Amazing Questions About God From Hollywood (5)

[Music] always good to be here our is getting some good traction online we got some good people asking good questions doing chuva uh keep sending emails these emails are like a Lifeline for for me and I know anybody in the kiru business that's TR truly doing kiru when you get one of these people that tells you Hey listen I picked up a CD I started doing chuva I watched the sh I started doing chuva I um saw something I started learning did Chu wanted converting and so on and so forth people send you these messages and they tell you that the shim that you do change their life it's a lifeline a Lifeline aside from the fact that you do this only for the good of people you do this only for you do Hashem giv you so much you want to give him do something in return at least whatever we can do but uh aside from that there's nothing else you get back what do you get back you get to see people M become happy in front of your eyes sometimes they're far away they're in Africa or they're in Australia Australia or they're in somewhere else sometimes they're in front of you but when youash when you see people follow what hasem said you see change and it works every time but uh you don't always get to see it so Hashem whenever you you know you need something he says he send you another email another text another message none of this none of that so they keep coming in um the uh right now we uh we live another candle today we uh have a lot of things to learn about this but uh today I'm going to leave it up to you as far as questions I'm not going to talk very much aside from your questions but started off with something very simple all of the all of the that we have in Judaism all of the MIT that we have in the Torah all of them the spiritual growth the aspect of chuva is not built into them is not built into them meaning you do because you have to you don't do because is going to lead you to CH you keep Shabbat because you have to hasem said so keep Shabbat you don't do Shabbat because Shabbat is going to make you nothing Shabbat you have to keep Shabbat there's no additional spirituality or spiritual growth added to the mitv with the exception of one mitv and that's kanuka kanuka is different than all of the other mitv all of the other mitv that we have in the Tor you should know it's 620 620 mitah not 613 620 reason why you have 613 from the from hasem and seven thean and for all of those those seven of the rabbis most people think it's 63 from the rabbis seven from God it's the opp 6113 from God Seven from the rabbis and if you don't like the rabbis don't celebrate kanuka why because that's one of the seven MIT now where do we have a uh a hint a hint about the 620 in on Shabbat it say The Crown who's going to give hem is going to give the angels are going to give him a crown gatria 620 so they're going to give you a crown what's the crown 620 so now you have amazing MIT but the mitvah of CH that we have written in the Torah in your mouth in your heart to do the ramban says that's mitvah of chuva and this mitvah is built in the kanuka how is it built in the kanuka because tells you that every day you have to increase The KES says argue do you light eight candles the first day seven candles the second day third Six Candles the third day and so on and so forth but says no we don't decrease in KES we increase in KES we increase in Holiness once you put on of you're not allowed to take it off meaning if let's say for example a woman put scarf not wig she put scarf and something happened to her husband he died he left whatever something happened she's no longer married she's not allowed to take off the now let take off the cas she's not married though how they going to know how they going to know she's not married married woman carry puts the scarf on married woman puts the Hat on how they going to know he's not married Shan's going to know Shan's going to know he's going to introduce to somebody else is going to know don't worry runs runs the world why you're not allowed to decrease in KES not alled to decrease so kanuka tells us that anytime you start taking you take on another mitvah you don't just let me try this thing out and see for the week I'm going to try uh going to Nets this week and let's see we'll see what happens or let me uh do this a lot of people like to do this mistake by the way where they like to make Shabbat come in earlier say oh let me uh start uh Shabbat an hour early for the next few weeks let's see what happens I'm going to try it out this is a mistake and the reason why is because a lot of people do it without saying B once you do something on a regular basis you have to keep doing it you can't start Shabbat early or keep it an extra hour late and then stop cuz it becomes a becomes something that you've already done so kanuka tells us you have to get yourself used to increasing in Kesh you can't stay the same every day do something more every day do something more every yesterday you read one line today read one and a half lines two lines three lines always continue to increase what you're doing because that's in essence how your chuva is going to work if you're doing real chuva you have to consistently get used to increasing as soon as you get to a point where you're not increasing anymore you start going down a Jew can't stay the same a Jew is either going up or is going down B so if you know if you remember okay kanuka we increase the candles that means I have to increase also every day one more candle every day one more candle every day one more PUK every day one more line every day one more page every day one more something every day something try you don't necessarily succeed every day but you try every single day and that's one of the things that's built in to the the uh the spiritual aspect of uh of uh kanuka is trying to give us instructions for the rest of the year now the reason why I mentioned this is because chv we all know we need to do it we all know we need to do it some people need to become modest some people need to keep Shabbat some people need to keep kosher some some people need to keep their eyes some need to people to keep this keep that everyone has to do something so today I wanted to ask you guys what do you need to keep not necessarily you personally because I don't want you to be embarrassed but what do you think is the most difficult thing to keep your perspective of what's the most difficult thing is very different than the guy next to you and the woman next to you some women for them modesty piece of cake they love being modest but for them keeping Shabbat is like some women modesty Shabbat piece of cake impossible why it's a she's already used to cursing out a husband used to she likes like it's like a good thing it's almost like say compliments she says the opposite to our husband she likes cursing her husband but I know I'm telling you I know a few if you look at them if you look at them from you know from far away you look you can you know don't look too much you look from far away you hear about them you peek in a little bit into the house hear what happens between the wife and husband you think it's Andor you have no idea who's who's the guy who's the woman who's who's you have no they don't stop cursing each other out be this that everything is perfect but don't stop cursing each other out why that's the so you tell a guy listen you should stop do this you should stop you should tell the woman stop do this it's very very difficult for them to them it's most difficult so you tell me what's most difficult Fe you and then you can ask any other questions you want go who's first go so we know that it says in the Tor that there is aash so how does it prove to the Arabs that that they know that all the Jews think that Torah is amazing well the Arabs technically do believe that the Torah is is amazing they do believe that the Torah is real the problem is that the Arabs are being used by hem as a whip to hit the Jews for not listening to Hashem Hashem created the entire world what's below heaven and what's above heaven he created everything he created everything that you see everything you don't see everything that is moving everything that's not moving and and hasem create all of those things for who for you for the average Jew for the average Jewish person to benefit from good so the kazal say why would AEM give some so much money to build a huge Tower in the middle of Dubai in the middle of the deserts somewhere why for what what is how is that good for some Jew that's sitting over here in Hollywood how he says maybe a righteous Jew is going to be walking in the middle of the desert one day and he's hot oh there's a big tower let me use the shadow of the Tower so it's less hot for me meaning he going to give the Sheik a billion dollars extra to build this tower for what one day out of 70 years that the Jew is alive he's going to use it for a Shad out just to for you know be less hot that's it it's worth it forem to give the a billion dollars for the Jew now this doesn't this is not politically correct this is not uh what people like to hear but that's a reality if you believe in a Torah this is part of our Torah now the Arabs believe in our Torah when they say mus they say Moshe mosenu they say peace be upon Him AB I peace be upon them that's they believe in them no problem where do we go wrong where do we go wrong we go wrong because they believe it's their duty to fulfill the other part of what Hashem said which is that when the Jews don't do good when the Jews don't follow what hasem says it's their job to punish us that's what they believe you hear some of their lectures they have actually couple of people that are very very well spoken even though there's 8,000 versions of the Quran even though the Quran is full of mistakes even though there is not much that uh you could even uh debate here it's there's mistakes in it that anyone that knows the tah and the Quran could easily find them it's not like it's a opinion for example they tell you that Jesus is related to mosenu that his mother was mosenu sister this ridiculous things like this it says in the Quran that his mother Miram was MOS renu's sister Miram his mother's was name was Mary but whatever the point is say Mary same thing whatever that's what they say in Arabic whatever you want no problem the brothers and sisters Everything Jesus peace be upon Him mosu peace be upon everybody peace be upon him but let's kill all of them anyway chop their heads off because they don't want to be Muslim so you see it mistakes but some of these speakers they have hasm gave them a skill gave him a speaking ability you can see this guy speaking to 5 10 20 30 40,000 people all listening to what he says and it sounds like he's an educated guy which he is just educated the wrong way point is he says exactly what I'm telling you that yes we believe the toah is real but you guys messed up and hm's punishing you charge job to punish you that's really what they believe now obviously they believe the Torah continued with their guy Muhammad and so on and so forth but the point being is that whether they're right or wrong is irrelevant the part that they are right about which is accidental is the fact that hasem is using them as a tool for us sometimes to reward us sometimes to punish us the same way that he's using the rest of the world sometimes to reward us sometimes to punish us when someone goes in front of the bed to convert the bed asks them do you believe in the Torah yes okay do you believe in the 13 principle excuse me 13 principles of Faith Raam wrote 13 things 13 principles that every Jew must believe if you don't believe one of them can't be Jewish so for example one of them is resurrection of the Dead that one day is going to come approximately 40 years later some people say less some people well point is 40 years later after MH comes it's going to be resurrection of the Dead meaning all the dead people they righteous going to wake up how are you how you doing everybody's here back if you have a problem believing it you have a problem believing that a dead person come back to alive you have a problem bet it's not going to prove you to be a Jew if you're already a Jew you're K you have no share of the world to come it's not like oh no I believe this but not this no no no if you don't believe in the resurrection of the Dead you don't believe the mashia is GNA come any day you don't believe Hashem is the only one you don't believe there is no image for Hashem you don't believe that mosu is the prophet of all Prophets You don't believe that there's reward and Punishment you're you have no share of the world to come finished it's not like oh shab he's a nice guy no no no and if you want to be a Jew you can't be a Jew why you don't believe in a t you believe in something else you create a new religion so the Arabs that's their Dean that's unfortunately for them that's their problem is that they took the Tor and they Twisted it they created something new and R says you're not allowed to create a new religion which is the reason why one of the main reasons why the G are not allowed to keep Shabbat if you want to keep Shabbat you have to be a Jew next question go ahead I'm always confused so go aheading the Tor K and it appears that disagrees with rash grandson yeah they they disagree constantly okay they disagree constantly that's way that's what many people do feeling twice a day one is Rashi one is R Rashi is the one that's accepted R is you should do because it's good anyway but you don't say when you do when you do you don't say on on the uh but as far as you're supposed to do before a specific time and after a specific time you can't just do whenever you feel like it it and for it to count as the so for example right now it's right around a little bit before 9:00 a.m. in the morning where we live right a little before 9:00 a. I think 8:52 8:53 you're supposed to do before that if so that's to the get out of the obligation of saying in the morning but if you read you overslept or something happened and you only said at 9:10 or at 11:00 or 12 or something like that I have one student sleeps till 1:00 in the in the afternoon I don't know how he lives but apparently he think it's a good idea any now if such a thing happens is still valid as far asah you did but it's not theah what mitvah is itah why because the entire is paragraphs from a t every time you say one letter from the T it's a mitvah so you say average sentence has somewhere around 15 16 letters you know each word has three letters you have 15 16 letters you made a bunch of mitah doesn't count to obligation of that that you can't do you missed it you're never going to have the opportunity to do it again same thing at night after after the time of is over you have you have to do but you should know says technically you should do before before midnight before midnight before uh but technically you're allowed to do it until the morning technically you to do it until the morning if you're reading also there's a very big between whether you're supposed to do sitting down or standing up when you read T you read T standing or sitting standing as a matter of fact until until the gener ofel they study from they learn standing up all the time they never sit down T you read standing up all standing up never sit down why the Tor the generation always said listen we're getting weak yes from there we got the word Yesa sitting down sitting down but until that point for many many years we only set up we stood up now says you should stand up when you read t t says no no we could sit down it gets to such a point where the M gets heated between the two of them they say anyone that listens to is's Cursed from Heaven if he stands up da because if you're standing up saying no problem if you're standing up just because you feel like standing up no problem not you know always stands up you know he's standing up we say no problem if you just feel like standing up maybe in the morning for example sometimes it's early in the morning I'm tired and I want to have kav I stand up why if I sit down I know I'm going to be half asleep half asleep what kind of pray I'm GNA have it's going to return it to me like uh one of the checks return unfunded return check give me take back your prayers I don't need your prayers half asleep so I stand up to wake myself up sometimes so if you know it's going to help you wake up stand up but if you're standing up because no good why because he lost that he lost that one when mashia comes we're actually going to go back to standing up but until then no next question see you ask one question you get three free that suppos between six and seven or it's like like time well it depends depends the the Jewish clock changes around the year Jewish clock changes around the year uh you're supposed to do K as soon as you come back from theet immediately immediately when you come back from the as a matter of fact it's an you're not allowed whatsoever to delay going home like for example a lot of people like to hang out after on Shabbat they go you know it's nice everybody comes usually that's the one day everybody comes and people like to talk they like to socialize this that maybe even have a shoe to you have to run home run home no delay whatsoever don't go anywhere don't stop anywhere you have to go home do K for your family and they can do whatever you want eat with a family you have t go this go that do whatever you want you're not let to delay not allowed it's not not says not allowed it's forbidden so as far as specific times you may be talking about uh during that window perhaps something like that but I'm not exactly sure with a uh six to seven because six to seven can be six to seven in the uh summer but in the winter it's not 6 to 7 it could be a completely different time in the winter I think it's 6 to7 but summertime not during that time not to K during that time I'm sure it's something cabalistic perhaps but I'm not really sure as far as I don't know I don't know next question go so we know that we say shma at night but why do we have to say it like very quickly before we go to sleep why can we say after we sleep well if you're sleeping you can't do it because you're already sleeping but we know that it's during the night why can't we sit like at 10:00 9 o' no you can do it you can do it at night you can do at night but uh if you're going to you have to do it when you do there's two obligations you have you have the that you have to do in the morning and at night and then you have the the which is technically the third that you're supposed to do before you go to sleep now many people make the mistake of doing the before they go to sleep when they already have asleep or they're doing it laying down laying down so you should know you're not allowed to study Torah or pray laying down why it's not cavod it's not honor if you actually believe that hasem is paying attention to this prayer unlike the Greeks the Greeks didn't believe that hm is paying attention to prayer so we learned from kanuka the Greek said yeah God created the world and he left he wanted a vacation so if you believe that God's paying attention to your prayer that means that you're praying to hem while you're laying down it's not so much cavod so you have to you should do you should do usually 15 minutes a half hour before you go to sleep when you're somewhat alert not when you're like half dead uh so it's not easy all the time cuz sometimes you get tired you know out of the blue but you should try at least on a regular basis you should try to do before you go to sleep when you're somewhat alert and not when you're completely sleep and definitely try to avoid doing it when you're laying down in general you should avoid reading Tor and learning and so on laying down this sounds may this may sound silly to you guys but I had a guy that uh sent me a question recently maybe two three weeks ago he says uh I saw in one of your sh that you uh had a tough time when you first started doing cha I used to fall asleep right away I go to five minutes into the shoe I fell asleep five minutes not I'm not exaggerating five minutes into the shoe sleeping like a baby baby baby baby at night no sh I could go I could stay awake for three days straight at Wall Street sometimes I would skip sleep you have this you have this exchange that exchange this project that project this client that client different things baby sleeping five minutes so I talk about it a lot make my make fun of myself a little bit but also it's to explain to people it's not easy not it's a very normal problem so he says listen I have a similar problem as soon as I get home I you know I do this I do this I do this and then finally when I'm learning I fall asleep right away so I learned from my r that you have to ask always you have to ask follow-up questions get more details because people tell you only half the story so I say okay so what's your schedule when do you study what and I find out when he started to finally after ask him questions what you tell me he goes no listen as soon as I open the book I'm immediately falling asleep so I said you falling asleep what on your desk you fall on the floor how do you wake up he goes no I wake up the next morning wow I wake up the next morning on the CH goes no I'm laying down meaning he's he took the he took the he took whatever book and he thinks he's sleeping on his bed like it's a Harry Potter book a non-fiction book in bed next to it's not you learn to you're not allowed to learn to that way aside from the fact that it's not good because you're going to fall asleep for obvious reasons you're not allowed to learn to that way to is for you to be learning with cavod it's not your science test in high school it's Tor so you have to sit down or stand up and you has to be in a place that's if you're going to learn uh for example if you're going to learn in a bedroom make sure that all the sheets are clean and there's uh no no uh Z anywhere um make sure you're clean yourself if you have filth on you of any kind you can't study Torah if you were just a intimate with your wife you have to take a shower and then and then be go to all of these things I'm saying it because no one else does no one else talks about this stuff that's the reason why I'm saying it and I'm not considering the fact that there's some people older younger and understand don't understand we have to say whatever we have to say why who knows when I'm GNA have a chance to tell you and the reality is you have to understand that a z is considered the same thing as waste from the other side so if someone thinks he's studying to look I studied two the pig last night you should know that your Torah is considered disgusting why it's like you are you went to the president and you were fulled with poop tell me he president I have a present for you now how would you feel a guy comes to a president he wants to give him a diamond he sold his house sold his building sold his business he gives the president a box there's a box box is smelling though smelly box President says listen listen Open you open the box you open the box he opens the Box $100 million Diamond but it's covered with you know it's covered poop what does the president say death penalty death penalty because what do you mean it's $100 million Diamond I sold my business sold my house sold my car sold my kids sold the wife sold the dog sold the cat sold every I sold my neighbor also I sold everything just to give you this diamond he says it was better you didn't give me the diamond than give me something like this it's better you didn't give me nothing at all sometimes our prayers are like this sometimes somebody shows up to prayer they're like you know they don't feel like doing it they feel like talking on their phone don't pray better off you don't pray skip the prayer it's better you don't pray now with even if you don't feel like it do it anyway why place that you don't want eventually you're going to want is something different but you have to do it clean you have to be physically clean in general you have to be clean so these are simple things that you would think are common sense but unfortunately we don't have common sense when it comes to Tor and the reason why is because gets in the way of our common sense is going to constantly tell you to do things exactly when you're not allowed to do them so it's important to know these little simple things go next what the rest of the body under good so what's the issue is still an issue of being clean no why they're perfect they're perfectly they're perfectly clean there's no clean is not referring to dirt clean or not clean is not referring to dirt clean means something smelly something because bad smell is bad for the soul clean clean or not clean is referring to filth something that's uh that's disgusting sand is not disgusting sand is technically what you're made out of anyway so when Rish shim and his son were in the cave for 13 years because they didn't know how long they're going to be in the cave they figured that because of the mitvah of Shabbat because of the Mitzvah of Shabbat they wanted to make sure that one of the main things of Shabbat is to have on Shabbat not just to keep Shabbat sleep all day on Shabbat means give K to the Shabbat celebrate the Shabbat honor the Shabbat and so on and so forth and one of the main things is very important to uh for Shabbat is to look appropriately you have to wear nice clothes you should actually have special clothes for Shabbat you should have special talit for Shabbat have special suit for Shabbat special shoes for Shabbat whatever you could afford you should do everything should be just for Shabbat should be one thing you only wear on Shabbat the main thing is you should not wear what you wear the rest of the week on Shabbat even if it's a $30,000 suit but you wear it during the week don't wear it on Shabbat it's better you wear the $200 suit on Shabbat and it's only on Shabbat then you wear it the whole week and also on speci you should try to do as many things have as many things is possible just for Shabbat that's that gives the Shabbat cavod so rabish Shimon and his son they didn't know how long they're going to be in the cave they didn't have time to pack they didn't know there's no air line there's no Airline they couldn't priceline.com wasn't alive yet there's no time so they just ran away no food no drinks no nothing just a couple Sal gone and uh AEM made a miracle made a carab tree come out of the ground in front of them and a well of water a river of water came out of the ground and that's where they drank Dr fresh water from and ate carobs all day all night but since they knew the mitvah of Shabbat to keep new clothes clothes that we have we're going to use for Shabbat we're going to use this clothes for Shabbat why if we wear it the whole week eventually something's going to happen they're going to rip they're going to get old something's going to happen to them better off we wear them once a week and the rest of the week we cover ourselves so it's not they're not showing they're not showing nakedness that covering much like as if somebody's buried just the head is out uh and and uh two it's not it's not considered filth it's considered uh same thing in essence same thing as your body next you're still not telling me what's hard for you guys you guys are just asking me uh questions so you guys already finished all chuva I'm still working on my chuva nobody has any difficulties see God bless you guys no no that's what I said don't say about you say about each other say about each other no I think watching watching many a lot of that people not engage but really what keep somebody froming he wants to watch somebody come you know right front of him watching your eyes is one of the tiim uh of this generation the they actually ask who was the rabbi of the rabbi ofish Rabbi of r one of them and as Rish for what's gonna happen Mas comes what can be do to be saved so on and so forth he says you have to do follow and do do overwhelming kindness things that are above and beyond do you want to see the mashia no no no I don't want to be alive why at that time are going to be too difficult and some of the other also said the same thing he's not alone other said no no I don't want to be alive when the mashia comes why generation before the mashia comes going to have extraordinary they're going to have extraordinary difficult tests but just like they have extraordinary difficult test also have a much easier version of Judaism now if you look at Judaism today technically it's easier to be a Jew today than any other time in history no one's persecuting Us in reality if they're persecuting you in your neighborhood you can move let's say for example that people live in France which is predominantly Arabs now that want to kill us move move take a plane ticket and if you can't afford to just start some fund online people will give you money for a plane ticket get your family out of they go to Israel they're more than happy to welcome you they'll even give you money Israeli government will give you money to come to Israel who's better than you go if you don't like it if you get meaning persecution is by choice it's by choice with all du respect to all those that get persecuted as a Jew right now it's by choice they get persec there's a lot of Arabs over there there's a lot of this a lot of that they persecute you move that's it simple as it gets I'm talking about the ones that are regular basis once in a blue that happen that's but I'm talking about the things that there's a regular basis type of persecution there was a place that uh you know we were considering moving from Bon the mouth of the Rat considering that's what it means I know who the rat is by the way but anyway the uh the uh I met him and and uh so when we're considering moving we're considering moving we looked at a few choices and one of the choice say oh listen there's a really really religious neighborhood somewhere XYZ I'm not going to mention the place it's a really really religious area go over there we looked into it crime over crime over crime over here it's a great place a lot of Kus in where the Jews are unfortunately right around the neighborhood is a lot of crime I said I already have enough to my life thank you very much I'm going to try someone else with less crime why it's crime so anyone that lives there and has is unfortunately persecuted in such a way you can't say that uh you didn't really put yourself at risk you're not allowed to put yourself at risk so next thing keeping MIT when someone says to AEM that it's hard hard for him to keep mitv in this generation they should know they're going to show him himself or herself when they get up to Sham they're going to laugh at you you liar look how easy it was what Shabbat and all that they came from 2,000 years ago how to find creative way to heat the food you you have a oven that stays on legally you have Plata that heat your food is it's better than the rest of the the week you have a hot water as much as you want you have the canister you have all these easy to keep Shabbat what you want to what's the hard part oh I uh what what's the excuse of not keeping shabat you want to go in a car go in a car on Sunday go on to car Shabbat go in a car on Friday why do you have to go on why you have to go in a car on Shabbat it's all excuses it's all excuses they're going to come to you and say it's excuses oh it's always going to be dark no there's even ways to have lights on and off if you must have it on and off there's even kosher ways of having it on and off I honestly don't understand the whole kosher thing of how people have timers to turn off the lights at a certain time and turn them on at a certain time I mean electric is not that expensive where if you save those extra three hours four times a week four times a a month your electric bill is going to go down by 30% it's not I don't know what are you saving five dollars you spent $6,000 on timers to save five bucks a month no but you have these light bulbs I have it for the kids because they can't go sleep with the light it's a light bulb that has a little switch on the side when you turn it it dims the whole the whole it's like cover that goes it's really my idea is I have a better idea it's cheaper it's even cheaper than $5 what is it turn it off and leave it off you want on where the where the living room is bedroom go to sleep if it's the turn open the window you have light that's it that's that's my old fashioned system but if you have the light already the point I'm trying to make you have both systems one's free one's five bucks either one is cheap or one $6,000 if you want whatever you want the timers but the point is you have no excuse you have no excuse it's so easy to keep Shabbat it's so easy when hasem says it's in your mouth it's in your heart to do he's telling you it's the easiest thing in the world for you to do easiest thing in the world for you to do five minutes in the old days they had do the used to actually have to make the themselves so imagine we know what the process is first of all there's over a thousand that you need to know before you make a thousand a thousand second of all you have to go catch animal has to be a kosher animal if animal is not Kosher no good you have to kill it you have to skin it you have to fix the skin take off all the hair you have to put it through a whole system of how to make sure it's really soft then you have to shape it then you have to take the scroll and you have to make the scroll from a different part A year process it takes for professionals it takes a year a professional it takes him a year you have to make your own and then you have a son you have a son another son another son every son is a comparable you have to makeing it's not easy today what a few hundred a few thousand whatever your budget is you get feeling ready for you arrive at your house five minutes give AEM five minutes five minutes five minutes and you have feeling every day what other mitvah kosher in the old days you have to make your own kosher food own kosher food you can't there's nobody that's selling you kosher food you have to own kosher food one time in a restaurant they didn't have many restaurants in those days but in restaurants because there was there was anti-Semitism the uh same restaurant that sold kosher food also sold non- kosher food I'm talking about 200 years ago so today it's not allowed because different kitchens and so on and so forth but but they would hide the fact that they have kosher food so one time this guy his Jewish guy comes in and uh he asks for looks at the menu and says oh yeah give me and he orders and the guy gives him food after uh he finishes the food he starts doing the says oh no I didn't know you were Jewish goes why not why didn't you know was Jewish why what's the problem because you know what I just give I give you pig feet to eat I gave you N I gave you I gave you I gave you nonos meat because why' you do that I'm a Jew because I didn't know you were Jewish goes why didn't you know I was Jewish goes because Jews do Jews wash their hands that's how I know Jew and non-jew Jew washed their hand I give him kosher non Jew doesn't wash their hand I give him whatever I have that's says that's how somebody that didn't wash their hands before before the that's how you ate non kosher uh so also I think it's so point is is that to be a Jew you don't have to worry about that you have kosher symbols on a restaurant you have uh five star restaurants you have food that can arrive at your house if you want you have supermarkets that sell a bunch of food what for a few dollars you get whatever meal you want it's easy kosher food's easy so in reality what's hard what's hard to be a Jew it's easy to be a Jew but at the same token just like it's easy to be a Jew it's hard to be a kosher Jew why is it hard to be a kosher Jew because to be a kosher Jew you have to fulfill the mitv that they don't sell in stores mitah number one is having having fear of hem the beginning of wisdom is the fear of hem that's what says and also before him in 111 verse 10 says that the beginning of wisdom is fear of hem wife beginning of wisdom is fear of hem says because if you understand that there's a Creator above you a Creator above you I mean you're going to be scared if you're scared we consider you smart consider you have some wisdom if you're not scared you're crazy you can't be smart you're not stupid you're not SM you're nothing you're crazy if you're not scared so once you actually learn M and you learn different things to develop Your Everything Changes Everything Changes the reason why is because if you don't have all of the that you can't buy in stores and even though it's what you can buy in stores are no longer really applicable to you anymore it's all based like an opinion meaning if for example you're a woman and you have mitv modesty A man also has a but it's not as difficult for a man except this generation is a little bit of homosexual so they have a different problem but for the most part the the the the guys the guys uh don't have that much of a difficulty except with the recent Style with the tight genes and everything but aside from that it's not that difficult to be modest as a guy a woman on the other hand she goes outside B she sees everyone is uh half naked naked 3/4 naked you don't know who's going to the beach you don't know who's going to Wall Street you don't know anything you know if it's winter if it's summer they dress the same way the whole year round and you feel like pure peer pressure why how could I be the only one that wears clothes that cover my whole body how can I be the only one that wears clothes that don't show the curves of my body you feel weird they start giving you names oh grandma or old or oldfashioned all like as if there something wrong with it little do they know that until two generations ago just two generations ago the entire world dressed like this not just the Jews everyone in the world dressed like this from the beginning of time until a couple Generations ago so for almost 6,000 years it was perfectly fine all of a sudden this generation everyone's hot we have air conditioners but everybody's hot so to be modest as a woman the only way you can be modest is if you have if you're afraid of God it's easier to become modest why because you know God's watching and God said you have to be modest you have to cover yourself you have to leave everything to everyone's imagination hopefully they even imagine that and in reality leave all of your beauty to your husband alone either present husband or future husband if you don't have his husband right now nonetheless the point is no one is allowed to see anything with the exception of your face your palms your back of your hands and your feet that's it you have to cover oh but it looks like this but it looks like that that's how it Jew looks like you want to show your body you want to show your chest you want to show your arms you want to show your legs you want to show all that's not being Jewish simple as it gets you want to be a kosher Jew you want your to be accepted in sh you want to get a every time you pray for your kids the theem listens to them you want every time you pray for listens to you you want every single time listens to you you want every single time you retem actually cares about your and all of those things at the beginning at the beginning of everything you have to start with modesty Shalom said you know they're so holy and they mean well and they pray to Hashem so much the problem is that a lot of the prayers if we look at all the we look at all of the trouble that has bombing stabbings all types of diseases all types of trouble for Di day night this already from back then imagine today it would be he says we see all these different things happening to am meaning that our prayers are not being answered T bottom line not being answered why K says because most of not are praying to hem naked now he doesn't mean literally naked it mean not modest what not mod was he referring to G showing their hair that's what he's referring to a woman prays to hem cover without covering her hair it's like she's praying naked a wig same thing like she's praying naked yeah you're gonna tell me and I'm sure some people gonna tell me yeah but this big raban she's a big raban and she's famous and she's married to this Rabbi and she wrote a book and she says this and she says this I'm not saying my opinion I'm saying K you have a problem pray to hasem to get you to talk to K you guys figure it out yourself it's not my problem it's not my problem it's not my opinion that's what people fail to understand Judaism is not is not something that you can just throw your opinion into it let me just throw my hat in there see what happens you can't just throw your opinion no one cares about your opinion unless you're so the difficulty of being a kosher Jew is most difficult now and that's what theim were scared of because they realize that just when it comes to modesty in this generation we are at the most despicable levels we've ever been in since Noah since Noah now thear says that 974 Generations before hasem created the world he created the Torah he wrote the Torah black fire on White Fire and the explains that what does it mean 974 Generations says that 974 Generations will be generations of people that were that didn't have the Merit to receive the Torah now since he knew that if he put them all in one generation he would have to destroy the world immediately he spread them out throughout all the generations that's what the one of the opinions is he spread them out these to all of the different Generations but then we got to the generation of Noah got to the generation of no they got to such a imod level hasem says even them I can't let them continue why immodesty immodesty led to other things wasting seed and so on and so forth AEM destroyed the world he says this is not a generation that has the Merit not only to not only get the toah it doesn't have the Merit to live so from here bam the wicked bam said to is said to balak you want to win the war send Imus women why their God hates Z hates immodesty where do we learn from Noah he almost he destroyed the entire world for it so now we have a generation that's is not too different from the generation of no as much as people like to this this is a reality we have holy people also that's why we're still alive but you look at the streets around us you look at the 8 billion people around us Jews non-jews this one that one doesn't make a difference the reality is people are in such deep trouble right now with their modesty that it's both a problem for the women and the men the women having peer pressure issues you know for a woman to wear like real clothes to cover oursel and to look modest it's like she feels like wait maybe they're going to call me old maybe they're going to do this maybe they're look at me this way I have one woman told me that uh she works in the ISA she works in the Yesa in uh in London London or somewhere somewhere over there in England and uh she she saw some of our videos about wigs how it's and so on and so forth decid to take off the wig scarf right everyone you don't need to be religious to know it right she comes to Yesa she works in Yeshiva she doesn't work in a public school she works in public Isa she comes to the Yesa the principal the principal of the school Rabbi he says to listen take off that shata put the wig on or I'm going fire you if you don't wear the wig I'm going to fire you Rabbi principal of a school religious he calls himself amalik they fire you big she passed the test she wrote him a letter she goes I'm not taking off the wig fire me fire me she's still okay no firing why hasem runs the world but it's big p it's a big test all these women were look like runway models with hair reaching the floor FL whether they're 80 years old or 20 years old it all looks the same and now she has to put something on to cover her ha not only that they tell they're going to fire her for you're going to lose job lose money lose everything it's big it's difficult test for women like this mashia is GNA come for women like this mhia is going to come why she passed the test so it's difficult for the woman but it's also difficult for the man why single guy doesn't know who's married who's not married so if he's looking for he doesn't know where to look he goes to a wedding a religious guy goes to a religious wedding everyone looks like they're single why they're all wearing wigs and the ones that are not wearing wigs look exactly the same as the one wearing wigs as a matter of fact the one wearing wigs look better they look better than them so he doesn't know he wants to oh yeah she looks nice I want to have a date with her what do you mean she has three kids get out of here go away I didn't know how was he going to know me skin here's no way to look they say we have a chist not crisis no one knows who's single it's not crisis you don't know who's single you don't know who's who's nothing so the guy doesn't know what to do now he have another problem what's the other problem he's surrounded by women that don't cover anything he's surrounded by guim he's surrounded by Jews he's surrounded by a bunch of people that are not modest and now he wants his wife to look like them he wants his wife wife to look like one of these supermodels that he sees on commercials or on these uh this on these that he wants one of them why okay he can learn he can learn he can learn this he can learn that when there's no he's not going to be able to watch his eyes so watching the eyes becomes very very difficult so how do you do it the same way that you can do every single Mitzvah know it's a long answer but it's of its own same way is to focus every single day every single day to spend no less than 15 minutes should be more but if you're just starting out no less of 15 minutes of learning M now m is not learned like you learn you learn you read the beginning of the sentence you read it to the end of the sentence you learned Al is you have to you learn you read a sentence it says not to do something do something not to do to finished you don't have to think too much M all you do is think m is not just reading like a robot that's why to read a m book even though it may be two three 400 Pages regular Normal siiz book it could take you two years if you're reading it right or by the time you got the point you read it six times because the first five times you didn't get it that's why they said say to read path of the just every Jew should read it no less than times no less than 100 times why I'll take you 100 times to understand what he means that means you read it right now and you think you know what it means you don't know anything you read it five times you still don't know anything why it's deep why because you have to look at it you have to meditate on it you have to figure out okay what does he mean how do I apply this to my life how do I do this when did I do this when did I do that you know what this applies this doesn't apply you have to meditate on so the 15 minutes is not uh reading uh 30 pages like you're a speed reader it's different so is important to learn for once you have you have everything says after gave a Shabbat that was his treasure what he have left he has that's his treasure so that's how you pass the test that even the the that were able to to revive the dead go to a cemetery say get up everybody gets up they say we don't want this test you have the ability to pass the test why because just like Hashem gave you the test he also give you the ability to pass the test give you the ability to pass the test there was a guy that uh was didn't understand how someone could continue to fail the test if you give him the truth he was so holy such a holy his name is Rabbi gross not the gross from the wigs not that guy that guy is am I'm talking about the gross that KES and he decided that he's going to go to this horrible neighborhood in in Israel and 40 years ago about and uh he's going to move there why is he going to move there there's work to do K so he saw that in the Border over there between the Arab places and the Jews there was there was a someone there was prostitution Jewish prostitutes so he went to one he went to the to the people over there and he says who's your boss say don't talk to the boss boss is p he's a criminal he's a murderer he's a this he's a that don't mess with them nobody even the cops are scared of Pinas say the police are scared of Pinas where does he live enough enough I'm telling don't mess with he's no joke where does he live he lives over there fifth floor go he goes to the house hello I want to go the neighbor heard the knocks on the next door he goes Hey listen for the I don't know who you are I'm just letting you know make sure you wrote a will make sure you wrote a will cuz if you come in there you're not going out he's a cold blood murderer I don't know who you are I don't know what you think you are all I know is if you go into the house you're not coming out hello P the murderer opens the door K how can I help you what do you want say I came here to say who are you oh what do you want I just want what do you care I want to have a with you want to together I'm moving to the neighborhood I wanted to do you're moving to this neighborhood you this long coat everything you're moving to this neighborhood you didn't find anything else the rest of Israel I'm moving here move next door to you I want do okay he sits down with him this KES is sitting with the criminal head of the underworld at that time at that place and he says to him listen I heard you have a business over there why were you doing this to is the daughters of is you selling them as prostitutes why why it's not good it's your sisters I need to pay the bills you came to say is a place and a Time mind your business you're lucky I'm not uh it's your sister he's not giving up he's not giving up I'm giving you enough respect enough okay I'm G to ask you one question then I'm going to leave did you ever have a dream do you ever have a dream of what you want did you when you grew up you were a kid did you imagine you're going to be a pimp to your own sisters this is what you imagine yourself as goes no no obviously no so what did you have a dream I dream I don't I have a truck in those days 40 years ago a semi-trailer truck was unheard of why a truck yeah and I have a truck I'll sell things I buy things I move things yeah if I had a truck that's what I imagine myself doing so so if I give you a truck you stop with with this what do you mean give me you know how much a truck is you don't ask how much it is if I give you a truck if I give you a truck you stop he goes you give me a truck I'm stopping he went home young guy a nothing doesn't have anything says to his wife honey we're selling the house okay he sold his house he bought him a truck he showed up to his house with a truck here you have a truck he stopped and he told everyone in the neighborhood listen anyone touches one of uh one of these Jewish women you have to deal with me did and he actually still lives in that area till this day there's almost no crime in the entire area from what he did why he believes he believes what hasem wrote is what's going to happen he believes that there is a diamond inside you sometimes it's hard to find but it's in there no next question go to modesty bu and social inter okay what is the best way approach of the opp shake your hand or you can give you a hug in some situations how do you tell them that okay so first okay so that's that's okay so what so the question is how do you protect yourself from something that's going to hurt you spiritually now in in today's society for women and men to hug and kiss even if they're not husband and wife has become a very normal thing to such a point where you can say during your question that saying no to it is offensive this so first to acknowledge that we have a problem that people think that it's offensive so that's first thing to already realize there's a problem with the question to begin with now it's not easy because you don't want to stand out you don't want to uh be frowned upon but at the same token it's better thear says it's better to be viewed as a drunk for 70 years by everyone around you by the entire world making specials on television oh this is your own the drunk every day morning and night there's no commercial no commercial breaks at all morning night they have a special yon is drunk youron is drunk youron is drunk all day all night all they talk about is youron is drunk it's better to be that guy than to be viewed as a rash in the eyes of hem for a moment one moment not seven years one moment so that's a second thing we need to know now as far as the simplest way the simplest way to get people to understand where you stand is exterior this is one of the reasons why a Jew needs to look like a Jew if a Jew looks like a and he wears clothes like a and he covers himself or doesn't cover himself like a and he acts like one and he speaks like one and and so on and so forth then it's offensive then it's offensive why because wait you're just like us every other time except now why don't you like me is it something they're not going to think oh no he's watching his eyes he's watching his leg he doesn't don't understand that concept so first and foremost this is where the exterior comes so you have to do whatever you can to make sure that you look Jewish you look like you care about God one of the best ways to do it is with the keeper but the keeper that is bigger than a quarter the bigger the keeper the more religious you look a matter of fact according to you're supposed to uh you know keep even though you're not obligated to wear it but as far as the way it's supposed to be done for the that it's supposed to be done you're supposed to cover your entire head that's why ramb and Benish and so on all of them you see them covering their hair with a turban that's actually how you're supposed to do it I asked my brother if I'm all to do it he still told me I have to wait so I'm serious you guys think I'm joking I want come turban the the whole thing if if I came to you like I want to come to you guys think I'm an Arab so so my wife laughs at me too so so the uh the important thing is to wear K wear is a sign of is a very is a sign keepa is a sign that you you understand there's something above you when you wear a stylish keepa that's like colorful has Stripes has diamonds on it has Bells has Spinners has this has that then it looks like a fashion statement with all du respect all the people that wear colorful Keepers and so on I mean that that may be them it's fine but to someone I used to be secular but used to be secular not like you guys said he came from there you born I used to be secular now I remember the the the the keyboard that we you know we you would wear you'd wear two three four five times a year when B Mitzvah wedding they have it in the the entrance the keep for 25 cents you put on your head you feel religious for two and a half minutes you get the keeper for 25 cents that's you but everyone knows it's fake so if everyone knows your keepa is fake what about him so you can't you can't expect them to take you seriously so that's one thing is as far as keepa your keepa has to be something where it represents who you are if you're not ready then who you are is not ready that means that your second step will be a little more difficult doesn't mean you have to wear keep but tomorrow this big just means that this is one barrier that you can put to help yourself that's why some people put a hat on and so on second thing is your clothes your clothes should look like a modest person if you're wearing t-shirts and tank tops and you wear pretty much you look like every average Joe again you're allowed as a guy to wear the t-shirts you're allowed but then you haven't distinguished yourself from them you look like them so now you don't want to act like them it looks strange and I can tell you as a person used to be secular if I looked at you I wouldn't think of you as a as a uh as a religious person if you're wearing a a t-shirt or a tank top like me because I were tanked up in a T-shirt and I wasn't religious so you look like me so why don't you want to hug why don't you want to kiss what's wrong with you you don't like me understand so that's why we're not allowed Le doesn't necessarily mean that we wear specific clothes and therefore we're going the point is that you have to be able to tell the difference a little bit again this is not obligations these just barriers you can put if that's also Difficult by the way suit you if you work in a corporate world you wear a suit anyway everyone wears a suit in general you look more respectable in a suit regardless now if that's not possible or all the time sometimes and so on there's other things to do next thing to do is try to always make make sure that you know if you know you're leaving your office or you're leaving your house or wherever always carry something in your hands carry three four five books in your hands or a bag always have something in your hands why because when somebody some woman comes to you shake your hands you always if you're not comfortable telling her by the way telling her by the way uh I AEM doesn't allow me to touch a woman's hand that's not my wife it's not appropriate it's not M if you don't if you're not ready for that lecture just go have groceries in your hand have the kid in your hand have uh you know Assaf in your hands whatever carry something in your hands carry something in your hands why everybody's not nobody's gonna ask you to shake hands this happens to me sometimes I go to lectures I go to different places and sometimes you know women are not necessarily they don't know the rules or whatever if they're especially if they're new they want to shake yeah carry the books 18 books are in my hand I start taking the books out of the suitcase you know out of the suitcase why because they you got start giving them a lecture about it it's not always it's not always the right place right time and also you don't want to embarrass them because the fact that you don't you know doesn't mean that they know so that's the third thing you can do is carry something in your hands babies books bags briefcases people whatever you want just carry something in your hands that's the next thing you can do uh last but not least you could simply say it you could simply say uh no no offense to you but in Judaism I'm a Jew and Judaism we're not allowed to uh touch a woman that's not our wife and it's not a disrespect to woman that's not our wife it's actually honor to our wife every woman on planet Earth that has a brain and a heart that's made out of flesh and blood will melt why Wow the Jews love their wife so much they only touch their wives even a shake hands you just turn to a walking the guy my husband touches everything that walks the cats the dogs the neighbors the clerks the this the that this guy is not even willing to touch his boss to shake a hand I'm about to give a million dollars he doesn't want to shake my hand why I'm not his wife any woman that has sense and is not an anti-semite why have no problem and if you don't worry about anti-Semitism hasm takes care of them too so those are the few things you can do it all depends on which test you want you want test number one take test number one two three four five whichever one you want the the key is to try to get yourself out of that situation if you're not comfortable with yourself some people are very comfortable in their own skin and they're able to say what they want to say whenever they want to say it in an appropriate way I'm not talking about those people that have a sewer mouth where everything comes out talking about people that know how to handle themselves and they're comfortable in their own skin and they're able to say what they feel without hurting other people and but the same token without hurting themselves some people are a little more shy or they're a little more careful or they're concerned about other people's perspective or they don't know how to communicate or whatever it is so for them there other things there's other there's other equations and if anybody ever tells you if you ever get one of these smart people he says wait a minute but my Rabbi shakes my hand and he's Orthodox he's more Orthodox than you he's more religious than you he's more this than you what's the answer I can't speak for anybody else all I know this is what I learned this what I do this what I learned this what I do whatever your Rabbi does God bless him I don't know what he does I don't know what he doesn't do my teacher told me I can't do it that's it that's it but always make sure that they realize it's not because of them it's because of you and your relationship with God next question um we we it was last week we mentioned that they decid because was such a serious problem because Idols were basically doing so many things they were animated and it was such a serious problem that they said we want to we want to want them to stop having such power okay so but in order to do that they had to have a trade off they said well has said if I'm going to do that I'm taking away NE right that was the I don't remember that part but go ahead no that was as far as not taking off n because we didn't have the Merit right but didn't have something to do with that that there was a choice around the time because was the last prophet and but this is why was because I mean there was scoop part of it but didn't they they say like a deal I don't remember you may be right I never heard it yeah I I thought I can't tell you yes I don't I don't know yeah okay so what's the question I should maybe I should have sourced that okay so your question what's the question so that being the case would did kazal ever discussed saying well since yes the power of Idols weak has been weakened in many places but not all places you can go to places like China and stuff and these idols is still doing things people talk about it they come they'll see they'll take something they'll snatch it and they'll do it they do animated things and we still have idol worship like the dollar says of God we trust but we know that the dollar is the god it's not really Hashem even though that maybe was the original intent of it um wouldn't we be better off with the idols having the power anyway because since idolatry is so prevalent we still had the never and what speak to this and saying you know I well that's the thing I don't think it was necessarily a choice uh whether we have prophecy or not uh I don't think that having prophecy was necessarily our choice I think Hashem just removed it because we didn't have the Merit uh but as far as the uh the type of idolatry that we have in the world today is nothing in comparison to the idolatry that they had back then uh back then there was only two religions there was Jew ISM and there was idolatry today there's over 880,000 different sects and and and religions and so on uh even though they're all Idol some form of idol worship it's it's not the same type um the uh next thing is the fact that many of the Jews fell for the idolatry including people that were technically tadim otherwise so technically tadim otherwise for example thear says that Raba uh was was giving a Tora and to his to his to his students and he he got up to the uh sh about Mas Mas the wicked King that eventually did Chua after but he was a wicked King he took his grandfather Isaiah Isaiah the prophet he chopped him up into little steak pieces he chased them chased them chased them Isaiah was hiding in the tree he cut the tree up he brought idol worship did all types of horrible things now eventually did cha but before he did chuva before he did Chua he was an idol worshiper so R says like jokingly jokingly now we're up to our friend Mas up to our friend mas and when he says something the sh hear it so Masha came to Raa in the middle of the night and says how dare you call yourself my friend you're not my friend you're not on the same level as me to be my friend you don't even know where to take the from the the What's called the for Shabbat toot says you don't you don't even know which part of the Kal to take the of do you know he goes no I don't know he goes you don't know what do you know you think you're you don't know anything he says well which part is it which part is it he says the part to take it out is the part that's burnt the most the part that's burnt the most that's the part you make M out of so he says to him okay so if you're so smart if you're so smart how come you worship idols if you're so smart if you know so much Torah he says to him if you are alive in my generation and you saw what I saw you saw what these Idols did you saw what these Idols were capable of doing you would pick up your your robe you they used to wear robes you would pick up your you start chasing them down the street faster than me meaning that the the idol worship that they live through and the idol worship that we have today it's not the same what you're describing is is not the same as what they had some of the some of the commentators say that literally some of the idols literally walked like it was it was unbelievable so the test was enormous also said that they want to do the same thing for arot for for sex crimes immodesty and they pray to Hashem hasem cancel this decree cancel this mid cancel this this desire cancel this whole thing we can't stand by it look the are becoming not modest in those days what's not modest start wearing heels with bells on them that was not modest not showing their bodies they used to wear little bigger shoe and the shoe had bells on it why the Bell is getting people's attention that's not modest say look now look not modest cancel this whole thing do so then they noticed so listened to them they pray the mdash listen to them no one had desire for for for intimacy what happened they started realizing that the chickens are not laying eggs why they're in mate start realizing the cows are not giving milk why they didn't mate kids are not being born why no one made it why hasem removed the decree removed the the T for it oh that's too much we're going to destroyed so this generation one generation we're finished Hashem gave it back to us why because everything that hasem gave it to us can be used for good and bad including idol worship including idol worship not to go idol worship but to understand the significance of God to understand the nothing that the world has and everything that we have you could when you understand what you have easily it should make you much more righteous easily it should make you much more excited to be a Jew when you understand that you actually the only one you're one of very few people in the entire world that actually has the truth everyone claims to have the truth no one wakes up in the morning says I can't wait to live a lie everyone thinks that everyone's convinced they're living the truth they wake up in the morning oh I can't wait to live my truth what's my truth Wall Street what's my truth I don't know oil what's my truth having 500 women what's my Truth uh having this having everyone thinks that their truth is money or power or government or business or friends or whatever it is and some people have their religion they think that's the truth now there are almost 8 billion people in the world out of the 8 billion people there's approximately 20 million Jews that we know of out of the 20 million Jews there's somewhere around 3 million religious ones that actually keep Shabbat so you're talking about the three million are the only ones that testified that God created the world that's it three million eight billion people three million say God created the world the other 17 million may also say it but they don't mean it why because God said testify that I created the world to testify I created the world you have to admit I created the world in six days and I rested on a seventh how do you admit it you can't saying it to me means nothing how do you say it by keeping Shabbat every time you violate Shabbat it's as if you scream to hey hem I don't believe in you that's what you're saying that's what says every time you go to work on Shabbat every time you turn on the computer on Shabbat every time you drive on Shabbat every time you play on a phone on Shabbat every time you do something that's is Shabbat on purpose in essence you're screaming to Hashem I don't believe in you and then we cry to hm oh why' you do this to me why' you do this to me I had a woman send me a text the other day and she said say oh my uh some relative of hers got a heart attack he's still alive he's in the hospital and she says can you do a can you do and I said when I noticed when she sent the text message was a Shabbat afternoon and I know where she lives I know where he lives it says better than my that I'm going to see in in 5 seconds better that he starts keeping Shabbat because the fact that he's still alive is a miracle of its own if you keep Shabbat you're already on a good list if you don't keep Shabbat every second your alive is borrowed time that's what we have to understand somebody came to one of the to the K and uh told them I uh I keep having this stream that my father keeps coming to me my father keeps coming to me in a dream and he says keep Shabbat keep Shabbat keep shabat I don't know anything what does he mean keep Shabbat what does he want K says to him you want to live you want to live you want to be alive yeah sure I came to you I don't know I came to my RAB told me he s to you I don't know you only is 90 years old what I don't know anything why what does he mean what does he want from me he said says I'm going to tell you what he wants from you but you have to promise me to answer my question too okay deal he wants you to keep Shabbat okay what does it mean he says it means that he want you to testify every week that you believe in God how keeping Shabbat you have to do this you have to do this you have to do this you have to stop working on Shabbat okay fine he says okay what's what's the deal then what's the what's he says I want to know what Merit you have what you do that's so good in your life that you were able to see your father after he died not everybody sees their father after he dies you have three dreams about your father telling you keep Shabbat keep Shabbat keep Shabbat it's a big deal what' you do that's so special makes you such a big sadik there nothing I'm a nice guy everybody's a nice guy I give some the to the local kabad house everybody gives kabad house I watch my mouth everybody was their mouth what what would you do what you do I don't know he's thinking he's thinking he's thinking I'm come something special you did well you know something special I remember I did when I was 11 there was a war and it was a bombing where we were and my father used to bury all the bodies and uh one of the times my father couldn't do it and I did it because I knew how important it was for my father to bury the bodies and I did it I was 11 years old that's it that's it that's the reason that's the reason why your father came to you in a dream why you did without even knowing that you're doing you gave honor to the dead and therefore you got honor after he died point being is though is that not all of us have this Merit that someone's going to come to us in a dream and tell us hey by the way keep Shabbat keep Shabbat we have enough Merit we're doing well we're still alive so when someone understands the significance of Shabbat he's going to keep it so what's the difference between the righteous and the Wicked the righteous is going to understand that whether I like it or not hem will provide mea whether I work 10 hours a day 100 hours a day five hours a day this job garbage pale selling excuse me Selling Houses selling real estate cutting hair whatever I'm doing hem will pay the bill somehow what's the difference a righteous person has a a little bit of to understand that hem runs the world the wicked person doesn't mean to be Wicked doesn't mean he's evil the wicked person what do he say hasem needs my help that's what the wicked person says hm needs my help he has enough money to give everyone else in the world except me the ant gets food I'm not going to get it though she took my food the the little uh the little uh what's called cow she gets her food I'm not going to get the food so the cow ate my food the guy next door he has food I don't have I have to help God so I have to go work on Shabbat that's the simple difference between righteous and Wicked This doesn't make the person bad it doesn't make the person evil it just makes them foolish why because they're losing everything for simple simple Point simple confused point where they think they need to help God if you believe in God the god of Israel you can't work on Shabbat why because you know he's he told you not to so this is one of the difficult tests sometimes for people because it's completely rewiring your brain for me personally it was rewiring my brain I didn't work on Shabbat but for me just that's the day that we used to relax watch TV watch movies go away and so on and so forth and now you're telling me that I can't do it so to me it sound like a boring day once you actually try it and you see the blessing that comes with it you realize that the only thing thing that you made a mistake in is that you didn't do it sooner you didn't do it sooner so the uh the issue of bet mikash and of the time when they asked AEM to remove some of the big tests that we had we realize that each one of these tests has a bigger purpose and if he gave us the test he also gave us the power to overcome it and to finalize this specific point mhu saw a bunch of Bab in that hm was killing them and he told hmem why you killing these babies what do they do they're babies they didn't have enough time to sin what do these babies do hasem says don't worry about these babies they're Wicked they're part of the 974 Generations I told you about a half hour ago they're part of the 974 generations of wickedness it's better that they die it's better for them that they die not just the world it's better for them than they die so this was hard for M to understand because he's still human says let me save one let me save one so you want to save one save one go save one he saved one his name was mik he named him himself mik what's mik he was supposed to he was supposed to put him under one of the blocks to crush him he took him from out of it he saved his life instead of him being crushed by one of these giant rocks that makes the pyramids he took them he saved them and this little mik followed mosenu around follow M around all the time he has a little M running around running around now during The Exodus years passed mosenu came to take am is out with had the plagues a year worth of plagues and so on and so forth It's time to leave is begging us to leave M says oh theim my ancesters sh and his brothers made a promise to YF what the promise was to take his bones out from Egypt and bring it to is where's the grave now the Egyptians until they made am slaves they worshiped YF because YF you're going to see from this week's last week's para and this week par he made he made Egypt very rich so they turned him into a God so when they buried him they hid the grave why because they said oh look all the fortune that we have came from this YF they turned anything good into into a God so they buried him and they threw the uh they didn't tell anybody where it was who knew s was the daughter of Aer who was the only person still alive because yov in this week's par is going to bless her when she's the one that uh breaks the news if you will that YF is still alive in a song and uh she got a blessing from yobu to live forever she got a blessing for him so the daughter of was still alive and she's the only one that knew where YF was was was buried he was buried inside inside the Nile River the Nile River was one of their false gods they put inside there also so nowu found she's a few hundred years old she's like 800 years old or something like that already say how are you how you doing yeah everything is good okay we killed Egypt great can you tell me where your is oh he's buried down the street go make a right make a left make a down the street put the stop sign the door over there you have to take okay great I got to the what do I do now oh that's your problem once you get to denal that's your problem take the grave out of the how are you going to take the grave out of the Nile how deep it is they don't have scuba diving equipment they don't have uh submarines so mosu mosu goes inside mhu goes inside over there he sees the Nile No Grave no nothing he takes a m piece of metal he puts the aem's name on one side and the other side he writes Al rise B rise why rise ball rise CU each one of theim each one of the tribes had a symbol each one of theim like yud was a lion YF was show was a show was a bull so he says Rise bull rise and he threw the mate the little piece of metal with God's name on it and this verse on it into the water and he said either you pick yourself up out of the water or I'm leaving you here and he threw the m in the gra come outside here you go Moshe like a little dish like a little dish to mosu now little did mhe know that this little mik in the beginning of the story remember the little baby that was following around he was hiding in the bushes and little mik was hiding in the bushes as soon as the m is excited got the grave of Y he's carrying it by himself it's not so it's not so light M jumps into the water and takes the M he takes the piece of metal and hides it you fast forward a little bit of time a couple months M was in Mount he's withing together everything studying together and says every day he finish he finish what they learn he forgets everything he finished the whole night he's learn learning all day he's learning all night he's learning in the morning he says hhm I don't know anything okay we got again again learns night dayem I don't know anything okay we'll start again every day he forgets everything at the end of 40 days he I study with you day night no eating no sleeping no drinking no nothing I still know nothing says okay you tried I'm going to give you the Torah and he gave it to him like a present so now he's late to return from Mount Si by six hours according to the calculation that Aman had he was supposed to return 6 hours ago he comes slate so now they think he died comes to he says is he died he shows them a movie look M died look all the angels are carrying his body showed him a movie showed him a movie that he's dead and am Falls for it and say okay we need another middleman we need another middleman that's going to connect us to God they go to her they say make us uh make us a middleman make us a God or says no they kill him Aron make us a god Aron says if I don't make it they're going to kill me also which is not a big deal to die but they're not going to have a quen if they don't have a Quin no one's going to be able to purify them to do chuva so let me just buy time let me buy time I'm gonna ask him for something that people don't want to give what do people don't want to give money he says give me all of your money give me all your gold give me all your gold all of a sudden yet left left the building yet left the building he went on vacation went to Tahiti went to Bali went to one of these places and all of a sudden everybody starts ripping their earrings off their chains off and they're throwing gold at him no one has yet money everyone wants to be a say the gift the the 20 50 people are giving money like it's running out of stars like it's going bad like a milk they throw the gold at him our one is a little surprised he says okay but you know it still takes a while for the gold to melt and to be something so he's like all right throw it all into the fire it's going to burn has to go to 3,000 degrees to melt to get to that level is a long time by then m is going to come down already he knew that Moshe was still alive okay throw it into the fire throw it into the fire all of us sudden this little mik this little mik comes and what does he do he throws the mate he throws a little piece of metal Into the Fire also what does the metal say Al rise B rise what comes out of the fire the bll what does the bull say I am God that took you out of Egypt well you think they started worshiping an idol they bought a chinat toown for $15 you think is stupid no the bull spoke the bull spoke how they speak they used the tool that mosenu used also so these things not so P not so simple is not we made mistakes but we're not we're not fools every test if you read the mid you read thear you read the background of the story you realize you know what I probably would have failed worse than them probably would have failed worse than them so when it comes down to our generation we have a very big test we have a test of materialism which has always been a test and this is a test that only thing that can cure it is Torah the more Holiness the more Tor you add into your life real Tor Tor that's based on to that's based on real M the less materialistic you're going to be now I'm not saying that everyone has to become homeless and the corners to be uh looking for change but you'll realize that the more you pay attention to what Tor says the less you care about material the less you care about material the more material will probably come to you anyway but you'll use it more effectively you'll use it for better things it'll be easier for you to give it'll be easier for you to pay for the sha it'll be easier for you to do good things with the money instead of wasting the money on nonsense so that's number one the second thing is is immodesty the issue of immodesty is a very very big test for both men and women and the way for if if you're already married the deal should be both for the guy and the girl if the husband wants his wife to be modest he has to promise his wife to he's never going to look at any other woman because if you're looking at other women why should she be modest if you're going to look at anything that walks if you're G if you're a Reincarnation of a of one of these uh one of these uh fountains outside that goes like this all day you're one of the reincarnations of it every day all day you're just looking like this then why is she GNA be moded you're going to look at everything that walks anyway what difference let me let get everybody else to look at me also then she thinks it's being even but if he agrees that he's not going to look at anyone else he'll behoove you to also be the one that he looks at so it's not fair for you to have Steve and Carlos and uh Jack and all the people from the supermarket looking at you when your husband promised his eyes to you so if you're married this is the easiest way to do it is when it's an agreement now if your husband is wicked and he doesn't want to do it you still have to do it as a woman why because whether your husband wants to go to geden or G is irrelevant you still want to you still want a place in ganeden because if I told you listen the whole world decided that they're not going to work tomorrow and everyone's going to go homeless and starve to death are you still going to go to work or you going to go starve like them no you're going to still go to work why because it makes sense to go to work work CU you don't want to starve like them just because he wants to ruin his life doesn't mean that you have a right to ruin your life also so it's easier if you both do it it's EAS it's easier if it's an agreement it's easier if it's together but even if it's not you still have to do it and to be a modest woman you have to understand you have to cover your body from head to toe your head your hair has to be covered with a your body has to be covered in a way where you're leaving everything to the imagination of your husband and obviously to the rest of the world that's supposedly not looking you can't wear clothes that show your skin you can't wear clothes that show your shape you have to wear bigger clothes a little bit you have to wear things that are not so tight you have to wear certain colors you know again modesty doesn't mean ugly as a matter of fact a a good a modest woman is usually looks better than imist woman so yeah classy so when it comes down to modesty you have to understand that you have to cover yourself as much as possible the only thing you're really allowed to show it the palms of your hands the back of your hand the your your feet your face that's it not supposed to show any any of your chest or or your or your elbows or beyond your elbows and so on and so forth this is very very important for a woman to understand because if she really understands that she's a she's a daughter of is she's a daughter of God she's a princess and she has to act like one you don't see the uh big difference between us and them but the point is you see the uh the uh the king and queen of England you don't see them walking around with bikinis you don't see them walking around with tank tops they're not even Jewish a matter of fact some of them are anti-semites but they're modest so people understand modesty means a certain thing you don't need to be a Genus so a woman that covers herself already is telling hem I understand that I have a certain I have a certain obligation in this world I have a a God that looks at me a God that cares about every single thing I'm not public property my public property what another guy thinks about is my business why because if he thinks about me I get the sin if another guy thinks about me regardless of whether he's with his wife with his girlfriend or alone and he thinks about me because he saw me being immodest I get the sin I'm a partner in the Sin 100% partner in the Sin so it's not an easy test why because a woman that wants to be modest she also has to deal with the fact that everyone around her is not but that's that's that's fear of hem when you only care about what God's opinion is it doesn't matter what everybody else is wearing doesn't matter if they're wearing bikinis or they're not wearing anything or they're wearing uh jalas like the Arabs doesn't make a difference it doesn't make a difference why because you care the only opinion you care about is God's opinion that's the only opinion that matters so it becomes much easy when you do it as a couple but even if you're single even if you one of you doesn't want to do it you still have to do it you still have to find a way to do it uh now how to do it best way when you go to and especially the to keep giving it to you on the head to keep reminding you of the same thing that you already heard 600 times and you still didn't do it you keep going to those you still keep learning those you keep reading those types of books that are constantly going to remind you that's going to break the shell that's going to break it because t or the learning of Tor is what's going to break that hard shell that's the big that's going to stop you from doing it I asked you guys in the beginning yes what's hard you said only one thing this I don't know how long I've been talking but there only one thing so far which was the um uh watching the eyes I think we also answered about Shabbat a little bit what else is hard anger I mean sometimes you see things that really annoy you that you see things that Wicked are doing they're not just Wicked but they're also evil and it really gets to you and it can make your make you very angry and if let's say you a little tend to be a little bit more Hot Blooded if you're Jewish you're hot tempered you're Jewish and maybe you're from Tripoli tripol for sure com from Hal or M or whever it is okay bit more of a challenge for okay so here's the thing okay so here here's the thing now we make sins we make Sins not because we hate God we make sense because we either don't believe or we don't know what time is it 9 9 okay so for a little bit more um then we'll finish with the introduction then we'll start the sh so so no we'll finish soon uh so um this is a point we really should uh finalize with and explain to you why it's a very long point but nonetheless it's an important one you should take home only two types of Sinners only two typ types of Sinners there's not multiple types of Sinners there's two types of Sinners one doesn't know two doesn't believe that's it there's no other type of siners there's nothing in the middle if they know and they still sin that just simply means they don't believe it you told them the INF you told them hem said is cutting away is and his money he's cutting away his life he's guaranteed gain home forever he gets punished in this world he gets punished in next world and so on and so forth and he still does it that means he just simply doesn't believe what you're saying he's saying yeah you're full of it I don't believe you simple I don't believe you it I don't have to believe you just because you said it you said it so what that's one type of Sinner the other type of Sinner doesn't know mkin doesn't know the guy doesn't know what do you mean he doesn't know most people know you're not allow to drive on Shabbat doesn't know the significance of it if I told you that every time you turn on the car turn on the car on Shabbat I'm not talking about doing business on Shabbat I'm not talking about eating out on Shabbat I'm not talking about lighting a barbecue on Shabbat I'm just turn the car once turn it off one time you turn it on one of my students an engineer and he said every time you turn on the car it's like lighting no less than 6,000 fires that means you just violated Shabbat 6,000 times it's 6,000 different sins 6,000 different sins and if you drive the car ban depends what speed you go you're in essence violating Shabbat millions and millions of times just to go down the street you know it's not one time you drive the car okay that's one sin you turn on the phone that's one it's not one sin each time you've ignited a fire it's a new sin one time somebody said listen I don't believe that electricity is fire so again says you know what you may be right why don't you hold on to the light bulb if you go on fire it's fire if you don't go on fire it's not fire so the uh issue of turning on the car is a big deal now okay so now you know it's a big deal but what does it mean big deal if I told you for every one of those sins every one of those sins you turn on the car you had 6,000 of them just to turn on the car forget about going to the store going to the street going to work forget about that you made 30 million sins by the time you got 15 minutes down the road talk about just turning on the car 6,000 CS for every one of those S I have a book that's comprised of different verses from different places from different places somebody compiled all these different lists for every one of those sins out of the 6,000 there's 25 different types of pages full of verses 25 Pages full of verses so average page has about someone enabled of maybe about a dozen to a 12 to 18 different punishment each page for one violation of Shabbat you have 25 times let's say 12 will be conservative that means for each sin you have 300 different punishments for how long forever one time six times six thousand times you do the math it's psychopath so if you still do it that means you don't believe why because to do it and believe you must be crazy which means anyone that sins either doesn't know or doesn't believe so now when it comes to the issue of anger most people don't understand the significance of it the gar says that someone that's angry is the equivalent of a idol worshipper Idol worshipper it's the equivalent of idol worship what's another thing that's called idol worship in the Torah Shabbat someone to violate Shabbat someone's an idol worshiper to hashem's eyes it's the same exact thing so what happens to a bad things what happens to an idol worshiper bad things bad things happen it's not a good thing now the more we learn about these things the more we understand that it's significant in the eyes of hasem the easy it is to stop sinning sometimes people need a to wake up sometimes they need a little seph a little book to read it m to wake up sometimes they need a slap in the face from God to wake up sometimes they need more it depends on you one time a guy calls his wife he says honey honey I uh when I honk the horn come down she oh you bought a car he goes no I bought a horn I bought a horn sometimes the guy just all needs a little horn to do cha some guy all he has is a horn he doesn't have too much doesn't have too much to offer but understand it's very very important for you to not show up to sh with just a little horn don't show up with just a little horn the car come with the car the key is to understand that created the world with created the world with the trait the trait of De of punishment and he decided only after oh let's add Mercy to initially it was punishment initially was rebuke you made a sin he punished you on a spot like the Angels the angels have free choice it's just that they get punished right away has free choice and we don't get punished right away sometimes it takes a while some takes 70 years sometimes 70 minutes the point is that the free choice we have is different than theirs in a sense that we don't get punished right away but initially it was supposed to be different initially we were supposed to be punished as same way like them we make a sin hasem punishes us that's the way it was so after hasem saw they're not gonna we're not going to survive he decided to add the mercy to it as well but why didn't he just remove the de why didn't he just remove the the rebuke part of it and just Mercy only Mercy the Z kados says the reason why is because if there's no de man would destroy the world if there's no de all we would have is one generation after another being the same one as Noah being the same one as the generation of the flood that hasm had to destroy nothing would change why if there's no Punishment No One does chba sometimes the punishment comes in this world you have an accident you have a flat tire you lost money uh health issues marriage issues kids issues this issue that issue all these different issues you have in your life that's hasem talking to you Hashem says I created the world with me that de and I didn't remove it completely I left it there I just added Mercy to it why because if I didn't punish you a little bit here a little bit here a little bit here a little bit here a lot there a lot there a little again a little again why if I constantly didn't punish you you'd be you'd be the generation of the flood you destroy yourself you destroy the generation you destroy your kids you destroy anything if you didn't have problems in your life you just destroy yourself so now you have to decide which type of punishment do you want do you want the punishment of waking up extra early because you have to go toets or do you want the punishment of getting a flat tire because you're going to work instead do you want the punishment of sleeping a little less because you're learning T at night or you keep to T or do you want the punishment of you don't sleep at all because one of one of your kids is in the hospital do you want the punishment you want the punishment of actually having to work on your midot and shutting up right when it's you really want to yell at your wife back you want to yell at her so bad but you have to be shut up why because you know Hashem doesn't like angry people and it's hard sometimes you want to yell at your wife like you're supposed to like M like yell at her like oh oh if I could yell at you right now I'd yell at you like you would never forget in your life Noah would come as he knows how to yell he belonged in My Generation but you know you're not allowed to you know you're not allowed to you know it's a to yell right now at your wife you want to yell like that or or you want a punishment where you lose your voice and it doesn't come back become why don't yell which one do you want which one that's that's what you have you have to decide every morning you have to decide which one do I want you have to get some type of suffering you came to this world to suffer for some reason or another anyone that thinks that life is not suffering just hasn't lived long enough it doesn't matter anyone that thinks that life is all roses hasn't lived long enough because if you look at a if you look at this life of a person average person doesn't matter if they're rich poor tall short black green yellow white Hebrew uh France doesn't make any difference where they are you look at their life some have toys like planes some have toys like little toys some have cars that are half a million dollars some have cars that are 50 cents they all have the same problems side hurts head hurts eyes hurt back hurts they H go to the bathroom too much they don't go to the bathroom at all their wife hates them the wife loves them the kids are on drugs the kids are off drugs the kids are doctors now they're lawyers now they're suing them the kids are suing them now people have problems there's no such thing as a person with no problems everyone has problems you don't have problems you ever live long enough you're five years old probably and even then you probably have problems you don't go to the bathroom and so on the point is your life is full of problems regardless having more money like people think oh no if I had more money I would do this I would do this it wouldn't eliminate your problems it would just change them having a lot more money doesn't mean you have no problems you just have different problems now you have more friends because you have more money but now you also have more enemies because you have more money sometimes they're the same person so the problems don't change problems don't change question is what do you want do you want the problem of waking up extra early that you chose the problem you chose the suffering you slept less to go pray to hem you slept less to go study T you slept less to go do or do you want to sleep less you have to go to hospital because over there they don't let you sleep by the way worst sleep in the world is in the hospital why every hour they wake you up give you a shot give a shot for me at least every hour they wake you up they give you a shot they give you a shot they give you a shot they don't let you sleep I said all I really need is to sleep go oh you don't sleep in the hospital you want to sleep go home so what problem you want you're going to get regardless so that's the thing so now when you ask yourself the next time before you get angry and you want to give it to you want to give it to her you want to give it to him you want to tell him really what you supposed to tell him think about it that we used to be being angry is the same thing the punishment he gets same thing you want the punishment you want the 25 Pages want me show it to you the pages so that's the you have to choose the more you understand the significance of each one of the mitv each one of the sins the easier it is to do it easy it is to fulfill what Hashem wants and it's not easy it's easier number one thing you could take home is thear says every time a person speaks he cuts his life short unless it's t why there a certain amount of words that each one of us was given in the world certain amount of words each time you talk anything it's not to in essence you're lowering your life your lifetime but there's more than one way that you're lowering your lifetime One Way lowering your lifetime is because of a certain amount of words that we're giving K says but the other way is because if we're not saying T if we're not speaking T we're usually making sins with our mouth what are you going to talk about if you're talking about baseball basketball football stock market and it's not your job it's be Tora it's wasting your life it's not good if it's not that and it's not Tora the only thing that's left is saying bad things about other people so what's the what's the what's the best thing to do don't speak either say don't say anything at all keep yourself busy and you'll see that your marriage becomes much better I'll finish off with a good story somebody came to a uh R woman came to a um R and she told the my husband is unbearable unbearable as soon as he comes home he complains about something he complains about the cooking he complains about the cleaning he complains about the kids he complains about this he complains about that he doesn't stop complaining this guy okay I want a divorce Judaism we don't just give divorces like uh bubble gum why why you want a divorce no he complains he complains he complains he he goes okay I have a solution for you but you have to do what I say okay fine that's why I came here from now on there's a there's a special marit in sh for this thing you have to do you have to be very careful you have to do it every single time if you miss one time it ruins the whole thing okay fine fine how much does it cost don't worry about the price it's free free I love the price what can I do you should give me more of these for the No No there only one you should give me only one okay what is it as soon as your husband comes home home the minute the minute he says something about the kids about the cooking about the cleaning about this about that you take bottle of water immediately immed don't wait a second and drink the bottle of water but hold the water in your mouth for three minutes for three minutes don't hold your breath you could breathe no problem just hold the water in your mouth for 3 minutes 3 minutes exactly not a minute more okay no problem a month later the woman woman comes back for this G is the greatest thing in the world I've never believed it SCH he loves me I love him he bought me flowers I bought him a car he bought me this we love each other the greatest thing in the world how did you know how did you know where is in where is it in the cabala where is it goes no I just knew that you had to be quiet I knew you had to be quiet I knew that as soon he was already upset from the whole day and all wanted somebody to just hear his complaints and you answered them he said you just need to be quiet for 3 minutes and it'll be fine s yeah it's not my fault you guys want three hours shs I have three hours everybody can make it any any other questions I finished finished okay we have sh on Tuesday you got a question his questions go present of everyone no go ahead so back then also did have like langues all the language 70 languages yeah 80 um but why didn't um pharoh let him on the same step like he only had 79 but he have on the 80th step no was 70 steps it was 70 steps and um par knew 69 languages and um y knew 70 languages and the thing is the reason 80 languages it could could be it could be a different midash that says 80 but I think it's 70 in my mid that I read either way if par would have given him the last step then they would have made YF King and Par didn't want to give away his job par wanted to stay King so that's why he says in the PUK he says the only thing that's going to override you is me meaning Paro Paro says you could get the job you can do everything you have the power you have the respect you have the money but I still stay King I still stay par and that's and what's the deal the deal was that ysf agreed that he's not going to tell everyone the secret that he knew one more language than him because if anyone knew that he knew one more language than him they would actually make YF the they would make him the king yeah so he kept the secret he kept a secret they kept they had a deal now this actually in this week's par the story continues between par and YF now par made a deal with YF that don't tell anyone about the language you know YF says no problem now later on this week's par y's father comes back into Yusef's life and they lived together for about 17 years and everything is great but eventually yov dies now YF wants to go bury his father and Par is very scared that YF is going to go and not come back because now his brothers are back in the picture now he has money now this I did the math by the way one time I did the math on the first day that uh YF became king the first day he became visoy not King it became number two behind par par gave a gift how much was the gift how much was the gift if I remember correctly my math was $134 million nice gift you're a slave 5 hours ago now you have $134 million cash in the bank it's good deal so now it says that's why it said that's why it says they hurry them when hasem when hasem gives you this the uh blessing it's right away so anyway now par is scared that youf is going to go and not come back so he has money now he has Fame he has Fortune he has his brothers so he says no no your brothers can go and bury your father but you can't go so what's the deal what happened so y says to you know my father made me swear made me make a n made me make a n that I'm gonna that I'm gonna bury him now if I break that n then I'm also I'm allowed to break the N that I made to you to not tell anyone that I know more languages than you she okay go but what would they do if they knew if they knew they would make they would make yourself King they would make your king and YF didn't really want to be king he just wanted to have the position that he had who who is wise someone who is happy with a sh someone who's rich someone that's happy with a share knew that his share was already plenty he didn't want anymore he didn't want to be king Tuesday night 9:00 prepare I have no idea which sh it's going to be everyone keeps asking about this scary sh if I'm going to do it or not I don't think I'm going to do it uh I don't think I'm ready uh but we'll see also it's the last day of it's it's kanuka it's not exactly the right time but uh I'm sure there going to be some interesting things to talk about bem it's uh same place aventur and then Wednesday also is at aventur but a different place and B bring some more people last week we said each one of you is going to bring two three people I see none of that worked only one of you broke one person so the next week it actually works next week bring more people School V [Music] [Applause] [Music] he [Music]