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[Music] in this temple in Southern India thousands of devotees are preparing to make a rather unusual offering some of them have waited years for this moment growing their hair before giving it to the gods it is a sacr ritual for millions of Hindus my daughter was really sick I vowed to donate my hair if recovered do you know what will happen to your hair no I do not know but it will be offered to the gods and that's all that matters to me every Saturday thousands of pilgrims come to the dwarka tumala temple to be shaved by one of the 95 Barbers that work here the pilgrims leave behind kilos of hair the temple has turned the Pilgrim's offerings into an incredibly lucrative business once cut the hair is collected and then stored by the temple it is then explored Ed around the world to be used in wigs and hair extensions I don't know exactly what happens to the hair the leaders of the temple take it and they sell it for how much well I know the temple makes about a million dollar per year after it's collected at the temple the hair is then transported to rindra vanka's factory mix the hair okay okay and separate the dark strands every year hundreds of of tons of hair from several temples is treated here by the factory 3,000 workers the hair is washed dried and then sorted the factory stalks hair of every kind color and form for rindra Vanka his products are a source of Pride you see my God you see how he unbelievable how many inches is this yeah it's a 46 46 yeah wow I can't believe it I've been working in this business for seven years but this is the first time I've touched hair this long more than a meter long the price is $100 to $700 per kilo it depend upon the length and what kind of the process bleaching dying blonde color the blonde color more expensive you can see the factory attracts buyers from around the world and a growing number of clients are from China okay every year almost 10% increased why is so much increased well because more and more ladies they want to looks younger they want to looks beautiful so they they need our products they love our products the chines alone buy nearly 1,000 tons of hair from this Factory a business that just keeps on growing much like the hair that sustains it right now there is as I've told you many times and we'll repeat it again there is a big huge lie it's infected bigger than any disease that we've ever had and that's the disease of falsehood being taught by leaders to tell people that they're doing aah when in reality they're doing an now when it comes to wigs this is not a problem for a small community this is a problem for pretty much the entire religious Jewish World a very small fraction of women comparison actually cover their head like they're supposed to according to the majority of pusim throughout all of history with a hat or a scarf many women wear wigs now there's been a debate about the issue of wigs for almost 400 years which originally started as we said in the past by a misunderstanding by the because all the went against it of the page 64b the Mish there that talks about hair on the head and and and which the be went against and so did many many other of the fast forward to not repeat some of the things we've mentioned in previous sh nonetheless there are over 127 P throughout history that have said that wearing a wig is 100% asso why ass it's ass it's not allowed it's forbidden because it's not modest it's not modest because the mitvah of covering a woman's hair is an obligation it's not like a it's not a stringency it's an obligation it's an obligation in it's an obligation in it's obligation the five books of Moses or it starts but that specific is called it's an obligation in several places it's everywhere everyone knows that a Je woman must cover her hair and for Generation among generation righteous Jewish women all the all the way back from the days of the Kash over 3,300 years ago 4,000 years ago covered the hair with a 5,000 years ago withu covered there with but now a few hundred years ago things certain things changed so the M begins with this specific mishna which says the following a woman may go out on Shabbat with her hair braided with strands of hair whether the strands are own hair or whether the strands are hair of her companion or whether the strands are of a animal with a frontlet or with head Bangles they are SE to the hat with an ornament with an ornamental W Woolen cap or with a wig into the courtyard so this whole gar and it continues whole gar talks about whether someone is allowed to put something on their head and walk outside when there's no because in essence it's carrying something so is it considered carrying or is it considered something like a piece of clothing which you're allowed to wear so here it says there's a few different types of things there is strands of hair her hair a friend's hair an animal hair or there's a uh a hat by itself or there's a hat uh with bangles on it or there is a um wig a wig itself so here that she take said oh see there you go says that you're allowed to wear a wig on Shabbat so it means you're allowed to wear a wig on Shabbat it means you're allowed to wear wig the rest of the week but why did everybody go against what he said says because you didn't read Rashi you missed Rashi what did Rashi say Rashi said first of all who are these women that putting strands of hair why is he just putting his strand of hair why they put the whole wig if you're already putting a put a whole thing why you putting strands of hair first first and foremost you should know who's putting this hair first off some people get sick they get bolt spots so it's embarrassing to have a bol spot so put hair on it second thing if you're going to uh cover your hair anyway with a with a scarf for a hat why do you need to put the strains of hair because if you've ever seen shom you ever seen a cancer patient someone that's bald and they cover their hair with a bandan you know that they're bald so many of the women even if they cover their hair with a bandana and they really don't have hair under it they still put a wig why because it still gives them more of a comfortable feeling a comfortable look to have that puffy hair look under the K even if it's Jew or non-jew so it says that even obviously all the women are covering their hair if they're married so even if they're covering their hair they're covering that bolt but with hair not because you going to see that hair but rather because they don't want you to see that there's some type of hole there looks deformed so what's the problem of just simply wearing the wig what is what is uh Rashi say he says the wig is allowed the wig is allowed because the only reason anything would not be allowed for example was not allowed to wear certain ornaments on their head or certain things on their head because of the fear that they'll take it off on Shabbat to show it to their friend look how nice this Crown is look how nice my crown is and then forget to put it on their head and they're carrying it and they're violating Shabbat they're violating Shabbat because they're carrying something now so there certain things you're not allowed to wear specifically because a woman likes to show off our stuff if it's really nice she wants to show a friend oh look my husband just got this for me look my son just got this for me and so on and so forth and now you're going to forget to put it back to where it belongs and you're going to carry it and you're not have to carry if there's no so he says Rashi says there's no problem with wearing the wig why why is there no problem with wearing a wig because there's no fear of a woman removing that wig why is there no fear of that woman removing the wig because the wig is sewn into the hat that she's wearing on top of the wig the wig is sewn into the Hat she's wearing and of course she's not going to take off the hat because then you she's going to be violating the Torah she must cover her hair so even if she wants to show somebody hey look at my nice wig it's from France it's from uh Nigeria it's from I know Brazil wherever it is she not going to do it why cuz the wig is saw to the Hat cuz she has have something cover her hair so she can't just take off the wig she has to take off the hat if she take off the hat she going to show off her head she going to show off our real hair not allowed so here all of the all of the ones that say it's ass it's not allowed to cover your hair with a simple wig they're not using their own opinions this is this is what the gar says why is it not allowed to Simply wear a wig by itself why is it not allowed thear specifically says in the same place 64b because it will be considered an enhancement if a older woman is wearing the hair of a younger woman meaning you're wearing hair that improves your looks which is going to to grab the attention of other people which is an immodest act by definition an old woman is not going to you know no older woman is is getting a wig of white hair if she's already going to wear a wig she's going to wear a wig of a younger woman's hair that is by definition not lowed that's what the says so when the missed it all of the other said you're 100% wrong and that's why the overwhelming majority of P throughout all of history have said it's forbidden 100% to wear a wig over 117 poke said it already before recent history another 10 recently were added but the recent 10 that were added were added for even another reason the recent 10 that were added were added for a more significant reason why were they added because after an in an intensive amount of studying that we've done with people in India people in different markets a lot of research that we did and as you all know I was on Wall Street for almost 20 years that was my profession that was what I did that was my expertise we pretty much have a not like a opinion it's a certainty it's a market certainty it's not my opinion it's a market certainty you go to any expert within the industry real expert that's not biased and you ask him where does the the hair of real hair wigs originate from for the majority of the market statistically according to researchers Beyond myself over 90% of the hair in the world that goes for wigs comes from India no other place it does come from Cambodia and from China and from Russia and from different places but it's small amounts in comparison to the large amounts why is the small amounts why can't they just bring half of it from Russia why can't they bring half of it from China why can't they bring half of it from Brazil each one of those countries has its own explanation first and foremost Cambodia it's very nice thank you very much for providing some of the hair you just don't have a very big population though to provide a 10 billion doll business with hair it's A1 billion Doll Market it's not like a$2 million business it's a 10 billion doll industry you cannot Cambodia cannot provide even 5% of the market hair finish gum Brazil a lot of people say Brazil comes from Brazil I asked some Brazilians oh you have people that donate hair and or or sell their hair in Brazil they start laughing in my face I said well okay you don't have to laugh at me why why why you think it's not not funny I'm not really doing research like Brazilians and people from you know this part of the world would be more likely to commit suicide from starvation then shave their head such is the appreciation of of personal Beauty in that country in that part of the world it's never happening it's never happening Brazil gone there are a few suppliers in Brazil but after further research we saw they were just smarter than everybody else and already in the early uh 80s and 1990s they made contracts with the temples in India a few of them made some contract with the temples in India which we'll get to in a moment okay Russia Russia has this thing that they do where they go to the the women prisons and they force the women even if it requires physical beatings to shave their head and then they sell the hair this how many how many people in jail can you possibly have it cannot Supply $10 billion business I'm sorry so then you say okay you have only left Europe you go to Europe France England Italy you ask them you guys shave your head you see any bald people in the street they're going to laugh at you the same way they laughed at you in Brazil it's it's not happening you don't see the Queen of England shaving their head to donate our hair anywhere you don't see even the homeless people do such thing it's just not part of of their thing and you don't see them selling it either you don't see them selling it either the reason why you don't see many people selling it because you can get it for free if someone sold it if someone wanted to sell their hair they sld for a lot of money no one in their right mind will sell long hair that took him 15 20 years to grow no one in their right mind will sell for 50 bucks you're going to sell for several thousand why would I buy as a wig maker as a supplier why would I buy your hair for 2 3 4 5 6 78 $9,000 if I can get it for free meaning for pennies on a dollar just go to India so now you have yourself two main markets left you have China and you have India China gets hair from dead people China has a population of a billion and a half people approximately and when people die part of the people actually they shave their head and they sell the hair this is forbidden according to the Torah you're not allowed to use anything of the dead so that I don't have to debate it's a known fact it's not allowed but Chinese here you can tell it's Chinese here nonetheless either way even if it is even if it's not it's forbidden it's forbidden but even more so even more so there's not as many people dying in China as there is people donating hair in India why India because India for hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of years has had it as part of their many religions to donate the hair to one of their false gods to one of their Idols you have over a billion people live in India currently average statistically according to Market Research not me market research professionals experts different major hedge funds major uh research houses major business outlets and so on said average person has donated a hair at least two and a half times meaning 2 and a half billion that's the market there's no other country including China that can supply the market like this why because even if you got the hair from some European or some Israeli or some Cambodian or some Chinese or some it still will be drastically more expensive why cuz someone's selling it here the people are giving it for free and they're actually paying the temple to take the hair know how the market can compete with free it's the best price now why are they doing it for free because it is 100% idol worship just like a million of big difference we brought to in the bet mikdash they bring their hair to their false Idols of rats and statues and all types of foolishness same thing in their eyes obviously stupidity but nonetheless their purpose is the same according to the according to the according to the entire T once something was used for idol worship it can never be undone that's why as soon as Yeshua went into went to is hashm said burn all the trees why burn the trees what they do somebody worshiped them yeah but the tree itself is innocent didn't do anything doesn't make a difference it was used for idol worship once it can never be used again it must be destroyed the only Mitzvah left for its existence is to destroy it it cannot be used you can't make it into paper you can't make it into tables you can't make it use for beauty you can't use its fruit it must be destroyed meaning if you have a wig and you have a zillion hairs in the wig and one hair in it one hair came from idolatry Just One Hair not the whole thing one hair but you don't know which hair the whole wig has to be destroyed why you can't take the chance can't take the chance that that one hair is on your head cuz that's idle worship now allim all tah all real Scholars all real Jews everyone agrees you're not allowed to benefit from idol worship everyone but there was some herit that pretends to be a rabbi that came up says no no we're going to kosher the wigs we're going to uh oversee it we're going to this we're going to this we're going to that I already made enough videos about that that the whole coastering of wigs is complete nonsense there's no such thing it cannot exist there's no way to kosher it especially the way that he doesn't do what he what he says that he does and even he himself when raash Shalom came out and said it's not allowed it's forbidden to use wigs from India or from anywhere idol worship he himself says no I don't I don't agree with rash I don't think that uh the idol worshipping is a problem even if you get it from India you could still use it so if you don't think that they need to be koshered how are you koshering it how many kosher institutions are there for wigs one only him I made I made already enough comments about the whole koshering thing what am I telling what's the here summarizing everything to a point how is is connected to to to to to the to the wife of of elaz how is this connected the main defendant unfortunately the main defendant of all of the wigs in the world right now the main defendant of fighting for wigs right now the main unfortunately the main defendant of it is kabad stands for three levels of of wisdom Unfortunately today after the rabbi died it stands for three other things it stands for you have to believe that the Reb is mashiah stands for that all everybody's a captured baby you're okay wherever you are and stands for wigs you go to kabad and you tell them listen it's forbidden over 120 p said that it's not allowed they said no no no rabie allowed it he tell him it's forbidden it's idol worship all PO said it's not allowed including the the rebies of course the re would never say the idol worship was allowed it's against the Tora was a kados was is kados not allow idol worship no no it's not idol worship what do you I told you it's idol worship the idol worship himself made a video said it's idol worship have people in India in India say it's idol worship we do idol worship yeah sure what's the problem they have nothing they don't think there's anything wrong with it they're not embarrassed of their idol worship they're proud of it you know how many videos I have of of people saying it's idol worship while they're shaving their head they're proud of it just like you're proud of putting feeline on your head just like your your your wife is proud of putting a scarf on the head just like you're proud of seeing just you're proud of eating kosher food just like you're proud of sending your kiss to Yesa they're proud of their idol worship so they made many videos there no problem they're actually looking at you like what's wrong with you why don't you why don't you also pray to the rats and the bats and the the snakes and the the statues with the uh with the Elephant Head why why don't you pray to them too they don't know what's wrong with you they don't realize it's wrong with them so you tell theab no it's idol worship no no the Reb allowed the Reb allowed there's no way the r would be allowed would would would make a mistake what is he God and for the last couple of days I've had this for months or for last two days have been debating ra FR and I have been debating these several several kabad rabbis where they're literally it started as we just posted something about uh some person had a dream that the rebbi Shalom came to him in a dream or came to her in a dream and said I never said that wigs are the wigs of today are allowed I never said that I'm mashia tell people to stop stop tell people stop doing it stop saying that this is my name I posted this in this different groups immediately these uh first Rabbi publicly insults me says you have to be an idiot to believe such a thing and you're a fool and you're this and you're that a lot of compliments thank you very much I need thank you very much for helping me out fine so then we started talking about I said well wigs are not allowed and like no but they re be allowed and we have other proofs and we start going back and forth so initially they provide five sources of P we the sources it's all M don't know how to read these people we provide them 25 sources showing them that the five sources are wrong they provide two or three more sources we provide 50 more 50 more so far we we're out numbering a little bit 50 more not allowed what do they do they start cursing us out start insulting us we continue for they as proofs then we say even the Reb himself did not agree with what you're saying why what the guy say the rabbi theab Rabbi what does he say he said yeah yeah I just came back from such and such town in Israel and I was making sure to look at all of the women to make sure they're wearing wigs wait excuse me what did you just say I what did you just say yeah make sure to look this is in writing I can show it you it's in Hebrew though but I can show it you I make sure to look at all of the rabbis and all of the women to make sure they're wearing wigs why are you looking at women you why are you looking at other women you don't you don't obligated to watch your eyes and then they start creating laws and they start creating things in the name of the re theab that was a ises they start creating things what they say theab rebi refus to marry any couple if the woman did not agree to wear a wig are you stupid are you are is something wrong with you where did you come up with such nonsense we sto providing them proofs that the reab himself himself wrote letters for me for the scarves and this goes back and forth back and forth not so much them it's more cursing us more proofs nonetheless we're trying to get to theit we're trying we're figuring it's frustration we're not Tak anything personally whatever it is what it is you get a little heated sometimes fine you want to get heated fine no problem so after two days of arguing I've been dealing with this weak thing for a couple years already Ro FR for even more he wrote it in his books and so on I have of a lifetime I think to myself all this debate who was the closest person to the rebi who is the closest person to any is KES who of course Rabbi is close is close but aside from that inside room who his wife what did his wife do his wife definitely didn't call him Messiah I can tell you that but what did his wife do I said let's find out I went on on some research I found you some confirmations I found you some confirmations you can't say it's my opinion why the source isab the source of everything I have right now is kabad it's not me it's I I didn't I don't I didn't go back 30 years in time to take these pictures kabad has several movies about the rabbitson she was a is she was m in our generation when she lived she died in the late 80s the Ritson was Muska was M unfortunately didn't have any kids but when there was a lawsuit and they were looking at the estate they were looking into the the state of kabad and so on and so forth they asked about the rebi and they asked about her her Father which was the uh the uhab before the rabne said and they asked oh what does he have what does he have he goes no no the rebi belongs to the everything he has is for the everything there's no person our house our car our money our bank everything is for the one little boy came to the Ritson he says Ritson where are your kids little kid doesn't know M what having kids is M doesn't know innocent innocent Mama's pure Soul what the rebbit instead of crying like all of us want to cry right now for such a thing what did she say she all the are his kids all the are kids say I want to know what our generation did if you're saying so many things about a husband I love shom I want to see what she did she go with her husband she go again what she do if she's a I want to be like her you don't need to listen to my words anymore you could just see pictures this the first picture this is a very famous picture of the rebit rabbits and serson you see that there is a little bit of hair and a hat there's a little bit of hair and a hat now this is obviously for anyone any woman would tell you this is obviously her real hair we showed this to theab rabbis they said no no it's a wig It's A Wig I said okay let's check another one let's check another picture another picture what about this one it's another hat this a wig too from 80 years ago it's a wig oh no it's a wig It's A Wig hem hasem have mercy on you tells meem have mercy on you for calling for thinking this is not a wig hasm have mercy on you I said okay fine no problem no problem this is a wig this is her by the way I said okay no problem let's see next next next picture here she is over here same picture as the other one just the original picture this a wig oh no it's a wig has have mercy on you it's say It's A Wig I said okay no problem fine no problem we have wigs we have a lot of wigs we have a lot of different types of wigs then you have the movie the movie uh called the um Life and Times of the rabbitson life and time of the reiton a brief biography of reiton K musers it shows several pictures of her some of that I showed you some that other this is one of them this is one of them and you see that there this is her you see that there's hair here in the back and there's a hat is a hat okay and okay let's say this is also I made it up I know somehow or whatever it is fine no problem now oh so you know the AL is that you are allowed to show according to Al you are allowed to show up to three finger fulls of hair three finger fulls of hair you're allowed to show front or back or so on kabad claims today's not today's people claim no no we hold by the Z who says you're not to show even a single hair not even that's why the wig is better according to them and to actually wear there's a sin according to these rabis that I had a debate with it's a sin if that's a sin what's a mitvah anyway so it said that's why so I said okay so what about the rabbits and she's showing some hair no that's a wig that's a wig okay fine it's a wig so let's just go fast forward and we go to 1985 just a couple of years before she died and we see what the Ritson is wearing next to a a man that's not a husband this is actually a picture that was taken when they were questioning her to some type of a financial issues some type of lawsuit and you see you can't see in the back digitally but OB she's actually wearing a k she's wearing a some type of cover on her hair and the front is showing about three finger FS or even a little bit more of three finger FS is showing next to a strange man obviously a cameraman so obviously she's this is not a picture that somebody got behind the scenes and she didn't know cuz if she knows that there's people out there she sadik she has to cover her hair now if case this was not convincing go there's another version of the picture now she looks and you can see clearly that she has something covering her hair and a little bit is not covered in the front next to the same strange man whoever this sadik is 1985 gives you the date and everything and if that wasn't enough I told them all this what about this like no no it's a wig I'm like what a wig an old woman is going to get white hair wig he said no no it's not it's not if it's not it's only because she's home so she doesn't have to cover her hair I'm like what do you mean she doesn't have to cover her hair there's strange people next to her not a husband did you just create a new law he said don't make fun of me this what he's responsible don't make fun of me so then we have another picture of the rabbitson of her in a car this is a somebody took she was in a car and actually you can't see it here but she's actually wearing the same exact K was as before and the front is showing but she's in a car so you can't use that excuse of she was home and she didn't know and she doesn't have to meaning every single argument you have is going to the garbage she wore K and last but not least is another one where she covered her hair here she doesn't have much showing at all uh she covered our entire hair it's a black and white picture so now you have is that dedicated her life to kabad Dedicated her life to her husband dedicated her life to a what did she do she put a on now if that wasn't enough I figured I already have let's go all the way what did his mother do guy's not going to go against his mother you know his mother was what's the story about his mother his father was a huge huge one day there the Communist wanted to kill them wanted to kill them non-stop but the father his father I remember the story from years ago his father used to write on the corners of the pages because they didn't have money for didn't have money for uh for paper very you know how expensive paper was back then like today you buy 500 pieces of paper for $2 back then you have 500 piece of paper you're already rich so people used to write on the corners you know between you know you have the book you have the book and then you have a little bit of white space on it little white space that's where they write theim on the corners over here so she took all of these Kim all of the books instead of clothes instead of food instead of money she took all of his and she took it out of the country to save the books she put a life on a line no money no clothes no nothing she just took his books why the world must see his this is how much she loved to this is it's not regular women it's no different than in that generation no different than and any there's no different what did she do rebbit Anderson look at this nice hat look at this another hat some hair showing on the side but you have the Hat more hair showing than the Ritson other one but nonetheless there's a hair covering which we'll explain in a moment another one these are all the pictures that are available there no more pictures you want to go find one send it to me but I don't I didn't find I did a lot of research covering more this is a meeting first meeting she had with the REI himself she hasn't seen him in almost 20 years meeting with all the rabbis and the rebi rebi here as you can see is very young is the rabbitson his mother the hat looks like a strl she covers everything huge and again another meeting over here another black and white picture this is the rabbits in here this is the rebi again a huge hat and if you want to read you should read the story The Life and Times of the rebbit in Muska it's actually on kad's website it's actually on rby.org or something like that very very good article also has many of the same pictures that I just showed you uh and others uh not others and uh what's it called just in the article now what's the point the point is a few things number one even if you want to say which is a lie even if you want to say they wore both of them both of these wore a wig let's say they did they didn't but let's say they did what kind what kind of wig did they did they wear what did they wear they weree exactly what the says exactly what Rashi says they wore the wig under the Hat okay I wore the wig white wig okay fine never really existed why no no problem I wee the wig under the Hat not a wig by itself not a wig by itself covered my hair obligate no problem but just like Russ she says just like the says just like the Mish says No 3 feet long wig reach the floor not even a short wig nothing why it's not allowed P not allowed it's p not allowed so even if it was a wig you see it's covered by a hat in reality it wasn't a wig you want to believe it's a wig fine okay if you're holding by the you want to hold by him to wew no problem at least hold by what he actually did don't hold by something you created out of your thin mind of what you say he did hold by what his wife did hold by what his mother did no problem but don't go out and pretend like you're covering your hair like the Baba Sali says he says these women they they're they're they're pretending like they could fool God they're pretending like they can fool God by fulfilling the obligation of covering hair with hair they're pretending to fulfill the obligation you think fool it's nonsense it's nonsense you have to understand to be is not easy it's not easy it's not easy to bring to a point where will save us out of the Tom of the world out of the impurity of the world of Egypt it's not easy you fast forward 3,300 years we're in the same situation for any woman to do serious chuva and stop with the nonsense it's not easy but at least don't lie about it don't pretend like you're finished with your Chua don't pretend we have all a lot to do we all have a lot to do but but knowing the truth is half the battle knowing the truth is half the battle that's what we could do Chua you want to hold by rebi no problem do what he did you want to hold by R do what he did whatever you whatever you want to hold do what they do don't start creating new rules in someone's name that died and you can't ask them now the best part is they said no RF kaneski said it's allowed I said no way you didn't say it's allowed I have a video of him saying it's not allowed a video right now he just made a few months ago a couple years ago video of him say it's not allowed they showed him a 15-year-old wig meaning it's a wig that's been beat up he says this looks like real hair it's not allowed would they insist so much and that this allowed why they insist that it's allowed because the guys don't know how to watch their eyes that's the truth the guys don't know how to watch their eyes they want to be like go they want their wives to look like go they want to make the same mistakes Dena made in the pal Dina made a mistake she wanted to see she didn't want to be like the go she want to see the guys today they want to see what the going look like oh look they have long hair I want long hair that's the truth that's the hard truth that's what they're going to try to hang me on that's what they're going to try to fight me with it's no problem I'm for God whoever wants to fight good luck well maybe they all interest whatever of course his interest is money but in reality it's in reality it's eyes yeah of course there's money yes of course at the end of the day to do Chua for such a thing don't take it for granted it's very difficult why is it very difficult for all of them to do chva just like said sometimes the embarrassment is so big I rather the person die than me go visit them in the hospital sometimes it's so hard for them to do CH they rather die themselves even than than put a on but that's the difference between and that's the difference between a and you want to bring the mashia for real you will say Masia Masia mashia you say want to bring mashia okay bring the mashia do Chu do Chu it's not easy it's not easy but you can do it if you couldn't do it Hashem would have never given you would have never given you this test and that's what we'll finish with the p shalom says nearly all of a woman's reward and Punishment in this world and the world to come all the reward all of the punishment comes and is dependent on her modesty the it's not me you have a problem go to him he's in right now with the rest of you problem going him that's the truth at least we know where we stand it's nothing against it's nothing against anyone it's only against lies it's only against lies there's many that I say stories on in whether it's zil or the and many others and himself but enough's enough stop desecrating hashem's name stop desecrating even your own Rab's name saying things in his name come on no enough enough let CH we all need to do CH that's what the r says which teaches they have a way a structured study for for for for rambam where they finish the rambam each year I believe it's it's there's a said there they hold by it so okay hold by everything he says hold by everything he says don't just pick and choose we're not Christians this will shock enough people into cha not into war with me it's not me it has nothing to do with me if one thing that I said Is A Lie prove it if one thing that I said Is A Lie prove it if one thing that I said has a bias that I have some personal interest prove it if you can prove it I'll admit it openly I'll make a bigger lecture about it I'll make a bigger lecture I have no problem it's not no benefit if I if I may said something wrong if I said some mistake I'll bring it if I have a some vested interest in it I'll admit it but the hus is on the hus is on everyone face reality okay this is where you stand now what you want hasem to answer your prayers now what it's time to do it's time to do listen we learned from and we're going to learn next week put the plagues on in order to show us the measure for measure punishment against the wicked Shalom for us to be judged as the wicked Shalom we want to be the righteous they're in between the lines we want to be like want to be like want to be even like din we want to be Al is one of them Al we don't be like Po we have to we have to stop sinning just like it said at the end of the even though afterm rebuked him so many times seven times he Bea him on ah head so far and continue to sin Shalom we continue to sin Shalom we continue to sin and think that what we're doing is a mitzvah [Music]