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Amazing Questions About God From Hollywood (6)

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[Music] we are actually up to number six in our nice series over here at this wonderful house here in Hollywood great questions about amazing questions about God uh if you guys have amazing questions ask away if not I have some other stuff we can talk about also that's also amazing whichever amazing stuff comes first we'll talk about whether at the door can come in it's the same price whether you come in or you just stay by the door come on in um also the will come for to um EST but Leana SAR SAR Leana and sha and uh David and all of who have um now today I um saw one of my uh students had a baby and uh you see this little precious s soul that doesn't even know what sin is and it's you truly see the Miracle of Life uh but at the same token sometimes we forget how a little small tiny little thing a little delay in a birth a little earlier birth a little molecule little protein cell little something doesn't work doesn't this doesn't that every the whole equation changes come sit over here come sit follow sit here come sit next to me I want to grab you in the middle of the sh I need some help so you see these amazing little Souls we take for granted we take our own life for granted we take our own health for GR granted we take our own opportunities for granted our own family for granted our own wives for granted our own husbands for granted and the reason why is because we're so busy fighting the that we forget about everything else around us and this is exactly what the wants us to do exactly what the wants you to do is to be busy busy chasing something so you forget about what you're actually supposed to do in this world so when you see one of these precious it's a reminder it's a reminder how everything has to be so perfect in order for you to be here now the um sh today we have a lot of different things I have a few questions that people asked me over the week weekend and uh um I did a blessing before um last week that I think have a lot to do with uh with with this day that we're in today unfortunately the the impurity in the world is stronger and stronger unfortunately each day if we don't learn to lie especially but right now this is like the birthday of the Tuma of the world the the the the ocean of Tuma in the world is celebrating today and tomorrow this a holiday and uh unfortunately there's been some mistakes made in the past um by amazing Souls that were very very smart but apparently maybe didn't didn't realize how strong the really is or maybe they had their own that's beyond us I'm not really sure but there's this Minag that has been implemented that is in my eyes my humble opinion and this is not really my opinion this is actually all of the that I know of it's their opinion whether it's rash of kski or any of theim really with the exception ofab I don't really know of any other or you know that agree with agrees with this Min maybe there is I just don't know it but there's a in my opinion a horrible terrible horrendous Minag of stopping learning Torah on exmas Eve was question that was going to be you don't have to talk anymore is this awful horrible disastrous Min custom that we don't learn we don't learn t on exmas Eve because maybe he gives to the T maybe he gives strength to the tum or maybe this or maybe not all this cabalistic stuff we don't follow cabala the whole year except today all of a sudden now how do we know this meag is wrong how do we know we have a source yeah we have a source I did a sh iniva a couple of weeks ago and we talked about it now if you look at all the stendel you have a stender in your house stendel it says may you learn in the morning and at night you have to learn in the morning you have to learn at night you have to have the sender in front of you morning and night why you have to because you have to learn morning and night where do we get this from we get this from Jeremiah in Jeremiah chapter 33 verse 25 it says thus said Hashem so it's not someone else it's not a middleman it's not even a prophet it's AEM true Prophet obviously but nonetheless this is Hashem directly thus said Hashem if not for my Covenant day and night I would seize the laws of the Heaven and Earth so theim say what does it mean if not for my Covenant and the translation is learning Tor if not for someone in the world learning Torah morning at night meaning at all moments of the day 24 hours are in a day which by the way is one of the best proofs that the Torah is Divine and is the only thing that's real in the world because regardless of whether someone's an atheist someone's a leftist someone's liberal someone's Jewish someone's Christian someone's Hindu someone's from China someone's from America everyone believes in the same 7 day 24 hours of their system where did it come from where did they come from if they're Hindus and they believe in cows where they come from if it's they believe in Yos and uh he died and everything's okay where did it come from where did the guys that have all these other 880,000 religions they all believe in the same seven hour 24 hour seven days 24 hours a day system where comes from the Tor in the beginning hasem created the Heaven and the Earth hence the creation of 24 hour system and the V says that the word bet the first the letter bet the first letter of the Torah the first letter of the Torah he says has the secrets in that first letter of the Torah to the cures of every single disease that ever happened or will happen just a bit not the whole P just a bit just a letter if you know what the V knew cure for every disease that ever existed or will ever exist just a bit just so you understand what it means here so now you have yourself everyone believes in the same 24-hour system in essence everyone is confirming Torah is divine the Torah is the beginning that this very same Torah is telling you if someone in the world is not learning this tor at some point 24 hours a day meaning someone in the world has to be learning it the rules of the world will cease to exist what's the rules of the world you hear of gravity you ever hear of oxygen you ever hear of all of the elements you ever hear of anything that the little air that you breathe little air you breathe you take it for granted it's free the air that you breathe the blood that's flowing through your system the thoughts that are going to your head the functioning that you're able to see hear speak smell touch all of these things that you know of all of the things you don't know of all the things have to do with physics all the things have to do with biology chemistry and so on and so forth all of the Sciences these are the laws of the world those very same laws cease to exist if someone is not learning to at some point or another now I said this several times over the years one of the best ways to understand it is to understand the creation Hashem created us in a way where over time he's going to give us an opportunity to understand a little bit more a little bit more a little bit more of how significant the Creator is and how insignificant the creation is so one of the ways that we've talked about in the past is the atom scientists have researched the atom especially over the last 100 years and have confirmed that 99% of the atom is nothing it's pure empty space now everything is made out of atoms everything you me the the window shades the pictures the walls the food the drinks everything is atoms now the atom in essence has three parts electron that's spinning round and proton and neutron now the space between the nucleus the proton and the neutron and the electron the space between them is as if a space between us and the sun meaning it's significant what's in that space nothing zero so how come it looks like everything is solid how come there's a book how come there's me how come there's glasses hats pictures walls houses how come same thing like you see in that uh fan over there for the fan making it cooler but now you take it for granted why because you think it's only one blade cuz it's fast it looks like it's one maybe two blades now if you stop the fan you'll see it's four maybe five blades why does it look like there's only one or two blades because it's going really fast why does it look like you're solid because it's going really fast even more so if it's stops if the fan stops you it exposes the empty space it exposes the reality same thing with the atom scientists say that if the atom if the electron stops spinning it exposes the empty space in essence it exposes the nothingness the nothingness how much nothingness is there 99.9% and some say it's literally almost 100% why because even the proton and electron which is what we thought until now for least the last 15 or so years we thought the proton and electron that's the mass that's that's the something that's the something we have they actually recently did some new research with better better equipment they said even the proton electron themselves are almost nothing themselves have a ball spinning around another ball which is mostly nothing so they say that if you take all of the something that we have in the entire universe it could all fit in a box of matches all of it says so you don't want to see nothing right you want to see something so learn Tor learn Tor that's what keeps the ball spinning so the of not learning T obviously didn't take into account that we're all depending on it we're all depending on breathing we're all depending on seeing we're all depending on eating we're all depending on everything so if let's say for example every one of am said takes on this me that would be the end of the world you don't need Wars you don't need politics you don't need anything else that would literally be the end of the world for that moment that's it so this me is as wrong as it could be and again it goes against the Tor against all of the and I understand that some people like to have minim they actually say that if Shabbat was a everyone would keep shabat Shabbat was a people like more than they like Al but it's an to learn T day and night it's an so do you have any questions I continue go if she's righteous she's higher if she's not she's not right because her role depends on the man since she is not obligated to learn tah that's not her role in the world to learn to she needs to learn just enough to run the house to know the laws of Shabbat to know the laws of to know ethical laws to work own character traits and all and so on but as far as the the toiling in Torah that's not the woman's obligation the woman's obligation is to run the house what does it mean to run the house does it mean cooking does it mean cleaning does it mean making dishes does it mean uh making sure that uh her ABA and IMA are very rich and they give her a big inheritance what does it mean to run the house what does it mean thear says running the house means if if she gives you kids and she keeps you away from sin she's already fulfilling her purpose as a woman wife but to get ganed she has to get you to get to the go to the go learn T she's fulfilling her role as a wife bringing you kids and keeping you away from sin because men are unfortunately much more likely to sin in regards to intimacy and so on because of the way they were created but nonetheless if the woman gets the man to go learn Torah that's G because in essence that's the partnership meaning that she's supposed to help him help him or she's a woman is either going to be which means she's helping or NE against him she's either against him or she's helping him either getting him away from or closer to away from when she tells him listen why don't we go to the movies instead away from she tells him why don't we go to the theater instead why don't we go to the restaurant instead of the that's away from that's says listen you know what I don't need to go to the restaurant why don't you go learn Tor tell me the that you learn when you get home or tomorrow that's so that's in essence the purpose of the of one of the purposes spiritually speaking of the marriage the wife needs to understand that that's her role and the problem that we have in today's world as far as marriages are concerned is that no one wants to accept their role the husband wants to be a wife and the wife wants to be a husband and Hashem didn't create the world for the wife to be a husband and the husband to be the wife that's not the way the world was created and that's one of the reasons why you have such high percentage of of divorce no one wants their role no one wants their job everyone wants to go against the system they want to try something new as if the Creator the manufacturer doesn't know what he's doing when he put in the instruction set he told you this is what your role is this is what your role is this is what your role no no no I don't think you're right what do you mean but I built it no no I'm going to try something new but you don't know as much as I do I I I put all the parts together no no I'm I'm not going to try something else it's it's ludicrous but that's us so the wife needs to understand that every single time that she learn that her husband learns Tor she gets a bigger more than him this is why when R shalom when he met his wife he was meaning he knew nothing how much is nothing nothing most people say I don't know nothing but they still know how to pray they don't know nothing but if you ask them uh what do you say at the end of a blessing he say I'm in so you know something nothing nothing what's nothing says didn't know Al bit but his wife Rael before she married him she saw him working for her father Kal Kalb was one was very righteous and one of the three one of the three richest people of all to such an extent that all three of them financed is so one day she sees this AKA guy working in uh for her father cleaning horses that's what he did cleaned horses and she saw how he treats the horses such a nice guy then there's a famous story where it says someone worked for and at the end of his uh term was was a few years he wanted to collect his money and says I don't have I don't have goes oh you have maybe you can give me some uh fruit maybe you should give me some carpets maybe you should give me this he kept giving him excuses of why he doesn't have it he said okay no problem and he left later on we find out that all of the excuses that he had were legitimate and ended up paying him but nonetheless we find out that the employee was RAB AKA Raba showing that RAB AKA despite knowing no Torah whatsoever he had good midot he had good character traits so um ra which was a sadit and almost 20 years younger than him 20 years younger than him she says listen I'll marry you just go to learn Torah because you have already something that's very hard to get you already have good midot usually good mid you only get with Tora if you already have good mid before Tor oh wow what I'm going to have once you have some Tor in you yeah but I'm 40 and I don't know how to read and I don't know how to write and I have a kid from a divorced marriage and a this and a that I have all these problems I don't have any money I'm poor I'm broke you going to learn toah yes okay go learn to they got married got really upset he says you can get do you can get the greatest you you're the daughter of someone that's righteous you're the daughter of someone that's rich you're the daughter of someone that's famous what are you going with my employee that's cleaning horses it's illiterate that's divorced that's 20 years older than you why say he has good midot says I don't agree with you I'm going to disown you disown she made a decision she was a strong woman this own know this own I'm going with him and she endured a huge test because as soon as they got married told him uh AKA now it's your time to fulfill the deal go learn toah so he goes to the kindergarten because you know Al he can't go he doesn't go to Yesa they're not going to accept him goes to kindergarten kindergarten Al learning but in the beginning they thought he was the teacher I Rabbi I Rabbi then they see him sitting with them he's sitting with them they start making fun of him hey sabba sabba old man you know grandfather used to call him he got so upset he left goes I'm not going back I'm not going back it's not for me embarrassment they're making fun of me all the little kids they're four five six seven years old making fun of me so okay fine do me a favor take our donkey we have a little donkey balm donkey it has a deformity this donkey has a hole on its back has a hole in its back says do me a favor take this donkey to the market before you take him to the market put some mud some um sand or whatever some ground into it and uh put some seeds in the hole there's a hole like a little cup imagine there's a back of the of the of the donkey there's a hole just put some mud in there put some seeds and water it maybe a flower is going to come out of it I go in the market maybe somebody give you money for this special donkey that has a plant on its back what is he going to do me skin what is he going to do that's what he does he puts the plant after a few days she says new how's the donkey goes donkey's good she goes are they still is anybody making fun of you anything goes well you know at the first day everyone looked at me like look at this donkey where this guy watering the donkey and they came to see everybody came to see what kind of donkey has a plant on him this where'd you get this home where'd you get this from which aisle I want to get a donkey with a plant on it beginning everybody was very excited second day a little less third day no one cares she goes exactly exactly first day they're going to make fun of you in the kindergarten second day okay a little less people calling you sabba third day you're one of the classmates go back to school he says she's right went back to school learned then stayed there and went away he didn't come home every day like us every day we go we do what we got to do we come home dinner kids play this that no he went 12 years straight 12 years straight today you go 12 minutes without calling or texting your wife it's K why don't you call where you with another girl you with somebody you cheating on me where you going did you fly away what's happened minutes 12 years he went after 12 years he comes back and he over hears this rash neighbor talking to his wife trying to seduce her trying to get us like he listen what are you with this guy for he left you maybe he died maybe he's with another girl maybe he's this maybe he's that come with me I got money I got this I got that look what you look how you're living you're living in a barn a horse barn your next door neighbor is a horse your closest friend is a cow what what are you have what do you have with this guy you haven't even seen him in 12 years who knows she says if he knew what I really wanted he would go for another years AKA loved his wife and valued his wife so much it's hard for us to understand this he loved her so much that he he didn't even go and say hi hi honey I'm here I'm home let me hang out for a couple days and I'll go back for another 12 years no he turned around went back for another 12 years 24 years later he comes back with 24,000 students Rael knows this has something to do with Raba Rael knows it has to do something with doesn't know he's the rabbi she knows it's a big Rabbi coming to town with 24,000 students I mean this is something where the least of the students can revive the Dead the least one little baby can ride the dead Rabbi of them is coming with the students has to make maybe he's coming with his Yeshiva maybe he's one of the students who knows I'm going little does she know he's the rabbi now her she had she had to sell her hair she used to be a very beautiful woman she sold her hair so she get money to eat so imagine this woman looks disheveled she's young she's not so young anymore she's already in her 40s now she's not like when she married him she was 18 years old buba now she's 40 something years old already no hair no this poor she tries to go through the crowd to see who's the rabbi hey hey relax lady relaxa says no let her in your Torah and my Torah it's all hers everything is hers why only reason I'm here is because of her only reason I'm here is because of her anyone that understands this story even if you heard the story a thousand times you should hear it again why because we still fail to understand the significance of the story the significance of the story and why they succeeded for him to be of all the generations to such an extent thatu said why you giv me T give it to him give it to R he saw the future he says you can have somebody like this in the word you give me the T give it to him give it to R doesn't know how to read doesn't know how to write doesn't know nothing give it to him why he's going to Bea why did ra get to marry such a guy what why each one knew their role he knew his role she knew her role and that's it and that's the thing if a if a woman understands if a woman understands that it's for her interest it's for her benefit to send and go through the hardship of not being with a husband as often as she would like but instead sending him to go learn Tor sending him to the T send him to go learn sending him to go learn she understands that's the that's ideal Everything Changes Unfortunately today we have people that love this world so much that if you announced on the news today is here El like the the prophet Ezekiel the prophet Zakaria said three days before the mashia and he confirmed mashia is coming in three days at least 50% of the people said damn it I'm almost finished with the deal I'm almost doing this ah this guy has to come now ruin it for me at least 50% of I can't believe he's here already I'm almost finished tell tell the hour tell them take a little a few more years I'm almost finished with Bitcoin is almost higher this one people don't want the mashia to come they say Mash mash okay tell them to come to my house give me sh and go home tell them to come to my house give me sh I go home I give him some go go go no don't bother my life don't bother my life that's the mistake the poison we have in this world is so poisonous it's so potent that we don't even realize it's killing us now when we got the Torah in Mount sa we said we'll do and then we'll listen to what he says why he say we do and we we listen because when Hashem said the first commandment his voice was so far above and beyond what we can handle that everyone died everyone died re revived the dead brought him back to life he said the second commandment died again di it again brought back to life for it's the same thing nobody deal has to try have to do a post live dead flying not flying nothing no nothing is a big deal but now for us it's a big deal dying and waking up it's a big deal why there a lot of pain dying is painful unless he kisses you and you're not pain so anyway they come back they say to Moshe Moshe you go talk to him you go talk to him we're going to do and then we'll fle we'll do whatever he says and then we'll hear why we're doing it but the says that later on mosu comes back with you know he goes and this and that they think about it they think about this whole thing we just said we're going to do and then we'll listen Maybe it's not such a good deal why should we do maybe we don't want to do it maybe we have to move out of the uh highriser maybe we have to start eating certain type of food maybe we have to start dressing a certain type of way maybe this maybe it's going to disturb our lives so why do we just agree cuz why the danger was gone the danger was gone when Hashem was killing them them and then Reviving them killing them Reviving them no no no we'll do we'll do we'll do do no problem Hashem whatever you want we'll do we'll do we'll do go Hashem no problem we love you whatever you want danger is gone M goes up to the mountain like wait a minute did you guys hear us did anybody say you you said you agree right you agree I didn't agree you agreed so what happened says hasem bent the mountain and it became like a Mount sa went up on top of all of is and he says to them you've already said you've already said we will do and then we'll listen so you should know if it's if you're GNA do and then listen this is our weddinga nice pretty kopa if not this will be your funeral this will be your funeral funeral this would be your funeral why Hashem is not your boy he's not your friend that's the mistake that we continue to make today when we treat AEM like our friend now in last week's parasa we had a fantastic par it's in my personal opinion it's one of my favorites this whole story about yadik and how his brothers were just dumbfounded with the how everything played out but you see something extraordinary here when the brothers find out sorry not when the brothers find out that it's an in chapter 44 I'm sorry 45 chapter 45 verse three says an I am Joseph I'm your brother what does it [Applause] say it says I am Joseph I'm Joseph is my father still alive but his brothers could not answer him because they were left disconcerted before him so the say what does it mean they couldn't answer him what there a bunch of them those strong they GI they all smart they all holy they all good why can't they answer him say they all died everyone died why from the shame of what just happened here from the shame of seeing their brother that they sold 20 plus years ago and they realized he's right if he's at the throne if he's the visoy of Egypt the dream the prophecy that he had 20 years ago where we got upset at him when he told us the story when who are you who did that and we sold them and the whole thing happened he's right the dean we we we actually made is wrong we went against God the shame of going against God when they made a wrong they made a wrong de the shame of having the wrong they died not because he was their brother just another guy no no no we went against God with this that's the problem we went against God you understand what it means to go against God you don't understand you don't understand what it means to go against God that's why you go against God every day you don't understand what it means to go against God they they were scared from his face what do you mean they were scared from his face scap from facing what are we going to do we're g to go up to sh and say 20 years ago we went against you what what do we have what do we have what are we going to show them oh I'm sorry I'm sorry hasem is it okay where the Our Father's okay he's in G what about you our grandfather's okay he's an also ganeden with him what about you AB ainu is a great-grandfather he's also in ganeden what about you you still went against me it's not going to help you that he's and he's aad and he's this and you know this what none of that's going to help you they all knew this the fact that you know a bunch ofik is not going to help you if anything it may help you in this world hopefully they can get you to do but as far as in scared from his F what am I going to deal with when I see AEM what am I gon to say to him I'm sorry there's no I'm sorry in sh there's no hey I'm sorry I yelled at my wife for absolutely no reason she didn't do anything there's no I'm sorry I yelled at her and now she doesn't want to be religious anymore oh I'm sorry I yelled at my husband because he's and now he doesn't want to learn anymore there's no I'm sorry in sham for things like this there's no I'm sorry I yelled at my kids and now they don't want to be religious and you know listen I made the religion into something that it's not and now they want to be uh Christians there's no one sorry for things like this we don't understand what it means to go against theem now last week I heard a few a little bit of RA M he said a p in the Torah that I think the religious world the religious world needs to review this PUK at least once a day what's the PUK says in says this a punishment to certain types of people but who gets the worst punishment who gets it someone that says shom someone that says peace be with me though I walk as my heart sees fit thereby adding the water upon the Thirsty says someone that says peace be with me nothing's wrong I don't have to Chua I already have a hat I already have a beard sweeps the floor my wife was well kids go to Yesa we give a little here and there everything is good look how hasem is blessing us we have three cars in a lot we have a vacation house in this place we have this everything is good everything is good I don't have to chuva you do chuva you you have problems right that's because you didn't do CH me I'm good I'm okay I'm okay shalom shalom everything is good with me I'm fine M no that's for people like you M for people like you need to work on themselves yeah you guys have problems that's why me Shalom everything is good with me everything is okay everything's okay you guys you need yeah yeah I know that get people do yeah you should do it maybe one day you be like me maybe one day you can say shalom says a person like this worst why first and foremost he knows he's he knows he's full of it everyone knows the difference between right and wrong everyone knows before they do something whether it's right or wrong every single woman on planet Earth knows if her outfit is modest or not every woman doesn't matter if she's religious doesn't matter if she's not doesn't matter if she's Jewish doesn't matter if she's not doesn't matter every woman on planet Earth knows whether her modest can be called modest or not every woman in the world knows if she's trying to look good for Carlos in the supermarket or a husband every woman knows who she's trying to impress and all of the excuses no it makes me feel good yes it makes you feel good that Carlos Steven Mustafa Sylvester and all of their friends are looking at you at the supermarket at the Starbucks and all all these other places it makes you feel good you feel like a runway show yes you and them will all be in the same section get together see how good you feel over there together this is the problem now you want some verses we'll give you some verses now in the Book of Ezekiel in the Book of Ezekiel it talks about this person says shalom it's going to be okay with me it's going to be okay with me someone say it's going to be okay with me just so you understand what it means so the wives that want their husbands to go to the movie theater or want to wear a wig that's a not appropriate or not wear wig period or the husband doesn't really want to learn he wants to go play baseball he wants to watch baseball he wants to do all these things you should know Shalom you're doing it why you're doing it why do you feel so comfortable not to wear why is anybody in the world that knows T I'm not talking about someone secular secular it's a different sh everyone here is already considered or or whatever it is whatever term you want to give yourself point is everyone knows the truth by now no one can say listen I still have doubts if God is real if you have go if you have doubts God is real let's stop the sh right now we'll start a new sh because everything I'm about to say is not relevant to you if you agree God is real Torah is real everything is real then we continue now why does anyone in their right mind go and sin against God or better yet not sinal why sin I'm going to not fulfill all the mitv it's an elective it's an elective it's an elective you know have to wear unless there's four corners according to the Tor is if you have four corners in your shirt you have to wear if there's no Four Corners if it's round like most of today's shirts you don't have to wear so what happens when you don't wear you say listen I know this I learned it I learned so I don't have to wait to see so in essence what are you saying to Sham what are you saying saying sh saying I love you everything is good between us right but just so you know I know the I know the trick the to the system I don't have to we to te why don't I have to we to te I don't have four corners in essence what are you saying here you're saying you have enough you're saying you're so confident in yourself you're so confident that you know that right now if you Masia showed up oh you died you went up to sh of sh says oh Sylvester over here he's going to G he has enough he has enough MIT for sure he's going to G why he's so confident on the amount of MIT that he has he didn't need anymore to wear he didn't anymore doesn't you can for what you're such a looking fromal look at this guy why don't you give him the T he has so many he doesn't have to he doesn't have to imagine that a woman has to review has to review everything we've said in the last few years about the wigs about the she has to review it why do she has to review it why why does she have to review it because even before the issue of came up there was a problem with wigs what's the problem if you look at the in Shabbat page 64b it starts and continues into 65 it talks there a mish there's a mish and every woman that wears a wig needs to know this mishna by heart why this is what you're depending on if you don't know this mishna you're not you're not allowed to wear wig why sh ask why you wear wig okay who told you you the rabi told you okay who told him this one told who told him where did it come from to wear wig where where' it come from who said it what some your local Rabbi say it's okay that's it that's what you're coming to sh with you're coming to sh in front of say I I heard from my local Rabbi from kabad that's it that's what I'm going with this is what you're coming with why why is this a problem to just go with this because you have 117 p before the recent 10 were added you have 117 POS a bunch of people asking me for this list I just don't have on a computer I have to type it again 117 posim say this this specific the very same that's one Rabbi 400 years ago said that's where that's the source for wearing a wig the very same rabbis that came before him and after him saying he's wrong one says yes one says yes we still don't know who it is right no one knows who it is but we're wearing wigs you have two million Jews wearing wigs today no one knows who said yes two million Jews wearing wigs no one no one who knows who the source is that's the best part that's the best no one knows what they're doing no one knows why no no somebody said who said it my Rabbi who said it to him his Rabbi who said it to him I don't know where' it come from oh it's Rabbi who's the rabbi he have a name you're going to go to you're going to go to shim you're going to go to Sham you're going to ask you who who did you listen to my Rabbi yeah but who said to him how do you know it's true why it's not a difference if we like it or we don't like it it's you understand the difference here you're depending on an opinion that went against everyone else do you understand here this is not me it's me it's not me you went against who' you go against let's read the list first one on the list you know when beginning of the beginning of the you start reading right beginning it says started putting a on the rest of the Torah started putting commentary on the Torah a but call from sh came out who gave the secrets of sh to Men of Flesh and Blood you says hem you know I Didn't Do It For My Honor or the honor of my father I did it for you and because it's for you I want to continue putting commentary on the rest of the Torah and the say why does he want to do the rest of the Torah because in there is a secret of when the Messiah is going to come so what they answer him enough enough you're not allowed to put any more commentary not allow to put any more commentary no more no more when he used to study when he used to study Torah learn Torah if a bird flew above him it would burn diean your local Rabbi has the same thing but talks to him a bird flies maybe poops on him it doesn't doesn't it doesn't uh it doesn't burn that's a story that one of the said so now okay so now that's what we have okay next you have I'm going to give you some names you know so you know you know this is one of the this is one of the Kish if you if you look at same thing you kiss them you have of course everyone knows the um but then you have salant schuger rilot the yavitz the shabat um H RAB abulafia RAB aazar shap RAB benra bmit you remember I told you the in the first letter of the you want to go against good luck to you you want to go against yeah you have I'm trying to get you some names you know they mentioned sh Maybe so in essence you have the holy of holies throughout all the generations going against it babaali going against it to such an extent where they're not saying you know but you maybe you should maybe you shouldn't maybe this maybe that they're not saying any of that they're not saying any of that they're saying to you it's not allowed this that is being misunderstood this that's being misunderstood you're not uh you're going against the Torah by doing by going against by wearing a wig so if you're going to go against these you're going to go against them you should have an excuse you should have an excuse listen I listen to I listen to him because it makes sense to me I have an argument I have an argument I have an argument to use I have an argument to go against I have an argument against I have an argument to go against I have an argument do all of is the way it's right now because of these people but you have a right to go against them if you have someone that's bigger problem is you don't know who he is and you don't if he's right but you're wearing a wig comfortably to work to the movies to the events to the this to the that okay so why why you wearing okay so let's go let's stop wasting time and let's go to the bottom line let's go to the bottom line because ra Kanki says that if a woman upgrades Hearts it's the equivalent of a th000 salvations a thousand Mash Just increasing why should I do it maybe I'm depending on someone that's smarter that's bigger that's Holier and so who am I depending on okay so now you should know it's is using this this Mish is the source that married women that cover their hair are allowed to do it with wigs she is his name now you should also know that the be the Bea wrote a whole synopsis of every single reason of why he's wrong now let's see you may you be the judge you be the judge of who's right or who's wrong and I'll explain it to you what says okay a woman may go out on Shabbat this is whether a woman is allowed to go outside with something on her head something she's carrying something this this is we're talking about the mitvah of whether you're allowed to carry on Shabbat what's carrying what's not whether it's considered clothing therefore you're allowed to wear it if it's a if it's a um jewelry then it's Essence consider the same thing as a uh clothing if it's really a but if you're wearing let's say for example if it's a uh you know Keys it could be like it's a uh it's not it's not really a ornament it's not really a it's not really jewelry so we have to deter what are you allowed to carry what you're not allowed to carry that's what the is about okay so it says a woman may go out on Shabbat with her hair braided with strands of hair whether the strands are of her own or whether they are strands of her companion or whether it's hair of an animal so far so good we have is saying a woman is allowed to go out on Shabbat with hair whether that hair is from her own hair she cut it hair previous time she put a little batch together and she put it on her head now second option is her friend cut off a piece of hair she put it there third option is they cut the tail of a horse or some other animal and they put it past there so why why are they doing this so you should know Rashi explains why why is this even a question the question is is she going to take it off if she takes it off she takes off the patch off her head and she holds it in her hand it's not allowed why she's carrying on Shabbat if she takes it off she's carrying on Shabbat not allow it's a sin of Shabbat so the question is is she going to take it off so now the the commentaries explain who wore this who wore this this this hair who wore this hair people that had Bal spots people that had any type of sickness of some kind and they had B spots they would where they put something there so how do we know if they're going to take it off or they're not going to take it off the Mish continues say says they're not going to take it off why they're not going to take it off why they're not going to take it off because then it's going to expose their head so how do we know they're not going to take it off because the hair is s to a hat the hair is swn to a hat it's not directly on a head it's swn to a hat meaning in order to show somebody the hair and have to take off the hat have to take off a scarf meaning there wasn't anybody just walking around with just a wig on just a there was no such thing they put a hair just to cover the Bal spots so someone asked me a few weeks ago when I explained this to him like yeah but wait a minute what if she's already covering her hair with a hat or with why is she putting hair on them why is she putting her hair or her friend's hair or an animal hair on her head why is she doing it if she's bald if she's uh covering hair anyway easy question is if you go to any of these places where you have cancer patients you see if the woman covers her hair and she has no hair under her under her scarf under her hat You Can Tell She's bald but if you have hair it fills up the space it makes it puffy so that's why they used it not to show the hair no one saw the hair and that's what Rashi says and that's what the be explains the be explains this is not people walking around with just a just a wig on showing the hair this according to rash according to someone we all depend on he said 900 years ago he says no this hair is sewed in to the Hat that's why it's allowed because in essence it becomes part of her clothing it's not something separate andom he specifically says a woman uh for this hair is saw to her hat she cannot show it to our friends like to show it to our friends hey look at this nice wig that I have she not doing that why because if she removes it she would have to remove her hat entirely leaving her hair uncovered which is a Biblical sin a woman will certainly not do this since a married woman is forbidden to expose her hair to the public view the 3032 so here first and foremost we see very basics of what the Big M between the two is one is saying no she's wearing a head only but the rest of the commentary he says no it's connected to but this is not the reason why I'm telling you this mishna I'm telling you this mishna because even this mishna is not relevant I'm telling you this mishna because even this mishna is not relevant to what we're trying to prove here what we're trying to prove the question is why is it that she can't just walk around with the hair why do she have to put a hat if she has completely bald head or she wants to put she has hair but she wants to put other hair better hair why can't you just do that Mish explains mishna explains what does it say what's the here what's the not allowed in essence it's saying actually I'll read it for you it's permissible for woman to go out on Shabbat wearing strands of hair provided she's allowed to use these hair batches provided that a young girl does not go out with strands of hair of an older woman and a older woman does not go out with strands of hair of a younger woman why is she a older woman not allowed to wear the hair of a younger woman because the hair of a younger woman is considered an enhancement for the older woman if it improves her looks by definition it's not modest it's not allowed hence the reason why wigs are not allowed for modesty reasons before the came on before the whole issue of idol worship and connection and all that stuff the reason why the wigs are not allowed is because no one is going to go buy a 90-year old woman's hair and put on a head and as you can see the market is full of hair of younger women 15 18 20 25 younger women why because everyone wants younger hair if it enhances your looks by definition it's not allowed doesn't matter short long curly not curly doesn't make a difference that's why these pin these 117 poim didn't say if it's curly it's okay if it's long it's okay if it's short it's okay if it's no they said it's not all not okay all of is not okay now every woman that's going against this every woman that's going against what thear itself says is not allowed that's going against what these 117 are saying that's going she's depending on something she's depending on this one p by it says no no you're allowed but he didn't say it's allowed to wear the younger woman he just said it's allowed to wear the wig by itself didn't say if it's improves your enhances your look that he didn't say so now you have to also comply with everything else he says go check his books good luck with that good luck you have to you can't just use it for one thing he has to become your R he has to become your have to follow everything else he says you can't go up to geden and say oh no no I used them for this but nothing else now why do people feel so comfortable to say I'm okay I'm okay everything's okay I don't have to do chuva this guy's too serious the Torah is not relevant to today everybody's okay and the reason why we feel is because we don't understand the significance of a sin the of's father one time he as he got older older as he got older his legs became so puffy from the water that he was in essence producing in his legs they would take out once a month a liter of water out of his knees out of his legs he was barely able to walk but in his older age one time walked down a few stairs from his house and he didn't notice there was a puddle on the bottom and he stepped on Shabbat he stepped into the puddle which the water got into his shoes and wet his sock immediately he got scared if I step again on the shoe I'm gonna do I'm gonna squish the sock and the water is going to come out it's that's not allowed on Shabbat so he climbed up the stairs back into his house in his old age we're not talking about 25 years old we're talking about someone that's old now can't walk has water in his legs they have to take it out of every month he hopped on one leg all the way upstairs and for the rest of the Shabbat he just lifted his leg on top and didn't move it he didn't move it the whole Shabbat he didn't move it it didn't want if I take out the sock if I take off the sock for sure water's coming out if I bent and I I step on it for sure water is coming out what am I go up to sh I say I'm sorry but but there's a leniency there's a leniency listen it's not your fault you didn't mean to you're not benefiting out of it it's okay it's a he goes you think I'm going to go with that argument the sh say it's okay there's a leniency there's a this I just went against theem yeah but you have you didn't do it on purpose you didn't benefit out of it there's somebody that says it's okay there's several people you can rely on that say it's okay you go with that he says you go with to someone that says it's okay that s something on go went against hem you you go with going against hm them you go with the lency the one time put his hair put his hand through his uh beard on Shabbat ra you listening came late put the phone down not to me T he put his hand in his beard you know anyone has a beard it's like fun it's like one of the Privileges of having a beard play with your beard the problem is if you do it on Shabbat there's a small chance most likely if especially if it's a big beard you can take off a hair a hair is going to come out what is that shabat not loud Gina one time put his hand in his beard on Shabbat and then he realized there's a small chance that a hair will come out with my hand but there's a lency to s schem say yeah but you didn't mean to and you didn't intend to and it's maybe not definite and maybe this he goes you go to sh with that excuse for the rest of the Shabbat he left his hand like this for the rest of the Shabbat he didn't move his hand why scared from God who's scared from God someone who knows what he's dealing with someone who's not scared doesn't understand understand who he's dealing with that's the problem it's a very famous story is being publicized right now there's a bigad in Israel inia his name is rauk raav KES kesim learned in ponic this is the type of person that when he felt is in sham there's a in sh there's a decree in sh against is he starts fasting his wife told him Sunday no eat no no fasting okay Monday eat still fasting Tuesday still fasting when are you going to stop fasting you're going to die until the decree in sh stops I'm not going to eat until they forgive us in sham now this is a person that barely leaves his house this past Shabbat a couple of shabbats ago he left his house and he saw some fool inside his car on Shabbat apparently he's never seen anyone in a car in on Shabbat but so he ran to him to stop him don't turn on the engine now this imagine this a holy man he's wears 50 TI 100 not like you and me we have to like debate whether we're going to wear one he has 50 100 cot he's wearing he's running to this guy no no don't turn on the cart Shabbat doesn't know the guy got so scared turn on the car and drove away the guy turned on the car drove away he said at that moment I felt a pain worse than death because I ran towards him and maybe he only drove because of Me Maybe in sh they're going to say he violated Shabbat because of you cook what am I going to say to them I'm sorry I didn't mean to there's a leniency there's a m there's a this there's a I'm what you're gonna you go up to Sham with that and he they recorded him they recorded him he says please somebody help me he's begging am please help me somebody maybe you hear the story you you start keeping Shabbat maybe they're going to forgive me in shamim please help he's beg cries please help me help me do you understand what's happening here this is a person where 50 this is a person that doesn't sleep doesn't eat doesn't nothing he's not even connected to the rest of mankind he's asking you and I for help for what maybe somebody's going to keep Shabbat from hearing the story and help him out why he knows what he knows what it means to be scared of he's scared of sinning so all of the fools that are comfortably sinning or comfortably thinking Shalom everything's going to be okay I'm going to have shom I don't know do you know more about hem you know more about Torah than these Giants you feel comfortable to go up to sh everything's okay I know everybody likes to talk about mashia so I I heard a k today from my it's probably one of the scariest things I've ever heard you always think something but then when you see it and you see that what you thought is right you get scared all a sudden when you thought it it was okay but then you see it and it's not okay anymore well that just happened what happened you know a lot of people like to say mashia mashia mashiach they want mashia to I have people texting me at least every week asking me when mashia is coming as if I have his uh his text I have his WhatsApp mashia you coming oh no not this week guys not this week not this week next week maybe like people asking when is he coming uh you know what he didn't print out his schedule yet I'll wait I'll let you know when I get the email I he's still in the meeting he's still in the meeting with uh Trump because they have the same gatria so people want mashia to come now there was a very famous sadik that uh his name was R Yuda liovic where it was agreed among the this was not only one of the 36 sedim of the world that the old world depends on the says also says there always has to be at least 36 in the world in order for the world to exist they said Not only was he one of the 36 he was the leader before he died about seven years ago Shalom was a student for about six or seven years and he went to him for a lot of advice a lot of uh learning and so on and so forth he was very close to him for for that period of time that's why if you type his name on Google you'll see a lot of connection to breast live and other things not necessarily because he was a breast liver but just because shalomar ra shalomar was his talid but anyway he was a cabalist but a real cabalist not like some guy that gives people water for a thousand bucks he knew what's going on in sham if you will and anyone that's a real cabalist anyone that knows the real stories of cabalists if you read the books of abuda uh um FAA or you read the some of the things that the babaali did you understand this is a different world the special effects are more significant than movies but anyway I heard that there was a few times throughout history where the sedik got together and decided they wanted to bring the mashiach they wanted to bring the mashiah and a few times at history they got together and they wanted to bring the mhia said okay we want to do whatever we need to do to bring the mashia right now now when you say such a thing and you try to do something to bring the mashiah in essence you're declaring war against the Satan outright not his friends not his buddies not his employees him himself and the reason why is because the N the prophecy is that hasem says he will Slaughter him when a messiah comes so the last thing on Earth that the Satan wants is for the mashia to come so when someone actually tries to bring the mashia really someone that actually has the capability to do it he declares war on the Satan and has several very very scary stories of a few that try to do it and he mamash took him to a different world I'm not usually a teacher of these types of mystical stories but I heard some of this stuff and uh I'll spare you the details put it that way I'll just get to the bottom line so some years ago the students of rovic say the story but also it's a uh he himself said it he said the other 36 the other 35 sedim came to him and says okay it's time to bring the mashia time to bring the Mia let's do it whatever we got to do with declaring war on Satan Let It Be we got to take cup we'll take it we got to die we got to die we got whatever we got to do let's bring the mashia already you know you have in every corner today saying mashia mashia mashia you have everyone else Orthodox non-orthodox reform not everyone wants mashia everyone says they want mashiah right so if you deliver which didn't answer half hour passes they keep going Masia mashia mashia we got to bring we no answer a half hour passes he wasn't a big talker but to be quiet when people are talking to him for a half hour is not normal after a half hour of them saying it's time to bring the mashia of says do you know what it looks like to see grown men swimming in blood up to their nose do you know what it looks like do any of you know what it looks like to see men and women that are grown swimming in blood up to their nose you don't I do was in the Holocaust if the mhia comes right now that's what will happen and this is why for years I've been praying for the mashiah not to come because all of the religious and nonreligious people are not ready for mashia if he came it wouldn't be good stop praying for mashia to come stop praying for mashia to come and St praying forem to help you do Chua mashia came it wouldn't necessarily be so good the reason why is because most of us are not ready most of us are not ready because most of us are still debating whether we should make a sin or not whether we should go against the or not said that a woman that makes another man sin whether it's by action or by simply looking at her because she has a wig or because she has sexy clothes on or because of whatever other reason she makes another man sin because of the way she looks because of she did something whatever says they will not let her leave G until all the mikim all the demons she created from those sins until they're all destroyed as long as those mikim are still alive she can't leave she can't leave but women ask me on a daily basis why is a tight shirt and a tight skirt not so okay why can't we wear this and why can't we wear that why can't we do all these things that quite frankly everyone else in the world is doing sometimes people say yeah but you know what maybe andem understands me maybe hasem understands me he understands that I can't put on K he understands that it's not for me to put a scarf on my head I didn't grow up that way he understands that I'm already used to not being modest he understands that in order for me to make money I have to lie it's part of my business I have to lie he understands that in order for me to make a living I got to work on Shabbat he understands hasem understand understands me he understands me so then I'm going to ask you question my Rob asked me the question so I'm going to ask you the same question he said okay fine no problem maybe I understand you now the babali theki all of these was scared to death scared to death to go against the because they said we have something to rely on but we don't really want to what do you have to rely on this thought process that you have that you're allowed to steal and you're allowed to wear this and you're allowed to do this what do you have is there a p in the Tora that you can go up to sh and say look it says and it made all the rules for everyone except Steven you know the uh everyone keep Shabbat except you everyone has rules except you everyone has to do this except you you have a p in the T you have something you have something you go up to sh whenever you're going to go 120 you're going to go some what do you have to rely what what's just because you thought it just because it's your opinion that Hashem understands you fine let's see he does what how you going to prove it you want him to prove your case for you also what are you going to go up to sh with what excuse what argument what from T why can you do something and mosu can't why can you do something and R AKA can't why is everyone else so scared except you for what what are you going to base it on why you so comfortable what constantly making these new rules and these exceptions this is all good except this I accept the Torah from Shem gave it to Moshe all story everything is good okay so how come you're not keeping Shabbat still oh no I'm not ready yet said how come you not mod it oh yeah I'm not so sure yet I'm not ready yet oh how come you this how come you this it's always I accept every everything is good except this one thing those this one thing now if Hashem gave you a baby the little baby that I saw today my students baby she's perfect perfect beautiful what if decid to give somebody a baby and the baby is missing an eye yes instead you have two eyes has two two eyes here he has one eye little baby big deal yes one eye at least you think the parents will be upset that he has one eye yes at least he has an eye why is it a big deal he has an eye though no I read an article about m one of the famous Israeli zionists it says that when he lost his eye in battle he got so depressed for several years he didn't want to leave the house well you have an eye you have an eye but it's not complete okay so let's not it's not an eye let's say the little baby cute little tiny little baby he's not missing an eye he's missing a finger instead of 10 he has nine show me one parent that's not going to do gave us he gave us a baby with a missing finger look Rabbi what happened doing this to us maybe we should donate and hm's going to give him all the different things maybe you're going to donate to give him a finger maybe we'll have a surgery a plastic surgery will spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to put a fake finger on why he has nine instead of 10 he has nine no he's not complete he's not complete with nine fingers but it's okay you know what I'm G to ask you guys for a little thing I have a special deal we're trying to raise $250,000 for B I'm thinking you know we're not getting that much we're getting a few thousand here a few thousand there but we're still not there we're still long way from home so I thought of a deal I thought you know what maybe I'm going to do this maybe I'm going to start selling little toes we start selling toes in the black market so each one of you each one of you B has 10 toes you have 10 little toes give me one want to sell it in like I don't know in Ecuador or something one of these markets they buy anything so we're going sell it little toes you have 10 what do you need 10 10 now you have nine instead have 10 you have nine big deal wow you guys why you guys so stingy I'm not asking you for money keep your money keep your money toe you have 10 give me one one toe okay you know what not yours give me your kids toes you have 10 you have what three four five kids that's at least 30 40 toes give me one why you know one going to give me toes because it's incomplete all of you know that the ARG argument is ludicrous because once something is incomplete it can no longer be viewed as the same T is comprised of approximately 304,000 85 letters exactly 34,800 letters now a lot of letters lot of letters big letters small letters bottom line is you got a bunch of them if I take out smallest letter in the Hebrew language is a UD UD tiny it's like a DOT practically it's like two dots fired a whole 300 4,000 letters scroll cost me like the one that I bought in New York I bought it in Jerusalem they wrote it a year it took the S to write it you had to dip in the mik every time before he wrote it had to be a Kos amazing 66 or ,000 took a year to make now in New York right now he's using theph every weekend amazing now he's one of the descendants of the Ben knows the entire enti by heart I did a few lectures over there reads the Torah for him he connects to it not like we don't even know what's going on now if I gave the $67,000 scroll beautiful nice his own friend gave wrote the book wrote The Scroll beautiful amazing I came the scroll I said listen I got a discount 67,000 was original price but he told me he's going to give me for 6,000 90% discount just took out one UD one letter yud it's not like a Sheen a big letter it's not a whole sentence it's not a whole word it's one yud you gave me 90% discount for one letter so now you have instead of 304,000 85 letters you have letters okay good deal right was start hitting his head like this what happened what did you do what did why one letter though it's one letter it's one UD one you no good cannot use it cannot pray with it cannot do anything with it it's not a SE with one letter missing This Is Us you accept the Torah you agree that it's real you know hasem created you you know hasem gave you toah you pray every single day in and you say to atone our sins for the sake of your name why why do we need to do that to save us save USM save us from ourselves save us from save us from all this save us hem so you're asking for all these wonderful things based on what based on his Torah I'm going to comply with the Torah I'm going to learn I'm going to pray I'm going to do this I'm going to do all these things and everything except one one thing which one pick one doesn't make a difference does it make a difference I'm going to do everything I'm G to do everything except I'm going to wear a wig that the biggest Po in history he said no I'm GNA do everything AEM except I'm not going to keep Shabbat everything else I'm G to do I'm gonna do everything except I'm gonna eat little non Kosher meat once in a while I'm going to eat non kosher pizza I'm going to do this I'm one one thing if you say one thing that you're going to do you're you cannot have a share in the world to come if you are going against the Torah on a regular basis on a regular basis you have a serious serious problem now you cannot go up to sh and say that the law applies to everyone except you because in mid there's a very very extraordinary mid where hasem says you know schl wisest men that ever lived knew the language of all the people 70 different languages but he also knew the language of the plants and he knew the language of the chickens any knew the language of the horses any knew the language of the shedim the demons his best buddy he was buddy with the head of the Demons his buddy he went against them at some point but nonetheless they were friends he was he knew the language of every single thing that moved everything the wisdom of SCH is not possible for us to understand just his wisdom forget understanding him and the M says let a thousand die and not a single letter in the Tor be cancelled one letter in the Torah one letter one UD let a thousand go so when we say no no this one mitvah I'm not it's okay I'll do later I'll do later next time next life next gig this is because we don't understand the significance of a sin when we understand that each person that learns tah is literally giving the world that breath of fresh air that it needs to survive we understand why days like now when you have all the tum all the impurity of the world running rampant why we need more and more people learning toah that's why the page 12b says that when a person is learning t then decides to stop to go do something nonsense do something else not tah related he wants to have a basic mundane conversation with his wife did you go shopping today how are the kids how's everyone today everything's okay okay I'm gonna go back to learning simple conversation five seconds says in says they feed them what's it's coal that never goes out of fire why why they feeding him these why why are they feeding him it's horrible punishment he's learning to he's learning T why he just went to say hello to his wife hey honey how are you how are the kids every's okay that's it that's all he did he did says they feed him these G why because you just killed people those 5 Seconds those 10 seconds that two minutes that five minutes that you were learning says okay the world's alive Because Of You the world there are 8 billion people in the world right now I'm giving you the respon you're learning to you're learning this that whatever you're learning you're learning t t Okay 500,000 people are alive because of you now you decide to stop decide to go watch the game for a few seconds to see who's winning you decide talk to your wife not a scheduled you finished learning and that's it you stopped in the middle if it's a scheduled no problem but if you just stop in the middle like you're watching TV and you're learning at the same time you're talking to your wife while she's cooking and you're learning at the same time he says you're killing people I'm giving you responsibity of a half of a million people and you keep taking away their oxygen it's a big deal it's a big deal why do we do it all the time because we don't understand the significance of our Tor we don't understand the significance of our MIT we don't understand the significance of our life now we're going to finish off with this and then you guys could ask any questions if there's still any we started off by trying to explain that all of this is written in the tah everything I just said to you is written in the tah in the Book of Ezekiel chapter 20 verse 32 it says the following as for what enters your mind you guys have these thoughts you want to do you have ideas every has ideas today why don't we do this why don't we do this why don't we try this why don't we do everybody has ideas says you have ideas okay it shall not be in this way of this that all these Rabbi it's not for us let's start off open Orthodoxy like this Rashi this guy called Shi Yankovich something this guy how many people how many Souls he's destroy he calls his whole thing open Orthodoxy in essence It's a combination of Reform and Christianity he gives Le in churches he supports homosexuals all types of go that's against the Tor but he has a huge following he's very famous this guy what did he say as for what enters your minds it shall not be meaning what's old rules mosu all these things shall not be as for what you say we will be like the gim let's be like the gim let's look like runway models in the street let's wear extra tight clothes like they do let's act like they do let's wear big watches like they do let's drive cars like they do let's talk like they do let's act like they do Let's do let's be going that's what we say like the families of the lands to worship wooden Stone as I live oh to worship wooden Stone and then hasem responds hhm is swearing as I live the word of the Lord Hashem Elohim I swear that I will rule over you with a strong hand with an outstretched arm and with an output wrath this is one of the Prophecies of what's going to happen at the end of days is saying you want to be green you want to look like them you want to act like them you want to do what they do I'm going to give you opportunities you could either do chuva to seminar to a lecture on Sunday afternoon to a Tuesday night you through a few books through a few movies through CDs you could do Chua that way or or I'm GNA Force you or I'm going to force you you decide you decide that's the prophecy because as I live he's swearing on his name I will rule over you like it or not I am God like it or not you will listen to me like it or not you don't have another option that's what the ston was scared of when he W his sck on Shabbat afternoon that's what the V was scared of when he put his hand in his beard and he was scared that maybe by accident he's going to pull out a hair even more so they was scared how this Pursuit continues later on it says oh House of Israel thus said the Lord Hashem let every man go serve his idols since you do not listen to me and do not profane my Holy Name says you religious people you you you you pretending like you did chuv but you still want to be like you know what just go be an idol worshiper do nothing either way it's the same end you want to be a go just go be a go anyway you want to go worship idols go worship idols you want to go to their Christmas parties go stay there just stop profaning my name stop being a stop causing other people that want to do CH see you and say this is what Judaism is I don't want this all of these people they do chuva but they do chuva on their own they don't want a rabbi they don't want anyone tell them what to do they want to make their own they want to be their own P they want to make their own rules they're on this they're on that you tell them something wrong oh I'm you you who are you to tell me okay fine I can tell you anything go do what you got to do but then you see time elapses and you start realizing these people are not doing chuva they're doing sh doing the opposite they're making new rules they're going against the Torah instead of encouraging their family to sanctify aem's name they start instead of celebrating on Shabbat honoring Shabbat what do they do they fight on Shabbat instead of not working on Shabbat what do they do they talk about work on Shabbat instead of sanctifying aem's name they become now people think for some reason or another someone skipped this Al where they think it's okay to talk about business on Shabbat in today's world even more so than any other time in history 99.9% of all business done in America and in the Western World in general the business part is talking because there's virtually no Manufacturing in America you you want a phone made in China Made in India made in somewhere else you want a computer made in China Made in India made in Pakistan made in Taiwan made somewhere else you want food made in Mexico made in Argentina made in this way made in somewhere else there's no manufacturing so how is all the business done here how is the GDP in America 15 16 trillion dollars where's the money coming from how do they make all this money talking hey you want to buy the car yes the car where's it made from it was made in Janam it's made in uh Han alulu it's made in somewhere else you want the car I'll save the car I don't need to make the car I bought the car from somebody else who bought the car from somebody else the guy that built the car doesn't even know about you by the time it got to you it's five six seven different steps but if you want the car just say the word I want a car sign over here sold finished you have a car you don't have to go build a car get some tools together get some sheet you don't do anything say the word I press on my computer Steve bought car he bought a Buick if they're still in business he bought a Honda he bought a whatever I don't know cars whatever point is he bought this he bought this you put in a computer he bought the car finished few minutes later car shows up your house shows up at the lot finished and if it's something special whatever it is a week later I don't have to make the car the fact that the car was made in China and Japan and somewhere else is irrelevant you want the car say the word you want to buy 5% of Microsoft 5% you would have called me when I was still a broker you call me hi youron yes no it's run in the business world don't call me youron run yes I want to buy 5% of Microsoft no problem just wire the money we'll buy the stock and if we have an ongoing relationship you can buy the stock before you send me the money because you have five day settlement you can buy three day settlement and long story short you have a week to pay long story short if you want I can give you two weeks to pay one time I had a client new client brand new brand new my brother's client he says listen this guy open account on a million dollars million dollar trade he wanted to buy a million dollars worth of certain stock that I said no problem let's go buy but there's no money in the account so what if he's really if he's this I'll talk to him I call the guy whatever his name was I forgot I said you want to do you want the stock no problem okay we'll buy you the stock so we bought a million dollars worth of stock there's no money in the account now the Bank we're dealing with almost had heart failure they call me like wait you just bought a million dollars worth of stock for somebody who doesn't have any money in the account you just open the account there's a million dollars worth of stock in it but there's no money I said no problem he's going to pay he's got a week or whatever he has yeah but there's no money if it no problem the guy paid but what happens if he doesn't pay what happens if he doesn't pay guys does it just go away like gas what if he doesn't pay who pays I pay one time this crook Dr stubs calls me he was a client already he had a few dollars in the account small account and he says Hey listen I uh like what you did with the little bit of money we had in the account I want to invest more da da da da I said no problem if you want invest da da whatever we agreed he's going to buy 35,000 shares of a certain company we were uh recommending at the time big purchase big commission big trade big everything but I have to front all the money talking about hundreds and hundreds of thousands of dollars but he's the one that called me I didn't have to pitch him he called me I own I know every all the compliments in the world that people like to give me for whatever strange reason fine you want to invest no problem okay how much okay no problem I'll buy this okay I'll front the money for you just make sure you pay on time he sends me nothing nothing a week passes Dr stubs nothing arrived nothing arrived the stock is down a little bit from where we bought it not my fault I don't create the stock Market stock's down a little bit but point is it's still your stock you have to pay no no no no I'm going to send the check okay no problem a week passes nothing two weeks have passed we're out of time somebody has to pay no no I'm going to wire you the money I'm going to save you guys the the trials and tribulations of my Wall Street career long story short he doesn't pay now by the time by the time no one is paying they say hi Mr ruen you have to pay and there's a difference of $35,000 there's a difference of $35,000 between the purchase price and the current price now they don't let you keep it why it's not your account you can't take his stock meaning you're forced to sell it but I'm going to sell it for a loss Let Me Wait you can't wait run out of time like this world someone dies let me go back do some more you run out of time there let me do one time heard you get a million words for Let me do one time out of time let me do I didn't do my whole life because I thought it wasn't important but now I see a I see everyone's we for one day out of time you have to sell yeah but there's a get sorry sir I'm sorry sir you had your chance you had your chance you understand so all of this we already learn in the real world they say sir you have a deficit in the account for 35,000 please wi the money by the end of the day or we just going to deduct it from your check whether you like it or not you have to pay the bill there's no other way there's no other way there's no like oh no I'll call my cousin let me call the client again no that nothing you're out of time you're out of money you're out of everything there is nothing else that's us in sh that's what thees we read about the we're scared from his face what face you know how beautiful your sadik was no what the scale of his face no not sadik's face we going to see hasem and say we went against you hasem we didn't know sorry Sorry's not going to cut it no but this this Rabbi said it's okay who who said it's okay my my local Rabbi my husband my friend my cousin he's bigger than Yash he's bigger than Rada he's bigger thanan he's bigger than them if he's bigger go if he's not what are you going to go to sh with what P what P you g go to sh with I didn't wear because theah excluded me where you gonna go to Sham what are you gonna show them what are you GNA show them when they say you have to keep Shabbat everybody in am has to keep Shabbat what are you gonna show them no no I wasn't ready okay you weren't ready out of time you have to pay now everyone's convinced they're going to have 120 years even the guy that's 121 what are you going to say when you're in sh say out of time it's time to pay Dr stubs didn't pay now we have to pay now we have to pay we have to pay now we have to pay what do we do now what are you gonna say I'm sorry okay do you understand so my dear friends my brothers my sisters I'm not trying to scare you because it gives me any pleasure I'm trying to scare you because I'm scared I'm trying to scare you because the more I learn about this truth the scarier it becomes whatever anyone that's teaching it's not this I don't know what they're learning maybe they're learning about Smurfs maybe they're learning about Power Rangers maybe they're woring about uh dooo Fisher singing for the kids maybe they're learning that stuff they're not learning Tor why T is scary I don't pick give me the scary section sir when I go to the T bookstores or when I order online give me only scary Torah books it's not the way I read it's it's it's it's same thing like anyone else I don't make these rules do you understand so if you're not scared you're reading something that's not Torah or you're skipping something something's wrong something's wrong you're and I don't want you to be me in Wall Street with Dr stubs as a client and you have to pay the money I had the money to pay do you do you have the to pay in sh oh no no I have all these a I have 35,000 instead of dollars I have 35,000 a 35,000 sins okay sir no problem can you pay for the 35,000 CS well I could have got a 35,000 if I wor did you wear sir no I could have gotten a 35,000 if I learned T did you learn T sir no I could have gotten 35,000 MIT if I would have covered my hair properly did you cover your hair ma'am no I could have gotten a 35,000 mitv if I would have kept Shabbat did you get that did you keep Shabbat no so what do you have what do you have to show us what do you have to show us well I did go to sh one time and they said I should do it you understand next question there was a long answer go when his brothers realiz was at that famous encounter and you know they they apologized to him they basically said he basically said to them it was part of hashem's plan but conspicuously absent from what he did say to them was what he did not say was I forgive you he never forgave them he never forgave them no and and then I also learned which I thought was really scary that they all had to come back and to to to to pay the bill for what they did to to him right they were wrong and they came back as these these these these like RAB and some of the other ones and they had to go through these horrible torturous deaths Ken question the question being is even they though they made they made that sense for him they at some point do Chua and that go for it why they have to come back and they will still some s you can't do chuva for and they had to they had to suffer the torture despite all the great things that they did like right some sins some sins you can't do cha for by just saying I'm sorry in fact many sins you can't do chues by simply saying I'm sorry the rambam right what's chuva Chua is when someone is encounters the same opportunity to sin and he doesn't that's when you've completed your chuva now even though the were in essence given an opportunity to give up Benjamin Benjamin to this evil visery who they didn't know as their brother and they didn't in essence in essence it's the same type of thing is they have an opportunity to sell your again it still wasn't exactly the same and for that minor difference that it's not the same for that minor difference that it's really not the same that to come back for that's the depth of the de the depth of the Judgment in sh is beyond our comprehension when I tell you guys say that in sh the mishna writes it we learned this six months ago and one of the shim that a husband should not speak freely like openly and you know a large amount with his wife shouldn't speak too much why you're wasting time you should learn T should fulfill speak with your wife with whatever is necessary but nothing more than a necessary needless to say speaking to somebody else's wife or someone that's not your wife about not nothing oh what do this weekend or how's your husband or how the kids what' you eat last week did you like that tuna all that stuff they judge you for it in sham why it said that time that you like that tuna you like that salad what do you think of the show what do you think of this Rabbi all of those things that's time that's time it seems insignificant but the depth of judgment in sham they take all of it a minute from here a minute from there 3 minutes 10 minutes 5 minutes and he gathers up and they say listen you died at 70 years old technically we gave you 77 years okay so why'd you short me seven years no you shorted you seven years you had seven years but you wasted asking people about tuna you had seven more years but you wasted in asking about the show that's that's the depth of judgment when you go up to sh they're going to show you everything and that's what people need to truly understand truly understand this is a world to work not work for Hyundai not work for uh you know Wall Street not work for all these things work meaning fulfill your obligation learn T fulfill ASAP there's not that much time I don't know how much time there is just not that much the point is is that each and every single one of us has an opportunity to do cha every day so if you're wasting time saying oh I'm not ready but in reality you are you just don't want to Hashem eventually fulfills the worst punishment for such people the rambam says what's the worst punishment a person can get in this world G and kafa and all those things next world is beyond us we don't understand what that stuff means what is the worst punishment here here this PUK that we just read from Ezekiel he says you know what go worship an idol go do it just just go just go somewhere else stop desecrating my name stop pretending like you did Chua stop pretending to be religious with the hat with the beard with the with the with the wig with the whatever you are whatever you what the whole exterior stop it already go worship an idol already while you're Faker anyway if you don't think you need to do chuva you're a faker I don't care who you are you could be a big Rabbi you could be this one you could it doesn't make a difference if you think shalom it's gonna be okay with me you have a serious serious problem everyone has to do chba if everyone didn't these stories that I'm telling you wouldn't exist the St wouldn't be worried about a sock that got wet on Shabbat but accident the vnon wouldn't be worried about a beard or in another story he touched the peel the peel of an egg peel of an egg you know you peel an egg you have in a chant or or what is it called in uh um not CH I think safaris is one asaz is the other one it's the same thing really so some people put eggs in them so you have you put it with the peel so you peel the egg but the peel is M after you peel it it's waste it's m by accident he touched the peel accident he touched the peel fainted he fainted fainted sleeping they woke him up he saw the peel again he fainted again woke him up show the peel again faint it again woke him up his wife took the peel and she ate it it's okay why that there's a little he saw if she ate it then it's food it's not M then I didn't go against theem even though there's countless opinions that say no really it's not m say it's part of the food there's still food on it there's this there's that there's a million and a half different excuses of why it's okay to touch the peel of an egg that you peeled for food and it's okay he says there's a small tiny chance that it's not okay I went against theem I went I'm gonna go in front what am i g to tell him I'm sorry I'm sorry hasem I'm sorry what am I'm going to tell him I use this opinion I use that opinion you use that opinion you go use it he knew the truth was scared to leave the house scared to be awake why couldn't deal with it if you think that he overdid it if you think that he's too much he's too much he's too much this you're a fool if you think he's a fool you're the fool if you think there's anything wrong with him passing out because he saw of a possibility of making a sin you have no idea what Torah is he did that's why Hashem doesn't give it all to you at one time you have to do everything in one shot he understands he understands it takes time to beat your yet it takes time to understand what you're reading it takes time to change your life and adjust so you can go pray it takes time to change your clothes and get new clothes and become modest it takes time to overcome some of this but it doesn't take time to stop being full of yourself it doesn't take time to stop foing yourself doesn't take time that's a decision that takes a moment Are you full of it or you Le being honest listen this I have to do I'm not there yet but I have to do it which means that at the very least when you're doing it you feel bad I know this dress is not modest I know it but I haven't gotten anything to replace it yet I'll put it on my schedule to go tomorrow to go next week to go some to change it I know that I don't know all the of Shabbat yet so my Shabbat is not so great but at least I'm not doing things outright that are not allowed that I know is not allowed I am not driving because I know I'm driving is I don't need to do anything not to drive I know I'm not allowed to work I know I'm not allowed to play with my phone I know I'm not allowed to watch TV there's a bunch of things I don't know so I may be desecrating Shabah with things I don't know but at the very least I'm not doing the obvious the obvious sins Hashem knows if you're full of it he knows and that's what you have to understand you can't go up to Sham and say no no no I wasn't ready can we go do over like we were little kids I wasn't ready do over what do you mean we played the game seven times already he lost every time yeah but do over there's no do over there's no do over no next shorter answers k from theem brought them back to dead Shem always brings anyone from the dead even the the that brought back people from the dead it's not they brought them back from the dead is that their prayers and their Kusa was at such a high level that they had the Merit to bring somebody back from the dead it's always AEM deciding whether it's someone's Alive or Dead uh but the person that's praying for them has to have the Merit the says that when someone is sick or someone is going through a hardship or someone is a having some type of difficulty they should tell they should tell others to pray for them why on one end if the person loves them and cares about them they'll pray for them and that could bring they could potentially have the Merit that they don't have and Hashem could answer their prayer that he may not have answered yours on another hand if they hate you then and they don't pray and they actually celebrate that you're suffering then that celebration we learned in a uh few weeks ago month ago month and a half ago not only do they lose their being the fact that they're your enemy but also hem can decide to take the punishment or the decree that he gave you and put it on them that's why wanted the T would actually anytime he got sick he would tell his students publicize it so my enemies could hear about it so point is is that it's even the ones that had high merits and were able to revive the dead doesn't necessarily mean that you have it every single time doesn't necessarily mean that you know it it works like that there a step uh there's different steps and different things either way uh at the end of everything Hashem does everything Hashem does everything it's not really us it's not any Rabbi it's not anyone else but you need someone that's going to use their marriage for your behalf if let's say for example you need somebody to pray for you you want someone that's really holy to pray for you why he's on good terms with hem you may not be you may not be so you want someone holy praying for you another end sometimes when there's a big there's a big disaster for it's good for the whole nation for as many people as possible to pray for that person read and so on the reason why is because the the the um the prayer of the community um is has much more merits than the prayer of of an individual in most cases not all cases but in most cases and because that Unity that Unity that it causes has significant Merit in sham that's why anytime you see some typ of they say ret and they put in all the groups and Facebooks and this and that Reta for so and so and you don't even know who so and so is but they still want your prayer why because your prayer combined with 5,000 th other people could open up a door for open up a door of mercy and Sh next I scared you guys enough to not talk number right so we all know for sure who number is is it it okay after I comment end being confused I'm not number is there is no wrong answer there are certain things in the Torah that have multiple opinions and they're all right even if sometimes they contradict each other even even if one says black and the other one says white they're both right they're both right and Hashem wants both of them to be in the world both of them studied and even if one of them is clearly wrong it still considered it's still considered the words of the Living God why because the Torah is not like a uh the simple secular subjects that you learn whether there it be 1+ 1 equals 2 or one * 2 = 2 or 3 - 1al 2 and everything is just basic you know like uh black and white the Torah is something living the Torah is something that's Divine so it's not necessarily all black and white all the time this for me personally was one of the most difficult things to accept uh through my cha because I constantly you know in a secular world I studied a lot psychology math sciences and all types of things and I was used to rules black white black white black No Gray There's No Gray There's No Gray there's no you know one guy is up one guy is down and there's one guy in the middle no nobody in the middle that's just theoretical if it's theoretical it just means it's an educated guest which is the reason why I like to make fun of people that are love these theories and act as their facts like dinosaurs lived three zillion years ago three billion years ago or 50 million years ago go and there's a lot of theories running around but people act as all it's all facts it's not facts just theories theories means an educated guess so for me I was used to black and white so when I started learning and I started seeing like you know what a lot of things are indeed black and white there is a lot of black and white where yes allowed not allowed allowed not allowed Moses was Moses yov was yov and so on and so forth but there are certain things in the T that that are more complicated where it's not necessarily black and white the right and the wrong are both right meaning there's two opinions that contradict each other but in some cases they're both right why because it's a living Tor both sh and are right only in this world we go with be for the most part not all the time but for the most part we go be but the say that when the mashia comes we're going to go with why do we go with if Shai technically is ultimately going to be the one that we do forever which is much longer than the 70 80 years we're here why because for this world H is the appropriate answer for that doesn't have Shai is Right Shai is more appropriate Shai we can't handle here why we have it's too stringent for us he let us only thing we could barely handle barely we're like skidding in with h so that's that's the thing so sometimes some of the mid that talk about different ages names uh different things like that numbers and things like that there's different opinions because there are multiple answers to the same thing uh and there are certain things that we simply don't know actually like for example the the real significance be behind like how does it work why does the guy the Coen that's pure be make everyone else that's unpure into pure but then after he finishes his job he becomes unpure himself what happened why does the purifier become unpure and why does the unpure become pure how how if it was just him making everyone else pure when they became from unpure fine that's no problem if it was they stayed the same and he becomes unpure fine but the fact that the same activity makes both the opposite of what they are does not make sense logically so so the answer to that says it's far from me he doesn't know it's far from me even with all of his wisdom he didn't know there's certain things that are just simply Divine simply we're not going to know in this world uh but for the most part there's answers for everything and just sometimes those answers are a little bit more built up and the reason one of the biggest reasons for that is because if everything was simple black and white no one would toil in Torah they would learn it they would memorize it and become robots they wouldn't just toil in it if M for example was simple to learn you just have to learn it okay learn don't be angry why anger is a okay I read it okay I'm finished with I'm finished with anger okay don't be stingy we're raising money okay I'm gonna send how much okay no problem 5,000 no problem here finished I'm generous now if m was that simple where as soon as you learned it similar to other intellect you would change everyone would do it there would be no purpose for this world when you learn math you go to school you learn math the teacher tells you forever more 1+ one will always be two forever more never will never change anyone tells you otherwise you send to a mental institution 1 + 1 will always be two 1 * 1 will always be one one divid one will always be one one minus one will always be zero these rules will never change doesn't matter who the teacher is doesn't matter if he's tall short male female black white Indian Hindu that doesn't make a difference the answers are the same can't change it nothing changes you say no problem I read it I know it it never changes it's stagnant it's here it's permanent becomes a tattoo engraved into your head now Torah is not like that Torah is not you learn it you finish you're done Torah is moving Torah is dynamic Torah is something that's applicable today but tomorrow it'll become applicable in a different way completely you learn the this year for whatever your par is right now you will find a that's applicable to you right now next year next year the the same exact par the same exact the same exact line will mean something completely different to you why because something completely different is applicable to you at that moment it's something living it's something that's Dynamic and that's what makes it Divine that's what makes it Divine that's what makes it different than anything else that you ever have so when it comes down to the Torah hashem's made it this way because that's the way that will constantly keep you coming back to toal and tah because there's no way for you to finish it you could read the same Paras a million times not a thousand not a hundred a million times you could read the same parasa the same PUK the same word it'll always have some other significance always if it doesn't you haven't read it enough times two met after many years both went in their own Direction one became nationally famous One became world famous One became famous in his own country the other one worldwide they get together now they're both they're both they're both KES everything is good and they're walking the one that is nationally famous asks his friend listen both of our Rabbi same Rabbi ohem your Rabbi is good my Rabbi is good because the same Rabbi we both were we both learned day and night no problem we both kept the same laws no problem so how do you explain the difference in our success how do you explain it how do you explain that I'm okay I'm not complaining but I'm well known among my country I mean Uganda I'm in uh Tahiti I'm in uh wherever in America I'm in somewhere I'm famous here but you everyone in the world knows you everyone I mean there's no one doesn't know you I'm still looking who doesn't know you how could it be same Rabbi same K same Isa same everything he says no it's not the same says why it's not the same say how many times do you finish the sh the sh is the entire thear is talks about the entire Tor oral Torah is is based on it's both mishna and says how many times you finished the sh I finished it a 100 times goes that's the difference goes why you finished that many more he goes yes how many more 101 you guys are all laughing cuz you think that 101 the same thing that he thought what's the big deal a 100 times finishing lat to finish once finish the one time you know what they have they have a they have a people read one du per day of the they finish the whole sh once every seven years approximately the people that actually follow this program they finished the Shas once every seven years you know how they celebrate them they bring them all to Madison Square Garden in New York and they all celebrate 30 40 50,000 people celebrate all these people you finished the sh once in seven years wow you're a giant you're a [Applause] g David y son son he one of the he has in AR big he came to one of the parties that my rim uh every time he finishes the sh he has a party supposed to have a big celebration when you finish the sh it's a big deal now he's finished it many times and one of the events that he had he has an event for finishing the sh like people have weddings like it's a hall it's it's not like oh little party little cookies at the hey guys have a cookie have some Bas so I bought $15 for each Bas here have have no finishing the Sha is big deal so he has a party big rabbis come one of them is one of the these they don't come just for the for the cookies they come to say so what does he say I saw this my own eyes he says he you can't call him ra you have to call him G from that one you have to call him G why it's not normal what he does how much how much how many times how many it's not normal from now you call him G do you understand call us anything call us call us anything just stop cursing me do something do you understand what's Happening Here guys you think like me when I first heard the story I'm like 100 100 one big deal let me do one you think what's the big deal huge deal the difference between 100 times and 101 is no less than a difference between us and the sun when I read I read one Duff one more Duff I'm not talking about the whole the whole one more dff you finish one more dff and you understood what the dff said now you just read it and you just went through and you know let me just get to the next one let me just tell people I finished the duff today let me just tell people I learned no you actually read and you understood what the duff said you have a little highlighter you have a little thing you little commentary something you got something out of it one do you're a different person a different person now you're thinking I'm exaggerating no no different person you read every day every every week you have you must read the twice normally and one with commentary if you really do this if you follow the this is you must do it it's not like you should it's a good suggestion and no no you have to do it now if you do it if you read the par and you understand what it says and you study like you're supposed to you're a different person you may not notice the difference right away but you're 100% a different person you read one more D in that you've never read in your life you understand what he says you are a different version of you today you Benjamin today now you're a super you're souped up version of Benjamin today you're Michael tomorrow you're super Michael you may not notice it right away I promise you you will eventually I promise you you will eventually I'm not talking about finishing the entire one Duff one Duff and I'll finish off with a story and then let you guys get some sleep because we have a couple of more Shing this week one guy that was a boxer successful boxer eventually he has a kid is kid discovers that Torah is something to learn Tora is something to do and he asked his local Rabbi to teach him so after a few lessons he comes home with aipa and now this boxer sees his son box had no connection to Judaism whatsoever see his son with a keeper in he loses his mind on him he starts tearing into him don't wear the stuff in my house no keepy none this no none of this religious stuff it's now I brought you now I did it beats him up senseless the kid goes back to the rabbi he says Rabbi what should I do I know I have to wear keepa I know I have to wear when I go out to sh iar say I didn't wear cuz my father beat me up is that a good excuse that can use it in shim can I use it say technically no you have to try so see what happens maybe you wear it again if he says something say no no no I'm just kidding I'm just kidding take off the J like you were joking like you were joking but if he doesn't say anything maybe enough he maybe was enough is enough okay that's exactly what the boy does the boy goes home with the thing his father looks at him he sees sees the keeper sees the but this time doesn't do anything and that's so he continues and little by little he continues to wear his and his and learn T every day and little by little the little boy becomes a big boy that knows a little Tor he leaves the house and he goes to a and he starts learning and and he moves out and he gets married and he's a religious life but he's always worried about his father who's disconnected from so he decides you know what let me send him a weekly pamphlet weekly pamphlet talks about par sh and talks about from different rabbis send it to his house in the mail I don't have to give it to him who knows and he puts him on a mailer was a a dollar investment $2 investment whatever it is I'll invest him to my dad he gave me life at the very least I owe him this and he sends the mailer to him and every week his father gets the mailer but he never hears anything about it one day he gets a Funko from his retired now boxer father and he says son I want to learn this talmud stuff this talmud I want to learn it he goes talmud ABA yeah yeah yeah yeah this talmud I want to learn a Duff I want to learn a dff what what do you know about Tam you read you learn goes no I don't know it's this thing that I keep getting in the mail he doesn't know it's coming from his son go this thing I keep getting in the mail and this guy keeps talking about one dff onef it's so big it's so important I want to learn I want to learn this one dff Whatever this Duff is I want to learn it he says it's so big every week I read the same thing he said it's a big deal to learn a duffar okay so I want to learn this no problem I'll send one of my friends to you he lives by you cuz he lived in a different city I'll send him he's going to teach you now this boxer got hit in the head a bunch of times so his brain wasn't exactly in tiptop shape it wasn't a Ferrari it was more like a broken up Buick that's probably out of business now but whatever me scan wants to learn what's he gonna do so now he's got a brain of an ox oh it takes him a little while takes him a little while forget about the translation of the words he doesn't understand one year one year he's learning a single d one year you remember I used to complain to I still complain to you till this day takes me six hours to learn One D this m took him a year a year to learn d one year for one page one du which is really two pages back and forth at the end of the year he calls his son goes son I want to have a celebration I want to have the biggest celebration of my life I just finished my D and according to that Rabbi that I read his newsletter it's it's a big deal I want to have a party now his son is not gonna you know he's excited that his father's learn and he heard from his friend that his father's brain is not exactly a Ferrari but what you going to tell him no ABA it's too much okaya you want to have a party I'll come who's the biggest Rabbi in the world son excuse me ABA who's the biggest Rabbi in the world M feinste okay I'm gonna call him what's his number excuse me ABA okay I'm gonna call I'm gonna call him bye he calls Moshe Feinstein hello Feinstein yes I'm having a party okay what kind of party I finished my first and I'm having a party on such and such date I would like for you to come now this person doesn't know who he doesn't know what it means he doesn't mean he doesn't know anything he doesn't know that in the view of everyone here and everyone in the world this is the most ridiculous absurd request in the world Moshe Feinstein says to him okay I'll be there I will be there he starts publicizing to everyone okay yeah that Feinstein yeah he's coming excuse me yeah yeah he's coming they start calling him yeah yeah I'll be there now everyone wants to come do dog wants to come I'm coming who's not must be a big deal this must be a one of the 36 sikim this guy who knows everyone comes to the party party is amazing he tells everyone about his dff fantastic but everyone has a question why did R Moshe Feinstein arrive at this event the answer everyone gets the next day when when they find out that the guy died the boxer that studied for a whole year for one Duff The Boxer that beat up his son and boxed his son 30 years before for wearing a the he died the day after he finished the so they asked for the why did you come to the party he says because I know that when he called me and he said that he finished his first I knew that he only came to this world to finish one I want it to be at the celebration you understand you learn you learn mishna you take on a mitvah you take on this you take on that you think it's not a big deal it's huge it's huge it's huge reward huge punishment which one you want same price [Music] [Applause] [Music]