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when one of the journalist said perhaps women should go to women's only gym and men should go to men's only gym so we can avoid the problem they ripped him up as if he just said they should go to a concentration camp what are you talking about you're speaking in ancient uh times this is not the way things are men and women need to be together it's just that there was a problem in this place that they didn't know that someone's going to expose the video wait so you're saying that it's okay they committed adultery it's it's okay that committed immorality it's just a problem that it got publicized and they got caught that's the [Music] problem streng only the refill your heart pure it's what's that holds louder are [Music] and guard your eyes guard your soul that's the that keeps us it's more looks it's what's inside is our gu every thought every [Music] us we're back here on our Wednesday night stump the rabbi where after some you guys will ask some questions will give us the answers tonight's sh is going to be for the and an um ran Leana s s Leana aavid Ben and a happy birthday and a lot of to my very dear sonad Ben Leana and all of the supporters and all of the Learners that learn with us each week and support our organization bless all of them with a lot of thousandfold of what they contribute to our organization they'll have both in this world and the next so with that being said rabai we uh have parat Bo and parat Bo is uh very uh interesting on one aspect where of course we learn the story we learn uh what the rest of the plagues Bo is gatria number three and uh the last three plagues uh that we're dealing with on what in so many words uh mocked Egypt with what he mocked with what he uh destroyed them with but uh more than that of course we always have to look into the things that are relevant to our lives to our day-to-day lives and one of the things that uh jumped at me this week uh bishaya is in chapter 10 verse number s we see that uh par uh is obviously getting beat up there's one plague after another and at this point it says that even the Servants of par already have had it with the whole thing they've had it with the whole thing they they simply want enough of it and they's servant says to him how long will this be a snare for us a mish a snare send out the men that they may serve Hashem their God do you not yet know that Egypt is lost see here we're seeing that he himself has had enough but he keeps changing his mind but now his servants have had enough tell how much how much more suffering are you willing to take how much more suffering uing are you willing to take and really this is a question that uh is very puzzling because technically most people run away from suffering they uh they don't want suffering as soon as suffering comes they do whatever they can to stop the suffering but in this particular case we seeing actually has to be convinced to stop the suffering but when we look at the next verse it seems like par is moved by what the servant said and he calls Moshe and Aon and he tells them go and serve AEM go and serve hasem your God but who's going and when Moshe tells them that everyone is going the youngsters the elders the sons the daughters the flock the cattle everyone is going immediately says no no I don't agree to these conditions get out of my face so now we see that par is suffering Egypt is suffering unimaginable pain one plague after another and after pleading with them to please just let them go so we could stop the suffering par says I'll only do it if they meet my conditions the same question can be asked of each of us that is suffering despite getting the guidance from what we call the Divine towing trucks that are in this world and how to get out of the mud tonight we're going to speak clearly plainly for people that appreciate the truth and if you do not I suggest that you simply log off because it's not going to help you people that are not receptive to the truth don't want to face reality cannot be helped by our lectures I recommend you go watch maybe some cartoons perhaps maybe you can go to our BH kids channel and maybe the music but a person that is suffering a person that is going through all types of Agony whether it be physical pain material pain emotional pain whatever it is has to ask himself how long are you willing to suffer of course the average person that's normal is going to say what do you mean how long I don't want a suffering I never asked for this suffering in the first place what kind of question is that the reality is is that anyone who is suffering uing and once it to stop will send him a towing truck to get him out of the mud to get her out of the mud just like sent the but par refused the par tells us that par was moved but then not enough why because he still had the ego that told him no no no I need to do things based on my terms based on my terms but the Egyptian servants are saying yeah but don't you see that this is a trap this whole thing is a trap they called mosenu a trap so comes R shim and says why does the Tora call this a mesh in the name of the Egyptians why the servants calling mosenu mesh because a mesh literally means a hidden uh a hidden trap like a mesh is also the word they use for a landmine landmines are only useful if they're hidden and the enemy doesn't know where they are the moment they know where they are the landm land mine is useless so rfel is asking why are they calling it a mesh if anything mosenu is the opposite of a mes he's obvious he's clear he's in Po's face telling him what's going to happen to him warning him telling him how to stop it threatening him over and over again before it happens nothing is hidden so why did they call him a mesh says that's because this was a very sophisticated trap when we look at the plagues that aosh brought on to Egypt we understand that the plagues had multiple purposes number one of course to free am is but if that was really the only purpose to free is it could have easily been done with one plague if you just simply let the blood plague just continue and not stop until they let them go eventually the Egyptians would run out of money so they can't buy the water from the Jews anymore which kazal teach teaches us this is one of the ways that enriched before they left Egypt because all of the water was blood and the only way they can get regular drinking water was by buying it with their precious gold and diamonds from the Jews if they tried taking it it would immediately turn into blood so if this continued not for a week or three weeks there's a it among the midashim how long was each plague was it one week and then 3 weeks of break before the next plague or was it three weeks and then one week of break and then the next plague but either way one plague could have done the job eventually they can't live anymore there's no water or better yet the frogs frogs tormenting them torturing them killing people going inside their bodies no way to avoid them after they kill them they come back to life any one of the plagues if it just simply the goal was if the goal would have been to Simply destroy the Egyptians then it could have been done with one plague so from there we see that freeing am Isel and killing the Egyptians was not really the primary goal by itself there was other things secondly we see that there was also a hidden goal which was to cause to get all of the plagues in order to bring shame upon him in order to mock him as a says in chapter 10 verse number two that I made a mockery of each Egypt so one of the strategies was actually to bring on all of the plagues on per of course was also measure for measure for each things that the Egyptians did to us they got back each things even the other slaves did the non-jewish slaves did to us they also got back that's why they also died in the uh in the plagues and suffered from them so they don't uh think that their Idols are helping them they were enjoying the fact that uh parau is killing the Jews even though they themselves were also slaves also was to show that Hashem runs the world and he's in charge of any everything and anything whether it's the uh uh the the animals the uh the winds the bugs everything but when we look into the fact that wanted to make sure that par would suffer all of the plagues we quickly reminded with our film about G film about films that only the fortunate and the brave spiritually have watched which have been many but not enough why because in there kazal teaches us that one of the punishments that aadh gives the wicked is the wherewithal and ability to suffer exponentially more than what they you could ever imagine in so many words he empowers them with the ability to suffer even more because the pain in the next world is much much worse than you can possibly imagine and in this particular case whether the plagues were for seven days and then a break of three weeks or 21 days and then a break for one week either way from here we see that aad each and every single plague arranged it with Divine Precision based on on the level of suffering that and the Egyptians can handle without being destroyed completely meaning pushing them to the absolute limits of human tolerance for pain and the second it got to that limit plague stopped therefore the servants are coming to Paro how long how long going to continue with this this is a mesh this is a trap so says what's the Trap why are they calling it a trap number one it was sophisticated but even more so it shows that there is an extraordinary teachings about human nature when someone is following the Satan you see people that mean well that do not agree with what Paro did do not agree with what Hitler did do not agree with any evil people in fact people that could sometimes be religious people good people they give staka sometimes they pray and certainly some people that don't but they sometimes act like P in this regards why because they get extraordinary suffering Financial suffering physical suffering horrible things they cry at night they cry during the day but they don't stop the suffering are you going to say wait a minute what are you talking talking about if they could stop the suffering they would do it right away well let's see years ago there was a extraordinary sadik MOS he was a became the of he and his family went to ashit and his wife and nine children were murdered by the Nazis he was the only Survivor of his entire family after surviving the Holocaust he made Al and became one of the most important in in am during the generation and this Rabbi Moshe Al friend had a couple come to him one time and this couple was a religious couple they keep mitv they believe in they have and they came to the rabbi crying hysterical the rabbi asked why the wife had some discomfort she went to the doctor and they discovered that she has stage four cancer incurable there's nothing the doctors can do in fact she only has Days to Live they don't know how many when the rav hears this he says you need a miracle yes that's why we came to the RAV please help us and the r that's speaking to them says if you take on removing the wig that you're wearing and put on a a cief a scarf a hat I promise you that you will see a Salvation now the woman says what do you mean how how could I wear a scarf I'm going to look uh I'm going to look old I'm going to look like a grandmother my wig is so beautiful it accentuates my face can't the r maybe give us something else we'll take on I'm more than happy to you know read a couple of uh laws every day or maybe I'll do a every week perhaps I'll even accept the Shabbat 20 minutes early every week maybe that's better Rabbi no no as I said take off the wig and replace it with a cchf replace it with a and the woman continues to argue not to do it I I I can't bring myself to do it it's such a beautiful wig it's I just got this one it's $10,000 wig you want me to get rid of it and not just for a short time forever please does not doesn't make sense when the husband saw that his wife is literally under the complete control of the Satan where she doesn't make any sense whatsoever he says to her and confronts her my dear wife we came here because we have we came here for guidance we came here for a blessing we came here with hope the r is telling us you need a miracle we already knew that before we came here and he's willing to vouch for for for this miracle he's saying if you just remove the wig you'll live okay okay let me think about it she says and nothing that her husband would say could change her and she went home and as soon as she got home she called some of our sister-in-laws and asked them uh what they think about this and of course the Satan already worked his magic on the sister-in-laws and they of course agreed with her how could you possibly take off your wig what are you talking about you look like a grandmother you want to go walk around like that who's going to look no we'll pray for you we'll pray for you we'll read some t for you in our community everything is going to be fine when the husband heard this he immediately called them and told how can you do this how can you possibly do this don't you realize that if she dies I'm going to be a widow our kids are all going to be orphans and it's all going to be your fault I'm the one that loses not you and he spoke to them with Stern attitude said okay maybe maybe she could try it okay they spoke to her and she was battling it tooth and nail until her husband said things clearly said what are you worried so much about this wig according to the doctors according to logic according to everything that makes sense there's not going to be anybody to wear a cief or a wig in the coming days if you don't change if we don't get a miracle when things were put into that perspective he said fine they went to the rabbi and told them okay I'm willing to take it on she removed our wig already she came there with the and told her I promise you that because of the of this mitvah that you just took upon yourself you will see an extraordinary salvation a week later she went to the doctor they did the checks and then another check and then another check because they could not believe what their eyes were seeing as the cancer that was already supposed to kill this woman has disappeared Into Thin Air with no traces of existence is asking us until when is this going to be a trap for usim spoke to a who has the story firsthand from the person well years ago was a secular Jew but secular to the highest extent kept absolutely nothing he says about himself there was no sin in the Torah that I didn't make eating sea shellfish eating onum on P every immorality everything his his sister on the other hand was more traditional kept the Mas and she saw that her brother is getting older already he's not married and she told him why don't we go to the babaali and get a blessing from him goes what what are you talking about it's right over here it's not that far it's less than a half hour away let's go let's go get a blessing in he goes what are you talking about I don't believe in that nonsense what are you talking about I'm not religious I don't believe it but she was a good sister what made her a good sister she was extremely annoying and very stubborn when it came to helping her brother do chuva and she kept pressuring him and pressuring him day after day day after day for a month eventually he said okay fine fine fine I'll go just leave me alone going there two minutes and I'm leaving just don't mention this thing me again fine fine they get in the car start driving and as they pull off at one of the lights he sees a poor man sitting in the corner collecting staka and just something got into his heart where he felt he wants to give some charity he gets out of the car goes to the guy and just gives him whatever he had in his pocket go you have it he goes back in the car thinks nothing of it and drives towards naot where the babaali is soon as they get there she goes into the women's AA area he goes into the men's area and has a whole long line of many many people waiting for the rabbi to give them guidance to give them blessings to give them hope he sits for a couple of minutes if that much the door opens and the Babas sali's gab his helper R alasi he comes out he says he starts looking as I'm looking for a says the name he goes to his chair he goes are you him gu says yeah how do you know my name the rabbi said that you're going to be sitting here and this is your name and this is what you're wearing so you're him yes okay come with me the rabbi wants to see you huh what do you mean the rabbi wants to come see you come now yeah but there's people in front of me been here for a long time don't worry about that the rabbi wants to see you now of course this guy already realiz realizes he's not going to see some psychiatrist he gets in as soon as he comes in he sees the Holiness of the basali and the basali looks at him and then takes out in his hand he goes this take this he has money in his hand the guy takes he goes this is the takaka that you gave to the poor man take it back the guy counts the money it's exactly the amount of money money that he gave to the poor man less than an hour ago nearly an hour away how do how do how do you know I gave takaka and the exact amount says I also know that your name is such and such and you came here to get a blessing to get a to get a yeah yeah that's you get you got that one yeah sure okay if you want a z you have to accept upon yourself two things Shabbat and putting on to filling if you accept those two things upon yourself you will get married and have a child within a year from now if not nothing oh Rabbi come on please uh listen I respect you and maybe go into something a little easier or something no nothing else Shabbat and you'll find a wife and have a child within this within a year the guy doesn't know what to do with himself but his kipa his sins his commitment to the sins do not let him proceed and he says okay let me think about it he leaves and immediately his sister his good annoying sister ask him what happened she I don't know I mean I went in there within a minute they called me they already knew who I was did you tell them no I didn't tell them they don't know who I am either okay well I don't know they know who I was and then they got me inside and then the basali gave me the money that I gave Saka I guess I don't know I guess I'm too Wicked to even give staka they don't want my money in shim or something I don't I don't really understand why he gave it back to me and then he told me that uh if I want to get married and a kid and everything I have to keep Shabbat and okay great so I'm not going to do that what are you crazy I have my business I have my shows I have uh all types of things no way I can't listen I'll put on theill and somebody comes we put on the filling for me fine you know but uh Shabbat no way no come on you have to do it and the whole way they're driving and arguing he gets thirsty he says I want to get something to drink but he looks and there's no stores everything is like either just doesn't exist closed he's so thirsty has to stop so he just decides to stop at one of the houses he knocks on their door an older man opens up yes can I have a cup of water sure they give him a cup of water he drinks of course without a blessing and leaves and then they go back into the car and they're back into arguing again you got to do it you got to do it that's it I'm not leaving you until you do it okay okay listen no no I'm serious and his sister was very serious she decided to go to his house and park there and she did not leave his house all day talking about it come on the rabbi told you what do you want to die alone no wife no kids no nothing what's the big deal you keep Shabbat you keep uh put Onin all day all night the next day the next night every single free moment she was in his ear for a month straight she did not leave his house doing everything she possibly can to the point where this guy literally even when he was going out of the house to go take care of some eron's work he was hearing her voice in his mind after a month he says fine I'll do it I'll give it a chance let's give it a chance fine just leave me alone don't that's it the guy starts keeping Shabbat he starts putting on thein a month later he meets a woman unlike any other woman that he's ever met before things Mo move quickly especially in those days when there was still some level of human decency left and morality she tells them I want you to meet my parents okay fine come I'll take you to their house she takes him to the house and he sees this is the house that we stopped over and I got a drink of water from them he realizes that A's hand is very much involved in every single thing they get married within just a couple of months of meeting each other and nine months later they have a baby boy now this sadik who started off deep in the filth the mud of the mud today is an a sadik a father of many kids and a grandfather big family and he says look how foolish I was look how stupid I was I had literally to have my sister brainwash me day in day out to remove all the tum that I had in my mind just to keep Shabbat and put on the filling if it wasn't for my sister and the Baba Sal's blessing I'd still be alone miserable most likely not even alive how much longer is a person willing to suffer you see sometimes a person is stuck in spiritual mud just like a car is stuck in mud and needs a bigger car to get it out because the bigger car has bigger tires the truck there's more ability more strength the mud doesn't bother it the babaali connected this guy to two big MIT shabat that can help pull him out of the mud along with the Baba's blessing had he not listened he would have have gone what the rest of the verse says that Egypt is lost he would be lost you see because the as thear says he is the he's a Satan he's the these are three different jobs that he has first the yet entices you to sin to go against hem to go things that hasm says it's not allowed go to a mixed men and women gym to get some exercise because you believe that you won't look just like the women that were Exposed on the news in yav in Israel all over the news when videos of their immorality with the trainers of the gym their adultery with the trainers of the gym were publicized all over the internet all over Telegram and the it's all over the news married women single women all types of women that were going to a gym what I need to exercise yeah but don't you know you're not allowed to exercise in a place where there's men if you're a woman and you're not allowed to exercise where there's women if you're a men oh come on you're living in the old ancient era I'm just just going to exercise I'm not going to look anywhere that's what they said and all everybody can concern themselves about in the news is oh who publicized these pictures and these film who public who who broke into the camera system what about who broke these people's mind and got them to commit adultery cheat on their husband while he's watching five six seven kids at home cheat on their W who who who who possibly do such a thing when one of the journalist said perhaps women should go to women's only gym and men should go to men's only gym so we could avoid the problem they ripped him up as if he just said they should go to a concentration camp what are you talking about you're speaking in ancient times this is not the way things are men and women need to be together it's just that there was a problem in this place that they didn't know that someone's going to expose the video wait so you're saying that it's okay they committed adultery it's it's okay that they committed immorality it's just a problem that it got publicized and they got caught that's the problem that's all the news cares about they got caught to be a criminal is okay as long as you don't get caught according to modern day Society but you see who says being a criminal is not okay and therefore he brings extraordinary suffering on people all types of suffering them being exposed the divorces that are going to happen all of the shame the public shame that will not leave that's just a small part of the suffering these people going to get until they do cha many times yet entices us to sin and people don't even realize it after he entices a person to sin he goes and he acts the Satan which is prosecutes against him look she committed adultery look he stolen his business look he did this look she did that why because he wants to finish the job and be the M the angel of death ultimate goal remove the person from Life by following his plan and therefore when a person that has fallen for the trapped of the Satan over a period of time has become addicted to wasting seed and pornography and all the filth that's out there a woman that has become addicted to immorality or just simply doesn't even think it's immoral to dress immodest what I'm comfortable with no arms and no legs types of clothes what's the problem she doesn't think there's even a problem that somebody else's husband is staring at her she doesn't think it's a problem she only think it's a problem if her husband stares at somebody else and some are even sicker than that they tell their husband to go look somewhere else she doesn't realize that it's a sickness when people get themselves so deep into the spiritual filth the mud and eventually there's something that tells me you know what maybe you should get out of this maybe you should stop this disgusting Behavior it's not helping you out the spiritual filth and betrayal of God is certainly not helping you it's destroying your life your kids won't talk to you your wife has left you your husband has left you divorces one after another to be married three or four times has become standard for people you're constantly worried that someone's going to you because you're corrupt in your business you already take into account that you're going to have a certain amount of lawsuits because you're corrupt because you steal because you do things against the law maybe it's time to stop maybe it's time to be a straight shooter be honest be ethical be moral be what AOS said you're supposed to be maybe it's time a person says okay maybe it's time but the Satan doesn't agree it's time and therefore he makes it very very difficult for the person to get out to get out of the mud to get out of the spiritual mud that he is in out of the spiritual mud that she's in she can't find M's clothes her friends tell her that she not she shouldn't cover her hair because she looks like this and she looks like that all types of lies and stupidity his friends tell him don't get married how do you know you want to marry only one woman maybe you want another one maybe this maybe that all types of messengers of the Satan come to this person just to not get him to change not don't get out of the mud and that's why gave us gave us prophets gave us because in each and every single generation people are going to need to go to one of these to go to one of these and get help but the only way that it's going to work is if they go to a real sadik that actually tells you to do chuva and accept his guidance without any conditions not to be like Paro yeah you can go but don't take the kids you can go but don't take the animals no conditions this is what he says this is what you do because once you accept what the sadik what the tells you that's in accordance with the Torah without conditions then that sadik is connecting you to himself which now becomes your own personal spiritual to truck to get out of the mud that you're in as it says in one pulls another that's tow truck one where you have and you actually take on the pulls anothera he's pulling you out of the mud that you're in to get you to stop suffering and that's also why said to the Prophet Jeremiah to let us know especially now in this generation where there's not going to be any more chances after this no more reincarnations no more hundreds and hundreds of years this is it you do chuva before the train stops you you'll see the Salvation you don't you'll see the opposite says to the Prophet Jeremiah that there is a special condition for people that get people out of the mud Jeremiah in chapter 15 verse 19 says in the name of hasem if you bring out an honorable person from a glutton then you will be like my mouth hasm says where is he bringing him out from if you bring people out of the mud if you bring him out of the mud out of the spiritual filth that he's in out of the spiritual filth that she's in her commitment to immorality her commitment to promiscuity his commitment and addiction to all types of spiritual filth immorality cheating lying if you get those people out of the mud says you and me are Partners you get them out of the mud you and me have Partners you say a blessing I'll fulfill it and that's why those who do kiru those that support kiru get extraordinary blessings Beyond Comprehension because there are the few that are willing to go into the mud in order to save people now the Torah doesn't promise an easy life for people that support kiru for people that do kiru there's no oh if you do if you help people do Chua you'll have an easy life there's no such thing rather the Torah promises endless blessings and spiritual protection because you're going to need that spiritual protection since going into the mud means you are going to be fighting with the Satan himself face to face after he did all the work getting this person into the mud and he's only a couple of stone throws away from getting rid of this person from the world and you come and save him you come and save her Satan's gonna fight you Satan's going to torment you but a protect you but it ain't going to be easy but you see there are some people that are so far into the filth they don't even realize it's filth K said for a woman to go into the army is it's better that she die and not go into the army in Israel or any other Army unfortunately many people that even consider themselves religious modern Orthodox especially here in America disregard what the Kazi said and send their precious daughters and sons to go from America to go fight in the Israeli Army no come on we have to defend the country the fact that you're sending your son is a level is a different level of mistake but to send your daughter to go into the army why no we're really passionate about it you know we're zionists but religious but but the K says it's a cardinal sin it's better that she die and not go to the Army no come on that was a different generation okay different generation what was the kazun worried about immorality promiscuity all the filth I already told you what the Army has been hiding for years the abortions that happened in the Army further reports came out in the last year that the women that are soldiers get different jobs some of them get to be the guards at the prisons making sure that the Arab terrorists don't come out at least that's what the job title is supposed to say instead of that the army forces the women to go with the Arab Prisoners the terrorists and if that's not enough perhaps that was before October 7 people think just now in the last 24 hours news reports broke in is that women soldiers that were tormented and assaulted and more by October 7 Prisoners the terrorists that murdered our brothers and sisters in Israel the women the Jewish women that are supposed to be guarding them to make sure they don't kill anybody else to make sure they don't escape to make sure they were harassed by these people and in fact when they complained the supervisors the so-called Jewish supervisors in the Army forced them to keep going forced them to stay forced it upon them and in so many words when the says that's what was meant literally it's better to die but not make those sins but you see sometimes people have spiritual filth inside their ears inside their mind even if there's a keeper hiding it and if you want to get out of that mud you're going to need a tow truck and that tow truck doesn't make any exceptions you listen you win you don't you lose even bigger may it be as well that each and every single person will find the right guidance to do chuva to get out of the spiritual filth and the mud that they're in to stop the pain and stop denying it because all within our abilities and that's what said each time a person has pain they should reflect at what sins are connected to that pain because that's what you have to do chuba for your arm hurts don't just think about oh but maybe I uh no perhaps you stole perhaps you gave someone that you're not supposed to give perhaps you touch something you're not supposed to touch there's a million and a half different things you need to analyze and the reason why does this says is because he's a merciful god he's not going to give you a pain in your foot if the sin you made were in your mind were in your hands so he gives you pain to give you hope to give you directions he sends the messengers he sends those spiritual Divine tow trucks to get you out of the mud not so you could discuss it and see if you agree but rather you could say thank you I'll do every single thing cuz I want to get out of the mud people will start realizing that suffering whatever it is it's in your hands to stop don't be like Po with that being said you guys can ask some questions will will give us the answers just received rabis tuna kiru box and tomorrow will be my first day of ever doing K I know that no matter what hem will help me bring as many Souls back to him as possible the uh kiru box have books and one of the best things that I always tell people to give these out these tuna bleed cards uh there's a new version of them that we have and there's another version that's uh on the ship right now will be here in America over the next month packaged differently and so on but these cards are helping a lot of people whether it's getting them to watch tunait film and then other lectures or it's getting them to sign up to AI Rabbi and get all of their answers all of their questions answered properly with sources with do these things help people every single person that has a brain in their head and a working body should literally order cards to give out to every synagogue Yeshiva kosher market judica store hand in hand give it to people in their hand it's free I mean we're spending a fortune on it the UPS bill in the last month has literally increased I think maybe by 5 or 600% the cost the books all the stuff we're shipping out a lot of stuff but honestly I'm still surprised we have stuff left because if people had a working brain the store would be empty in a day there would be more than enough more more than more than what we could even handle there's already a lot but I think that there's so many people that watch the lectures that hear the same thing that still for whatever reason or another are stuck in the mud on that aspect same thing goes with donations some people they take advantage of the organization they get free stuff they watch lectures they make changes in their life but when it comes to donations either they don't give or they give you know like as if as if uh we're we're a homeless person oh his $2 his $5 I mean you make $100,000 a year why you giveing $5 you're stuck in the mud you have to understand when when you have when you have stingy when you have arrogance when you have negative character traits that means that you're stuck in the mud you're stuck in the mud you have to get out you have to get out excellent class regards for Miami Florida we all need a towing truck what books were you referring to or would like to buy it and continue reading those lessons I'm not sure which what do you mean what books I was referring to uh hello Rabbi I why don't the Noah laws explicitly state that wasting seed and intimacy before marriage are forbidden uh well wasting seed is forbidden uh for for no heids because the first ones that were punished for wasting seed were the generation of no that was before Judaism and they all got punished the Z says that they destroyed the world because of wasting seed and if that wasn't enough the two sons of of Yuda uh also again were considered noahides and they it clearly says literally says in the Torah that punished both of them because they were wasting seed so it does say it in the Torah uh that it's forbidden now as far as uh intimacy before marriage there is no concept of marriage for noahides that is equivalent to the same thing as Judaism meaning that and Judaism in order for a Jew to marry a you know a Jewish man to marry a Jewish woman they have to go uh through which is a religious process he also has to uh sign a which in essence he is purchasing her uh and from that point on he is committed to her she's committed to him forever in the non-jewish world that's not necessary a Jewish man a a a non-jewish man and a non-jewish woman are married when they're together once they're together they live together they're considered married even if they didn't get married civil by the government or with some type of license or the process is irrelevant according to the Tor non-jews are married when they live together when they're together if they separate then they're not married anymore so as far as uh as far as that's concerned a person that wants to uh follow it Torah will be loyal to one woman loyal to one man uh and uh that's it and live together and that's it they don't have to uh uh do too much in order to uh to change that they don't have to uh have a big wedding or big party or anything like that the same thing with Judaism you don't need the big party a lot of people hold off their weddings because they they're waiting to save enough money to get a big party which is one of the literally the biggest traps of the Satan in the generation people save a fortune to have a big wedding just for the sake of showing off they don't have a house sometimes don't even have what you know any idea what to do the day after the wedding but they save every single penny to have a fancy wedding uh foolishness Beyond foolishness and many times the the uh the zuk breaks in the process because there's so much delay trying to save money trying to prepare this Ultimate Party to feed a bunch of strangers and eventually they they end up with no party or no nothing so person wants to follow hasem could follow hm it's not too hard it's not too hard as a child that was adopted into a Jewish family as a baby then when they grow up choose to leave observance are they still considered Jewish and are their children Jewish If the child was adopted as a baby then they were converted uh which means that they are Jewish now if uh they stop being observant later on uh then that doesn't change their jewishness uh they're still considered Jewish uh they're just considered a wicked Jew uh now if they uh marry uh into marry uh then it depends if it's uh a male uh that was adopted and then uh you know obviously converted and then later on he got all uh and he got married to a non-jewish woman then his children are not Jewish not because of anything to do with the adoption but rather because of the fact that he intermarried and the kids came from a non-jewish woman but if it's a woman uh was adopted and then later on got married to a non-jewish man still her children are considered Jewish according to Al they're going to be problematic kids and she's going to have a problematic uh life in this world and the next but nonetheless certainly they're Jewish now there's actually plenty of students that we have that are actually products of exactly what I just said where they uh decided to uh get married into marry and then they realized they made a mistake and they ended up getting divorced and after the divorce or sometimes through before the divorce they started doing chuva and now you know doing chuva certainly is it's working for many of them and they're certainly seeing the benefits from it but it's it's not easy it's not easy why because it's a uh now it's doing Chua not by yourself it's doing Chua with kids that grew up with a non-jewish father and and so on and so forth it's it's a very very difficult uh process but it's still possible as long as you're alive it's not too late as long as you're alive it's not too late once the person's not alive youm that's it there's no more chba what to do if you're having health challenges but doctors can't tell you what's wrong and say everything looks fine but you feel differently is it Hashem trying to get me to grow trust in him only it's certainly Hashem giving you what you're feeling but it's not just trusting in Hashem only it's also making changes making changes doing Chua fixing fixing what uh what you're not doing correctly you have to analyze what you're doing compare it to what you're obligated to do according to the Torah and fix fix everything that you're doing wrong the sooner you fix the more blessings you'll have would the drive to do good and become better come from the yet no yet doesn't want you to become better I was reading it and had a question I've been thinking all week okay how could the first born in the dungeon apply the blood if they were captive the firstborn that are in the dungeon apply the uh no no there was when when there was already the uh the blood uh uh that needed to be applied uh there was no prisoners anymore the Jews were no longer uh prisoners in fact that reminds me of one of the things the say uh in regards to the whole uh uh where told to tell to slaughter the uh uh Slaughter the animals and then take the blood and put it on on the uh on the posts and then he won't kill them now it's important for people to know that it's not the blood that saved the people not that hasem needed to see you know to the blood in order to save the people but rather the blood testified that they were proud to be Servants of hem to such a point that they slaughtered the animals right in front of the Egyptians which put their life at risk because the animals were considered the Egyptian gods one of the many Idols that the Egyptians had but they had enough inem to slaughter the animal right in front of the Egyptians and then put the blood on the doorpost right in front of the Egyptians meaning they're no longer afraid of anything other than Hashem that is what saved the Jewish people that's what saved those people and those that did not want to do it died more than 80% of the B is that were uh were in Egypt died during the uh Darkness plague why because they did not want to accept God as the only God and the Torah and everything else and therefore they died in Egypt they didn't come out of Egypt should a less learned person trim the beard just a tiny bit to appear to not appear overly righteous a long beard or a short beard doesn't make anybody righteous there's uh some people that are Idol worshippers that have extremely long beards and there's some people with no beard whatsoever that are extremely righteous so a beard is not a symbolic of of righteousness to people actually know what righteousness is uh but if a person that uh is let's say new Bal Chua uh and feels like uh their image makes them look more religious than what they are uh if it bothers them then by all means they could uh trim the beard but quite frankly it shouldn't bother anybody it's just a beard it hair it grows by itself you don't even have to water it how could I explain to f Akers that indeed the rabbis were guided byes but not contradict myself since they disagreed with one another there's simply nothing that you need to do with fakers not explain to them not talk to them nothing go learn to lie instead do what hasem said don't waste your time with fakers can one reduce fighting several different yetas in order to focus all efforts on fighting one of immorality uh sure once he fights them and Beats them he won't have them anymore can you explain what guided the rabbis in the gar if there is one truth how come some rabbis didn't point of view and disagreed uh well I mean you have to understand thear is not a uh is not a history book uh where it tells you this is black this is white the end and then somebody comes no no no no no it's something else no the is telling you how we derive all of the information whether it be laws or historical uh uh bits of information uh or or different lessons of of morality and so on from the Torah so in essence the ultimate goal of the gar in the entire oral tah is to perfect servitude of hem and therefore for the are going to tell you this is the verse and this is the law and sometimes it's that's clear as day sometimes it's clear as day other times they're going to tell you there is no verse and this is the law why because we know it from mhe from Ali and no one's allowed to argue with that once something says it's Moshe from alai that's it there's no arguments there's no debates other times they're going to say this is the verse and this is what I'm getting out of it but another is going to say no you cannot say that from that verse because that verse is already used for a different law and you can't use the same verse for multiple laws so I have a different verse to prove that law or the opposite of that law and in so many words each and every one of them is going to show you how to spe specifically point to this is not only this this is the law this is why this is the law this is how we got to the law or the lesson or whatever it is and this is the information and there are going to be times where they're going to say well this is a uh uh Teo meaning that both of us have legitimate arguments that cannot be refuted by each other and therefore we don't know which one is the absolute and we're going to have to wait for uh elahi to come and tell us what is actually the conclusion but this and this are the words of the Living God so the gar is not just two different people arguing who's right and who's wrong thear is in essence the sages toiling into the intricate intricate details of the Torah in order to perfect our servitude of hem and to make sure we all know what we have where we got it and why it's this way and in the process they ask every possible question so no one ever thinks that the argument wasn't considered and I promise you that once a person starts learning they start realizing very quickly that the thought process of the sages is not like any human on planet Earth that doesn't learn toah in any of the generations simply the thought process of how they think and how sophisticated their thought is is beyond comprehension of anybody that doesn't learn Torah in fact one of the things that I learned about a decade ago from my R is that something that I understood but superficially where it says the more you learn tah the more you realize how much you don't know and at the time I understood it because when I looked at great like or the all of the great the r and so on the things you know great sages that I was learning their their their Torah and hearing stories about them it would upset me to see people rejecting the words of the rambam or r or any of theim when you know you're ignorant little nothing and you're rejecting the rambam like look how much he wrote look how much you know uh knowledge he he consumed and he published and look how righteous he was look at his character traits but again at that time I didn't go through everything yet I scratched the surface 10 years later when you scratch a much bigger part of the surface but still nothing in comparison to what's there you actually start realizing how much you don't know why because you start getting into details that 10 years ago you didn't even know existed you didn't even know existed what's a and how do you make it and all all the different laws of the all the different laws transferring things from one window to another what if the body what if the bottom is water all of you know why this is the case why it's not the cas a million and a half different things that a person can learn and start realizing very quickly number one that they don't know anything no matter how long they've studied number two the great the that literally not only knew this but knew this cold and much much more than this because they literally took every one of these bits of information and they published entire books and volumes of books about it explaining it and all of the different intricacies that come from it now you start realizing I'm just learning the little titbit I'm just learning that one sentence he wrote a book 500 pages a th000 Pages 2,000 pages about this thing like look how much I don't know I'm just learning the little titbit the wrote 1500 pages over it and he is just the one the of this generation needless to say look at R look at you know the rambam look at thear ages so you start realizing like the more you learn the L you know not because you have less knowledge after learning more but rather because the more you consume more Torah knowledge the more you realize how much bigger the Torah is than what you thought and the more frustrating it is to see people reject D when they don't have D like when you see say something and some Average Joe or some some average girl says no no I don't agree with Rabbi ovada or rski or or the stier or whatever other G that's there or even a in the local no I don't agree with them I I I have different opinions you have no idea how frustrating that is when you realize that the comparison between a a a a grain of sand is closer to that g than the people's opinion sometimes but the people don't understand that and I know that half of you if not more did not even understand what I'm saying right now and it's not it's not your fault you don't know it yet but the reality is the knowledge of and I'm not just talking about the I'm talking about we have at oured at our one of our one of our and one of our no relation to he's just a different sadik he finishes the every single year multiple times and he just did anothere a couple of days ago and if you look at him you see someone that's I don't know 150 years old he's still in his 30s maybe yeah late 30s 37 38 but he looks like he's 150 literally but he's just something special now the amount of knowledge that he consumes in one day is more knowledge than most people are going to learn in their entire life 70 80 years now I know that most people think that I'm exaggerating oh no come on it's not that much that's the problem the average person has no concept of what a real is their best idea or what they compare in their mind is like their kids going to Yesa and they were able to give them a couple of Stories on the Shabbat table of what they heard in school that's what people think as a or perhaps the rabbi of the that that gave them a couple of stories and a on Shabbat they think okay that's the that's that's what a is people have no concept of what a real is how much they know how much they consume how much they do it's it's it's it's mindboggling so when a person that does not have Torah knowledge anywhere remotely close to a disagrees with there's literally nothing more frustrating than that and the more I learn the more I get frustrated by it because I realized 10 years ago when it was frustrating it was because I compared that average person to that is for as far as what it looked visually he was righteous he was a uh scholar he wrote many books that's what I compared it to I compared The Superficial things but after you delve into tah for you know day after day day after day for all the years you start realizing more and more and more you realize that the distance between them wasn't just The Superficial stuff that you were looking at 10 years ago 15 years ago no the distance is much much greater it's much greater than than you can possibly imagine why because once you start learning things that are beyond the scope of this lecture you start realizing that the Torah is simply too big to imagine and those that dedicate their life to it are literally like the K said are angels among men they look like men but they're 100% angels and and there's simply no way to compare that to a regular person even if that regular person is religious and perhaps he even knows a couple of by heart and he finished theas once or twice still there's nothing to compare and needless to say most people don't qualify to what I just said even comparison of a to that is a world apart a World so that's why all of those that followed the Torah Scholars won those that didn't unfortunately lost and usually the difference between the two ego that's the one thing that changes How can I convert to Judaism in Brazil I'm sorry but uh there's no way that I know that you can convert over there you'd have to move to a country that has a Orthodox bedine which in your case would either be the us or Israel there's no bedine that converts people uh to Orthodox Judaism in Brazil That's authorized by the raban how to find a true sadik in this time do you have any recommended sadik of our time uh raim R uh there plenty of people that uh are there the problem with uh with finding a sadik is that if you're going to leave the definition of who fits to be a sadik based on your per ception then you're never going to find one because you're going to uh you have to know what a sadik is in order to uh in order to find one thank you for the donations appreciate it can one reduce MIT for some time if the burden of doing Chua for wasting seed takes up much of a spiritual strength all mitv you're obligated to do you're always obligated to do them anytime that they're in front of you you have to do them but if it's a mitvah that you're not obligated to do uh then sure you don't have to do it there's certain mitv you're obligated to do you have to pray every day you have to put Onin every day if you're a guy you have to keep Shabbat every Shabbat so whether you think that that's helping or hurting your other mitv is irelevant you have to do those things but there are certain things that you don't have to do for example if let's say somebody goes and every day he goes and he visits I don't know the uh the hospital to uh to make people laugh uh but that takes up time from his Torah learning or from from other uh uh more important mitv then certainly he can stop that uh what he's doing he can stop going to the hospital and learn more t uh especially since there's other people that are doing it other people that are uh you know visiting people that are sick so certainly there are certain me what that you can stop but that's you know a person has to know uh what's the difference between obligation and something that's an elective is higher than did I make a mistake leaving uh is an it's not higher than it's it is an you have to have I left left too uh if what they say about them is true that uh they're hurting their own people then certainly it's a good thing that you left if it's false then uh it depends whether it was helping you or not uh uh but again I don't know the details I never investigated it um only you know uh what you experience uh but the key is to know that whether you're part of one or another the Torah is between you and God and God is not at fault for people doing wrong things when there are bad leaders when there are bad people there's no reason for you to blame God so there's no reason for somebody to leave Judaism because they had a bad experience with one Rabbi or two rabbis or 50 rabbis God still created you God still gave you rules God still gave you tests God still give you obstacles God still gives reward and Punishment and therefore you have to follow what to says and you have to do everything to says and you'll see that Hashem will open you better doors than you've had in the past I've had plenty plenty of bad experiences with rabbis I could literally uh give a sh for 10 hours uh just of the experiences that I've had with bad rabbis even before I became religious uh needless to say after uh but that never uh that's never a reason it's never an a legitimate excuse to to betray God to betray other righteous people uh to stop looking for better because when when push comes to shove if a person Compares uh the excuses that people use to abandon religion to abandon Torah um if he Compares that to let's say the the regular the business World he'll see that really he's full of it why because let's say for example somebody says listen I had a bad experience with with the rabbi with the K with the and that's why I'm not religious anymore okay well if you were in a company and let's say you worked for a company a you were an investment banker you were developer whatever you were doing and you worked there for a long time time you dedicated your life to it and you were there 10 Years Day and Night helping doing whatever and of course you're getting a paycheck but uh again you know you are building something that you expect to be forever and one day this company decides you know what we don't need you anymore and they fire you and they give your a job to somebody else now of course you're GNA feel betrayed you're GNA feel sad you're GNA feel whatever you're gonna feel but the truth is you're still going to look for another job you're not going to say listen okay they fired me that's it I Quit forever I'm going to be homeless no one's goingon to have me no one's going to do that no one's going to do that why you going to go look for another job another career another thing and you say you know what this time I'll do even better I'll find even better people I'll work for even a better company so if you're going to do that in the business World why can't you do that in the Jewish World which means that in reality when people have bad experiences I'm not justifying the bad people in any way shape or form trust me I've had plenty of bad experiences enough to write a few books but still don't blame God for the bad people people have free choice Hashem gives tests people can fail people can pass and everybody gets what they deserve now in reality some people will take that the wrong way oh so you mean that I deserve to get mistreated yes not because you you did something it could be because of previous Carnation you did the same thing to somebody else and a million and a half other calculations that are in the hands of a the Divine hand that does everything there's no such thing as suffering without sin there's no such thing as somebody getting something they don't deserve it doesn't exist Hashem runs the world with Precision but just because somebody deserves something that's negative doesn't justify the one that causes it on him that that that that hurts him they still going to get punished but still if a person starts looking at things from the right perspective that means that regardless of what bad experiences a person had there's still never a reason to abandon God why because had you got fired from the company you would go to another company so you got tricked uh mistreated and worse by one Rabbi or one fine go find another one because your connection to the source still has to remain Active Don't Say No no because of that I'm going to go somewhere else what does that want why is abandoning God a justification for bad people doesn't make any sense so that's the thing when people actually look at things from the right perspective they will always get the Torah and they'll always go in the path of the Torah and they'll realize that yes there's going to be some uh bumps in the road but there's still never going to be a reason for a person to justify going against God to go against people that have done bad to you absolutely there sometimes even a commandment to do so but to go against God and betray him by violating Shabbat by committing immorality and things like that there's never a reason for that it's not only a uh ungrateful but it's also uh bad for you how can a person best deal with the Mida as problematic as perfectionism especially if it makes the person overthink things too much uh the best ways for the person to learn about humility watch my series about uh it's called a big part of it talks about uh arrogance and humility and uh the more they learn about that topic the more they'll realize that perfectionism comes from arrogance I'm a convert not leaving AEM just lost and what to do now uh there's nothing do simply find another Rabbi another Kayla that uh has a uh decent people in it not everyone has to be perfect not everyone has to be your best friend but has a good Rabbi has a couple of people that are decent people that you could learn to to with that you could uh you know connect to and that's it and built from there there's no Hashem didn't leave you Hashem didn't leave you Hashem is still with you very very much more with you today than he was in the past but you have to hold the hand back and you have to say Hashem I'm not leaving you and I'm going to find more people that also not willing to leave you and I'll look as much as I have to until I find it so you try one Kila it works good doesn't work go to another Kila works good doesn't work go to another Kila and keep going and keep going and keep going even if it takes you years to find the uh the perfect fit keep going don't give up don't give up keep going keep learning keep connecting to hasm deeper and the more you uh the more you learn toah and you do what hasem says and you go on the path of the king the more you will find like-minded friends along the path but don't look for uh like-minded friends in in in the back of an alley don't look for them in the wrong place you have to look for them in the right place you want you want to look for people that are righteous you have to look for people to learn toah that's where you're going to find people that are righteous you're not going to find people that are righteous in the mall you're not going to find people that are righteous you know in a uh day to day just walking aimlessly in the street drinking a beer it's not going to happen you're G to find people learning to you'll find righteousness I've heard bad comments about leftto does that mean again I don't know what happened there I know there's a lot of uh investigations that have gone there's a lot of horrible things that have been reported uh could very well be that everything that's horrible that was reported is true it could be that some of it is true uh it could be that uh small part of it is true either way the says if people are saying bad things about you there's certainly a reason for it it doesn't mean that everything is true but there's certainly some level of of of truth to it because uh uh outright lies don't stand they don't they don't they don't exist there usually has to be some element of truth to it so again they put themselves in that situation may uh may may they do can I say m after tonight fores no okay are you Israeli yes you us Arabs are paternally descendants of unlike Jews who are maternally of aam if if Hashem only gave you guys brains okay so the question is if there's big MIT and small or all the MIT the same uh so a couple things number one R writes in the Mish that we don't calculate the value of every mitvah as far as which one is bigger than the next uh because we don't actually truly understand the significance of even the smallest mitzvah and how much reward a person gets for it or how much punishment a person gets for violating it uh the only thing that we can judge off of is based on the consequences that are reported in the toah so the consequences for let's say eating a uh non kosher are you know just it's not a death penalty it's malot gets whipped at the time of the sun of course uh whereas the consequences for murder intentional murder is death penalty consequences of driving on Shabbat is also death penalty that's even worse than murder so we see from there that number one violating Shabbat and and and murdering is much more significant in the eyes of Hashem than than eating non kosher but also that violating Shabbat is more significant than murder so again that may not make sense to the uh uh the rationale of a person that doesn't learn tah but that's again you have we always have to be reminded that this is the rale of the Divine this is's rale and you know to understand them you have to be him we have to Simply accept it this is what it is so now of course there's explanations uh what we call tamim uh of why this is the case but the truth be told the the bottom line is it's because he said so that's the real case for all of the laws you have to do it because he said so and the consequence are what they are because he said so that's that's really the bottom line but there's a explanations theat says that when a person violates Shabbat intentionally such as by driving on Shabbat or working on Shabbat and so on or cooking on Shabbat in essence they are like a person that's running in the streets saying I don't believe that God created the world in six days and rested on the seventh in so many words they run in the middle of the street screaming they're an atheist so that's certainly a much more heinous crime against the Creator and the King of Kings than someone that had a problem with another someone and killed him because when he killed him it wasn't because he hates God he killed him because he hates him so even though it's a violation help get punished and so on the point is is that when someone betrays God by saying he doesn't exist while he is actually getting air from him while he lives because of him while he gets money from him while he has a wife because of him while while he's getting everything from him he still betrays God saying he doesn't exist there's literally nothing more ungrateful and betrayal than uh than betraying than than such a person hence the reason why the tat says that a person that's a is worse than a murderer so from there we know there is significant and more more significant uh but there are certain laws that are obligated on all Jews Like observing Shabbat there are certain laws that are obligated only at the time of the BET mikdash like the kot there are laws that are only obligated on theim there are laws that are only obligated on women or on men uh there are laws that are only obligated when the situation presents itself uh like a for example example uh uh the uh one of the things that's mentioned this week's par which is pin p now if you have a firstborn that's that's a that's a boy then you do pen but if your firstborn is a girl then you don't do pen so it's not that you uh you're a bad guy because you didn't do that mitvah you don't have the possibility of doing it you don't have the possibility of doing it so there are certain laws that are applicable at specific times specific situations uh specific people and so on so again there is a different levels but as far as significance uh there are certain laws that are usually the ones that are uh relevant to everyone that uh from there we see uh more of a explanation or at least more of a comparison of what's more significant than the other how can marriage work in this age given the antito family laws enforced by governments the government doesn't have uh to go into your life if a person is smart they don't allow the government into their life uh behind closed doors meaning that once you go into your house you don't talk about what's happening um with the government and with politics and in the house you talk about toah you talk about good things you talk about you know the things that are important to a family now as far as complying with government laws uh whether it's traffic laws tax laws business laws and so on sure everybody has to do that not just uh today in every age in every country and if you don't like the laws that you're living under currently go to a different country simple is it possible for a person that it says that he came to this world with a man's body and a woman's soul is it possible um there is two parts to a soul Every Soul that's in the world today is not a complete Soul so we have to understand that we're all Sparks we're all Sparks now again the says that uh um the uh a man has that's a if he's righteous he's going to have that's a righteous woman if he's wicked he'll have a immodest woman and Essence they are both part of the Same Soul he's one side she's the other side he could be the Fe the the masculine side she could be the ma the the uh feminine side but sometimes the uh the a male has a feminine Soul it doesn't mean that he is now he should uh he should marry a guy it just means that he has a feminine soul and his partner the one that's going to make him happy is going to be a more masculine Soul a more masculine woman uh woman so as far as uh people that are trying to somehow uh rationalize or or or or Justify uh LGBT and and rainbow people there's no permission whatsoever if you are born uh biologically a woman you have to act and dress like a woman if if you are born uh as a uh biologically as a man you have to act and follow the laws of men uh there's no permission in the to for a man to dress like a woman or for a woman to dress like a man it's forbidden even if you have a feminine Soul or or a masculine soul is irrelevant you still have to act uh accordingly actually have a uh relative of a uh cousin distant cousin that uh we always knew he was a very very feminine guy even as kids uh and uh I didn't see him for I don't know maybe 25 years and when I finally saw him when I came to visit one of the times I came to visit in Israel uh he was still the very same feminine guy that I remembered from my childhood uh but I was surprised that he was married to a woman with four kids four or five kids and he was a good father and husband and uh but he's a extremely feminine guy religious guy uh so again this whole thing about people somehow trying to uh rationalize and justify their immorality stop wasting your time according to how can we answer a person that speaks bad about raban um why do you have to answer him just simply ignore the person and move on with your life you don't have to answer every dog that barks there's no reason to to I met a Jew who said she's Jewish but believes in Christianity nothing I said convinces her otherwise what should I do um stay away from her as far as possible and if you want you can send her messages on text message of different lectures that we have about the topic but don't speak to her face to face okay let's see the Jews believe in exorcism uh yes but not like the uh Christians uh there is a there's two ways of uh of doing things when it's when it comes to dealing with the uh Supernatural there's uh with Kusa and there's with Tuma with uh Kusa it's meaning it's using the powers of the Torah knowledge of the tah in order to uh uh in essence enter the the supernatural uh and then there is a powers of Tuma which is much easier to do uh much much easier literally you could do it in five minutes if you know what to do uh doesn't require any level of righteousness or nothing literally the average person can do it if they knew the steps two minutes they could start making Mo stuff move um and um and see things and all types of other stuff uh so yeah so you could do things in two ways there's Kusha Hol which means Holiness and then there Tuma which means impurity now the uh the Jewish sages uh some of them delved into the Supernatural and uh in fact uh there's a whole book called which one of the great ches from just a little over a hundred years ago uh he uh had uh talks with the different Souls that entered uh the bodies of people that were living in this world which and and he actually removed those Souls from the uh from those bodies so I know in the church they call it exorcism which again uh the uh uh they uh you know they think that they're doing uh they're actually removing uh Souls but what they don't realize is that many times it's one big uh show it's one it's it's either fake where the guy is not actually uh doesn't have a soul in it or uh the uh the pastor is is full of it meaning he says he removed it but he really didn't uh either way uh certainly there is uh documented evidence of uh of this happening of this uh existing not just hundreds or thousands of years ago in our lifetime in our lifetime so it's not it's not as common today as it was back then uh but there's plenty of uh Jewish books to discuss this plenty I don't know what Jin's is I I'm sorry I don't know what that Jin is I don't know what a Jin is where is the concept of come from if it's not written in the tah who says it's not written in the tah only people that never study the T say it's not written in T it's in the T says it uh it's in the T many times you have to learn how to you have to know how to learn T not just assume that because some YouTuber or some uh guy in the local Delhi told you uh something doesn't mean you have to believe them everything has to have sources but if you look at the uh blessings of yov ainu to his sons um he clearly says that there's going to be mashiah not even understanding how this is even uh it's not even hard to find it's a literal verse why does the Bible have so many updates new ones every year the Torah does not have any updates it's the Christian New Testament that has updates because the Christian New Testament is not the Torah it's there's the Torah which is the five books of Moses and then there's the prophets and the writings total of 24 books that's all Jewish the New Testament is something completely different the Christians call it the New Testament as if implying that it's a continuation of the Torah which they call the Old Testament but that's the biggest lie in the world it is not a continuation of the Torah it has nothing to do with the Torah it only contradicts the Torah but because the Torah is from God either directly at Mount SA or when he told the prophets uh whereas the New Testament is by people and in fact all of the people that wrote the New Testament never actually met Jesus meaning the guy they're all writing about the guy they're all worshiping the guy they're all following none of them ever saw him in real life because the New Testament was written between 70 and 300 years after Jesus died so the whole thing is man-made and therefore is subject to endless human errors uh to such a point that if you watch some of my lectures about the topic one lecture you will never believe the New Testament again any one of the lectures that I spoke about the topic you actually look and double check everything I say one single lecture you will never believe anything that the New Testament ever says literally you'll throw it in the garbage why because it's the mistakes that are in it are so clear for someone that knows what they're doing the average person that goes to the church doesn't really study doesn't really know what they're doing they're relying on the integrity an honesty of crooked pastors and Priests that really are only there to make money only there to take advantage of people even one of their uh Heroes that uh was born a Jew but has betrayed Judaism and the Jews in Hashem uh this uh this uh guy Dr Brown uh recently was exposed for his immorality uh and and misbehaviors of the past uh trust me when I tell you much more will come from that story and others uh because when a person desecrates God's name in in in hiding Hashem will publicize shame on that person when a person desecrates aem's name in the open like he does when when the show is over for him you will see public embarrassment like Beyond everyone's comprehension either way when a person looks at the New Testament with eyes that understand they clearly know that this is man-made full of mistakes cannot be believed and the simple proof is there are literally over 200,000 versions of the New Testament there's only one version of the Torah but there's over 200,000 versions of the New Testament over 9,000 versions of the Quran so even if somebody would want to say that one of them is Divine let's just say hypothetically speaking in you know in a fairy tale let's say one of the 200,000 or the 9,000 versions of either the New Testament or the Quran is real let's say it's divine let's which one is it which one is it they say oh it's the Greek version which one oh it's the English which one oh it's the King James version so what happened beforehand how could it be the king's James version if the pope from before him uh contradicted him and he was closer to Yos than he was because he was he lived closer to him so when a person understands they will immediately abandon anything related to the New Testament and they will start learning as much to as they can start following the one and only god with is one and only tah and both the r Tora and the oral Torah and whether they are a Jew or a non-jew they can follow the path that's belongs to them that they have to do Jews have to follow the laws the Torah says for Jews non-jews have to follow the laws that pertain to non-jews which the Torah also talks about but I have plenty of lectures about this topic uh and uh we have students that are Jews we have students that are non-jews we have students that used to be Christians that have become Jews uh used to be used to be Muslims become become Jews we have students that have used to be Christians or Muslims and now are just uh righteous noahides meaning that they are righteous Gentiles I even have students that came to me as missionaries meaning they came to convince me to abandon God and adopt their idol worship of Christianity uh and in the end they ended up converting to Judaism why because in the discussion uh the information that they got uh simply they there's they realize they are living a lie they're living a lie and uh they made the right choice some people uh see that they're living aivee but they still uh want to continue living that lie because they're too committed to it and and so on but anyway there's plenty of lectures that I have on the topic go to my YouTube channel you could just type type the word uh Christianity or new testament or any of those types of words and you'll see plenty of lectures about the topic and uh get yourself educated and you'll see that um there's only one tah there's the written and the oral in essence that's that's one and the same that one connects to the other one relies on the other everything after that the as far as the New Testament and Quran obviously two different religions but nonetheless uh both full of human errors and um very easy to disprove very easy to uh show that they're fake okay we take maybe one or two more questions and we'll finish for the day are go SE seen as human sure why not a means Nation even the Jewish people are called go do we believe ASM is a trinity Shalom absolutely notem is one that's what we have the verse here Israel our godem is one Trinity means you divided God into three that's idol worship can you eat pork we're not allowed to eat pork no as is the and tanak stone Edition good red for studying the Tua or do you recommend another the AR scroll Stone Edition is the best one available for the English speaking world it's fantastic I have one right here it's my best friend he's been with me for many years I have many different other ones that are just like this I probably have maybe at least five in the house and I've given out countless of them to people but this is my this is my this my buddy this my I don't go anywhere with them without them hi um let's see Islam is 900 version no no no they if you look on go on Wikipedia how many versions of the Quran are there you'll see there's something in between I think 9,700 9,600 versions of it not 900 version 9,000 add another zero to it you'll see can you explain the concept of Gom uh there's a whole film that I made about the topic watch it it's about 3 hours has 176 sources from across the spectrums of the T whether it's the it's every aspect of the Torah uh it's at least one or more sources from them uh and it's um it's B it was many years in the making enormous amount of information highly highly highly recommended for people to watch it at least uh once in their life if not at least once a year if not even more often depending on your on your issues okay what's the difference between and aad is higher than aad are they the same well sometimes a uh the sadik is also but not always someone could be a sadik without being a um but sometimes cannot be aik he could but all of them and they have no share of the world to come uh but generally speaking when we speak about uh we speak about people that are obviously righteous and when we speak about usually those are also but there are times that someone is a sadik but he's not necessarily considered a he's just a very very righteous person um as far as who's who's who's better if he's a that's aik then he's higher than everyone he's like uh you know he's higher than uh than uh than anyone there's the K that's righteous has the uh what can I do for tun if I don't have the money to donate you should do as much c as you possibly can meaning get as much of the tikit posters and distribute them everywhere you can where they could be Jews Jewish supermarkets synagogues yes get as many of them as you possibly can uh distribute thousands of them tens of thousands of them on a regular basis everywhere you can uh and uh get as many people as possible to you know at least have this in their hand and uh hopefully watch it and each time somebody watches it do chuva it goes to your account and you are fixing a part of your n that it's incomprehensible how much benefit you're going to get from it how much suffering you're going to eliminate as a result of it meaning if a person understood the value of giving out these cards um they they literally would leave their day job they would leave their day job making a million dollars a year and they would just get every penny they can so we could you know send it so we could print out as much information as possible USBS cards whatever we can do just to publicize it and literally go everywhere they can to make sure that there everybody has this it's people are watching it on the big screen on small screen on individual screen on public screen everywhere they can why because the if you even if you if a person gives out I don't know 10 20 50 100 thousand of them and only one person one person watches and does chuba one person watches and does chuba that goes to your account all of the good that you will do all the mitv you put on you keep Shabbat all the things that you do as a following the toah yourself are not going to be in comparison to what you're going to get in benefit for that one person doing chba why you get one for all the good that you do you get 310 forg getting somebody else to do Che well for this so if a person truly understood the value of this they literally would do everything they can I've had people ask me oh listen uh can I uh uh can I uh uh sponsor them I said yeah sure I okay I'll send you $50 I'm like what am I going to do $50 the shipping cost more for for one little box that has I don't know 100 of them 200 of them oh well no I want okay want just sponsor $50 fine if that's all you have fine but the people that baffle me are people that have a lot that have money but they're I don't know saving for some rainy day that may never happen maybe they're saving for the Maul I'm not really sure they're saving and they're waiting and so on and they they want to enjoy both worlds they want and they want and what people don't understand is that if you want the benefits of the Torah it's only going to come at a price what what's the price what we say in every day where we're obligated to love hem with all of our heart with all of our life with all of our resources meaning your heart has to be completely to hasem he is priority over everyone certainly you have to still love your parents and your spouse and your kids and so on but AEM is above everyone no exceptions that means he's above money he's above above uh your profession he's above your respect he's above your uh Hobbies he's above everything that's all your heart two all of your life meaning you have to dedicate your life to Hashem that doesn't mean that you can't be a doctor or an architect or or a businessman no you can still do all of those things but everything has to be connecting to hem meaning you do those things for a living to make a living but you live for hem you live for hem and you're willing to die for Hashem three all your resources what those resources money money that's what it means a person has to dedicate all of their money to Hashem what does that mean every single time you know that there's an opportunity to help more Jews do Chua that takes priority over everything else that you have aside from your basic necessities of life your rent your mortgage your food whatever aside from that takes priority over everything else now the average person say ah come on no okay so come on that's what it is that's what it is so when a person understands the value of kiru already they understand there's a big obligation for every Jew to do it number two when a person understands this particular Mitzvah if they actually watch the film and the other lectures that I've made about this topic they'll realize that if they actually dedicate their life to helping people just with this Mitzvah just promoting this film just promoting the lectures we have about this topic the guide that we have for free all of the uh lectures and films that we have about it all for free if they literally utilize their time and their resources to help us do that there is nobody more profitable than them in this world and the next but few people few people are able to fight that Satan uh on a consistent basis where there are sometimes people that get into it they start helping and then they fall off uh and then they come back and they fall off sometimes they fall off permanently why because if you go and let's say for example want to contribute to your uh I don't know somebody that is helping sick people or somebody that's helping uh people laugh or somebody that's helping giving kala to people uh or somebody that is uh I don't know uh doing a nice town or someone even that's learning T you're not going to have that much Satan fighting you not going to have that muchan fighting you why because you know that there there's there's a uh reward for all of them for sure but it's not uh changing lives but to get somebody to do chuva from immorality you fix the person you fixed him you fixed everything that comes after that you fixed an entire history entire dynasty of people you could fixed with this so hence the reason why the Satan himself gets off of his throne to go fight those people to stop to not support it to not help it to we uh had extraordinary from day one where uh we helped people in regarding to this issue for many years and over the years it's it's become an extraordinary thing that has helped countless people uh do chuva and transform their lives uh but uh there's a lot more work to be done and a person that has money or doesn't have money can still help you could either help with money you could help with distribution uh you can help with both but everyone can do something to help I have some guys that uh you know distribute these cards in other countries let's say in Africa in uh in uh a couple places in Europe uh and uh you know they printed it over there because it was cheaper to print it over there than uh than to ship it from here and then I have plenty of people all over America that are Distributing them uh but again the point is is that if if people understood the value of these lectures about T and the rest of the stuff that were're doing at the organization uh they simply would make this their number one investment more important than anything else but the average person unfortunately doesn't know it and they think it's some type of money-making scheme um and there's not much that you can do you know either either uh person uh is going to make the right decision or not you can't make the decision for them but it's that okay as a know how can I pray using your prayer and eating foods like mot and Shak uh no it's not appropriate for noi to use the uh Jewish prayers because the Jewish prayers uh say uh bless you areem who commanded us to do such and such where he didn't command the noahides to uh make a blessing on food so it's not a it's it's okay for them to bless to make a blessing before they eat or after they eat but not to say the the the blessings that are you know you're commanded to do because you're not commanded so it would be a lie so if you want to pray you want to make a blessing it should be from your own uh your own words so how are Adam and Eve one if there are two well Adam came first and eve were taken from a piece of Adam oh here's some terrorists came with the Palestinian flag okay enjoy the flag enjoy the cleanup that we're doing over there and bem the rest of you that have been here until now enjoy the Torah learned you're going to apply you're going to make changes get out of the mud use whatever help uh you can to get out of the mud and most importantly help yourselves to 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