Bad Wife and Garbage Husband #rabbiyaronreuven #inspiring #shlombayit #marriage

A love you again a love you Shalom. Says Isha Ra'ah a wicked wife. What's a wicked wife? What's a bad wife? A bad wife is a wife that makes tea only after you ask. She makes you dinner only after you ask. Honey, I'm hungry. Okay, I'll make you something to eat. He says it's a bad wife, terrible wife. Maybe you don't have gain on because of this wife. As the Gamara says, Gamara says you have a bad wife, you have no gain on. Why? Cuz you're living in gain on every day. A bad wife is a wife you have to ask her to make you tea. You have to ask her to make you dinner. That's a bad wife. A bad husband, you know what a bad husband is? A bad husband waits for Mother's Day, waits for birthday, waits for anniversary to buy his wife a present. That's a bad husband. That's a husband you can put in the garbage pail. What? I have to be at my anniversary in order to get a present for my husband that I gave my whole life to? After like you have to wait the whole year to get a present because it happens to be the day I was born? That's what you're going to give me a present. You're not going to give me a present because you love me? You're not going to give me a present because you adore me? You're not going to give me a present because you respect me? You're not going to give me a present because of gratitude that I'm raising your kids? You're not going to give me a present because I TOLERATE YOU? THAT'S NO. BUT BECAUSE I WAS BORN ON THIS DAY, THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO GIVE ME A PRESENT FOR? TAKE THE HUSBAND, put him in the garbage pail. THAT'S A BAD HUSBAND. YOU PROBABLY DON'T HAVE GAIN on with a husband like that. A husband that waits for anniversaries, for for birthdays in order to buy his wife presents, in order to buy his wife flowers, that's a garbage husband.