your prayer for everybody else that's the number one thing why because if a person does CH they connect to a while they're alive they're ass sure to have an eternity of good and that's the best thing that you could ever give somebody what do you think Hashem is not going to give you even more money so you can help even more people when you're helping all of those kids come home help people do chuva that's the only thing you should do people that help people do Chua unfortunately there's not many but actually people that help people do cha like change their life not many chuva means that you help somebody change their life their lifestyle the way they look at the world their perspective of the world what they're going to do in this world they change their life the of says that even in his generation over a 100 years ago where there's countless medicines for every ailment every sickness every pain you have there's 500 different medicines for it he says except one ailment he says the spiritual ailment the there's only one cure but no one wants to be a doctor there's one cure for what give him M teach him how to do CH but nobody wants to be a doctor he says that there's not many people signing up for that job so that's why I say you can be that person either directly indirectly I brought the books with me if you want to read them for yourself there's and so on and so forth the point being is you have to read them and then do what it says that's what we're trying to tell you we're saving you the time now you have it all in a silver platter and now you have a decision to make you're going to do cha you're not going to do cha cha is something you do a little bit every day another mitzvah another mitvah another Mitzvah you get better and better and better and little by little your life changes not doing cha is also a decision every day every day you keep eating Kos every day you look at things that are inappropriate every day you keep going against the it's not a good idea just gives us enough get closer and closer to as he wants and as he desires for us to do we do real CH lead other people to do CH get as a whole to do cha even if they're very very far away or they think they're very very close irrelevant this is what everybody needs to learn this is the very basics of the Torah you need to know that one day you're going to die and you need to know what's going to happen there this is the beginning I have the good part I have the bad part if I want a good part I have to act accordingly if I want to act the bad part I have to act accordingly everybody needs to learn these things because this is the basics this is simply Judaism 101 even though nobody has heard this until today every single person needs to know the basics once you know the basics Bel theem you'll act accordingly [Music] w [Music] hello [Music] w a [Music] e e